Jill sounds very self-focused. Which is fine, whatever, not a fatal flaw by any means, but I think that type of personality can be needlessly distressing upon others who are more prone to placating/or are hyper vigilant of others’ emotional temperament. And tbh it’s very unprofessional for her to inform you of her injury yet not accept a reschedule when she’s unable to offer her usual quality of service. Which makes sense, having a broken finger.

@alissabeingme

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This is a great summary and quite validating, thank you. I had a post-live rumination attack about the accuracy of everything I said that included Jill's broken finger maybe not actually being broken because I never found out exactly the actual injury because she had not yet received medical attention but it was in a splint and she was worried about the nerve damage BUT THAT'S BESIDES THE POINT... It was f-ed up in someway whether literally broken or not LOLL I can't catch a break (pun kind of intended🤭)

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woke up this morning, **cue anxiety and anxious thoughts** "Omg did I lie about the comment about the broken finger? Did Jill really have a splint? Cause if she had the splint then would that mean she HAD seen a doctor? I am not sure now. Or I guess she maybe just got a splint herself. I can't remember exactly what it looked like, was it a splint, or something else? Did she actually cut my hair with a splint? **googles images of finger splints** k I don't think she had a splint... those are pretty bulky and can't be what it was. But in my memory I see like a smaller version of something, maybe a makeshift splint? Did I lie? Did she not have a splint? I wish I could remember... Does it look like I lied because I said she had a splint but that she hadn't received medical attention and the splint had to come from somewhere medical?" **cue guilt and shame** ^TELL ME YOU'RE NEUROTIC WITHOUT TELLING ME YOU'RE NEUROTIC