I Was Sexually Abused By My Stepdad | A Child Abuse Story
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Amina Hamadi, our guest today, will tell us about how her stepdad sexually abused her. She was abused by her stepdad from an early age, and when she had the courage to tell her mother, she disbelieved her and blamed her for being a horrible child.
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Mothers, if your child tell you their father/stepfather is sexually/physically abusing them, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE BELIEVE YOUR CHILD AND STOP BELIEVING YOUR MAN!!!😭😫
@Zini561
Жыл бұрын
She didn’t want to lose his income. She knew darn well it was happening.
@mmcdonald1000
Жыл бұрын
@@Zini561 I agree. Some stupid women are so blinded by "love" they can't see the abuse their partner/spouse is doing to their own daughter😭
@mmcdonald1000
Жыл бұрын
@@user-bk8ev2cm4k 😱I'm so sorry you and your brother went thru this abuse. I hope you and your brother have some peace now. You should tell your story to unfiltered stories to reach out to those that went thru some type of abuse as well to let them know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
@mimifinesse
11 ай бұрын
Right!! No matter the circumstances.
@scrungles7853
8 ай бұрын
With that many kids, they unfortunately probably needed the money he would bring in
The fact that child abuse is so common is so crazy to me.
I have no respect for women who defend a predator over their own children. They're so desperate to have a man that they'll ignore abuse of their own children. It's despicable. She should have kicked that damn pervert out of the house as soon as she found out what he had done to her children. Poor excuse for a woman and mother...He should have been in jail for child abuse.
@karlashells6893
Жыл бұрын
So being homeless on the streets and getting your kids taken away is not a valid excuse? How would she support herself if she's a sahm for example?
@elizabethkadiri2369
Жыл бұрын
@@karlashells6893so letting a predator stay in your house is the only option? Seek therapt
@719kai719
Жыл бұрын
@@karlashells6893 Other women have been through the same or similar. There are resources for women who are the victim of abuse . Shelters to house them and their kids exist. Women don't need an abusive man to help them in any way. An abusive man isn't an asset to.a woman.
@cinnamonaries7031
7 ай бұрын
@@karlashells6893 you sound crazy as hell to think there’s ANY excuse good enough for this behavior
A mother who chose the abuser over her own children, I wish her all the healing
@sabrina4735
Жыл бұрын
Ikr it’s so sad. It’s my child over a sexually abuser husband anyday
@andreal5947
Жыл бұрын
Yeah. This happens time and time again, I can’t wrap my head around it.
@mmcdonald1000
Жыл бұрын
My child come first even over their own father!! If they tell me their father/stepfather is abusing them, I'm believing my child and he's getting reported to the police!😡
@sanaawilliams7153
Жыл бұрын
I dont like say this but theres a special place in hell for her mother i feel like its one thing to not no but its another thing to just allow it
When I confronted my mother and stepfather about his sexual abuse she called me a liar. He said nothing but the molestation stopped . She is dead and I'm ashamed to say that I still resent her inaction.
@rxya187
4 ай бұрын
You have every right to resent your mother. She allowed for sexual abuse to happen. In my eyes that makes her a sex offender
@MSSHARIII
3 ай бұрын
I 100% agree. Shame does not belong with you at all. You will heal in due time. Wishing you the absolute best in life!
Her real dad.. let his wife not accept his daughter in his house while she was going through all of this!?!? WOW ! I’m so sorry 😢
@LONDONESQUE.
Жыл бұрын
He’s a weak ass man for not putting his foot down. The wife should be worried for any child/ daughter she has with him cos if they split, he could do her the same way when she needs him🙄
@sheilaaba
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately he was a deadbeat dad from the go so yeah.. It's what it is.. Luckily she made it to a happily ever after 😊😍
@Kirstenmarshall
10 ай бұрын
Because I guarantee he knew that was his child.
@tazea13
10 ай бұрын
I bet he never even mentioned anything about her to his wife. Can’t stand his type or the wife
@maalfons
16 күн бұрын
Muslims
I’m so sorry this happened to you. Had a feeling you were African from the family pic, then heard you say Kenya. Fellow Kenyan here 👋. Glad you put that man on blast on here with his picture. What an animal!
@artisthusnatalal3099
Жыл бұрын
Kenya too👍
Mothers teach your children what is sexual abuse is. Teach them to report and not be afraid 😢
@coochi3516
Жыл бұрын
They will not. Most mothers are victims themselves and misery loves company.
@mariacardwell5035
Жыл бұрын
@Coo Chi true, but we must be strong and Report them demons! We cannot co tinge to keep quiet! WE NEED TO FIGHT BACK AND REPORT THOSE MONSTERS!
@karlashells6893
Жыл бұрын
Yeah report and get put in foster care
@sarahrobinson3423
Жыл бұрын
This is what I'm going to teach my children.
@ceceprincess4758
11 ай бұрын
Some kids still keep quiet about it
This hits home and the story about the woman who's husband stabbed her 37 times I thank you God because i know you have a plan for me i was molested by my stepfather my kids got taken away because i was in a domestic violence situation but I'm still here still a fighter because God has a plan for me i will be a testimony for other women like me my story is long a deep and it goes way back to when i was a baby and I'm still here Lord please i need you i need you more than ever help me concur my demons and help me find my place Amen 😥🙏🙌
She is beautiful. One main ingredient in these stories..hateful older women being toxic.
@SHAWNA499
10 ай бұрын
Perverted men
This is off topic but I just wanna say how gorgeous she is
@latongelajohnson6979
Жыл бұрын
Yes she is so beautiful ❤️
@BlondieBre
Жыл бұрын
Right? So pretty! ❤
@MSSHARIII
3 ай бұрын
Absolutely! 💖
It’s never discussed in most families, glad you’re ok……
When you go through this as a young child or teen you grow up not trusting anybody alone with your kids. Not even family or friends because they are usually the ones who you have to watch in these situations. Thanks for telling your story
Smart woman stop the cycle, so proud of you
Y'all women better stop taking anything into your home. 🤬🤬🤬
Amina, I am so sorry this happened to you and that you weren't believed by your own mother. I am so sorry. You're such a strong woman.
This girl is extremely gorgeous 😍😍 I'm so sorry that happened to her
I am glad you had the courage to save your own life. I wish you the very best.
You’re so beautiful and I’m glad you got out of that life.
That’s so horrible and your mom should have not let that happen to you.. I’m so sorry 😞
You did the right thing.
You are such a brave soul, thank you for sharing your story. I know for me, when my daughter hit certain ages I saw just what a baby she still was at the same age this started happening to me. I've had years of therapy, but nothing really helps all the feelings I still have. Because no one was ever prosecuted or confronted, I felt unheard and uncared about. My mom was told by my sister what was going on, and my mom chose to ignore it. As a mom myself, I can't even fathom that. Anyway, you are a beautiful, strong lady, and you just telling your story makes a difference in the world. I wish I had your strength. ❤❤❤❤
@MSSHARIII
3 ай бұрын
You're stronger than you realise! Thank you for sharing, little do you know your testimony also helps so many others. 💖 Your mother's actions are sickening and deplorable and I'm sorry that you endured that. Sending you love and light. You're amazing!💖
@jaeljade3609
3 ай бұрын
@@MSSHARIII Thank you ❤❤
I'm so glad that she told her truth on her channel.🤗
When a parent does not believe their child in my opinion they are complacent and they already know
🙏🏾 I hope he gets the time he deserves. They hesitate or move slowly when it comes to getting justice for SA children. I wish you much success and many blessings 🖤
You are a warrior and a survivor. Goodluck with everything❤
You made the right decision by trusting your instincts and leaving ❤
Well said, you did the right thing ♥️
You made it out ♡ And im so incredibly proud of you for protecting your children. I'm so sorry your life experience has been so hard.
Im so sorry this has happened to you, thank u so much for sharing ur story. As a survivor myself, listening to ur stories n how u still made it thru is so healing n inspiring. I have never shared my story like this, it takes tremendous strength to say out loud to the world what has happened to you. People dont realize how hard that is, how broken you feel, how ugly or disgusted you feel, the guilt is such a heavy weight to carry. Queen, u are inspiring, beautiful, gorgeous family n congrats on ur baking creations. Stay blessed n keep thriving 🙏🏽 👑😇💪🏾💖🏆✊🏽
You are shining bright like a diamond.
Your strength is inspiring! Sending much love!...and now following you on IG! #StayBeautiful inside and out!
Good for you! I'm so glad you're away from him!!
I commend her for telling us her story and I'm glad she found herself a good husband to help her get thru this abuse and yes honey keep your kids away from that sick stepfather of yours and don't trust no one with your children👍
Good luck girl..stay strong!
Thank you for sharing your story you have helped many ❤
I’m so sorry this happened to you abaayo and know that Allah will give your justice one day Insha Allah.
@abdiwasaabdi3531
11 ай бұрын
This is just ridiculous Waa wax laga xumaado walahi
Sorry, this happen to you! I wish parents would listen!!!! I pray that you and your sister get continuous healing. God bless you, and much success to you!
We share the same First Name and you got my momma s family's name! I went thru CSA as well and my mom knew... You Are A Superwoman/spouse/mom and i salute your courage! Love, peace and blessings!
She is so brave!! All my respect for her
Bless you. You are a beautiful soul.
I'm sorry, i hope you to be alright now, never give up! You're really strong and brave for share this ❤
I’m so sorry this happend to me by my uncle! This was horrible that is disgusting what he is was doing Im proud that your brave! ❤
I’m so sorry your mum wasn’t in your side. And your dad didn’t protect you. I cried so much. I’m happy you found a good husband
Well said you brave intelligent lady, you are now helping others, how evil the preditors are. Your parents are both selfish letting you and your sister suffer. Predators should be in jail.
How dare your aunt say your older sister "let it happen". She was a child and victim too! What was she supposed to do? She spoke up and told on him, thats all she could really do.
And yes, we will be following you, bless unto you my dear🙏🏾🫶🏾❣️
She's so beautiful.
Oh Lord please show this young woman a way to find counseling. This is very important. I can see her pain spilling out all over the place. Oh Lord please help her. She needs relief & coping skills. In your holy name I pray. Amen
My dear sister Amina wa kusalamy ❤❤❤
She is stunningly beautiful
You're so pretty.
Sorry you went through such a traumatic childhood. You are beautiful, courageous and brave young lady for having the courage to share your story. Your story is so inspirational to me. It took me many years after I lost my parents to reveal that my half sibling abused me as a child. I remember that during my abuse, my parents knew and did nothing. I wish I had been as brave as you are. Congrats on your graduation. We are survivors. I pray continuous healing over your life❤🙏🏾
I’m so sorry 😢
Mothers who choose their partners over their children are not deserving of any grace. There should be 0 reason as to why you'd remain in a situation like that. I would scorch earth behind my child.
@cinnamonaries7031
7 ай бұрын
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I’m very sorry for what happened to this young lady. May she find healing and peace. I’m noticing a disturbing pattern from watching these unfiltered stories. Please believe your children and also stop bringing men around your kids. Just have dates with them outside the house and don’t move in with them until your kids are grown and out of the house. 😢
People choosing their spouse over the children in this situation is infuriating. I just want to give her a big hug. She's so beautiful and I'm glad she got away.
Happens in the island community ALOT too. And the women never believe their children
I hate mothers like that uff! Subhanallah I am so sorry sister that happened to you 😢
Oh my God the fact she couldn't leave until she was 17 😢
I don’t think it’s a matter of parents “not believing” their child . They don’t wanna deal with it so they use the excuse that they don’t believe ….. just horrible
Unfortunately same thing happened too me….I’m not close to my mother either…I am a Muslim too. It’s hard when you come from a religious background. My dad though passed when I was 16
Allah is great .Have listened to videos of cases like yours and I realized that every victim that went through this ,Allah blessed them with greater things in the end .They are always elevating themselves and been successful. The lord is great . I guess because they decided that they are going to go through life and make it positive ..I know it is something one should forget but the more stronger you are Allah blesses you
I'm sorry your mum failed you😢
Poor Somali Bantu daughter they failed her
@thetruthisnear1
10 ай бұрын
They treated her horribly and the fact that they still don't talk about it amazing to me. I was shocked that even the sheikh didn't do anything. wallahi I hope allah guides her and her family toward infinite prosperity inshallah.
I wish more Muslims would speak up about abuse in the family.😢
This happens so frequently the question is for adults should be what is your story? How old where you?
If she is Muslim, inshallah she’s okay now & I wish her happy & healthy recovery. Ameen.
Im struggling because I cant remember if I intiated the abuse somehow. I really dont tbi k i did because i was only 8 and he was 13. I want to cry but i feel like im not allowed. 😭
Sorry about that but I Love U Eternally ❤❤
Most of the family members are denial they don’t want to confront serious issues either due to lack of knowledge or it something happen to them too in their child hood the best way like you said keep watching your kids & listen to their cries I notice many men are seriously sick we& we women we give birth to them another thing how do we raise our boys to be good people through their adult hood am sure some men turns out good
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OMGGG wasnt expecting you to say somali as a somali watching this :(((((((((
@maskiintiialleinaahmed733
Жыл бұрын
😳😭😭
@fsheik1127
Жыл бұрын
It’s so sad.
@brajeharris3091
Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful people but sorry her family is disgusting.
Sorry that happened to you young lady. A man should never hurt his child.
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Stay strong buetifull 👍🏻🌹👍🏻🌹👍🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️
Black eyes?! wth omg he was beating this child
@mmcdonald1000
Жыл бұрын
😭
I tried telling a mother figure Gina her husband was doing that coming onto me and I'd deny him and he would turn her against me and I'd be in trouble always .. I got kicked out and ended up getting my own apartment later afterward and he came over and tried having sex and I didn't was able to get out of that situation. I told her and she didn't believe me. I tried helping her get a job and her own apartment there how I did so she could leave him and she stopped talking to me for years.
She thought you were some young girl! Smh
Not to minimize her ongoing situation, HOWEVER, does anyone have any positive stories to tell
@sanaaniz
Жыл бұрын
its called UNFILTERED stories for a reason
@SD_Chosen
Жыл бұрын
I Forgave my Abuser, God Helped me and healed Me...I Don't Have Hate, Anger and resentment towards anyone.❤
@guleet75
Жыл бұрын
@@SD_Chosen Was it a physical or sexual abuse ?
@ShonSpoonNfork314
9 ай бұрын
You are on the wrong post looking for positive stories. Sexual abuse within families does happen a lot! Maybe you should go to another post not talking about issues like this.
@deatricebrow7890
4 ай бұрын
This helps a lot of people that have gone through the same thing
I wish your mom had stuck up for you a lot more because in reality if you had a restraining order it didn't matter if you guys lived in the same house he was not allowed back in that house with you he could have went straight to jail for stepping foot in that door and if your mom had given a s*** she would have made sure that's exactly what I am so sorry that you had to go through this and that your mom didn't stand up for you the way she should have
I can see why the mother wouldn't believe her, no one would... she is all over the place which shows a chaotic mind. It shows something definitely happened to her, the problem is only a psychologist who can track her words after sessions would be able to break down the nature. A mother who has 12 children as well others from the step father trying to get everything to gether, it just shows the house hold was broken and out of place. I feel for her and sorry things like this happen, how this world is just so cold at times and weird, may she get the healing she needs at the age she is, it doesn't seem like she has got the healing yet and looks like she will need good therapy with some quantum healing as well smh...
@mobates89
Ай бұрын
I feel sorry for your children. Any excuse for child sexual abuse is siding with the perpetrator. You need help
@ocdraridrogonel
Ай бұрын
@@mobates89 You took everything I said and presented it as siding with a child abuser. I feel sorry for your children. You don't seem to know how to read and you're more than likely emotional and jumping to conclusion. People like you are dangerous because you take what you think from your perspective as all truth without looking for a higher vantage point or at a different angle. People like you are wholly disgusting and I'm glad I don't have to deal with the likes of people like you!
Weren't we all?
I blame religion!
@Sota572
Жыл бұрын
Religion is dead but JESUS is ALIVE. I have decided to become a Christian ✝️ Muhammad lied about the REAL JESUS
@sabrina4735
Жыл бұрын
How💀
@ERNIE555
Жыл бұрын
@@sabrina4735 Muhammad and Aisha……sex with children is ok
@beastvader
Жыл бұрын
It's got nothing to do with religion. Only someone with a very low IQ would come to that conclusion 🤦🏻♂️
@celinemara565
Жыл бұрын
This whole channel is full of s3xual abuse cases from all backgrounds like how is this your conclusion dummy😂
What to do when a teen is willing to participate in a sexual act with a pedophile
I have decided that Jesus really is Allah. A Allah so powerful that He could come to earth He created. I have decided to become a Christian ✝️ Muhammad lied about the REAL JESUS ❤
@dianet467
Жыл бұрын
Proud that you have woken up . ❤❤
@celinemara565
Жыл бұрын
May our prophet Muhammad stay out of your mouth weirdos lmao i bet you are not even muslim
@celinemara565
Жыл бұрын
@Gumbo cope
@drawingtipsandtricks3244
Жыл бұрын
and he will tell Allah oh lord send me back 😢 TURN TO ALLAH BEFIRE ITS TOO LATE
@Sota572
Жыл бұрын
@Nooor🇲🇦 Please consider that Allah can do anything, even become a man. If God came to earth and this Jesus is the true creator God, Is it possible that Muhammad's Allah is really Satan in disguise. Jesus has changed my heart ❤️ but Muhammad did nothing for me. This Jesus really is the ONE true God ✝️ I have never been changed like this before 🙏♥️♥️♥️ Christian Prince on utube helped me
You said you wanted it and I gave it to you
@maddfinn11
Жыл бұрын
Lol don’t you have a bank to Rob or a child to abandon. Trolling on KZread is not gonna make the the white man any money
Beautiful woman love you yo are a strong survivor ❤
I couldn’t get over how pretty you are. 🧚🏼🧚🏼🤍🤍forgive me that’s off topic. And I’m happy God blessed you with a loving husband, you are beyond deserving 🙏🏽