Dear co-wife: Am sorry i ruined your marriage. I brought a curse on myself, please bless my kids

This is my plea to my co-wife,
I came to your marriage and ruined it. I took your husband and lived with him for years. We even got children. From the day we started co-habiting, he stopped from coming to your home and to his children.
I thought i had won over you. Now look at me. I can’t even count the number of times my kids have been admitted to hospital. I know i brought a curse on myself…may God have mercy on me
But i plead with you, please bless my kids. Only you can free them. For it is God who says’whatever we bind on earth will be bound in heaven and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven
Please…

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  • @MethayaKagoni
    @MethayaKagoni2 жыл бұрын

    ​My Dear viewer, I know this story is very emotive. I know we would be tempted to call Victoria names and even rub it on her face that Karma is a b*****but please let's be respectful in our comments. Let's remember that we follow a God of second chance. Let's remember that some of the greatest saints like St Paul, St Mary Magdalene, St Augustine, were once great sinners. Let us bless Victoria with the same words of Jesus 'Go and do not sin again.' Let us pray and hope that the woman whose this message is intended for will soften her heart. That the Holy Spirit may give her the resolve and the power to forgive her and bless Victoria's kids. And for those of us who may be in such destructive relationships, may we; in this period of lent, call to mind our sins and change our ways. AMEN This my plea to you my faithful follower. Yours Monica

  • @bethwambui99

    @bethwambui99

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @zipporahkibe7480

    @zipporahkibe7480

    2 жыл бұрын

    She's so mature,owning up to mistakes she did is the best thing ever.May she find peace.

  • @emmahmuchami540

    @emmahmuchami540

    2 жыл бұрын

    May God see you thru,and heal your soul

  • @mageembarikiwa2991

    @mageembarikiwa2991

    2 жыл бұрын

    Victoria don't worry..wanaume dio wabaya cos hawatocheki.

  • @mickeymedia4583

    @mickeymedia4583

    2 жыл бұрын

    Women should stop blaming themselves

  • @rachaelkinyua7453
    @rachaelkinyua74532 жыл бұрын

    My beautiful neighbor ..happy to see you ..there's nothing nice like a sincere confessing heart God hears🙏

  • @lucykiiru5211
    @lucykiiru52112 жыл бұрын

    A broken spirit and a contrite heart, the Lord will not despise. The Lord has already forgiven her. This is the heart that David had, a repentant heart. May the Lord bless you Veronica.

  • @keziahnduta2740

    @keziahnduta2740

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly 💯

  • @ruthkinyanjui4700

    @ruthkinyanjui4700

    2 жыл бұрын

    David never sinned, he took a divorced wife🙏🏼

  • @tabbiemwas7478

    @tabbiemwas7478

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ruthkinyanjui4700 David killed Uriah in order to sleep with the wife isn't that sin to u?

  • @WakarimaWaKariri

    @WakarimaWaKariri

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tabbiemwas7478 the problem is that our society has normalised male infidelity.

  • @ishiwawaim

    @ishiwawaim

    2 жыл бұрын

    @ruthkinyanjui read your Bible baby girl the book of Psalms is mostly David repenting and crying to God for forgiveness and partially him praising and honoring God. @LucyKiiru I echo you 💯

  • @margaretwanjeri3817
    @margaretwanjeri38172 жыл бұрын

    May God make all sidechicks leave married men we are suffering taking care the kids alone.

  • @susangititia3067

    @susangititia3067

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen and Amen

  • @hannahnganga5094

    @hannahnganga5094

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @yahchildg7283

    @yahchildg7283

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is why is is key to stop engaging in premarital sex n wait till marriage....to avoid having kids outside wedlock,ladies should also stop day dreaming for a tall handsome rich man and give sailor a chance that avail themselves in their peak times,not waiting till 30s and then say there are no men...to marry. N start dating married men,wen maybe they rejected a man who would have bin a good husband all to herself

  • @keziahnduta2740
    @keziahnduta27402 жыл бұрын

    She is a very wise lady. Knowing you are wrong and admitting it, n asking for forgiveness is wisdom from above GOD will bless you my sister

  • @wairimusimiyu7899

    @wairimusimiyu7899

    2 жыл бұрын

    Asking for forgiveness when the first wife and kids were crying alikua ana Raha tu..weee reke nemwo

  • @betty541

    @betty541

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@wairimusimiyu7899 So far I feel like most people are disregarding the feelings of the first wife. She is entitled to her feelings too and while the guest is remorseful, the first wife should not be forced or rushed into forgiving. Also, why is the husband being let off the hook here? He was as much in the wrong as she was.

  • @sarahwambui5287

    @sarahwambui5287

    2 жыл бұрын

    No she is not

  • @keziahnduta2740

    @keziahnduta2740

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@betty541 a wise person will just forgive without being forced that's why many of us are not really bothered whether she will forgive or not. If she is human, and also makes mistakes,she will forgive. Bcoz she can't receive forgiveness from GOD if she doesn't forgive others We are just rejoicing n celebrating this woman whose eyes,GOD HIMSELF has opened. That's all

  • @betty541

    @betty541

    2 жыл бұрын

    Keziah, I hear you..but let's agree to disagree here. I am uncomfortable with people telling the aggrieved party how to feel and what to do and yet she alone is in those shoes. There is nothing unwise about taking things at her own pace and doing what she pleases...it is her life we are talking about here..not anyone else's. Plus not all of us are necessarily religious, so the whole God won't forgive you if you don't forgive others does not fly. Shw should do as she sees fit..let's allow her the grace to do so. Thank you.

  • @waithirakibunja7179
    @waithirakibunja71792 жыл бұрын

    The first wife must be very prayerful.She is a wise woman hakuna mahali alitusiana or fought a physical fight .He fought on her knees and she has won

  • @njeri_waruiru7694

    @njeri_waruiru7694

    2 жыл бұрын

    I remember I prayed to God and told Him to let His will be done! Then boom vitu zikawa poa

  • @annebaker8518
    @annebaker85182 жыл бұрын

    Monica I have gone through hell with my.girls bcoz of one woman who broke my home it hurts so much.bcoz watoto hawakufika kwenye walikua wafike kimasomo vitu mingi ziliharibika may they stop breaking marriages aki watoto wanaumia but machozi tumelia.Mungu atatulipishia

  • @preetyfavor2222

    @preetyfavor2222

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very true mungu atakulipishia hio machozi na ya watoto wako pia

  • @waridim9249

    @waridim9249

    2 жыл бұрын

    @erick ngenye Usipatikane. Hakuheshimu hata kidogo. Na watoto wako walikosa masomo.

  • @lynetoto2616

    @lynetoto2616

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mimi nalea wangu watatu peke yangu na baba yao ana enjoy tu maisha na mwanamke mwingine na watoto wao but Mungu atatulipizia tu

  • @mercymwihia4782

    @mercymwihia4782

    2 жыл бұрын

    Pole dia take heart vengeance belongs to God may their be bright in jesus name ..he got our backs whatsoever the hardship of traitors and dark moments in the name of marriage

  • @purityleah525

    @purityleah525

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's very true

  • @wanjirukariuki1
    @wanjirukariuki12 жыл бұрын

    This lady is bold enough and genuine. You are already forgiven and the man too is to blame because he had all the time to make her a second wife officially .

  • @sarahmuresh8665
    @sarahmuresh86652 жыл бұрын

    First wife is always blessed as the founder of home

  • @waruth3142

    @waruth3142

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hapo kwa "founder" pana key

  • @annenjenga9080
    @annenjenga90802 жыл бұрын

    First wives pesa zote zinapelekewa slayqueens,but there is God in heaven ,what goes round comes round

  • @liznyambu7909

    @liznyambu7909

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's a lie every man who respects his wife and kids will never do that

  • @belindakangai4

    @belindakangai4

    2 жыл бұрын

    Madam Jesus....mwanaume mgani anaedeangwa kwake?

  • @steveykimson3158
    @steveykimson31582 жыл бұрын

    , I'm man with his young family 👪 and I thank God but I vividly remember how my own mother suffered n the hands of ths core wives, I remember one day, side chick approached my mum and told her that she's surprised to know she's not dead since my dad told her mum died few year's ago, battle never ends there and I remember another side chick made my mother life miserable to an extent of running 🏃‍♀️ 😢 to every pastor's to seek for help which she couldn't get. , instead they drained her financially, my mum had a lot of bitterness and it affected me so much being her last born, close friend and confidant. Sadly my mum could not cope so well with grief and she died peacefully and my entire life wrecked 💔 😔 I have never recovered but it's well with my soul. After the burial dad would bring different ladies at our matrimonial home 🏡 and it crashed my spirit, even during the burial any person could tell he was not there mentally only busy body when me, my brother and sister's overwhelmed by the grief which shook 💔 the entire village..to cut the story short my dad life has never be the same again after few year's and I hate him so much..I always confess to my wife even though I'm man things can happen, I will never let her go through what my lovely mum went through and may the lord help me I pray...may she continue resting peacefully n God hands and may dad pay the heavy price.

  • @eunicedallas4508

    @eunicedallas4508

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is sad enough, 🥲🥲, I won’t say much, My mom has been and still is in those shoes though she’s still alive, but her health has deteriorated a lot

  • @steveykimson3158

    @steveykimson3158

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@eunicedallas4508 very sad to hear that, through my own experience please advice your mama to run 🏃‍♀️ for her dear life, but mostly they don't want to go always justification that I'm here because of you as my children and I always wonder is it better to move on and enjoy the rest of your life with your children or u stay, die and your lovely children left struggling like I do?? I always blame my mum too bcz my agreement was when I left for greener pastures she will move away but she didn't now look how I struggle with her loss...anyways God knows better btw I wish you well together with your loved one's.

  • @susankaburu4527

    @susankaburu4527

    2 жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @judymburu8898

    @judymburu8898

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very heartbreaking Stevey. God be with you and your siblings

  • @steveykimson3158

    @steveykimson3158

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@judymburu8898 Amen 🙏 🙌 👏

  • @gracewangare5027
    @gracewangare50272 жыл бұрын

    Watu wa kusoma comments tuko wapi?

  • @margaretkariuki509
    @margaretkariuki509 Жыл бұрын

    The tears I cried in 2019 and the tears my son cried in 2020 are about to be answered...God of vengeance hurry for us please 🙏🙏

  • @itsjuliam

    @itsjuliam

    Ай бұрын

    May God answer you speedily! I saw my mom cry those tears and I cried alongside her. But God heard us and acted. May He do the same for you.

  • @vickytash2849
    @vickytash28492 жыл бұрын

    Well done Victoria for coming out clean and owning your mistakes. You've opened many our hearts and eyes. It's time to do the right thing before kids suffers. No one is perfect in the eyes of the Lord and he has surely forgiven you. Lots of love girl

  • @nellyspodcast
    @nellyspodcast2 жыл бұрын

    This is an eye opener for me... Needed to hear this

  • @denniszackmanvibes.4259
    @denniszackmanvibes.42592 жыл бұрын

    Monica your parting shot words are so beautiful and encouraging. Thanks for such educative interview

  • @lucykamunya7649
    @lucykamunya76492 жыл бұрын

    Baby gal, don't be too hard on yourself, children do get sick, even those that belong to the goat wives get admitted over and over ....pray for your children,God is a loving and compassionate,full of mercy and a million more chances.... complete healing to your babies,Amen

  • @milkah8425

    @milkah8425

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree polygamy has been there since kitambo

  • @itsgigy

    @itsgigy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Never make someone cry coz of selfishness...put yourself in the shoes of that woman umepata kwa hiyo nyumba.

  • @ruthwangari3403

    @ruthwangari3403

    2 жыл бұрын

    It is because of people like you that my family is never stable to date 40 years of tears in marriage. May the Lord have mercy on our homes and the tears that we shed everyday.If you have truly left that family.May the Lord forgive you to even give you eternal life coz He died to save us all.

  • @lucykamunya7649

    @lucykamunya7649

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ruthwangari3403 ,my comment got nothing to do with families, cheating partners or what nots, it's about her and her children...the pain of a mother seeing her kids suffer,Point is, she should dedicate her children to God ,He is a God of mercy and full of second chances I'm sorry about your 40 years of tears,my comment was just about the sickly kids,God hears and heals...after all this woman has already left the man and the goatwife already forgave her and they met

  • @thepathfindermedia4228
    @thepathfindermedia42282 жыл бұрын

    This woman deserves forgiveness from God and the cowife.She is one in a million.Victoria may God intervine and wipe your tears

  • @jenpherwairimu449
    @jenpherwairimu4492 жыл бұрын

    She deserves forgiveness,how I wish my stepmother see this,she been hell on earth putting a barrier between us and our dad

  • @catherinekamera4275

    @catherinekamera4275

    2 жыл бұрын

    Someone did that to my children, put a barrier between them and their dad, for many years they have not seen each other, even if they meet on the way, they cannot recognize each other

  • @annwangombe3628
    @annwangombe36282 жыл бұрын

    I hope Betty wamaitha will listen to this coz Ruth wa mum has seen it all..

  • @marionnjoroge441

    @marionnjoroge441

    2 жыл бұрын

    Na Tabby kamotho even after loosing her son and another epileptic hakuachana na bwana ya wenyewe

  • @lucymuhoro2194

    @lucymuhoro2194

    2 жыл бұрын

    And Mary Lincoln. I guess the 1st wife of njogu wa Njoroge keeps crying.

  • @rosendunge4217
    @rosendunge42172 жыл бұрын

    Waa i don't know even what to..the humbleness of this lady is in another level..even she didn't let it go far, only 7yrs and here she is asking for forgiveness..what a precious lady..u open my eyes in another way and thank you Victoria

  • @shikohmuriithi5216
    @shikohmuriithi52162 жыл бұрын

    These are what we call genuine mistakes....She never knew anakosea mtu.The good thing about her story is that she is apologetic..I hope the 1st wife will forgive her.

  • @betty541

    @betty541

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think she knew exactly what she was doing. She says as much in her confession and apology.

  • @jasintamutua3302

    @jasintamutua3302

    2 жыл бұрын

    She has repeatedly repented so whether the first wife has forgiven her or not before God she has confessed her sins . Am am a victim of this my husband married a second wife took him to our matrimonial home slept on my bed and was left confused 13 years now .The wife is so proud she abused me with the support of the family and my husband .But I hold no bitterness on them have sincerely forgiven them and moved on with my kids all are grown up now and I thank God .

  • @skinnyzebra8626
    @skinnyzebra86262 жыл бұрын

    Great job Monica as usual, it’s wonderful to see someone taking full accountability, may God hear your repentant heart & heal your spirit,my hope is that in our country or rather African culture we are going to start distributing the shame evenly, it all started with this man who knew very well he was married when he began chasing after her

  • @maryk8801
    @maryk88012 жыл бұрын

    I like the way Monica ask questions, very effective and efficient. Monica,you are full of wisdom, may God help you always.

  • @TabithaM44
    @TabithaM442 жыл бұрын

    Wise lady and that the Start of healing,God is God of mercies and they start after knowing your mistake.

  • @georginamakena1660
    @georginamakena16602 жыл бұрын

    Aki first wife mungu awape nguvu,mtu akikamuuuua akimaliza anarudishia first wife 😭

  • @serahamennjeri2080

    @serahamennjeri2080

    2 жыл бұрын

    Weeee

  • @graxekary9847

    @graxekary9847

    2 жыл бұрын

    Na Ana apologize with crocodile tears🤣🤣

  • @rachelmaina2680

    @rachelmaina2680

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@graxekary9847 akwende huko jangili

  • @janenjoroge7507
    @janenjoroge75072 жыл бұрын

    "if you've never sinned stone this lady" Let's not judge. I believe the Lord has forgiven her,she has repented and requested for forgiven.

  • @mageembarikiwa2991

    @mageembarikiwa2991

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bt yur not the first one to do so huyu mzee angeongea na first wife amwabie so take heart Victoria.....may GOD heal yur kids watapona tu.

  • @margaretmaina4254

    @margaretmaina4254

    2 жыл бұрын

    I believe the same thing but people who don’t believe in forgiveness they can’t forgive.May God bless Victoria. She’s already forgiven

  • @phillipsidhojapap1461

    @phillipsidhojapap1461

    2 жыл бұрын

    I wish you are the cheated wife then we shall accept your words. Otherwise ni moshi

  • @marynjeri1979

    @marynjeri1979

    2 жыл бұрын

    God doesn't judge us but every choice we make in our life good or bad it has consequences

  • @blessedmama5367

    @blessedmama5367

    2 жыл бұрын

    Only those in her shoes that can side with her ! A sincere forgiveness is asked to the person that one has offended period !

  • @Shiku355
    @Shiku3552 жыл бұрын

    Thanks you for being brave and sharing your story and accepting your mistakes.

  • @essiemofficial1002
    @essiemofficial10022 жыл бұрын

    Me and my children we have gone through hell since 2007 he has never help even a penny but I blame my ex husband because I don’t know what he told her, but those who do it knowingly may God punish them because I can’t be able to explain the pain I have gone through and still going through May God vindicate us, I know you are God of vengeance

  • @purityshiku2099
    @purityshiku20992 жыл бұрын

    she is a beautiful girl in heart. There is not sin that is unforgivable. God will never reject the prodigal son

  • @josphinewambui6563

    @josphinewambui6563

    2 жыл бұрын

    Huyu ni wife material

  • @ediththuo406
    @ediththuo4062 жыл бұрын

    Victoria 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You are a brave woman May God bless you and your children Don't worry God does not look for the perfect ones,He perfects us. Thanks Monica for the interview.

  • @evalynewanjiku5467
    @evalynewanjiku54672 жыл бұрын

    She's so brave to come out coz some women will start dropping comments n they r sidechiqs n have the audacity to point fingers. As the Bible says, confess ua sins and you will be forgiven.....

  • @hellenkasyoka6745

    @hellenkasyoka6745

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @esperanzawanjiru2435

    @esperanzawanjiru2435

    2 жыл бұрын

    it seems your mpango wenu is here too au

  • @rosierosita.7235
    @rosierosita.72352 жыл бұрын

    Kiumbani ni kiumbani, I had a relationship with an married man but alikua njangiri, I caught him with other younger girls than me. Don't beat yourself so much, mistakes are there to be made. Gods Grace is unlimited.

  • @bernadettendungu9858

    @bernadettendungu9858

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is the man. What about you. The lady is not referring to the man but herself.

  • @faitharisson7002
    @faitharisson70022 жыл бұрын

    This is the best show ever monica kagoni many marriages will heal God bless you and extend your territories

  • @moniwawarikuo2253
    @moniwawarikuo22532 жыл бұрын

    She's very eloquent n understands the meaning of real confession, repentance and forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @lucynjuguna9653
    @lucynjuguna96532 жыл бұрын

    Power of prayer.may she be forgiven and become a lesson to other destroyers

  • @pharisnganga2012
    @pharisnganga20122 жыл бұрын

    What a woman who humbles herself this much. Thank you Monica for asking questions and in a tone that is very compassionate... God bless you always make me come back for wonderful content.

  • @amorwanjiru275
    @amorwanjiru2752 жыл бұрын

    A story that is very close to home... without mentioning names and relationships am gonna briefly tell a story here ....so this one woman that got married as a second wife put the first wife through so much hell till she left, this second wife now settled there completely and got kids ...first child a bit disabled second child celebral palsy third child shida za akili so she thought ati ni karma or maybe she is paying for the hell she put the first wife but truly the first wife left na akawaachia Mungu and went on to raise her children....alikua mtu anajua Mungu na kumpenda so aliwaachia Mungu na kueka watoto wake na maisha ya watoto wake kwa mikono ya Mungu.....first forward to second wife's third child she started regretting and apologizing to the first wife...the husband left her akisema halei differently abled children till now huyo mama analia yet the first wife other than ile machungu ya what she went through before leaving hananga shida na wao...this is a message for anyone that wants to put another woman through such pain, any gachugwa intending to come destroy a family and such please think twice

  • @kmipos
    @kmipos2 жыл бұрын

    You have done the right thing and your courage is in another level, forgiving yourself is the most important thing even God has forgiven you

  • @tabbymwaura6577
    @tabbymwaura65772 жыл бұрын

    Ooooh what a testimony Victoria God will bless and place you in space

  • @teresiandegwa6698
    @teresiandegwa66982 жыл бұрын

    Please call a spade a spade,alikosea because even after knowing Yuko na family,she continued staying.,.woi muka mukoro ethagwo gwa thokana.... it's indeed painful... when you break a home,you start battles with God!!!! and that's a fact!

  • @wambuibwaweru6920

    @wambuibwaweru6920

    2 жыл бұрын

    having kids with the man unafaa uelewe mtoto si mkate ataenda kuuza, kids come with responsibilities

  • @gracenzomo9386

    @gracenzomo9386

    2 жыл бұрын

    You left him when he fell sick and money got scarce.

  • @gracenzomo9386

    @gracenzomo9386

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your pastor never told you that having someone's husband is a sin?....

  • @stephennjoroge7259
    @stephennjoroge72592 жыл бұрын

    This lady is genuine. May God forgive her!

  • @margaretmaina4254

    @margaretmaina4254

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very genuine,God has already forgiven her it’s my prayers.

  • @janiimutugi3942

    @janiimutugi3942

    2 жыл бұрын

    If she has repented she is already forgiven

  • @christthykingdomcome2776
    @christthykingdomcome27762 жыл бұрын

    A free woman she is..Whoever does not forgive her its on you….(including co-wife)Far as God is concerned she is free like a bird

  • @blessedmama5367

    @blessedmama5367

    2 жыл бұрын

    How sure are you !? Mathew 16:19 …. whatever is loosed here on earth is loosed in heaven and what’s bound here on earth is bound in heaven . If the wife has bound her she is bound !

  • @marymutavi5446

    @marymutavi5446

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen,

  • @agnesmaizah3834

    @agnesmaizah3834

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Blessed mama very true👍✅

  • @jennifermcwhortet7934

    @jennifermcwhortet7934

    2 жыл бұрын

    I wonder what Gospel many Christians know or understand. Forgiveness is from God. No human being really forgives another. Ask Forgiveness from God. Then forgive yourself. Forgive yourself.God forgave you 2000 Years ago. Period.

  • @blessedmama5367

    @blessedmama5367

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jennifermcwhortet7934 Good backed up by a scripture or scriptures ….thats what “ Golpel” is ….

  • @wairegijulius9587
    @wairegijulius95872 жыл бұрын

    To be honest, i don't blame this lady. She went in as a second wife, and there is nothing wrong with that. If the blame was to come, then am blaming the MAN

  • @Rachel-db2xo

    @Rachel-db2xo

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tru

  • @The_Clinic

    @The_Clinic

    2 жыл бұрын

    Seems like everyone overlooks the role of the man in creating such messes.

  • @MamaNjesh

    @MamaNjesh

    2 жыл бұрын

    And it is the man who pursued Victoria.

  • @annenjenga3413

    @annenjenga3413

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @NJOKIYULEMMOJA

    @NJOKIYULEMMOJA

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes and muigai wa njoroge and de john demethew are examples

  • @ndichungechu4390
    @ndichungechu43902 жыл бұрын

    I am not judging Victoria and I really sympathize with her predicament but why do I keep getting the feeling that Victoria will have a hard time convincing many of us that she didn't leave the man because he got unwell and the money taps shut? I am positive that if the man's money kept flowing, Victoria's conscience that she was in an 'adulterous relationship' and all that crap about caring for the first wife and her children would not have bothered her... it never did until the man got sick. Guys, don't be cheated. Let's stick to our wives. This will be your fate with that Gacungwa.

  • @muthonishiing1143

    @muthonishiing1143

    2 жыл бұрын

    All things work together for good the circumstance may have come to release her from bondage

  • @kotinakarwak7857

    @kotinakarwak7857

    2 жыл бұрын

    Am guessing the sickness brought forth the urge to escape. All the talk didn’t express why she is now leaving cos the supposed awakening caught up with her conscious.

  • @sonyia7521

    @sonyia7521

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mr Ndichu can i tell you something? I know you are wrong for this reason. Me i got married after my divorce to a divorced man. I was not in the picture when they divorced with his wife. But after staying with him for 8 years, i started feeling guilty cos of being a second wife. I knew the wife moved on and lives in America, so its not that i was making her cry but all the same i felt guilty. I talked to him about it, he was really surprised and told me there was no way we could separate. He is ok financially and he asked me if i lacked anything. I insisted and told him i was ready to suffer without him than live with the guilt. We do not have a kid together but he love my kids alot. So i know its not about money this lady is doing this. Its her love and fear for God and so you are wrong to judge her. I even know another lady who fellowship with cff church huko kwa Bishop Harrison, she was married as second wife to a former mayor of Nairobi who is super rich. But when she got saved, she had 3 kids but she chose to leave that marriage and apologised to the first wife. So, its not about money brother.

  • @itsjuliam

    @itsjuliam

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hadn't even thought of this interesting perspective! Something to consider🤔

  • @phillipsidhojapap1461

    @phillipsidhojapap1461

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sonyia7521 You women move on when there is no love.. so had the man continued to pour his love on you, you'd still be there. So, no real repentance. Ni taps run dry

  • @paulinewahome2562
    @paulinewahome25622 жыл бұрын

    Love it that Monica gives people right of reply

  • @ahasu
    @ahasu2 жыл бұрын

    Courageous and religiously principled, wish yu luck in all your future endeavors.

  • @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes
    @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes2 жыл бұрын

    She is such a strong woman, and accepting her mistakes! May the goat wife find in her heart to forgive you💖💕. May God heal your babies, nothing is impossible with Him🙏🙌

  • @lucywambui7306
    @lucywambui73062 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. This is a huge lesson to we young ladies who are about to make such irrational relationship decisions.

  • @tsoniejohn4718
    @tsoniejohn47182 жыл бұрын

    Wow that heart is genuine and the request for forgiveness is deeply true.. my classmate Vicky God has heard your request. you're forgiven🙏

  • @kateleenwanjiko3188
    @kateleenwanjiko31882 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful soul, heart after God, broken spirit in our days there is this kind of girls we thank God Victoria thank you for brave act, May Almighty God bless you

  • @janenjoroge7507
    @janenjoroge75072 жыл бұрын

    I pray that God may grant you peace, peace to the 1st wife and heal your children. You are a strong woman it's not easy to share such a story.

  • @annetnyambura2089
    @annetnyambura20892 жыл бұрын

    another woman did the same to me and even went to a point ya kuniambia...."usifikirie huku utarudi tafuta mbaba akuoe"those words burnt my heart so much ..i cried to God na for sure he answered me Ngai gutiri thoome atoooe ..This woman deserves forgiveness...lakini mimi huyu wangu i will never forgive her ever ..and she will continue to suffer forever

  • @timothyprincemusir2044
    @timothyprincemusir20442 жыл бұрын

    Realizing mistakes makes us human

  • @Dee_the_blessed1

    @Dee_the_blessed1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sababu dunia imemfunza akalazimika,👍

  • @RK-xv1si

    @RK-xv1si

    2 жыл бұрын

    True!

  • @angie..n9065

    @angie..n9065

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dee_the_blessed1 my dear the more una grow the more unajua what's wrong n right..ask corazon

  • @lizzysnest3913
    @lizzysnest39132 жыл бұрын

    Victoria God will heal your heart. Thankyou for being soo courageous and inspiring young ladies to live right.

  • @susannzuki3324
    @susannzuki33242 жыл бұрын

    I like ur courage Victoria, I hope and pray that woman will find a place in her heart and forgive you..

  • @joyjoy623
    @joyjoy6232 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful realizing and repenting may GOD hear your prayers

  • @emmahmuchami540

    @emmahmuchami540

    2 жыл бұрын

    Do you have to go through all this stress to consider your ways?

  • @estherwahome9889
    @estherwahome98892 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for being brave enough to come out

  • @hodiakennedy2515
    @hodiakennedy25152 жыл бұрын

    You are a strong woman Victoria ,blessed and forgiven. God be with you always

  • @georgenjau8069
    @georgenjau80692 жыл бұрын

    One of the best show emotional and am looking forward to first wife respond

  • @mercyfaith3021

    @mercyfaith3021

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too coz am wondering wat will she say

  • @steveykimson3158

    @steveykimson3158

    2 жыл бұрын

    Atii aroigireee endiee mbereeee🤭🤭🤭🤫🤫🤫🤔🙉🙊

  • @esthernjoroge4602
    @esthernjoroge46022 жыл бұрын

    I hope the one occupying the house we built with my husband sees this!

  • @faitharisson7002
    @faitharisson70022 жыл бұрын

    Ngai amaruturure oothe aria mathukitie micii yene nginya uria waiyire wakwa tondu nindamukanitie ngimwira muthuri ucio ena mutumia na ndaiguire may God deal with her and others good job monica kagoni im praying for families because hii mipango ya kando needs to go God made Eve for Adam only mariage is for one man one wife

  • @naominyambura6274

    @naominyambura6274

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aki kube akuna mwanaume hana side chick mungu akubuke wa mama

  • @annnjeri674

    @annnjeri674

    2 жыл бұрын

    😅😅wangu nilimwambia siku Mungu atashuka kunilipishia hataamini,Sasa pia yeye amejua hajui

  • @wanjiramwihia2455

    @wanjiramwihia2455

    2 жыл бұрын

    Waah pia mm nilipigia co wife wangu then akaambia my ex ati nilimtusi 🙆good thing my ex knew matusi haiezi toka kwa mdomo yangu 🤔this mipango aki

  • @ruthmbuthia685

    @ruthmbuthia685

    2 жыл бұрын

    Might you were not his wife.If you keep holding that bitterness God will never come through for you.

  • @naomiwangari4794
    @naomiwangari47942 жыл бұрын

    He who pleases God he makes his enemies b at peace with him. Shalom sister

  • @veronicamuzulu2939
    @veronicamuzulu29392 жыл бұрын

    Vicky God bless you !!!! You and your children are in my prayers!!!!

  • @tabbymwaura6577
    @tabbymwaura65772 жыл бұрын

    Wow this is one lady in a million

  • @Danny54642
    @Danny546422 жыл бұрын

    Kagoni ni wamaka!! Even me and I believe the real wife has cried earnestly to God through prayer.Dont joke with prayers.Prayers move mountains and go far.Let it be a lesson to all ladies who are in the same trap.She is bold and very strong to speak out.May the real wife accept her apology.We have all sinned and have fallen short of God's glory.For the sake of not missing heaven because of bitterness and unforgiveness its better to forgive.Shalom.

  • @kellylerry2068

    @kellylerry2068

    2 жыл бұрын

    And if she cried to God..and God heard her cry..let her do what God commands us to do forgive and love.

  • @maxwayskim9335

    @maxwayskim9335

    2 жыл бұрын

    Muthuri uyu waku niwe wina mahitia, ndari na utheri ,Ari na uhinga, uhinga niithaga ria gikuu, akurehe utherini Ruo ni ruguthira,nake NGAI onekane:

  • @nancyhunja915
    @nancyhunja9152 жыл бұрын

    Monica may God bless you a great preacher today.

  • @virginiamuruga619
    @virginiamuruga6192 жыл бұрын

    The best show ever. Thank you Monicah.

  • @janetshiku186
    @janetshiku1862 жыл бұрын

    I salute her for this, I wish my mother confessed like this woman after ruining a home making the first wife to be driven out of her home.They said she was insane but i am sure she was suffering from depression. Being her firstborn I've really paid for their sins but I thank God He recently delivered me after repenting on their behalf when I realised it could be the reason i was leading a miserable life.I was a bright student but I never advanced my education to my desired level and ended up doing odd jobs for survival.I thank the neighbours and certain aunties who dared to tell me the truth after observing my predicaments, God bless them. Our God is Faithful,I am in a better position now and i swore never to wreck anyone's home either by marriage or being a side chick. I am in my tenth year since i divorced and I am happily single. Can someone advise me whether there is something else i am supposed to do kindly.

  • @isabellanjeri6940

    @isabellanjeri6940

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making a good decision

  • @salomenewsome4188

    @salomenewsome4188

    2 жыл бұрын

    You never did anything wrong stop beating yourself you are fine. Shida zako ni fate

  • @janetshiku186

    @janetshiku186

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@salomenewsome4188 Really, I may not be sure but the Bible says that God shall apply vengeance for your sins up to the fourth generation.

  • @salomenewsome4188

    @salomenewsome4188

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@janetshiku186 please relax utakuwa na blood pressure Old Testament was written to suite those old days. We are going with the New Testament you are forgiven because of the blood spilled at the Calvary. Period. Ma shida zako saa hii ni fate na poverty.

  • @janetshiku186

    @janetshiku186

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@salomenewsome4188 I am at peace now, thanks for ua advice

  • @hildanyaga4743
    @hildanyaga47432 жыл бұрын

    Since you've asked for forgiveness, God will forgive you

  • @lydiahmuigai
    @lydiahmuigai2 жыл бұрын

    Monica you are the best and you are so wise and humble ❤️

  • @lucywambui604
    @lucywambui6042 жыл бұрын

    God love's you ... asking for forgiveness is a great sign of humility,may your co wife forgive and Bless you and your kids🙏

  • @estherkariuki2181
    @estherkariuki21812 жыл бұрын

    This is a lesson to all women and men doing the same "What goes around comes around"

  • @neliuswaruguru6461

    @neliuswaruguru6461

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @wanguinancy8157
    @wanguinancy81572 жыл бұрын

    I love that lady to realize her mastake may God remember her through

  • @mikegathonjia7049
    @mikegathonjia70492 жыл бұрын

    My sister you have done the best. Healing starts with self forgiveness. I like the way she has expressed herself. May Lord's mercy be upon you Victoria. God has already forgive n you

  • @sabinawanjirumugucia9391
    @sabinawanjirumugucia93912 жыл бұрын

    What a story, worth listening, Victoria has a good heart, has known her mistake and ready to ask for forgiveness. May God intervene into her life. May the co wife forgive her people make mistake.

  • @dollydolly1317
    @dollydolly13172 жыл бұрын

    Those men who cheats on their wife may God punish them too, and to the side chicks don't be so happy when another woman is crying herself to sleep those tears are not in vain, I have gone through it I know what it means to survive it,

  • @Dee_the_blessed1

    @Dee_the_blessed1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @gracemuthoni6466

    @gracemuthoni6466

    2 жыл бұрын

    GOD'S GRACE to go thru it.

  • @fiddiggokirimi9630

    @fiddiggokirimi9630

    2 жыл бұрын

    God is faithful. You break another woman's family.... Her tears are never in vain. God answers her.

  • @lucynyoike8340

    @lucynyoike8340

    2 жыл бұрын

    Still don't curse them but ask them to be true coz even our forefathers marry 3or4wives and God bless them

  • @margaretwanjeri3817

    @margaretwanjeri3817

    2 жыл бұрын

    True dear u have said it even me am single upto date for same thing my God fight for us.we are strong woman.

  • @susanwachira3606
    @susanwachira36062 жыл бұрын

    Who are we to judge this lady?! I love this lady. She's very genuine and God fearing and that's enough for me.

  • @janewanjiru2410

    @janewanjiru2410

    Жыл бұрын

    You will not like her if you know what happened after the demise of the man he is talking about. Ask her to come here again and explain some very serious and ugly scenarios upon his death. The wife is so born again and I think she's so mature.

  • @irenembugua7817
    @irenembugua78172 жыл бұрын

    You have done well Victoria. The Lord forgives and forgets. May he make a way for you to get the forgiveness you need from the other lady.

  • @stellangoka7032
    @stellangoka70322 жыл бұрын

    Victoria your my hero, God bless you for tough decision you made. May God reward you abundantly with your kids and bless and heal them. God will use you heal many families. I salute you 👏

  • @paulmbatia2051
    @paulmbatia20512 жыл бұрын

    So emotional,I should urge the first wife to forgive this woman and others should learn from her

  • @jmmathenge1085
    @jmmathenge10852 жыл бұрын

    This is what is called repentance. May the Lord God help her and the innocent children

  • @tracyjoe4749
    @tracyjoe4749 Жыл бұрын

    I know the first wife(real wife) a beautiful woman of God, a loving mother and grandmother. She's my friend in Church. So prayerful and dedicated. I never knew what she's been through until recently. Oh my GOD. I CAN ATTEST TO HER GOD. INDEED GOD FIGHTS FOR HIS OWN. there's so much I can write here but lemmy just pause for now.

  • @dkarunga
    @dkarunga2 жыл бұрын

    Veronica you have done so so good to open up yourself & asking for forgiveness you are very blessed I like your confidence

  • @esskey4915
    @esskey49152 жыл бұрын

    Metagwo nyaciamburi ni kwambura.... if you have never been betrayed by your partner, you cannot understand the pain. The pain/heartache is unbearable. Trust me

  • @annebaker8518
    @annebaker85182 жыл бұрын

    Athuri makamaguo mbeca ciathira agatiguo acoke kwa mutumia wake Atari kindu kana ee muruaru

  • @janekamau6877
    @janekamau68772 жыл бұрын

    Victoria....you are one in a million 👏👏

  • @lucasmwangi2504
    @lucasmwangi25042 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Monica for your good job Victoria your soo beautiful and humble may the Lord forgive and heal your children's future your blessed

  • @patriciamwaura5859
    @patriciamwaura58592 жыл бұрын

    For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God..... Every Saint is a sinner who fell down and got up.... What Victoria did may be wrong but finding the courage to stand up and own her mistakes matters.... Our God is Mighty to save.... May you find peace and forgiveness.

  • @fridahnkatha9589
    @fridahnkatha95892 жыл бұрын

    My sister thank you for your confession and accepting your mistake! God has already forgiven you! Am Sure the goat 🐐 wife will forgive you, then you don't have to take the blame alone even the man made a mistake I hope he comes to the show too! Victoria God will see you through because of the decision you have made but don't deny the father of your children an opportunity to take responsibility of his kids they have a right 👍 to be with their dad! Otherwise I wish you well!

  • @hannahkuria3645

    @hannahkuria3645

    2 жыл бұрын

    Victoria l thank God for His grace upon your life. I am a victim of the other woman but no matter how painful it is God honour those who turn around and realize and accept their wrong doing. May the family you are seeking forgiveness from find it in their heart to forgive you and release you. Remember this there is another woman in my life right now.

  • @janenjuguna8946
    @janenjuguna89462 жыл бұрын

    Bravo Monicah!you are a great christian!

  • @salomemueni100
    @salomemueni1002 жыл бұрын

    Metha ya kagoni I agree with you.. May the healing power of God reach Victoria's children in jesus Big name. AMEN AMEN AMEN

  • @ndereesther5401
    @ndereesther54012 жыл бұрын

    I don't know why Victoria is apologising she was married as second wife ...feel free mamaa kids being sick it's normal mahe dawa nimekuhona

  • @israelgk7222

    @israelgk7222

    2 жыл бұрын

    Her conscience is alive unlike many home breakers.. that is the reason she is apologizing

  • @The_Clinic

    @The_Clinic

    2 жыл бұрын

    Na aache dhambi

  • @faithwamwara3409

    @faithwamwara3409

    2 жыл бұрын

    Esther wi co wife handu.haaa

  • @bethwambui7978

    @bethwambui7978

    2 жыл бұрын

    No turamamenya na comments ciao

  • @ndereesther5401

    @ndereesther5401

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@faithwamwara3409 ona dingirota

  • @lizzlizza5173
    @lizzlizza51732 жыл бұрын

    Wow..she is a woman if courage. She has owned up her mistakes and God has forgiven you Victoria. Mimi nlitoka kwangu nikakuja dubai kufanya kazi ya housemaid nikaacha myoto wa 7mnths na wakati nlimaliza 3mths huku the other woman sent me a message mocking me to a point of telling me that i will go home in a coffin. So Victoria you have a golden heart.

  • @alicenyakio164

    @alicenyakio164

    2 жыл бұрын

    May God bless the work of your hands ndio uweze kulea watoto

  • @christinekamau9122
    @christinekamau91222 жыл бұрын

    Monica you have done a good job here! The first wife and children have lived with the pain of absence of a father and husband in their lives. I greatly commend the kind of restraint that the first wife and daughter show when around the second wife. The first wife and her children must be given time to work through the process of forgiveness without being rushed, it will not be easy and it may never happen all the way. They do have very painful wounds.

  • @phyliswakio9460
    @phyliswakio94602 жыл бұрын

    "As far is East is from West, so has He separates us from our sins".. God is pleased with such a heart, may He restore your peace and life. And if it His will, may He bless you with a husband of your own.

  • @alexndirangu2893
    @alexndirangu28932 жыл бұрын

    A lesson to men too, those contemplating to get a side lady. The stress the two women go through, the stress kids from both sides go through.

  • @nyawiranzivo3346

    @nyawiranzivo3346

    2 жыл бұрын

    True true. No man deserves two women under the sun. The word of God is very categorical. Let people choose for themselves.

  • @shikufm9690
    @shikufm96902 жыл бұрын

    Thumbsup Mrs Kagoni for a job well done, yu're such a darling may our almighty God bless you. Victoria,kutenda kosa si kosa but kosa nikurudia, yu've known and repented your sins and hakuna dhambi ambayo our God hawezi samehe and we hope that your co-wife will also forgive you. We are all sinners it's just that we sin differently,so i can't judge you. All the best Victoria,it is well ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Faymbuina

    @Faymbuina

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's good to seek forgiveness but you made somebody suffer alot

  • @janewainaina6292

    @janewainaina6292

    2 жыл бұрын

    VICTORIA YOUR. For given be blessed

  • @cathykiarie6383
    @cathykiarie63832 жыл бұрын

    No one is perfect..may God heal your heart and grant you his peace ..may the co wife find somewhere in her to forgive victoria

  • @liliwakahia8303
    @liliwakahia83032 жыл бұрын

    Authentic, pure ,Victoria , Spirit to us Humans. Thankyou. May the Holy Spirit be upon you at all times.🙏🙌

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