And this is the reason why you should have a child ONLY when you ARE ready.

@omegasage777

6 жыл бұрын

Louder for the people in the back!! lol

@angelruns2486

5 жыл бұрын

Omg your username

@cwazie4ducks

3 жыл бұрын

It should be like the driver license... they should take an exam for becoming a parent 🤬 i'm a mother of a todler and i can't imagine treating him like this person( i can't call her mother) treats her daughter🤬

@jz9018

2 жыл бұрын

이기적인 끝판왕

@nadeshdaamina

2 жыл бұрын

I think sometimes people think, Hm what about a baby or they do it because of tradition. But I don't understand her. Sorry, cold blooded

OMG HER DAUGHTER IS SUCH AN ANGEL! IF IT WAS ME, I WOULD JUST GET OUT FROM THE HOUSE

@haluushi2753

6 жыл бұрын

annmhfzh same

@fenymardiah7266

6 жыл бұрын

Me too

I could never be a guest on this show lol. It’d take so much to not stand up and yell at these people

@taniyakarki2490

6 жыл бұрын

Ethan A. Same here, it's so frustrating seeing these elders acting like a kid

@elris452

6 жыл бұрын

Ethan A. true it’s so aggravating every ep

@Jalaasu

6 жыл бұрын

I would be balling my eyes out for each concern

@KieriHazel

6 жыл бұрын

Lucky we are not popular people and not invited to this show. Hahaha it will entirely ruin the show.

@mineyoo1999

6 жыл бұрын

Lmao same

That daughter is so cool, it's like I'm already best friends with her, virtually.

That lady is not a bad mom, she is just a bad human to begin with.

@ayoubregragui4173

5 жыл бұрын

No its the opposite she is not a bad human she isn't doing anything wrong as an individual and each person only cares about herself in the end but she is a bad daughter and mom .

@cartierkoo5974

4 жыл бұрын

Ayoub Regragui no the mother is a bad person. if she was a good hearted person she'd still take pride in her child and love her, and actually TAKE CARE of her. she is the parent and is supposed to be helping her child regardless of how she had her. wanting to have fun is fine and she most definitely entitled to making time for herself, but not to the point where she emotionally, mentally and physically neglects her child for weeks at a time.

@hassanbelmekki624

3 жыл бұрын

she is rude to her mom and daughter

@marcelineambrose6933

3 жыл бұрын

I don't think she is a bad person I think she is just confuse that she had a child really early and her husband died early too and it's hard to raise a children but she don't raise them because her mother raise her children for her daughter and most of people who gave birth at young age mostly want to have more fun

@Lee-sh3xx

3 жыл бұрын

@@cartierkoo5974 They meant is the mother who is a bad mom is also a bad daughter cause she is rude to her mom which is the girl grandma

It hurt me when i saw Young-ja almost cried... Her mother cross the line too far....

another case of a spoiled person that wants everything to themselves. like cmon you have a daughter in college, and you can’t even help her pay her tuition, she’s working a part time job, and she gives you allowance so you can spend it on your looks?? like that’s just beyond absurd. i really like the daughter she’s honestly the kindest sweetest thing, but i would’ve stopped giving my mom money. she doesn’t even save up to pay her daughter back. or at least spends it on a birthday trip and gifts for her daughter. also the fact that she actually checks on her mother to see if she is ok is great. kids rarely ever do that. it’s probably so hard to balance college and a job. the daughter is an absolute angel but the mom is just stuck up and stubborn.

@dreamr5455

6 жыл бұрын

it reminds me of veep tv show

@elle1585

6 жыл бұрын

it is even hard to do good on college. How much more with a job -.-

@xanddyy5575

6 жыл бұрын

LyricalPhoenix she's spoiled also she started going out even she has a husband she didn't take care of her daughter . only her husband and relied on him ,as the mc says its okay to have fun but only on temporary it understandable cause she is grieving but also her daughter. she has a daughter she is not a teenager or in her 20s anymore. what you saying that she lost a husband what about the daughter she basically lost both her parents her father died and her mother didn't pay attention at her or care, at the young age instead of having fun she always think about her mother and she works to pay her tuition fees and work several jobs. her daughter is always with her but she always brush her on her side.

@cocolovesgod5723

5 жыл бұрын

Nam Balloon I agree :/ I would say actually that her mom is still mentally 20 years old and never matured even though she had a child That poor girl is an angel

@cwazie4ducks

3 жыл бұрын

The daughter grew up well because of her dad and grandmother, they did a great job. 👏

did anyone else notice the annoying eyerolls of the mother when the hosts try to give her advice? or is it just me? I have a feeling the mom won't really change. she's lucky her daughter still cares a lot for her instead of abandoning her.

@jruth4557

6 жыл бұрын

SAINK00 she did it a lot...also that smirk on her face...😧😤

@hnnhbug14

5 жыл бұрын

I wanted to throw my phone. She wasn’t sincere and I know she won’t change. That poor girl

@dorcasirizarry5494

3 жыл бұрын

SAINK00 This mom is an ABSOLUTE BITCH‼️ They LITERALLY had to force her to say I LOVE U‼️ & to be leaving her to be raised by the grandmother since elementary‼️?? & HER & THE MOM NEED TO STOP 🛑 GIVING HER $$$‼️IT’S ENABLING HER‼️She is able to continue being A SPOILED BRAT‼️I wish they’d told her straight up “You’re a ROTTEN, NON-ACTIVE, SELFISH MOTHER!” I AM SURE THEY WERE SHOCKED‼️The young girl getting choked up here was heartbroken because she knows how much young women need a mom‼️ This young woman needs to just love & appreciate the grandma & write off this good for nothing woman who isn’t a mom at all‼️The daughter is a wonderful, strong, hardworking & beautiful young woman so her life can still be a GREAT one‼️ Kudos to the terrific grandmom‼️

@suzykim4035

3 жыл бұрын

She did it alot and alot of like belittling smirks. Ugh

@hironorikano

3 жыл бұрын

If i was her daughter, i would already abandoned her long time ago Annoying bitch 😒

I WANT TO THROW MY PHONE WATCHING THIS OMG SO FRUSTRATING

@lasttofirst3335

6 жыл бұрын

Yong Geun Song I really didn't want to laugh but😂😂😂😂

@MariaGarcia-jj7ve

6 жыл бұрын

tara I literally almost did that

it feels like the daughter raise the mother

생일선물한번 안챙겨주고 용돈도안준 엄마가 돈은 왜받니 어린딸한테? 당신은 정말 엄마와 딸에게 평생 감사하며 살아야합니다

i feel bad for this girl. i hope her mom could be there for her whenever she's happy or sad

@IndianYouThoober90

6 жыл бұрын

aye ayw

She’s so lucky she has a daughter like her, this whole thing is just so frustrating😫

The daughter is so pretty

@caitlinclarke7957

6 жыл бұрын

Cristina Finan Alonso ik, not only on the outside but on the inside too..

@peko7446

6 жыл бұрын

she is. she reminds me of IU

@cocolovesgod5723

5 жыл бұрын

Cristinanime On both the inside and outside like omg i wish i could be her friend :3

@user-rp7qz8yt7l

2 жыл бұрын

ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

@user-pi6kt7vr9r

2 жыл бұрын

?

This mom is seriously lucky she got a good daughter cause trust me, if you are my mom and you do this everyday to me I will leave with my grandmother and go somewhere else! Like, I can even work and pay tuition for myself! I can take care of myself! let me tell y'all, if you are a mother, ACT like you are supposed to be. Having fun is not all about life. Families will be with you trough thick and thin so you should be considered their feelings. Don't be suprised if the daughter do this you and at that time you will be managed yourself cause she ain't got time for you! Bye!

Wow this mother isn't born to be a mother and doesn't even give a damn about her daughter. If I was her daughter I would of screamed at her and told her that she's the worst mother alive. This girl is such a strong girl and such an angel.

@DeletedAcc-fv9zg

6 жыл бұрын

meryllthedreamer but tbh i think the mum does care for her daughter but shes doing a really bad job at it honestly.like on instance (some people call her a hypocrite i personally dont cause u can see where shes coming from) one the host asked if the daughter was allowed to go clubbing she said no shes not allowed because she said that the clubbing scene was to vile her a kid like her.even on mutliple occasions when she asked if she could go she said no. And the mother said the reason why she would never let her kid go clubbing was because that the nightclubbing scene was to digusting and vile, so in a way she is trying to protect her daughter in some aspects. But i mean everyone has the potential become a great mother in her instance shes a terrible mother would u blame her? She had a kid at such a young age and she wasnt rady for it. On top of that her husband died and she was dependant on a duel income, leaving her to support herself, daughter and grandmother. She uses nightclubbing as a copping mechanism.But then again she should really grow up like at first when every started to happen it was acceptable behaviour ina way because she had now way to cope with thr stress but FRealll tho its been so many years and she still clubs, not even that using her daughters hard earnes money to fuel your own spenddong habits asking ur mother to take out a loan just because u wanted tk buy something for ur self is really ridiculous.In her case she is truly a bad mother but do u blame her?

I really hated how at the end she said “I’m always thinking of you even if I don’t show it” because she obviously doesn’t, since she can’t even be bothered to send a text or even answer her daughters calls to show her that at least she’s alive and not kidnapped somewhere and at the end when the guy said that it’s not a concern and the mother actually rolled her eyes

The daughter actually been traumatized, she can't show her sadness, and keep putting smiley face more n more.. It is sad to see a child to experience something like this, and the truth is she loss a father and mother at the same time since age 10. Finally the daughter burst into tears when the mother convey her love. The mother mayb miss her late husband, but she forget about the one that still alive.

자식낳았다고 누구나 다 부모가 되는것이 아니다. 이런 사연들을 보면 나는 진심으로 우리 부모님께 무한한 애정과 감사를 느낀다.. 하.. 여진이 너무 안쓰러워 꼭 안아주고싶다..

뭐 저런엄마가 있을까요,? 할말이 없다

낳았다고 다 부모라고 할수 있을까? 부끄러운줄도 모르고 자랑하듯 얘기하는 웃는 얼굴이 참 한심하게 느껴진다.

@user-xf1ij9rb7j

2 жыл бұрын

저건부모도아니고 무식하고 자기는괜찮고가족은위혐하니안되고자기는즐길거다즐기고 진짜형편없다 딸이착해서구렇지 나중에 부모늙어봐라 봐주지도않지 연끈어야지

@user-tz5my4pm2v

2 жыл бұрын

내생각에 나이트에서 놀다가 실수로 생긴 딸 같아보이내요

@konair4948

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-tz5my4pm2v 그래서 즉석만남을 절대 안 해요. 라고 하는거 아닐까요 ㅎ

@user-bv6tl9ib6b

2 жыл бұрын

나이트는 원나잇도 많이 하지만 그런거 불편해하는 부류도 있기에 연락처 받아놓고 그 다음에 만나서 이뤄지는 경우가 더욱 많죠~

@user-tz5my4pm2v

2 жыл бұрын

@@konair4948 영상보니. 그러고도 남을거같다는 생각이드내요

마지막 순간까지 "이게 뭐야?!" 라는 식의 엄마 표정 너무 합니다. 짧은 인생 즐길때 즐겨야지! 라고 당당히 말하는 엄마, 본인 좋아라고 자식한테 그리고 부모한테까지 손벌리는 엄마는 그냥 기생충 아닌가요. 처음으로 악플을 달아 봅니다.

아가.. 웬만하면 독립해서 혼자 살아라. 낳았다고 다 부모가 아니지. 어떻게 저런 엄마한테서 저리 고운 딸이 나왔나.

@user-sb6uv9ty6f

2 жыл бұрын

저땐 21살이니까 주변 친구들이 다 어리고 유교관념 박혀서 효도니 뭐니 때문에 저런말 하는 사람이 없지 27 넘으면 여자 애들 다 독립할 때인데 다 저렇게 말할듯 그러다가 집안일도 못하고 놀러만 다니는 엄마는 버림받겠죠

It is amazing how such a terrible person gave birth and raised such a wonderful person. The daughter is a delight and it shines out right from her core. She will be loved by many others and have a good life, she needs to slowly let go of her mum.

변하지 않을것 같아 더 슬프다. 저런 생각을 가진 인간도 있구나.

the ending when yeojin started crying and the female guest started crying too talking about how there's some things only moms can help with made me start crying!! i''m very lucky to have a good mother who loves me and it's painful to hear that she has a healty and living mother who doesn't try at all to be there for her or let her know she cares about her. it's heartbreaking.

저도 20살에 아이를 낳았어요. 심지어 저는 외국에서 기댈 곳이 없이 독박 육아를 했어요. 돈도 없이 월세 단칸방에서 삶을 시작했어요. 지금 제 아이가 9살이고 전 서른살이에요. 자기 보상심리 같은 소리하시네요. 엄마 될 자격이 없는 여자네요.창피한 줄 아세요. 당신 같은 사람 때문에 엄마들이 욕 먹어요. 전 우리 아이를 혼자 두고 1시간도 못 다녀요. 무슨 엄마가 그래요? 당신 어머니와 딸은 무슨 죄예요? 정말 열 받네요. 아이랑도 놀 수 있는 방법이 얼마나 많은데?자기애가 많은 사람인 것 같은데 애초부터 왜 애 낳았나요?

@user-yf5bc7je3v

2 жыл бұрын

엄마가 이기주의에 또라이같아요

@user-qd1qw2fn2y

2 жыл бұрын

완전 옳은말

@user-mr9ms1lx7c

2 жыл бұрын

저렇게 매일을 놀러간다는거 돈을 많이 버시는가봐요 ㅎ 참 딱하네요

세상에 저런 딸이 얼마나 있을까? 엄마랑 딸의 상황이 바뀐듯. 딸이 부모인듯. 저렇게 귀엽고 이쁘고 맘이 푸근한 딸. 있음이 부럽다.

다 알겠고 노년에 찾지마라...

@user-qm7gi6gd8h

2 жыл бұрын

저렇게 뻔뻔한것들은 가족이라고 늙어서 자기 봐달라고 한다 그때 버려라 과감하게

엄마가 정신차리긴 글럿고 딸이 본인 미래를 위해서라도 정신차려야될듯

@uuuqwer

Жыл бұрын

평생 엄마 때문에 심각하게 어려울 것 같은 느낌. 그냥 이쯤에서. 엄마를 버려라. 엄마는 지멋대로 살고 싶은 것이고 누가 이래라 저래라 하는 것도 싫은 걍 인간쓰레기다 딸래미. 안스럽게 느끼지 말고 엄마를 버려라!…. 절대 바뀌지 않을 것 같아. 나이트에서 별짓 다하고 다니면서. 거짓말 하는게 보인다. 무슨 춤만 추는데. 온 밤을새냐. 얼굴에 쓰여있다.

진짜 미쳤다 이 아줌마 @@ 이영자말이 진짜 딱 맞네. 생각하는대로 사는게 아니라 사는대로 생각하는 삶을 살고계시네. 자기자신한테는 수백을 쓰면서 자식은 자기 엄마한테 맡겨놓고 생활비도 안준다니 그게 저 사람이 생각하는 가족이란말인가. 정말 한심하다

I cried when her daugther cried too... It breaks my heart too.

@loveseobie92

6 жыл бұрын

BLUE N’ As ikr.. its hard for her too..

29:24 I just can't believe he told the daughter to be more understanding....😓

여진아 마음속으로 울고있을것같구나 넌 너 인생 살아 그리고 심리치료받았으면 좋겠어. 마음치료받아서 행복하게 귀하게 살아♥

At 40 she still doesn't have a sense of responsibility? I don't care what age you had your child but from that day onwards you have to make sacrifices for that person. How can a mother value her wants and needs over her own daughter's? It baffles me that parents like this exist in the world. You can't pick your parents so I really feel sad for this girl and I pray she lives her best life, with or without her mom.

절대절대 엄마에서 벗어나세요 엄마아니에요 평생 짐이될꺼에요~~~

This is so frustrating. She is the one acting like a child. What parent goes to a nightclub everyday and does not contact her kid? Then is a hypocrite by saying her daughter can never go. Set an example. She doesn't spend any quality time with her yet she takes money from her daughter... ridiculous.

@th2030

6 жыл бұрын

Melissa Nunez i

초등학생 때 딸을 내팽개치고 자기만 위해 살았는데...정작 필요할 때 옆에 있어주질 못하고 이젠 다 컸는데...

100퍼 부킹한다

이기적이고 존나 당당하다

딸이 저리 큰게 기적이네….

심한말 나올까봐 안볼랜다 엄마가 20살에 애를 낳았을때는 엄마는 그때도 공부랑 담쌓고 남자 만나서 연애하느라 바빳네. 에휴 관두자

@passion22s34

2 жыл бұрын

즤 버릇 개 못주는거죠. 딸은 안되고 넌 되고?ㅁㅊㄴ

@user-tz5my4pm2v

2 жыл бұрын

나이트에서 남자만나서 임신햇을듯

ㅡㅡ미쳤네 엄마가 저런데도 딸이 잘자랐다 다행이도ㅠㅠ

I teared up so much from watching this. This made me realize how grateful I am to have a loving, caring, and a protective mom who constantly calls and texts me at night time just to make sure I am safe.

24:34 영자님 눈시울빨개지는거보니 짠해요. 제발정신좀차리시죠.어머님

나이트죽순이가 부킹을 안한다고? 그리고 그것과 별개로 저리 외박 매일 할정도면 건전하게 놀거라고 보이진않는다.

@user-jy7fg6jm2n

2 жыл бұрын

인정 딸과 못가는거보면 백퍼 성인나이트임

@user-jg4ss4bz7g

2 жыл бұрын

옷파시는분들 많이노심 건전하진않음

@gwajadanji

2 жыл бұрын

아니 돈을 벌면 뭐하냐고 버는것보다 더 쓰는데;

In my opinion (no need to bash ok) I too get pregnant and started a family at an early age of 19, fortunately I finished my degree. Though working, decisions I made have been mutual between me and my husband. I felt I lost myself; my identity and my youth. Frustrations, sadness consumed me but I learned to endure it and change my perspective for the sake of my family. The mother doesn't have that opportunity of overcoming it since her husband died early. And a constant reminder is her child and the only thing she know as a coping mechanism was bar hopping, being drunk. The "home" is a constant reminder of her being a single mom, longingness for her dead husband. She assert by selfishly being "single", covering her sadness with material things. The adulting has been the role of the daughter, her mother (grand mother) tolerated mom's childish attitude to avoid conflict. Bless her child for being more mature for her and understood what her mother's going through. I think that the mother harboring her sadness for so long because she doesn't know how to surpass it, she really needs counselling, attend support groups that can understand what she is going through.

@Amalleo94

6 жыл бұрын

But she really needs to be more responsible especially towards her grandmother. She is an adult now so she should pay up her debts even towards her own mother. The only thing she should know is responsibility. Towards her mother, her daughter and herself.

@catymira

6 жыл бұрын

Well I just feel like she has to deal with they should have used protection if she didn't want problems

@sharlynm85

6 жыл бұрын

Yes but to club for 20 yrs hmmmmmmm

@angeline328

6 жыл бұрын

Oh wow.... I understand better now 😊 I hope this mom can be a better parent to her daughter and realize that each moment is precious with her daughter. I feel that the mom has serious depression and needs to see a psychiatrist immediately. She has guilt building up in her because of her clubbing addiction and that she can't spend time with her family and vice versa. That made her depressed and stressed for thinking that she couldn't take care of her family well plus her husband's absence. That is my point of view. If you do see something wrong, point it out nicely. Nobody needs another backlash. We are all already suffering.

@deeadedee

6 жыл бұрын

Many people have different types of hardships, including this one, being a single mother or having a child at a younger age, but the way this particular woman is and has been treating her child is absolutely unacceptable. Her daughter is literally trying to pay her mother into spending more time with her. Also, she doesn't lift a single finger at home, doesn't do anything, doesn't even share what money she makes, she keeps it all to herself. She doesn't look lost - she's just irresponsible, selfish and even childish, I'd say. And very, very spoiled. Just wait until her daughter finally leaves her (because she will, eventually). Then she'll wake up.

The hosts are always too lenient on the one being wrong. They work out their advice around them. The younger guests usually give the best advice shame they never get to talk

I really wish there was some qualification test for people to be allowed to be parents

@teresc3181

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Before getting married in our country, couples are required to acquire a marriage license-- making sure the couple are of the right age and understanding, have due parental consent if necessary, undergo marriage seminars, etc. ...At the very least, it should be like when someone wants to adopt, and the system first checks if the person is capable enough.

@tingle2323

3 жыл бұрын

Same same... I wish it badly.. Because so many youths are ruined because of their parents.. It felt heartbreak to see teenagers and earth youths to see taking care of their irresponsible parents

엄마의 자격이없다. 낳는다고 다 부모가 아냐

I tried to understand the mom at first, tried to see the good side of her but she really got some attitude like when the guests voted the situation as a concern she kept on making faces i dunno maybe i just misinterpreted her face when they received 147 votes. I really felt bad for the daughter cause my dad died early also (i was in third grade then) and there are five of us but my mom never went to night clubs or acted up like her mom did. I so like the daughter though. I just hope her mom change for the better before her daughter got fed up with her immaturity. ☹️

정신병자랑 사는구나 남자도 만나가면서..헤프게 사는듯

딸이 넘 착하네~~ 마음이 많이 아프네요~ 힘드시겠지만 친정어머니도 언제나 옆에 계시는게 아니랍니다.

i wish the daughter and grandmother would just cut ties with the mother and live away together😡😔

가여워서. 웃고있는딸이. 넘 애처롭다 저 엄마. 애들 학비도 안내주고 으그ᆢ

I think her mother is stressed too. But, I'm very proud of the daughter because she give a lot of love, always worried and care to her mother. Mom and the daughter love is always pure of the heart.

this is clear parental neglect

딸아 독립해라. 엄마에게 배울게 없다. 엄마 졸업하고....

She's such a good daughter that i think her mom doesn't deserve her 😔my heart broke tonight

The mom is suspicious...nightclubs 5-7 times per week and she just WATCHES? hmm

@lasttofirst3335

6 жыл бұрын

Yong Geun Song as much as I agree that this mother is wrong , that much I have yo say that you are very disrespectful .... Actually you are acting very disgustingly in this comment section.

@MLik-rz6xd

6 жыл бұрын

Yong Geun Song The way you use many vulgar words here, define who you are.

@user-un7yy3rh6h

6 жыл бұрын

+Yong Geun Song you kind of make sense, i mean ignoring the obvious slanders and vulgarity

@orbitonces

6 жыл бұрын

Yong Geun Song Lmao what a salty bitch

@lyne3783

6 жыл бұрын

Yong Geun Song You are disgusting.

피임은 꼭 철저하게!!!

i don't know why but my tears started to fall when the daughter started crying

Ah seriously .!!!??even that I love you from the mom has to be forced by the MCs. does she really care for a good child like her

@memi9839

6 жыл бұрын

Hannah preethi Some parents dont show afection very often or they think it is embaressing. I think that that is why it had to be forced (especially for national tv)

@oncefortwice1389

6 жыл бұрын

I think it’s more that they had to coax her to open up, rather than forcing her to say something. It’s hard to do something you either haven’t done before, or haven’t done for a long time.

딸이 정말 좋은 딸이네요.. ㅠㅠ

Emotionally and psychologically, the mom has been trapped at the time of her husband's death. When the hosts ask her about her feelings for her husband, that's when she couldn't help but naturally become vulnerable - it's so pure. Her feelings are fixated to that time and all she wants to do is forget the rest because it is that painful to her. It takes a great pain and a stunted development for a person, especially a mother, to neglect a child in this way. It's awful, but she was still so young when she gave birth, she must have already had an immature mentality when she became a mother. She doesn't know how to become one, and it always frightened her to do it alone after her husband passed.

The daughter is an angel and has a beautiful charming smile

어떤 사정이든 초등학교 시절 딸을 안 돌봤다면 정말 나쁜 사람이다.

처음부터 엄마가 되실 자격이 없는 분 같네요!!! 전생에 철천지 원수가 부모 자식간에 만나기도 한다는데 누구보다 사랑으로 자랄 딸을 나 몰라라 하고 이렇게 천사같은 아이 딸로 낳은 것만으로도 행운으로 아세요!! 따님이 정말 어른스러워요 대견하고 마음이 넘 예쁘세요!! 그리고 제발 정신 차리고 삽시다!! 당신 인생 그러다 한방에 훅 가는 날 있을지 누가 알아요?! 그리고 자기 합리화 그만 시키시고!! 본인만 세상 힘들고 산후우울증 겪는거 아닙니다 !!

어머니 표정보면 딸에 대한 애정이 좀 부족한것 같아요....... 딸은 그냥 딸 인생 살아요

48살정도로 봤어요..3년전 영상이면 이분지금 43세인데., ;; 아직도 나이트다니시려나ㅎㅎ

@user-cw9zh4sc3y

2 жыл бұрын

아무리 결혼을 일찍했어도 모성본능 이라는게 있는데 어쩜 애를 방치해놓코 애가 어릴땐 누가 키웠는징 궁금하네요 지금이라도 늦지 않았으니 사랑을 많이주고 표현도 많이 하고 하세요 ᆢ 본인 생각만 하고 놀지 말고 이뿌게도 컷넹 ᆢ화초도 물안주고 무관심 하면 말라 죽듯이 제발 철 드세요 무슨 올빼미도 아니고 나이트에 미쳐서 ᆢ 본인 스스로 깊이 생각해보아요 ᆢ딸이 불쌍해 죽겠넹 ᆢ

@gwajadanji

2 жыл бұрын

모든 사람이 똑같은 외모로 나이가 들진 않죠. 이런 생각 자체가 여기 나온 사람들하고 크게 다르지 않은것 같음. 자기가 생각한게 옳다고 착각하는거.

너무 눈물나요 .. 착해서.. 너무 착해서 ㅜㅜ

She's really a good daughter, from what she said in the last that she just wanted her mom to be happy and never asked something for herself is heartbreaking😢😢

I can't imagine if my mom being like that 😭 Stay healthy my beloved mom 🙏❤

Ugh, if she was my mother I'd stop giving her money, move out while she's out partying, and let her take care of herself. I understand it's difficult when it's your mom, but this lady has no consideration or respect for her own daughter...why should her daughter treat her in such a way?

@AyAReI00

6 жыл бұрын

Maria Flores i dont really think you will ever understand, my guess is that you have a loving mother... well let me trying to explain you, you had your mom since you are a kid, kids are really moldeable so they grew up thinking is their fault that their own mother ignore them, so they try even harder to get their attention, that will result my friend to an adult unable to think that deserve love, since well, her own mother didnt love her, if she gets a bf he will look for people who ignore her And she will be the only one giving And investing in the relationship... is really really really hard to understand that your mother doesnt love you, is so hard to ask yourself "why did she have me then?" ... after that you will not only shock with reality but realized that not only all families are not loving ones but that you weren't lucky enought to have one yourself... Oh remember the looking the wrong parnert thing... well I give up on dating cuz i always choose the wrong person And i know if my fault for not falling in love with a nice guy who will love me back... she needs theraphy as well as me lol I hope this make you understand that is not as easy as saying "i will leave asap" cuz is simple not .-.

@2PMisTimeless

6 жыл бұрын

AyAReI00 weil i know many who don’t care about that and just left home, cuz their mother failed their role of being a mother. Someone needs to be really strong and hurt to leave home.

@AyAReI00

6 жыл бұрын

2PMisTimeless specially really strong, you need a lot of courage to leave home And accept your parents dont love you/ are toxic

The daughter should have taken the role as mom in this case. 🙄

남자랑 하루 걸러서 자고 온다는 말인가?모텔도 요즘 쿠폰제 있던데 10번가면 1번 꽁자

하고싶은대로하게 냅둬라 너도독립해서 너하고싶은대로 살고~그리고 언제라도연락오면 모르는사람이라고 하고 끊고 잘살아

초등학생 아이를 혼자 집에 두는건 아동학대인데;; 생업을 위해서도 아니고 무슨 나이트간다고 애생일 전날에 애를 혼자두나..

엄마는 나쁜 짓 한 적 없다고 하는데 애를 방임하는게 나쁜 짓이 아니면 뭐지???

It breaks my heart.. she's grown up on her own despite having her mother alive and well.

My mama gave birth to me when she was 18 and I'm thankful that she's not like that mother lol btw I'm turning 18 this year 😂

@imjustlucky3076

4 жыл бұрын

Yay😊

@shanesandoval5234

3 жыл бұрын

My mom gave birth to me when she was 15 and my dad is 22

내 아내에게 감사하며 살아야지...

@babasua

2 жыл бұрын

ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

I was so angry through the whole thing but as soon as the daughter started crying at the end my tears came too. She deserved to have a better mother.

엄마가 모성애 자체가 없는 듯...엄마라고 무조건 있는게 아니라 키우면서 생기는거라고 하더라구요 무조건 낳자마자 생기진 않는다네요...산후우울증이 왔는데다 신생아시기엔 밖에 나가지도 못하니 그게 스트레스가 극에 도달았나본데...그걸 못 버틴건가? 자식까지도 미운경우도 있다던데...어휴...그래도 자식만 불쌍하다ㅜ

@user-tr5vl3cu4h

2 жыл бұрын

저도 키워본결과 처음 태어났을땐 별감정없더라구요 그저 아기니까 지켜줘야한다는 의무감뿐? 지금 고1인데 낳아서 지금이 젤 못생길때인데 지금이 제일 귀엽고 사랑스러워요 ㅋ 키운정으로 엄마가 되어가는거죠

내가 저딸이였으면 엄마랑 인연끊고 할머님만 모시고 살았지싶다 아무리 힘든시기를 격고 어린나이에 애를 낳아서 못놀고 못꾸미고 했다지만은 저건아니지.. 진짜..

아ᆢ 어머님 대단해요 무책임하다 생각이없다 ㅡㅡ

i really say thanks to god because i have mother like my mom (^^).

honestly no matter how much she couldnt live her youth theres sth fishy about her clubbing every day out of the week. i have a feeling she does other things there. of course she wouldnt be honest about it.

딸이너무잘컸지만 너무안스럽다 어떻게저런엄마밑에 저런이쁘고착한딸이 나온건지

@user-sp3uq1tu1j

2 жыл бұрын

딸은 아빠유전자를 많이 받습니다

애미라고 억장이 무너진다 의절이 답이다

I’m on this ”hello counselor spree” right now,

넘예쁘게자랐네요~~~진짜한번만나고싶네요!

Thinking about all the spoiled girls/boys who give their parents for granted and maybe are even disrespectful. Whatching this angel like girl makes me think that is really important not to spoil your child for him/her to grow well. ...even if this is a bit to much i'd think giving a lot of love its important too but whitout spoiling(giving an allowance or planty of toy does not mean giving love)

25:43 the mom replied very fast during the show, but the one time she slowly answered was when she was asked if she loved her husband a lot. I wonder if that means anything

@nganhanhthu1083

6 жыл бұрын

apparently she still loves him and relies on him a lot, watching the way she answered the questions, you can tell that her esteem won't let her tell a lie (she was trying to prove that she's​ not wrong though, why should she hesitate​) It't just she was keeping herself strong, and ppl like that are not used to expressing their love, they think it's cheesy and weak and making them seem vulnerable Personally I think she loves her husband more than her child

@2PMisTimeless

6 жыл бұрын

Sydney le yeah agree. Especially korean who are shy to express their love in public.

@karengabriella4057

6 жыл бұрын

Sydney le

여자로써 즐겁게 사세요. 엄마로는 ᆢ참 씁쓸합니다

정말 저런 어떻게 ㅇ엄마가 있다니 딸이 참 불쌍하네요

3년전꺼를 왜제가 지금보는지 몰겠지만 화가나네요 ㅠㅠ 20살에 애낳은거 그게뭐 어때서요 낳았으면 사랑으로 키워야지 자기밖에모르는 인간이네정말 딸이불쌍하네 ㅉㅉ 나두37이지만 내딸도17이니까 나도20살에 애를낳아도 투잡해서 돈벌어서 딸님이 짐 고등학교다니는데 자기밖에모르는 인간은 정말 폐기급엄마네 남편을 사랑한게아니라 미안한말이지만 남편이 살아생전 저아줌마 노예였겠다~ 자길낳아준 친엄마 나이도많으신데 몸도아프신데 일하시고 집들어와서 집안일하고 그돈을 3천만원이나 갈취해서 지살것만 산다는게 진짜 인간이하네요 난 내딸 해외서공부중이여서 코로나땜에 못봐서 화상통화로 자주하고 돈도 자주붙히고 걱정도많이하는데 진짜 저아줌마딸은 진짜 저런엄마밑에서 정말 잘컸네 화가나서 욕이나온다

this is the first time I've ever seen yeongja cry omg :((

뭐 저런 엄마가 있는지??? 양심이 없구나. 딸이 불쌍하다.

This remind me of the similar concern about daughter and father. He also didn't care for his daughter. The daughter work and give him money but he treated her badly. And now same one but with clubbing mum 😧

@Marzyart

6 жыл бұрын

with BTS every moment is beautiful yes I remember that concern