I watched your videos during my pregnancy. My son will be 2 months on Saturday and I must say I tried everything lol. Every way they say can help induce at home did absolutely nothing. Waiting it out was the only way. Water broke at home at 39+1 labor only lasted 30 minutes and I pushed for 10 seconds. No tears, no complications, no pain afterwards, no stitches. Was walking around immediately after. Went down to preprgnancy weight immediately. Im happy I did as much research and breathing practices as I could. Nurses kept saying they couldn't believe it was my first kid. A lot of it I give thanks to you for your videos. 💙 edit: My nurses were amazing. They caught my baby lol, doctor was too slow. They were friendly, made me feel comfortable, helped my husband get over the fear of holding him, my husband doesn't like blood and stuff but they had him in there so comfortable he helped pull him out, the nurses took a bunch of pictures of us and him cutting the cord it was a fantastic experience. I made sure to tell them what I needed and they were happy to do it.

@jayveemanacap2514

3 жыл бұрын

Wow! That was really inspiring💓 I hope I'll experience the same as yours.

@herfoundjoy

3 жыл бұрын

Wow that’s amazing, congratulations! 🎊 what did you do?!

@1432amer

3 жыл бұрын

This is amazing. What did you do for a short labour?

@DEFW21

3 жыл бұрын

That is amaaazziiing I'm 37 weeks now and would love a similar experience 😭🙏

@kpal19

3 жыл бұрын

Wow amazing, how on earth did you get back to your prepregnancy wait immediately after :O I was 47 KG at 3 months pregnant now I'm 64 kg at 38 weeks help!

Currently 7months preggy. Watching your videos had become my addiction! I guess I'm ready anytime of the day on my labor day✨ thankyouuu 💖

Thank you for this series!! I am being induced on Friday, and I feel so much more comfortable after watching and learning from you.

@tzapp2372

3 жыл бұрын

How did it go

@estherabdalha1722

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations how did it go?

My Ob wanted to induce me at 37+0 weeks, because I have cholestasis. However, my bile acid levels are *barely* over the normal threshold. It took some research on my part, but I learned that the stillbirth rate for me was barely higher than for normal pregnancies (about 1/8 of a percent). I talked it through with my Ob, and we decided to induce at 39+0 weeks, unless my bile acid levels substantially increase or there are other indications of fetal distress, before then. For reference, for those who don't know, *severe* cholestasis can increase the chances of stillbirth (from sudden heart failure) by anywhere from ten- to thirty-fold, so the disease itself is nothing to sneeze at.

I always like before even watching, I'm not even pregnant yet (soon maybe?) but I'm watching these to get more information 💖

Youre the best bridget! Thanks for all the infos.. ❤

Could you please make a video on how to deliver OP (posterior) babies comfortably. I am 38 weeks and this baby has decided to stay posterior despite all the recommended exercises that I have tried :( I am just going to accept it and hoping for an easy birth and not breaking my back in the process! Thanks so much Love your videos!

I was induced Thursday morning, 24 hour peasary! Told I was dilated 2cm and ready for water breaks.. all Friday waited in the queue.. they checked me Saturday 2am to say they made a mistake I’m only 1cm so I had the 6 hour gel and then 6 jour tablet. I got contractions on and off - like period pains!!! Might of been a bit worse so they gave me paracetamol and a liquid to drink. I then slept the night..Sunday night broke my waters and I gave birth in less than 3 hours… the pains were unbearable as the gas and air I felt were not working… but overall the waiting around in hospital was more depressing than the induction.. I was in hospital 6 days.. but glad the labour was fast!! My gas and air was through a mask which is why it didn’t work effectively.. before it was through a pipe!!

I'm in my 29th week and was diagnosed with gestational diabetes. I noticed many gd patients end up induced. Do you have any videos on gestational diabetes and labor?

Cliff notes: 1. Be informed 2. If not a medical necessity, don't feel pressured to do it 3. Voice concerns, advocate for yourself 4. Don't worry about stepping on care providers' toes. This is YOUR EXPERIENCE. 5. Create game plan (birth preferences) ; be flexible Watch full video for explanations :)

@Dascorpion_Belleza

Жыл бұрын

I don't have to watch it now. These are the things that I already know. Lol. Thank you!

I’m approaching 41 weeks and just feel like I’ll have to get induced but I wanted to do an unmediated birth 😭 I feel so discouraged

God bless your soul!! You are truly phenomenal...😍😘😍😘😍...i have really felt empowered and prepared for my unborn toto...

My sister had a traumatic experience in the hospital…unnecessary intervention after intervention cascading into a c-section for an otherwise perfect pregnancy and healthy mom and baby! But my sister hadn’t done her research and was just “trusting” that the hospital would take care of everything…she was traumatized by her experience and we are praying for her physical and emotional recovery.

I'm being induced tomorrow! Thank you for this video!

@sufiyaazeez7558

3 жыл бұрын

Hi! How was your induction?

@tarahzarrabi8550

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on you baby

Hands down my favorite on KZread. At this point you’re the god mom 😂

I love your videos! Thank you!

You rock! Just pure Awesome to encourage woman to choose the way that they feel the most empowered! 🥳🥳

Can you make a similar video for a scheduled C-section? I was diagnosed with a low-lying placenta and I got terrified when the doctor mentioned it might be advisable... I was looking forward to vaginal birth, getting informed, and preparing the best way I can. But if the situation doesn't change, it appears that the risks are very high, and it seems to be the only choice. There is still a long way and things might change, but it's already giving me a lot of anxiety. In addition, all the information I find on the internet appears to try to discourage people from choosing a C-section because often they are afraid of a vaginal delivery, not the other way around... I know that in your course you mentioned that there are cases it's advisable, and we should be grateful for the option to exist, but there is limited information on how to prepare for that. I would also like to know how a Doula can help in those circumstances... Thanks a lot for all the info you have on your channel!

I'm 39 weeks my nurse wanted to strip my membranes lastnight but I was like give me a week and I'll start working on trying to get the ball rolling. I feel so unprepared physically but at the same time I'm like the time is here and I have to be ready!

Currently binge watching all these and other videos 6 days before my induction

@Sophiastillwell33

2 жыл бұрын

Same here how did it go?

@naturalhead_1931

3 ай бұрын

Currently with 6 days left

Huge thank you! My little girl is 4 months now and your videos were so helpful!! I had an empowered induced labour with an epidural! It wasn't what I had planned but it was still empowering! I highly recommend midwife care! My midwife was a huge part of how well my labor went❤

#4 is a big one. I couldn’t agree more

Getting induced today don't have a game plan lol but as long as baby is healthy and happy 🥰

@DEFW21

3 жыл бұрын

Good luck mama, hope it all went well!

@stephaniesunshine6523

3 жыл бұрын

@@DEFW21 it did thank-you! I mean after 20 hours of labor only to have a c-section he's still healthy and happy !

thank u for this video because I was induced with my first baby and they RUSHED it. I only pushed like 5 times and then they just vaccumed her out . didnt even let my hubby cut the umbilical cord it was annoying

I’m binge watching your videos as I’m due December and still nervous about birthing. After watching numerous of your videos I changed my mind on getting epidural but I’m a fainter and still always horrified with the thought of fainting during delivery.My ob/gyn said it should be fine(I don’t know how she can say that😅)but I’m Not really convinced by her assurance. Great videos btw! Helped me understand a lot of things. xx

@meganfryer2444

3 жыл бұрын

How did it go?!?!

@sumayyahnash

Жыл бұрын

How did it go?

It's VERY HARD to talk at a certain point in labor. I know it was hard for be to get words from my mind to my mouth.

I feel like medically I need an induction because I have a heart problem but I feel by current modern society, pressured that I should feel disappointed if I didn't naturally go into labor.

Scheduling my induction tomorrow! Thankyou

You are saviour. God bless you always.. keep up this work

Got induced yesterday and I'm still in the hospital, it's the worst experience of my life, even with epidural nothing is easy. My cervix is still not opening up even 1cm with 3 medications since I'm here. Doctors are trying to insert the balloon process to open my cervix with no progress at all. Just extreme pain. Please please please don't go for this process unless it's extremely urgent and necessary. I'm going through hell and I don't want anyone to go through it. Please consider your opinions.

@victoriahuyck4949

3 жыл бұрын

How did it go for you? I'm so sorry it has been so difficult.

@yuridiabarrera8559

3 жыл бұрын

How was it hun? I’m at the hospital now and I’m so much pain

@sierrasmith1813

3 жыл бұрын

I get that you’re in pain and I’m so sorry your labor and delivery is super hard for you. Thank you for spreading awareness, but you should word that a bit better. Just because you had a bad experience doesn’t mean everyone will, this comment is potentially harmful for new moms who are getting induced. You could potentially scare them. As a new mom I may have to be induced and that have me a ton of anxiety.

@VBTahaOfficial

3 жыл бұрын

Then u should timely go for a c section..

@jessicazhanebrown

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry that sounds awful! I was induced with my first at 36 weeks and everything went smoothly for me. I then had my 2nd and 3rd child naturally they came on their own. I am now pregnant with baby 4 and almost 39 weeks pregnant hoping my baby comes on her own if not I may consider induction. Even though I hate it because the contractions are ten times worse.

Being induced on Saturday week 37 due to hypertension and large baby! Terrified and anxious, but glad they are doing this since he’s already 8 pounds.

@k.pep.1253

Жыл бұрын

How much did your lil guy weight at birth?

@karmabrown4635

Жыл бұрын

How did it go. I am 37 weeks and in hospital going through the ripening of my cervix ready to have my waters broken. I have to be induced as my baby has stopped growing. How did it all go for you? I'm so scared

@gamingdober1602

Жыл бұрын

@@karmabrown4635 it was painful I had him get stuck for 4 hours because of his size and they had to vacuum him and cut me 3rd degree. I was already 5cm dilated when I went in though.

Where do you get your tshirts??

What is frustrating to me, is the legalities surround inductions. In my state, the cut off date is 42 weeks. Once you hit that mark, you have to go into the hospital to be induced. I'm working with my midwives to avoid this, but am currently 41+1 days and not really having a whole lot of signs of labor. These laws make it feel like we have to rush and like the decision to induce is ultimately not our own.

@kathfarf1129

2 жыл бұрын

i understand completely! i live in Greece and if you can believe it most doctors by 40 weeks try and scare you into getting induced! and most women aren't well informed and listen! i found a doctor who is willing to wait maximum 41 weeks and 4-5 days... if you want to give birth here after 42 weeks you definitely need to find a doctor/doula who believes in waiting or have a home birth.. but it is still rare!!

@jessical7452

2 жыл бұрын

This was my situation. I was induced with my daughter at 41+5 bc they don’t allow you to go over 42 weeks. It wasn’t pleasant!

@tryphenarose384

2 жыл бұрын

@@jessical7452 Awe sorry to hear that sweetie! ☹️ Yes, it is horrible. I was induced as well, but with the midwives brew under my midwives supervision. It definitely started contractions for me. I also had my water broken. Overall I had the most amazing birth experience! Giving birth to my son was hands down one of the best experiences of my life. And without an epidural (as with birthing centers you have to commit to it). Totally recommend midwives over hospitals any day, unless you have a true emergency.

@coutureitup

2 жыл бұрын

They aren’t laws. It’s just their protocol. You can decline as long as you want. They aren’t “law” lol.

@tryphenarose384

2 жыл бұрын

@@coutureitup That's exactly how my midwife explained it to me. She did not say it was their protocol, but legally they could not let me go past 42 weeks. Otherwise they would.

Is age really a medical reason? I’m 41 and I’m having a healthy pregnancy do I really need it?

wow these videos are incredibly powerful, wish i kept on watching them right up until 5 days ago when i felt like i was going into labor but the contractions were just not close enough together.. :( this is a good chance for me to learn by watching Bridgets videos :)

Am 39 weeks now I try castor oil but nothing happens

My first child's birth was a negative experience and although i feel more prepared this time around and feel better about my provider i still have alot of anxiety. Do you have any advice on dealing with anxiety during labor? Also is having a small pelvis and a history of babys head getting stuck a medical reason to induce labor?

I just had the WORST hospital induction experience yesterday. And all for no reason. Didn’t even need to be induced and my cervix would not open. They tried to put the pill inside me, twice. Nothing worked. Then my “lovely” nurse took her fingers and scraped the inside of me for whatever reason- inside and behind my closed cervix which caused me to gush blood and scream in pain, and sob hysterically. My husband and I were then discharged and told “come back Monday” ... I am traumatized already. I feel so upset

@tkio

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear it 😔 I hope everything well okay after that. It’s horrible to go through so much trauma. Sending you and your little one my best wishes 💕

@sscc6853

2 жыл бұрын

Woooow. I'm scheduled for induction next week. I'm 38 weeks now. And I ve been reading nothing but horrible experiences online. Why do doctors push for induction s when not medically nessesary. And fail to inform form you of the negative that's common to happen . I'm so srry for you bad experience. That's aweful

@jessicarae1924

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my, that sounds horrible! You have the right ti be upset and more!! That is so violating!! I hope you have been able to heal and enjoy your beautiful new baby!

@Pammie143

Жыл бұрын

That sounds like she done a stretch and sweep? How are you now? I hope you and baby are well. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Sometimes I feel these CARE givers forget the human aspect of things.

@letsgoalready5515

Жыл бұрын

I am even more scared now… what an evil nurse!!

First time mom here, I am currently 39 weeks and 5 days pregnant and I am scheduled to get induced on my due date, July 31st when I’ll make 40 weeks. My doctor said this is best because my blood pressures keeps climbing and honestly it’s what I want as well but I’m trying my best not to panic because I don’t know truly what to expect. I hope my body takes well to the medicine and that everything turns out fine.

@tanyapelkonen7461

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Nikeya, wish you the best! Please let me know how it goes. My due date is August 3rd and the same problem with the blood pressure. It’s climbing:( My OB wanted induces me last week but I rejected it, however, considering high blood pressure now, asymmetrical baby development and IVF pregnancy, I become prone to think about induction.

@yomama1896

2 жыл бұрын

How did it go? I’m 40 weeks today and have an appt with my midwife later .. they’re also saying my bp keeps creeping up and with protein in my urine I’m sure they’ll want to induce me

@nikeyawashington6521

2 жыл бұрын

@@yomama1896 it went really well actually. I got an epidural, it helped with the pain and I had my daughter the next day, so quick labor process as well. You will be fine. I realized I was scared for nothing. Congrats as well love ❤️❤️😊

@lillyq361

2 жыл бұрын

I get induced on Monday with my first baby. It will be week 40 for me. I honestly don't know why im being induced. I haven't had any issues with my vitals, nor do I have health issues. I want to make sure that the baby and I will be safe.

@shwetar5024

2 жыл бұрын

I'm getting induced today and it's hard to not be nervous

Hye! I am going for birth in last week of March,and i have previously 2 c sections,now i want a norml birth after 2 year and 5 month of last c.section,plz guid me what i should do and what not

@regina2152

3 жыл бұрын

I'm due mid March too with also two c sections before. I know I won't let them invade too early and I will stay as long as possible at home until it's really time to go to the hospital. My doula helps me a lot and told me I can do it and let the body do it.. The baby will come when it's ready. Dont do or let anyone rush you

I've had minor pcod problem so my period was irregular and now I am soooo confused about my due date, can someone help me??

@ThaoLe-lk5ye

3 жыл бұрын

Hi! I'd say your best bet is to wait till your first scan where they will measure the baby and confirm your edd. Your last period is just for the health professionals to work out the edd which they will still confirm after the scan. My edd was a week before the health professionals calculation. Hope this helps and congratulations x

My doctor attempted to induce me at 37 weeks for high blood pressure. Which i don't have. They monitored my blood pressure continuously at the hospital for 24 hours and if anything it was reading a little low at times. But for reasons unbeknownst to me the doctor kept insisting that we continue. They tried several different methods to get me to dilate and for my cervix to soften. None of them worked. After about 24 hours i couldn't take it anymore. I could tell my baby was uncomfortable and unhappy and so was i. My husband and i opted to go back home. It was a horrible horrible experience for literally no reason. Wish i wouldn't have agreed to it.

@nikkiyeaaah

2 жыл бұрын

hi im in the same situation. did you already give birth? how are you and your baby?

@alexisblair7798

2 жыл бұрын

@@nikkiyeaaah hi, yes i already gave birth...at 40+2... blood pressure was not an issue at all

@alexisblair7798

2 жыл бұрын

@@nikkiyeaaah were doing great!...thanks for asking!

@nikkiyeaaah

2 жыл бұрын

did baby come naturally or did you get induced in the end? im scared to decline my induction because the doctor said i have high blood pressure

@alexisblair7798

2 жыл бұрын

@@nikkiyeaaah i got induced. It didnt take as long this time because i was full term. Was in labor for about 15 hours. I think you should just get second opinion about blood pressure..and ask if they'll use different size cuffs...(the one they were using on me was too small)...and also give yourself time to relax before they measure it..just like 2 minutes or so. If after all of that youre still measuring high, i would go ahead with what your doctor says....one more thing that made me question it was that i had ZERO swelling anywhere...and no headaches or other symptoms..so id look out for that too

How is the pain

I'm eating dates, and I've ate so many, they are so sweet that my tongue is starting to tingle...

Can u get induced if baby’s head has not engaged?

My induction experience was unpleasant. I do not wanna go through it again. It was 17 days ago and I still remember how it felt.

@sierrasmith1813

3 жыл бұрын

What happened? 🥺

@salishheights2320

3 жыл бұрын

I had to be induced a year and a half ago for preeclampsia with my 3rd baby. It was a week before she was actually born, and then she ended up in the NICU for a few days to monitor her for some issues she had thanks to the meds I'd had to be on in the hospital. Induction is not a walk in the park. Hope you are enjoying those baby cuddles these days. Soak up every minute! I'm due with #4 in a few weeks and have some complications that I fear might lead to a (legitimately necessary) induction... again. 😭 I'm a homebirth loving mama, but sometimes some interventions are necessary. They have their impact, though. Just wanted to share, to let you know you aren't alone, and you aren't crazy. The trauma is real. I'm still working through it (double time, before this next babe!). If you're struggling, talk to someone, and keep on talking till you find the right someone. Best wishes to you and your new little one! 💕

@SP-ig3vs

2 жыл бұрын

My induction was the worst most painful of my life, ne er again!!!

@hollydaugherty2620

Жыл бұрын

Birth is unpleasant.

My doctor wants to induce me on April 15th. He made it sound like I have no choice and that it’s happening either way. He said unless I go into labor sooner then he’s doing the induction the 15th or sooner if he has an opening to bring me in. I’m honestly scared and not sure if it’s medically necessary for me and the baby. I’m not sure what to do.

@shridarling

Жыл бұрын

Just stay at home till natural birth ll 4 sm 😅 if it will happens after 15 April ...Sooo what to do?)

I wonder why the hell I am not able to start labor naturally. First and second labor were both induced due to no action at all at 41 weeks. The only thing I did naturally was miscarriage- but I waited for 2 weeks at home (doctors told me to wait one week and if nothing happens come to hospital. But I was waiting 2 weeks and miscarried naturally). But why can't I give a birth in natural way? That is so depressing, feeling less like a woman 😢

@shridarling

Жыл бұрын

You can, you need just wait longer.

I know this has nothing to do with this topic but do you have any advice to help baby with colic??? PLEASE!

@visualize_this0o

3 жыл бұрын

Baby magic tea or probiotics and bicycle kicks .

@DEFW21

3 жыл бұрын

Gripe water and Dr. Browns bottles!!!!

On the 3rd dose of cytotec now 😆

Wish I had seen this video before. I had a traumatic experience. I was told that my ultrasound shows that my baby is big in size about 3.9kgs in weight. And I need to get induced at 38 week and get the baby out asap. The doc put Foley catheter bulb thing in my vagina to get induction started. Then later I was put on oxytocin. I was in labour for total 12 hours. I was given epidural after 5hours of pain. My cervix didn't dilate more than 5cm and then I had to go for c section and later we found out that the baby isn't that big. Baby was 3.4kgs only. So, the whole thing was unnecessary and I had to go through the pain and later c section and then pain again for nothing.

@desertrose1003

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry for what you have been through Today I went to the hospital and they told me the same scinario, the doctor asked for induction next week at 37 weeks pregnancy and he told me that I don’t want to take any risk with me having diabetes, and the baby weighs 3,400 g now . I am really confused and afraid of what I will go through in the coming days

@destinyperez8265

2 жыл бұрын

@@desertrose1003 with GD you don’t have to deliver until 39 weeks and that’s if your on medication, if you have GD and have it under control and the baby is looking healthy do not do it! I was in the same position but baby was only around 6 pounds and I refused the induction because my doctor was trying to force me. I asked if the baby was healthy and the diabetes was under control with no medication why do I have to do it and she told me to find another doctor because I’m not a physician.

@alexisblair7798

2 жыл бұрын

My doctor attempted to induce me at 37 weeks for high blood pressure. Which i don't have. They monitored my blood pressure continuously at the hospital for 24 hours and if anything it was reading a little low at times. But for reasons unbeknownst to me the doctor kept insisting that we continue. They tried several different methods to get me to dilate and for my cervix to soften. None of them worked. After about 24 hours i couldn't take it anymore. I could tell my baby was uncomfortable and unhappy and so was i. My husband and i opted to go back home. It was a horrible horrible experience for literally no reason. Wish i wouldn't have agreed to it.

@AlexN0me11

Жыл бұрын

@@alexisblair7798 did you have a home birth instead or go back to the hospital later on?

@alexisblair7798

Жыл бұрын

@@AlexN0me11 I went back to hospital at 40+1.... Was in labor for 15 hours... Delivered vaginally.

Thoughts about induction at 39 weeks due to precipitous labor? Live over a half hour away from the hospital. Last labor was only 2.5 hours. We are worried about having a car baby.

@Niahsmommy23

2 жыл бұрын

Is homebirth an option for you?

Can you do a video about tips for a successful vbac?? Please!

@karaniqueskorner

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve had 4 VBACS after my 1st kid who was a C section. I think you should just follow as if you’re having your first vaginal. Nothing was different from having a vaginal birth because I had a c section.

@lesliemonterroza2200

3 жыл бұрын

@@karaniqueskorner did you go into labor on your own for the VBAC or were you induced ? I’m possibly being induced at 40 weeks if my blood pressure stays high. Aiming for a VBAC.

I always felt disempowered, and bossed around by Healthcare people, or family. Every single time.

@sscc6853

2 жыл бұрын

Same. My doctor suggested a induction that's not medically nessesary . Everytime asked a question, the had a positive answer and failed to inform me of what I feel based on my own research at home...are all negative COMMON things that come with having an induction. Only reason I woukd consider being induced is because I have quick labors (1 hr for 2 kids) and fear j won't make it to the hospital in time. Also, my husband works 1 hr & 10 mins from our home. So I would have to call an ambulance to go to the hospital . And lastly, because we moved to a new state & because of hospital covid policies of no children allowed, we have no one we trust to watch our kids. If I have a scheduled induction..i will make it to the hospital, can find a sitter we trust, and my husband can attend the birth. But based on my own research, I'm starting to second guess my decision, I hate that ismts so un natural, and starting to get very nervous with the idea of having one . I dknt understand why the doctors always fail to inform you of what coukd go wrong . Examples- longer mire painful labor, possible delay of breastmilk coming in after delivery, fetal distress & lower heart rate leading to a c-section, epidural s to manage intense pain when u really didn't want one, and the list goes on & on. And not dialating fast enough . Doesn't sound fun to me. My doctor wants to try to break my water ...and if that doesn't work..pitocian . Which I don't want. Torn on what's the best option for me.

@kels4754

2 жыл бұрын

@@sscc6853 are you currently pregnant? I'm due in January, and similarly, have faster labors, and a hubby who works an hour away...... so many factors to consider 😅

Ob wants to induce me because my age is 41, “advanced maternal age” He kinda scared me with statistics and said his only concern is safety of baby. I’m almost 40 weeks but I don’t want to be induced just because I’m older. Ugh, don’t know what to do.

@nahex2

3 жыл бұрын

What did you end up doing?

@brandi92y

3 жыл бұрын

@@nahex2 I ended up getting induced but the baby was sideways and so it turned into a c section... 😔

@Blackbarbie10452

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 45 with my first child and my ob doesn't want me to go beyond my due date which is this Friday. I'm scheduled to go to hospital for induction tomorrow. I'm nervous.

@brandi92y

3 жыл бұрын

@@Blackbarbie10452 just said a prayer for you… it will be over soon and you get to hold your sweet baby … I know it sucks trying to figure out what’s the right thing to do when the OB is scaring you into doing it. 🙏

@Sarah-qx4vz

2 жыл бұрын

Why did you wait so long to have a baby?

My doula didn't advocate for me like I hoped for.. she seems to advocate for my Dr's more. SHE KNEW I DIDN'T WANT THE BALLOON IN MY CERVIX AND SHE KNOWS I DONT WANT PITOCIN. But she hasn't stood for me at all. She was more into mentioning the balloon then anyone else, which now I feel I have no choice with now, nobody mentioned me having to get it, but SHE brought it up to the Dr's for me to get. I like having choices and options and my doula kinda took that away and should be written up even.. She didn't even step out of the room when I got my cervix checked at my last NST scan for some privacy 😒 ( as a sexual abuse survivor, that's important to me ) So. Im not sure if im going to be calling her when I'm in labor.. I'm so upset and disappointed, I expected better. I wanted a more gentle natural start to my induction and was clearly ignored.. I guess I can ask for another one but I only have 3 days left which doesn't really work. I'd rather just do it alone now...

@ashleycalderon327

2 жыл бұрын

Shame on her ! You are never alone !! You will be with millions of women around the world giving birth at the same time !!! Sending you love and prayers and an Easy labor, quick recovery & healthy baby & momma 💕

@meliamedaverman3558

2 жыл бұрын

Im learning that if no one stand up for me imma stand up for myself even if everyone against me.

@Swampy_Mama

10 ай бұрын

so called midwives who do not have children , how does this happen. how do you get to become a mid wife or doula witout going through the process? just not acceptable

❤❤👍

Due Sat 03/26 will be 40 weeks, my provider wants to induce me on the 29th, I feel pressured. I'm not even high risk. Trying to look up how to induce labor naturally.

@MaRiTrOniCpB

2 жыл бұрын

I'm scheduled on the 29th aswell! Hope you the best ! I Have to be induced , bc my baby has growth restriction :(

Yeah go in conformable lol I've had contractions for 7 day's now. I just turned 38 weeks and can't even get a membrane sweep because my dr is not in the office this week. If I have to wait till 39 weeks I'm just getting induced I'm sick of nonstop contractions every 5 minutes for a minute or more long. I hate this. Any advice other than sex walks and Castrol oil?

@mimiglenn6683

3 жыл бұрын

me too 😔 im scared ughhh

@stacymcgee5378

3 жыл бұрын

@@mimiglenn6683 it will be all okay hun thus is my 3rd baby and 1st time having this problem but we are born knowing how to deal with labor and delivery even if we don't know what we are doing. 8 days still contractions but I am waiting patiently for this boy. Don't like but I guess things happen sometimes.

@stacymcgee5378

3 жыл бұрын

@@mimiglenn6683 update hun had my baby on the 11th so he was 38 weeks and my water broke at 240am and I had him all natural by 129pm . You will be okay I ended up having contractions for a total of 10 days before actually going into active labor. Glad it's over though. 😌

@MJ-jq4kc

2 жыл бұрын

Castor oil is not a good idea. Everyone thinks it is, but that's just because it causes contractions, it doesn't dilate or efface you. You're stuck in the same loop.

My Dr. wants to induce me when it's not necessarily 🙄

@regina2152

3 жыл бұрын

Why. I Wouldn't allow them. It's still your decision

@sierrasmith1813

3 жыл бұрын

Mine wants to induce me at 41 weeks. I don’t know if it’s necessary, I’ve never had any health complications during this pregnancy but I’m not dilated at all 🥺 I cried just now praying she comes on her own because I wanna get induced if she doesn’t come by then but I just feel like such a bad mom.

@malorie8557

3 жыл бұрын

You are allowed to deny.

@malorie8557

3 жыл бұрын

@@sierrasmith1813 I'm being induced at 41.4 weeks. I wanted so badly for her to come on her own and while she is progressing (I am 4cm dilated) it's time. Pushing it any further will make me worry about the placenta and risk of csection. I hope it went well for you!

@lillyq361

2 жыл бұрын

You are not a bad mom. You want the best decision for you and your baby. I'm on the same boat

I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes. My sugar level ranges from 90-143. Now, I'm almost 40 weeks next week. My doctor want me to get induce. Nonetheless, I want to wait until 41 weeks. What do you recommend? Do induction lead to c section? I'm petrified to think about it.

@prinpat370

2 жыл бұрын

Are you on medication?

@prinpat370

2 жыл бұрын

I’m not a doctor but had GD (I’m sure at this point misdiagnosed as had no real sugar problems no other indicators baby was very normal size after term). If they put you on medication then it may cause the placenta to deteriorate by around 40 weeks, then induction or CS is necessary otherwise child will not have blood and nutrition supply. I refused medication and induction. I’m glad I did. Went into labour 40+6 on my own.

@prinpat370

2 жыл бұрын

Also depends how you are in your body, did you gain hefty amount of weight, is the baby estimated weight very large for gestation?

@yaniramarquez8036

2 жыл бұрын

Since it was detected last month my doctor didn't prescribed any medication. She asked me to check my blood and keep my levels low.

@yaniramarquez8036

2 жыл бұрын

@@prinpat370 according to them my baby is 7lbs and some ounces. So she's not too big.

Im feeling forced to induced at 38+3 as per doctor baby is small though healthy

@gigid06

Жыл бұрын

My exact issue right now... my baby is small but healthy do I really need to be induced? Very frustrating

I’m 38 weeks and really want to let my body go into spontaneous labor which I don’t expect to happen until 40-42 weeks. I’m very worried that if we induce and my body isn’t ready, my doctor may try to do a c section because it’s not happening fast enough for their made up timeline. This happened to my cousin just a few months ago and she is very traumatized by her birth. We tend to carry babies very late in my family.

@Jmarr16

Жыл бұрын

I am in this exact boat! 39 wks 1 day with scheduled induction at 40 wks. I know my body can do it I’m probably just not ready yet and need to go past 40 weeks, I don’t want to feel rushed so I’m going to ask my Dr about pushing back induction for another week if possible to see if I go natural. Hope you get your spontaneous labor!!

@Jillianrc

Жыл бұрын

@@Jmarr16 lol I saw this notification as I was in triage at the hospital. Just got home with my baby! Had her at 40+3. I was able to have spontaneous labor and zero interventions other than the epidural that was placed when I was at 9.5 cm because I progressed so quickly. I hope your labor goes well!

@anureetkaur6271

Жыл бұрын

Im 39 weeks and 4 days; first pregnancy and I thought I was comfy with induction but after my visit today I just want to wait. I was crying so much because im only 1cm dilated andI feel so discouraged. But a part of me feels like I can still do this on my own, why get impatient and why not wait to see where I can go naturally. Im feeling so conflicted because I’m feeling discouraged and being down on myself

In Mauritius here no doctor in Government Hospital value mamas voice. It's hard. Lots of love from Mauritius.

I’ve been watching you for about two years now ! You’re so genuine and seem so nice! You should post videos of your husband and little one so we can know who they are

Foley. Balloon. ???

I am now 39 weeks and 5 days pregnant, still no sign :( i tried pineapple, squat, more walking, primrose oil still im not on labor :((

@reniiiXD

3 жыл бұрын

Sex. Thats all..

@ccc-fd3ls

3 жыл бұрын

Same!!!

Why don’t you tell the truth about cytotec? I almost lost my life and my child’s life using that medication!! At the age of 22 I had to have my uterus and cervix removed, never could have another child and my baby suffered from seizures. Wasn’t our lives important????

@alohada86

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry girl are you attacking her here with your unfortunate & totally unrelated to the video story?

@suzescoo

2 жыл бұрын

Very true! Cytotec can be dangerous.

@suzescoo

2 жыл бұрын

@@alohada86 her comment is relevant as she mentions cytotec in her build to birth course under medicinal inductions 🙄 and it’s odd considering the danger of it that she doesn’t mention the risk like she does with Pitocin

Ephesians 3:20-21 New King James Version 20 Now (A)to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly (B)above all that we ask or think, (C)according to the power that works in us, 21 (D)to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

So it’s not okay so get induced if your already 41 weeks?? Should you give it the extra week? To 42?

@sierrasmith1813

3 жыл бұрын

I’m getting induced at 41. You can wait at 42 weeks! My doctor told me in his experience with pregnancies waiting never helped so I said yes to the induction date :/ Idk if I trust him

@AlexN0me11

Жыл бұрын

@@sierrasmith1813 how did it go for you?

@sierrasmith1813

Жыл бұрын

@@AlexN0me11 It went good! The contractions were a bit more painful and I laid down so long when they sat me up I almost passed out twice 😂 but I had the epidural and didn’t feel much up until pushing so it was a good experience!

At what point does the "birth story" take a back seat to a safe delivery for the mother and baby? This sounds like encouraging too much push back against advice of medical professionals who are trained in this field....

@elyse443

2 жыл бұрын

I think this is true. It’s almost like there is a belief that the doctors are all psychopaths who are out to harm women in birth.

@mielleharmon9358

2 жыл бұрын

When there’s medical proof that it needs to occur! Most medical professionals aren’t out to get you, but some are negligent. That’s why informed consent matters!

@judyannlubiano8493

2 жыл бұрын

If the interventions suggested are truly about safety, then it should be no problem for the health provider to explain the necessity. Otherwise, it’s imposing your will on another person when it’s not your body that will be taking in the brunt of the consequences and need recovery. There are negligent providers who put a premium on their own convenience over the autonomy of patients, maybe because childbirth is something they deal with on a daily basis and is not a big deal for them anymore. But for women, especially first time moms, it’s a very significant event and one that they would want to have good memories of, instead of the usual “horror stories” that we hear so much of as pregnant women.

@Pammie143

Жыл бұрын

Well. They are trained robots. While you are going through the experience first hand, there is also alot of intuition and instinct going on they do not have (although not all humans are tapped into this) So yes, some need guided by "the professionals"

I like these videos but you say "mama" ad nauseum and its starting to drive me nuts

@sscc6853

2 жыл бұрын

It's her style & personality. I don't mind it. And find her videos to be very helpful. Srry it bothers you.

@vitfrac1200

2 жыл бұрын

Agree. Is kind of annoying. Otherwise, the videos are amazing

I feel like my problem was number 4 PEOPLE PLEASER. I hate making people feel bad or saying no. But it should be something I’m comfortable with regardless of my doctors opinion Thank you for this reminder Currently 40weeks🤍

@meliamedaverman3558

2 жыл бұрын

I'm a people pleaser but for some reason since I got pregnant If i don't want my Dr to do certain things I won't allow.

@AlexN0me11

Жыл бұрын

How did it go for you?

@Its_mso

Жыл бұрын

@@AlexN0me11 hi! Ended up with an emergency csection but a healthy boy! So I’m thankful… He stopped breathing and had an infection after two days of labor. Overall I stood my ground on what I wanted until there was nothing else I could do

@AlexN0me11

Жыл бұрын

@@Its_mso thank you for responding and congrats on your baby boy! How many weeks and days had passed when your baby was born?

I am now 39 weeks and 5 days pregnant, still no sign :( i tried pineapple, squat, more walking, primrose oil still im not on labor :((

@jayveemanacap2514

3 жыл бұрын

You can do it supermom! Good luck and Godbless on your labor day

@RB-ru4el

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@icebearfit5211

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😣

@chukwuemekaglory7888

3 жыл бұрын

Same here 😭😭😭

@m04032010

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 😊