You should file a police report because it's getting to the point to where they need to be punished for stealing, no matter what packages or not.

@daisy31393

7 ай бұрын

Sadly the police do not gaf though… since it’s not considered serious

@healerellaella8698

7 ай бұрын

Seriously, once upon a time .. people would get their hands cut off if they stole a piece of bread.

Press charges!!! Don’t let him get away with it! Tell all your neighbors 🙏🏽

@l.s.u35

7 ай бұрын

That ain't gonna work... I don't see the point in rings if the cops won't do anything about it

@alejandravazquez2528

7 ай бұрын

Check the cameras if they caught his car model and license plates to make the police report. It’ll make the process faster and a lot more helpful .

@itsmikkaa

7 ай бұрын

The police will handle it if you have the car make, license plate and footage

@chismewithmel9850

7 ай бұрын

Report him don’t let him get away with it. If it was one package I feel like they wouldn’t care but this is literally burglary since it was this many packages. Just like when you steal one little thing from the store it’s a slap on the wrist but when you steal over a certain amount it’s a felony

@Scarlettxp1989

7 ай бұрын

It’s grand larceny. When someone steals over $250 worth of stuff. Or if someone steals something that’s over $250

Alo why don’t you post him on social media your fans will find him right away

@vanessacornejo2735

7 ай бұрын

I think because maybe he’d threaten to like post her address or something

@vanessabaez2371

7 ай бұрын

He could also turn around and sue her for defamation or any little thing he can 🤦🏽‍♀️

@jasheboo

7 ай бұрын

@@vanessabaez2371defamation??? He’s ON CAMERA STEALING 😂😂😂 HOW IS THAT DEFAMATION?

@gisellenight699

7 ай бұрын

Yes for real, she should!! Tiktok finds ppl less than 24hrs.

@vanessabaez2371

7 ай бұрын

@@jasheboo you’d be surprised how the law works. It’s one thing to do it around the neighborhood but all over social media is a different story

Girl you need to post it all over your neighborhood and on your platform also make a report don’t let this slide. Blessings

@ashleyescobar1650

7 ай бұрын

Really tho he can keep going back

@cassandragarcia4318

7 ай бұрын

Yes make a report in case he comes back

Stealing mail is a federal offense so you need to report it.. also identify theft as well.. even if they dnt find him its important to report it because you can protect yourself in the future if someone happens to use your identity

The light turning on and off and the music and you continuing the convo like nothing made me die😂😂

@Chocolateeepyt

7 ай бұрын

😭😭😭 fr

Make a police report, or he will keep doing it to other people stay safe 💘

@alejandravazquez2528

7 ай бұрын

She can report his license plates if the cameras caught good angles of the car!

You are meeee ignoring my problems with that freaking light!!!😂

@Anav173

7 ай бұрын

Wait it’s not automatic? 🫣

@EvaJourney

7 ай бұрын

Girll that’s exactly how I was thinking

So we not gonna talk about her light turning on by itself lol😭😂

@shookbitch123

7 ай бұрын

Time?

@edithalexandra.2957

6 ай бұрын

20:45 yes I saw that😳

Remember babe gentle parenting doesn’t mean permissive parenting and allowing the child to do whatever the heck they want. He needs to be taught respect and boundaries. Parents confuse gentle parenting with no punishments or no consequences. That kid will run YOU, not the other way around. I have a 16 year old and a 8 year old. I taught them boundaries from the start and now it’s just part of their daily lives. It works ❤ you got this

not alo just continuing getting ready as her some paranormal activity goin on in the back 😹

Sorry this happened this to you 💔 When I go on vacation I put a hold on my mail, they hold my mail and packages at the post office. I recommend you do this next time.

Noooooo sis say sike rn! The light turning on and off 😭😭 I’m cryingggggg. The way you stayed so calm. lol my ass would have ran tf out 💀😭

Alo, karate and martial arts is perfect. It teaches kids discipline, self love, love of others, confidence and teaches them self defense and when it is appropriate to use it. He will know not to turn on you and Benny. That would be so awesome for your son! My daughter did it for years! It’s not what you think!

YESSSS POST HIM ALLL OVER YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD AND SOCIAL MEDIA. I would be furious it doesn’t matter if it’s just packages, that’s your hard earned money

Maybe get a PO Box so that way u can have everything shipped there and don’t have to worry about ur packages getting stolen when you’re away from home. ❤

Post him on your social medias people need to learn one way or another!

Alo! I used to work at a day care and we would read a book called “hands are not for hitting” and it really sticks with the kids especially if you read it daily and keep reminding them!

Gurrrl I feel you the toddler life is not for the weak! I’m in the same boat. But someone told me a messy home is a happy home that really stuck with me , obviously we’re going to keep cleaning but our babies are happy.

My resolutions were •read my Bible more •no more cursing •no more drinking alcohol •be more positive •workout •be more talkative/outgoing •smile more Love you Alondra ❣️

@lucerosvlog5748

7 ай бұрын

Great job girl! Keep it up Jesus loves you! Pray with faith 🙏🏼🩷🙂

@vanessacabrera6202

7 ай бұрын

Litterally same. 3 days going on reading my bible. You got this!! At least 30 min !

@GodisGracious0115

7 ай бұрын

@@lucerosvlog5748 thank you ❣️

@GodisGracious0115

7 ай бұрын

@@vanessacabrera6202 Yass ❣️

As a mom I can relate 100 percent mama 😭❤ being a mom is hard none of us know what we’re doing ❤

I’d post photos of him on the Nextdoor app, Facebook pages for the county/neighborhood, and a police report. When I’m out of town, I have my next door neighbor put packages in my garage so they’re not sitting on my front porch. Sorry that happened to you! Ugh I have a 2 year old boy and my son is going to start soccer in the spring. They have soccer leagues for toddlers and it’s so cute. I also put him in gym/music class. It’s called Little Gym.

Please make a police report. These idiots have to be stopped. So sorry this happened to you 😢

If it's more than $1,000 stolen in CA the police can definitely put his a** in jail. I am sorry this happened to you. Keep your head up and don't give up ❤

@evelynsegura7035

7 ай бұрын

I wanted to add that there was a neighborhood theif that literally stole from everyone with yards (with unlocked gates), including cars that were packed with work tools..in all the neighborhoods near by and he was getting out of control and no one was doing anything about it. My sister started posting him on nextdoor (app) and ppl in the communities near by started posting him too!! And so we ended up chasing him one time and the cops got him, but did not arrested him because at that time he didn't stole anything and we had to gather around evidence from neighbors of what he stole. He had to have stolen more the $1000 in CA to be arrested that day/night. (Can u believe it?!?) But yeah anyway the word got out there and he eventually stopped. We ended up finding out that he lived in the same street as us but he was homeless on and off because he stayed with his mom.

I can definitely relate! It’s hard balancing life while also trying to work on yourself. I’m going through the same the patience and anger issues. Having kids I feel like at times we loose ourselves and it’s sometimes hard to adjust and become your own person again. But thank you for sharing that with us 🫶 Love these types of videos!

I’m sorry that happened to you I hope I would be pissed but I hope this new year is filled with blessing every day.

Not the light turning on & off 😩 get a limpia girl! & bless your house💜

Yes! Let the internet find this guy!

Sorry this happened. So upsetting! You should definitely put his picture so people can be on the lookout! He will definitely get his karma, but people around the neighborhood need to be on the lookout. He'll be back since he saw u had so many packages. Hopefully not, but he might send someone else? Idk I'm paranoid with that stuff. I'm from Chicago lol

I can never hate Alondra im sorry ,love her and her videos they have been making me happy for years

Put the pictures up! It'll be so embarrassing for his family and friends to see him! He must be local enough if he was making fucking trips!

Girl dont drink any pre-workouts or energy drinks. Those are horrible for your health!!!

You should definitely do something about it so you could prevent it from happening again!!! Also Amazon u can request for them to put ur packages in ur garage !!! I know because I was a delivery driver for them for about 2 months and I learned a lot !!! The associate isn’t allowed to leave till it’s closed

Girl get one of those safe boxes that have a passcode and you're able to give it to your delivery drivers so they can place them inside. You can have it placed somewhere or bury in the ground by your front porch just leave the door facing up

Girl I think raising an only child is so much harder then having two kids because siblings keep each other company while we get things done in the house. When it's one you need to be the play buddy at all time 😢

@leticiaortega7143

7 ай бұрын

Thisss. I was gonna say it’s time for baby #2 so he can have a buddy. It’s the best gift she can ever give him. I have 2 boys and they have each other and play all day ❤

@Anav173

7 ай бұрын

Maybe he can clean with her that way he’s next to her & entertained that’s what I do with my 3 babies because after 2 minutes it’s a tornado 😂

You guys are wonderful parents. Martial arts teaches them discipline and control.

Take him to Gymboree classes! They have all ages, it’s like a little class for 45 min. They also have preschool steps for 2 hrs my son loved it!

Hope your okay alo stay safe make a report don’t let him get away from it hoe things go well for you this year and hope you reach your goals and many more blessings and success and happiness

Police report! Mail theft is a felony which carries a sentence of up to 5 years in prison and fines up to $250,000.

As a teacher I recommend showing emotions more. For example for hitting pretend it really hurts and be sad and tell him no thank you. He’s really little still but he will understand after a while he has to understand emotions because trust me !! Pre k is rough wth teaching emotions a lot of kids don’t recognize how they make others feel obviously. For pre k we don’t do “punishments” because it’s up to us to teach them how to deal with emotions. And when he’s a little older and begins to understand and still doing it then that’s when you can explain more and tell him tj walk away if he feels like hitting punch a pillow or count to ten take a break things like that. There’s so much you could do and different ways tj approach it

My Goal this year is to take better care of my mother, after losing my father on the 7th of this month it hurts so bad. I saw him pass away it hurts so bad.😢 he's in heaven now. Hug your parents don't hold grudges be there for your family no matter what. Life's too precious and too short to not have your family around.

Girl take care of your heart. That caffeine is gonna run you into a heart attack real quick!!

Keep putting him he will get used to it that’s how my daughter before she used to not listen to what we said and fighting me when she’s mad but now she’s 4 years old and she’s such a good girl always listen to me . And don’t worry bout cleaning everyday because it’s hard with a baby and also let him learn to pick up his toys he will help u with that .

Alondra why can’t you just post him on your social media? He’ll be recognized and found asap

@sheylaaa23_

7 ай бұрын

i think she doesn’t want her address to be exposed if things escalate

expose him girl. if you don't do anything, he's getting away without any consequences. You have a big platform, use it

Girl if you have a picture and plates you should definitely place a police report and put him on blast in the neighborhood and online

Girl i can relate, i get bad headaches with no caffeine & same with the non social part , but once i get a few drinks in me i am social to everyone lmao ! So glad i am not the only one who struggles with that ..

Que feo que te pasó eso alo 😞 I’m sorry you had to go through all that. Wishing you nothing but the best this year! Your snap has the cutest stories with the baby! Lo amo 🥹😂🫶🏻💖

Press charges, the police will do something about it, especially if you can clearly see him. If you don’t he’s going to do it again . That’s scary

@LoriReyez

7 ай бұрын

❤❤

Girl a police report should have been made, no telling if your neighbors experienced this same thing!!!

I’d say file a police report still! What if he comes back/ continues. At least it will be on record for “his first time.”

The fact that she brought up he wasn’t even in need let’s me know that if he was she’d feel a little better about the situation. U can tell Alo has a good heart.❤️

You guys are the cutest family! Love when you vlog, hope the guy who stoled your packages gets in trouble girl that’s messed up that it got stolen. For this new year i just want focus on slowing down, and focus on being a better me also try getting better grades in my college courses❤

Girl we need a story time about your paranormal activity in your home 🏡

@jaime5095

7 ай бұрын

Paranormal activity!???? When did she say that

@diana_torr

7 ай бұрын

@@jaime5095 @4:39 she mentions it cause the light turned on by itself

Definitely file a police report in case it happens again then you’ll have a legit case against him!

It would be smart to do a police report just in case he makes it a habit and comes back! Also if he has done it to your neighbors definitely report them just tell them it exceeds $5-10k to make it a theft worth their while they want felonies lol 😂❤❤❤❤

When you said being social without the alcohol I felt that because if I drink I talk to everyone but without I will only talk to people I really know lol. It's a struggle forreal.

I'm so sorry that has happened to you. I would definitely be pissed but I hope this new year for you will be amazing 🩷

I think it’s a Scorpio ♏️ trait maybe because I can be soo socially awkward and I hate it! especially because I think my personality can be bubbly if I’m comfortable with you, It’s more of like an anxiety feeling like I can feel so many different energies and I freak out lol! Keep your vibe high w/ nothing but positive thoughts no matter what and I’m super glad the gym is helping! Love u and your channel Alo🤍

Yes girl. Post his picture everywhere. It’s not okay for them to get away with stealing from others.

I HOPE THAT YOU'RE OKAY 🙏🏻

Many blessings this happened to me when I found out I was 10 weeks pregnant with depo ect after working out i will feel lightheaded, I hope you recover soon. 😊

You should check at your local library for activities to do with young ones they sometimes have music& dance groups or storytelling ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Girl idk how you can just continue on with that light turning on and off I would’ve needed to turn my whole body around or left that room asap 😂😂😂

When he gets violent ask him if he needs a hug. It usually works with my child❤️

it was funny how you just kept talking like nothing after your lights were going on and off lol you’re so gorgeous ❤️

My new year was of to a rocky start too! Car broke down, I got sick, my kids got sick and many things more, but I'm trying to stay positive. I love your videos, it sucks that someone took your packages. Will go get in trouble if you expose him online? He needs to be stopped because if he did it to you, he will do it to someone else.

The light turning on and off 😭😭😭 but girl yes make a police report don’t let him get away with it

Felt like you were on the verge of tears throughout this video.. just wanted to say you’re doing your best Alo, and you are loved.

The way you stayed when the lights went off n on lmao😂

@AlondraDessy You should throw him a Birthday Party in Stockton with his Family but just say you need to drop off the baby.🎉🎉🎉 He would love that .❤❤❤❤ I love you guys

Hitting is developmentally normal for his age. Don’t react. Don’t even say “no”. Instead tell him what you want him to do. “Can you use gentle hands please.” If he doesn’t stop just saying you are removing yourself until he can be gentle. Also take him to your local library! Ours has activities for babies/toddlers so they get social time and then we find books. 💖

Gurrrl were so done hearing about better help LOL

wow i can totally relate. 2024 goal " BE LESS AWKWARD .!"

girl you're already talking to us so confidently just pretend we're there when you talk to someone :)

I can relate to you on all these topics let me not even start writing paragraphs. Lol You seem more open in these video and I like to see it. ❤

The music when the lights turned off and on 🤣🤣🤣 & my goals are less social media and spend more time doing things

Girl post him in everything and make the report!

Leave him with grandma for two days while you clean the whole house you and Benny maybe that will help❤

girl thats ppls money too.. if i got someone a gift and it got stolen, i’d be PISSED. police report and expose immediately

Omg how scarey 😲😳😲😳 you should of reported him. And post him online .

Please pray over your image and family for protection against evil eye and jealousy!! Cover yourself with God cause if things continue to get worse, its an attack but Ill pray for you and your family 🩷🩷🩷

@lucerosvlog5748

7 ай бұрын

Amen !

I need to make that my goal! Being social without the alcohol 🥺

@alondradessy

7 ай бұрын

We got this!❤

@amandahuseman1039

7 ай бұрын

Same

So sorry that happened to you girl! Happy new year! What goes around comes around times x 10! He will definitely get what’s coming to him in due time.

Put those pictures up allll over the neighborhood. That would be his karma!!

Get a PO Box so your packages dont just sit there. He will probably come back of he sees more. Expose him every where

Also so u could prevent ur neighbors getting robbed as well

Awe Alo you’re doing great! As a first time mom, you’re not expected to have everything perfect all the time. I always say when you have kids, your house will be lived in! You can clean every day all day and it will still be dirty but the messes will always be there and a new one in its place. I seen a tip for kids, limit the amount of toy Ledgey has, perhaps a small bucket as opposed to a big one. kids get over stimulated also and they see so many toys and he will probably tip over the big bucket as long as it there lol. Kids thrive on structure! It doesn’t hurt to try 😊

Actually stealing packages is a federal offense. File a report!!!!

If you’re ever in the Bay Area you can take Leggy to the SanJose discovery museum and/or Happy Hollow, he’s the perfect age for those two places 🥰

Aloooo Yur so freaking pretty !!!❤

Hi Alondra I think you should especially since you have a clear picture. Most of the time the cops can’t do much with no face but since you have a clear picture I think they can do more. May God always protect and shield you, your family and your home

I'm sorry that happened to you and yes put him out their. My son is 2.5 and he also gets bored and also loves to be outdoors, we just started to potty train him lol not easy 😅. My birthday is the 28th.

Put him in a Montessori school. He’ll be in school for a couple hours, participating in class activities and socializing with children his own age. It’ll also get him used to being away for when he starts kindergarten

Thanks for sharing more of your life 👏🏼👏🏼

Alondra! I just want to share to not give up with gentle parenting! It's so hard, but that just shows how much you care for your child!! My son is 8 now and he still hits here and there, but its not everyday like when he was a toddler. It does get better as he gets older!! My son has autism and adhd so learning to control his emotions when upset is hard. You got this mama!! ❤

@Brenda-kl1sn

7 ай бұрын

Gentle parenting doesn’t work not saying to hit him or yell but be more strict. Like I was told before him crying cause you said no he not gonna die Let him cry . But if he has autism then it’s a didn’t story .

2:04 YES YES YES DO IT . Even on social media!

I been following your channel even before you met your lover congrats happy new year and glad to see you in a better place you deserve it because your so humble and i love how you and Benny post real authentic content and show some of the young generation how real love and family looks like have a blessed day I subscribed to both you guys pages!

"i have trust issues." same girl 😩💯

Not me freaking out on the light turning on and off 😭 i would run out 😂