I Asked My Mom 11 Intimate Questions Before It's Too Late
Kane from BuzzFeed try to ask his Chinese & Vietnamese mom intimate questions about love, how to be happy, and sacrifices of parenthood. This emotional interview might make you cry as she shares her wisdom, positive thinking, and real life story of immigration.
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Her English was not perfect but what she said was perfect
@geemolife9301
4 жыл бұрын
And THAT was the PERFECT comment ❤
@BowmanJaiVideos
4 жыл бұрын
gee rudolph and that was a perfect reply
@theawesome5687
4 жыл бұрын
@@BowmanJaiVideos and that was also a perfect reply❤️
@No-nk3ro
4 жыл бұрын
And these are perfect people ♥️
@alejandraalvarez1516
4 жыл бұрын
Everything she said was beautiful about catching love close not far away...I took that as look what's around and appreciate the little things bec that's what matters not materialistic things.
I love her logic on the phrase "make love"
@supremewarlord410
5 жыл бұрын
Kane is an adult now and still doesn't know how he was marked.
@onefreebird1
4 жыл бұрын
❤
@dsmith7684
4 жыл бұрын
adorable 😘
@EliseHanson216
4 жыл бұрын
I like it much better than the typical usage. I wish it was more universal!
@shanaburch2625
4 жыл бұрын
Supreme WarLord me too it’s beautiful real love 40 years
Kane: Why did you fall in love. Mom: Because we are neighbor ...best logic ever
@afm398
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
@oliviasutharsan3347
4 жыл бұрын
I can’t 😭😭😭
@fadillahputriseptysha4575
4 жыл бұрын
Life was so simple 😊
@mariamhasaa
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@FBI-ge6pt
4 жыл бұрын
Evelyn Nguyen 😂
“Before it’s too late” I’m not crying, you are. 😢😢
@sselemaNrM
4 жыл бұрын
that goo goo dolls song Hooold on, before its too late"
@emmagoike7035
4 жыл бұрын
No my eyes are sweating
@lostnumb
4 жыл бұрын
No, you. You cry-baby.
@quandarioustoddricioushorn9292
4 жыл бұрын
Well he means anything bad happens to her. She is proabably healthy but he is just saying that he wants to say before she gets Some deadly sickness or before she dies of old age. So the mom proabably dosent have a deadly sickness.
@emilyrodriguez9995
3 жыл бұрын
@@emmagoike7035 same😿
Buzzfeed, PLEASE make a series of Kane and his mother traveling together to China, Japan, and wherever else she wants to go. Just let the woman travel. And buy her some lottery tickets, too.
@MsSherryjh
5 жыл бұрын
Diva380 and Dad. This couple is so in love after all they have gone through. They deserve the rest and the excitement together.
@punkierockerbruster
5 жыл бұрын
Diva380 yas,
@rosec.f.martinez4249
5 жыл бұрын
Diva380 I agree
@marieseaman7855
5 жыл бұрын
BuzzFeed better pay for this woman to travel, I'd love to watch that. She definitely deserves it
@yhanjimenezmatias4135
5 жыл бұрын
The least they can do is buy her some plane tickets, since they have probably gotten so much money from the videos his mom has been in
His dad LITERALLY fell in love with the girl next door
@calandr4
5 жыл бұрын
nicole yes
@knmonlinemedia
5 жыл бұрын
That's how my parents met too 😭
@jorgenvonstrangle000
5 жыл бұрын
times were different
@marwaalmira7798
5 жыл бұрын
Same with my parents. They were actually neighbours in their hometown but they fell in love in the city when they were in college.
@aiaistandley
5 жыл бұрын
My aunts, uncles, and their friends, grandparents, friends, cousins, & neighbors.
"I see a flower bloom, I am happy"- beautiful.
"I make plant looks like turtle" You're the cutest mom ever
Courageous, never complaining, hard working, dignified, your mother is a treasure.
@vatershep
5 жыл бұрын
Yep 😃
@LIZZyNIqUZZ10
5 жыл бұрын
😭❤
@brh.1892
5 жыл бұрын
She put such a smile on my face in this video.
She said find joy in the little things. Dont have to look far for happiness, its all around you. Wow.
@rynfornow3411
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, people these days get triggered for the smallest of things..
@lukefoulds9729
5 жыл бұрын
That's a game changer for me, I've never thought of things like that
@karmellekouture17
5 жыл бұрын
Yea I felt that!
@judeiz2203
5 жыл бұрын
I have a lot to learn from your sweet Mom and I'm a Grandma myself. 😍
@keniamazili5952
5 жыл бұрын
That’s so wise!
how many people love their mom 👇
@sabahancover7566
4 жыл бұрын
*me* !!!
@martinbefartin
4 жыл бұрын
Why should I?
@angelstar2801
4 жыл бұрын
I do
@catherineanderson7460
4 жыл бұрын
Noirr I do...and she’s 88 years old!savoreach moment!
@Magnezium7
4 жыл бұрын
Likebait
"I like Christmas because we all make love together"😂 Omg she is so cuteee
"But mom, you need time for youself too." "I plant flowers for us to look at. Isnt tgat for myself?" This woman is blessing
@zeeb116
5 жыл бұрын
grayson Carter my eyes are sweating😣
@baileyspeltbeefy1768
5 жыл бұрын
I love her
@euniceyoon5378
5 жыл бұрын
she wants to hug the turtle thats the cutest thing ever
@snowyheart6146
5 жыл бұрын
original: "不過,媽要有time俾自己啫" google translate: "However, mom must have time to lick himself." original: "我種花俾我哋睇,唔係比自己呀?" google translate: "I plant flowers, I am more than my own?" 10/10 translation
"Why did you fall in love?" "Because we are _neighbors_ !"
@lightlylife3859
5 жыл бұрын
And they were roommates
@katherinel8970
5 жыл бұрын
Ok i guess i will fall in love with my neighbors LOL
@Carrera718
5 жыл бұрын
Katherine L same
@sadeema398
5 жыл бұрын
omg they were roommates
@emile8059
5 жыл бұрын
my parents were neighbors too lol
Shes so innocent omg. "Make love" 😭
@rhetthammond6254
4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t confuse her lack of English for innocence. She grew up in war in Vietnam, you don’t leave that with innocence. She is so experienced in tragedy in life that instead of complaining about how hard it was she looks for everything positive in life that’ll make herself smile.
@vaidehityagi1275
4 жыл бұрын
@@rhetthammond6254 by innocent here I meant 'not be informed' so like she does not know what make love means in 'that sense'. But I totally get you point
@rjdungca4044
2 жыл бұрын
That's so cute she said it straight forward.
My parents both passed away in a motorcycle accident when I was 12, but I am always happy when people actually cherish their parents when they've been blessed enough to still have them. I obviously can't ask my parents these questions, but seeing you ask them, and seeing your mom's responses is a kind thing to share with all of us. I may not have my own mom's answers, but I'll gladly accept and heed your mom's advice in her place. Thank you.
@applecrapple6768
4 жыл бұрын
Damn..sorry to hear about that
@ElaEla-uf4er
4 жыл бұрын
the_andi _Just think they are in better place . Always they will be in your heart. Watching this video is just making me to feel so positive and looking forward you must do the same . I am more than sure your parents with be always on your side . Help yourself and god will help you!
@jennyvega-lopez8585
4 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@peterpham8837
4 жыл бұрын
God will bless you🙏🙏 Stay strong, you only live once make the most of it.
@g.s.632
4 жыл бұрын
Bless you ❣️
Despite not being fluent in English, what the mother tries to share speaks to you in a deep emotional level. With very few words, she was able to say profound things.
@aprilleerose
5 жыл бұрын
JakeObnial absolutely
She said: "Don't chase things that are way out of reach. It makes you unhappy and frustrated. Focus on the things close to you. It's the simple things that make you happy." So much wisedom in those few words
@zarishiamaini997
5 жыл бұрын
Ruth Steiner I cried when I heard it!
My moms Vietnamese and I started crying hearing the similarities in our moms.
@haranchaa
4 жыл бұрын
hug
@avatarofsloth
3 жыл бұрын
@BobaFettTea Thefirst Why are you asking someone about their race if they’re sure lmao
When Kane started getting emotional, it was over, I'm sobbing
- don't waste time. - have a schedule. - just think positive. - meditate. - don't look back. - just go on and on.
@palomam.9302
5 жыл бұрын
Such valuable information.
@LI-cg1nr
5 жыл бұрын
@@lis7742 just don't stress about bc we are always told we have to maximize our productivity, achievement and live life to its fullest. But living it to its fullest does not necessarily mean the happiest version of your life. Still, the advice is valuable of course. Just don't feel bad for not following it perfectly
@sofiam.y.g546
5 жыл бұрын
You're awesome.
@Nielly
5 жыл бұрын
@@sofiam.y.g546 she's awesome! You're awesome. We're all awesome.
@anthonys3587
5 жыл бұрын
@@LI-cg1nr I like to think that when she says "Don't waste time," it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with productivity. Sometimes, we waste time by just harnessing negative energy instead of enjoying what's around us.
WHAT A SWEET LIL LADY
@prodObri
5 жыл бұрын
anna g smith
@BabyLowtion
5 жыл бұрын
anna g smith ikr
@patricianavarro947
5 жыл бұрын
Kinda rude to say
@yasminah7331
5 жыл бұрын
Patricia Navarro how?????
@nottheMEband
5 жыл бұрын
Vietnam
This was so touching, she is so passionate for life and it is so pure
Kane: why did u fall in love His mom and every other asian person: *because we neighbors*
@verper5220
3 жыл бұрын
People of asian culture..Like the safety net of knowing your spouse from the similar environment..Whether it's school friend, college friend, son/daughter of a friend..So we know the background or the behaviour of that person before jump into marriage..Off course, the simplest way is by matchmaking..😂
"Why did you fall in love?" "Because we were neighbors" Lmao she's adorable
@wompwompwompwomp9894
5 жыл бұрын
Lina ! 665 likes and no replies
@derkleinemik
5 жыл бұрын
Its not that strange... my mom and dad were neighbors back in vietnam too! Like next door neighbors.
@alexdelucia2300
5 жыл бұрын
I have decided to create a GoFundMe To Help Raise Money For Kane's Mom For Her Retirement And Trip www.gofundme.com/raise-money-for-kanes-mum-buzzfeed Any Donations Would Be greatly Appreciated.
@Nr.1Mimir
5 жыл бұрын
And they were roommates.
@jerricakral3029
5 жыл бұрын
Lina ! My husband of 12 years was my next door neighbor lol. Funny how that works. She's so sweet
This lady is one of the sweetest people ever! She was just talking about how happy the simple things were. She deserves the absolute best from life!
@russellfitzgerald2957
5 жыл бұрын
Paige N. ye
@minilee7492
5 жыл бұрын
Woah . . .I was the 3,000th person who likes this comment. She definitely deserves the best, that's for sure!!!
@Fogg_Casper
5 жыл бұрын
Little do you know many people feel this way it’s just we as people look over that fact.
@piggybechham4601
5 жыл бұрын
So true
@tf-ct2327
5 жыл бұрын
shes asian, asians are nice
"Too much, make worry" I love her words. She has so much elegance but more than anything she speaks Truth without hesitation!
"Don't think far away, far away, how can you catch?" What a lovely way of thinking. I plan to meditate and really absorb her wisdom. I agree that looking past what's right in front of you keeps you from seeing those small beautiful moments. Planning so far in the future creates anxiety and unhappiness. Not to say we should be reckless and financially irresponsible. Just that we should look at the beauty that's right in front of us. Cherish the smiles you pass on to others. Cherish the purest form of love from your children.
"When I see a flower bloom, I am happy" - what a sweet and wonderful woman she is. 🌹🏵🌸🌹🏵🌷⚘🌼🌻🌺🌱
@gracytoyschultz4416
5 жыл бұрын
That is the most innocent sentence I read today. Lol
@tippib2222
5 жыл бұрын
And what a terrific green thumb she has. Even if that tree didn't 100% look like a turtle, it looked darned healthy.
@GH-xb3op
5 жыл бұрын
Almost like the teachings of Thich Nhat Hanh. The flower holds my smile.
@TheMsLollidella
5 жыл бұрын
She sounds like my parents 😢 I always ask why they garden so much and they say " it's something beautiful. Dont we all like something beautiful? "
@Fleurig-xr5mm
5 жыл бұрын
@@justindonutboy1392 I don't think you know what bdsm means
Buzzfeed - pay for this mama to travel to China and film her experiences! A sweet woman who deserves to experience the happiness of traveling!
@hoseokthetrueultdom1291
5 жыл бұрын
yeahhh buzzfeed can't even give credits to the people who do their articles and/or videos and u want buzzfeed to pay kane's mom to travel
Your mom has such a pure beautiful soul. And the way she views life and describes it makes you realize we are lucky.🖤
She is so fulfilled with her life and sees the best in everything.
What she said about happiness was honestly kinda life changing.
@Girlfin
5 жыл бұрын
Yes. It was, wasn't it?
@evenamber
5 жыл бұрын
Max-Alma I agree, as someone who has trouble finding happiness, this video is very heartwarming
@syrgirl
5 жыл бұрын
exactly. happiness is right where you are.
@xmotomitchx4213
5 жыл бұрын
dude.. foreal
Buzzfeed please send this woman on a wonderful trip!!!! Please God, this woman deserves it! Or set her up a nice fund she can use to do things she loves... I will gladly donate what I can and I'm sure many others would as well!
@rebekkalykke9197
5 жыл бұрын
Meka Malice I completely agree, she has worked so hard most of her life, she just wanted to be happy and relax. I'd donate if they gave her a fund to travel or something that just makes her happy.
@kassandria3964
5 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing ❤️
@angverduzco6687
5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely she deserves it I'd happily donate
@teresac5763
5 жыл бұрын
Meka Malice yesss in every video we should write this
@Fate5MusicENT
5 жыл бұрын
lets do it!!
'let ur parents enjoy' 'take care of ur grandparents' all in cantonese. this hits close to home.
@exit_strategy
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, Nick, it does!
His parents only fight 3 times a year bruh my parents fight every day
@selenamae7063
4 жыл бұрын
😨😔😔😔
@averystressedteen1424
4 жыл бұрын
My parents look at each other and they're ready to fight...glad we don't live under the same roof.
@Thepinballwi7ard
3 жыл бұрын
Oof my parents literally fight Everytime they see each other
@em-ik6mg
3 жыл бұрын
Angelina fr
“I plant flowers for us to look at... when I see a flower bloom I am happy” Idk why that also works so beautifully as an analogy for how she got her children and raised them to be successful, nurtured them to bloom. *leaves room crying*
@MissBrownSugaDiva
5 жыл бұрын
Me too Sky!! So touching!
@candimccann
5 жыл бұрын
Don't leave the room, just watch through the tears like me.
@Sofia.kar7
5 жыл бұрын
i want to like but don't want to ruin the 444
@hellosky5939
5 жыл бұрын
Sofia hahaha so thoughtful 😭💜
PAY FOR HER VACATION BUZZFEED! Sorry to shout but OH MY GOD.
@PCkilluhh
5 жыл бұрын
Can we start a gofund me to send this beautiful woman to travel!!!
@Anna-ke1ip
5 жыл бұрын
Alex Cabral yessssssssss
@tippib2222
5 жыл бұрын
She deserves to go on vacation in style in comfort. No worries about money. Stylish comfy clothes. Every meal paid for. Kane's Dad, too, because they're still a couple of crazy kids in love.
@oneen75pure
5 жыл бұрын
Tippi B You think! Get her to china asap, stat, right freakin' now
"why did you fall in love?" "because we are neighbor" 😂😂❤
My parents were born in Cambodia and moved to France to flee the repression. I cried the whole video. I think our generation feels so blessed but also heavy hearted for our parents and what they had to endure to make our lives better. Without actually telling us how hard it was.
"Don't think far away, far away, how you catch? You catch close." Just woah... Truth by its finest.
@gemmamccauley8402
5 жыл бұрын
I know that bit got me too. 😢
@Firenze1921
5 жыл бұрын
That got me really bad, I'm in tears.
@vanessagomez2968
5 жыл бұрын
that made me cry
@Asdfgqedfglo
5 жыл бұрын
I didn’t understand that part. Brake it down for me please
If she wrote a book I would read it
I love that she says ‘express love’ or ‘spread love’ as “make love”
I don't care what anyone says. I will now refer to being in love as "making love".
I want Buzzfeed to do an video called "Kane + his parents go on a 10 day luxury cruise" cuz I feel like Mama Diep deserves a super nice vacation and also it would be adorable.
@spencemichaud2510
5 жыл бұрын
start a gofundme, I mean I would contribute
@poopoo6312
5 жыл бұрын
Buzzfeed make this happen
@OldSkool2007
5 жыл бұрын
I would contribute too, a gofund for some travel and retirement money! This lady 100% deserves it, and can you imagine her reaction?!
@rocimo124
5 жыл бұрын
Kara McVey Yesssss!!!!!!
@juan13salto
5 жыл бұрын
Yes please! Would totally donate!
"Why did you fall in love?" "Because we are neighbours" sure why not
@LG-pd2eg
5 жыл бұрын
I can't un-see your profile picture😂
@anniebe4992
5 жыл бұрын
I'd like my neighbour to fall in love with me too 🙊
@jaydavanessa9256
5 жыл бұрын
I want my best friends neighbor to fall in love with me 😭😭😂😂
@yarelisrojas1844
5 жыл бұрын
hope dean oh and they were roomatesssss
her cantonese voice sounds so much like my grandma's cantonese voice and it made my heart melt
@anhnhi294
4 жыл бұрын
faith_ she's viet
@ginesito5392
4 жыл бұрын
she is viet nam
@faifto6626
4 жыл бұрын
@@anhnhi294 ye ik
@zijian0625
4 жыл бұрын
@@faifto6626 She is Chinese and his grandparents moved to Vietnam for family then moved to US. So they are still Chinese Americans.
@Weeping-Angel
2 жыл бұрын
She’s Chinese but their family moved to Vietnam.
Viet Cantonese! My parents are the same! I understood everything (we're in France though) 😊
@HKLydia
4 жыл бұрын
Valérie Tran I speak Cantonese and I am surprised how much I could understand?? (With some Vietnamese words here and there too I guess?)
@mtran1593
4 жыл бұрын
Im Vietnamese and I dont understand anything except the English part 😂
@zijian0625
4 жыл бұрын
@@HKLydia so it is just cantonese with Vietnamese accent plus English. The mom in the video did not use any VIetnamese words.
@buianh1257
3 жыл бұрын
@@mtran1593 The Southerners Han migrated to South Vietnam in the 17th century to flee from the Manchus. She speaks Cantonese, I don't think you can understand any word she says. But she has a very clear South Vietnamese accent.
@lovemys3lf
3 жыл бұрын
@@buianh1257 I was so confused too..I feels like I heard a Vietnamese accent when she speaks English but it turns out it was Cantonese(Although I don't speak it but I used to watch HK drama)
When she said just seeing a flower bloom makes her happy, I just lost it. She makes me realize I take a lot of life for granted.
10:20 when she said "see" it got me chills it sounded so genuine and sincere,and it was the best word she said in English too(^^)she is so cute I admire how strong she was for her children they look like really good parents.
Your mom is soooo adorable. Please take good care of her
Your mom is too pure for words. Tell her that she is lovely, she is beautiful and we all wish her the best. Please have Buzzfeed sponsor a trip for your parents to go to China. It would be a dope video, like "parents get surprise dream trip come true!"
@myspacepepe
5 жыл бұрын
Eli mtz yes! their fanbase is so big, if they make this trip into a series itll be worth it for buzzfeed. everyone wins!
@JJ-yu6og
5 жыл бұрын
Eli mtz Aren't they from Vietnam? She is speaking Vietnamese. He also referenced the Vietnam War.
@MemClem
5 жыл бұрын
At 11:10 they talk about how she's Chinese and has never been to China. The family may be from Vietnam but they're ethnically Chinese
@jonathanxie2523
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah she's speaking Cantonese so her family is most likely from a Cantonese speaking part of China like the Guangdong region
@wendylim2429
5 жыл бұрын
They are speaking Cantonese which is originated from China - GuangDong. It’s currently the main language in Hong Kong
She changed my perspective of life. You can’t catch happy far away. You catch happy closer to you.
@Grimsded
5 жыл бұрын
Amen to that.
@kimspeller8358
5 жыл бұрын
So true.
@doreeb6314
5 жыл бұрын
Made me cry.
@7Bangtan4ever
5 жыл бұрын
💜
I loved it when she said "I made love to your father" thinking it meant fell in love
Wow, how moderate can a human being be? What a role model she is.
I remember telling my mum, "You remember that moment when your dad passed away and you could never tell him again how much you loved him? That's how much I love you."
@jasegerald1019
5 жыл бұрын
Apocalyps but, She didn't say I love you to her Fada....
This woman just changed my perspective on things.I'm constantly worrying and complaining about things like college and even silly things like wanting new trendy clothes but I realised life moves on, things will turn out to be just fine and the answer to happiness is simple and is within you.
@mralwaysbored
5 жыл бұрын
Being from an Vietnamese immigrant family, these stories really put life into perspective and I'm pretty grateful to have grown up hearing many of them. The little problems we have today are nothing compared to the problems our parents have faced in the past trying to escape war torn countries.. Makes me feel weak when I worry / complain about stuff as well. The stories of my parents are really what keeps me going. Can't give up after all they've gone through...
@yissachu
5 жыл бұрын
didnt your momma teach you that
“ don’t think far away, far away, how you catch?” MY HEART🥺
What I love is the son being so grateful,and so mature to realise how privileged he is,and the sacrifices the parents had to make. 💗
Kane's mom just basically said "Mo Money, Mo Problems."
immigrant parents are so strong, i love your mother, she's a magnificent woman and i wish her the best!
@yamaguchi6628
5 жыл бұрын
Schau Schau my dad is a immigrant from Mexico, I remember when I was little he got shot at. He has no communication with my older brothers or his parents. A few weeks ago he pulled over to help a woman stranded on the street and she got scared saying “don’t rob me, don’t hurt me or I will call the police” hard life being a immigrant
@lillyhorse6048
5 жыл бұрын
Apparently everybody in the Usa is an Immigrant lol
When they spoke in Cantonese, it made me so happy for some reason!
This made me really put my life into perspective, thank you
Your mom is an angel, she deserves wonderful things.
@supbro7448
5 жыл бұрын
:O you got over 1,000 likes in less than a day
@FirstNameLastName-rh4uj
5 жыл бұрын
Supbro She deserves it ^_^
@leonerose1715
5 жыл бұрын
That's the point, she finds joy in life, not things. What a wonderful out look on tomorrow. I was happy yesterday, today there was joy and tomorrow there's a hope. I try to live that way, rarely succeed, continue to try...I'm grateful to see the joy in her eyes & smile...that's contentment. That's real...
@rossmacben
5 жыл бұрын
But it’s a Buzzfeed video
@tips_and_tricks_for_life100
5 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful woman! Kane, give her a hug from me. I live in Guangzhou, China and you are welcome anytime
buzzfeed should give her a trip with her, hubby and kane and get it on camera..let her enjoy the trip and have everything completely paid for..this would be amazing. she is such an amazing sweet lady and Kane is unbelievably lucky to have her and the whole family. I love these videos hope to see more in the future! xoxo
@evenamber
5 жыл бұрын
Canadianbabe691 I agree
@NadsMAli
5 жыл бұрын
I would love to see that as well
@TheLizardAmaterasu
5 жыл бұрын
This comment needs more likes so that the buzzfeed people can see it!!!
@mariananevesl1023
5 жыл бұрын
Canadianbabe691 great idea!!
@mangomaniac4782
5 жыл бұрын
They should definitely do that
“Everything around us has the happy” 🥺.
"I never think about what is hard, if i do it then i do it"
I’m crying what the hell I love her
@katie-rm4qe
5 жыл бұрын
taryn w 666 LIKES AHHH
Every asian parent: *When i was your age I had to walk 10 miles to school*
@tiffanyyoung4297
5 жыл бұрын
Spooky Temporium every racist person *you*
@hemeiyun
5 жыл бұрын
stop embarrassing fany ..
@monicaruby8888
5 жыл бұрын
That's most older parents and grandparents, it doesn't seem to matter what their ethnic background is! :-)
@amarieh1021
5 жыл бұрын
Spooky Temporium that's EVERY race thankyou! & they did! & then some
@Isla_pm
5 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanyyoung4297 calm down love it was a joke. Not even a racist joke so idk where you got that from
Your mom brought me to tears. She reminded me there is so much to be happy for. She reminded me that you can find happiness in times when you think there is none to be found.
I cried when she said everything about being happy, catching what is close. I got that she was trying to express that you should be happy of what you have. She is so wholesome and generous to everything around her, that is how I aspire to be.
"why did you fall in love?" "because we are neighbors" Let me visit my neighbor real quick-
@zeearts9484
5 жыл бұрын
XDDD!!!!
@genericcao
5 жыл бұрын
Alois Trancy Better not be Ciel
@nou1226
5 жыл бұрын
Never Satisfied maybe
@pee1558
5 жыл бұрын
Claude where you at?
@bomethia7412
5 жыл бұрын
Alois Trancy Lmao
Where can I put money towards her travel fund?
@amchthompson
5 жыл бұрын
This sweet woman deserves a surprise vacation. I don't have much but I'd love to send $20 to help fund a trip.
@strz777
5 жыл бұрын
Right??? I'd happily donate to such a worthy individual!
@margotc2780
5 жыл бұрын
Kimchi Mama you could probably contact Kane in some way and he might help you?
@jasminnappi5677
4 жыл бұрын
Yesss let's start up a gofundme!!
@tpepwqp5697
4 жыл бұрын
This comment made me cry man, god
She has such a beautiful soul
Your mom reminds me so much of my mom. My dad passed away when i was 11. she took care of all 6 of us and never complained ever if it was really hard. She also told me once that she will be the happiest and rest when all of us will be settled in life. I am the youngest and i always felt like i have to work as hard as i can to suceed so that i can somehow repay all she did for me. Finally few months ago i graduated with my PhD and my mom retired! Now i am happy that she can enjoy her life. My mom has the biggest heart I swear she is always trying to give me money and think that I am starving because I moved in another country. Cherish your mon people!
She finds joy in the simplest things. I love that.
"your daddy said "love me" and i fell in love with your daddy." so... can someone love me?
@shrblv
5 жыл бұрын
ew no
@kemchess134man4
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, lmao
@outwilma7942
5 жыл бұрын
you have chan in ur pfp so yes i love u
@dunjatreskavica4657
5 жыл бұрын
I love you
@albi7258
5 жыл бұрын
Love me! :D
Your mom. That's it, that's my comment. I'm sure there is no need to say anything else.
@angelstar2801
4 жыл бұрын
👌👍
@cakevary1174
4 жыл бұрын
👏🏼
You have the best parents. Bless you for making this video.
When he tells the story of his mom pouring tea over his leftover rice I cried
" please tell me You mean fell in love"- THANK GOD!😂
@paitenceisthekey3572
5 жыл бұрын
Let'sdream 😂😂😂😂
You're family is such a blessing. Your parents are amazing! ❤️❤️
I have all the feels. I just shed some tears. Reminds me a lot of my mom. Thank you for sharing.
If everyone had the same happiness your mother has the world would be so much better. I wish everyone had her mindset. God truly put her here to be a piece of sunshine in all she comes across
@rodrickthesavage9181
5 жыл бұрын
Gurl gimme a tae with some Suga with a kookie
@maruchaninstantramennoodle8695
5 жыл бұрын
nice name
@accountnolongerinuse3433
5 жыл бұрын
Did you have to insert God into this? Seriously, she's a piece of sunshine without people pushing their religion into things. It undermines the whole compliment.
@daniellevilla7505
5 жыл бұрын
Amiiii
@marthasolis4306
5 жыл бұрын
Kiru Did you really have to comment on this? Seriously, ppl should stop judging others on their own beliefs. We all believe in something or not, that doesn't mean should all hate each other for it. The point is not to criticize and judge others. You're comment undermines this compliment. Sorry for lashing out at you but I'm sure this person wasn't intending to push their beliefs on you. LET US ALL SPREAD POSITIVITY. I know this comment is not positive either & i apologize but I thought it was rude that you posted that when this person had nothing bad to say.
She is such a pure, strong, positive woman. She doesn’t focus on what she doesn’t have, she just loves her family ❤️❤️
So pure!
😭 Amazing. Listening to what your mom is saying touches my heart. ♥️
“Why did you fall in love?” “Because he was my neighbour” IM CRYING
We must protect her at all cost.
one of my favourite buzzfeed vids EVER. cannot watch without crying
This was beautiful. I love your mom...made me 😢. She is lucky to have a good son like you💕
i'm not joking, when your mom was talking about how easy it is to be happy and find happiness in the little things- it literally changed my life. like my perception on things.
@rolandas12able
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness
This makes me want to be a better person. Her perspective is enlightening. What a beautiful mother you have.
@julialopez5997
5 жыл бұрын
Jem Stone yeah, and that "don't look back, just go on, go on"
That made me cry. Your mom is precious and I admire her.
This is the kind of content we really need ❤️ made me cry.
I'M NOT CRYING, I'M JUST SWEATING FROM MY EYES
@zeearts9484
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah...
@contortionlover2759
5 жыл бұрын
Lol same
@izzbizz1697
5 жыл бұрын
😊
@ciel1575
5 жыл бұрын
BROOKE ALDC sameeeeeeeee
@EyeLean5280
5 жыл бұрын
Me too (sniff!)
SOMEONE INVITE HER ON TED TALK PLEASE! I swear she can change lives.
Your mom is such an inspiration! Such a lovely soul 💖💖💖
You are very blessed to have such an amazing mother.
"Don't think far away, far away, how you catch? You catch close." That has so much wisdom. Your mom is truly inspiration. Thank you! Now that I still have the chance, I want to know more about my parents. I might learn a thing or two.