I’m only 16 and my life is over

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I’m only 16 and I feel like I have no where left to go, and no one else to talk to.

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  • @TarotLadyLissa
    @TarotLadyLissa6 ай бұрын

    The fact that you are 16 and already so insightful is wonderful! Look, we've all had moments of self-doubt, self-deprecation, and feeling like we aren't good enough. We all do! You are not alone. I just turned 41. I have a neurological pain disorder (CRPS & CFS) that causes me pain 24/7. I won't lie to you and say I am always optimistic. in fact, quite the opposite. I fear my future too! I doubt my own abilities. I focus on my shortcomings. All that to say, even as a 41-year-old, grown-ass adult, I still don't have it all figured out. There are many days that I want to give up. Many. But there are also many days that I have to look forward to. Many days I feel productive, creative, or even helpful! You will have those days too! Remember, there are 365 days and 365 new chances! If you fuck up, own up, and try again! You've got this!

  • @Kaminaas
    @Kaminaas6 ай бұрын

    i’m honestly not sure how this came up on my suggested but i’m glad it did. the age you’re at is really difficult especially now with all of the stuff online talking about how men should act or be. you don’t have to listen to other people to figure out how you want to live your life. the best things that taught me how to live my life is my own experience. try new things and learn from your failures and successes. you’re still super young and so am i (i’m 21) but that goes to show how much our lives will change over the span of just a few years. you will change, take risks, lose people, gain people, but it will make you learn things important in life and make you a better person. another thing is to just not take everything so personally. my mother is a narcissist and would even withhold me from going to dr’s appointments. i see that you’re struggling with a narcissistic parent right now, and it gets so much better when you turn 18. i don’t have much advice for anything else, but i have one more thing to add. i also had a *content* addiction, mine started at 4th grade too. i’m not gonna lie, as you get older you’re gonna feel really grossed out about it, it’ll affect your relationships, and you’ll realized how warped your perception of reality is. just stay away from the stuff, man. look at the real world and how real people look and love and it really helps put things in perspective. and i’m sure you’re probably gonna get this a lot but please try therapy. there are some good people out there that can help, esp with addiction. group therapy also helped me a lot and can be cheaper or even free at some places. good luck, you’ll do great, your life isn’t over.

  • @johnyork9034
    @johnyork90346 ай бұрын

    Find the things you love and let it consume your life. I'm in my mid 40s I've made all kinds of mistakes but I've learned alot. Number one, our mistakes are how we learn. As I type this I hear you say you love food. I do as well. Think about starting you a food cart or something. I use to have one and I am working on getting another one. It will change your life. Don't worry about loosing weight. Eat healthy and work on doing the things in life that make you happy. Stop listening and worrying about what others expect of you and just be you. I don't know you but I feel your greatness. There is truly only one rule in life- never give up.

  • @heylookididsomething

    @heylookididsomething

    6 ай бұрын

    Top G comment, much appreciated, true blessing 🙌🤗🙏

  • @ComicsAndChaos616
    @ComicsAndChaos6166 ай бұрын

    You got this kid. Remember to see life and everyday as an opportunity, maybe today didn't work out but tomorrow is full of possibilities, start small fill up the day with hobbies, mindfulness (especially to work up on confidence) . Join school clubs, get into a sport, maybe some outside hobbies like karate or boxing.

  • @millyvane7099
    @millyvane70996 ай бұрын

    I can somewhat relate, I am only 18 yet I worry about everything all of the time and I keep relentlessly wracking my mind trying to figure out what the meaning of life is and how it feels like there is never enough time in the day to do the things that I want to do yet at the same I have no idea what I want to do and I never have. Some things that I have learnt that may help is that there is no use in worrying about everything, because worrying isn't truly living. the same goes for dwelling on the past. Being perfect is impossible, and that most people have no idea what they are doing either. We can't figure out everything all at once, all we can really do is to keep going and never give up, and to just do what we think is right in the given moment.

  • @crumblecookiefingers6884
    @crumblecookiefingers68846 ай бұрын

    Not sure why your video was recommended but your honesty and raw emotions spoke to me. You’re under a lot of pressure - put on you by your parents divorcing, by your school, by your dad, the pressure of staying sober, the pressure of growing up and figuring out what you want to do with your life. The reality is, no one has their life figured out - definitely not at 16 and generally not when they’re full on adults. You can and you will fuck things up, you will have regrets, you will look back and say “why didn’t I do that”. But that’s life, and that’s what growing up means. You are clearly very inquisitive, intelligent, eloquent and brave. Stop comparing yourself to your peers - mostly everyone pretends to have their shit together. Don’t put extra pressure on yourself regarding losing your virginity - experience when it comes to sex is way overrated tbh. What you need for good sex is good chemistry and having fun with a partner, exploring together, not the experience of a body count, like mouth breathers such as Andrew Tate would make you believe. No self respecting girl would actually be with him anyway. Be your funny, intelligent, nerdy self, and you’ll find friends and a girlfriend in time. The fact you love walking & gardening is great. That’s a wonderful direction for a potential future career in landscape design (which is actually my career). But whatever path you choose, you have your whole life ahead of you to change your mind, rethink things, make huge mistakes, and be wildly successful. No one is lying to you about any mental health or developmental stuff. All they are seeing is a bright self inquisitive young man who is already putting a lot of pressure on himself. I think it’s a huge achievement that you put such a touching video out there that spoke to so many regardless of age, sex or location - so even that is an amazing achievement.

  • @SimonDavies1
    @SimonDavies16 ай бұрын

    I was you 3 years ago. I'm still trying day by day to figure it out, but most of my days are spent trying to find what makes me happy - put yourself before anyone else. Try new things, go new places, meet new people. Try to stay busy. This too shall pass, it can't stay this way forever is what I always told myself - and I was right, I started getting out more and slowly became less and less depressed. I no longer have any of the issues I once had but I know that I could go back there just as easily, thats why its important to put yourself first. Go buy yourself something nice, you have made it this far. Be proud!

  • @catnior
    @catnior6 ай бұрын

    "people live their lives bound by what they accept as correct and true... that is how they define reality. But what does it mean to be correct or true? Merely vague concepts... their reality may all be an illusion" - Naurto lmao

  • @NUEX9520
    @NUEX95206 ай бұрын

    Idk why your video got recommended to me, but I listened. You're very self aware and it sounds like you know exactly what you need to do, so I won't offer advice. But at 19 I couldn't function without being high, and even now I struggle to sleep without it. I have some very bad anxiety that I did not have until I was smoking daily, so I believe it messes with you when you smoke a lot. Hearing how aware you are lets me know you will eventually hit the breaking point and you will change and grow and be proud of yourself, you just seem lonely. You got this, dude, don't hold yourself back.

  • @andrewseaman9913
    @andrewseaman99136 ай бұрын

    Hey man, I have no clue how this got recommended to me, but I used to do support work for guys with bipolar depression - the road ahead is long, and will require more than a little work to get where you want to get. Really, its more than would fit in a YT comment. If you're interested in some help, reply and Ill DM you, however that ends up working out. If thats not your bag, hang in there man. You have so much of your life ahead of you, and its never too late to start living the life you want to.

  • @SkogenWhisper
    @SkogenWhisper6 ай бұрын

    You are super brave for being so open and vulnerable on your channel, its genuinely commendable. I'm sorry things are such a struggle, I think a lot of us can relate. Being 16 is really hard! Its great to journal your thoughts in this way, just try to be proud of yourself, the fact you made videos since you were 8 is amazing and something so many of us could never have done, you clearly have a very bright mind and want more for yourself. It'll come, trust in the process

  • @toorikie

    @toorikie

    6 ай бұрын

    !!!

  • @scarlettmauner475
    @scarlettmauner4756 ай бұрын

    hey, i'm 21 so i'm not that far away from being a teenager but it's crazy that i related to pretty much everything you said. i wish i could go back 5 years ago and change things but like you said, i had no idea where to start. i don't know if this would help, but i would find your true passion. it can be hard because i also relate to changing my mind a lot (i didn't even decide on my major until the end of my junior year of college and still don't exactly know my what my job will be) but think about what you can see yourself doing every day, whether it's videos or music or programming or whatever. it can even be a combination of these things. and then just enjoy working on them. try and experiment and don't worry about failing, you will learn from it in the long run. join clubs or find other people in your area who share these passions and that helps you meet more people and have fun while also allowing you to practice more. i gave up on some of my passions because of expectations from those around me and fear of rejection/failure and i wish that i didn't do that. now i'm trying to get back on track quickly before i graduate. there are SO many options to pursue, you can do a film major or music, and some colleges have combined programs where you can do music and programming for example and work on music/audio parts of video games or something like that. just don't give up on what you love, or you'll be stuck in a major or job you hate and you'll always be wondering "what if". put your heart into your passions and you will get the benefits. also, don't worry about being seen as a "weirdo" in school. i know it's easier said than done because i also struggled with this but trying to be someone you aren't is more harmful than being seen as weird. there's nothing wrong with that. i know we hear the phrase "be yourself" since we're in elementary school but the true meaning of that didn't even hit me until i was like 20. it opens up your eyes so much once you really understand and learn to let go. it helps that once highschool is over, no one remembers or cares about "weird" things that happened. and no one gossips or is mean after that (for the most part) since everyone is more mature. there's so much more i could say since i really feel like i just watched a video of my younger self lol but i feel like i'm just rambling now so i'll just leave with that. good luck!

  • @heylookididsomething

    @heylookididsomething

    6 ай бұрын

    Thanks for all that bro, I’m so thankful for this long ahh message you didn’t even have to start typing. I’ll take what I can from you’re advice as I believe I could benefit from it, and leave you with the upmost respect from my part, have a great life. ❤️🤜🤛

  • @m00c0w
    @m00c0w6 ай бұрын

    I’m a 24 year old woman. I felt how you felt when I was 16. Things are going to change so much for you when you are able to drive and eventually move out. In the meantime keep investing in yourself and your friendships and those things on your list that you love. Talk to a trusted adult at school about how you are feeling and they might be able to get you in touch with resources to help you.

  • @m00c0w

    @m00c0w

    6 ай бұрын

    And if you are nervous about starting that conversation with someone at school, asking to talk about college planning is a great place to start

  • @sussycheeks8005
    @sussycheeks80056 ай бұрын

    Tbh I was going to be one of those poo poo brained people but this was too real for me to skip. I am about your age, one year older actually and I feel the same way. I'm about to be 18 and I still don't know what to do with my life, I know I want to make films and get rich off of that but I don't want to actually learn anything i need to learn. I can't give you any advice because I'm in the same exact situation you're in rn and it sucks. I've never seen a video that perfectly describes my mindset so much and for that I want to thank you, especially for being so vulnerable. I have adhd too and things like motivation to things is hard to come by and it all does feel pretty pointless and useless. All I can really do is give you my support. I get what it feels like to be alone and unseen and not cared for but people care about you man, even if it's not the people are supposed to people still care, I care, I don't know you but I am wishing the best of luck to you.

  • @heylookididsomething

    @heylookididsomething

    6 ай бұрын

    relating to someone can be just as useful as giving advice, big ups bro, and thanks for not being poo poo brained. 🙏❤️

  • @jpvaines
    @jpvaines6 ай бұрын

    Hmm, okay, so the magic algorithm that is KZread spat this at me. Is it fate? Who knows, but here goes! You'll get lots of different advice from everyone, maybe just pick a few of the ones that make you feel good from each of us. Jack, you're 16, you're not expected to know the answers. I'm 52 and still don't know all my own answers! I think you're quite normal. Self doubt is normal at your age, you're just brave enough and confident enough to admit it unlike many others. Life defiantly gets better over time. You'll find the right people, and the right things with time, think of all the surprises ahead. You have to learn to love yourself first, and accept your weaknesses, we all have them. You are not a loser, and you have so much to give. Social media fairytale lives are just that - Fairytales! Jack, you are strong and confident, you've made and published this video - that takes balls! Yes, you are ahead of the curve thinking this way. The people at school are just as lost, but not as brave as you, to admit it. If you choose to keep studying, or go on to find a job, go for something you love. The longer you study, the more you can concentrate on things that you like/interest you. You leave what doesn't interest you behind. Also, you'll go to bigger colleges, with more people - that's where you'll find some more of those "right people". Teachers are a free resource. Ask them questions and get advice. Very few teachers do their job for the money, they do it because they want to help your future (I work with teachers so I can confirm this). Use videos positively. There's lots of garbage out there, buts lots of good too. You can travel the world through other people's videos, or learn new skills etc. The possibilities are endless. Maybe look at these things rather than the self improvement videos. You will change, and it'll happen throughout your life. It'll happen slowly, not tomorrow or next week. Some things you'll love forever, some things you'll just stop loving - it's normal. I'm in my early 50's, I'm not the same person I was in my early 40's, nor my 30's, nor my 20's. I've re-invented myself several times! Accept these changes and be happy with them. Maybe you'll grow to love making videos again, maybe not, but you've learnt great skills from doing it, and these skills may lead to something else - your time was not wasted. Accept that people will come and go in your life as well, remember what you've learnt from them and treasure the memories. Jack, there is no plan in life. None of the paths are straight, and they all branch off several times. A lot of life is luck/fate, that's just the way it is. I found the job that I love at 37, totally by accident. It's great that you appreciate being content. To be honest that is situation normal in my life. Enjoy your life, and don't feel guilty for enjoying yourself. Jack, you are a wonderful, brave individual, and well done for making this video. And keep drinking milk - it's better than those other substances! PS My life was over so many times in the past, but I'm still here, wondering along. You'll get over it - I promise!

  • @heylookididsomething

    @heylookididsomething

    6 ай бұрын

    Maybe it was fate, but fate put the right person in my comment section, much love for your comment ❤️

  • @CROengineer
    @CROengineer6 ай бұрын

    just keep your head up, i was at a similar place once and i can tell you that if you work on yourself, find a hobby and start enjoying your time alone you will feel much better. don't put yourself down or feel like you are failing for not having your life go perfect or like you planned it. keep your head down, focus on your school try finding a part time job and keep working on making the best of your life. hardships are temporary, place of mind is eternal

  • @jeom98
    @jeom986 ай бұрын

    You are normal, It gets better. Im soon 26 and life changes a lot in 10 years i promise. You will find good people, you will find a group that you feel that you belong in. Try to just do something that makes you feel conected and in the moment, if its talking more in videos, going for a walk just anything try to do that more. Read a book, maybe. "Tell yoursef a better lie" by marisa peer could be good for you

  • @gloookos
    @gloookos6 ай бұрын

    Hi, I have no idea why this popped up on my feed but I wanted to respond to some of the things you said (keep in mind that I am 19 and have similar struggles to yours so I don't really have an external point of view, also, while english is my first language, I mainly speak french, so my phrasing is sometimes incorrect) (also it's 1 in the morning, my brain might not be braining correctly for some parts) I would begin by saying that I admire the courage you have to put your feelings out there, especially since this is the internet (wild place haha) and you are feeling down, which in itself isn't easy to handle. The "beeing seen as a weirdo" part stood out to me. I know this feeling pretty well, nobody, especially younger people, want to be seen as an outsider. I myself have autism and am pretty anxious in general, which makes socialising hard. You mentionned you have ADHD, (which is close to autism if you look at certain symptoms btw), and it could be one of the causes of the "garbage social life" you mention. For me, finding a few good friends has more value than a larger friend circle you know less, so I tried to find people that ressemble me, in their way of thinking, in what they like, in what they value in a friendsip... For example, I'm very much into metal music, and I've used this to connect to people in everyday situations (spotting a metalhead by a band on their t-shirt or something) or at events (pushing myself to talk to people because I know that past the awkwardness, I might actually make very good friends, and if I am seen as awkward, I can simply dissapear and never talk to them again). A few tips I have gathered here and there tthat might apply to your situation: - Doing what you like, what fundamentally makes you happy, can be a way of planning your future. Idk you talked about helping people, so maybe you could look into jobs that have a social aspect to them, where you help people - Try new things, the worst that can happen is.... failing at something..? and honnestly if you get expierience from it, the failiure isn't even that important because the gain is knowing more (and that can always help in making decisions) - Talk to people. Like, if you don't know what you'd like to do job wise, talk to people about their jobs, why they chose that, what they do.... - What you decide to do at 16 years old will not determinate the rest of your life. There are people who turned their whole life around at like 40 or 50 and became much happier doing so. Don't put so much pressure on yourself about your future (while still caring about it and working towards it) - One thing at a time. At about 23 minutes you talk about everything that's a mess. You won't clean all of this up in one go. Do stuff step by step, maybe start by working on your depression, that tends to pull people down a lot, especially your mood and motivation. - Also, writing down a list of "problems I have right now" has helped me empty my head for small periods of time and visualising + organising my problems instead of them appearing as one big beehive of thoughts. Also looking at my "problem lists" of 2019 four years later, I am happy that I have evolved since them, seeing you actually solved some of your issues whithout remembering it because it was done on an extended period of time and months / years ago is kinda satifsfying (and not in an "instant gratification" way, but in an "actually happy with yourself" way). - Idk if you already have one, but a therapist can be excellent help. Some of them won't be good or won't be able to help you, dont hesitate to change therapists, YOU are the patient so YOU get to choose the person helping you, because you know what makes you feel better. Also I'd advise you to stay away from Andrew Tate, while his content can be motivating to some, he is also encouraging people to neglect their emotions and the "testosterone" stuff sounds like absolute bullshit to me. I've seen people power through extremely hard stuff, and some of those people happen to be women, who... well... aren't very famous for high T levels.

  • @heylookididsomething

    @heylookididsomething

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, I’m a little tired myself just reading this, I’m not sure what to say except I read every word of what you sent and made perfect sense in English, better then a lot of English speakers I know. Anyways, I appreciate the time you spent writing this and could even use some of the tips, have great day but most importantly, a great life.

  • @paigemartin6332
    @paigemartin63326 ай бұрын

    Heyhey, at your age, I felt the exact same. I sometimes still do… but please stick in there. I have depression, generalized anxiety too, started smoking at 14, and suicidal. Also, a dead parent as soon as I turned 16, and getting abused since I was 6. Being lost can feel like it’s the end, and that’s your life forever… blahblahbla. But I promise my love, growing has a lot of pain that comes with it, but even MORE beauty, and silly happy moments. Look into many different unique hobbies, and invest yourself into the ones you really like, because you can learn to love not just that activity, but it’ll make you love yourself and life more. It can bring a since of belonging, new friends, maybe even love 💗 That will lead you to loving yourself more and more everyday. Ps~ friends come and go, that’s life… but the real ones, will always remember you and one day, they’ll be there waiting for you to come back. Because the touch you made on their life. Stick in there! 💖🖤💞

  • @throwstonesonmadlibbackstage
    @throwstonesonmadlibbackstage6 ай бұрын

    andrew tate is a bad bad bad guy. dont go near his shit please brother

  • @EmmaPea
    @EmmaPea6 ай бұрын

    All you can do is live man that's all you were put on the earth to do you don't need to be trying to do something while you're struggling to just live when you just accept that all you can do is live you will be able to do things

  • @IAMAREALOSPREY
    @IAMAREALOSPREY6 ай бұрын

    Your message of aimless despair and loneliness resonated with me. I can share advice if that is what you seek or just regular correspondence. I am far from perfect, but I think I can help.

  • @heylookididsomething

    @heylookididsomething

    6 ай бұрын

    guidance is always appreciated, thank you 🙌

  • @paigemartin6332
    @paigemartin63326 ай бұрын

    Also, I was a virgin until 18, don’t feel like it’s a race or to rush… it’s not really that great lol

  • @jonaslouria5349
    @jonaslouria53496 ай бұрын

    Find Jesus, it will change your life, God intends for you to be joyful and peaceful, I experienced similar to you and my life changed through Jesus, not saying it got better around me but I’ve been so peaceful and joyful since I’ve made a change it truly will save you ❤❤

  • @user-wk3iz4yw8p
    @user-wk3iz4yw8p6 ай бұрын

    Maybe take up a team sport in your local area. If anything, you might gain a piece of the self-worth and purpose you've been seeking, a community you can feel like you belong to. It also helps widen your perspective that outside of school and home life, and the pseudo-intellectual garbage that pervades youtube, there exists a world where people are easy to talk to and don't measure one-another by irrational arbitrary standards that have festered out of the online world. Chin up buddy, you'll do great.

  • @thegamefanaticshow
    @thegamefanaticshow6 ай бұрын

    “Since you were a kid” my man enjoy your youth.

  • @nnand6997
    @nnand69976 ай бұрын

    I feel similarly, but i live in a 3rd world country where nothing i do will change the fact that ill probably suffer the worst consequences of whatever happens in the next decade (climate change famine for example). It seems you are a us citizen, you can change your life a few ways, one. Go to your local library, american libraries are awesome and underapreciated by the locals, two. Read on “the death of the third space” (it seems this might help you understand whats happening to you) and three. Testosterone isnt everything, most women like good personalities and easy going guys, your brain seems to have been “infested” by people whos only goal is for you to buy their courses online About the thc stuff, theres nothing wrong with using it recreationally, when your days are filled with stuff to do (volunteer at places it will help fill up your time) the use will decrease I knew a guy just like you, its kinda insane how similar you two are, heed my advice, you both are blonde haired white males whos main problem is being too bored so you turn to bad habits, fill your time with stuff

  • @nox6438
    @nox64386 ай бұрын

    1: My first recommendation would be to avoid figures like Andrew Tate at all cost, they're goal is to prey on individuals like yourself. We all love you man, I've been there, you're still a kid. You've got this, you'll get through this hard time, time heals all wounds and you will feel happy again. I'll keep you in my thoughts, I really recommend trying new therapists/psychiatrists until you find someone you are comfortable with and that actually understands you. Whether you continue making videos or not just be yourself, be respectful, and be nice, you're a young guy with a whole lot of years ahead of you (: You're not alone, you're loved.

  • @nox6438

    @nox6438

    6 ай бұрын

    3: Also an edit: You're not fat bud, and you have lot's of time to get ripped if that's what you want! As you grow the way your body builds muscle mass changes significantly. Reach out to your friends, you don't want to let your connections fade, friends are important

  • @nox6438

    @nox6438

    6 ай бұрын

    2: Another: Getting your license might be a really good step to get you started, maybe you'll love driving. It was the first thing to give me a real feeling of joy and adrenaline back in these times. You're a kid, you seem like you're laying a lot more responsibilities out than necessary. Take things 1 step at a time, I know the feeling. It's like you know exactly what you're supposed to be doing, but you just can't get yourself to. I know the feeling all too well. I was diagnosed with Bipolar disorder by 16, deeply addicted to drugs and lost entirely. I thought life was over, just like you. It feels so impossible yet so doable to take that first step but it's so overwhelming. But just do it, just say fuck it and do it. I'm not sure the license restrictions where you are but ask your parents to go practice driving. If it's daytime I'd even say go and ask right now. This feeling is temporary, but you need to seek help to truly talk these things out properly. But making this video alone is a wonderful start. For editing and making videos; Use DaVinci Resolve for editing, audacity for audio recording, use GeForce Experience to record your desktop. Your video quality alredy seems pretty damn good so you're set there. Moral of all this and what I want you to take out of this the most is that you're loved, and you've got this. It's hard to say much more, trauma and life experience is relative. Never compare trauma. Just because one person deals with seemingly more significant issues, does not mean your problems are any way less significant. You aren't weak, you are incredibly strong and brave just making this video. I wish I could help more but all I can really say as I have sat in the seat you're sitting in now, and things get better. I promise. I cant stress this enough. YOU ARE LOVED, AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS. I'll keep checking up to see your progress, keep making videos. If the inspiration you need is fans supporting you. I'm here to support you kid

  • @nox6438

    @nox6438

    6 ай бұрын

    4: Just one last addition now that I've watched all the way through, I dropped out in 9th grade, I watched all my past friends develop friend groups, grow close, go through the highschool experience. Crushes, p[partying, friends, everything. Watching it all as everyone forgets your existence sucks. I know it all too well. This isn't to be lovey dubby, this isn't me trying to make you happy. Life is awful sometimes, and it fucking hurts. And sometimes it's not something your can easily fix. But life keeps moving whether you like it or not. Talk to a real counselor or therapist like I said earlier. This specific type of feeling and dread isn't something natural with "puberty" I was told that hundreds of times through my life before I spoke with someone who properly understood me and came to the diagnosis of Bipolar Type II. You may very well be dealing with seriously debilitating mental disorder at the moment. And it's not your fault. There's nothing healthier in this scenario than seeking help. Honestly my therapist was probably my first real friend while getting medicated, stabilizing, and growing as a person. Much love

  • @lalalala4602
    @lalalala46026 ай бұрын

    Hey! I'm just a weird 19 woman on the internet but listen, keep your truth, life is pretty weird and will be hard, but honestly stay close to people that really value you, a lot of friends doesn't mean support, andrew tate and these type of videos are just fucking vague, don't relay on these type of people. You're doing the right thing, speak up, speak your mind, but don't let it ruin you, drugs, p0rn, these are just killing us, I know this is so cliché but you're very young, and people (adults) dont rly listen or care that much what you think, if you want to talk more fell free to talk with me, I see a lot of things of myself in you, so I rly do understand you, be well kid, you're not alone

  • @tessaelto1472
    @tessaelto14726 ай бұрын

    Imagine if you're 16 and you just found out you have 1 month to live or you're gonna be paralyzed forever or something. Life may be hard but it's NOT over for you. People who are paralyzed even can live amazing lives

  • @trinitristant3527
    @trinitristant35276 ай бұрын

    Hi lovely young man ❤ I don't know why this video came up in my KZread propositions. I am a 58 year old woman living in Swizerland and my usual language is French but I'll do my best in English. I feel like commenting your video. Who knows, maybe I have something of interest for you. The first step to whichever goal is always the hardest. Then things flow. I feel like maybe your father could have NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). If it is the case, you will never get any validation, forgiveness/whatever you need from him. As a consequence of having parent/s with a Personality Disorder of the Cluster B of the DSM (you can check out what that means ;-) ) one often develops low self estime (Self-Love Deficit Disorder/codependency, etc.) and a savior complex.

  • @heylookididsomething

    @heylookididsomething

    6 ай бұрын

    je ne suis pas français, mais je ferai de mon mieux, tout comme vous. j'apprécie beaucoup vos efforts de communication, et votre message est compris. je vous souhaite le meilleur des jours grâce à vos efforts et j'espère que d'autres pourront partager l'amour que vous m'avez transmis. merci

  • @trinitristant3527

    @trinitristant3527

    6 ай бұрын

    It's difficult to know what one wants at age 16. I find you have a good capacity of self reflexion; that is rather rare at your age. If you think/convince yourself that you are a weirdo/ a mess, people will treat you that way. It is that simple. People pick up on clues you give them and feed you back with that. Treat yourself as you want to be treated. Since you have this insight capacity, like thinking and analizing maybe you could consider studying psychology/psychiatry. And it could become a great/well payed job. Sending you love from Switzerland and deeply, sincerely wishing the best for you now and in the future ❤

  • @trinitristant3527

    @trinitristant3527

    6 ай бұрын

    P.S. There are tones of books about narcissism and also videos on KZread. Understanding people's limitations because of this condition allows us to detach from their opinions and give up on expecting validation from them. Validate yourself, don't expect it from others.

  • @trinitristant3527

    @trinitristant3527

    6 ай бұрын

    @@heylookididsomething Merci ❤

  • @oliverhood7856
    @oliverhood78566 ай бұрын

    Get a grip, stop watching videos, get out there, and make your life. It won't just happen.

  • @sussycheeks8005

    @sussycheeks8005

    6 ай бұрын

    its not that simple bro

  • @bestlesbian

    @bestlesbian

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@sussycheeks8005 Trying new things and changing my surroundings or friends did help me though, so it might help him

  • @oliverhood7856

    @oliverhood7856

    6 ай бұрын

    @sussycheeks8005 it's as simple as you make it. You are at the beginning of your life , and there will probably be harder challenges later in life .

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    @diamonddestroyer79316 ай бұрын

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