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@laraoneal7284

4 жыл бұрын

Frank James Yea Frank but what if we respond positively to other types that have similar aspects to INFJ. I had another INFJ SAY I MIGHT BE INFP OR ENFP. Frank please do typology when we go grocery shopping. I’ve been told by somebody she will never go grocery shopping with me bc I have to read every label and find as much as I can that is non gmo and organic. Like I care anyway , lol.. Love doing research at the grocery store. I even punch in on my phone a particular item to see which is the better option. Thanks for hopefully reading this. You better. Ha ha. I wear something black everyday. It goes with anything.

@element18ar

4 жыл бұрын

Frank, still waiting for you to do an INFJ lightworker vid

@okaymarcel9273

4 жыл бұрын

Type meeeeee.

@karimremtulla5273

4 жыл бұрын

Hi frank As an infj,what is your typical day like as far as thinking and doing. Thanks buddy.

@72marshflower15

4 жыл бұрын

I wear Black saraong on color... it’s a skillset, lol...

Maybe the reason there are so many INFJs here is that INFJs are the type of people who watch these videos

@itsanicedaytoday9406

4 жыл бұрын

makes sense

@finsadeleed9364

4 жыл бұрын

damn that's... accurate

@minecraftstation6422

4 жыл бұрын

Actually the ppl of mbti tests studies made a book,saying that INFJs are the most probable type to purchase their book....and It was trueee

@elsalvadorxx5891

4 жыл бұрын

You're totally true 👌

@nithyanarayanan3179

4 жыл бұрын

Touchè

I'm in camp I-took-several-different-tests-and-always-got-INFJ-but-they-are-so-rare-and-I-don't-want-people-to-think-I'm-just-trying-to-make-myself-interesting.

@georgiewheldon7409

4 жыл бұрын

DarkLordGanondorf190 literally 😂

@rocamallorca4201

4 жыл бұрын

We should all get jackets ✊🏻

@stephaniesomer5934

4 жыл бұрын

How INFJ of you...

@rorshadowz

4 жыл бұрын

That's how an infj would feel about being infj lol

@ladymanlover

4 жыл бұрын

Not just me then haha

How to know you’re an infj?: You’re too rational among feelers And too emotional among rationals

@masyaf897

3 жыл бұрын

We mirror everyone

@ItsOneColorfulLife

3 жыл бұрын

This!

@sukkieknight

3 жыл бұрын

we don't quite fit the either group *^^* (but just constantly trying to)

@jonp3890

3 жыл бұрын

I’m going to remember this one.

@sparklewithmuskan3890

3 жыл бұрын

Omg so true! Due to my feeling side, i feel everything a little too much, but i try to intellectualize my feelings and give logic to everything i feel. XD

"Do you wear black often?" Yes, actually. "I'm just kidding." ... Oh.

@jemimanathalie4491

3 жыл бұрын

I clicked 👍🏽 immediately after hearing this😂🤭

@SwaggerToast

3 жыл бұрын

Lol same as here

@BananaGrace

3 жыл бұрын

i looked down and noticed i am currently wearing black.

@TheManiacTechno

3 жыл бұрын

As I am wearing all black...

@onlyme7358

3 жыл бұрын

Been wearing black only since 1984

the best and shortest sentence to describe us would be 'We have a happy personality with a sad soul.'

@mimimimz6719

4 жыл бұрын

BRILLIANT 💖

@nyooooms8163

4 жыл бұрын

Yep pretty much lmao

@mandyfeldgreber4337

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@nitarosenewman

4 жыл бұрын

Omg yes...

@elainecary2884

4 жыл бұрын

Seems like a limiting belief 🤔

Imagine a club of INFJs it would be the most beautiful awkward complex group of people ever.

@spacejen916

4 жыл бұрын

Genius idea

@notdragomanje4492

4 жыл бұрын

Its called a library 😂

@FavouriteGul

4 жыл бұрын

i would love to be a part of that..

@ringumiya

4 жыл бұрын

someone on twitter make a group chat for INFJs and im telling you it's awkward in there. i don't even understand why people made that group. nobody even talked after a week 💀

@pollycrookston4826

4 жыл бұрын

Hitler was also an INFJ so let’s not get too high on ourselves. 😆

Me as an INFJ: - making jokes all the time, yet being so serious in public - hating phone calls - always worrying about people's opinion - trying my best all the time, always perfectionist - nobody ever understands me 😂 as I tend to talk about existential nonsense to finally talk about peanut butter

@loo524

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with all those except for me I kinda just give up after a while trying too much or I’m too lazy too

@sra4500

2 жыл бұрын

Yes true but I usually go on calls muted myself when talking to others but I talked a lot in calls with my friends the most :)

@kimquim2803

2 жыл бұрын

The last one got me. Can we chat anout nonsense and peanut butter? ✌️😂

@NafAmer

2 жыл бұрын

I AM BEING CALLED FINALLY ?!

@stevethea5250

2 жыл бұрын

@James K I like speaking in metaphors and sometimes double or triple meanings... Open to interpretation WHY?

Life as an Infj: - compete with yourself at school/work to achieve perfect results - gut feeling is always right - always leave workspace clean - doesn't like personal advice from others - always open to give advice and care about others - zoning out from nowhere to start deepthinking

@who_xyz

2 жыл бұрын

The first one hits me hard... a few students in my class are basically everything I can't be. I've been in a vicious cycle of doing and procrastinating... and my classmates make me feel so dumb. I lose the motivation to do anything when I am near them.

@leaht4555

2 жыл бұрын

Stop all these comments need to stop describing me and reminding me of things that bring me into another over thinking spiral 😭

@lehendrix93

2 жыл бұрын

Yes 😂😂

@las6452

2 жыл бұрын

Bingo!

@Water_droppp

2 жыл бұрын

Can you explain what gut feeling is always right means?

If you're extrovert and Introvert If you're complex yet so simple If you're too wise yet you make goofy moments If you're so brave but too shy at the same time If you're so firm yet so easy going If you're so organized yet too messy If you made yourself a walking contradiction and you know what you're doing then you're an INFJ

@margiebok441

4 жыл бұрын

I love this :)

@user-eb2je9xb3m

4 жыл бұрын

@@margiebok441 ❤️

@bangchansrubberducky8244

4 жыл бұрын

🤯🤯

@dajat1968

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly 👌🏻

@mirsaes

4 жыл бұрын

Yup. A walking contradiction.

Being infj....We edit our comments

@louiseavannorden4710

4 жыл бұрын

Fursteve ferret Im INFP...I edit, delete, Type it up again and then decide that no one will care about it, what I have to say doesn’t matter, and delete it again. And after all that, or even during, I feel completely drained.

@fursteveferret3771

4 жыл бұрын

@@louiseavannorden4710 I feel your pain.. It must be a shared infj infp struggle.. I've spent a good hour maybe more in an evening writing out a comment. Only to delete the next morning before I've even brushed my teeth. What are we like Lol..

@louiseavannorden4710

4 жыл бұрын

Fursteve ferret I know! It’s crazy!

@Delimon007

4 жыл бұрын

._.

@simey5639

4 жыл бұрын

..

Hi I'm an INFJ, just gonna ask if someone here, often talks to themselves when they're alone or even when they're with someone.. In my case, I talk a lot to myself whenever I go I percieve a lot of things happening in my life day by day, I make a scene in my head, and the only person I talk to, is myself.. it feels like I am just daydreaming and on that side of dream, I talk to myself and I talk a lot of different things that doesn't even happening in real life just an imagination. Its a really great feeling spending time alone by yourself just recieving a lot of things.. its kinda lonely but its fun

@alexmarcon5262

3 жыл бұрын

OMG, yess, I do this too! 'o' I always thought I was getting crazy. lol

@thebookviking988

3 жыл бұрын

I definitely do that a lot ☺️

@sitisurayamohdjamil5452

3 жыл бұрын

OMG same here. I DO THAT ALL THE TIME! :D

@flatearth6365

3 жыл бұрын

this is too relatable that makes me feel uncomfortable

@esperanzavera3070

3 жыл бұрын

Yes🤯

Who’s in the “what if I only think I’m an infj because I’m insecure and want to feel special but also I feel like it really does explain my personality but maybe I’m reading into it” category? Because same😃 Edit: I think I’m an intp guys💀

@lena0267

3 жыл бұрын

Yeeeeees

@fisheraser

3 жыл бұрын

hi there im in this category

@barasedivcova7954

3 жыл бұрын

same and i love your pfp so much btw

@elise6569

3 жыл бұрын

@@barasedivcova7954 thanks☺️

@LuckyCatThree

3 жыл бұрын

Dude this is so true

"How can I be sure I'm an INFJ?" Top 10 questions INFJs frequently ask.

@robertwindshade7629

3 жыл бұрын

I feel called out... Lol

@vminisfuckingreal998

3 жыл бұрын

yeah same, im so confused if im an infj or not. its annoying to keep trying to figure it out

@BananaGrace

3 жыл бұрын

me every single day doing ominous research on INFJs just to make extra sure.

@amandarobertson1142

3 жыл бұрын

Because taking the test several times on different days when you're in different moods and different situation and then you think maybe it's the format of the test so you find another and test again and you're still an INFJ.

@gayleedriannerivero6540

3 жыл бұрын

So am I an INFJ? lol AHAHAHAHA coz I also get INFP. This is such a hard process. I just wanna be understood. I didn't get to sleep because of researching hahahaha

for me the distinctive infj things i relate to most are - knowing how a person thinks and feels - the constant hunger for purpose - unknowingly changing the way you behave depending on who you're with so you get along with them best/have least conflict - being contradictory to previous point and striving for authenticity/hating acts and small talk - infj shut down

@songbirdforjesus2381

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I hate small talk to the point that if it's not deep I'm out of here. My husband brought me to a prayer meeting and it was so boring I never went back. The leader asked my husband why I never came back after 2x,, so my wonderful husband told him what I said oh, that it was boring! But I don't care that's how I feel. Get on the stick come on people liven and up this is so monotone this is so surface go deep go deep dive dive. But you know the leader took it to heart and so did my husband so you could say I am a catalyst for change because I am honest at times when I don't give a crap! When you're almost 70 you get that way. look, I have one foot in the grave I don't have time for this The meeting is changing can I might go check it out if it stays that way.

@Rosenaification

4 жыл бұрын

Wow look at that, I finally got confirmation for myself too. 😂

@user-fg6hg7ds1v

4 жыл бұрын

This!!!!

@taylorjade6918

4 жыл бұрын

Well put! 🙌

@pnw8225

4 жыл бұрын

Yup.

Me as an INFJ: - Taking the test and second-guessing my type - Identity crisis 24/7 - Emotionally-driven by past memories - Writing is my lifeline and my only weapon in life though I overthink if I'm good enough to be a writer - Perfectionism at its finest - Wanting to be alone but wanting to be with someone - Wanting to say something but keeping shut because I view my thoughts as less compared to others - The serious trouble of not finding a side in the argument leading to becoming neutral - But when sensing conflict and knowing who is the conflicted person, I take a mental note and see it myself that my gut was right - Always thinking I'm not good at anything because all I know is probably superficial intelligence

@julietjoshy4505

10 ай бұрын

WHERE WERE YOU ALL MY LIFE ?! WHERE WERE YOU WHEN I HAD MY FIRST IDENTITY CRISIS ?! ( i thought i was the only one i can sleep knowing damn well what i am )

@praharshaanatarajan3579

10 ай бұрын

- very low self esteem - value ourselves and our opinions as less than others’ - Took “Fake it till I make it “ too far until I don’t even know which version of me is real

@nattyfalk3185

8 ай бұрын

Sounds like Impoter syndrome with Anxiety and some PTSD 😊

@LacusClyneImitation

8 ай бұрын

I can relate to this. Second guessing is super legit. All in all, I guess I'm not so sure huhu.

Guy didn't realise that most of the infjs stopped listening after two sentences.

@hyhy2235

3 жыл бұрын

Bro I’m relating to every comment about being an infj but I didn’t get it in the tests so I’m kinda confused I got -ENTJ,INTJ,INFP but I tried different personalities of mine each time and now i realized that’s an infj thing so anyways how does anyone gets infj if they have different personalities?? 💀💀💀 lmao

@hyhy2235

3 жыл бұрын

@Cristina Llaguno I don’t 100% relate to you and tbh I don’t care much about being a specific type now cause it looks like I’m a mixture of some types and I kinda believe we’re all like this cause there’s no way that there’s only 16 personalities in the world

@qianabanana28

2 жыл бұрын

BYE this is me, I zoned out and then became busy reading the comments 😭🤣

@rosey_2222

2 жыл бұрын

this is why i'm at the comment sections

@hyhy2235

2 жыл бұрын

@@meghnaelizabeth8293 damn thanks dude but yea the personality tests were really fun but I don’t really care about them now tho it was a nice experience :)

I'm an INFJ. I tried watching this video to maybe gain more insight into myself, but I got too wrapped up in my own thoughts and forgot to actually listen. I'm over halfway through and I've barely heard two full sentences. 😒😩😤 This is my THIRD rewatch now. Dang it...

@merve.a6454

3 жыл бұрын

I want to listen but I can't listen too 😂😂

@chia8609

3 жыл бұрын

dang i thought it was only me who did that lol. this is my second listen now but i kept zoning out so now im just reading comments whilst the video plays in the background ahah

@kimdavid4406

3 жыл бұрын

😆😆😆 Same!!

@shizzaabid1333

3 жыл бұрын

Lol I actually did the same.. Now. I have paused the video to peacefully reply to your comment!

@jerocadenazzi6245

3 жыл бұрын

SAME i was paying attention but then i got lost and didnt hear a single thing, still watched it tho lol

"We like to hide things from ourselves so we can live with ourselves." Thank you for this insight.

@himanshurajput7762

4 жыл бұрын

This is tempting, I mean our subconscious is so strong that we can actually hop into any type by intense observation and manipulating thoughts of any other type .

@magicwand2764

3 жыл бұрын

This is so true

@jaz5117

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I did that for years until I finally opened my eyes I was mentally unokay in some ways 💀

@suzaruwrx81

2 жыл бұрын

yup

@jackrabbit3472

2 жыл бұрын

I can notice when one is hiding something from themselves too

What i learned from being INFJ and meeting many other INFJ is that there are various types of INFJ but one thing in common is that we think a lot.

@Daytruin

Жыл бұрын

too much maybe

@Simon-ww7qp

Жыл бұрын

Found life boring/funny/ironic in my 20s other people seem on a conveyor belt reading a script of what to do

@saraghenheoo1189

10 ай бұрын

@@Simon-ww7qp is that true ?? im an INFJ in highschool and tend to see life just like you said ....

10 ways to know if your an INFJ (simplified somewhat version) 1. Love of learning and realizing that there is not enough time to learn everything you want to know 2. Observations in the details Do you find yourself listening to a conversation with someone and bookmarking certain details only to surprise them much later on with something helpful based on your prior interaction 3. Creative or love of all types of creative expression. 4 Often quiet and reserved until you are relaxed around those individuals and than you get comments about how talkative of a person you are. 5. High moral standards especial when injustice is involved. 6 You give more of yourself than other will ever be able to give back to you( although you appreciate their effort)because while most people work with surface presentation of an individual you are able to understand them deeply with just a little interaction 7. Eating alone, seeing a movie alone or any other activities by yourself doesn't make you feel like a loser but rather energizs and keeps you happy because you enjoy the alone time. 8. People will tell you so many personal details about themselves even if you are strangers and they are just meeting you. 9 Being able to sense and feel emotions is a real issue INFJ deal with 10. An INFJ will know if they are truly one because of the love of learning will research this subject to death, feel like someone finally get me after listening to all infj description and be able to self improve because they finally understand that their odd nature is a gift.

@theprinceofcrows8691

Жыл бұрын

Number 4 is how I am exactly. I am pretty reserved and quiet in public but once I get in my comfort zone and I get to know people I get real talkative. A lot of my friends think of me as an extrovert because they are used to how I am with them in private it is so pronounced. They don't get it until they see me out in a crowd or in a large public setting, when I get real quiet and I become unreadable and reserved. It is a night and day difference and if they knew what I felt inside they would see things very different. 😂😂😂 I can relate to all of the things you wrote but that one is literally me. I am definitely a ambivert or extroverted introvert too. I have only known one person who was like that in such an extreme way and he was worse than I was about it. Now I think he was likely an INFJ and that is why we hit it off and made such good friends.

@brah04X

10 ай бұрын

I can relate to all here, kudos! The point about learning hits me hard - it often makes me feel discouraged in life as I always feel that I'm not healthy/smart/sharp enough to learn as much as I need to. I guess this is the perfectionism speaking to a certain degree, and fear of missing out/not being prepared enought/not reaching full potential/etc.

@walecznypegaz3584

8 ай бұрын

Curse

To me finding out that I'm an INFJ was a relief. I had thought that there was something wrong with me, but it was just the way my mind works. But I don't primaly or secondarely identify myself through my type, like I don't do through my diagnoses. They just help explain some aspects of me, not define me as a whole. INFJs (and other types) as a group are quite diverse punch of people, despite having interesting things in common.

@t.a.yeah.

4 жыл бұрын

👍

@heraclea9368

4 жыл бұрын

I feel you, I went from like "Woah that's cool there are some other people like me, I'm not an alien, I'm just different" to "... Still feel super lonely though."

@ImNotTellingYou-ht8uq

4 жыл бұрын

I cried when I read the Infj type profile 😅

@MissDevo1

4 жыл бұрын

Yes so true

@mauve9266

4 жыл бұрын

Same except INTP

FJ:Do you wear black often? Me: 😊😊 FJ:jk Me: 🙂🙂

@tamaramcrae1347

4 жыл бұрын

flying orb I did the same lmao

@anneliese7427

4 жыл бұрын

Black isn’t sad, it’s poetic 🖤

@laurie3186

4 жыл бұрын

Love black...oh, that doesn’t tell type. 😕

@diazzsama

4 жыл бұрын

because INFJ is the emo-est personality

@element18ar

4 жыл бұрын

I'm an INFJ lightworker, so I just like to wear white often

The best thing an INFJ can do is to know himself, that saves you a lot of suffering, understand the mechanisms that your mind uses and observe them before reacting. It helped me a lot to study psychology, I thought I was crazy or there was something wrong with me but it is only my mind that works like that and I like it, it has its advantages although we are very difficult to understand for others. We are contradictory, artistic, profound, spiritual but rational.

@merve.a6454

3 жыл бұрын

i dont know how to do it, i trying but still there is something wrong with me, I feel like I think in a way that people wouldn't welcome

@abdisamadadam288

3 жыл бұрын

Are u INFJ

@yariannifamilia4994

3 жыл бұрын

@@merve.a6454 Start by accepting yourself, take some time to get to know yourself and see how you react to situations, don't worry so much about what others think or it will consume you.

@yariannifamilia4994

3 жыл бұрын

@@abdisamadadam288 Yes I'm

@abdisamadadam288

3 жыл бұрын

@@yariannifamilia4994 am also INFJ

oh well... -I'm too indecisive person. -every time that there are a fight going on, i just try to calm down everyone. Because for me that's unnecessary thing. -i like too much to be alone , it's very necessary for me. -i want to much to socialize, but in the same time I get a little bit stuck. -i like to do the situations get better than they are. -when I do something that it's unusual for me, i get in shock 😲 -when I'm falling in love with someone, i try to put the good things and the bad things in a balance, to try to find a fair answer - i would probably like to say a lot a things, but I don't have the words, so I say simple words, but for me it's enough.

@hiromis3623

3 жыл бұрын

Wtf, how did you manage to make me feel exposed, i relate to all of these, except for being alone, if I stay alone for a long time, I get lonely, idk I just like to be around people sometimes, not all the time tho, does that make sense?

@friskyjilli

3 жыл бұрын

I dont think you are infj, infj know what they want

@friskyjilli

3 жыл бұрын

And injs sre unpredictable

3 жыл бұрын

@@friskyjilli i don't think I am an infj too, i was just writing what I realized bout myself, to have a background and trying to understand who I am. I'm just trying to find the right answer about me. I'm in doubt about my personality, i don't know if I am isfj, infj, or infp. But it's okay, i know I will find it someday. okay it was a big text, but I just needed to unburden lol

3 жыл бұрын

@@hiromis3623 oh I'm sorry for doing you feel this way. I don't even know if I'm infj. I did the test a lot of times and the results varies from isfj, infp and infj. they are very similar and I know it's hard to found your personality only based in your test results. so we have to keep attention and analyse ourselves everyday, to find our personality. we have also to study and learn about all the personalities and trying to understand who we are. This is a long process that for some people can be more easy, for others more complicated. but we'll get there!!

You know you are an infj when you go to the gorcery extremely early or late so theres less people. Even still when you go to the line and you make sure all your stuff is in order. The boxed stuff together, the vegetables, the breakables etc. All just to be able to bag everything as quickly as possible to get the fuck out of the grocery as soon as possible.

@sonyvalencia

4 жыл бұрын

I will play out what I am going to do in my head before going anywhere and I tell myself this is how it's going to go down. It usually goes just the way I plan and the minute am out the door I feel so relieved and happy

@DanielDavidAllenChannel

4 жыл бұрын

I'll tell you what changed my life was delivered groceries. You mean I never have to step foot into a grocery store again?!?!?!

@mihaelabadea484

4 жыл бұрын

It's funny because my INFJ friend doesn't do that. But I, not an INFJ, do it all the time

@mbrooks84

4 жыл бұрын

I dont like KZread omg this is great lol. 💯

@mattgarte8473

4 жыл бұрын

That's not an INFJ-esque thing. That's just seems like social anxiety. That's a little too far fetched.

So i‘m gonna state some facts about myself i learned being an INFJ -if someone needs comfort or has a problem, i tend to try to solve their problem and comfort them at the same time. does that make any sense? i tend to try to solve their problem more though -i‘m really critical about myself and perfectionistic. if i ask other for their opinion and they say it‘s great, i‘m still like „yeah it is... but“ and i seek for conformation for my skills and things i do -i always feel like an outcast, when i‘m with my friends lately, as we are not on the same level, as they could not understand me -i really like animals more than humans -i judge people too early. Like i see a person and i don‘t like him/her even though we never met before or we never talked with each other and she done nothing wrong -i hate it if it‘s messy. But if i under great stress or being creative i tend to make my workplace messy and later on i get a collapse because everything is bothering me -if i hate someone, i hate him so much. I always need to have so much self control, or i‘m gonna commit murder -i don‘t forgive. never. ever. i cover it up and try to act friendly, but on the inside i‘m „what if she/he does if again and hurt me again“ edit: hey guys, thanks for you reply’s! by not forgiving i mean that i forgive that person for the most part but i don‘t forget it! and btw guys even if you relate to all of this, i doesn’t mean you an infj, please look into the functions ^^

@violetchadwell

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for describing me (except the last bit

@erinvinson7801

4 жыл бұрын

The first one is 100% spot on. a lot of people tell me off for trying to analyze and solve their problems versus just being there for them. i just don’t know how to just “be there”, i have to have a purpose in the situation sometimes

@patandcri4242

4 жыл бұрын

@@erinvinson7801 exactly same

@rakshyakhadgi6043

4 жыл бұрын

completely me

@vminisfuckingreal998

4 жыл бұрын

honestly, i understand you. i hope nobody thinks im trying to "act like an INFJ" but I really understand how you feel. there's constant thoughts coming to your mind when you're doing things and its so frustrating. you act friendly and can never try and act rude, even when you're mad (unless you're hella mad). i feel like we're complicated, yet so simple. its just weird, I relate to everything you listed but idk how to feel about it.

I am sure about being INFJ after reading tons of articles, watching lots of videos, and taking many tests. It's just that I am still hesitant and doubtful coz what if I'm really not an INFJ and just trying hard to be one haha (but why would I do that wkwkwk I'm confused by my own thoughts) 👁👄👁

@metheus9851

3 жыл бұрын

same i feel like im floating between infj and isfj, the infj traits are more visible to me but im still not sure

@lilleilei169

3 жыл бұрын

@@metheus9851 me except im between infj and infp :/

@someome1789

3 жыл бұрын

@@lilleilei169 me too. But we can be both, we have plenty of time to figure it out. Hang in there :))

@lilleilei169

3 жыл бұрын

@@someome1789 aww :' ) yea you're right

@eyepupil

3 жыл бұрын

@@lilleilei169 The skepticism proves you guys are INFJs...cause they don't just try to be one ..they analyse everything and seek the truth!!

I love being an INFJ. Like there are disadvantages of it...quite a LOT. But its fun you know, being different. The world needs every type of personality. Nature has given the INFJ personality to a very few population, because it believes in us...that we can handle our responsibilities very efficiently even when we are an obvious minority. Trust me, we can handle the feeling of being misunderstood, the constant storm of thoughts and the (sometimes uncontrollable) worry and anxiety. So all of the INFJs out there, we got this! ❤️☺️ Edit : Dude, did I even make sense??

@LuvNickynGina4ever

Жыл бұрын

Yes, as a fellow infj you made sense. 😅

Getting to Know and being a friend to yourself is a lifelong process

@pink5345

4 жыл бұрын

Being a friend is essential

@maddy4690

3 жыл бұрын

I think we have been friends with ourselves for a long time becoz we have spent a lot of time with ourselves even tho we love close friendships. We are ok with not being social. That's what I have felt most of the time. But yes being a friend to yourself is must :)

We're the most indecisive people

@evvieelmore

4 жыл бұрын

how many infjs are libras....? 🤣

@doubleu1446

4 жыл бұрын

Yes we are, and it makes me go insane sometimes!

@MariaGabriella-nn7ki

3 жыл бұрын

@@evvieelmore I am a Libra and injf-t

@redheartsunglasses

3 жыл бұрын

@@evvieelmore hello

@sophianicob

3 жыл бұрын

@@evvieelmore omg me😂

"We like to hide things from ourselves so that we can live with ourselves." Oouuuuch 2:43

I feel like I'm on the brink to insanity. I always thought that there was something wrong with me, like one minute I would be loud and charismatic and then the next I would be tired and drained. I still have these mood swings which makes me distance myself from others and act cold. I'm still trying to figure myself out but it's just so tiring, like an endless cycle.

@leeaschmidt2490

3 жыл бұрын

I know this situation

@stevethea5250

2 жыл бұрын

Do you guys have depression?

@dashaa6174

2 жыл бұрын

@@stevethea5250 I've never been to a therapist but yeah, I think I have it. I've got all the symptoms

@mocchi7561

2 жыл бұрын

Me tooo huhu

@magicale940

2 жыл бұрын

There is nothing wrong with you 💙 probably you tend to absorb others emotions, so you get tired easily, it happens to me too

“Weird flex but ok” was first said to an INFJ

@Chigger

4 жыл бұрын

I have no idea what that phrase actually means.

@meganw9380

4 жыл бұрын

nah it means “that’s a strange thing to brag about but.. ok lol” an example of what it’s an response is maybe someone saying “i can fit my whole fist in my mouth”.

@Chigger

4 жыл бұрын

@@meganw9380 Peculiar muscular contraction albeit acceptable.

@bananabreadloaf

4 жыл бұрын

Haha yeah, I’ve only flexed on my weird characteristics. Like eating a whole watermelon at once or four pizzas at once. And no I’m not overweight, I’m just hungry

@savannahb.811

4 жыл бұрын

Yessss lmao

I know this is random but it’s so interesting how everyone’s brain works so differently and how everyone u see and walk by on the streets have their own story.

@doubleu1446

4 жыл бұрын

Crazy right?

@shsltrash6685

3 жыл бұрын

i literally had this same exact thought several times in my life lol

@haneenalashqar388

3 жыл бұрын

I always think about this , especially when I'm watching people from the car window

@jerocadenazzi6245

3 жыл бұрын

I think about this all the time, i see someone and cant help to wonder what they are/went through

@toxendon

3 жыл бұрын

@@jerocadenazzi6245 Cant we all just meet up and be friends and create our own weird INFJ village??

When I first read what an INFJ personal type is I was like: “oh wow! That’s me!” And I decided to check it and did some online tests. And (I’m not even exaggerating) EVERY test showed a different result every time. Jees, several of them showed I’m an extrovert. We laughed so much with an imaginary friend of mine. I guess the most important thing to believe in is your own feeling about yourself. Don’t let others (especially random online tests) define you if you don’t feel like their definition is true at all. The thing is it is really all about self improvement and being aware of your weakest points and sides and working on them to become a better version of yourself.

@vallabhpushti5988

2 жыл бұрын

The same happened to me. I took another test and it showed ISFJ which is the most common whereas INFJ is the rarest. Got really confused and I've started my journey to find the true personality type of mine, hoping it'll be INFJ 🙈

@stevethea5250

2 жыл бұрын

@@vallabhpushti5988 don't hope you will be lying yourself bro

@Daytruin

Жыл бұрын

2 things we humans still don't and probably will never fully understand, black holes and the human mind. that being said, no online test is perfect or even in the vicinity, but it is a decent start, just don't read too much into it.

@sabrinatraversa6586

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, the main purpose is to understand ourselves so we can focus on our strengths, work on our weaknesses and eventually find our place in the world, i.e. the role that is most fitting according to our personality. And the very ultimate goal is to be happy. Using MBTI just to feed one's ego is not exactly the best way to find happiness imo. Then you brought another good point, it's easy for Fe-users to be influenced by others' opinions. Actually, I sort of relate with the descriptions of all IN types. I mostly get TP but I realize I'm more of a very introverted FJ.

im the group "i took a test it said im infj and now i don't wanna look like im tryna be ✨quirky✨ or ✨different✨ and also the more i look at myself the more i realize im just so ordinary there is no way in the hell im this rare personality"

@supergalaxycrazykillerpsyc3079

3 жыл бұрын

Well some people express personality types differently

@stevethea5250

2 жыл бұрын

Is that a group on Facebook or where? Lol

I knew that I was an INFJ because of this channel's comment section. A lot of relatable things. :)

@doubleu1446

4 жыл бұрын

The comment sections of INFJ videos are the best! ☺️

@gregm3224

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I agree, if you see so much of yourself in the comments and replies, thats the most accurate measure I would say.

@jiencommentsonly7230

3 жыл бұрын

How a friend of mine said: "Agreed!"

@hakimdiwan5101

3 жыл бұрын

Most of them talk what an introverts would typically do.

@keaton5850

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah me too 🤗 Glad to know I am not as weird as I thought.

Three seconds in: "Do you wear black often?" Me: ... Yes

@marthaimmer5675

4 жыл бұрын

It must be demon Se. I can't stand the idea of making another choice that involves something as concrete as fabric. Please let me get back to living in my brain!

@purplepartytigerd1598

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I happen to be wearing a black sweater... X'D

@karinacarvajal9919

4 жыл бұрын

@@marthaimmer5675 sameee, it is also the most easy. usually makes me look good too :P

@karinacarvajal9919

4 жыл бұрын

@@purplepartytigerd1598 I'm wearing from top to bottom. 😂 But I do have my colorful days, I do like 70s style that are light and airy

@purplepartytigerd1598

4 жыл бұрын

@Karina Carvajal I tend to gravitate towards the older styles, too. But I have no sense of fashion X'D. Went to a family party once wearing a pink and white striped tank, light blue plaid shorts, and my green, purple and blue sneakers. Received one or two compliments on my "80's" style, which was really just a mishmash of hastily selected comfy things.

Quite the usual type from my perspective. I'm married to an INFJ and personally know three other INFJ's. Much like all other types, there are always some variance since it is impossible to exactly replicate the life experiences exactly of each individual, but there are two common factors that I have discovered amongst all four: the ability to mediate between logic and emotion effectively and knowing exactly how to push or guide someone in a direction without directly providing the answers. Great upload, FJ.

Here is how to know if you are INFG: -You need your friends but want to be alone, you also need communication. -You find a few people, like one or two, who you like and who understand you. And you guys are like a cult who do not seperate. -When you find a few really good friends you don't want anymore friends -You are more interested in the 'why' -you like the unknown

@stevethea5250

2 жыл бұрын

Oh damn..

I have just come across something I wrote months ago that made me sure I am INFJ.. "I don’t know how to describe what I am feeling. It is like, there is so much to do but not much time. Yet, somebody has to tell me where to start before I lose my mind. All I do is to float in the space of unknown and anxiety. It feels like I am procrastinating but in fact I have nothing to do." Right? or it is my major depression. lol.

@chizaa8

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t think it’s depression because I definitely feel the same way!

@merve.a6454

3 жыл бұрын

I feel that way too but I'm not like I'm depressed either

@aadiyalal8157

3 жыл бұрын

You are anxious of the outcome. what if you don't get it done....but at the same time u make an excuse to itself saying that there is not much time and then it starts feeling like there is actually nothing you can do about it....u wanna do ur thing with perfection but you start procrastinating.....even if u want to do that particular thing u procrastinate....there is something dropping u to do it...I know it's confusing but u have an organised mind if you believe in urself....u will be able to do what you want....... It's not depression it's me all the the time......

@aderpyturt

3 жыл бұрын

it's hard to understand, even now

@nknae3115

3 жыл бұрын

I'm going to copy and paste that and maybe add it to a story I;m writing lol XD

"Those people need to calm down"

@destinyjohnson8947

4 жыл бұрын

I died, honestly lol 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾☠

We feel misunderstood all too often, we need to make sure we’re valuing our rarity, because being different is what this world actually NEEDS. This world needs us to be ourselves. Embrace yourself, INFJ, do not erase! We were not born to fit in!

@sabrinatraversa6586

Жыл бұрын

What the world needs, but not what the world deserves. 😆 Jokes aside, this reminds me of John 15:19, then even Jesus himself is usually typed as INFJ.

Having deep thoughts is kinda like breathing for me. Also always calm and collected

@stevethea5250

2 жыл бұрын

Let's jump right in shall we? 🔥😭

just an ENFP passing through saying all u INFJs are my favorite. i get along with INFJs better than other ENFPs most of the time !! THANKS FOR KEEPING ME BALANCED U GUYS :)

@jj_lanae1307

4 жыл бұрын

This is so late but you're welcome

@dharanikalluri2974

3 жыл бұрын

😭

@charlynerno4567

3 жыл бұрын

I read on an article that ENFPs and us, INFJs really go along well in any type of relationships.

@imapomegranate9955

3 жыл бұрын

Happy to help.

@Skzlovur7

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome😂

Recap: You might be an INFJ if... -You need to calm down -You are uptight on X,Y, and Z -You think “one does not simply learn something...” -You see patterns -You talk or write for long periods of time -You are more prouder when you do things you don’t normally do (may follow up with bragging about it) -You are a KZreadr that wants to help others with knowledge (or wisdom) and humor Disclaimer: Its 3:30 AM for me right now, not an INFJ, and you’re welcome.

@stephaniemitchell8509

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly, the same things could be said for INTJ's. ;p

@cinderling5472

4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha thank youuu :3

@TubeThings

4 жыл бұрын

You also may be an INFJ if your wife looses her shit every time she misplaces her keys! Lol

@melissaphillis7247

4 жыл бұрын

I brag when I actually get out of the house and do something physical. Lol

@taylorjade6918

4 жыл бұрын

@@melissaphillis7247 Real accomplishments 🙏

As an INFJ: oh this person is this personality type, I should figure out more how I fit with their personality type. Also as an INFJ: I’m probably reading too much into this, why am I doing all this again?

@AM-rl6mq

2 ай бұрын

We are always trying to figure other people out and ourselves because typically we never felt understood in our early life.

I really appreciate the fact that you announce the commercials. They aren't so annoying when they don't come out of the blue. I must confess I watch them with more patience. I wish everybody on KZread did the same thing. I feel your respect towards your viewers. Thank you ;) Greetings from Poland.

INFJ's feel the need to put on a facade and appear a certain way in front of others. (E.g I look up to types who look like they're always having fun all the time and I do my best to replicate that and show that I am that to the public) INFP's value their own personal values and preserving their identity matters a lot to them. That's why they love to invest in anything that could help express their inner self (e.g acting, art, literature)

@carieyoung1111

4 жыл бұрын

Alex Ippy hmmm I don’t agree :-) INFJs are extremely into quality and love ART, culture and invest a ton in literature (we love books) and learning (we LIVE to learn! )

@carieyoung1111

4 жыл бұрын

We also love to be authentic- it may take us a bit to get there (depending on our childhood/relationships but we can smell BS a mile away and usually tell the fakers from “real” individuals- we crave being vulnerable with others but know it will mostly get bulldozed...our good intentions are never good enough for some people. If we are healthy we take extreme ownership - if we don’t we can become dark and absorbed into our inner world..we have to be careful we exist in two worlds...always!

@Overused_Toothbrush

4 жыл бұрын

Yep I’m an infj. My facade is fluid

@illusrin

4 жыл бұрын

@@carieyoung1111 I'm an INFJ as well and while art, theater, literature can be an authentic interest for any type (though yeah, I'd say maybe there's more of a predisposition for xNFxs) I think it ws just an example chosen to emphasize the difference between INFPs' Fi and INFJ's Fe. That difference is very real. All types can be honest or put on a façade, all types can really act in any certain way if it's necessary, but MBTI is about preference and instinct, at its core, what functions (Ni/e, Fi/e, Ti/e, Si/e) people prioritize in using. Nothing holds up or is untrue 100% of the time for any one type, in other words. This being said, however, I've found cognitive functions and function stacks (which ones your type uses) to be one of the most consistent and clear things about MBTI in terms of differences between types. Fi-doms like INFP value preserving, defining, expressing their own identity far more than any type. Being authentic is important to them, but it's also more personal since it's introverted. The façade an INFP might put on would be more protective than an INFJ's. An INFJ may be reserved too, but it doesn't often stem so strongly from concern over vulnerability. Personally, I'd say it's more strategic and comfortable. I want to understand someone well first. I want to adapt and often mirror people's emotions not to be inauthentic, but because it helps me understand them better, and it helps put everyone (including myself) more at ease. I don't like disagreeing with a group or someone I care about, but if I have to, I'll try to do it tactfully. Sometimes I'm prone to sugarcoating things because of this, but my friends know. The point is, if not the behaviors themselves, at least the motivations for these behaviors, are not very Fi. Fe is more "How can I situate myself in regards to how everyone's feeling, how they are? This will help me understand my own feelings and where I stand better. " vs. Fi's "I know how I'm feeling and who I am. What's the best way I can express this to everyone else, who can support my authentic self the best?"

@alexip1010

4 жыл бұрын

@@carieyoung1111 Oh I'm actually an animator myself haha! I wasn't trying to say that INFJ's aren't into art and literature like INFPs are I was just trying to list examples of careers that are particularly common for an INFP to pursue

There should be a way I can meet other INFJs bc finding friends is really difficult, I try to match the personalities of the people I'm around but I still never feel like I fit in anywhere

@gian3351

4 жыл бұрын

Marla Nicole ikr, it's hard. It's like I want to socialise but at the same time I don't. Most students in my class have this...sort of circle of friends...groups but I'm that one kid who just stands on the corner of the room while everyone is having their chitchats. I have friends, relationship but only on a...'shallow' level. It feels weird not having someone to relate with and to talk to. I try my best to be as outgoing as I could but it feels like I'm trying to be someone else I'm not just to be close with people.

@SleepyCurlsASMR

4 жыл бұрын

I relate!

@ishroom5466

4 жыл бұрын

Two INFJ's won't be compatible, I've tried it... You just feel so overpowered and so unwilling to be friends... Its horrible

@SleepyCurlsASMR

4 жыл бұрын

@@ishroom5466 as friends or romantically? I'm curious.. can you tell me more about why you felt it didn't work?

@ivetgeorgieva8888

4 жыл бұрын

I gave up on that a long time ago. Somehow, all my close friends ended up being extroverts, I love them to bits don't get me wrong, but they just keep inviting me to go out way too much.

I have discovered that i'm INFJ-T today. And learn more about it. From past years, i feel like i can't connect with my close friends. Even though its been 4-5 years of being friends. They thinks i'm their *best friends*. But sometimes i wanna find a new friend 'till i can connect. And at the same time, i thought i can't connect with them because i'm bad at socialize. The only people i can connect the most, is my mom. But when she's tired/don't really wanna have a convo, i felt soo lonely- and now, i know what i am and i'm so happy yet a bit sad- but i'm going to accept the fact that making ''best friend'' is difficult for me. And have a connection with animals when i felt alone, or have mind talk with my self LOL-🔥✊ If my friends see this, i'm sorry but that's the truth😐👌

Watching all these vids and reading all these comments really makes me feel like I'm not alone in this world and have people struggling with issues similar to mine. It's good to know there's someone out there that truly understands you so to FJ and all the INFJs in the comments, thank you for existing! :D

@saraghenheoo1189

10 ай бұрын

THANK YOU fro existing I feel the same that many other people are strugling with issues similar to mine

Can you make a video about INFJ's being social chameleons?

@Chigger

4 жыл бұрын

That describes my friend so accurately.

@ChantelStays

4 жыл бұрын

...makes me feel so false sometimes.

@keepermovin5906

4 жыл бұрын

This is kind of what made me realize I was an INFJ because I was mistyped as a INTJ

@patbluetree4636

4 жыл бұрын

​@@ChantelStays I just find it so draining playing their damn games. I just avoid it and them when at all possible.

@peachbellini2615

4 жыл бұрын

I was telling a therapist about how I change my attitude, mood, demeanor, etc... depending on who I'm with ..like a chameleon.. and she said it reminded her of a movie called Zelig ..as soon as I got home I watched it.. lol.. you should check it out.. it's hilarious

3:26 - "but when my wife loses her keys, i don't have a wife"

@Webs.x

4 жыл бұрын

I was half listening to the video and half reading comments and when he said that i thought he said "when my wife has herpes, i dont have a wife." I was very confused thanks for clearing this up😂

@mysterygirl30011

3 жыл бұрын

@@Webs.x Same. Read the comment like a second after he said it. LOL

Found your channel a few days ago. Binging EVERYthing, because I'm interested in understanding people behaviour and inner, deeper motivations more, and I'm glad I finally found a video among your videos where you explain a little how to better use typology as a tool, because that will go a long way in my recently started journey in learning more, one I'm going to be going at... probably for the rest of my life now, honestly lol (I'm an INFJ... likely!) Thanks again for all your videos.

This is so calming - thanks for this great video. Nice to just listen to.

I remember bursting in tears 7 years ago when I took the test for the first time and the result was infj it was a relief that I'm not weird, it's just me.. But I keep having theses thoughts that personality is just an illusion we use to survive..

@sukritysresta3561

4 жыл бұрын

Wowww..sameee..

@hackidreemurr

4 жыл бұрын

Saaaame. 😂😂

@fatmaaj232

4 жыл бұрын

I'm glad I'm not alone 😂😂💚

@sukritysresta3561

4 жыл бұрын

Llkkk Hind sags

@leogrrrl5876

3 жыл бұрын

Enneagram might interest you- It helps you see & step out of the box. (While also helping you feel seen & known).

Getting to know myself is one of the hardest things I've ever done. Sometimes people can describe me better than I do. :/

@kilo7041

4 жыл бұрын

Fiorella Lescano it’s been both confrontational and enlightening for me, I am so grateful there are people in KZread land such as FJ. I love his content but I also love the comment section - there are actually other people like me!

@fixiple2722

4 жыл бұрын

yep that's true, but the same people only see what you show them.

@fiorellalescano

4 жыл бұрын

@@kilo7041 The comment section shows us that we're not alone. :)

@unamilakovic6614

4 жыл бұрын

I can't believe I've met another INFJ who loves The Strokes *-*

Until now, I have always been ashamed of the way I think and act. I knew I was a different person somewhere in me but I judged that different person badly I've always tried to mold myself, but it turns out that there are many people like me.Your pride in yourself encouraged me.

honestly, this video made so much sense and helped me reframe how i thought about personality typing. I *LIKE* how its a complex, cant-quite-pin down, people have different takes on it kind of a thing. That makes it real, and weirdly relatable because ... well, i see it as a mashup of facts/categories and er..the fluidity of humanity, which can feel like a contradiction, or like that shouldn't exist. But I feel full of contradictions too ! Honestly, anything that sparks a conversation and insight into how we all feel and understand deeper levels of ourselves is Bueno

All that aside, how do I know I'm a human?

@everydaystuff9187

4 жыл бұрын

We INFJ's don't ever feel like we're human lol :) That's what makes us special...lol.

@heraclea9368

4 жыл бұрын

Asking the real question there

@everydaystuff9187

4 жыл бұрын

@@heraclea9368 I answered honestly too. In all seriousness, we just feel like others don't understand us. We are super complicated, most of our ideas don't even exist "in the box" as they say. Some things that we talk about are so far out there, that sometimes we question ourselves. Our top 2 functions are why we don't feel human. Our iN is very strong and we can just see without knowing how or why. But like he said, You have to know yourself first.

@everydaystuff9187

4 жыл бұрын

@Eddyfiu Allwiz Some days I don't. LOL ;)

@everydaystuff9187

4 жыл бұрын

And I am Okay with that. Helps with the creativity.

Being an INFJ is like saying I am a Gemini in astrology. You may have certain characteristic traits but we are all unique. Instead of getting hung up on a type or putting yourself in a box, get to know yourself and what makes you you and continue to become an improved version of yourself.

@xiao-slimp7865

3 жыл бұрын

IMA GEMMIN AND INFJ 😭😖😭😭

@shantilove3768

3 жыл бұрын

@@xiao-slimp7865 me too

@magicale940

2 жыл бұрын

In astrology is also because you are not just one sign haha, the natal chart is literally immense, that's the reason because many people say, for example, I'm a Pisces but I don't have many traits of Pisces" hehe

I see it as a rediscovery; a journey to self-awareness. I should definitely get back into journaling more. Also, I didn't mind the click-bait. It was worth it. :) Thank you, FJ!

Wonderful description of typologies: "just calm down", "a longer process", "just a tool", "it is like developing an art". I totally agree. It took me one and half a year to realize, understand and accept that I have the 9 personality fixation of the enneagramm. Hence, the Myers-Briggs is just a new tool and help broadening to understand myself. ♥️

a friend me and my husband have in common invited us to get some beers. I didn't want to go, there would be a lot of people and I don't like it. when we got there, they started talking but after some time, the conversation wasn't flowing anymore. that's when I started talking and ended up telling a lot of funny stories, or remembering things for them to talk about (it wears me off... I didn't really want to be there) BUT everybody was laughing again although that was just exausting for me. I was happy everyone was fine, but when I got home I just wanted to sleep forever. I guess you all infjs can relate to that.

@jamjam0409

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@pardisarjmandi8889

3 жыл бұрын

Has happened to me a lot

@shizzaabid1333

3 жыл бұрын

Always.

@shizzaabid1333

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I feel like the responsibility is on me to keep the conversation going.. Even if it drains me

@alexandra-zk2tl

3 жыл бұрын

I can relate so much!

"Your type is not going to solve all your problems." 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Well said!

@stevethea5250

2 жыл бұрын

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Yeah. good advice. I definitely embody the INFJ-T type. Been that way my whole life as far back as I can remember. Also understanding the different brain functions, ie. Amygdala, Hippocampus, Hypothalamus Pre-frontal Cortex, etc. I am able to "feel" which part of my brain is engaging in emotion vs reasoning for example. Being mindful is an interesting skill. Still learning and self improving!

Thanks for putting up these videos. It has been fascinating. I have so often felt misunderstood and watching your videos has made me understand a little more about myself.

From one INFJ to another, I am so glad I found you. Your wisdom has been so enlightening and you've helped me so much x

When I found out that I'm an INFJ I was so happy and relieved 😭 felt like I finally belonged somewhere.

@nuraisyahzulkifli1737

4 жыл бұрын

Welcome home, brethren 🖤

@gazatkinson5288

4 жыл бұрын

Me too. Its been bittersweet, but the relief I feel knowing that this is the kind of personality I've got is immense. Just to try and finally understand after many years of confusion and anguish is wonderful.

this really helped something just click into place for me. i’m an INFJ and i can be very analytical and logical like what i associate with thinking types, but it’s not my default, and i get very proud of myself when i’m able to have a flowing intellectual conversation- it sticks out to me so much. And same goes with spontaneity, i get very proud of myself when i notice that i’ve let myself do something without lots of planning and forethought (though that’s very rare because i dream up most situations and rehearse for many things that could possibly happen so i can prepare and appear more spontaneous). but when something catches me off guard, and i don’t close myself off to it it’s like “wow i’m just such a go with the flow person, i’m so chill😎”. the things that aren’t the default are the things that stand out! that’s why we can’t just ask people what kind of person they think they are, well, we can, but also observing separately from that is super important!

I looooov how your sooo real and genuine, authentic in other words!! Thank YOU 🙏🤍

I have been confused between INFJ and INFP ever since I learnt about MBTI. I took the test for Fun a couple of years ago and I got INFP. Learning about INFP personality type, I found it so similar to my personality and continued to believe that I am an INFP till the end of last year when I decided to take the test again. This time it was INFJ and I was confused but realised that quite a lot of it is true for me, I was never as emotional as INFPs are described to be. Since that time, I decided to study more about this typology and that freaking confused me even more as both INFP and INFJ describe me, take half the characteristics of an INFP and half of INFJ and its me, lol. Whenever I retake tests its always 45-55 between the P and J. They say one can't be an INFJ and an INFP at the same time so I hope this video helps.

@lijuowl

4 жыл бұрын

I also usually test as infp. But I am different from my infp friends in particular in traits that are ascribed to infj. I make use of Fe a lot. I generally see myself as infj because of that...

@w13rdguy

4 жыл бұрын

Sometimes(all the time), when you take a test, you have, in your mind, how the answer would be perceived by others. This will skew the result. This, imo, is why INFJ is less rare than everyone thinks.

@mihiyoon4274

4 жыл бұрын

@@lijuowl EXACTLY! My bestie is a true INFP in every sense and I am different than her in many aspects. We both often have the same feelings towards something as well as opinions but while I can see things from different perspectives and other people's eyes, she can't as much. She is really emotional and sensitive, it doesn't take much to make her cry while I have never cried in public. That's why I can't accept that I might be an INFP.

@mihiyoon4274

4 жыл бұрын

@@w13rdguy yeah, that's right. I often find myself seeking the most morally and socially correct option while taking such tests and hence, I try to think what I REALLY would've done but that just leaves me blank, I can't think of anything else. I am lazy, disorganized, careless, intuitive and more ears than mouth and I try to answer on the basis of that but nothing changes.

@joyowen7522

4 жыл бұрын

Mihi Yoon INFP is literally the cutest personality there is and they live in this dream world of where everything is wonderful and everyone is wonderful. INFJ on the other hand are very real and know when someone is acting just wrong. We also mirror other personalities so you may feel that you are an INFP but you are actually an INFJ. Also INFJ are always in our heads analyzing to the point where it gives us anxiety.

When you Gain more Self-Confidence when choosing to walk alone VS blending-in with peers

I'm really happy about the information you gave in this video. We can only tell for ourselves and the best part about it Is The calm observance of ourselves and others. If we can observe ourselves without guilt or toxic shame, It would expediate the process of knowing.

Slow and steady is best always! The results are so much better!

“INFJ here!” “Omg the INFJ is so accurate!” “ so I’m an INFJ..” “INFJ here-“ “Rarest Type here!...” “INFJ here” “INFJ here-“ “The INFJ one is on point wtf” “INFJ here!”

@bennyboy2079

4 жыл бұрын

Trust me people who say this and are not ..don't have a clue I'm infj struggled with depression and severe anxiety all my life I'm 41 and never had proper relationship ..even tho I'm good looking and a nice guy..I'm just happier alone but wish I wasnt ...so it's nothing you should wish to be because it's rare. Wtf

@rayanalfadel5911

4 жыл бұрын

Benny Boy sorry to hear that about you, but I don’t necessarily think the personality type is attached to your circumstances- I don’t think it’s inherited necessarily. I would wanna know if the majority of INFJs struggle with what you struggle with to determine if what you’re saying is accurate. I’m sure what you’re unfortunately struggling with applies to other personality types too

@bennyboy2079

4 жыл бұрын

@@rayanalfadel5911 ...your probably right...and did have a strange upbringing to be honest..but it's the only type of personality that I can identify with ...even as a kid I told my freinds I wasnt aload out, even though I was ..so I could sit in my room on my own 😂 always felt I was in my own bubble , it would explain alot and i would love to know for sure ... but don't want to sound like I'm trying to be different ya know 🤔🙂

@Davi-sw8le

4 жыл бұрын

​@@bennyboy2079 Hey, mate, this personality thingy just shows preference, does not show proficiency. You can prefer to read people, and be bad at it, or good.. You can be awesomely picky about choosing a partner, and be lucky enough that circumstances allow you to marry at your 20s, or be 40 and still looking. Also, you can be mostly a type and still manage to develop other abilities... So it's not always straightforward... The loneliness thing for one, isn't necessarily an INFJ thing. It's just that you don't yet seem to have developed an efficient system to integrate yourself socially enough not to feel lonely and still have the time alone that you need to not feel exhausted. Also, there are types of people that INFJs would be delighted to spend a large amount of time with, and maybe you simply haven't come across one of those. Lastly, I wish you do find someone you can spend life with though. But having a "proper" relationship is an investment of time, energy, resources... the list is infinite. And sometimes, we're just not willing to give up so much, or change ourselves enough to enable one to happen. Like, I don't know what happened with your past relationships, but no relationship should ever be seen it as something you "prefer" (in the context of what is easiest and comes more naturally to a person), because no matter your type, it will always be something that, ideally, will make you get out of your comfort zone, and go through pains, and open yourself up to the possibility of hurt. At any rate, best of luck on your journey man! P.S.: If you still, somehow, got to this end of the internet, is in that age and gender group, and don't know who Jordan B. Peterson is... gee look him up, specially his 12 Rules for Life book. If you have, like, c'mon man, that stuff is textbook "lobster" 101... lol

@Davi-sw8le

4 жыл бұрын

Algorithms.. (possibly)

reading the negative traits of the INFJ confirmed for me that i am most likely an INFJ. being constantly stressed out at the time, i saw myself not in the usual descriptions of the healthy INFJ, but in the ones about what it looks like when they're stressed.

@angstarr5937

4 жыл бұрын

INFJs act like ESTPs when really stressed, usually

@PiNkSpRinkLe1

4 жыл бұрын

TO be INFJ is to be stressed. I don't think there is an alternative.

@angstarr5937

4 жыл бұрын

@@PiNkSpRinkLe1 there's always an alternative, not every person is the same, even within the same typology. I've experienced acting more like and ESTP under prolonged stress, but that doesn't mean every INFJ will. Just giving my two cents

@heathermcdougall2399

4 жыл бұрын

@@PiNkSpRinkLe1 Only internally as you et older and more able to handle it, it gets better, and easier. Our internal dialogue and our internal life will always be more in interesting than any other human being ever. Get older and you'll be able to share better. What's lovely is how amy share their secrets with us, so easily, and we keep them, thus gaining a reputation as somebody who can be trusted with secrets. INFJ's can always be trusted with even dreadful secrets. They will never tell - ever!

You got me at 0.22, but I’ve moved on - now I wear very dark blue all the time 😊. A lot of wisdom in this video. You’re right to day this is much more an art than a science. I did a huge number of different tests many years ago and I was inevitably INFJ or, slightly less often, INTJ. It was interesting to see which of my responses made a difference to the score, and these were to questions which actually come up in real life very often, which always put me in a dilemma. Great video!

i love the fact that i’m not the only one. i’m just as messed up as any infj. makes me worried, but relieved at the same time

I'm really enjoying my hypothetical relationships at the moment ✨

Clear sign you're an INFJ: you not only LOVE typing other people (while sharing with others every little detail of how and why I'm typing them that way), but you find it extraordinarily easy to do so after only a few minutes of observing someone.

@ambergudnason4903

2 жыл бұрын

I definitely do this! Now I can even think of people as their types...and it makes more sense as I observe their behavior. For example, that's my enfp friend...no wonder she wants to go on spontaneous trips at the drop of a hat! Or he's an entp, see how he can debate both sides of an argument!

I find all your videos on the INFJ personality type very insightful. I love them 💛

I have taken the MB test several times and every time I am an INFJ. Also finding out and listening helped me heal from a lot of things I could not make sense of.

"Your type is not gonna solve all your problems" Me : oh well...🙃

Ended up here from the Ellen introvert/cornstalk video & the ad before this vid was about plant care 🌱 Perfect!

Your skits really helped me figure out what type I am too. I would go, “Hm, that kinda sounds like me...” but not fully relate to that type and then finally hear one that makes me laugh and say, “Oh yeah, that’s so true!” and realize those were always from the same type. Thanks for sharing your content FJ, it’s been so helpful to me! 💕

My husband and I have really gotten somewhere good with all of your helpful videos. Thanks for always uploading videos and being funny while you do it.

@zain4019

4 жыл бұрын

Zebra Green Oh:)*

“Stay cool and attractive.” 👌🏼

@bennyboy2079

4 жыл бұрын

😉😎✌

I’m happy to learned I’m an INFJ now that explains everything about the way I feel and how I am as a person

I’m glad I came across this video. As usual it’s the grounded voice of plain ordinary reason that makes the most sense. So what if you are an INFJ, or an Empath or some other personality type...... just learn about yourself and live your life. Thanks

Introverted Intuitive Frank James

@DY2727

3 жыл бұрын

himikowo lol

@Chandela-

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@jamjam0409

3 жыл бұрын

Wow

@omnamahshivaaay

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hey Frank , thank you for your content! I found your videos recently and I really enjoy them. As an INFJ I never felt more understood in my life before. Thank you :)

Where have you been all my life?? Just found you here and you are spot on. I'm an INFJ, (took the MB test 3 times over 30 years ... still an INFJ), and this is the first I've heard about the 3 sub-types. Pretty sure I'm an ambivert. Anyhoo, I smashed subscribe just because you obviously know what you're talking about. Plus, you're hilarious. Thanks. I'm tired of talking now. Gotta go.

Thanks, it was actually helpful by the way. Nowadays, I feel so confused why I feel resentful towards a certain person, or why I get mixed emotions about them. Then I just seem to ignore it a bit, but then later it comes back. I needed a push on how to solve these things and so as many others. And thank YOU, so much this was so helpful my head can finally go back to "thinking things carefully mode and try to figure out myself mode"

FJ: Do you wear black often? Me: YES. FJ: I'm just kidding. Me: Oh. I was not.

Thank you for not falling into the trap of doing what is expected.. and instead continuing to do the right thing.. that's really healthy and I'm proud of you for it

I learned about topology yesterday and I haven’t stopped watching you tube videos about it .I retook the 16 personalities test 3 times and the cloverleaf 2 times and I am definitely an INFJ. I spent so much time wondering about this topic

Thanks for your videos Frank. You have given me alot of insight into being an Infj and it's helped me be more accepting of myslef and not feel so different and misunderstood. To all Infjs out there, be strong and be you. Some won't understand, some won't accept. But that's when you say "KICK ROCKS"! Accept me or not. Either way, I am me and I love myself. 😌😎💪🏽