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@benhaltro1758

7 ай бұрын

brava collaboriamo?

U.S. doesn’t have to be lonely, but combine working too much, commuting everywhere due to long distances, stand-alone houses, a culture of abandoning our elders, excessive consumerism, and you have a recipe for loneliness. I’ll take minimal belongings, a small place to live, and quality relationships with family and friends any day. Valencia would be a great place to do that.

@harryballs7029

10 ай бұрын

the truth hurts OUCH .. US is a first world "shit hole" IMHO

@pepegg1992

10 ай бұрын

En Valencia serás bienvenido 👍👍

@fjp3305

9 ай бұрын

In most US cities not many people live downtown. They are empty after 6pm.

@vervideosgiros1156

9 ай бұрын

I get sad when I see comments made by americans saying that they would gladly switch from a more self-centered and consumerist society for a more people-oriented and simpler society, because it shows that many people there isn't happy with the way they live (I understand that). In the USA it's common for people to give lectures about this and that subject and nowadays, with a so much influencial social media, I think that americans should share their dislike for the way society works there, so they influence others to live a healthier and happier life, so their society would be fearer and happier!😊

Oh, mi corazón... This video hit me right in the feels, Anto. As a Valencian soul in the heart of this vibrant city, I can't help but share a melancholic smile at the stark contrast between Valencia and Los Angeles. It's incredible how we embrace genuine connections here, while across the ocean, people hide behind their "happiness" masks, trying to be stars in a disconnected world. In Valencia, life moves at a different pace - we savor the simple joys, like relishing a plate of paella with our amigos who feel like family. The warmth and friendliness are like rays of sunshine that envelop us, making us feel cherished and understood. But, oh, how I yearn for Los Angeles to experience this heartwarming camaraderie! There's a hint of irony in how they chase fame and fortune, yet find themselves isolated, lost in a sea of strangers. Amidst the laughter and the tears, let's embrace the humor in this human comedy. While we, Valencians, exchange laughter and stories, they're stuck in traffic, chasing a dream that seems to have left them wandering alone. So, here's to us, cherishing genuine connections and living life with open hearts. And who knows, maybe someday, the world will learn from the warmth of Valencia, and those in Los Angeles will put down their masks and find the real stars in each other. Hasta luego to loneliness, with a touch of humor and hope! 🌞😄

I moved to the Andalucían mountains from Barcelona where I lived for 6 years. I found Barcelona to be full of people and many Americans yet I saw much loneliness. I decided to leave in 2020 because of the lack of community and transient lifestyle. I literally started driving south to Andalucía. I landed in a beautiful mountain town and I bought a nice big home with views in the town main street. That was 3 years ago now. I have never had so many friends, so many activities that don't involve restaurants or bars or alcohol and so much beauty in my life. I am often in complete silence and tranquility. I can be alone but never lonely. I say hello to everyone. They all know me. I am the only American in a town of 2,000. Best move of my life. Cities are overrated.

@borisnegrarosa9113

10 ай бұрын

Sure. But the reason you went to Barcelona in the first place is because you enjoyed the nightlife and the shallow friendships. And most probably you spoke English the entire time.

@marrlena947

10 ай бұрын

@@borisnegrarosa9113 Lol, that's hilarious. Obviously you are projecting your own personality but certainly not mine. I was literally a party pooper. But don't you concern yourself! You're probably a bot anyway lol🤣

@borisnegrarosa9113

10 ай бұрын

@@marrlena947 Not projecting at all. Morever, you speak like a typical American.

@fbabarbe430

10 ай бұрын

South Europeen regio's are at their best in small towns an villages. Cities are just nice to visite and to enjoy for a day or few days. Unless you a for yourself a unique job opportunity the city can be good for you. 😊

@fbabarbe430

10 ай бұрын

​@@borisnegrarosa9113learn Spanish do an effort. A world of a difference.

Antoanetta, its almost as if you read my mind. I am noticing the increasing isolation of people in the US and, as someone who lives here, I am feeling loneliness encroach upon my own life. When I was younger, I was seduced by the Hollywood image of the lone wolf hero, who was self-sufficient, and who appeared to not need anyone. I was enamored with the independence and strength of these protagonists - frequently played by men like Stallone, Schwarzenegger, and Van Damme; men who seemed to embody machismo. Its only as I got older, and started to experience living a life without people, that I found this "ideal" to be such a nightmare. I found it to be an illusion assiduously nurtured by the media to shape people to be status seekers instead of connection seekers. It is a life that leads to despair. Its a life without purpose. This issue is not talked about enough, except by a few psychologists and socialists on podcasts. So I appreciate you bringing this topic to the forefront.

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for your heartfelt comment,so true.

I hate to burst the bubble of anyone watching, but moving to Spain is not a cure for chronic loneliness. It might seem that way in a city like Valencia where so many people speak English, but if you’re in a different area without a lot of foreigners and you can’t speak Spanish, you’ll have some of the loneliest times of your life! That being said, it can also be enriching and enjoyable to experience the scenery, food, and culture, but without speaking Spanish, you’ll really struggle. (Voice of experience here!)

@timschmitt7550

10 ай бұрын

Yes I agree. This channel develops a bit into an anti USA channel. When I was in the USA I found people incredibly friendly, open and easygoing.

@edtravelbug

10 ай бұрын

Well said. I have had the opportunity to travel for so many years and have spent months and months in both Italy and, more recently, Spain. As I type, I am in Barcelona, and last year I spent two months in Spain, including almost two weeks in Valencia. The key is inside yourself. Somehow I learned to be so happy with myself. I find happiness from within and take pleasure in whatever things I decide to study or do every day. A book called The Power of Now, read with an open mindset, will do wonders to let you realize all these people out there chasing something that does not exist in another place and other people selling them on a life of happiness. At the same time, they make money off of their perceived loneliness. Use Valencia as an example = After the newness wears off. After seeing that fancy all-white Arts and Sciences building. After seeing that long river that was converted into a park. After walking the beach a few times. What are you going to do every day? Do you have to work? Are you retired? Here is what it comes down to since I have a relative and a few friends in Spain and Europe. You have to like going out to Bars and drinking alcohol a lot. You must enjoy going out, spending money on food and drink, and meeting up with people for hours. In Spain, this is often done at 9pm at night or even later. This "social" gathering sometimes last past midnight. If you like or want that, then Spain is for you. I am lucky in that I get to have my American cake while being able to travel the world for a few months each year. I get my Barcelona fix. I get my Tuscany awe mouth drop. I get my Thai food and, hopefully, will soon experience my first Kuala Lumpur goosebumps (FYI just experienced Edinburgh in Scotland and that is a fantastic city to visit for visual sensation and a foodie heaven - Try The Black Grape restaurant for an awesome experience AND Edinburgh has cooler awesome weather in the brutal heat of summer). For anyone and everyone, truly take the time to put the emotion out of it and give an honest self-reflection on what you want to do in the day-to-day of your life. OK time to put down the laptop this morning and head out into Barcelona. Another day of 90 degrees scorching heat surrounded by tens of thousands of people all looking for something to do. Just so you know, Barcelona foodie tip = Tapeo and Arcano are the best two restaurants, but make sure you snag reservations because this digitally connected world has led to everyone searching Google and booking these places in advance. No permanent friend connections will be found at these two places, but good food will be found. Find happiness and connection where you live now. It is there if you simply put in the effort.

@Lacteagalaxia

10 ай бұрын

Soy de Valencia y aqui hablamos muy poco Ingles como no sean las tiendas del centro por los guiris ( turistas extranjeros) del centro y muy poco mas.

@timschmitt7550

10 ай бұрын

@@tobarragl Yes, this channel has really a quite biased view on the USA (in a too negative way) and on Spain (in a too positive way). The biggest problem of Spain is the economy as you say: huge unemployment and bad salaries for those how have a job. Of course, Americans who come to Spain with their big bank account that they filled in the USA do not notice that. (But they drive up the rental prices etc which make the cities almost unaffordable for regular Spanish people.)

@fbabarbe430

10 ай бұрын

​@@tobarraglthan Europe is the best common devider😅

Community is the key word...that is what is missing in the US

I really like your videos, you are very sincere and concerned about loneliness in this world. I’m a British American living in the US and l agree with all your comments regarding living life here. I have friends in Valencia, Spain and l look forward to visiting in the future 😊

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Community in Spain is…great

@michaelburles6808

10 ай бұрын

@@ANTOANETTA Would be great to meet up with you

I’ve been studying this issue for years. America isn’t the loneliest country, but one of the loneliest Anglo Saxon countries in the world. It’s a huge public health issue in England, Canada and Australia also. I think the Latin American countries and Southern European countries have more of a community oriented attitude and cultures. I won’t say that every place is lonely in the US, but I would imagine having a tougher time of it in cities like LA and Boston. I think there are many variables that promote connection and factors that promote isolation.

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Yes absolutely. In Europe Ireland is the loneliest:(

@erichamilton3373

10 ай бұрын

I think the issue is very complex. Some Latin American countries also suffer from high rates of depression and alienation. Also, American and Anglo culture IS very community oriented: this is why these countries and their institutions function so well.

@marrlena947

10 ай бұрын

​@@erichamilton3373What Latin American countries?? Community oriented in UK and USA??

@erichamilton3373

10 ай бұрын

@@marrlena947 For example Chile has high rates of depression and alienation. Sociologically speaking LA countries are low trust societies which is reflected in particular problems. US is communitarian in culture and is sociologically a high triste society.

@marrlena947

10 ай бұрын

@@erichamilton3373 I'm American and disagree. The USA loves to promote itself as perfectly communitariam and 'good neighbors' blablabla. The truth is that Americans have deep mistrust of anything not 'corporate' and mainstream.

You have such a big, warm heart Antoanetta! Thank you for this, and for your other videos. Because of them we are looking forward to visiting Valencia in the next couple of months.

Back in 2003 I had an opportunity to work in Mexico. For almost 2 years I commuted between the states and Mexico. As time passed I found it harder and harder to return to the states. The culture of caring and family in Mexico highlighted the direction of how I felt the US was moving in the opposite direction. So in 2005 I moved to Mexico and have lived in Mexico ever since. What initiated my dissatisfaction of the direction of the US only became worse over time and brought us to where we are today. I think the loneliness and your video is a sobering memory of what I felt back then. But I do think its more than loneliness. There is so much anger and lack of caring for others, particularly those who are different than the people immediately around you or me. With the growth of tourism and retirement in Mexico there are already issues that have developed as time has passed. So, like you did, I am moving to Spain.

In a world full of crazies, it's sometimes nice to be lonely 🤙🏼

Supermarket cashiers in Spain chat away. Older women fuss over young male workers who come in daily to buy lunch. It's really nice to watch. The men feel seen. The women intuitively know the young men don't have their mama nearby.

I don't think it's just a U.S. thing, I live in Eastern Europe and I have felt alone my whole life.

@darjeeling9116

10 ай бұрын

exactly!

Community is important

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

So important!!! Some don’t realize it but…

You literally summed up exactly why I am leaving the US when I retire. The scary part is I have no idea if it's better in Spain or Portugal, but because of being an American we will always be outside those groups in other countries.

@leonab545

10 ай бұрын

Anywhere we go we will feel an outsider. I went through this as a teen in the US. But we have to try and grow. I am now also looking to leave the US. I still feel like I should keep connection to here but I am just not happy with the quality of life here.

I was visiting Valencia a couple of weeks ago. I see you recorded the interview in El Mercado de La Imprenta! Beautiful! I watched your videos for a long time and I don't know why I assumed you were Brazilian, I'm originally from Argentina living in the states. As

Great content again. Your a kind soul❤

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🤗

Loneliness is happening here in the USA. I can relate to that. I live in NC and people are very hermetic. Live on the personal bubble. I do not feel engaged to anything other than work.

You are a star !❤

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Awww thank you 🤩

Hi Antoanetta, my name is Mario Rivas and I work with a company in Valencia called Estates Quo. I love your videos and, especially, how you got to really capture how we Spanish are, it is great. I would like to have a quick video chat with you (if possible) so I can let you know how we could collaborate. Take care and all the best with your channel.

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching my videos. Check the description of my video to see my contact info. We can talk. Thank you

Excellent video. Your videos show us Spain but they are also thought provoking and speak to my situation. I am convinced more than ever that I need to get out of the US. Thank you Antoanetta.

Loved that video!!

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

It was a pleasure sharing with you, thank you!

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Likewise! Thank you 😊

Awesome content. Loving it

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 🥰

I loved it 😍 DEFINITELY 💯% agree with you!! Spectacular video!! Please don’t stop !! God bless you 🙏🏻🥰

I love this. Expect me for a consult soon. Also, going to buy the essential guide to span. Thank you!

Antoanetta you said it like it is about the USA. I think that is why I have never felt like a true American culturally. I am Latina ( Sephardic Jew) and a Bahai since I was 20. It has been very difficult for me to live and work in this society , because of the idea that it is "everyman /woman for himself/herself." I do not ascribe to that and was not raised with that concept. Becoming a Bahai also supported the notion that we are -one world and mankind it's citizens. I have ascribed to the tribal idea for so long that when I have worked jobs or had my own business in the past or did acting/music for a living I was internally sad . The business world did not support community. I see the younger generation is demanding changes and I salute them. I also see that not only is it an individualistic society here it is very focused on what you have . I was in an area of Denver Metro today on personal business and after I was done I said to my husband , why would anyone want to live there? It was nothing but heavy traffic, commercial buildings and it felt sticky. He agreed. When we went to Europe for the first time in 2019 we had something to compare it to. Spain felt like our kind of home. Immediately we made friends. We were there on two different trips and people in Malaga said where have you been ? We were in a crowd and they actually asked us when we returned where have you been. They were happy we were back. That would never happen here in the USA unless in a very small town. Our hope and strong desire is to be able to move either to Spain or to Norway to be close to our kids and granddaughter. In Bergen last year we were impressed with the people we connected with. We noticed people enjoyed nature and life. None of these countries are without problems but overall I did see people felt more connected to each other than here . Thank you for a wonderful video!

@angeles3708

10 ай бұрын

Saludos desde Sefarad, su país y el mío.

Me impactan tus videos, me emocionan. Thank you for your videos Anto, i get touched.

The life here is amazing. No fear. People are kind. There’s community. Family is important and it’s safe. Did I say it’s safe? I’ll do anything to keep my family safe and happy. This is it for us.

Your video is a notch above so many other videos on You Tube.❤

A very thought provoking and intelligent look at how the kind of society we live in shapes us all, for good or for bad.

Amazing video about loneliness as it is indeed a problem and it just growing in my eyes. I really like your videos as I have a thought in my mind about moving to Valencia and after this one I understood why I think I understand you more than other youtubers with videos for Spain! :) Благодаря за видеата! :)

Excellent video. Gracias

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thanks

Spaniards have a deep sense of belonging. To their country, to their culture, to their family.

@hiddenname9809

8 ай бұрын

In America, many people like that are called racist.

@europeanliving6077

5 ай бұрын

100000% Agree... but the EU is having its impact there too.... just like in my country Ireland

I love watching all of your videos!

I thank you for making this video because I was thinking I am crazy for feeling so lonely but it’s not only me in this country

What makes your channel wonderful is the smart way of creating a converstation among the others those who agree and those who do not agree good job indeed

Thanks!

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

this reminds me of the flower that grows thru the crack in the sidewalk good for you and thankyou !

I live alone, but because i have a big community of racquetball friends, a large family, an occasional girlfriend …i never feel lonely. Perhaps in spain i will, but my sense is i’ll meet people who will share similar enjoyments.

Great video. The warm affectionate chaos of Spain.

@Lacteagalaxia

10 ай бұрын

Caos? tufillo xenofobo o no has estado aqui?

The clip of the older people dancing in the park is joyous.

Loneliness existe everywhere. It may be that certain Americans feel lonely, but what strikes me on visiting the US is how much strangers greet each other and chat. This does not happen in many other countries.

@cal9112

10 ай бұрын

That's absolutely true

@fbabarbe430

10 ай бұрын

It is what you want. Meeting people or having connection with people. Chit chat or sharing ideas, wanting to know eachother?

@patriciacontreras137

10 ай бұрын

Not in Florida where I lived no one ever said hi or even looked at anyone they were extremely stuck up and rude where I lived. Here in Valencia it’s nothing like that everyone says hi and wants to talk to you and get to know you and they are most polite people I have met never met much people that were polite in the states.

@Olga-di7hu

9 ай бұрын

You know why Americans do that? Because they don't have any friends and their family connections are very distant. People who have close friends and good families would not be investing their time into strangers whom they will never see again.

Good video. The lonelyness is not a state, but an attitud. You choose to be lonelyness or not. The same thing is for example that you can choose let others think for you or you think for yourself. The most people usually choose others (politicians, mass media, etc) think for they. Almost everything is in the attitud of everyone. "What do I choose for myself and my life? (suits or need for me or my life really)" This is one of the first questions that everyone should must to do to ourself in our life. Not the last question. Regards.

La tecnología está en todos los países, y no es la culpable de la soledad. Lo que importa es la cultura y costumbres. La cultura española implica relacionarse diariamente entre amigos, familiares y desconocidos. En general, somos gente amigable, alegre, natural, espontánea, solidaria y empática. Si un extranjero quiere encajar tiene que aprender el idioma, eso pasa en todos los países, pero en España es muy importante. No tiene nada que ver la cultura española con la francesa, o con la alemana, ni con la inglesa. Europa no es homogénea, en ningún país europeo la gente es como en España, ni siquiera Italia. España es especial y muy diferente. España es muy acogedora.

We love and follow all your videos Antoanetta. Thanks for sharing all this information with us. We planning our moving to Spain 🇪🇸 in the next year. We will be looking from August to October. We love to chat about it. Ramon and Zoe

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@ramonlicha3881

10 ай бұрын

@@ANTOANETTA your welcome 🤗

Valencia Goberment should sponsor you! Our best embassador in the U.S.

I totally agree with you , I am divorced no kids, I am very loneliness and it's giving me hard toll to my health

I’m planning to check out valencia to retire to next year. I’ve been watching your videos, as well as some others, including expat info, and so on. So big thanks and lunch is on me.

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thank you! You should visit

Yep America is indeed a lonely isolating culture of its country. But not just America is like the only one. In japan, Korea, UK, & IRELAND also Canada is the SAME!

I believe it’s designed this way in the US. It’s much easier to control people and the narrative if we’re isolated. My wife is about the only person I ever talk to but I wouldn’t say I’m lonely. I’ve been like this my entire life so I’m obviously use to it. I’m planning to break that situation in a couple months when we move to Europe.

@fbabarbe430

10 ай бұрын

Advice:learn the language and participatie actively in sport, culture, volonteerwork.

@ariannarivera8254

10 ай бұрын

Moving to Spain was a great for me mainly because I understand it because I have hispanic parents. I don’t speak it well but I am able to get around if that makes sense and people at least can understand me so. Yea definitely what that person said above me learn the language it definitely makes it easier. I am studying abroad and also learning more Spanish in order to communicate better :)

The epidemic of loneliness is the result of the epidemic of selfishness.

I live in the US moving to Alicante spain for a english teaching job. I dont know what she did here but i have a ton of friends amazing co workers family an Amazing wife which of course is coming to Spain too. Actually its a bit bitter sweet for me. I am moving because i want a new opportunity to travel and live. I got one with Spain. But alone i am not if anything ive branched out connected with more people through social media. Just my two cents. You can't always believe the all the negative hype like anywhere Americans have our challenges but we have strengths too it's not chicken little the sky is always falling. In life you have to live it the best way you can negative media hype is just noise negative news always sells just be you be you and happy find your niche your adventure your dream and chase It i believe there is someone for everyone you don't have to be alone.

The Surgeon General was in my 10th grade Algebra II class, among others.

Hi Antoanetta, thank you for the very interesting series of videos on life in Valencia. I have been learning Spanish (Castilian), beginner’s level. To live in Valencia as a retiree, would I need to know Valencian language? Thank you kindly

I want out of California… I’m a stranger in my own birth country!

@Juanfernandez-sm8jl

10 ай бұрын

welcome to Spain!!😊😊😊😊😊😊

@tamaramadelin4831

10 ай бұрын

When I go back to California I have reverse culture shock...I love and miss my friends and family and love to visit but then just want to get back 'home'...❤Lisboa!

@borisnegrarosa9113

10 ай бұрын

​@@Juanfernandez-sm8jlNo please. Don't bring in more Americans.

@andre1987eph

10 ай бұрын

I live in California. It's the most beautiful place in the world with the best climate. That's the problem with leaving

@tamaramadelin4831

10 ай бұрын

@borisnafgrosa

After being living 30 years in the USA, my observation is that for many people, loneliness is a choice. In the Midwest and specifically in West Michigan, most people do not let you enter their circle unless you look like them, have the same financial status and common interests. It is hard to make friends or even have a casual conversation with sincerity.

I am tired of people with personal problems and personality disorders blaming the place they live and creating a delusion of Utopia elsewhere. I love Spain. I am from Spain BUT NOW Spain sucks with the government they have . Spaniards are leaving Spain whenever they can . I go there regularly and have fun as a visitor But in America I have been able to progress a million times more than my family ever did in Spain.

Bulgaria had high regard for culture and a common purpose. Collective effort.

This guy wants to fight a problem but he isn't viewing things as they are! At 10:20 he talks about ways to create a fast way for people to get friends and friendship is something that should happen spontaneously (not something artificial and fabricated) and slowly! You go to the gym, or to a theater company, or to dance class or whatever, and you meet people, then you talk to them, then you feel fine with those people, then you start to feel connected to those people; that's the way you'll find friendships! That ready-to-serve mindset is what boicot any possibility of changing things! Other thing is the idea that friends are people we have a lot in common with: not necessarily! Of course you have to find some connectivity but what makes you different from other people/ other people different from you is what enriches realtionships the most! What's the point of having friends that are our own echo?! Besides that it would reenforce the idea that difference is bad or something to be afraid of!

No one wants to see the elephant in the room in the USA. If you have a system driven by productivity only, loneliness is a by product of this. There is no other way around this. Individualism is fine and it’s not the reason. It’s not like the people of Spain lack on this; after all a land of great artists of all kind just to put an example. It’s the relentless focus on projecting this individualism towards a materialistic result what is causing this loneliness epidemic. In other words, in America, you are an “individual” if you are engaged in some sort of activity that maximises wealth. However, you can exert your individuality doing absolutely nothing or having a cup of coffee on your own. The etymology of the word leisure is “to be allowed” (from the latin licere which I guess it’s the same root of the French “laissez” that neoliberals took for their perfidious laissez faire, anyway I digress) which brings me to the fact that there is nothing more representative of true freedom than to be allowed to do nothing, or nothing productive at least. To end this epidemic of loneliness in America, and perhaps counterintuitively, it’s not going to be enough the use of technology, apps, top down approaches and whatnot. America needs to truly “allow” their citizens to have quality leisure time, meaning unproductive time. The culture that will eventually emerge from that is one that is less lonely, more communal, and more connected. Without necessarily vanish the glorified individuality. For the simple reason that there are many ways to have fun during idle time but chief among them is with likeminded people. Some call them friends.

I'm from Australia. It's very much like US. I moved to Valencia in 2006 and it was the best year of my life. At the time there not many IT companies there and as software engineer I had to move to France. Now after 18 year of living in France I am moving to Andorra. Life in Europe is incomparable to the anglo capitalist culture. I'd never live in any English speaking country ever again.

I am from Spain and i am lonely AF

The more I know about spain , the more it feels like indian culture ( especially rich class). Which I actually liked!

I think loneliness is a state of mind. If there are 8 billion people on the planet there is no logical reason to be lonely. You don't have to travel to another country to not be lonely, you can step outside and talk to your Lyft driver too. Just because the SG said it does not make it true. They want you to feel lonely. If you want friends be friendly, it's really that simple. ❤

Its because for the most part we are not stacked on each other like sardines. Im not lonely. Goddamn give me a moment alone.

I agree

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 this video.....😘😘😘😘😘😘

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Thanks 🤗

Now l understand why you really left lonely place like america, what l don't understand why you are getting prettier and prettier on each new vlog you are doing.😊

Less lonely through technology? I would argue for the contrary. Turn off all those gadgets and electronics unless you need them to make appointments right then and there. No more couch potato, letting the TV fill your brain with white noise. Get off the social media addiction and go outside. Look up from your phone and talk to the people around you. Even if you don't actually talk, if you are present you will feel yourself among people. Might help if you live in a walkable neighbourhood. If you are in solitary confinement in a metal box on wheels for hours each day that doesn't help either. As for the US: it will need a massive shift in culture: it was a conscious effort to push individualism onto people to make each one stand alone and for himself. Disconnected people won't form unions or make other kinds of trouble and are far easier manipulated. Suburbia introduced social distancing long before the virus made that appearance.

Bonito vídeo guapetona 🤗🤗😙😉🥇

I agree with her, the us and canada not far behind, are the worst place overall for your mental health, people in haiti are way happier

Im born and raised in Australia and I'm lonely. I also have an EU passport, should I move to Spain? Is there more community there? are people more open and friendly?

Hey you Antoanetta, I apologise for procastrinating responding upon your interesting nd lovely Posts. So here I am 😉. EU🇪🇺 has been influenced lately by the US in trending topics nd so on nd EU🇪🇺 absorbed as if all is for granted. Lots of positive things nd that's great if it's for the better but overtime we learned that this so called societal progress came with consequence nd an underlying silent killer ( as we see with diseases) . It's a bit comparable with the introduction of the EU🇪🇺 moneyflow now years ago what the government claimed we all would benefit from it, nd look what happened..this societal progress divided people. Those who benefit separate themselves from the group of people that financially are less lucky. Nd that's where loneliness begins.. Societal progress is a necessary thing nd we all need it nd have the right upon. All depends on how local nd country governments put efforts in maximizing togetherness. Here in BE🇧🇪 it's a general result that inhabitants of cities feel the most lonely, that's where population are most dense. So that's an overall concern. I live at the northern part of province Antwerp where economics flourish but social life is poorly. Each nd every one Lives on their own island trying to avoid social contact. Thus this far it has come..if we had known this like 12 yrs ago we'd never moved in here. It makes a miserable Life let alone getting in touch upon social level. Nd the US are doing even worse.. it's a bad tendence. It's one of the reasons why we decided to move to Valencia in a timespan of 2,5 yrs from now. We find inclusion in society mostly important nd no one is left behind. Antoanetta you spread the message so clear nd with concern ; maybe we can help each other cause it's of Life importance. Thanks for all your efforts nd info , nd I'm interested in meeting when we come over nd if you feel like it 😉. Sweet greetz from Karin Marlee BE🇧🇪 😉

Canadians are very isolated too

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I’m not sure this is just happening in the US, other parts of the world are more developed, more affluent, people chasing money and same effect is happening....equally it’s probably a lot less lonely in a small town America than in London or Paris or even Madrid

Creo que no es solo Estados Unidos, creo que tiene que ver con la cultura, la gente hispana o latina es mas abierta mas sociable, la cultura anglosajona o germanica es mas fría. Da igual si viajan a españa de Estados Unidos, Alemania, Finlandia... A todos lo que mas le sorprende es la cultura de disfrutar con amigos y vivir la vida mas despreocupado.

Es la libertad, Antoanetta. Es la libertad absoluta que se pretende en USA, falsa libertad por supuesto. Es soledad.

Deberíais explorar primero vuestro propio país. Vivís en ambientes tóxicos y América es muy grande, llena de buena gente por conocer. La endofobia que destila el vídeo es muy repulsiva, me recuerda a la que se paractica en mi país. España es muy variada y mucho menos elegante, distinguida o divertida que como os lo pinta este vídeo. Vuestra soledad será aún mayor en el extranjero. La mayoría de vosotros ni siquiera es capaz de leer estas líneas, no entendereis la mayoría de ambientes con los que interactuareis. España es muy diferente fuera del ambiente turístico, laboralmente, paisajisticamente, el clima infernal del verano, el ruido omnipresente, los núcleos cerrados de familia, amigos en donde apenas tendreis cosas en común, el infierno fiscal si montais un negocio, etc.. Es muy fácil si ya hay un núcleo de americanos apoyándose entre sí y viajas a este lugar, pero funcionaría lo mismo en cualquier otra parte que logre reunir gentes con intereses comunes, el sitio será solo un decorado. Nosotros, los españoles, también crecemos en un ambiente con edificios bonitos y gran variedad de restaurantes y demás instalaciones turísticas y no nos parece estar en un paraiso. El Paraiso os va a durar unos pocos meses, salvo que tengais dinero, tengais facilidad para conocer gente, querais fiesta continua y cambieis frecuentemente de lugar. Pero esto no es lo que se os vende aquí.

I thought you was from Colombia 🇨🇴

In Spain if you want to move house, friends help.

I was born and raised in NY and I never, ever felt lonely. Don't get what she's talking about concerning the US.

@slidejones6033

9 ай бұрын

Your situation is not the same as most people. There has been surveys about this topic of loneliness every year and people have stated that they spend most of their time alone.

It is possible to move to another country without badmouthing America. Just because it didn't work for you doesn't mean it's the same for everyone. It is not the place. It is about you. You take yourself with you anywhere you go. There's no perfect country, and America is not just California or New York.

@user-cb9ke4xs3y

4 ай бұрын

If she was miserable in the U.S. ; she will be miserable in the sticks. You are responsible for your own happiness.

I'm just working on my passport so i can get the hell out of here.

If you are friendly, get involved in the community, volunteer, you make friends anywhere in the world! Stay away from big cities! If you couldn't make genuine friends it's your fault!

@McFraneth

10 ай бұрын

Lol, what a judgemental comment. Big cities are fabulous. And genuine friends are harder and harder to make as you get older. That's just life. And even more so in a country like Spain, where women are devoted to their children and husband.

@darjeeling9116

10 ай бұрын

@McFraneth the reason why it's easier for her to make connections in Spain is because people speak her native language! she's at home! Always easier to make friends in your native country!

Im not far behind you lol (leaving the US)

Valencia, no seria la soluciòn para la soledad, podria una persona acarrearla de lugar a lugar… Valencia may not offer a solution for loneliness, some people will be acompanied by it regardless of where they may be… However, money or the pursuit of wealth in today’s world is a sickness for the lonely or otherwise.

Valencia Barbie

Why did you move to USA in the first place? Were you just a bit shallow and seen too many American TV-shows? I never understood this obsession so many people have with USA. I never been there and most probably won't go there either. Proud European.

@timschmitt7550

10 ай бұрын

it is the land of opportunities. Why do the best scientists, entrepreneurs etc from China, India and elsewhere usually want to move to the USA instead of Europe?

@borisnegrarosa9113

10 ай бұрын

@@timschmitt7550 Let them go. Who cares.

You're Bulgarian, I thought you were Italian.

In Spain people expect to be looked after in old age by their children. It's just normal.

@mirandamar

10 ай бұрын

Soy española y eso no es así . Eso pasa en Latinoamérica, no la confundas con España . No tenemos nada que ver . Aquí nadie impone a sus hijos eso.

A lot of Americans are totally miserable in the U.S. (to look patroitic, will never tell anyone that) but being so afraid of other countries, thanks to ruling class installed world leaders/politicians that promote fear and hate, and the TV blowing up the small amounts of bad in the world into a big monster, most have no interest in traveling abroad to learn the truth about other countries, so remain in their comfort zone until they die bored and miserable. When they could have had a much better life abroad. And no, everyone does not want to move to the U.S., to live like Americans, in the land of illusions!

@Timanthereallifeman

9 ай бұрын

Lol 😂 I have to 100% agree. I need to leave America 2025…

@wanderingwarrior5626

9 ай бұрын

@@Timanthereallifeman You may not have that kind of time. Corporate think tank says they'll have population down to 125 million by then.

I am friends with homeless people in London too hahahhaa

But the americans they like it the churchs, the big capels.

If I were you I will move to ASEAN Countries, they are cheaper in Asean comparing to European countries you will live longer term if you live here.

@bigmike208McDizzle

10 ай бұрын

😂

America is work home, work home and loneliest.

No community here!

@ANTOANETTA

10 ай бұрын

Where?

@courtcomposer

10 ай бұрын

@@ANTOANETTA MA, USA. My wife and I have been to all but 2 regions of Spain. Our first tongue is Spanish. We love being there. Is a bit depressing coming back. All is well in MA. We love our house, our jobs and we are doing well, but we feel so isolated here. We are originally from Puerto Rico. We feel we do not belong here. We were in Valencia 2 years ago. We really liked the feel of the city and its people. Thanks for your videos. I really like your show.

You are a cute "Shrink".

@Cozzera

10 ай бұрын

Love you too!