Thanks for watching guys! What are your experiences with the INFJ INFP Relationship?

@johnlucas9867

5 жыл бұрын

They say being alone is toxic. But sometimes it feels like I could be alone for the rest of my life and still be okay with my life.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

John Lucas that is a great place to be in...meaning you can never be really lonely...outside contact isn‘t then a necessity and you can make sure that all or most interactions you have enrich your life, otherwise no need in having them

@PJPJPJ1215

4 жыл бұрын

I made a friend recently, and we've become amazing friends, who are supportive and emotionally available for each other. A few weeks later, she mentioned she was an INFJ. I did the test and I was an INFP. She responded with "I thought so" xD

@Raphael0654

3 жыл бұрын

All that comes to mind is Yoda & Luke.

@stephenfegely

3 жыл бұрын

I value infps because they intrinsically bring out my so much Fe that it makes me so inspired, especially if they happen to be creative individuals like myself. Thanks, Wenzes

Maybe Infp make infj feel more and infj make infp live more. And this is so precious.

As an introvert, I recharge my batteries by being alone. The harder the trauma the longer I'm alone.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

Same with me, I make sure now that I don‘t stay stuck in ‚alone time‘...that was my downfall before

@miker4all

3 жыл бұрын

I could totally relate dude. I’m an INFP and also highly empathic (not sure if all INFPs have that) and right now I’m just freaking out over how much I like this INFJ girl. I’m freaking out because no one has stuck around through my ridiculously long and frequent messages, and have gone on phone calls for hours out of the day like this before. I’m asking her to be real with me and she’s still talking to me and we’re open with each other and she can respond with long messages as well. I’m freaking out because it feels so good and yet it’s so excessive, I love it, it’s getting in the way of my life-NO! It makes me look forward to every day! And I’m freaking out because I don’t want it to stop because every time something didn’t work out it felt traumatic. It seems like a very strong Myers Briggs Match according to what people post, but of course I’m already preparing for a long lonesome isolation period.

@Athenasjam

Жыл бұрын

​@@miker4all I'm curious what came of this. I'm infj and have been getting pretty serious with an infp. I've never known a man that could talk for hours on the phone like him lol I love to listen to him though. He's gets quiet at times, hides away while he processes emotions and thoughts, I had to learn this wasn't a personal distancing from me, it's just the same thing I do when I need to recharge. Hope everything is well. 😀

Me, as an INFJ woman, totally agree that an INFP man is the best match for me, even though they're much more emotional than I am, I can cope with that

My best friend in high school was an INFP . We actually got along quite well. For her own part, she was a fairly easy going person and she basically accepted me the way I was. This was in contrast to the people I hung around with in high school. Two of the girls in our group acted like God died and left them in charge. I didn't take two seconds of their bossiness, but it got on my nerves. In fact, my INFP friend was a refuge for me. In my case, I was the one who leaned on her for approval. She had her own way of doing things, and we didn't always have the same opinions on everything. She could be stubborn at times. But we maintained our friendship after we both graduated. It was great to see her again when I went to Michigan last summer.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

These are friendships worth keeping for the longterm 😊👍

I said to my INFP person. Our greatest strength - strong emotions - is also our weakness. We both feel so strongly we can easily overthink and feel hurt. As long as we always reassure each other and talk about why we expressed an emotion we can discuss and move on.

It definitely depends on how healthy we are, how we act. As an INFP, I ask my INFJ friend questions because I genuinely want to know who they are, what they like, and what their values are. Not to judge them, but to connect on a deeper level with them. I love INFJs because they are great listeners and empathetic, but I also want to reciprocate that for them. This video and some of the comments are a great reminder for me to be aware if I’m making my INFJ friends feel judged because that’s not my intention. Thanks for sharing your friendship experience!

@kavitha9456

Жыл бұрын

That's absolutely true...iam also an info...i too ask many questions not to judge them...but to understand and accept

Im an INFP and my bf is an INFJ. i dunno but i recharge my energies with him.. He has this calm vibes and i luv it. XD

@MyWorld-xw6ic

3 жыл бұрын

Same situation here

@bookishwriter9460

3 жыл бұрын

@@MyWorld-xw6ic Same here, just the other way around, I am an INFJ and my bf is an INFP

@MyWorld-xw6ic

3 жыл бұрын

@@bookishwriter9460 oh that guy and I didn’t work. He was too judgmental. Im with an intj now 🤞🏾

@karak2113

3 жыл бұрын

Same here girl

I'm an INFJ and my girlfriend is INFP, so this was helpful, mostly on understanding emotions and being more wary about certain types of traps I can set myself up for. Have to say that I'm a more assertive guide to people around me, meaning I tell them what they need to do to get out of trouble. That comes with age, but also education, profession and interest, but also upbringing and feeling safe in that role. For instance I'm clearer than most infj's about psychological theories on human development, world views and politics, which to me are deeply intertwined. I've also been moulded by my friends from youth into being slightly obsessed with being authentic. This gives me a different style to being and INFJ than many others. This take on life for me really makes me feel connected with my INFP girlfriend and I hope that it will last, cause it feels like such a meaningful and prosperous relationship for us to be in, both emotionally and in terms of ideas and creativity. It helps that we have a lot of common interests and ideas. Also she's a very encouraging person, that makes me believe more in myself. But as I said there are many traps for both of us, as we are too are just two vulnarable people with a lot of luggage, so thanks a lot for maping them out! Love your videos! Keep it up! It's very helpful! 😊👍❤️

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot Hakon and much happiness for you two in the future 😊👍

INfps want everyone to be 100% authentic to who they are! I’m glad you finally were brave enough to show her who you are! And you’re right, when we get stuck in the Fi-Si loop it can lead to depression! My bestie from over 25 years is infj, and I cherish our relationship so much!

I am an INFJ in love w/ an INFP guy. How do those guys show and receive love? How might I make him comfortable around me enough to not run away. How can I get this guy to realize that I love him, that he is perfect to me, and that I want to make his ass mine-? The problem is... similarly to him, I'm also shy and can be awkward af. He alternates between complimenting me, ignoring me, and running away from me, and flashing me seriously confusing coy smiles. Sometimes I think he hates me, sometimes I think he knows I love him and is secretly arrogantly amused, sometimes I think he is internally rolling his eyes when I talk as he says nothing but listens intently, mumbles "yes" then runs away or ignores me....shit. I should probably just give up, huh? It's just that, he is so precious, so authentic, and so pure...his eyes are like deep oceans of warm silk. When I look into them, I feel like I get lost and am suddenly night-swimming alone in a vast ocean and I could stay there forever...

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Suzy, I have a video coming out today which might help you. It might not sound like it because it‘s called how to get out of crushes gone wrong...but there I also talk about how to approach situations like this in a way to find out if this is really the right person for you or just a projection. 👍

@Suzy-fi8er

5 жыл бұрын

@@Wenzes Ok, I look forward to this...

@xtalking2501

5 жыл бұрын

INFP would appreciate if you really wanted to get to know him, what is behind his actions, what is and was his life like, what he thinks is right and wrong and why. but. you if want him to remember you and keep you, you can't go for whatever he says but challenge him and shake him off sometimes from his bullshit and misunderstanding of world etc. I am I think most likely INFP, and I at first act defensive when someone questions my opinions, beliefs, motives etc. but in the end I am grateful, when I get back to it and think through, this is how we grow, we need Te, so to know what others think to validate our Fi. and very important. do not say what we think is not important. they are two things, one is to help to understand we are wrong, another to say it is just silly.

@solarcatt

5 жыл бұрын

@@xtalking2501 I think this is very true! From my experience as an INFJ with INFPs, INFPs really do begin with defensiveness but come around to true appreciation of honesty and constructive criticism. What I feel they do not appreciate is being just judged for the sake of judgement, which healthy INFJs would not do anyways. But like you said, for INFPs and INFJs alike as perfectionists, there is great value in being challenged to grow.

@solarcatt

4 жыл бұрын

@@medusa6429 this is so sweet, and very true ❤ INFPs are very, very protective of their boundaries, and we as INFJs have to understand that what for us may seem like invitations to push are not that at all, and are in fact generous glimpses being given of what the INFP will reveal if we give them the time and space to reveal it on their own time and at their own beckoning. Although we might feel like we're inspiring them, INFPs might feel our attempts to be pressurizing. So best to just be there and be accepting and empathetic, and reinforce that neither of you should assume or try to interpret the other, and should instead just enjoy each other -- INFPs and INFJs notoriously misunderstand each other, because we both trust our strong intuitions so much (and for good reason)! :P good luck ❤

A lot of people are fake when they say they are happy for people's success. They feel bad about not having that sucess.

I think INFPs struggle in the same way INFJs do to really desire a deep connection with somebody, but maybe because we are so protective of our values and we are afraid do have our feelings disrespected we can keep some distance from people we don't know. That's why when someone likes us we get defensive and think "this person does not kno me enough to like me". However, this comes to another side when we find someone who really understands us, who really enjoy. If we are not healthy, we become needy. But I do believe we can work together. Infj can help us leave our dream world and see how life is beautiful right now. And I also feel like they respect our feelings like nobody else does, I say that because my best friend is an INFJ. Maybe you guys don't understand why Everything is either the end of the world or the best thing ever for us, but are open and prone to share these spectrums with us. I think this is lovely.

I am an INFP. Ever since I was little, I really disliked judging people. I believe that everyone has their own uniqueness. Anything that has the potential to hurt others, I avoid it. It took me some time, I found a best friend, who is my husband now and he is INFJ. We also were young when we met. I learned that we mostly had issues when it came to a friend of ours who very was toxic. I still attempted to get along with this person, but my husband made me realize just how messed up this friend was. I think I give people too much of an easy time, but luckily he makes me aware when I should draw the line. Because a lot of people hurt me in my life and the funny thing is whatever is hurting me, I can tell it is definitely hurting him as well! It’s like we share the same feelings. 😊

my boyfriend is an infj and he literally made me feel so alone and isolated because he never used to express himself. god dammnit yall need to speak the fuck up. so happy he actually talks to me more now. but in the beggining it was hard like you said. i broke up with him twice in the begginging because i coulnt handle the disconect

@Bob5445484864848sdfs

5 жыл бұрын

i am an e/infp. and we are so lit. also i was horrible and smothering to him. looking back i definitely dumped all my emotions on him oops. he calms my crack head crazy self down a lot. ironically he made me better at communicating because i am naturally passive agressive. but i also feel i make his life spicy because i have a wild side.

@revitalvojdani1255

3 жыл бұрын

How’d he start expressing himself 😭 im going thru something rly similar I’ve loved this guy for years (infj) sometimes out of the blue he shows his feelings to me and it makes me so happy but it never lasts long :( but There’s no one like him 😩

Thank you so much! Sending this over to my girlfriend is an INFJ. This video layout and your INFJ story has also offered me more insight as an INFP -- I sense a super relatable experience, finding my love in witnessing the INFJ, being and expressing themselves, inspiring my extraverted functions as well. Overall, my girlfriend and I are in a stage of moving out of the early enmeshment and remembering our own authentic nature, and this video offered some more clarity for what feels like our current stage. I also find it interesting what you said about not going into the nostalgia with her, and I am wondering why that is (sensitivity to depression?), as I imagine that she would appreciate going into your own nostalgia with you. And, I hope you allow yourself time to be sad when there is that emotion. I must say, just because you visited another's nostalgia and once felt stuck in it, it does not mean you'll get stuck in your own emotion, especially when paying attention to intrinsic discernment. What I say to everyone, let yourself move through your emotions, including your sadness, fully, as you will eventually find a light at the end of the tunnel, in a more enjoyable way if you do not resist your own sad emotion ~ Bless ~

This came at a time when I really, really needed it. Thank you again, Wenzes! Your last video on the subject helped me then, and this newest one is helping me tremendously now. It actually lead to a sort of breakthrough in my emotions and thoughts just now, which felt like a fucking relief to share with someone dear to me. It's nearly 4 AM, but I really can't express how grateful I am for the guidance you provide in your videos for INFJs! Thank you!

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

WoohooN glad to read that Anita! Thanks for your feedback 😊👍

I used to have a major issue with pride, or even the concept of it in general. Perhaps due to a religious upbringing. However, when considering ''healing'' as being able to get in touch with the opposite of something you have in abundance, but yet is causing suffering, that's when something changed in me, simply when looking up antonyms in a dictionary. Pride is an opposite of shame, which tons of INFx's can have immense trouble with. Pride can be good! Pride can heal shame.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

This video is so deep. Im an INFP and have had a similar experience with an INFJ but i really didnt like how they conformed to my world. I always wanted him to have identity and know who he is and what he felt. Unfortunately the friendship ended because he just couldnt be with me without sinking into my emotional intensity. Sucks!

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

hopefully with time he will learn to stick more to his own identity...very important in a healthy INFP/ INFJ relationship in my experience...

Wow, as an INFJ with INFP friends/relationships, this is on point. Thank you for this.

Infp here. Cool video. Thanks for making it. It was illuminating. Have a cool day. Peace.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!! Glad you liked it! 😊

My daughter is an INFP, and so much of what you said rings true.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

😊, thanks Sophie! Glad you liked it

Wow - such good insight and awareness. Love hearing those insights.

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Glad they resonate with you 😊 thanks for your feedback 😃

it always helps listening to others sharing similar life experiences... just wish we had u-tube back in the day it would have saved me the trouble learning these things the hard way... but at least I can hand it down to this generation... I will Reck amend your channel to others in my life that can benefit from your experiences... thank you!

INFP here, great stuff....SUB, son!

I really really found this interesting and a practical help for me. My relationship with an INFP broke down a little bit and I can relate to so much here.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful 👍😊

That’s the thing with infps..., they judge based on there own values, but what they don’t realize is that others may genuinely feel a different way than a infp.

@oa1815

3 жыл бұрын

erm... no, we do know that. infp’s are just really attached to their own value system because they spend their live building it. we’re also really hard to convince so we stick to our own beliefs and values but we’re very much aware people think differently!!

Wow this is crazy. This sounds very similar to me and my bfs relationship. I'm the infp he's infj. We were friends for a long time though I was in love with him, but he rejected me even though he said he loved me. It's crazy to hear someone else have the same experience. I want us to both have that more extroverted relationship you talked about. He's still kind of reserved on some things and I guess I am too. Probably me more so.

After watching this I just ended a relationship with a really close friend. I felt like a dog trying to hold onto a friendship where I was putting so much effort into building a connection. There was no reciprocity and decided it wasn't worth the energy anymore. I wish the friendship could've worked out but she just didn't care so and watching this made me realize; I don't either.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

Sorry you had to go through this Khalil, but you are doing the right thing if the friendship wasn't mutually beneficial.

I am great friends with an INFJ, and I'm an INFP. She is going through something I've been through, and even though she's not as far as I am in the experience, she's been amazing. I am trying to also help her, and I think I am. She and I definitely are different, and we do have different values and we seem to have been able to express those without any damage. I feel I know her, but we've never met in person. We met through art. INFP also have a hard time revealing who they are to others, and somehow the fact we haven't personally met may be a good thing? We do have the understanding we will fade at times, yet if we are in crisis we have someone who will relate to what we are going through. She is much younger than me, but I am afraid she is stuck and it's very damaging to her. She knows it too, because she has told me. Do I go out and risk maybe damaging our relationship by being actually present? Do I maintain this distance and just wait? Sometimes I feel she gives more than she gets out of our friendship, how can I show her my appreciation. I really am going through something terrible, but I don't want to get so wrapped up in me that she feels undervalued in some way. Why is this so utterly difficult? Thank you for this video. I appreciate the time you put into it, and it helped me see a dynamic of our friendship I'd not before really thought about.

im an infp and there's this one infj pursuing me. I rejected her 3 months ago for the reason i don't wanna hurt her since im not in a good place and is not ready to commit. I thought she alr moved on, but these past few nights she started talking to me again. Throwing interesting topics, until last night she asked me if i like her and she wanted me to be honest. I swear to God, she's so straight to the point that i hate it at the same time luv it. But idk if giving us a chance is a good choice. Im not mentally stable , even financially . If i would enter a relationship i wanna be ready and give all out. But im conflicted. I like her by my past keep strangling me so i really don't know what to do.

@user-qu2hg8fi9o

3 жыл бұрын

Pleaseee I don't think you can find someone like her, don't lose her, you can be honest and tell her you're not ready now but stay friends and talk because it's so precious

@shedidmakethispotatohappy1147

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-qu2hg8fi9o right. I don't wanna lose this person and I'm not planning to cut her out of my life. Im tired running away from my own feelings too. But if the day where she wanted to just cut me off in order for her to move on, i would respect it whole-heartedly. She deserved the world, and i think all i could give her is a lil part of my own so she's better off me. Im not in a good shape to enter a relationship right now, so i will just wish her a good life and healthy life.

@user-qu2hg8fi9o

3 жыл бұрын

@@shedidmakethispotatohappy1147 but at least have a talk about it, maybe she's ready to wait for you, don't make her think like you just want her, tell her I'm just not ready that's why I want you to move on and I think she may tell you that she'll stay until you're ready

Myers briggs test helped me find myself. A huge blessing to humanity

Me and Infj friend/boss are both pretty mature, still room for learning about each other’s strategies and it is the application of such that we might disagree, I think it is also her inferior Se that makes her slow in making necessary decisions but which time the damage was done. I’d say that was a criticism at work. However she has produced a great working environment, I value and trust her so much, we just have little misunderstandings, I think she gets frustrated that I don’t always get what she means and it’s not because I’m not trying and I also don’t try to pretend to know her thought process but I try, sometimes just listening and using reflective mirroring helps to validate her. I’ve learnt a lot from her Fe. I can never be mad at her and because I value her so much, I want to turn misunderstandings into points of learning. We’re different but we have similar energy levels and interests.

i love her

This is my new favourite friendship story. Infjs made me believe in myself and like myself, I'd be lost without you guys! This is all so true, Ne is really what makes me most happy :D and pride does feel like a sin. We don't even realise that Fe exist most of the time, lol. I learned a lot from Infjs about Fe, though and I'm gratefull for that. I really like pride now. I wished my INFJ-friends knew this stuff, though. They don't stop doing soo much for me and as a needy, self-focused person I don't stop taking advantage of them. I wished they would fight for their own needs more. One of them doesn't even know who she is, who she wants to be and what she likes. She envies me for that. I wished I could help her, I do think she's capable to create her own thing as she calls it. That makes me sad. If she'd understand english better, I'd show her your channel. Do you have any advice?

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

Try to push her to live more in the moment and then actually start expressing herself...even if it isn‘t for long encourage her to decorate her house, focus on fashion and expressing herself through music...the music that makes her feel alive and strong, she doesn’t even have to share it with you necessarily but she has to live in the music..👍👍 she is lucky to have a friend like you!

@jamiedyer7782

5 жыл бұрын

I'm INFJ and I was in the same situation and still am to an extent. As I grew through my late teens and early twenties I really struggled, I withdrew from my friends a lot as I became to want to move forward in my life and they didn't, I then moved from wales to england which made things more difficult. The most important thing I think for us INFJ is to keep getting involved socially as much as we can even if it fails, and to be aware of when we withdraw from people and to not let ourselves fool ourselves into blaming the people for our withdrawal, when it is almost always us! We want deep meaningful relationships but often don't realise the problem with not having any relationships at all when deep ones aren't possible! The thing I would want most from a friend, is just somebody who thinks of me, wants to spend time with me and generally makes an effort. Beyond that I would love to have some more deep/close relationships, but otherwise somebody who keeps communicating and making an effort with me, that goes a long way. It took me years to realise what I want and what I want to do but I am on a path now and have concrete goals. I love music so I'm planning some festivals now since I realised clubbing isn't my scene. I like reading and researching and spending time with the family. I love motorbikes now. I'm going to become a plumber now since I have now realised I work extremely hard and efficiently when I am on my own. I wanted to be a therapist but after working and building using my hands and my mind together I have realised how much I enjoy it and have begun to accept that I can actually help people this way too, just by being the best I can. I have a motto now too which is "this too shall pass" it has its own meanings to be being that each moment passes by in life, so make the most of the good ones, and when you are having a bad moment, remember it won't last forever and soon another good moment will come. It's easy to let life and our circumstances get in the way, sometimes you just have to take some steps backwards and take a pause to think about what you want and what you're doing, if you could be doing something more suited to help you progress further.

Great video Wenzes! You mentioned that you don’t get offended when your INFP friend asks “Why do do care about ....”. What was that process like to get to that point for you to not feel offended and realized that’s y’all ate just different? Intellectually I get it but in the moment I still feel like the other person is attacking me.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Brittany, the biggest difference for me was that I actually did more and more things that made me proud of myself...and I connected with who appreciated the way I wanted to be (i stopped trying to understand, I just did things impulsively) and I told everybody around me to stop telling me what they think is right or wrong, I just snapped. They learned to leave me alone...it‘s okay if somebody doesn‘t approve with what I am doing but they should keep it to themselves...just tell whoever is judging you: you don‘t wanna here it and if that means you can‘t be friends anymore (or for a while) so be it

@DearYoungerSelf111

5 жыл бұрын

Got it 😊

@DearYoungerSelf111

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

Great video really helpful I have a infj best friend I'm an infp I think I'm completely crazy about her I've been wanting a relationship for quite a while so I go on dates but I've found out I'm simply not interested in anyone else because well.... they're not her this has been going on for a year or so I don't know what to do

@marcusappelberg369

8 ай бұрын

Did the situation change?

Your nails are gorgeous

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

My experience also with INFPs.

I have a question my mom claims she is an infj I am an infp so when I get extremely emotional my mom has never reached, out never said what’s wrong , are you okay. She doesn’t really speak about emotions at all and if I would cry in front of her she would give me judgmental looks or look overwhelmed like she didn’t know what to say. The few times when I have reached out to her with all the pain and emotions I am feeling it would be a very brief conversation like 5 minutes. I’m not sure do you think she is a T instead of F cause she doesn’t really embrace emotions in this family at all...

@daominhthang5383

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe she is an INTJ, mistyping is very common.

@ErikAdalbertvanNagel

3 жыл бұрын

Or she's a sociopath, personality type is not an answer to everytging.

@eddanecki6177

Жыл бұрын

As you describe your mom, to me, she doesn't seem to manifest the characteristics of an actual INFJ.

I'm not an INFJ here, but I understand why yall hate being told what to do or how to think. One question I have, however, is about what happens when people correct INFJs on problematic behavior. For example, I knew this one INFJ who constantly said racial and homophobic slurs (he was white and straight btw), but to him they were just words and he as a person could say whatever he wanted. And he got irritated when this guy in our class, who was gay, told him that it was disrespectful and extremely hurtful to himself and other people to hear him say those slurs and told him to stop. What does this mean then when opinions and perceptions of an INFJ prevent them from correcting this type of ignorant behavior?

@stuffofmexx6077

2 жыл бұрын

Hello. I depends on the INFJ and their character. Some INFJs are very intellectual and they will not agree with you unless the justification that you give them is compatible with their reasoning. Some INFJs are more feeling, so they will try to be more understand and less disruptive in the moment. But if you leave the discussion open, and don't make it hostile, the INFJ may take the time to reflect on what you tell them or dicuss with them, and be kinder in the future.

Idk. I don't know anyone anymore. Isolation! Yay!

I just want to add in there may be a healthy infj and a healthy infp I'm currently stuck in an unhealthy infj and infp relationship Let me tell you something I cannot grow I'm too worried about making the infj happy To where I sacrifice everything God bless anyone in my shoes

Nope. It didn't help me a bit! lol But that's OK. I found it very interesting. I turned on the closed caption and slowed the video to75%, and I hung on to every word, and I hit the thumbs up button. I have reason to have an interest in INFP/INFJ relationships. So, why didn't this video help me? Because it's the polar opposite of my circumstances. Many years ago, I (a male) was a VERY unhealthy INFJ. CRITICALLY unhealthy. It was an INFP female who saved me. (Take that any way you want.) She taught me a whole new way of feeling about myself and about the world. I had never even been aware that her ways of seeing things even existed. Her thoughts, feelings..., you know... her soul was extraordinarily beautiful to be. I wanted to emulate her, I wanted to be just like her. I could not be just like her no matter how hard I tried, though, but more than enough of it soaked in, and I healed very quickly, almost instantly (in the most important ways). It would be impossible for me to express the magnitude of gratefulness (etc.) that I feel for her. It wasn't until many years later that I realized that I was already like her in some ways all my life, but those ways were smothered in me by anger, depression, bitterness. She wiped away that dense fog so that those ways of her's of viewing the world - that I didn't know I possessed - came to light - I saw that I had some of them, too. She never tried to change me (that I'm aware of), she never gave me lessons or lectured me. I just learned by observing her. When I try to tell her about the immensely profound effect she's had on my life, she just doesn't get it. (My God, how I wish I could get it across to her!) She didn't "DO" anything. She was just being herself. I can sit here and tell you exactly what things she did and said to affect me the way she did, So although I don't NEED to understand how the cognitive functions played a role in it, I would find it very interesting to know.

Wenzes, you need an ENXP in your life.

@Wenzes

5 жыл бұрын

I have a lovely ENFP and a loveley ENTP friend as well 😊!!! Enrich my life immensly 😀

I am an INFP and I relate to most of the traits in descriptors. However I don't believe you don't share publicly, nor do I think doing so is virtue signalling or narcissism. In particular, many INFPs are writers or.artists, and without an audience to read or view, these mean nothing IMHO.

Fi absorbs Fe.

💙

As socionics 4-D model notes INFPs are strong at Fe (3/4 D.) But they only value Fe 1/4 D. So are extremely uncaring about other's feelings. Unless they have a good Fi (4/4 D) value system that indirectly casts a good Fe shadow on the wall.

@Violet_Odorata

4 ай бұрын

Fi built on Ti is the dream

You're HOT.

@Wenzes

4 жыл бұрын

😎😏😍

You are not an INFJ.

@peacenquiet77

3 жыл бұрын

I’m picking up an ENFJ vibe😊

@mattm.5436

3 жыл бұрын

Lisa Durand I'm picking up an attitude vibe from her. Its not very INFJ.

Word salads and gobbelydygook. But cute face