Thank you for all you kindness and love!❤

@wilsonroo16

Жыл бұрын

I am only a novice rider and could see a huge difference in your horses behavior and demeanor. It is clear to see what he does and does not enjoy. Thank you for caring enough about your horse to put him to task on things that make him happy. All horses should have owners like you!!!

@chrisdouglass7962

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome! And TY! 🥰🥰 The answer to what he does and the way he does things, or doesn't do things, is that YOU Jesse have given HIM possibly his first home full of love and kindness, patience, respect, and even understanding, that's the WORLD!! That he chooses to turn towards you, to touch you, I believe, is because he's found his family 😊🥰 and he's loving it, with you, you keep going like this and you'll find even more of the real Gaio 😁❤️ You're a true horse lover Jesse! 🐎

@reneebarlow1077

Жыл бұрын

You're the best Jesse!

@carolineoja6243

Жыл бұрын

Jess I really think he really loves this ❤ to him it is super fun 😊Your a brilliant young horseman and your horses love you 👏 thanks for sharing your patience and expertise 😊

@introvertedequinesamsara6593

Жыл бұрын

You should definitely go to one of Warwickschiller's clinics, he really focuses on relaxation and changing a horse's mindset. I feel like you'd really enjoy and find his videos helpful. 🤗

It is rare to see an equestrian putting their own horses feelings above their own aspirations. I applaud you for doing what’s best for him! Very respectable

@thisirishcobcan

Жыл бұрын

We are here in the background. Social media just doesn’t push our pages 🫣.

@heatherlea561

Жыл бұрын

Not at all rare, just maybe rare on the internet

@harinu9339

Жыл бұрын

Rare? Where do you live?

@shilo7535

Жыл бұрын

@@harinu9339 Same planet you live on. I see it very often especially amongst those who compete and would rather win a ribbon vs putting their own horses happiness first. How often do you see a horse extremely anxious in the alley way or in the start box? One who’s rearing, crow hopping, has to be lead in, or is said to be hot? Is that a happy horse or one who has no choice but to do what it’s made to do at the riders wishes? How often do you see a horse tail swishing, mouth gapping, high head carriage, flared nostrils or pinned ears while being ridden? How often do you notice people making a horse work that have on tie downs; harsh bits, etc? Think on that..or choose to be blind to the truth of it. It’s common in quite a lot of barns whether you want to admit it or not.

@willpp9999

Жыл бұрын

@@shilo7535 Shilo agree completely with your comment

Jesse, please don’t ever think you are not good enough for Gaio. There is no one out there more equipped with knowledge, empathy and understanding than you. You have saved him. Yes he is still work in progress but you are getting there. His expression when he looks at you is priceless, he is trying so hard to please you. You have and are doing an amazing job. I wish there were more like you out there.

@MdRobin-bu4ys

Жыл бұрын

Yes you are so good to all your animals ❤

@donnagoring250

Жыл бұрын

Sued1101 Yes to your comment! Gaio was previously working in a dangerous line of work. Bulls are sneaky! He could not afford the luxury of relaxing while working. And it does seem that Gaio was reaching over with the horse equivalent of affection to him, his heart is near to Jesse. The bond is there.

@dianereid-frost6799

Жыл бұрын

I can see it in him , that he totally wants to give over his whole heart to Jesse. I haven't been following long so could you tell me please if Giao is a Stallion or a gelding?

@dianereid-frost6799

Жыл бұрын

Gaio

@The-ii5mj

Жыл бұрын

@@donnagoring250 I agree❗ Jesse, no-one can help Gaio better than you.💓 You're making progress & 1 day soon he's gonna "get it"; no more bulls❗😘💕 Then it's going to be magic for you both✌🙌

If a horse with such a past as Gajo suffered, gets down, this means an enormous ammount of trust of a horse in his person! You are the best, Jesse!

Liberty work for horses, especially after trauma can be amazing, it lets them decompress, not have too much pressure, form a strong connection to you and just do normal horse movements. Its rare to see someone who puts the needs of their horse first so honestly, thats refreshing, keep it up young man. That horse will be a partner for a lifetime.

Man you're one of the very few equestrians on this site and in general that I look up to and see as a positive role model rather than a sign of an archaic and abusive system. Really encourages me as an ethical equestrian who sees my horses as consenting friends before anything else to keep striving to be better. This horse is so lucky to have you.

What a pleasure to see someone honor and respect the horse as a sentient being!!!!! Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏

@emorel48

7 ай бұрын

He is a beautiful animal!

@cattymajiv

7 ай бұрын

And Jesse is such a beautiful person! ❤❤❤

Omg Jesse, the difference from the bit to the bitless is HUGE! His mouth was quiet and his whole body was less tense. He seemed so much happier. Keep doing what you are doing as you are definitely helping him let go of things from his past. He is lovely and cheeky and you can only go up from here!

@balkheidi1436

Жыл бұрын

yet i wonder if it is the bit or the saddle that makes the trauma come back to life. With my horse its the bit (i started him bitless and last year (he is now 15) i thought "lets try the bit?" He said no... so no bit lol. But with an other horse it was the saddle. Bit or bitless was not an issue. The saddle fitted well btw.

@cattymajiv

7 ай бұрын

@@balkheidi1436 Yes. Either or both can contribute, especially the god-awful western saddles that are so heavy and bulky. I only ride bareback, but if a person is light and really thinks they have to have stirrups, then a bareback pad with a girth and strirrups is one answer, and a treeless saddle is another one. As soon as I saw that bridle I was shocked by it, and I knew he had to get rid of it. The dropped noseband is as much of a problem as the bit is, and perhaps the tightness on the reins. It's a much worse bridle than most are, and it was so obvious how much Gaio hates it! But Jesse is a minimalist at heart, so I trusted him to figure that out very quickly, and so he did. He and Gaio have a happy future together. I think Jesse has more talent and knowledge already, at his young age, than most experts who have been training horses for decades. Most of them are frauds who do it for money and ego, but Jesse does it out of love, and that's why he is so amazing at it! ❤❤❤

"This feels like a way happier horse, and I don't know why I shouldn't listen to that and do something with it." THIS, Jesse, THIS is why I follow you. My boy absolutely has ADHD as well, not just ADD xD I'm trying to find his buttons, and he LOVES trail riding. He's smart, and excellent at groundwork, too, so I relate to you both.

@tracyjohnson5023

Жыл бұрын

I was just going to say many horses that had some trauma in arena/competition settings LOVE to trail ride. There are also those horses that are ADD or just plain smart. They get SO BORED with arena work that frustration leads to things like bucking. But they make the best, boldest trail horses! When I can't get out on the trail, I do obstacle work with mine. There are so many inexpensive easy set up things to do at home. I do change up some obstacles either by moving to new spot or adding new ones.

@cattymajiv

7 ай бұрын

Boredom is so common and it's a huge problem for the poor horses. So is being ridden by beginners in lessons. Trail rides on a variety of terrain with half decent riders are such a hugely important component of their exercise and learning. They are not go-carts, but very intelligent thinking animals, as much as people are. If I had to go in circles with someone on my back who is hauling on my mouth every day, I would object to it too!

He looks like he is having so much fun with his friend when you're doing ground work with him. It looks like he really wants to please you while being like a playful little boy😁

Who's heart just grew bigger for Jesse & dear Gaio ? 🫶🙌🙌🙌🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️ beautiful, esp. the laying down so special ❤

Gaio is so lucky to have you. It's amazing to see a rider listening to their horse and to accept what really makes their partner happy. You can see so much more joy in his entire energy after the saddle comes off. Thank you for being so in tune with him!

This horse NEEDS to be bitless, Jesse! Your experience in natural horsemanship has made you an absolutely stellar horseman and every single time I check up on your channel I see so much amazing growth and confidence. I am always so excited to see where you will go and inspired by the paths you have taken 😊

Oh Jesse, it was so wonderful seeing you helping your horse to relax and enjoy. Bringing Gaio back to the basics and showing him tenderness in learning to relax is so important. I LOVE how you read your horses and react to their needs. I could watch this all day every day! Thank you for caring...so much!!!

Going back to basics never hurt a horse! Great choice Jesse!

I'm so in love with Gaio, he's such a beautiful cleaver horse! I think its really clear so see that he enjoys the "free" work and playing around with you, so much more than the classical work. And you look happier as well. I think you made the right choise :)

I have said it before and Must say it again, Jesse you are an amazing trainer and an exceptional human that connects with his horse so kindly Renews my spirit and beliefs to watch how much progress Gaio has made. I feel like his earlier life no one took the time to understand him. He was trained to perform and no one observed his reactions He is a very intelligent high strung horse. He is so fortunate to be with you.

@piaogilvie8463

8 ай бұрын

If Gaio was treated like many Spanish horses are being treated, then his past was tough and at times also cruel. He's in the most gentle of hands now, and I know, that Jesse and Gaio will become an amazing team❣️

@cattymajiv

7 ай бұрын

@@piaogilvie8463 I completely agree!

You are a kind person Jesse. Gaio looked more relaxed & less busy in his mouth bitless. Well done Jesse

I love the way you use all positive reinforcement and no negative responses with your horses.

It’s so refreshing to hear about owners that are sensitive to what their horse likes and doesn’t like. Thank you for that.

Thank you for thinking of your horse's feelings over your own, Jesse ☺️🐎💚

This whole video was a pleasure to watch from start to finish. You raise the bar for equestrian mindfulness and horsemanship . The difference is in the ridden stuff is staggering. All your horses are so lucky to have you.

@ady1gilb

Жыл бұрын

Another brilliant comment ... !!! "you raise the bar for equestrian mindfulness and horsemanship ... " ❤️WOW!!! That's Jesse all the way ...! 💥🌞💥 /🥰😍🤩

I'm glad this horse ended up with you - you are so in tune with your horses and invested in their metal and physical wellbeing. He couldn't be in better hands. I hope you both find things to do together that you both really enjoy.

He literally looks like a different horse when you remove the bit and do groundwork, his expression and energy changes completely. Thank you for listening to your horse, I hope this video will inspire others to do the same. ❤

For him to know he is safe with you is huge. When you encourage him to allow his personality to shine when you are training speaks volumes to your training capabilities. You are the true horse whisperer, a sentient soul, kind and caring without fail. ❤️🥰 We love you, Jesse!!

Wow he's a different horse without a saddle and with the bitless bridle. So much quieter throughout his whole body. Love love love this journey you two are on. Thank you for sharing it with us! 💖

I love how inttuned you are with your horses and care about them so much, and not just give him away

I don't know much about horses but his mood does feel happier and lighter when he does ground work with you! Getting rid of peer-pressure and self-imposed pressure is one of the hardest thing in my opinion, so I realy like that you are able to just listen to him and go for what feels right!

I had a horse a lot like this gelding. He was very impulsive, wanted to be busy, easily distracted, and always over the bit, under the bit, throwing his head, all over the place. I ended up going back to the ground and worked him with long lining and it helped him quiet his mind and help him enjoy changing directions, and keep his mind busy. He loved playing games and was very smart. I think he'll change under saddle as he ages and becomes more connected and less scattered in his mind.

Giao has the best owner with you Jesse ❤ most other people would force him to do the work but you are so connected with him you know he’s not enjoying it 💯 so you are willing to play and teach him new things which he loves.. you are an incredible horseman Jesse 💕🥰

To get him this far is amazing, even war horses back in the dark ages , those horses were good for one maybe two battles and after that their brain was shattered, that’s when they would be eaten. It’s wonderful that you’re giving G a chance to learn not to fear life.

I needed this so much. I have a pony who I wanted to do dressage with, and compete, but the canter was always horrible (like, the you can barely sit it kind), so after lots of struggle, I stopped doing that, I stopped cantering her completely, and did more ground work and liberty. Now we know, that her struggles are probably due to how her front legs are put together, and she was probably really uncomfortable doing all the cantering. This issue can not be fixed, as this is how her legs naturally are, and I kind of accepted this, but not completely. Until a few days ago. I went out on a trail ride with a few other people, and she started bucking in trot, which she has never done before, and after that, I almost completely lost her in the canter, she basically turned into a racehorse (on some VERY uneven terrain might I add). I never had a problem stopping or steering her before this. A few days after this event, I took her out just leading her, not riding. The difference in her behavior was something I never expected to see. She was SO calm walking beside me, and she was not nervous, the only thing she did, were a few happy jumps when I let her trot around me on a circle, but she came right back to me when I asked. I did sit on her a few days ago, to see how she does in the arena, and she was incredibly nervous. That sealed the deal for me, and Im done riding her. Its not fun for us, at all. Seeing you make the same decision really reassured me, that Im doing the right thing, and it does not make sense to continue doing something, that stresses my horse out. I tried to solve it, with different trainers, methods, nothing worked, she does not respond to anything that works when I am on the ground, so I quit trying, Im going to make my horse happy, and save our relationship🥰 This is such a long rant, Im sorryy, but I had to let this out, it’s not so easy to make decisions like this😅

@monadiana8305

Жыл бұрын

I also have a pony who would be in real pain if I would ride her. So we don't do riding, we work only on the ground and also in liberty :) most of the riders like to mock me, but I love my little lady, she is so amazing and we have a really special bond I would never ever traid. ❤️ So nice to hear, that you are doing the same!!

@elenafrogwill8765

Жыл бұрын

@@monadiana8305 It’s so great, that you, and many others put their horse’s both physical and mental well being first! It’s sometimes really hard to make this choice, but it’s so much better afterwards! Please, don’t ever let others mocking get to you, you are doing right by your horse, and that is the only thing that matters❤️

@firehorse2008

Жыл бұрын

Good for you and your horse.👍🏽

@jodyhuston1516

Жыл бұрын

The only problem I see with this, is if your pony ever had to go to another home in her life, who may not be so understanding. She could end up in auctions and slaughter pipeline, which would be awful for her. Please keep your girl all her life. And as extra protection for her, if she can’t be ridden for anatomical reasons, teach her to pull a cart, which you can enjoy with her long after you’ve outgrown her size, and make her happy to have work , love, attention and exercise lifelong!

He looks so much more relaxed and happy going bitless. Good call, Jesse. You're always putting your horses needs and well being first, and that's beautiful to see.

Jesse..you are Sooo much more comfortable in front of the camera...it's just talking with 'all of us friends' after all. Love you and Matt and your 4 legged family.

He was so worried about his mouth, and stressed with the bit. When you went bitless, he was able to relax and find his own posture. I had a dressage horse that just was so tense with the bit, but did amazing with a bitless bridle. I really appreciate how much you seek the benefit of the horse, and how he responds to your kindness. I hope you can pass your knowledge on to others.

He will tell you when he is ready☆♡ Thank you for listening to him☆♡

15:53 if I were a horse I would want to be under your care because you are thoughtful and kind- very rare qualities today.

He looks like he wants to be a performer with a non rider in the ring. Fun trick horse, funny skits for shows stuff like that. He definitely loves NO bit. Goodness he's spunky, gorgeous, funny, SO expressive!! He's a love!!

The question you pondered was "What's best for both Gaio and me?" Once again, you've shown us how to truly love and care for your horses. You could tell Gaio was not enjoying the riding work and couldn't relax. You also saw he loved the ground work and could relax. I think the decision you made was totally unselfish and is a wonderful example of how to love your horse. As a side note, 1/2 of my heritage is from Groningan in the Netherlands; so, it's really cool when you or Matt show us the Dutch countryside. All the best- Cheryl Van Til (A fan in West Michigan, USA, close to Holland, MI -- the little Netherlands of the Midwest.).🐎

Gaio did not know it back then, but the day you discovered him was his lucky day🍀🍀.You always put the happiness of your horses first and respect their personalities, no matter what. I wish all the persons owning horses would do the same and not just follow their own selfish approach and goals. If one person can make Gaio as happy and relaxed as possible despite bis traumas, it will be you!👍♥️🐎🐴

Gaio does look much happier without the bit! He also looks very stiff & a bit lame in his left hind end, perhaps stifle or hip. You may be able to feel heat over this area. A complete workup is in order: mouth. teeth, tongue & then his whole body! Once you know there are no damaged discs, ligaments tendons etc. A massage and then chiropractic tune-up could loosen things up! Hoping for the best outcome and so very happy he has you for his owner! Your kindness and empathetic way of working with him and building your bond is beyond priceless! You're already in the Winner's Circle(!🏆

The terrible memories and PTS this horse must have from what he was made to do in the past while wearing a saddle. To be forced into a situation against another animal where your own "horse" instincts say one thing and your rider is making you do another. I can't imagine the trauma I would feel if I was put in that position where I could not remove myself from a life threatening situation because I was being made to stay there and act in a way which was against ever fibre in my body. Totally dominated and enslaved. What an amazing horse Gaio is to have come so far with your caring horsemanship. You have been his salvation and his love and respect for you is evident in his response to you and the look in his eyes. Your own qualities allow you to pick up on these subtle signals that Gaio is sending out. Gaio is a willing participant in his journey forward but seems to have memories that wearing a saddle bring back. Together you will move forward and I thank you for showing this horse compassion and allowing him to overcome his past at his own rate. I look forward to watching your progress together and will look for more recent videos where I am sure I will see huge changes and transformations.

Gaio seems very special to me. I can sense the prior trauma in his eyes. If he can continue having fun, I hope you'll see a sparkle in his eyes. I love you, Gaio!

Gaio's demeanour totally changed when the saddle & bitted bridle were removed. The tension melted away. Gaio is incredibly intelligent. He is so blessed to have you Jesse, thankfully your sensitive horsemanship is forming such a trusting relationship with this beautiful horse. Can't wait to see how this relationship evolves.🤗

Gaio is blessed to have you as his trainer/rider now. He's a beautiful horse. I totally agree with your assessment & adjustments to his training 🐎♥️

He really does look happier. It is clear that he is bonded with you. I’m so glad for you both and applaud your gentle and respectful way of being with animals.

Looks waaaay better when you ride without the bit and saddle. He appears so much cal.er and happy.

I’m so pleased that you are so aware of him and his feelings. I really do believe he’s been brought into your life for you to help him. He’s a really lovely horse and your progress with him so far has been unbelievable. I can’t wait to continue to watch your journey together. ❤🇩🇰

I know nothing about horses, but Gaio I can see is a high achiever and wants to work hard for you. I think he needs being at the centre of attention, so getting him into dressage asap, putting him out there will feel like another achievement for him. I am learning such a lot from your videos. Please keep Gaio in your focus, I think you will become very proud of him. You both deserve so much.

What a horse is Gaio. Can see a big difference in him when ridden bitless, he is so relaxed. You both get along nicely together. I hope Gaio stays with forever. You are so good for this horse, and he deserves that.

Just like certain breeds of dogs are bred for certain jobs, it’s probably safe to assume bullfighting horses have been bred to be BRAAAAVE, with tons of energy. It would be imperative for them to have a strong sense of self preservation, smart enough to be able to constantly assess their surroundings and quick enough to make split second decisions on their own. That’s A LOT of horse to deal with and Jessa has done/is doing it BRILLIANT job with him❣️

What an exceptional horseman you are Jesse, I’m so happy you two found each other. He’s a great character and, considering his past, is so relaxed and happy with you.

The effect of stress and trauma on the brain is such a deep dive. I’ve had a few concussions but also have a lengthy history of trauma. When I was getting therapy for my concussions, our focus was very similar: do the fun work, then the real stuff. Your brain needs to be re-wired, which can be done! But only in a place where you feel mentally and physically supported. It is SO cool you came to this conclusion by listening to his queues and through trial and error - it shows a real understanding of how your horse learns and how you can help him. I’m not sure if you have access to an equine neurologist, but I wonder if they might have diet recommendations for him after working. Getting his brain the proper nutrients can help with relaxation and restructuring how he processes trauma.

I had a horse like this once, he never really liked being ridden (having been ridden by beginners when he was young). I started driving him and when he was put to a cart, he just loved it. Different horse. I always think it is the responsibility of the owner/handler to find what the horse actually wants to do in life. If it does not enjoy what you are asking it to do, then change what you are doing. Later, you can often go back to it in later years with renewed relationship and attitude. Good call. Ed to add. If you lived on a farm, I would suggest riding in the hills and doing stock work with him. He needs a job he can have fun with. He needs to be learning different things, not doing what stresses him. I can see him enjoying mustering cattle or sheep in the hills. He has a good walk for it.

so admirable you keep going, you change around the animal, some are more difficult. and so much patience goes into these horses. so inspiring of you jesse, so proud of you and gaio. much love from the netherlands 🇳🇱

I love watching Gaio. His energy and attitude are so lovable. He reminds me of a horse I had.

Beautiful horse, beautiful human. Inside and out. Both of you are just lovely.

I can tell Gaio loves you and trusts you. He is brilliant! Stunning! Lovable! Considering his terrible, awful past, Gaio is learning very fast and responds to you beautifully.. Please keep loving this beautiful horse. He's one in a million. He's so smart. I just hate what he went through before. So terrifying for him and abusive. He's such a love. Kathryn Arizona USA

I have been retraining my rescue for the last year. I can't tell how many times we've gone back to the beginning when he gets confused, frustrated or anxious. We have no deadline so we do things at our own pace. He's just starting leg yields under saddle and actually feeling soft. So soft I tried him lose rein lady week and needed little to move him. It takes time and empathy and your giving Gaio your everything!

Seems like he's the type of horse that will do what you want, but also gets thinking faster than he can process.

it doesn't matter if you're not the best trained rider in the world, i feel like your empathic appraoch is just what this guy needs

He looks so at peace with himself in the bitless. Even his eyes show a more relax mind and body awareness. Of course, you know him best. You are a good lad!

I loved this. To see the difference in him, seeing the joy and fun he found from the ground work. Great job Jesse

Such a handsome horse. You can see how much he likes what you are doing with him. So glad you found each other. ❤️

Switching to brideless is the BEST gift you can ever give to your horse !! Congrats

Absolutely makes my heart sing to see someone who has the natural ability to read their horses needs which in turn brings out the best of them. Massive respect for you 🙏🏻🙏🏻

You can really see the difference in Gaio from when you 1st started riding him and the tension in his body and action to where he starts relaxing when he in the halter and you’re doing ground work and riding him bareback and bitless. Thank you so much for thinking of Gaio and his wellbeing.

He seems much, much happier without the bit. He’s not swishing his tail and his mouth is quieter. I think you’re on the right track focusing on his well being. Way to go!

It's amazing to see the difference in his demeanor and eagerness when comparing riding vs ground work.

I am impressed that you are thinking about what is best for your horse and not continuing to force him to perform beyond what he is comfortable or wanting to do. Having seen so many who do not put the horse's welfare 1st in equestrian eventing and in rodeo events ( I'm in the US), it's refreshing to see this.

Gaio may respond positively to your efforts to accommodate him. Your working to his strengths may encourage him and make him happier. I would not sell yourself short. You are a compassionate and expert trainer. You will work this out with him. 👍

Enjoy your videos AND insight into helping. Horse overcome previous treatment. Very good decision to go back to the basics to help your horse overcome these things. If only other people would feel this is a good thing. The history of horses in our journeys is remarkable. They helped build our world. Thank you for going back to basics with him.

What a great, empathic and kind trainer to Gaio you are Jesse. It's so moving to see how caring you are and how much you love your horses, just lovely! ❤❤

I empathize and understand, from my own experience. Horses first... helps build a stronger bond for expanding their horizons later

Watching Gaio's videos and listening to your comments about him, Gaio very much reminds me of a highly trained police dog. In his old life he was used to working in very charged environments where he was a partner with his rider. From Gaio's point of view, he and his rider worked together against an external threat. It was exciting, and he likely felt as though he had a good amount of agency in that partnership. He relied on his instincts as much as his training. There was a lot of adrenaline and chaos, and he was good at it. That would be quite a contrast to dressage work! In his new life he is asked to ignore outside stimulus, use his body consciously, and focus on the subtle conversations with his rider. I'm sure from his point of view - from HIS point of view! - dressage work could seem boring. He and his rider are now focused inward toward each other rather than outward against a common threat. Where's the adrenaline, the excitement, the action? Where's his personal agency?? Now some new person is micromanaging how he moves his lips and the angle of his hocks! Of course, we out here in KZread-land know the value of the discipline of dressage. But it's not easy to explain to Gaio! In any event, it really makes a lot of sense to me that he is not super enthusiastic about dressage work. To me, the fact that he is willing to work on it at all is an expression of the bond you are building with him, Jesse. You definitely aren't failing him as a rider! It seems to me he enjoys the greater agency he has when doing groundwork. I predict he will really love tricks and stunts that offer higher adrenaline and excitement, and that require a high degree of trust from you, Jesse. Keep going; you're doing great!

Jesse is an animal & human whisperer I love it! Thank you God bless you

What a difference when he is doing more work freely. He does look happier, particularly without the restraint on his mouth. I have an Arab who is the same in not liking the whole dressage workout and positioning however he does seem to like it when I tack him up western...he seems happy. I have gone to doing what you do with ground work and liberty work which he loves! I am so happy to see that there are others who connect with their horses on this level. Thank you!

The Lipizzaner stallions at the Vienna Riding School have years of ground work before they are even backed, and take about 7 years to fully train. A lot of ground work will likely do wonders. We do it with ours and they seem "born broke," and already know basic dressage, pressure yielding, ground driving, pulling ground weights, pole work, obstacles, reining back, all voice commands, etc before they are ever ridden. None have even tried bucking. Those we rehab sometimes take years of groundwork before they are backed again.

I really admire your work with your horses and how you are so in tune with them. He really did look happier when you were bareback and bitless. I am just learning to ride at age 57, but love to watch your videos. I learn a lot about how you read your horses and sense what they are trying to tell you. Trauma takes a lot of time to heal from and requires new pathways from reinforcing positive outcomes over and over again. It is a long process, but well worth it in the end. Gaio is in good hands!

He's really enjoying the ground work. The entire attitude and energy just completely changes.

Gaio seems like a very sensitive horse, and it was probably very scary and traumatizing for him to be in the bullring and see the frightening things that he saw. That would be really hard to recover from and I'm so glad that he found his way to you, Jesse. You are so loving to your horses and see them all as individuals. I could watch you talk about horses all day long so don't worry about that! Gaio was much happier after playtime. He would probably also benefit from some nice trail rides, too (once the weather gets warmer).

Beautiful horse ridden by a human being with a great heart. You will not regret returning to groundwork and winning deeper trust. And also being sensitive to his strengths and what makes him comfortable. The true bond between rider and horse is the most important part of it all. He will only get more comfortable because you listen to him. You're not indulging or giving in to dangerous behaviors and you do gently correct his behavior. It is your choice to make sure he is 100% on board that will make you two an exceptional team in whatever work you both choose.

Don't ever think you are not good enough for him. He trusts you and that is huge. He seems much happier in a bitless bridle as well. He's telling you he loves doing tricks, so stick with that. Create a comedy show where he does tricks and stuff. That would be awesome.

He really seems like the type of horse who does not want a bit in his mouth since he looks a lot more relaxed (even with playing with his mouth) when you ride him with the bitless bridle. You are doing a wonderful job with him especially looking after what makes him happy instead of what you want. In his mind, he probably is relating the bit and saddle with bullfighting which he doesn't seem like he did enjoy the bullfighting. Basically, he needs reprogramming and that is exactly what you are giving him. Much love to you and that you are putting what he enjoys first

This beautiful boy is SUCH a fast learner! Pity there's no obvious way to reduce his anxiety level. He is very lucky to have your loving care and attention, Jesse. He looks visibly more relaxed by the end of this video and that's a very good thing 🐎

Utmost respect to you, Jesse, for putting Gaio’s needs first and foremost ❤️

I think you are the perfect person to teach him that life can be fun! Thank you so much for keeping him and helping him. 💕

He seems so much more relaxed without the bit and the saddle. You both seem to enjoy it more that way.

I taught children struggling learning to read. After spending time observing what the knew and what they liked I moved into the first lessons. They focused on how I’d seen them problem solve but all content was only what they knew. This time was called: Roaming the Known. Everyone of them came thru those lessons showing they had even learned new things and did harder tasks more successfully! Hope your “Roaming the Known” is going well and enjoyable!!

Gaio is so sweet! He seems to be having fun with the groundwork. Letting him have fun and be happy is most important!

Nobody should ever be apologetic for having a horse just to have fun with! Your honesty and prioritizing of your horse is so refreshing!

I believe he’s a horse given to you in your life to expand your journey of learning and teaching, from your video it seems so, good luck and I look forward to seeing what new teaching approaches you come up with between you

I am commenting a second time because watching this video again and again........I LOVE Gaio! He is incredibly smart!!!!!! He is magnificent and beautiful. Beautiful color and those eyes!!! Gorgeous eyes. He needs your tender touch Jesse. He trusts you and I think it's wonderful that you are putting Gaio's needs first. True horseman you are. I send you hugs Jesse, for saving Gaio from a horrible existence of fear, stress and whatever pain he has been subjected to. Thank you so much for loving him and being patient with him, he deserves YOU and he can only become more calm with your training and your understanding of him.

I love that your putting Gaio’s best needs first. I practically jumped out of my skin when I saw you uploaded. You present your videos so beautifully that I’m sure I’d find entertainment in a video about a rock.

I have always believed that no matter what I wanted to do with a specific horse, it's imperative fir me that I find out what the horse wants to do. It works we simply have to listen to them. It's a partnership

Story time: I'm not a rider, it's an expensive thing here, but there's a "stable" a couple kilometers from my house and it's mainly Lusitanos. Sometimes I like to go there when they have classes (if they don't mind) and have grown to know some of the horses decently. Anyways, one of them was a lovely grey dapple, black legs, white face and mane, leopard-like coat, thick af neck, dramatic nose profile and tiny nozzle, the trot was particular (very high in front and kinda dragging the legs in the back) and he always wanted to do "more". When he was in the ring it was all eyes on him. Not only from his looks, but his strange behaviour. I can't explain, he looked angry sometimes, others was aloof, and went off his own course. It was ridden by a gentleman, his owner, mostly in class but he couldn't always come. The horse would get visually frustrated and I though maybe the rider was doing something really wrong? Maybe the horse didn't want to work? I don't know much about horses... But no, the horse wanted to work so hard, he wanted to please the rider so much, that he got frustrated. He didn't know what to do more to convince the man. Why? Well, apparently that was an expensive horse trained for dressage in the south of the country, and the gentleman that bought him did so because he had cash, wanted a horse, and bought a good one. They eventually sold the horse and I had the pleasure to be present when they did the visit (I was told a couple days earlier, very kind to tell me as I have nothing to do with the stables). The lady that bought him had the skills for that horse and I saw the "testing". I never saw a happier horse to "serve" someone he barely knew. But they spoke the same language I guess, a beautiful sight. I don't forget the silence in that ring, only hearing the clockwork breathing of the horse, some gentle thumping of his hooves on the thin sand, and an occasional quiet shush from the rider. But to be honest I know so very little that they might have sucked hard and I wouldn't know. The owner wasn't there, the presenting was done by the stable workers. I didnt see him leave and I thing about him often. His name was Alumínio (aluminium) but I always though of him as Orfeu (orpheus). Either way, never saw him again and I don't know the name of the buyer lady. I wish I knew what happened to him, I tried to find him online (I guess that's how I got to your videos on Gaio). I only went to draw the horses, but don't have time to do that anymore So, all of this to say that Gaio suffered from bullfighting but maybe he learnt some "skills" that he doesn't do anymore and he may get frustrated why don't you want him to do it. On the dapple horse I spoke of he really looked like he didn't want to work. Honestly, almost looked like he would rather buck the rider off since "i don't know what tf you want from me, get tf off and figure your priorities". I don't want you to reiforce any trauma done to Gaio during training and bullfighting work, but maybe this is something? 😅

The world need more owners like you! We all experience peer pressure in some form to use our horses for something? I have owned horses my whole life and have done exactly what your doing with some of mine. Its all about the horse, and your relationship together. It doesn't have to be saddle time or showing. I own 9 horses at the moment which is the least amount I have had in over 20 years. I have them ranging from riding horses, to a retired stud, and broodmares who will live out their life with me. Never being rode but we love one another just the same. My stud who is 28 and I have owned him since a yearling loves doing light ground work and tricks...because he still feels he has a purpose! Nothing but respect for your decision....whatever you choose. Just be happy in the moment. A true horse person always puts the horse first.

I really like that you are so considerate of his feelings. He seems like a horse whose original training was done by force so even though he knows so much, he got there under duress. Bravo Jesse for reading him and respecting his inner horse!

It looks like he prefers to be bitless. It’s so nice that you are so considerate of him. Could it be who ever had him before hurt his mouth with the bit because they didn’t use the bit in the right way? So maybe it hurts him. He was a totally different horse when he had no bit. He’s beautiful! ❤❤ Thank you for sharing him with us.

Jess, I'm sitting here crying. Why? Because I'm so very proud of you. I was afraid that you were going to stop with Gaio. But again your true love and devotion shines through. You have taken the time to put his feelings first. I do have one thought. Maybe Matt could put you in contact with the Lady who did the readings on his horses. She was very calm with them when she joined their "space". Maybe she could answer some of your questions. I truly love all your horses, but Gaio has a special spot in my heart. Stop doubting yourself please you have a wonderful talent and understanding that I have watched others who "think" they know their animals and its pathetic. Stay true to yourself and every thing will take its place. Sorry I've written a short novel again, but I wish you and Gaio all the best in your new journey. Thank you Matt for being there for them. Best always Rusty in Oklahoma

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You're a very wise & sensitive person yourself!!! It's really wonderful to read about sooo many people who love & respect Jesse for the terrific person he is! We all know he's not PERFECT, (haha) (no pressure, Jesse) 😜 but phooey, who needs that! We simply love him, blond moments & all ... 💥🌞💥/🥰😍❤️