I Found another lady when I visited him in Kisumu - What happened next changed me

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya4 жыл бұрын

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  • @ladyfree3492
    @ladyfree34924 жыл бұрын

    I see a lot of self love in mama Lilian bless you woman of God

  • @dorothygitonga1112
    @dorothygitonga11123 жыл бұрын

    Mama lilian, we resemble. I am doing BA in theology. Loneliness is there but trust in God.

  • @jemimahwacuka13
    @jemimahwacuka133 жыл бұрын

    Taminah brings us men who have gone through marital problems and have come out conqueres. Think men also need to be encouraged.

  • @amoskipkorir824

    @amoskipkorir824

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think father to Ruth Matete is the best person.

  • @iamanele

    @iamanele

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jemimah Wacuka, men do deserve a platform. I agree with you

  • @sesethuntaphane3933

    @sesethuntaphane3933

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree with this, I think even woman need to be reassured that there are still good man out there who also go through a lot with woman. And what you are saying will help.

  • @kadzo6614
    @kadzo66144 жыл бұрын

    Not necessarily. Was heartbroken between 28 to 30 years. Never dated again, I'm 39 now.

  • @kadzo6614

    @kadzo6614

    4 жыл бұрын

    No kids either

  • @fungaimabuda3377

    @fungaimabuda3377

    4 жыл бұрын

    I fully understand you coz I've walked that path before

  • @dairyscorpio6494

    @dairyscorpio6494

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't torture yourself Khadija, you can find true love.

  • @teemaro5703

    @teemaro5703

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hugs ❤️

  • @wecalm5258
    @wecalm52584 жыл бұрын

    This lady is so hurt that she decided to not allow any man in her life ....this makes me to fear future relationships😭 coz rate of succesful marriages iko 0%

  • @user-hx5lf7et9t

    @user-hx5lf7et9t

    4 жыл бұрын

    Marriages are good and enjoyable, they require honesty,and Gods fear.

  • @nicholaske8243

    @nicholaske8243

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just because break ups are mostly aired it doesn't mean that there are no successful marriages out there. The only solution is to trust in the Lords

  • @ceciliakaari782

    @ceciliakaari782

    4 жыл бұрын

    There are very many successful marriages.

  • @FamousBerry139

    @FamousBerry139

    4 жыл бұрын

    Out of 100 marrige only 10% is successful marriage the rest ni mateso

  • @violeteli31

    @violeteli31

    4 жыл бұрын

    You don’t have to fear. The only mistake that lady did is she left her matrimonial home but never left the marriage.You can always move on.

  • @violeteli31
    @violeteli314 жыл бұрын

    I agree with you girl women find t it hard to move on. If someone doesn’t love you someone else will.

  • @selinaingado2669

    @selinaingado2669

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏

  • @emmanueljuma5492
    @emmanueljuma54924 жыл бұрын

    Most Luhya women are very hard working and faithful. I saw that from my mum and others.

  • @naliacscliver9849

    @naliacscliver9849

    3 жыл бұрын

    True ...I usually see it the way my mum does.,she is a luhya too and a faithful woman

  • @emmanueljuma5492

    @emmanueljuma5492

    3 жыл бұрын

    @T C well, I'm speaking from my own personal experience, having lived among them. You can speak from your experience too.

  • @emmanueljuma5492

    @emmanueljuma5492

    3 жыл бұрын

    @T C based on your comments, I can sense you're a lady. We Luhya men usually allow women to win arguments. Happy now? Drop a phone number in my inbox we eat some goat.

  • @shamaglory8934

    @shamaglory8934

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes we are strong 💪💪

  • @selinaingado2669

    @selinaingado2669

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @childofthemighty1341
    @childofthemighty13414 жыл бұрын

    Bless her soul. My mum remained alone after divorce. This is over 35yrs now

  • @wanjirukarago9308

    @wanjirukarago9308

    3 жыл бұрын

    My mum remained alone too after dad died 19 yrs ago.

  • @dorcuskencey6816

    @dorcuskencey6816

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same,they divorced when I was 3 months now I'm almost 34 years

  • @fridaokeyo406
    @fridaokeyo4063 жыл бұрын

    I'm very much supported, actually I was wondering why I became so much lonely and in need of a partner after 13 yes of being a widow.

  • @pioneerpio
    @pioneerpio3 жыл бұрын

    Hallelujah Thank God she survived that bloody fight mmh!! Get yourself together move on and Better yourself. Thank God for her new Life in Christ... God Bless her 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @zassyhushy4640
    @zassyhushy46404 жыл бұрын

    True mama. Not a poor man. You dont have to suffer at your age. You sffered enough in the past

  • @eunicelyawe7564

    @eunicelyawe7564

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @lydiaheelu2681
    @lydiaheelu26813 жыл бұрын

    The way she lit up and became happy when started talking about her salvation and ordination. There’s nothing like Knowing the Lord and being known by Him. All the very best sister Lillian. Keep on blessing the Body of Christ. You’re called for such a time as this.

  • @callmedetergent1852
    @callmedetergent18523 жыл бұрын

    Mama Lillian hv swept my stress away. I cnt imagine hw was her look in her teenager😆😆🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🚶‍♀️🚶‍♂️

  • @roxysunshine6418
    @roxysunshine64183 жыл бұрын

    Not a poor man says Lillian...good one👏🏼👏🏼

  • @beckyr2805
    @beckyr28054 жыл бұрын

    i have loved Emma's submission 😍😍you can't use your experience on others i haven't been lucky in love but i know love is beautiful

  • @patangula7643
    @patangula76434 жыл бұрын

    Not a poor man 😂😂😂you got me there

  • @selinaingado2669

    @selinaingado2669

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂🤣

  • @jotaya
    @jotaya4 жыл бұрын

    Honesty is spiritual power! Lilian is so honest!!

  • @DiamondQuality1

    @DiamondQuality1

    4 жыл бұрын

    She is so endearing.

  • @pioneerpio
    @pioneerpio3 жыл бұрын

    Each Child is entitled to Basics 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Difficult unsupportive fathers should be reported to Children’s court...

  • @ritah.4156

    @ritah.4156

    3 жыл бұрын

    What if u report him but too poor to raise the child support?

  • @pioneerpio

    @pioneerpio

    3 жыл бұрын

    Divine Mercy Is he making effort... is he showing concern? Is he active in his child/children’s lives...? Ama he has abandoned and absent!

  • @keruboebby4526
    @keruboebby45263 жыл бұрын

    Pastor mama Lilian be blessed you choose the correct path.no more hurts again

  • @edward6633
    @edward66333 жыл бұрын

    I am loving this show and so much I am learning about African culture and what women go through which is not easy. Women will Make a huge difference and they will bring good transformation. All up for it.

  • @roseganira5892

    @roseganira5892

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes we go through alot alot am one of the victim since 2008 i separated with the dad of my kids .He brought the lady in our house when i was just burying my dad .it was not easy am still single my girls are big am now in dubai working i don't trust men

  • @wanjirukarago9308
    @wanjirukarago93083 жыл бұрын

    Wow she got married before i was even born 🤔 ...wow!! a year before rather....women go through alot in the name of marriage/ love.

  • @winnienabirye5929

    @winnienabirye5929

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true, women go thru alot in the name of marriage,I wish God cud always try to show us who these men we are marrying are before we actually do get married to them

  • @timinahbukachi3789
    @timinahbukachi37893 жыл бұрын

    Lillian that was God calling you. May you continue with Your God and He will ashame your enemies by blessing you.

  • @shamaglory8934
    @shamaglory89343 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much lawyer by answering the question about divorce, have been looking for this for a long tym.

  • @mimsbaibe6mimsgul737
    @mimsbaibe6mimsgul7373 жыл бұрын

    WaAah kweli this things started long tym av passed through alot am also a victim.what God can do nobody can do God is great.

  • @patriciaschmidt2618
    @patriciaschmidt26182 жыл бұрын

    Bravo mama lilian we luv yu🙏🤩🥰blessings from p.mwikali Schmidt Germany

  • @peninnahkuria7204
    @peninnahkuria72043 жыл бұрын

    Pastor Lilian my pastor all the way a strong women

  • @cs-mt5ue
    @cs-mt5ue3 жыл бұрын

    She looks very young n beautiful for her age😍

  • @EmilySmithUK1
    @EmilySmithUK14 жыл бұрын

    This lady could have looked younger if she had love

  • @callmedetergent1852

    @callmedetergent1852

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly bby. U took my comment 🤣🤣🤣

  • @blessinggakii9708

    @blessinggakii9708

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not true.she looks younger coz hana mtu wa kumpea stress

  • @marionciano8519
    @marionciano85193 жыл бұрын

    Amen hallelujah 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽what a testimony

  • @favouredjoy394
    @favouredjoy3944 жыл бұрын

    I love you Lilian so honest...

  • @lucybaraza7583

    @lucybaraza7583

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's my pastor I support you fully not a poor man😂

  • @perised7732
    @perised77323 жыл бұрын

    You have encourage me Madam thank you so much ❤

  • @RhodaK.
    @RhodaK.3 жыл бұрын

    Super proud of this strong beautiful woman Lillian, she's what self respect and dignity looks like, i pray God gives you a great man who will respect you.

  • @aliceanyango770
    @aliceanyango7704 жыл бұрын

    This Lilian Amissi is very funny,, infact she has made my nyt,, be strong Lilian coz no situation is permanent thanks Tamima for airing this & to God be the Glory

  • @forgivepraisebetogod8196
    @forgivepraisebetogod81964 жыл бұрын

    Bunyore girls best sch in Kenya

  • @egospeltz9486
    @egospeltz94863 жыл бұрын

    May God bless you.😘😍

  • @esmeleighkemuma5914
    @esmeleighkemuma59144 жыл бұрын

    Great lesson to learn

  • @veronicagros9419
    @veronicagros94193 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes it reaches a point that as a woman you don't trust any man for what someone has gone through. Nobody feels good to be alone/single but according to the experience a lady has gone through makes the desire to love dead.

  • @callmedetergent1852

    @callmedetergent1852

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love dead..aa..ur right 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🚶‍♀️🚶‍♂️

  • @joanmacsabwa6996
    @joanmacsabwa69964 жыл бұрын

    I love pastor lilian amisi

  • @traceynambisia4460
    @traceynambisia44603 жыл бұрын

    the epitome of self-respect

  • @faithkungu2226
    @faithkungu22263 жыл бұрын

    Lilian you are a strong lady

  • @nancyn175
    @nancyn1754 жыл бұрын

    Ask for children maintainance

  • @forgivepraisebetogod8196
    @forgivepraisebetogod81964 жыл бұрын

    Strong mama Lilian

  • @pamelashikhule9443
    @pamelashikhule94433 жыл бұрын

    She's very right and honest and it really happens

  • @teresiahkiarie8440
    @teresiahkiarie84403 жыл бұрын

    Strong woman 💪

  • @julietconstantine4143
    @julietconstantine41433 жыл бұрын

    Great show.

  • @veronicanyangweso936
    @veronicanyangweso9364 жыл бұрын

    yeees not a poor man

  • @marymuturi436
    @marymuturi4364 жыл бұрын

    Our children court is the most corrupt. Ave tried to get maintenance since 2011 n nothing worked up till now.

  • @carolinetalam5832
    @carolinetalam58324 жыл бұрын

    I am a single mother of 4kids and i always feel that am old and i don't need a man, now i have changed my mind after listening to Lilian,

  • @violeteli31

    @violeteli31

    4 жыл бұрын

    Caroline Talam Go for it girl. You will get the man of your life.

  • @carolinetalam5832

    @carolinetalam5832

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@violeteli31 thank you

  • @bigben3462

    @bigben3462

    4 жыл бұрын

    What's the meaning of being single if you have kids please?..i thought a single woman or man shouldn't have kids 🤔..just asking please

  • @doreenkanje9839

    @doreenkanje9839

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@bigben3462 🤔😃😃😃😃😃😃

  • @irenekerubo9791
    @irenekerubo97912 жыл бұрын

    From doha Qatar iwish u all the best

  • @graciew1780
    @graciew17804 жыл бұрын

    You need to know that a true christian is very comfortable without sex, secondly sex outside marriage is sin . Unless one does not fear God. Sex is but a benefit of marriage so not a big issue.

  • @ceciliakaari782

    @ceciliakaari782

    4 жыл бұрын

    Psychologically, it's a basic need.

  • @kazungukakiyo8560

    @kazungukakiyo8560

    3 жыл бұрын

    Laana zita washukia wenye kukata Amuri ya Mungu na Mttume wao. Someni bibilia ;mulielewe na mulifate.(Mila ya Adam na Ibrahim ndio sahihi)niwapi bibilia ina sema muke asiolewe na mume asioe.

  • @agathamunyaka5868

    @agathamunyaka5868

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cecilia kaari NO NO No ... show me anyone who died cos of lack of it

  • @ceciliakaari782

    @ceciliakaari782

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@agathamunyaka5868 I never mentioned death anywhere, but what I know is that people will always pretend that they don't do it when it's not the case. As I stated earlier, going back to the psychological bit of it, it is a basic need. Why did even Paul in the Bible advise people to marry if at all they couldn't contain themselves? I know it's sacred, but living in denial and pretext is what I dispute.

  • @kazungukakiyo8560

    @kazungukakiyo8560

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Belinda Anyango ::Belinda plz if you're not married; I need 2rd wife.

  • @christinaasewe3381
    @christinaasewe33813 жыл бұрын

    I love her honesty

  • @tisupa
    @tisupa3 жыл бұрын

    Emma , I concur

  • @faithalivizaluyayi5470
    @faithalivizaluyayi54704 жыл бұрын

    But not a poor man. Mama

  • @currenttrendtv8920
    @currenttrendtv89203 жыл бұрын

    And not a poor man😂😂😂. Lord give Lilian a good husband so she can grow old with

  • @jacklineomusula3316
    @jacklineomusula33163 жыл бұрын

    But luhya men will want to Mary you to take care of his children

  • @dorisk3863
    @dorisk38634 жыл бұрын

    The children courts are unbelievably corrupt.. I have had to deal with my family burden due to my parents separation, where my dad chose to elope with another woman and it was all too hard taking care of siblings and a house mum who found no help from my able dad even after being in and out of childrens court until giving up.

  • @hannahngeru9691
    @hannahngeru96914 жыл бұрын

    Relationships are scam.🙆

  • @missw.4882

    @missw.4882

    4 жыл бұрын

    100%

  • @fungaimabuda3377

    @fungaimabuda3377

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kkkk

  • @kadzo6614

    @kadzo6614

    4 жыл бұрын

    I second

  • @marogoliinthehse.5175

    @marogoliinthehse.5175

    3 жыл бұрын

    100% true.

  • @bettynduati7106

    @bettynduati7106

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahaaa😂 😂+ marriages

  • @alexandrinadomaino9868
    @alexandrinadomaino98683 жыл бұрын

    So sorry dear

  • @irenekerubo9791
    @irenekerubo97912 жыл бұрын

    Good job mum

  • @faithkungu2226
    @faithkungu22263 жыл бұрын

    🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆😭😭😭😭😭😭😭the things women go thru

  • @kungukira5868
    @kungukira58682 жыл бұрын

    Can I connect to to my uncle who is a retired prison officer

  • @lynetohola6052
    @lynetohola60524 жыл бұрын

    good job

  • @angelalaizer3895
    @angelalaizer38954 жыл бұрын

    Big up mummy

  • @angelpendo4994
    @angelpendo49943 жыл бұрын

    Today I want to advise my parents to separate. I don't know if it's the right decision but I think it's for the better

  • @teemaro5703

    @teemaro5703

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mothers usually don't take our advice.

  • @sesethuntaphane3933

    @sesethuntaphane3933

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@teemaro5703 I thought this was my mother's problem only. God but why are our parents like this

  • @sesethuntaphane3933

    @sesethuntaphane3933

    3 жыл бұрын

    Let's hope it will work, give it a try because this is also about mental health

  • @immaculatedocnato2054
    @immaculatedocnato20543 жыл бұрын

    Romans 8:28. All things work together for good. God doesn't waste pain

  • @irenekerubo9791
    @irenekerubo97912 жыл бұрын

    Wanawake upitia mengi pole tujikaze

  • @ebbymbao1736
    @ebbymbao17364 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣it,s better to say the truth,,,not poor

  • @towettcheptoo3047
    @towettcheptoo30474 жыл бұрын

    We must be loved yawa

  • @violeteli31
    @violeteli314 жыл бұрын

    I Like your story but find love. Children are grown.

  • @sallysarch9441

    @sallysarch9441

    3 жыл бұрын

    She doesn’t have to. She a strong woman

  • @irenekerubo9791
    @irenekerubo97912 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @zainabaminah4176
    @zainabaminah41763 жыл бұрын

    Mbona camera man amefocus kwa dem mweupe

  • @irenekerubo9791
    @irenekerubo97912 жыл бұрын

    Sorry mom

  • @ireneatieno84
    @ireneatieno843 жыл бұрын

    Mrs. Were's product.

  • @wanyamanoel682
    @wanyamanoel6822 жыл бұрын

    Life's not easy

  • @bilhawilliam7599
    @bilhawilliam75993 жыл бұрын

    Wapi likes za single mom please

  • @kimkim8808
    @kimkim88084 жыл бұрын

    Not a poor man🤣🤣🤣wanawake na pesa

  • @estheralbrechtsen8999

    @estheralbrechtsen8999

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pastor of nowdays. Lakini she made me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lydiahadamsigichanga2818

    @lydiahadamsigichanga2818

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true not a poor man,she had suffered she need somebody to just give her peace coz she hustled alot alone.

  • @mrsrosemanmamaagnes2561
    @mrsrosemanmamaagnes25614 жыл бұрын

    I love Lillian 😁😁😂 I have stayed by myself for 15 years too ...for sure I got a boy and again . .but for sure am feeling secure because still I have my kids . ...waaa let me prepare myself for that loneliness lmao

  • @kadzo6614

    @kadzo6614

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have stayed alone for over 10years. I have no kids. And I am 39yrs

  • @sylviemorgan9770

    @sylviemorgan9770

    3 жыл бұрын

    Khadija Kenya am 49 this year,no kids and isn’t in a relationship and I have no problem with that at all

  • @kareembashir4064
    @kareembashir40644 жыл бұрын

    Atwoli is rich and up for grabs ooh

  • @collinsoloo6682
    @collinsoloo66824 жыл бұрын

    What are you teaching these young people...surely....Work hard in your marriages nothing is easy ....

  • @mwongeramunge1609

    @mwongeramunge1609

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea tell them

  • @ceciliakaari782

    @ceciliakaari782

    3 жыл бұрын

    Collins Oloo don't mind them. I believe most of the women watching this are above 18 years and they can make their own decisions. Sometimes most women are misled. Just because one woman's marriage never worked it doesn't mean another one's won't. Some of us are still young, but I know people who have been in marriage for over 35 years. A case study, my parents.

  • @gracebaksh5454

    @gracebaksh5454

    3 жыл бұрын

    You did not walk in her shoes. Until then you can talk. Adultery breaks the heart of both man and woman. Trust is gone.

  • @paulinekamau7618

    @paulinekamau7618

    2 жыл бұрын

    You can't force / safe arelationship/ marriage to stand if one isn't willing 2Love AGAIN

  • @sheeba8334
    @sheeba83344 жыл бұрын

    Tamima is pregnant

  • @pamelakarimi3605

    @pamelakarimi3605

    4 жыл бұрын

    🙈😂😂😂😂

  • @agathamunyaka5868

    @agathamunyaka5868

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sooooi

  • @britneymwende5430
    @britneymwende54303 жыл бұрын

    Madam counsellor it's not sex that makes one whole! Sex is not just sex. Learn that

  • @veraaddoyobo8482
    @veraaddoyobo84823 жыл бұрын

    Are your culture allowed men to marry more than one wife, please educate, it's a question

  • @viviangathecha9745

    @viviangathecha9745

    3 жыл бұрын

    In most traditional societies it's quite normal as long as both parties agree and you are able to take care of them but today it must be based on consent (though the norm of polygamy is decreasing) otherwise it's cheating

  • @veraaddoyobo8482

    @veraaddoyobo8482

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@viviangathecha9745 thank you,

  • @ashleyhartford6048
    @ashleyhartford60484 жыл бұрын

    What happened to coronavirus? y'all are sitting close with no mask

  • @alwaysonline6835

    @alwaysonline6835

    4 жыл бұрын

    These are recorded before corona virus,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @millionbill7587

    @millionbill7587

    4 жыл бұрын

    This was recorded before the pandemic

  • @maryjones3523

    @maryjones3523

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe they checked the temp, before sitting there butts down, hopefully☺

  • @carolinetalam5832

    @carolinetalam5832

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ni show ya last year

  • @ashleyhartford6048

    @ashleyhartford6048

    4 жыл бұрын

    @I c no I'm American & love African culture😍😍😍 since we don't have beautiful culture like Africana 👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @forgivepraisebetogod8196
    @forgivepraisebetogod81964 жыл бұрын

    Inspirational story.

  • @samuelnyanjui8326
    @samuelnyanjui83264 жыл бұрын

    She look a young because of her make up

  • @julianwangari4779

    @julianwangari4779

    3 жыл бұрын

    Even without make up she's still young.she has maintained herself

  • @cs-mt5ue

    @cs-mt5ue

    3 жыл бұрын

    She looks very young n beautiful for her age

  • @calebmutugi7191
    @calebmutugi71913 жыл бұрын

    Man friend😂😂😂

  • @bigben3462
    @bigben34624 жыл бұрын

    I liked her until she behaved like Akothee..not a poor man, I hope it's not what she taught her kids

  • @cynthiagakere5895

    @cynthiagakere5895

    4 жыл бұрын

    Being poor is bad I support her 100%poverty is suffering

  • @lavenderflowers1075

    @lavenderflowers1075

    3 жыл бұрын

    She's right.

  • @zainabaminah4176

    @zainabaminah4176

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hahaaaa

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