This is one of the most intelligent and mature guests you've ever hosted. I have really liked her reasoning especially when she acknowledges that the kids belong to both her and her ex. Yani she struck a serious balance in her studies, career and family life. Well done Mama!

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your feedback. I’m humbled.

Her wisdom and self actualization is on another level. I love her.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

I’m humbled, thanks.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much.

@elizabethndirangu6443

2 жыл бұрын

Mutahi ata wewe ni fan wa metha ya kagoni

@susanapollo284

2 жыл бұрын

And she is soooo beautiful

This is one of the best shows! It's time we stand up for ourselves, set our priorities right and not let others predict the future for us. It's time we broke the norm.

Thanks Carol you really open up minds for some people who always thinks children are for one parent

Wow! Wow! I applaud you Carol for representing women by speaking from your scars for a positive impact and not from your wounds for sympathy. I am happy to find a woman who have walked in my shoes and who think as I do. Children should indeed never be fought for beyond divorce. No parent is more parent than the other. " Love dies but respect should never be begged" You are phenomenal Carol!

This lady is full of wisdom and an inspiration to this generation.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

I’m humbled

What a wise woman is Carol. Thank you for sharing your story! May you continue to shine.

Carol you are just amazing and I pray all in abusive relationships will get to listen to this interview and take a positive step .Thank you so much Carol for sharing.

Beautiful lady with an amazing story. I like her progressive way of thinking & her determination to pursue her education to a high level & build a career despite the challenges. Keep soaring. Kudos 👏

Thank you for another fantastic interview

Best interview in this channel..This woman is phenomenal 👏🏾..time well spent

What an inspiring story. Thanks Monica for hosting Carol. She has a beauty that radiates great vibes! I admire her maturity in handling the complications that life brought her way and coming out triumphantly! She is an example of a woman who has defied the traditional norms that relegate women to 2nd and 3rd class in personal development. Bravo Carol.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much.

@janemburu8575

2 жыл бұрын

Most of our men don't appreciate the success of their spouses...does it intimidate them? Why?

@ritawanjiru8168

Жыл бұрын

@@carolinekolom5510 Hi Carol ,what an inspiring story! How can one reach you please

Very empowering interview. Moral lesson…know your worth ❤️

She has so much positivity and wisdom...I just want to hear her speak... I am only in minute 20 and I am so in love with her

Great interview with gems of wisdom. Inspirational.

Very encouraging....thanks Carol for speaking up !

One of the best interviews. Great lessons to women.

I always learn so much from you Carol whenever I listen to you.

Very eloquent,courageous,self driven & determined beautiful lady. May the Lord guide your steps always.

One of your best interviews Monica,intelligent,sober, confident Carol,thankyou for passing the right button to the women behind you👏👏👏,I am also glad that I ended my dysfunctional marriage

Such an inspirational story 👏 I like her determination and way of thinking. Lesson learnt: an empowered lady is in a better position to take control of their life. Ladies let's work hard to have an income and empower and mentor the young ladies who look up to us.

Great inspiration this woman is!! You have my admiration for your self assurance and wisdom!!

One of the best show,inspiring and educative.

Awesome n very inspirational interview thanks to both of you. Eye-opener

Lovable lady!!! Very encouraging and impactful. Congratulations Carol. I could not stop listening........ God bless you.

Courageous and strong gal. You are beautiful inside and outside. You stand high Carol. Learnt from you. ... Resilient

She's unstoppable to achieving her goals. The spirit I just needed. We love u mama. Keep going

I can listen to this every day... very inspiring 👏

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much.

@miriamwangui5037

2 жыл бұрын

@@carolinekolom5510 . Hmm

@Chings001

2 жыл бұрын

💯

Strong focused woman. Very inspiring. I love it

Carol you are EXTREMELY INSPIRING. God bless you. Keep rising! Keep shining!

Well said Carol. So inspiring to every woman especially those going thru abuse in their marriages. I admire your courage of coming out to speak. Well done Kagoni for bringing Carol to ",the table".

Such words of wisdom!! Carol you're a legend.

Lesson learnt, when you have a chance to do something,do it well.The genesis of her education is inspiring.Great lady you are.

carlo a very mature lady humble and very educated thanks monika for this show with a lot of insight always watching you from alabama usa

Carol, you're a great inspiration. You're full of God's wisdom. Very intelligent, knowledgeable and a role model to many. This is a great show.

Thank you carol for your story. It's such a bold and inspiring story,being a therapist here In Kenya high schools, most children are suffering from dysfunctional families

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Anne. I can only imagine. Based on my high sch experiences, school going children got loads of stuff to deal with. I would want to give you at least a few copies of my book for your school library. How do I reach you.

@nimowaweru6810

2 жыл бұрын

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@nimowaweru6810

2 жыл бұрын

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I would be the luckiest human being if I can have a cup of coffee with this phenomenal woman.. thanks for showing girl child its okey to stand on their grounds

Very inspiring story. Thanks alot

Congratulations Carol great wisdom. A nice interview.

Wow.. Wow... Very inspiring.. Caroline you have a lot of wisdom... Be blessed

Carol kudos!!! You are one in a million. Wonderful character. God bless you

Beautiful, smart and full of wisdom. Awesome lady.

What a beautiful, intelligent and focused lady. May the Lord bless her more and more.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Amen and thanks for your comments.

@eunicenjenga1366

2 жыл бұрын

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Omg this is one of the best interviews I've ever watched. Carol is so smart, I'd listen to her talk all day. She's so inspiring , knows what she wants and goes for it. This is the first time I'm seeing her and I love her. I've learnt so much. Thank you.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

thanks so much for your feedback.

@carolinewnjoroge

2 жыл бұрын

Eye opener... Awesome 💯

@carolinewnjoroge

2 жыл бұрын

Eye opener... Awesome 💯

Wow! What an inspiring story. What do men really want?? Keep soaring Caroline, women are breaking the ceilings. Kudos gal. Monica that was a great interview. Kudos too.

@marym7552

2 жыл бұрын

Men do fear brave aggressive ladies

@reubenkariuki6637

Жыл бұрын

Not all

Women we have learned a lot from this beautiful lady. Carol God bless you

That's the Wisdom of a Woman. It's a very inspiring Story!

A great interview from a great woman full of wisdom

Monicah this is very touching and am glad u v supported Carol by listening to her and emotionally she must be very fullfilled

Wow ! What a woman ! Beautiful and focused ! God loves you ,never regret anything ,something good came out of that marriage, 3 beautiful children do not let any man make you lose your dignity and purpose in life. I think the man felt challenged by her success.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your comment.

Wow! you are strong woman carol, keep on setting your eyes on the prize.

You give us hope...Thankyou very much.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks.

Wow such a great and inspirational story.This lady overcame so much through wisdom.I hope women now know to go for what they want to reach their greatest potential !

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much.

This is very powerful and inspiring, thank you Carol for sharing your story.

@gladysmweru2005

2 жыл бұрын

Wvfcvgd boy fjgfhgn groggily p

I just love how she is expressing herself in a wisdom way

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks

This is one of the most inspiring n empowering video. I have mostly loved the fact that Carol has taught us to believe in one self n aspire to be what one have always wanted. God bless u monica n carol for that video

@mirriamkariuki1935

2 жыл бұрын

Carol you're very courageous woman!!!

Carol is indeed a resilient woman...so inspiring

Very inspiring story..wow kudos carol..MK your interviews are always on top,you're a wise lady..

Lesson of the day Bold decision. Love yourself and respect yourself

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Kabisa. Others will always treat us based on how we teach them to treat us. Love May fade away, but respect should be constant regardless. Thanks for your comment.

She has alot of wisdom and self awareness,amazing..

I love the way she is able to articulate herself. You ministry is in your pain. what a positive soul. God bless you Carol

I m looking forward to seeing the book n getting the contents. Never regret. Regrets brings only Miseries something good doesn't come just like that. " Resilience" What a Name 💕 it.

Amazing and very inspiring.

This is the best advice ever, I loooove her

Your doors opened at the same time pursuing your studies in Norway, getting married, having children at the same time. I have realized as a woman you have to sacrifice alot even as you purse your goals and purpose in life. I call you a warrior having tried to strike this balance and still living normally. Carol you are a fighter and a go- getter. I schooled with you in University of Nairobi before you proceeded to Norway. I salute you Carol you are a hero. All single mothers should be respected and they owe no one an explanation.

Thanks Carol for sharing.

Carol you are such a brave woman, i was there at the launch I remember it quite well. You will keep soaring gal because the sky is the limit. Resilience is a book I can read over and over. Kudos gal

(Long comment alert) Listening to this, I have a new respect for you Carol. You are a wise strong lady. The interview is a whole book in itself. You have covered all sort of issues be it cultural, family, stigma e.t.c. I even took a notebook and I am proud to be a fellow Kaaga Girls alumni. I remember during her husband's burial, prof Mugenda thanked him (late Abel Mugenda) for taking care of their kids while she studied Abroad. I realize now that the man was far ahead of his time, considering the fact that culture dictates that women are the ones expected to sacrifice and shelve dreams for their families. I think when it comes to men relocating and shelving dreams, the external forces and maybe internal, could be too hard and may sink the ship. I have heard of ladies who have been given ultimatums, 'masomo ama familia'. I am proud of you girl for choosing to stand for what you believe and what you had struggled so much for. I know many of us ladies would have abandoned everything and run back home to 'save' the marriage. It's very wise of you believing that the kids father was also their parent and they were safe in his care. Like Chimamanda often says, girls are mistakenly taught to have dreams, but not so big, to shadow their husbands. Your ex really did try, even relacating to be with his family though at one point,maybe, the external forces were too much and sunk the ship. Go on gal, write that book, proceed to your PhD, you are a gem and the world is at your feet.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

I’m totally humbled by your comment. I’m Happy to learn that many have learnt from The show and that we need that little pig as women to know it’s ok to choose us first, so we can also contribute in making the change we badly desire to see. Thanks again. Kindly allow me to copy paste your feedback on my fb page.

@josylinenaitore5634

2 жыл бұрын

🙏go on gal. You may copy paste

@rkibaiya

2 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@Chings001

2 жыл бұрын

You have put it so well Carol I love, love, love your thoughts!

@paulanish1641

2 жыл бұрын

Kwani the ex passed on?

You are a great woman full of strength and wisdom

Thank you Carol for saying no to abuse and empowering women to put themselves first. You can't give what you don't have. And you are very beautiful Carol.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for your complement.

@inkisarisarah3242

4 ай бұрын

Very pretty

Thank you Monicah for inspiring us through Caroline who is so rich in wisdom.

Carol you really are a true gem. despite your not so promising childhood you rose against all odds to become a very strong, wise and focused woman. As women there is a lot we need to learn from this especially those going through separation. you are indeed a great inspiration to both men and women.

Great wisdom in display, very strong Woman and a inspiration to the generation n generations to come. God bless you and the kids.

Congratulations. Carol. You are an icon . She has not even talked about her husband life after divorce.

Carol, I really admire you and your wisdom. I. have learnt alot.

Learning a lot from this. Thanks Monica for being a great host.

Very inspiring real life story from our sister Carol God bless you

this was a great talk , very bold lady

Ms. Carol Chemna is just a breathe of fresh air. Waaaooooow.......💪💪

Atlist for one's we've gotten a Lady who never gave up on her dreams and she put herself 1st congratulations mummy

This lady is so intelligent, wise and very mature

Great mind. Great advices . keep up Monica and Carol

Carol my dear friend! A woman of strength and resilience !💪🏾❤️

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Sasa mwari….. thanks.

@mamake1046

2 жыл бұрын

Where can i buy this book in the uk

Wow Carol. You are a great woman of valor. What a woman....true mama Africa. I love her stamina and courage. She is such an encourager. I need that book. I walked the same path.

Watching from USA. .this is very brilliant,

Very inspiring story,God bless Carol

I looooved this interview,, kudos to both of u

I have learnt about my value as a woman.. That i value myself first. N also supporting her view on church n African culture about a woman who always leaves her dreams n need to support society marriage n her husband n children n no one cares of whatever she want or need.. I feel this is so alive in our day to day life. I feel a woman should be supported listened to cared for n also loved unconditionally... My thoughts..... kagoni ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Yesss sweetheart, better a divorced daughter than a dead one, it's so unfortunate that the Ekueme hit singer died in the hands of her husband may her soul rest in peace. Your education journey is one of an inspiration to me and many others.

For once I have found a Lady that we can see things from the same perspective. Am so proud of you Carol.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much

@anniemwangi5226

2 жыл бұрын

Here comes my tribe......

@anniemwangi5226

2 жыл бұрын

There's no guilt in actualising your dreams Carol ..you are brave and you can only be a better mum if you are a better person...💕

@ireri5

2 жыл бұрын

Kumbe tuko wengi. marriage is good and a blessing if both respect each other but if otherwise its a curse. and sometimes i dnt understand whats wrong with people?

Wisdom in you Carol 👏👏👏👏 this my story I can't regret leaving my kids with their father.

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

I’m proud you. We have to let fathers take responsibility as well.

Full of wisdom lady,encouraging for everyone,,,

Very inspiring, great ready

Wow! Such inspiration.

The lady, Carol, is mature enough, her story is the prove The part of the story that mothers should not 'steal' the children from their father for whatever reason clearly opens up to society , both mother and father are equal when it comes to children love

@carolinekolom5510

2 жыл бұрын

Kabisa. Thanks so much.

Very intelligent n a lot to give to Our society. Thanks

Carol is a very smart lady! I wish I was as wise as Carol in the 1990s.

Wonderful story of resilience indeed. God bless you💕💕💕💕

My dear sister and friend❤ You are an inspiration to me! Keep soaring higher!

You are a great woman..your elegance is on another level