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would you guys survive bootcamp? lol
@peque2598
2 ай бұрын
Hell noo girl 😂 ❤ you look so pretty! I just saw Bennys video 😂 you guys are hilarious
@Smallb55
2 ай бұрын
Definitely notttttt 😂😂😂
@nicholaswong5086
2 ай бұрын
No way 🙅🏻♂️👎🏻🚫
@darrenwanamaker3326
2 ай бұрын
No
@yeseniacervantes5493
2 ай бұрын
I know exactly how you felt 😭 went through boot camp with the Marines 😵💫 imagine doing it for 13 weeks 😩
Benny was definitely meant to help her heal I love that for her
Benny trying to make light of the situation but he's low-key horrified. I can tell.
Aww you can see in Benny's eyes when listening to Alondra how much he felt bad for what she went through. I love them together❤️
Aww that’s so sad alo. Is that’s the reason why you really never talk about your mom, it seems like you don’t have a close relationship with her? Legy has a closer bond to Benny’s mom too, I’ve always been curious if you even see your parents. Aside of that you seemed like a very strong person, matured, and caring towards your kiddo. ❤
@user-dv4ju4ok9g
2 ай бұрын
Her mom seems like she lacks emotional/physical love/support whi h is probably why they aren't close , her dad def seems like the more loving one
@jessicamendez596
2 ай бұрын
In her sisters last video, she also talks about feeling like each of their parents kind of formed their own family and they feel like they don’t belong 🥺. No hate towards the mom, but I think she definitely made a lot of mistakes raising these beautiful girls and it caused a strain in their relationship.
@marycastro1551
Ай бұрын
@@jessicamendez596 ugh your comment got me you’re so right, alo and eve are so beautiful and sweet and you can tell they’ve gone through a lot tg i hope they heal to their greatest potential and live the happiest lives 🩷
Alondra, I'm so sorry you went through that! It must be so hard to remember those dark times.
No child should be put through that
@xoxoscorpio
2 ай бұрын
right 💔💔 poor alo
The thumbnail almost kept me away! I’m glad it was actually a story time and not some staged bOotCaMp. 😂
@JulianLopez-mh6be
2 ай бұрын
She and Benny should actually go to the park or a school track, and do a fun fitness test. Nice change of scenery. Do a run, a push or planks. Y’all should do it with the other KZreadrs, that could actually be your highest viewed video easily.
@StayTrue_
2 ай бұрын
I would have preferred a staged bootcamp, that was like “thinking outside of the box” type of entertaining content.
@isabellamarie2868
2 ай бұрын
nah me too i had to scroll through the vid real quick 😭
Went in with depression.. came out with depression and anxiety 😥
@rubyosorio9455
2 ай бұрын
Poor girl :(
you can tell benny knows more than just this story, he knows things she’s gone through if he’s quiet i mean i would to listening to your partners struggles hurts bc you love them, he’s seen her go through a hard pregnancy since it i seen he’s more reserved i see so many mean comments when you can tell they love each other, she’s so sweet ❤
No wonder you rarely show your mom that’s disgusting! Sorry she put you thru that! Makes me so sad but glad your able to recognize the wrong in it. I can totally relate.
Bennys face is so concerned when you’re story telling 😂
Alondra, no wonder you have such "anxiety ". I am so sorry that you went through that. This was clearly "abuse on so many levels ". Much love peace and blessings to all three of you. 💋❤️💐🙏✝️👼
You laugh about it as a coping mechanism …but that’s some serious trauma girl I’m sorry you went through that as a child..all and all love you and love your videos ❤
That’s so messed up idk your mom but I think she didn’t know what else to do but I think she definitely made the wrong choice by sending you there. Definitely traumatic.
@anakinz11
2 ай бұрын
Torturous 😭
@JulianLopez-mh6be
2 ай бұрын
You kids don’t know, Alondra didn’t get anxiety from boot camp She obviously got it from her parents. Anxiety is something you get because of how your raised, not something you get in boot camp. Also, keep in mind, long story short, people with bad anxiety should never use drugs( caffeine and alcohol )
@anakinz11
2 ай бұрын
@@JulianLopez-mh6be me consuming caffeine 80% of the time 🫣
paris hilton went through the same kind of pick up in the middle of the night and thrown into a camp. i dont get how parents hear this is the method of taking their child and say um okay take em, and why tf did all our parents think us being sad and not doing hw was as being as bad as kids drinking and partying🤣
The yelling would trigger my anxiety 🫠
The gasp & laugh at the same time with whatever went into the noodles. That was so funny 😂 hella in sync 😂
So your mom sent you to boot camp, and evelyn to mexico for a time period where she forgot her own mom?…… so sad…..some people should not have kids!!
Can you guys tell how Benny makes her laugh 😆 that’s so adorable u can tell he loves her
Y’all be easy on her mom; maybe she just wanted help with younger alo but didn’t know how to help and thought boot camp was a good option. She wouldn't have taken her if she knew how they treated the kids. All moms make mistakes while raising their kids, thinking it’s what's best for them, and I’m sure Alo and her mom have a good relationship despite not being shown on videos; maybe she’s just private and doesn’t want to be on camera; don’t judge or make assumptions.
@marycastro1551
2 ай бұрын
i’m sorry but no! she was depressed a boot camp was not the answer and never was. we don’t know yes but you can tell her mom never wanted to hear her out. no child should be sent to those when they come out as abusive in those camps
I love those bows on your hair ! I'm going to start doing this again 😂 my mom used to slap them out my hair when I was in grade school , she was tired of seen them 💀 she's going to be like otraves
Alo, I’m so sorry you went through this. You’re a beautiful mother to ledgy. God bless you ❤️
Alondra!’ WHY ARE YOUR VIDEOS SHORT😭 girl please i want longer vids💝
So sorry you went through this Alo :(
Yay alo posted , made my day 🩵🩵
Your hair looks so cute !! 🎀💗
I just love your family even more for this. The way your mom defended Alo is how it should be. Also i love the fact that Alo didn't seem comfortable arguing back, shows that yall don't normally argue and that's amazing. You guys have such a beautiful family. God bless you guys 🙏🏼
Please do a video where u make Mexican snacks!!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍
I just finished Paris Hilton’s Memoir and she speaks on her experience going to these “troubled teens programs” and how it affected her. All kinds unsettling abuse. She mentioned how being pulled out of her room caused her nightmares till this day and has severe insomnia. I think those type of places cause more harm than good for sure.
watching while studying for my clinicals (hospital) needed a break!! 😭😭 love the content!
@krimezofkolor4683
2 ай бұрын
Girl bc same !! I start my clinicals next week and I am so damn nervous 😂
@Eliandkayli
2 ай бұрын
@@krimezofkolor4683 GOODLUCK first day feet hurt more than the rest!
Not Alondra being in Beyond Scared Straight 😂😂😂
I love videos like this. Sitting down and knowing what you have been through because I’m sure alot of people have had similar experiences. I have gone through so much too and I can relate to this. Love story times🩷 thanks for sharing and I’m sorry you went through that😔
you guys make me laugh out loud frrrrrrrr i can’t 😂❤ thanks for sharing Alondra 🥺
This reminds of the Netflix documentary called The Program. I’m so sorry that happened to you Alo 😢
@ieadri
2 ай бұрын
Came here to say this!!!
@Xoxo.baby94
2 ай бұрын
Yes !!!! So sad what happened to those kids
Girl loving the vibe from both of u chill video ❤ blessings girl.
Damn, thank you for sharing your past and traumas with us. I feel that you saying that makes so much sense on why you have anxiety and some depression. I feel like I went through something traumatic as a kid as well and honestly I’m in my 30’s and I’m barely processing it now.
We need to hear part 2 of the other time you went! So sorry you had to go through that girl! 😢
omg 😰 thank you for sharing such a vulnerable time 🫶🏼
lol this video was so funny and I love it. Benny looked like he was in a deep thought for a bit lol. I can't with Benny, I am laughing so much omg I am at work laughing my ass off. His expressions are too too hilarious.
Change your smoke alarm battery!
So happy to hear you made it out okay. I’ve heard horror stories of kids getting SA, beaten and even murdered at these camps. So happy you’re finally talking about it.
Alo im so sorry that you experienced this 🥺💔 , just know that I appreciate you for being strong and vulnerable with us🥰 I started laughing hard when that fly went straight to your food, it also wanted a taste of your food🤣🤣
So happy to see you posting a lot more ❤️ keep it up Babe we are here to see you grow 🌹
This definitely sounds like “The Program” on Netflix !!!! How scary & traumatizing 😢 I hope you heal from this
ALONDRA!!!! I went to a boarding school for 3 years that was VERY similar to that but some other fucked up stuff too! They got closed down finally for extreme abuse! So I Hella resonate with this!!!!
Girl no way. I swear all I thought about this whole video was about a scandal that came out about this. Wow. My heart goes out to you.
Omg there’s a Netflix show called the program & it talks about how they treated people in there!!
That’s so sad Alondra maybe that’s where your trauma, depression and anxiety comes from and all that over just being a kid :(
Omg first!?!? Love you Alo!!!!
@alondradessy
2 ай бұрын
LOVE U!!
There’s a Netflix documentary similar to what she’s talking about called “The Program” 😳
So happy you posted but I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that.. really mustve been traumatizing at such a young age too.
Lmao I’m dead the whole video was and that’s why I have anxiety 😬😂😂😂😂
that’s literally a whole new definition of the term “baddie”. there’s bad, but then there’s silver teeth bad and Alo was both lmao
Girl yesterday at church I spoke in front of 200 people unexpectedly about my anxiety. The pastor said we have a mind like Christ. The same God that rose Jesus from the dead lives inside of you. I was very anxious yesterday once I put that on it disappeared then I had to go in front of everybody and explain lol. Let God operate in you when u feel anxious and watch it disappear. I was so so bad girl. God healed me by me letting him operate in me. 🩷
Love you alondra. Love how you do this story time with that beautiful smile
Not the fly in the food lmfao I’m screaming 🤣🤣 Both of you did the same thing at the same time lol goals
Sending you lots lots of love ❤️Benny so cute looking at u telling your story . You strong ass momma !!!
Much love !!
You needa post more!! ❤❤❤ omg I'm sorry you went thru that...
Take a shot for every time Alo said “I remember” lol 😂
I get excited every time y’all post 💕🤗
Omg my parents would always threaten me with boot camp.. i swear hispanic parents swear that is the answer to all issues pero ah no.. no mas me traumaron 😭
God bless you chica 🙌🏽🌹
Love you alo!!!!
Damn girly you really endured a lot! So sorry you had to go through so many obstacles in life. May God bless you always!
Mile higher podcast literally just made a podcast about this crazyyy
I love you alo that must of been so hard 😢 I just wanna hug your inner child 😔
That’s crazy girl, sometimes our biggest haters is our family. Idk why but I felt my mom was always jealous of me 🤷🏽♀️ idk I’m sorry but damn it’s not my fault. 🤦🏽♀️
Omg can you do a part 2 on what your dad did, and what happened when you came back home? Did your dad pull you out? Did your mom apologize?
Got anxiety just hearing you kind of went through the same thing ..much love Alo ❤🫶🏻😘
The thumbnail got me 😮I clicked for nothing I thought she was really gonna go to boot camp
Oh Wow Th yelling would’ve had me doing The Shake All Day WORD 😳🥺😳🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful family!!!❤
It sound like “the program” on Netflix that’s scary to experience
The reason why your memory is not clear is because our brain blocks trauma 😣
@Prettystasi
2 ай бұрын
Realest comment ever
Poor alo :( sucks ur mom put u thru that
I’m sorry you had to go through that luv I wish I could hug you 🥹😭😢
Sorry you went through that 😕 if my parents knew this existed they would have sent us as well 😂 I would never send my kids either. Glad a lot of us reevaluate parenting skills now a days. Violence or disrespect just doesnt work.
End my night watching my vlog dang alo sorry you went through that I don’t think I cold done that but you did how your doing well have a great day alo ❤
Alondra could’ve casted for the move Holes at this point 😅😂😢
Watching this a day before graduation ahhhhhhhh!!! love you guyssss!!
The fact that there are some parents that really send their kids to things like these"boot camps" is WILD.
I feel that for sure i have horrible memory because of how much ive been through mostly negative experiences in my life. I am 30 now and i cutt myself off from toxic family..and friends. So when i try to speak to people and my partner about my life its always so scattered n i feel bad because i wish i could have people in my life that i had the good momments with atleast or pics to rmemeber parts of my life. I feel like your brain chemistry changes every traumatic experience for some of us it tries to protect us and we literally forget. I havent got therapy but i have tried self healing through spiritually. Sometimes this route is extremely hard doing it on ur own but thats how bad my trust issues are i literally cant speak to anyone. One of my biggest issues came from my mother too so i understand where your coming from Alo ❤ my mom acted like my biggest enemy throughout my life. I tried to heal that wound n let her back in but she stays betraying me. Some ppl will never know how lucky they are to atleast have parents/family even if they arent a picture perfect family. Excuse my grammar and stuff. I have a two month old and time is limited lmao 🤣
Tell me the name of the boot camp. Let's get a group together go there and take care of them. Doing this to children is so wrong. That for sure would give me anxiety. You are a strong girl Alondra. How they ran that boot camp was terrible. They should do to them or their kid what they did to you. Just down right disgusting. That's abuse for sure. 😡😡
@taniabartolo6358
2 ай бұрын
It’s a camp in San Luis Obispo
Girl I love sit down videos do more 😇🩷🩷🩷🩷
I feel for Alo ❤️🩹crazy how someone can go through something traumatic like this and not allow something like this hinder you, you are so sweet and bubbly I never would have thought you’d gone through something like this because of the way you carry yourself. ❤️🩹🥹
I’m sorry you had to go through that Alo ❤
I’m seeing you in a new light. So sorry this happened to you. Paris Hilton went through the same thing.
Alo, I bet you weren’t a bad teen you probably just needed a little more guidance. I’m sorry you went through that
Can tell Benny is concerned and angry, boot camp is crazy
I definitely think she’s making this a lighter subject than it is. That’s traumatic af and there’s actually a documentary on Netflix on one of those camps and how abusive they were to the kids. Paris Hilton has also spoken up about it.
I love your videos ❤️❤️
I think I would survive bootcamp I grew up thinking the gym and exercise was a fun game 🤣🤌🏻
This is wild Alondra!!!
I remember my mom was so close to sending my twin sister and I to boot camp for ditching school I’m so glad she didn’t 😬
alondra is a quiet scorpio like me. I just know she’s been through so much & doesn’t really speak on it much 💔😭. The way she’s battled depression & anxiety her whole life too. I hate the way your mom didn’t understand your depression and the way benny hasn’t either but i guess if you’ve never been through it, it can be hard to truly understand.
I’m sorry your mom did that to you but it’s amazing to see you be a better mother than the one you had #survivor
Omg! I would’ve never thought you went through this! But it reminds me when I would threaten my son that I was going to send him to Mexico!🤣💖
I love your videos!