"I’VE HAD DIARRHEA FOR 3 MONTHS" - Therapy Gecko
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A caller worries how his boyfriend might react to his “major explosive diarrhea” after returning from a work trip. We review his options.
Afterwards a caller tells me how she is having trouble breaking up with her boyfriend, another caller is unsatisfied with the reactions they’ve received to their cancer diagnosis, and a couple brings me up to speed on an awkward situation they experienced at the orgy they just attended.
TIMECODES-
0:00 - Intro
0:15 - Diarrhea for 3 months
12:42- Trouble breaking up
27:22 - Unsatisfied with reactions to cancer diagnosis
39:27 - Awkward orgy situation
57:40 - How to call the gecko!
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When you said, “jay you gotta diarrhea all over your car” I died
@whereisthebud
Жыл бұрын
he just has to get it over with fr
@ClaytonBigsby01
10 ай бұрын
Tell your boyfriend already you never know, he might like to play in the mud😂🤢
Lindsey, that is how abuse starts. The man you are with is an abuser and you need to leave NOW before it gets worse and more difficult to leave. RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN
For the first caller: The mind and the gut are connected. As an IBS sufferer any high amounts of anxiety or stress will send my body into a flare up. I hope things get better for you soon man. Gut health issues are no joke❤
@xSwordLilyx
Жыл бұрын
I have Chrohn's and I only get flares when I am stressed since I know what my body won't let me do
@maanramz7537
Жыл бұрын
Definitely rings true. Ulcerative Colitis. Stress triggers my flares. Get on probiotics, intake more fiber (easiest on me is PGX), and take care of your mind and your gut! They are more connected than you think
@SamandRie
Жыл бұрын
@@maanramz7537 i have UC too and the issue with fiber is real debatable. I would say if you are in a flare, minimize fiber. Its only going to exacerbate things. I think once things are stable and you figured out what foods work well for you, thats when adding fiber is a good idea. anybody else with a healthy gut, for sure should eat fiber. but I believe people with IBD, need to be more mindful with their fiber intake. your body doesn't absorb it, and its only going to irritate your colon more if its having to push all that fiber through, and thats not going to do you any good when you are flaring. atleast this is the case for me. i just wanted to put out what I've found for myself.
@Whatmynameiswhat
Жыл бұрын
There's a possibility this guy may have HIV. He needs to be tested. Giardia shouldn't last that long and would only last that long in an immunocompromised person.
Lindsey, i hope you see that this guy is only ruining your friendships and family relationships in an effort to isolate you from the people that love you. He had only changed for a temporary moment to reel you back because you tried to break up with him. Anyone that can’t allow you space or to create boundaries is toxic and controlling. Please leave before things get worse.
I like how geck’s like “I can’t assume from your voice whether you’re Kevin or Olivia, answer the question.”
"Maybe not sour but definitely tangy" had me dying
Nick (Cancer Guy) sounds like he wants validation from others. It’s human nature to want other people to react in a certain kind of way and to have expectations but going to the extend to call in and discuss it so willingly I wonder what else he has going on in his life to maybe distract from that long term thought of having cancer. No doubt that cancer can be a traumatic experience but some healing of the soul may be needed.
@uubish
Жыл бұрын
Yeah it sounds to me like he needs a real therapist, and to stop trying to have deep painful conversations with people outside of his close friend group, family, or a therapist. You can’t expect everyone to care about you the way your close friends or family care about you, or want to hear about a dark experience in a work setting. He needs to understand that. I do feel badly he went through all of that, but hopefully he uses his close network to process the trauma instead of strangers and acquaintances.
@whodissis1
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, if he got over it so long ago, why celebrate the anniversary of the diagnosis and instead remember the day they told him he was cancer free?? Break up a friendship over someone not going “NO MY GOD, CANCER MAN?!?!” That’s more of a “oh sweet, you beat cancer huh? Nice.” At least he saw he was being dramatic at the end of the call 👍🏻 good for him
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Since this stream aired I've been going diarrhea in my Amazon work van on each shift. It sorta marinated the floorboards, so aside from the corner splatter-pattern I have plausible deniability. Nobody has said anything thus far, butt I've never been more at peace. Bless you Geck🙏
@eTorotradingnetwork
Жыл бұрын
Can't you diarrhea in a bag in the van ? ,But great that's working for you
@GloopedoutYoinker
Жыл бұрын
Can we get an update??
The first caller needs a specialist
Feel like Geck jumped the gun a little on settling into a narrative for Nick's experience. There's probably truth in that narrative, but it's pretty damn harsh to have criticism for a cancer survivor's struggles with processing, healthy or otherwise, after listening for barely a minute. Pretty disappointed that it seems like everyone is more concerned with judging his mistakes than listening to him. Still love you Geck
Thank you Lyle, another hit
One of the best podcast/talk shows on KZread
I love watching these videos, but it scares me when I see my city in the background.
I've had diarriah for like 3 years my dude
Oh my favorite gecko on the computer.
That swinging story was fucking ridiculous. You communicate everything and if they couples were that upset about a question about bi stuff, they are not capable of or worthy of being partners. Thats some of the worst communication ive ever heard of in a swinging situation. On everyones part. Dont be friends with them. They are homophobic
That "uuuuuuuuuhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...." at the end of the kevin and olivia call made me laugh
U're My new religion
@unknowntosociety01
Жыл бұрын
Losing my religion
@zavriqshort4072
Жыл бұрын
I found this 2 days ago and since then Iv also converted
Our puppy had giardia when we got em. Clear up in a few days with meds from vet. We also had to bring a sample 😁 Hang in there my dude
@Whatmynameiswhat
Жыл бұрын
That's why this dude needs to be tested for HIV. Giardia would only last 3 months in an immunocompromised patient.
LYNDSAY. I think one of the things stopping you from moving on is he is trying to change for you. But remember!!!!!! You should have NEVER had to ask him to change in the first place. Ultimately he is bettering himself but you don't need to be in his life for him to do that. Don't feel guilty. It's not your responsibility. Don't let him bettering himself hold you back.
As I laugh to myself thinking you need to smoke less sea weed because of your short term memory, it just hit me that your a gecko so that joke doesn't pan out. Love the show bro
respeck the geck
@boofalaoof
Жыл бұрын
Translates nicely
My man has salmonella and campalobactor.
Urgent care are real doctors though, if anything they are able to operate under high pressure situations given the situation of emergency care
After switching jobs from the graveyard shift to early mornings. i tend to get diarrhea almost every morning now. not sure why
@xSwordLilyx
Жыл бұрын
you should talk to your doctor
@amyc6613
Жыл бұрын
As a person who also experienced this same thing, my tips are, try not eating after 8 to 9 pm. Drink a lot of water, stay hydrated. Try incorporating more fiber into your diet, cut back on greasy and/or fast food. If it’s concerning you, however, speak to a doctor. Even if it’s not concerning you though, it wouldn’t hurt to still see a doc.
@thefivesix1080
Жыл бұрын
@@amyc6613 i appreciate you
Those swingers sound like they just love the drama around it
@uubish
Жыл бұрын
Maybe they should try just 1 other bisexual couple to share with, instead of going to a sex party if they have more rigid rules. OR just be upfront and honest about your rules and ask everyone else’s before. Unfortunately when you’re being “adventurous”, not every experience is going to be completely fun or enjoyable because you don’t know the people you’re with very well. To me it sounds like their not mature enough or comfortable with this type of situation.
I feel the same way about going to the doctor! I've put on weight and my doctor has been mentioning it and I say i'ma work on it but haven't yet. It's been the last 2 visits and I've gained 10 more pounds since going last year and I know she's going to want to talk about it. I have like.. 3 possible issues going on that I shoukd probably have looked at but I've been putting it off cause I need to lose weight first before I go!! It's a vicious cycle.
That guy that had cancer is searching haaard for sympathy. Damn!
I had diarrhea for a few months after quitting methadone. It's still not completely fixed.
@sharibyaku
Жыл бұрын
That right fucking there dawg. I quit methadone a few months ago after being on it for 3 years, and man it’s been a wild ride since
@jimf1007
Жыл бұрын
@@sharibyaku glad to know I'm not the only one still shitting my guts out lmao
@superherobeatdown
8 ай бұрын
Well if ya think about it if your eating good solid food and it comes out runny your body is absorbing absolutely everything I mean I’ve tried to change my diet to like meat and drop carbs and fast for like 2 days a week and my shits are like oil it’s a bit fucked but lol
#3 sounded narcissistic in my opinion
@o0u0o3
Жыл бұрын
Yea listening to him was unbearable
@SanguineThor
Жыл бұрын
Bruh. He RARELY talks about his cancer experience. But talking about a defining childhood trauma can be helpful and cathartic and make you feel seen to your friend. He mentioned he brought it up to a CLOSE friend, and was seeking some kinda better response, and he came to the ultimate conclusion with Lyle that he expected too much from others. He got too in his head about his cancer conversations. How is that NARCISSISTIC? Jesus Christ dude
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I don't remember my last solid. I butty blast every time. Had a soft serve today tho. So I'm doing better than the 1hour shitter
The emphasis on him saying this comes from stuff in water makes me definitely think he got it eating ass, and no shame, but it’s from eating ass fe
cancer guy needs to stop trauma dumping on people. i get it that it’s important to him, but he needs to realize that not everyone is emotionally equipped to handle that information. and nobody owes him a “satisfactory” reaction to his trauma
@xSwordLilyx
Жыл бұрын
I gotta say under stress not doing that can be reeaallyy hard
@xonicnacx
Жыл бұрын
Maybe toughen up a little ? I don't think you hearing about it is anything near the trauma of experiencing it....
@Jesusluvz
Жыл бұрын
@@xonicnacx and I don’t think telling everyone about it and expecting them to really care is going to cure you. It’s not up to anyone to give them what they want lmao.
@SanguineThor
Жыл бұрын
I dislike this comment. He mentioned he talked about it to a close friend, and the response wasn't even a half assed "hey I'm uncomfortable but really sorry that happened. I'm glad you're still here". "Stop trauma dumping" he quite literally only talks about it rarely because it's heavy. He isn't dumping. Jeez I really dislike your comment
@brittv420
Жыл бұрын
@@SanguineThor he “quite literally” was bringing it up to coworkers that he wasn’t that close with. i find that to be lowkey inappropriate. like i said, no one owes him a satisfactory response. it is trauma dumping because if you’re not close to someone, you don’t know if bringing it up could be triggering. like maybe that coworker recently lost someone to cancer and doesn’t want to hear a guy talking about his experiences when he still gets to be alive???
the guy who had cancer is killing me with that “oh wow yeah that’s interesting. hmmm that’s interesting” like he hasn’t self reflected on it
@SanguineThor
Жыл бұрын
Its really hard to think of the right response in the moment when you're talking on a stream to thousands of people. He was being honest
The three guys that were in a couple? It’s always fun when you add rules to sex. This guys just creating his own problems sounds like they are the awkward ones not the one dude. Maybe the three guys in a couple thought he killed the mood by bringing up hey are you guys socially acceptable with them gays?
I can only assume how the first man for fecal matter in his mouth to begin with…