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My name is Jess! I had a daughter (Lilia) at age 18 w/ my high school sweetheart. We mutually split up & co-parent to this day. I met someone new, got married, had twin boys (Kyson & Kaden) and another son (Landen). He cheated, we split ways, & he’s not around much. After juggling life as a single mom of 4 for some time, I met Chris, he had 2 sons: Caden and Tommy, who eventually became my step sons. After Chris and I got married, we had our 7th child together, Addelyn. We’re one big, complicated, blended family & every second of our story is on KZread, you can start from the beginning here: • 8 Weeks Pregnant!
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FAQ: Names and ages of the kids: Caden (step son, born in 2009), Lilia (daughter, born in 2010), Tommy (step son, born in 2010), Kyson (son, born in 2012), Kaden (son, born in 2012), Landen (son, born in 2014), Addelyn (daughter, born in 2016)
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  • @tiffanynathaniel509
    @tiffanynathaniel5092 жыл бұрын

    You have to put the fondant on each layer and then stack them 😊 but I loved watching the process 😂 so cute !

  • @delaneysteinbrecher7947

    @delaneysteinbrecher7947

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol and frost each layer but it’s the thought that counts.

  • @lynne4him72

    @lynne4him72

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I was going to say. Before you stack you partly frost, fondant and then stack.

  • @Rosewolf29

    @Rosewolf29

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, you gotta frost each layer then lay the frosting on top of each layer before stacking them. The layers don't have to be thick, just thick enough to hold the fondant. Also, maybe for stability, cake boards and rods? Idk I don't do cakes that often.

  • @mikaylafrazier4038

    @mikaylafrazier4038

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @brief402

    @brief402

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lynne4him72 the "crumb coat" (thats what it's called right)

  • @mististallard
    @mististallard2 жыл бұрын

    Chris’s grandma is like ‘Uh-uh I had nothing to do with that mess of a cake.’ 😂😂

  • @kellygibson2380

    @kellygibson2380

    2 жыл бұрын

    This comment wins

  • @cilandialane3084
    @cilandialane30842 жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Lilia, that poor cake will in time be one happy memory for you. I loved it because I know how valuable it will be to your childhood memories.

  • @morgana7544
    @morgana75442 жыл бұрын

    You need to frost the cake before you put the fondant on and you do each tier separately and then stack it. Fondant is heavy so draping it over the whole thing like that isn't really going to work. Also it will look better if you make the tiers taller. Like a two tier cake with 3 layers on each or even two layers on each will look a lot more professional than 3 tears with 1 layer making up each, You want the height on each tier

  • @katebrownsey9567
    @katebrownsey95672 жыл бұрын

    The best part was Chris building and frosting the cake. Happy Birthday Lilia!

  • @cnquezada
    @cnquezada2 жыл бұрын

    I just love how Jess laughs when things are going wrong. Had that been me, I would have exploded in frustration 😬 that speaks volumes about her.

  • @kryskelm6156
    @kryskelm61562 жыл бұрын

    "I spend hours on this cake!" Lillia's laugh of in the distance 🤣

  • @lauriemcgarrity155
    @lauriemcgarrity1552 жыл бұрын

    The cake disaster was hilarious 😂 as a baker myself I can say at least you tried and now have a funny memory lmao. Chris has some cake skills though lol

  • @Kcpatp1030
    @Kcpatp10302 жыл бұрын

    Tips for next time: use a zip lock bag for the chocolate drips. Put the chocolate once melted in the bag and cut the corner. Also make sure you don’t over heat the chocolate because it will clump together and it’s hard to fix. Oh and roll the fondant thinner and ice the cake before putting the fondant on. You really don’t need all the fancy tools for most things

  • @thefumblingcuisiniere

    @thefumblingcuisiniere

    2 жыл бұрын

    And wrap each layer in fondant separately, for a cleaner look. 😉

  • @LizzayMartini

    @LizzayMartini

    2 жыл бұрын

    I would even recommend using a condiment bottle for drip rather than a spoon, especially for beginners!

  • @brief402

    @brief402

    2 жыл бұрын

    Also roll the fondant around the rolling pin for easy installation

  • @brief402

    @brief402

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@LizzayMartini those squeezed bottles! 🤯 she definitely has some of this from when she does fancy pancakes

  • @tabithaaragon7390
    @tabithaaragon73902 жыл бұрын

    I’m getting Disney Sleeping Beauty vibes from this cake! I love it! 💗🎂

  • @iluvhorseys95
    @iluvhorseys952 жыл бұрын

    Don’t think I’ve ever been this early! Happy birthday, Lilia! And your family is in my thoughts and prayers because of Gigi 💗

  • @joesphhagerman9720
    @joesphhagerman97202 жыл бұрын

    Happy 12th Birthday Lilia You're Amazing Mom. May God Bless Y'all !

  • @lifejourney48
    @lifejourney482 жыл бұрын

    Hope Lilly had a good birthday it is so neat Chris was helping out with the cake have a beautiful week sending prayers for everyone

  • @annetteshannon3017
    @annetteshannon30172 жыл бұрын

    I laughed the hardest I have ever laughed watching your videos! This was HILARIOUS!! Happy Birthday Lilia. it’s been wonderful watching you grow up and become a beautiful young woman!

  • @noemijimenez1260
    @noemijimenez12602 жыл бұрын

    Just for next time if you’re gonna do fond it again Cover the cakes separately in fondant then stack them. Also for the chocolate to turn out better use a piping bag.

  • @KaylaNatalie
    @KaylaNatalie2 жыл бұрын

    That cake is a representation of my life atm 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @j.will_01
    @j.will_012 жыл бұрын

    I love the openness y’all have with your kids about gender identity/equality and sexuality love watching y’all grow and hope to have even a fraction of what you show ………. HAPPY BIRTHDAY LILIA🎊🎉🎊

  • @darlenecarson9416
    @darlenecarson94162 жыл бұрын

    Happy 12th day birthday Lilia may you have many more to come your mom is so amazing... Memories will last a lifetime..... Jessica they have this thing that you can put on your cake dish with a cake sits on the top and it was spin around it's something like if you doing pottery..... After you heat up your icing you can pour your colors on top of the cake one color at a time and it will actually turn the cake and have the colors on it that you want maybe you should check into that I forgot where you can get it from but I believe it's Amazon maybe that will help for your next amazing birthday party for one of your children...... Love you always looking forward to see you next video have a blessed day 🙏😊❤️🎉🎂🩰🩰🩰🩰🥳😿🎊🍧🍨🎂🎈🎂🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈

  • @MizzmomMy925
    @MizzmomMy9252 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Lilia !! I remember finding your page when you posted bows you made for her and I was pregnant with my son ..

  • @Wishes591
    @Wishes5912 жыл бұрын

    Looks like y’all are having an amazing Summer! Can’t wait for the back to school content! Please be super extra!

  • @kristengrimm7340
    @kristengrimm73402 жыл бұрын

    Happy 12th Birthday, Lilia!! 🎂💖🎉

  • @TR210531
    @TR2105312 жыл бұрын

    Happy belated birthday to the eldest jessfam. But dang Jess I was tempted to reach through the screen and just take over the making of the cake. 1. Use the rolling pin with the fondant to place. 2. Yes, use the icing as glue on the cake before fondant. 3 if you have either a baster or sandwich bag for the dripping colors for more control.

  • @margenn3889
    @margenn38892 жыл бұрын

    Loved the you tried to make the cake. Happy 12th birthday Lilia 🎂

  • @sngray11
    @sngray112 жыл бұрын

    I hope that Lilia had a Happy Birthday! 🎉 And that cake ended up being an epic fail! But it will still be a fun memory and experience for your kids and you. 💗 Hopefully you ended up just going to a bakery and buying a cake.

  • @Lily92691
    @Lily926912 жыл бұрын

    Happy Belated 12th Birthday, Lily-bug 🥺🥰🥳

  • @amydellorusso8944
    @amydellorusso89442 жыл бұрын

    I like the way you do your sponsorships...it's less of an "ad" and more just a little part of the vid and flows...also short sweet and to the point lol

  • @TheBri112099
    @TheBri1120992 жыл бұрын

    Hi Jess so sorry for your loss 💜🕊 also happy late birthday lilia 🎉🎉🎈

  • @melissagreen1117
    @melissagreen11172 жыл бұрын

    So fun watching ur cake decorating❤️

  • @dawnmolisani2603
    @dawnmolisani26032 жыл бұрын

    Happy 12th Birthday Lilia!🎉🎉🎉💐💖🎂

  • @Beachbabegabstar
    @Beachbabegabstar2 жыл бұрын

    I wish that your moments and sweet As sweet as your innocent face Don't lose that charming sheen in life And your wishful grace You are a wonderful kid you should know Not many words there to show But know that you are the best and true Have a lovely day too Coz its your birthday! Happy birthday to you! God bless you! Much love from Australia

  • @leahwilson8982
    @leahwilson89822 жыл бұрын

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY LILIA 💕

  • @grace.olsonn
    @grace.olsonn2 жыл бұрын

    i love you videos so much!! i hood lilia has an amazing birthday!! and i hope you and your whole family is doing ok!!

  • @mississippiwoman5363
    @mississippiwoman53632 жыл бұрын

    So funny! Lol. Next time do the fondant on each layer but coat with icing first. Also use a ziploc bag to do your drop icing. Loved this and you guys made memories to laugh about in years to come. Happy Belated Birthday Lilia! I hope you had an awesome day!

  • @estirubner5825
    @estirubner58252 жыл бұрын

    Happy early birthday hope u have the nest day Lilia love u guys sweetest most kind hearted family love u all so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @oncloudneal
    @oncloudneal2 жыл бұрын

    Where's Big Caden? Party came out great! Happy 12th Birthday Lilia!

  • @jehnnaanderson1172
    @jehnnaanderson11722 жыл бұрын

    Ok so if you were going to do fondant you have to do a thin layer of icing on each cake layer first, then fondant, THEN stack the cakes 😁 For your plan B it could have worked well but your coloured icing needed to be thinner and also in a piping bag so it could drip and not glob 🤣 never mind though, it was hilarious to watch and Chris did a great job helping!

  • @christinenelson4269
    @christinenelson42692 жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Lilia!!!! My son wants a game theme birthday party for his 9th birthday in a few months.

  • @callie4153
    @callie4153 Жыл бұрын

    Imagine being Jesses kid like she is so sweet and generous to her kids!!

  • @PrincessMax360
    @PrincessMax3602 жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Lilia. I can’t believe she is 12 years old.

  • @ploppersc6286
    @ploppersc62862 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Lilia Hope you have a great birthday 🥳

  • @gabrielle0825
    @gabrielle08252 жыл бұрын

    literally your the best mom!! do have any advice for when im older and want kids??

  • @samichmachine
    @samichmachine2 жыл бұрын

    Oh this is so silly, but hearing the acknowledgement of nonbinary filled my heart with JOY. As a long-time nonbinary fan, feels good to see myself supported. Heart yall and happy birthday Lilia!!

  • @unapologeticallyamy9031

    @unapologeticallyamy9031

    2 жыл бұрын

    It makes me so happy to see how loving and inclusive the younger generations are when it comes to people who are different than they are. I’m 41 and was raised to look at the heart of another when deciding who to invite in my life. I’m a cis gendered straight female (I think I phrased that correctly) and it hurts my heart so much to see people targeted and mistreated just because they’re not a clone copy of those around them. I have hope for those growing up. ❤️

  • @himynameisciel

    @himynameisciel

    2 жыл бұрын

    Non-binary gang , rise up!! I love seeing the younger generations just understand gender better than most adults do. People always say that kids won't get it but the adults that don't understand gender are the ones who make it confusing for the younger generation

  • @himynameisciel

    @himynameisciel

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@unapologeticallyamy9031 love the support, THANK YOU! :) just a quick tip: gender isn't a verb so just saying you're "cisgender" is good! I'm so happy to see how many allies we (non binary people) have ❤️❤️❤️

  • @amyfluffyfluff880

    @amyfluffyfluff880

    Жыл бұрын

    When was that ?

  • @himynameisciel

    @himynameisciel

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amyfluffyfluff880 it wasn't in the video. I was helping rephrase a comment :)

  • @joesphhagerman9720
    @joesphhagerman97202 жыл бұрын

    HAPPY B'DAY LILIA!!!!

  • @garethehlers1832
    @garethehlers18322 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Lilia ,I always wanted to see you guys

  • @angelinaeredia3292
    @angelinaeredia32922 жыл бұрын

    Happy happy birthday Lilia!!!🥳🎂🎉 Don't feel bad about the cake it will be something you girls will laugh about in the future. Sometimes things just don't work out how we planned. The thing that matters the most is you tried. My oldest is 14 so I know how you feel on your oldest getting older. I was just watching videos the other day of both of my boys and how tiny they where. Also my oldest how tiny his voice was an now he sounds like Batman🤣🤣🤣🤣 Can't wait to see how her party turns out!!!!

  • @mahreelowberloeber9885
    @mahreelowberloeber98852 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Lilia!

  • @meganf1269
    @meganf12692 жыл бұрын

    Early!! Also love the vid hahaha and happy birthday Lilia!!

  • @bibbity22
    @bibbity222 жыл бұрын

    Each layer needs its own fondant 😂 I was yelling at the screen watching lol also I refrigerate the cakes to help stick. (Crumb layer) Also not how you do the drippings 💀….So many good tutorials on cake making online. Owell you tried and have some fun memories 😂

  • @McCreaFamilyHomestead
    @McCreaFamilyHomestead2 жыл бұрын

    Jess you should really get a balloon arch kit from Amzon for your parties. They are so easy to make.

  • @beautifully.melanie3440
    @beautifully.melanie34402 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Lila! Your so beautiful and have such a big heart, your a great dancer I just can't wait until your birthday blog and I hope you have a great birthday! ❥☻❥

  • @celestegreen3423
    @celestegreen34232 жыл бұрын

    I've never been this early to a vid I love y'all and have been watching for years!!🤍

  • @mylamarie315
    @mylamarie3152 жыл бұрын

    guys i love your videos!

  • @aylariendeau5533
    @aylariendeau55332 жыл бұрын

    I was dying of laughing when u we’re trying to put the fondant on🤣🤣 Love your videos ❤️❤️

  • @aylariendeau5533

    @aylariendeau5533

    2 жыл бұрын

    And the icing to😂😂

  • @ash82888269
    @ash828882692 жыл бұрын

    I found you when I was pregnant in 2010 ..my daughter was born in August so I pretty much been with you from the beginning..we love you watching you guys

  • @the_awkwardzoe
    @the_awkwardzoe2 жыл бұрын

    Happy brithday Lilia!

  • @theamazinglifeoflucy5764
    @theamazinglifeoflucy57642 жыл бұрын

    Next time try one layer at a time even with the drips try using a piping bag with the drips and after all deco is done then have a go at stacking

  • @leilahcastilla9513
    @leilahcastilla95132 жыл бұрын

    Jess you are my fav KZreadr you make me smile like all the time

  • @adelinchilders7330
    @adelinchilders73302 жыл бұрын

    I love watching you guys so much you are my favorite

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa2 жыл бұрын

    Good morning I absolutely loved your vlogs jesssfam and you all amazing Supporter

  • @samthedemon2907
    @samthedemon29072 жыл бұрын

    Have a famtastic day or night or wherever you are

  • @melissapruter4944
    @melissapruter49442 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday. So cool I had my son on your birthday this year. I just now realized that. Love it. He is in nicu so this video makes me happy 😊

  • @lizdelorey6721
    @lizdelorey67212 жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Lilia. Hope you had a wonderful day

  • @emilybaswell2924
    @emilybaswell29242 жыл бұрын

    Ahhh I love your vids!!!

  • @addie2344
    @addie23442 жыл бұрын

    Girl it's the thought is what counts Jess!! Love the postiveity. ❤The intro with the hype amazing!!!

  • @reneemeyer8292
    @reneemeyer82922 жыл бұрын

    I have never laughed so hard at one of your videos! Watching it while everyone in my house is asleep and I'm laughing so hard I'm surprised nobody woke up. Haha that cake is EPIC!

  • @jebbicachronicles620
    @jebbicachronicles6202 жыл бұрын

    The cake is amazing and if you plan on doing it again in my experience modelling chocolate is a lot easier to use but seriously it looks great for a first go

  • @ashleyrice1427
    @ashleyrice14272 жыл бұрын

    Jessica, I love your effort with the cake for Lillia! The party as a whole already comes out wonderfully! But maybe continue to hire someone for this piece of the party, leave the decorating of the cake to a pro, or even a semi pro lol 👌🏻

  • @mariamalnuaimi8973
    @mariamalnuaimi89732 жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Lilia You look cute no matter what This is really a good channel I love this channel it produces quality content and more❤️

  • @nancyalford8056
    @nancyalford80562 жыл бұрын

    Happy New Year, Lilia🎂🎁🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈

  • @meaganremington4255
    @meaganremington4255 Жыл бұрын

    In order to do the fondant you should put it on each layer then stack. And to do the drips you should put the chocolate in a piping bag it will make it easier to drip.

  • @miasanford-rox8328
    @miasanford-rox83282 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday lily. Hope u have the best day. 💝

  • @shaystys123
    @shaystys1232 жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Lilia 🥳

  • @suzanmolli6305
    @suzanmolli63052 жыл бұрын

    With the fondant dip your fingers in a little bit or water!!! And with the drips use a plastics back as a piping bag or use a piping bag!!!! 😄

  • @dgmills5351
    @dgmills53512 жыл бұрын

    Maybe a few You Tube Cake decorating Tutorials would have helped! You needed to thin your drizzle icing a lot more so it would drizzle and not glob! Happy Belated Birthday Lillea!

  • @MissShards
    @MissShards2 жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Lilia! 🎂

  • @adelesdaydreamerss
    @adelesdaydreamerss2 жыл бұрын

    happy birthday lilia!!

  • @Rosewolf29
    @Rosewolf292 жыл бұрын

    At least it was fun making the cake XD happy birthday Lilia

  • @scentsygal0
    @scentsygal02 жыл бұрын

    Love the cake !!! The fondant you're supposed to do each layer separately thats what I do

  • @ashleymiddlemiss6844
    @ashleymiddlemiss6844 Жыл бұрын

    The cake though 🤣 I legit had tears 🤣

  • @heyitsmichaela
    @heyitsmichaela2 жыл бұрын

    Jessica Procrastination Jean Shafer Skube 😂😂😂 I was crying laughing at the cake disaster!!

  • @donnalayton1171
    @donnalayton11712 жыл бұрын

    Before putting Fondant, it’s recommended that you put comb coat of icing, it probably would been easier if you put each layer on separately!! 🤗🤗

  • @alyssa_rose__7
    @alyssa_rose__72 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Lilia I can’t believe you are 12 🥳🎂

  • @artmadgeorgina
    @artmadgeorgina2 жыл бұрын

    Hope she has a good birthday 🎂

  • @amydellorusso8944
    @amydellorusso89442 жыл бұрын

    If you fondant the individual layers and then stack it's a little easier...and yes you need to frost it lightly first so it sticks. But all the credit in the world to you for that effort!

  • @christinavonheidenstam3206
    @christinavonheidenstam32062 жыл бұрын

    So nice looking cake it is the thought whos matter Happy birthday to you Lilia

  • @kadiatouly1332
    @kadiatouly13322 жыл бұрын

    aww loved this video

  • @angelahorvat1729
    @angelahorvat17292 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Lilia🎉🎂🎊🎈🌺

  • @brooklyn.aguilarr
    @brooklyn.aguilarr2 жыл бұрын

    I'm also going to be a teen next summer as well!Happy b-day lilla!

  • @carinaoakshott1086
    @carinaoakshott10862 жыл бұрын

    The cake is giving me sleeping beauty vibes when the fairy godmothers try to make her a cake ☺️

  • @brendachaves6375
    @brendachaves63752 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Lilia

  • @laurenclaire2973
    @laurenclaire29732 жыл бұрын

    This was so funny! The party decorations look really good though👍👍

  • @baileyg9095
    @baileyg90952 жыл бұрын

    And you have to ice the cake first before you put the fondant on and it is easier when you put fondant on each individual layer and then put them on top of each other and the chocolate would be easier to do if you put it in a Ziploc bag or a piping bag then drizzle it on top. I love how Chris was making the cake

  • @kimluarks2418
    @kimluarks24182 жыл бұрын

    Been waiting all day for this!! Lol I really wish casetify would get some more options for samsung galaxy s21 fe, I tried to buy one as soon as I got my phone but the ones they have are super basic and not for me

  • @justelleslife507
    @justelleslife5072 жыл бұрын

    Loved the cat's tail seemingly floating in the middle of the screen - HaHa

  • @isabellasshorts6434
    @isabellasshorts64342 жыл бұрын

    I love watching your Chanel I thought it was going to be boring but I love this Chanel when I saw you in Disneyland I was so happy

  • @mahreelowberloeber9885
    @mahreelowberloeber98852 жыл бұрын

    “That looks ugly” 😭😭😭

  • @funny_tess
    @funny_tess2 жыл бұрын

    Happy late birthday lilia!

  • @ginaward6370
    @ginaward63702 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday 🎁🎉🎊🎈 I love

  • @sheatsjennifer
    @sheatsjennifer2 жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday 🎉🎁🎂🎇🎈💐

  • @nikkiharter7264
    @nikkiharter72642 жыл бұрын

    you should go on the show “nailed it”! 😂