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  • @alondradessy
    @alondradessy3 ай бұрын

    I forgot to do the question of the day for the giveaway LMFAOO so the question to enter the $100 giveaway is.... Do you like shopping alone? if yes why?:) also what’s your fave skims item? leave ur cash app with ur comment! Anyways, get y'all some skims mama!!!! giveaway winner from last video is $Ladyarcos btw!

  • @nicholaswong5086

    @nicholaswong5086

    3 ай бұрын

    Alo, I like shopping w/ my 👩🏻‍🍼 🙋🏻‍♂️🛍

  • @cynthiaheart2021

    @cynthiaheart2021

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes it's me time self love matters ❤️ alot and go shop alone go to Starbucks and target 🎯 .If u have anxiety just eat sour stuff like candy it helps a lot

  • @cinthiazuniga2535

    @cinthiazuniga2535

    3 ай бұрын

    Yes 😂but im not good at managing money 😢 $CinthiaC24

  • @cinthiazuniga2535

    @cinthiazuniga2535

    3 ай бұрын

    $CinthiaC24

  • @africanqueen1294

    @africanqueen1294

    3 ай бұрын

    Girl NOOO 😂😂 I hate it so much I feel like I’m shopping wrong in public. Anxiety can never let me win 😭 The simple things people find easy is hard for people with anxiety, SO PROUD of you for doing this on your own! ❤ $COUMBELE

  • @Saray4176
    @Saray41763 ай бұрын

    Starts the target shopping with “my anxiety is not too bad guys” as you RUN through the entrance 😂😂😂

  • @agv23agv
    @agv23agv3 ай бұрын

    It’s crazy how anxiety works. I get anxious posting on social media, but love shopping alone.

  • @NancyLove2811
    @NancyLove28113 ай бұрын

    I’m your neighbor and I’m usually always at home. I suffer from anxiety but love shopping. I could always go with you and record you while you shop lol

  • @pattyv9506

    @pattyv9506

    3 ай бұрын

    She’s gonna move after seeing this comment lol

  • @cynthiasanchez3586

    @cynthiasanchez3586

    3 ай бұрын

    @@pattyv9506😂😂😂

  • @Ajade.55

    @Ajade.55

    3 ай бұрын

    That’s so nice of you! As someone with anxiety it’s sooooo much better when your with a friend.😊😊

  • @laurenfuentes8626

    @laurenfuentes8626

    3 ай бұрын

    Aww I hope she sees this comment ❤

  • @Liz-ll3qf

    @Liz-ll3qf

    3 ай бұрын

    You live in Rosedale too? We should all go ❤

  • @faith_God
    @faith_God3 ай бұрын

    making time for yourself is good for your mental health . Trust me you will enjoy your time alone once you get the hang of it . I don't get no breaks from my children but once in a while i'll go alone and i love it i feel recharged once i get home 🙌🏽😀

  • @jeannewishes1688

    @jeannewishes1688

    3 ай бұрын

    Yessss i agree....mamas should be able to get me time at least 1x a week if they can.and it does help mentally

  • @faith_God

    @faith_God

    3 ай бұрын

    I think some girls dont like being alone but i love it i take advantage when i can .

  • @DeeSoriano
    @DeeSoriano3 ай бұрын

    I’m proud of you for shopping alone!! I personally don’t like to shop alone, my anxiety be over the roof girl but sometimes we gotta do it 🥲🥲

  • @yesmijauregui
    @yesmijauregui3 ай бұрын

    I love shopping and eating alone! I don’t have to wait on anyone to go somewhere I have in mind, I can take my time, and be in my own zone 💗🙏🏼 maybe being the only child has helped too 🙊

  • @neomicastellanos4332
    @neomicastellanos43323 ай бұрын

    Real asf I hate going out alone I get so scared sometimes 😭

  • @jaelenegrioli
    @jaelenegrioli3 ай бұрын

    i love shopping alone with nobody rushing me!! im proud of you alo!

  • @JoanaJ4
    @JoanaJ43 ай бұрын

    4:26 Alondra speed walking through target 🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️😅 love the new hair 💇🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️❤

  • @kathleenlizettepedraza9112
    @kathleenlizettepedraza91123 ай бұрын

    Retail therapy is the best especially when you go alone, take your time and just honestly enjoy your own company. Your energy is different but in a positive way!! I love it 🩷 love that you’re trying to do different things for your anxiety it’s scary but keep trying!

  • @emilym77180
    @emilym771803 ай бұрын

    I used to get anxiety shopping alone but now I love it. I get to enjoy myself and take my time just walking around. You did so good! Keep going Alo! 🤩🥰 I haven’t tried any skims items yet. I can’t decide what I want. 😭

  • @arianapomai
    @arianapomai3 ай бұрын

    as a person with anxiety, sitting in the car deciding if ur gna get out or not is SO real! thank you for being so transparent with us Alo🥺💗

  • @Katalinacmakeup
    @Katalinacmakeup3 ай бұрын

    Having anxiety is the worst i literally can’t go anywhere without having someone with me even if it’s a family event 😭😭 I can’t imagine filming in public you are so brave ❤

  • @Yram0018

    @Yram0018

    3 ай бұрын

    THIS IS ME!! Even at family events and I’m 23 already

  • @kimberlyrodriguez5530
    @kimberlyrodriguez55303 ай бұрын

    Alondra , you’re so relatable and it’s so refreshing. I began to have a difficulty with anxiety but even more when I became a mom and wife. There’s so much to get done and several other tasks that it just gets overwhelming and not knowing where to begin cleaning up my messes. Little by little I’ve been getting better at it. Deep breathing exercises and getting a dog has helped me go out for walks and the dog alone has forced me to be speak to people because people really love dogs where I live lol I also realize I feel better when I am not near my phone. That’s what’s helped me :) thank you for sharing your journey with anxiety I enjoy your content very much :)

  • @annikagonzalez527
    @annikagonzalez5273 ай бұрын

    Literally love her so much more now that ik she’s a 🍃 queen

  • @Mpenaloza_

    @Mpenaloza_

    3 ай бұрын

    Same ✨

  • @Prettystasi

    @Prettystasi

    3 ай бұрын

    Me too 💕🥰

  • @shookbitch123

    @shookbitch123

    3 ай бұрын

    That’s probably why she has sm anxiety

  • @chunkyrexx9264

    @chunkyrexx9264

    3 ай бұрын

    seriously lol

  • @mangofresh9138

    @mangofresh9138

    3 ай бұрын

    She's definitely NOT a smoker queen tf 😂

  • @Xoxo_333.
    @Xoxo_333.3 ай бұрын

    I Love the Black Hair and Light Make up fits you so well. Your so Glowing ✨️

  • @adrianatorres586
    @adrianatorres5863 ай бұрын

    The little kid stare omg! Lol 🤣 they always be staring even in church lol. Go Alondra go! You got this! 🫶🥹

  • @kenniacabrera12
    @kenniacabrera123 ай бұрын

    I don’t like going to places alone but I LOVE going shopping alone it’s the best therapy for me. 😅🥰

  • @_Summertimeallthetime
    @_Summertimeallthetime3 ай бұрын

    I love the light makeup & darker hair ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @Aabreeezy
    @Aabreeezy3 ай бұрын

    Girl, I haven’t even watched the video but I’m just so proud of you for making such a commitment for change. I can really see it and I don’t even know you, but I’m really happy that you’re finding your groove and feeling safe to be you. 🫶✨

  • @Babywandaaa
    @Babywandaaa3 ай бұрын

    been watching you & elsy for years, I love your new life 🥺❤️

  • @deboraperez710
    @deboraperez7103 ай бұрын

    Crazy how you had anxiety filming but you eased mine by vlogging lol I love you

  • @michelleisawesome1022
    @michelleisawesome10223 ай бұрын

    This was me before,all the time,I even went through a time I had severe anxiety I lost weight and would lock myself in my room,couldnt even spend time with my kids as I felt panick and anxiety attacks,I thank God for saving me,now I enjoy those solo trips by myself .Praying for anyone going through anything mentally,your thoughts can be your worst enemy, but remember you hold the power.

  • @yeseniagarcia3596
    @yeseniagarcia35963 ай бұрын

    Me as a scorpio not wanting to go alone to the store 😂

  • @Bellaavii
    @Bellaavii3 ай бұрын

    Alondra I feel you girl. Sometimes I go into the store and feel so overwhelmed I end up leaving with half of the things I actually need. It’s stressful. 😣

  • @dayz_89
    @dayz_893 ай бұрын

    So proud of you Alondra! I get so many anxiety being alone sometimes too! I can only imagine how you feel being an influencer recording and being so pretty! Also by the way you look so pretty with your makeup like that😍 and girl you made me want to get a skims shirt 😂

  • @Youlovinkayyy
    @Youlovinkayyy3 ай бұрын

    Holddddd onnnn u smoked 🍃 this wholeeee time, why did u hide this from us queen 😫💘

  • @Solmammas

    @Solmammas

    3 ай бұрын

    Agreee! Love you even more ✨💜

  • @cindytapiamorfin7100
    @cindytapiamorfin71003 ай бұрын

    OMGG HIII alondra! It was so amazing meeting you at target you were seriously the sweetest person girl you made my whole ass year🥹🥹💕💕

  • @alondradessy

    @alondradessy

    3 ай бұрын

    Ahhhh you made my day! Thanks for the support babe🥺💖 it was soooo nice meeting you 🥰🫶

  • @anastasiahuddleston5143
    @anastasiahuddleston51433 ай бұрын

    Baby steps !! It’s so good to do things outside of your comfort zone even tho it is hellllllla scary ! I prefer to shop alone because I hate feeling rushed if I’m with someone who isn’t really into shopping . I love to look at every single item in the store lol. A trick I use for social anxiety is wearing my air pods , even if I’m not playing any music or talking to anyone lol it just makes me feel less alone for some reason. You did great babe 🫶🏼🩷🙌🏼

  • @Iris-espa
    @Iris-espa3 ай бұрын

    Girl this is me as well with 2 kids gives me so much anxiety but I don’t think I could ever do this alone , those skims shirt look cute

  • @NotSObored188
    @NotSObored1883 ай бұрын

    I actually love shopping alone bc i take forever looking around & trying on clothes and dont have to feel bad i take long but I do get anxiety if I gotta talk to people

  • @GabyShomar
    @GabyShomar3 ай бұрын

    I hate shopping alone it’s just not the same 😂

  • @angelaortiz3406
    @angelaortiz34063 ай бұрын

    He was looking at you girl cause you’re beautiful. Love when you post.❤

  • @iheartkass_
    @iheartkass_3 ай бұрын

    I'm a strong believer in exposure therapy, what also helps is knowing that it's you against your mind rather than you against people aka social anxiety. Hope that helps

  • @andreacarmona7438
    @andreacarmona74383 ай бұрын

    Alooo I didn’t know you smoked 👀 You should def make a high video with elsy lol 😫

  • @allfvetizzlest9573
    @allfvetizzlest95733 ай бұрын

    I love shopping / eating out alone. Being an able to spend my alone time is an important part of taking care of my mental health.

  • @julissaocampo6252
    @julissaocampo62523 ай бұрын

    Love seeing alo getting out of her comfort zone and going alone to shop. And it wasn’t that bad. Love it !!!!🥰🥰

  • @emilys.7355
    @emilys.73553 ай бұрын

    Yes a high grwm !!💖

  • @tjbrat44
    @tjbrat443 ай бұрын

    Alondra, you are truly the cutest girl ever! I understand your anxiety and stuff...you are handling it great!! Love your content!! Sending lots of love to you and your family, from Utah!! 💗

  • @kariesss_6838
    @kariesss_68383 ай бұрын

    I get anxiety while shopping too, you’re not alone. You’re one of my fav vlogers bc you’re real.

  • @nks623
    @nks6233 ай бұрын

    I loveeee your makeup here the natural and more lighter lips and lashes

  • @gregoriaperez6437
    @gregoriaperez64373 ай бұрын

    I been watching you for a while now, and the way you have went through so many changes In your life & getting older gets more challenging to find your style outfits and your personality for your time of age, and when I clicked this video OMG, this look makeup hair and clothing colors nails. Fit you so well. Just know your doing amazing and look amazing ❤️

  • @cynthiamartinez3260
    @cynthiamartinez32603 ай бұрын

    Someone with PPA I developed agarophobia and girrlllll it’s so hard to go shopping alone even leaving my house! Seeing you do this makes me so happy for you! ❤️

  • @deeaviado
    @deeaviado3 ай бұрын

    Alo you look so beautiful with light makeup, I love that look on you and loving the dark hair!!!

  • @awwlove0
    @awwlove03 ай бұрын

    I was just like this 1 year ago 😭😭😭 but I was determined to be able to go out alone! Now I love it 💕 you’re in your own bubble Alo! ❤ start of small then bigger places

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor31593 ай бұрын

    Its always a good day when Alondra posts a new video🥹💗

  • @btsgot17
    @btsgot173 ай бұрын

    Look at you go!! You're so brave for doing this and continuing to take these steps to conquer your fears. We're so proud of you, Alondra!! Keep up the amazing work. 🥺

  • @Purpcedez
    @Purpcedez3 ай бұрын

    First off you are so beautiful and that’s probably why people stare. Second no peer pressure but omg yes please do a GWRM vlog lit! Love ya girl!

  • @pennyhall7269
    @pennyhall72693 ай бұрын

    Good job Alondra!!! Way to work through that anxiety! 🙌

  • @princesstoksik
    @princesstoksik3 ай бұрын

    Love you Alo we miss you here on YT thanks for taking us shopping with you now I know what to pick up next time I’m at target for just one thing 🤗😊

  • @jasminenava00
    @jasminenava003 ай бұрын

    I tried recording with my PHONE at target once for my lil yt channel and my anxiety was through the roof! i was literally shaking & was whispering so i could only imagine using an actual camera. Ppl kept staring bc they thought i was an actual youtuber LMAO But you got this girlyy, we have to try to not let this anxiety cripple us

  • @Celestevelazquezz

    @Celestevelazquezz

    3 ай бұрын

    MOOOOOD 😂😂😂😂 same here girl!!!

  • @sandragarcia311

    @sandragarcia311

    3 ай бұрын

    Not me trying to go to your channel and see your videos 🫠 🫶🏻

  • @sandragarcia311

    @sandragarcia311

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Celestevelazquezz ima subscribe because everyone deserves a chance 🫶🏻

  • @Celestevelazquezz

    @Celestevelazquezz

    3 ай бұрын

    @@sandragarcia311 TOO SWEET! THANK YOU!

  • @virgocortez08
    @virgocortez083 ай бұрын

    This was SOOOOO relatable and I feel like I got more anxiety after the pandemic. I do like shopping alone; it lets me focus on something and not focus on people. So I don’t really overthink the fact people are looking at me. Favorite Skim… my thicc ass needs them Spanx to look like you (and I don’t lmaoooo). Thank you so much for this nice video!! As someone that has anxiety; it’s so nice to be reminded that we’re not alone!

  • @irishchick5528
    @irishchick55283 ай бұрын

    I suffer from anxiety so I know what your going through, It’s not easy. I liked when that little baby started talking blah blah to you. I think he was really saying keep going your doing good. I hope your anxiety gets better so you can continue to do these things.♥️

  • @monaamoon1974
    @monaamoon19743 ай бұрын

    This video gave me anxiety even tho I don’t have any 😂😂 the speed walking tho good job alo u go girl I love shopping alone best thing no one to bug you or rush you through it!

  • @destinielopezz
    @destinielopezz3 ай бұрын

    Alondra your growth has been amazing to see grow !!!!

  • @celinadelgado1840
    @celinadelgado18403 ай бұрын

    This is so relatable 😅 love watching you. I also get anxiety going anywhere alone.

  • @beatrizlove8448
    @beatrizlove844817 күн бұрын

    Every time I go out, I say the same when there’s a lot of people. “Go home, y’all don’t got other things to do?” 😅😅

  • @Ihrto5
    @Ihrto53 ай бұрын

    I get anxiety too but it gets worse at the line when im about to check out.😅

  • @alondradessy

    @alondradessy

    3 ай бұрын

    SAME 😭

  • @Ihrto5

    @Ihrto5

    3 ай бұрын

    Aweee you reply thank you❤ yes my mustache keeps on sweating lol😅

  • @nicholaswong5086
    @nicholaswong50863 ай бұрын

    Alo, you're always glowing 🙋🏻‍♂️😍🥰💖🩷✨️

  • @lovelydenisecastillo
    @lovelydenisecastillo3 ай бұрын

    Omg girl you look Gorgeous i love the layers in your hair it's something I've been wanting to do, but was scared but now l seeing yours inspired, it inspired me to do mine Thanks lAlo I love your videos and get excited when I see a new one. Thanks again, I

  • @hamsterble
    @hamsterble3 ай бұрын

    I have a fear of shopping alone and for some reason, going out wearing my eye glasses and a hat makes me feel 100x better! 😂 almost like I’m incognito lol

  • @Yesenia.V
    @Yesenia.V3 ай бұрын

    You look so much prettier here with less makeup

  • @ruby.esp1
    @ruby.esp13 ай бұрын

    Totally relate. My social anxiety could neverrrrr. I only shop online 😅

  • @krissybaby375
    @krissybaby3753 ай бұрын

    “Influencers in the wild” 😂 I’m so proud of you! Between quitting smoke 💨 and going out alone. I hope you continue to find your confidence in doing things alone. Also, I hope your anxiety subsides after not 💨 anymore. Letting your body naturally regulate is the best thing.

  • @eladiabravo9639
    @eladiabravo96393 ай бұрын

    I suffer from bad anxiety and trust me when I tell you going shopping alone has definitely helped me with us even if it’s running errands I still have yet to take that big step to go on dates by myself but it’s these little steps that counts love ❤

  • @griseldamartinez1241
    @griseldamartinez12413 ай бұрын

    ❤ I love that you’re bringing very consistent on your videos Alondra 🎉

  • @destinyduarte
    @destinyduarte3 ай бұрын

    alo you definitely need a little mic so you can do more vlogs like this. I would get hella lost and awkward shopping alone I always thought everyone was starting at me thinking I'ma steal😭😭 but it is relaxing ngl

  • @cindymartinez2916
    @cindymartinez29163 ай бұрын

    I love the darker hair and lighter makeup! ❤❤

  • @Drea143
    @Drea1433 ай бұрын

    Girl I love shopping alone The reason why is I don't have to wait on anybody else I can do whatever I want spend whatever I want don't have the extra drama and anxiety of somebody else. I find it very peaceful.

  • @hortensiamoreno2768
    @hortensiamoreno27683 ай бұрын

    I loooove shopping alone because I can look at every single little item lol without feeling rushed!!!

  • @adelinem.2980
    @adelinem.29803 ай бұрын

    Hey girl you actually pulled it off . Good job. It'll get easier. 🎉 Keep up the good work ❤

  • @kriskasum7131
    @kriskasum71313 ай бұрын

    You're doing good. Taking baby steps and knowing your limit is key.

  • @ivett.e
    @ivett.e3 ай бұрын

    So proud of you for going alone! I love shopping alone, going to the movies alone, and eating out alone. The only thing is when I shop I always go when the stores open because I hate waiting in long lines 😂😂

  • @brendaababey
    @brendaababey3 ай бұрын

    That’s how anxiety looses its power by facing it !!!! Good for you

  • @nancycastro8353
    @nancycastro83533 ай бұрын

    I do actually 😂 because it’s my time where I don’t think I just shop and forget about problems for a moment , but then again I also love to go with my husband but only so he can help with bags and most importantly for him to pay 😂

  • @nancyyv323
    @nancyyv3233 ай бұрын

    Congratulations girl you did good 💜💜💜 you look so beautiful 😍

  • @amandahuseman1039
    @amandahuseman10393 ай бұрын

    Your not alone, i hate shopping alone , i dont trust people & i always forget what i am buying

  • @kaylamagallon8703
    @kaylamagallon87033 ай бұрын

    tha title of the video I definitely felt 😂.. I feel socially awkward going shopping by myself lol

  • @Amy-vb7in
    @Amy-vb7in3 ай бұрын

    Love shopping alone it’s me time!!! Target runs with a Starbucks in hand ❤😊

  • @vampy_mua
    @vampy_mua3 ай бұрын

    It’s nice having alone time sometimes mayb grab a coffee and lunch before shopping maybe get a pedi self care day then shop ❤

  • @pamelamayy
    @pamelamayy3 ай бұрын

    I loooove stopping alone!! Grocery and thrifting are my retail therapies. I spend hours at the store😅

  • @mrs.e.salgado5083
    @mrs.e.salgado50833 ай бұрын

    Girl i get anxiety too but if i dont go to grocery store we dont eat!!! But i love that Grocery stores open super early and Ross too my favorite!!! And am i the only one that hates that the mall opens till 10!!!! 🙃

  • @melonielopez5713
    @melonielopez57133 ай бұрын

    Girl Burlington be having the cutest chairss!!😍

  • @sophiavasquez4339
    @sophiavasquez43393 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤ I would love to go shopping alone, but My baby girl has to go everywhere with me. I only go to work and back and dang I think you’re very blessed beautiful love your family. I was finally able to finally meet your man and your baby was so adorable at my work in Madera charging their Tesla, God bless and keep making your videos. You’re amazing beautiful and your family is so sweet.❤

  • @stargirlxooo
    @stargirlxooo3 ай бұрын

    I get anxiety going out without my baby & my husband. Trust me. The more often you do it the less anxiety you'll get. I am still getting used to it the few times I get the chance to go out on my own 🥰 good luck babygirl

  • @lizettebarrera2163
    @lizettebarrera21633 ай бұрын

    A high grwm would be amaze-ballz! 😊 once in a while is wont hurt love

  • @melhernandez7282
    @melhernandez72823 ай бұрын

    I love shopping alone cuz no one is rushing me 😂 and the cozy skims pants are the best !!

  • @Destiny_Tolliver
    @Destiny_Tolliver3 ай бұрын

    Alondra is meeee speed walking in the store 😂 and I have anxiety going any where alone last week I took myself out I was so nervous but I’m glad i did it.

  • @nancyrodriguezdelcompare4890
    @nancyrodriguezdelcompare48903 ай бұрын

    I love these kinds of videos! You should try TJ max or Marshals or Burlington for dusty pink chairs for your vanity.

  • @kari_1113
    @kari_11133 ай бұрын

    You did good Alo‼️🤍 You had me laughing ( Mc gang bang burger) 🍔😂💀

  • @mahlamor_
    @mahlamor_3 ай бұрын

    Alo this look on you is a 10/10!!!

  • @diamondgirllisa
    @diamondgirllisa3 ай бұрын

    Girl let Benny change that battery. Benny!!!!! 😅

  • @amandahuseman1039

    @amandahuseman1039

    3 ай бұрын

    Right @benny where u at lol

  • @Youlovinkayyy
    @Youlovinkayyy3 ай бұрын

    When you and elsy abt to post on your channel together 😔✋🏼we miss yall

  • @anaamaya2929
    @anaamaya29293 ай бұрын

    I never knew you used to smoke now I’m like wtfffff

  • @princessaxi
    @princessaxi3 ай бұрын

    literally me a year ago but now I loveee going out alone so proud of you thoooo! 🫶🏼

  • @alicedetejas830
    @alicedetejas8303 ай бұрын

    Exposure therapy is always good. I’ve been trying but it’s so hard. 😅 ❤

  • @priscyarias16
    @priscyarias163 ай бұрын

    I LOVEEEEEE those shave oils leaves my legs so so so soft 🥰

  • @deboraperez710
    @deboraperez7103 ай бұрын

    My comfort KZreadr I love you

  • @nicholaswong5086
    @nicholaswong50863 ай бұрын

    Alo, I ❤ you and I ❤ it when you post your videos, and I can't wait to see post another one 🙋🏻‍♂️🫶🏻🙌🏻📹💻❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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