#HusbandNotDad

You asked; we're delivering. Here's the very first episode of #HusbandNotDad! Our editing skills and software will improve as we go, but for this episode, we just wanted to answer a few questions you all have thrown at us. Tell us what you think in the comments below, and don't forget to subscribe for announcements on future episodes.
--Courtney

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  • @maygun4030
    @maygun40306 жыл бұрын

    Why is this in my recommended.

  • @danielgaudette777

    @danielgaudette777

    6 жыл бұрын

    RoadRat because you are their #1 fan

  • @cam-qm6nn

    @cam-qm6nn

    6 жыл бұрын

    Same😂😂😂

  • @angieeemmmarie

    @angieeemmmarie

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lmfao same....

  • @Loops-1

    @Loops-1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me too!

  • @michellekelly8777

    @michellekelly8777

    6 жыл бұрын

    RoadRat me too

  • @AmandaLovesOldFords
    @AmandaLovesOldFords6 жыл бұрын

    The awkward part is the 20-year-old son (who lives with them) is playing video games in the background while they are filming this...

  • @Galedeahuva

    @Galedeahuva

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lmao!!!!

  • @kelseysreborns

    @kelseysreborns

    6 жыл бұрын

    they explained this in the video. nothing wrong with being 20 and playing video games ? most 20 yr olds these days are still in college

  • @shanaynayokeil6553

    @shanaynayokeil6553

    6 жыл бұрын

    I just noticed him loooool

  • @yohey6685

    @yohey6685

    6 жыл бұрын

    The son seems very mature. He cares more about his dad being happy then controlling him.

  • @dianajara9591
    @dianajara95916 жыл бұрын

    I have no problem with their relationship...what got me is they're trying to start a gofundme for their youtube channel? Umm youtube pays you? Why are you trying to get money from strangers it doesnt take much to start a channel...how much money did u spend making this video???...please dont ask people to financially support you for no reason.

  • @CourtneyBarber4

    @CourtneyBarber4

    6 жыл бұрын

    I don’t know if you know how much Go Pros cost... but that was the plan. And believe it or not, I married his for his looks and charm, not his overflowing music teacher salary.

  • @herdingborahae

    @herdingborahae

    6 жыл бұрын

    Diana Jara I doubt there is any KZread money.

  • @tawnayrigoyen1557

    @tawnayrigoyen1557

    6 жыл бұрын

    Diana Jara right they make all kinds of money

  • @jasmyng5494

    @jasmyng5494

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tawna Yrigoyen Ever heard of the "adpocalypse"? Somehow I doubt they are letting them monetize much of their content. KZread has almost no money gaining power through just adroll anymore. Educate yourself. To the channel I would suggest a patreon instead of gofundme. Alot of creators use Patreon.

  • @drabby7925

    @drabby7925

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lol people will donate to what ever they want, it’s their money BUT I do agree. Why would they make a gofundme when there’s absolutely no proof that their content is good or that they’ll even continue to make content? Most people save up their money and buy their own shit.

  • @ChristinaElizabethOfficial
    @ChristinaElizabethOfficial6 жыл бұрын

    This is SO CRINGY for me (being a 24 yr old female) 3/4 of her step kids are older than her...😖 I feel bad saying it, but dang...I just can’t handle the idea of that 😆😆

  • @ChristinaElizabethOfficial

    @ChristinaElizabethOfficial

    6 жыл бұрын

    Her husband is OLDER THAN HER DAD!!!! 😱🤢 I’m sorry, I just...whyyyyyy 😖😖😖

  • @alexistrilla4478

    @alexistrilla4478

    6 жыл бұрын

    She’s 19...I’m like speechless... 🤦🏽‍♀️i mean, if they’re happy that’s all that matters i guess but she legit said “it’s a business arrangement but we really care about each other”’ I’m sorry, what?????

  • @AmandaLovesOldFords

    @AmandaLovesOldFords

    6 жыл бұрын

    Alexis Trilla she's 25.

  • @adamjensen518

    @adamjensen518

    6 жыл бұрын

    Christina Elizabeth "Live and let live", right? "To each their own", right? "As long as they are consenting adults and not hurting anyone", right? "Love is love", right? Sound familiar?

  • @okirilovich

    @okirilovich

    6 жыл бұрын

    FML do you even understand what you’re saying? This man was an adult with kids when this girl was born. Do you even comprehend that?!

  • @brooklynrene18
    @brooklynrene186 жыл бұрын

    My husband and I have 21 years age difference, and we feel the same way! I’m an old soul and he’s a kid at heart. We’ve been together for 4 years now, and expecting both of our first child. I just want to say I love this, and keep spreading the word. I hate how negative people can be, and love changing people’s minds about age gaps!

  • @amandabrewer848
    @amandabrewer8486 жыл бұрын

    I don't think I could judge someone for loving someone. As long as they respect each other, love each other, and are in a healthy relationship I say go for it. Only very few people are lucky enough to experience true love.

  • @daphne10120
    @daphne101206 жыл бұрын

    I think the only thing that would weird me out is if a woman was the same age as her husband's kids. I think that could be really difficult for the kids. If both are consenting adults then I really don't care.

  • @rosequeen4810

    @rosequeen4810

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sam I Am his kids are her age she’s so young it’s gross

  • @rosequeen4810

    @rosequeen4810

    6 жыл бұрын

    It’s always perverted old men who do these relationships who have a daddy daughter fetish as she’s the age she could be his child

  • @EmpressLilith222

    @EmpressLilith222

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sam I Am I give it about a year before she hooks up w the son

  • @francesmcalister6411

    @francesmcalister6411

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sam I Am ... All my step kids are older than me... You know what they call me?... Mama... That's right... Age only defines a relationship if you allow it. 32 yrs difference between me and mine... And his kids are simply happy he is happy and loved. Why does that shock and repulse people... It truly is simple at the root of it.

  • @CaptchaNeon
    @CaptchaNeon6 жыл бұрын

    *I had to laugh when you said he is a minivan, I thought for a minute you were referring to the vehicle*

  • @kaitlyndurocher6684
    @kaitlyndurocher66846 жыл бұрын

    Your confidence in yourselves and each other is brilliant! Hope to see more from you two!

  • @shinyvaporeon1927
    @shinyvaporeon19276 жыл бұрын

    Who the hell plays Skyrim in third person :(

  • @morgansapp

    @morgansapp

    6 жыл бұрын

    Shiny Vaporeon I do lol

  • @SimplyChillin.

    @SimplyChillin.

    6 жыл бұрын

    Shiny Vaporeon 😂😂😂 this made me laugh but legit I do. I tried in first person and shit hit the fan.

  • @CourtneyBarber4

    @CourtneyBarber4

    6 жыл бұрын

    Finally, a comment I can get on board with.

  • @supernovaphantom2977

    @supernovaphantom2977

    6 жыл бұрын

    Haha at least he has good taste in video games

  • @kirstentharp8671

    @kirstentharp8671

    6 жыл бұрын

    It's blasphemous to play Skyrim in the third person 😂

  • @itskayleemichelle3995
    @itskayleemichelle39956 жыл бұрын

    The connection you and your grandpa have is adorable! I love seeing the youth interact with the elders😊 warms my heart!

  • @heatherdung979
    @heatherdung9796 жыл бұрын

    I really don’t understand all the hate from people. You guys are happy together and both are consent adults, what’s the problem? Wish you guys all the best! 🧡

  • @melodygibson7321
    @melodygibson73216 жыл бұрын

    I just stumbled upon this somehow it popped up in my feed. My husband and I have a 25 year age gap....and he is older than my father as well. I think most people have been supportive but we have had several stares, people trying to figure out the dynamics. He is absolutely the heat thing that has ever happened to me. I am happier now than I have ever been and it shows in my job and everyday life. I also had a lot of friends who jumped to gold digger, which again not the motivation here. We support each other and both work full time jobs. When I introduced him to my family my father didn’t get it and didn’t speak to me much didn’t even come around until the wedding when he saw us together and how happy we were. I think this channel is a great idea! Makes me wanna make a video lol.

  • @naomizander-goodwin2381
    @naomizander-goodwin23816 жыл бұрын

    You two remind me a lot of me and my fiance (he's also older than me!). I love that y'all play and goof around a lot. It's super obvious that you love each other. I can't wait to see more episodes! PS - Train is rad. I'm so glad they're still around. 😍

  • @kailabaker7516
    @kailabaker75166 жыл бұрын

    I have dated guys my age...not for me at all. Older men have it together. 😉

  • @kailabaker7516

    @kailabaker7516

    5 жыл бұрын

    Be careful, you're showing your age honey 😉🤣 also, a bridge is missing you, troll. There isn't anything wrong with this Queen. Bye! Someone's jealous cause THEY are really the problem. Go back to your mom's basement and finish your Fortnite without your girlfriend 😆

  • @bryanthompson2864

    @bryanthompson2864

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm 52 and date women in thier 20's. It's not awkward at all. I do look a lot younger than my age so when we take pics together it dont look very weird. But. I love younger women cause they are so full of energy. Love life. Dont hate men. And just want to have a good time and not have all the bullshit involved. Women my age are negative and all about trends and being with thier girlfriends and worried what they think all the time. And by the time they got 40 to 50 they seem to really hate men. Lol. Give me a hot sexy 22 yr. Old anyday. BOOM.

  • @jenniferpeterson1306
    @jenniferpeterson13066 жыл бұрын

    OMG!!!! Y'all are awesome I couldn't stop laughing hahaha. Had to subscribe :)

  • @slags83
    @slags836 жыл бұрын

    She's way too cute to be settling for an elderly guy. Do you really want to waste your 30s and 40s driving grandpa back and forth from his near daily doctors' appointments? You've got your whole life ahead of you, don't waste it!

  • @machealasidnee8060
    @machealasidnee80606 жыл бұрын

    I LOOOOOOOOVVVVEE THIS! 🙌🏻 I’m in an the same “type” of relationship/situation (we have 14 years between us) and seeing you guys come out to the world and put your foot down sooooo proudly is AWESOME! 🌼💛🌼

  • @elizabethgriffin621
    @elizabethgriffin6216 жыл бұрын

    Totally get it! Love it! Enjoy y’all!

  • @eleventhchakra9321
    @eleventhchakra93216 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad that you guys made this video! I remember reading about this a couple months ago and it's hard to gauge a relationship off of text - so it's great to be able to see your connection in person, or video lol. Honestly, this kind of relationship is not for everybody!! Obviously age gaps like this aren't super common, but they are still prevalent. And I think its awesome that you guys are helping show the world that it's okay to love someone regardless of societal norms. My last partner was 18 years older than me, it's an interesting dynamic! It doesn't feel weird to me at all because we just clicked intellectually; even though our life experiences were so different, and he's a part of a different generation than I am, we had more in common beyond that so it just worked! So, kudos to y'all for not giving a damn what people think. I feel like so many people are scared to love openly when it is perceived as "weird" by the masses, but honestly you guys are so in sync and you are just clearly so happy. I think you guys will help a lot of people and couples live more authentically by being so open :) F the haters!

  • @christinaguild9111
    @christinaguild91116 жыл бұрын

    Good for u guys as long as u guys r happy that's all that matters!!!! ~one love~

  • @robbielong9277
    @robbielong92774 жыл бұрын

    I love my teacher lol

  • @MissAllaCinderella
    @MissAllaCinderella6 жыл бұрын

    Please PLEASE continue making these! Recently found myself in similar relationship with my best friend, (I’m 30, he is 57), and would love the advice, support and knowledge from you guys! 😃

  • @jessijohnson48
    @jessijohnson486 жыл бұрын

    So glad you're happy girl! You're an amazing person and deserve the best and Vann makes sure you have the best. It's obvious he adores you and the feeling is mutual. The age gap doesn't mean crap! As long as y'all love each other and he treats you right that's all that matters. Love ya girl and keep doing what you're doing!

  • @saranoel4148
    @saranoel41486 жыл бұрын

    I actually love this video SO much. I support you guys & hope you keep going with your channel!!! I’ll totally keep watching. My boyfriend is also a father & is 13 years older than me, so you guys are really relatable. You rock

  • @mindbodyandsoul.myjourneyt9797
    @mindbodyandsoul.myjourneyt97976 жыл бұрын

    I wont lie, when I first starting watching this I was a bit taken back and grossed out,, yeah I judged and now I feel bad,,, I honestly can say you seem like a cute couple,, your personalities seem to match perfectly and you can see you do care for one another and not for the reasons we all think at first (he wants a young girl to feel younger, she wants a sugar daddy). I wish you both many years of happiness. You both are adults and the bottom line your business and glad you two seem extremely happy together

  • @motomoto9001

    @motomoto9001

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dawn's New Light mr vann Thornton was actually my band teacher last year!he actually is really funny and he acts totally normal!hes really good at music too.

  • @darcy62
    @darcy626 жыл бұрын

    When I first started this video I was skeptical about the whole relationship. Things that are different and taboo can make us feel weird, which is why people react badly. Watching this video, I definitely have a different view on marriage with age difference. Y’all seem like a healthy couple and I wish the best for you!

  • @tinah6423
    @tinah64236 жыл бұрын

    What a fun, cool couple! Enjoyed the video love your fur babies 😊

  • @Ergmermerg
    @Ergmermerg6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for speaking up for people like us

  • @lineoflight1111

    @lineoflight1111

    6 жыл бұрын

    Elysa Elmore That’s pretty cute. My partner is two years older than my mum and she loves to call him her son-in-law and then cackle at us both.

  • @MrMazzuchi
    @MrMazzuchi6 жыл бұрын

    You guys are awesome and inspiring! So young, both, and so wise. Thanks for this breath of fresh air!

  • @keithvowell9687
    @keithvowell96876 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for making this video! I promised myself to keep it short so I will try... yes there are aging concerns, but the growth of a soul is based on the experience of the body. Since I was extremely young I always believed love was ageless and I am so happy to see others living it out as well. I attract those in my twenties because that's where my energy in mentality are. After my 19 year abusive marriage, I have had relationships, that even though we didn't work out, we agreed that we could be married at one point. I take great care of my health and most assume I am 15 to 20 years younger than my actual age, but as most are understandingly concerned, eventually this soul-suit is going to wear out and my younger partner will watch as I phase from this existence. If she is willing to do that, then that is her call. Connecting on attributes is primary, but there are plenty who are amazing lives/souls who are attractive and want to enjoy existence with me. Thank you for following your hearts and dismissing all the fear-based criticisms I am probably going to receive as well. Be blessed.

  • @Vline629
    @Vline6296 жыл бұрын

    Love love LOVE this!!! My husband and I are 25 years apart. Happiness is what is important!! People will criticise things that they don't know much about.

  • @hilarymckillop2510
    @hilarymckillop25106 жыл бұрын

    Being happy is beautiful! Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @meghanthelittlemua2704
    @meghanthelittlemua27046 жыл бұрын

    My mans 15 years older and people are finally being supportive after 2 years!

  • @Missmarmolade
    @Missmarmolade6 жыл бұрын

    You guys are too cute and definitely put the age topic to rest by just being you ! My boyfriend and I have a 28 year age difference and we couldn’t have explained it any better than you guys did :) God is good and love is love . Many positive vibes your way and thank you for being an inspiration and an encouragement!

  • @phatpatman
    @phatpatman6 жыл бұрын

    I love this

  • @nikkilann
    @nikkilann6 жыл бұрын

    You guys are absolutely fabulous!!!

  • @mikeshogo225
    @mikeshogo2255 жыл бұрын

    This is just great!! Congrats!!

  • @Kaydynn0902
    @Kaydynn09024 жыл бұрын

    Honestly I support their relationship as long as they are BOTH happy then that's all that matters. This couple is making a change making everyone's crude comments and replying with positive and funny remarks. And all of the comments they get that are positive is soooo good. I hope you guys have an amazing Halloween

  • @neesaax3
    @neesaax36 жыл бұрын

    Why did Jude think you were 19 when you were 24?

  • @tanithofbyway
    @tanithofbyway6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your story to help normalize this and shed some light on the reality of being in a relationship with a large age gap like this. I'm 30 and my bf is 52; the perceived ulterior motive thing is hard to deal with. So much of what you folks say really rings true for us. I hope someday my mom can understand our relationship....thank you again and keep going strong :)

  • @nifferbruno
    @nifferbruno6 жыл бұрын

    Awesome video & editing!

  • @richardavila8695
    @richardavila86956 жыл бұрын

    All right all right all right Love the video

  • @cass121983
    @cass1219836 жыл бұрын

    Go Dawgs! I am from Newnan, GA. I wish you both much love and happiness for years to come!

  • @renaefowler3933
    @renaefowler39336 жыл бұрын

    Hey from Northwest Georgia, I stumbled across yall videos and I love yall already

  • @mjcreator9416
    @mjcreator94166 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so cute! I loved the video. My finace too one day will be in his 50s. Were just 5 years apart. I cant imagine my life without him.

  • @briannahockstra-beard8934
    @briannahockstra-beard89346 жыл бұрын

    You Guys Are So Cool. My Fiancé And I Are 30 Years Apart And Together For 6 Years. This Is Just So Cool To See. Thank You. Really. You Guys Rock. #OwnIt #HusbandNotDad

  • @foreverheaven07
    @foreverheaven076 жыл бұрын

    Please do more, I actually found this quite interesting.

  • @kelligray1848
    @kelligray18486 жыл бұрын

    I think you guys are great. My husband is a generation younger than me❤️. We’ve been together 15 years and still going strong. Have a twelve year old daughter and he’s the one that’s raised my boys to adult hood. I told him he could be a boy toy but that’s it. He said “tell me that in 15 years.” Lol He still teases me about it.

  • @sasissy
    @sasissy6 жыл бұрын

    Saw you perform at I believe Espresso 41 once and you were so great and he was super supportive, crazy this vid popped up on trending page. Love that you made this vid.

  • @brooketini81

    @brooketini81

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sara Adams I

  • @amberbrouillard346
    @amberbrouillard3466 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!! Thank you!! We get grief constantly. War Eagle y'all!!

  • @katyweaver7738
    @katyweaver77386 жыл бұрын

    Y'all are my new favorite couple!!

  • @victoriamaskule8642
    @victoriamaskule86426 жыл бұрын

    I am from the same city as y’all and saw a friend post an article. Very cool y’all have a channel!

  • @doobydoo854
    @doobydoo8546 жыл бұрын

    She doesn't even look like she likes him.

  • @CourtneyBarber4

    @CourtneyBarber4

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kelly momma3 I don’t look like I like anything. Unfortunately, I have RBF. I’m crazy about my boy, though.

  • @sweetpotato_

    @sweetpotato_

    6 жыл бұрын

    Courtney Thornton man* that is a grown man.

  • @courtneyllovee

    @courtneyllovee

    6 жыл бұрын

    Alejandra Guzmán 😂😂

  • @CourtneyBarber4

    @CourtneyBarber4

    6 жыл бұрын

    🙄😴

  • @metchitube

    @metchitube

    6 жыл бұрын

    What? You want them snogging their faces off? Grow up

  • @greentearobin
    @greentearobin6 жыл бұрын

    It's great to see you guys are so happy together :) I am also in an age-gap relationship. We were together for six years and then broke up but remained friends; I dated other people and it helped me appreciate how well he treated me and what a good person he is, and we got back together about a year ago, after four years of not being in a relationship together. Thank you for sharing your relationship and being willing to answer people's questions.

  • @keelyraasch
    @keelyraasch6 жыл бұрын

    Yessssss💕💕💕

  • @christinablair1789
    @christinablair17895 жыл бұрын

    My husband is 22 yrs older than me. He was the best thing that ever happened to me. I know my heart will never be broken again. Yay for you both!!!

  • @jillian9489
    @jillian94896 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend is 22 years older then me (his kids are not much younger then me) so this video made me so happy. This is more common then a lot of people think and it's so nice to see people talk about this so comfortably and openly. You both seem like a lot of fun and it's easy to see that you are very much in love.

  • @voila1589
    @voila15896 жыл бұрын

    Happy fr you. God bless you, Van and Courtney.

  • @KhanKhan-tv4tk
    @KhanKhan-tv4tk6 жыл бұрын

    Your both amazing keep smiling and stay blessed xx

  • @ashleyrae7916
    @ashleyrae79166 жыл бұрын

    I’ll be 27 this year, my husband 45. We met when i was 20, he was 38. We did have a hard time at first with family and friends, also looking out for our best interest. He has 3 teenage sons. One is only 7 years younger than me so of course we get a lot of questions when we are all 6 together! (We do have a 2 year old boy together!) I’m glad this showed up in my suggested videos. I love knowing other people genuinely just love each other no matter age. I don’t know what went “viral” but I’m surprised none of my hilarious friends sent it to me 🤣 we are happily married for 3 1/2 years now. We forget about the age difference 99% of the time. It doesn’t have anything to do with our daily lives. It just is what it is. We are happy and i can definitely tell you two are as well! Also loved The Office reference! 💕

  • @kristalmorris7130

    @kristalmorris7130

    6 жыл бұрын

    My bf is 14 yrs older and i get he is my dad lol. Im 37 but i look 20.Im so happy that you have found ur happy ending and have a beautiful family no matter what that looks like ...His kids are your kids no matter what the age..Happy for

  • @CaptchaNeon
    @CaptchaNeon6 жыл бұрын

    My husband and I are only 11 years apart and we struggle so much with our differences because he is long past my age group and he has already known, lost interest or doesn’t understand things I like. I think its great for you if you’re happy and you have it figured out.

  • @MysticMoonz

    @MysticMoonz

    6 жыл бұрын

    Captcha Neon yeah me and mine are 14 years apart. Been together going on 11 years. Its not easy some days. He's tired a lot LOL

  • @CaptchaNeon

    @CaptchaNeon

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kayla22 Wow lol its really good to know someone understands. Lucky for you, you’re past the 7 year itch, I’m approaching it and it has been a lot tougher than usual. Can you give me any advice on how to get through this next year with minimal arguments?

  • @MysticMoonz

    @MysticMoonz

    6 жыл бұрын

    Captcha Neon what is the biggest problems in your relationship? I can take a guess on possibly you want to do things and he doesn't. Mine seems to be tired all the time LOL it's definitely not easy having an age Gap at times. You can add me on social media if you want. We can vent 😂😂😂

  • @CaptchaNeon

    @CaptchaNeon

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kayla22 LOL cool yeah lets add each other, I have all platforms except Snapchat. One of the main problems we have is that I am very much into what teens like, you know viral videos, video games etc... my husband on the otherhand is obsessed with sports and also, he doesnt get my Disney Movie obsession lol. Let me know where you want me to add you

  • @childoflight389

    @childoflight389

    5 жыл бұрын

    Its proven, big age gap couples break up more

  • @rachelthompson5773
    @rachelthompson57736 жыл бұрын

    I love love!!!! #isupporthusbandnotdad

  • @bushpunxmama
    @bushpunxmama6 жыл бұрын

    My aunt (my dad's sister) and her husband, my uncle are ~30 years apart (she's in her 50s and he's in his 80s) and they couldn't be happier. They've been together since before i was born so it's never been weird for me. They have a son together, they travel, cook together, go camping; they are perfect for each other. When i stay over, it always ends up my uncle and I staying up late talking about life and whatever over gin and tonics lol

  • @jaimedurham8374
    @jaimedurham83746 жыл бұрын

    I love you two so much. I don't know why this came up in my news feed but I'm so glad it did. I am 42 and my husband is 30. I actually use to babysit him when he was a baby haha. You two are just so awesome. It doesn't matter age, color, sex anything. If you love someone, you just love them. Can't wait to watch more of you

  • @christabuckler136

    @christabuckler136

    6 жыл бұрын

    that's fucked up.

  • @mysticaltj2440

    @mysticaltj2440

    6 жыл бұрын

    Christa Buckler lol

  • @elenawarr88
    @elenawarr886 жыл бұрын

    Um, I'm like 100% sure he taught my middle school band class. How the hell this ended up in my recommended I will never know. But, I got a really thorough laugh from it.

  • @CourtneyBarber4

    @CourtneyBarber4

    6 жыл бұрын

    Elena Lynn This is definitely him and I’m so glad you got a good laugh from this! 😂

  • @elenawarr88

    @elenawarr88

    6 жыл бұрын

    It was so weird coming across someone i actually know on a trending video. There were about 5 minutes of me thinking, "god, he sounds/looks familiar" and then seeing your last name--it all clicked. I'm glad y'all are doing well!

  • @missbearr
    @missbearr6 жыл бұрын

    I believe you went to my college, I asked you about your sweet puppy one day. And you were so sweet, so this is so crazy I just stumbled on your channel. People need to learn to keep rude comments to themselves. No one else is involved in your relationship, so why does it matter? You both seem so genuinely happy, and that makes me happy. Best of luck to you both!

  • @aliciaseptember
    @aliciaseptember6 жыл бұрын

    I have a 6 year age difference with my huni. He’s younger. I even have a hard time with that due to maturity level and lack of life experience. I personally could never do this. I do feel bad for how his kids must feel. If I was them I would feel upset with my dad and just uncomfortable. To each their own, no hate meant. Just not for me.

  • @DoWhatMakesYouHappyy
    @DoWhatMakesYouHappyy6 жыл бұрын

    Love is love. No boundaries to it.

  • @scarletmartin3503
    @scarletmartin35036 жыл бұрын

    I have said this a ton of times! I am a ER Doctor in the Southwest, tomorrow is not guaranteed so make the best of today! Good luck and. God Bless!

  • @scarletmartin3503

    @scarletmartin3503

    6 жыл бұрын

    B

  • @bunny5910
    @bunny59106 жыл бұрын

    What ever and where ever your heart leads you...go with it! It's meant to be. ❤😍

  • @hannahslowikowski7330
    @hannahslowikowski73306 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry, but this is just creepy and weird.

  • @laurapenwell1034
    @laurapenwell10346 жыл бұрын

    I am 37 and have 8 grandkids, thanks to my husband. He is actually closer to my parents age than my own (we are both school teachers in Texas). He cooks and I clean up... we are pretty much polar opposites lol but we love each other very much!!!

  • @babiigurl2689
    @babiigurl26896 жыл бұрын

    Just stumbled upon you guys. Yall are so cute! My mom is 45 and dating a guy 2 years younger than me. (I'm 27) Weird at first, but I love em together!!

  • @ashleybrooke5713
    @ashleybrooke57136 жыл бұрын

    No idea why KZread recommended this to me. But that reaction when he made that awful comment about that awful team was enough to make me subscribe then and there 😂 WAR EAGLE!!

  • @dufunnyman4514
    @dufunnyman45146 жыл бұрын

    MORE EPISODES PLEASE ❤

  • @eilees7466
    @eilees74666 жыл бұрын

    More like #husbandnotgrandpa

  • @Haazziee
    @Haazziee6 жыл бұрын

    I have no problem with this relationship. And I’m 21 and my fiancé is 24. I love seeing people in love. I caught myself smiling at you guys a few times throughout this. To me there’s nothing gross about it. She’s of age, she’s an adult. There’s nothing wrong about it. I also love how she proposed to you. You guys are just breaking all the rules !!!!! Lol. 😂😂 I think you guys are awesome and I hope this works out for a very long time. 💜💜

  • @FreeDrugz
    @FreeDrugz6 жыл бұрын

    My issue with being in a relationship like this is not so much the age difference now (although it is ..odd), but more so how things will be when one partner is like 50 and the other is 80 years old. At that point you’re a caregiver and not a spouse. Weird.

  • @samantham111

    @samantham111

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jonesy I also think about when they were younger. Imagine a 30 year old man being into a baby..it just weirds me out to sexualize something soo much younger/older then you.

  • @jasmineleopard7593

    @jasmineleopard7593

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yup. She might think she knows what she's in for but she has no idea. I've seen a couple with smaller age gap (15 years or so) and did not make it through that time when the man started wanting daily naps and not wanting to go out often, etc and the wife still wanted to do stuff. It ended. Nobody saw it coming but when people get to a certain age, they start slowing down fast. Even those who you wouldn't think would

  • @lindabrown9243

    @lindabrown9243

    6 жыл бұрын

    Some of us ended up caretakers due to circumstance long before our mate was old. If you love someone truly you will not love them for the rest of their life ...you will love them until the end of yours.

  • @KristyHin

    @KristyHin

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jonesy if you have a partner and something happens to you that is unexpected in life, I would hope that your partner becomes your caretaker. Traditional vows state in sickness and in health. Anything can happen at any point in time. Don’t be so sure life will turn out perfect and not without struggle.

  • @metchitube

    @metchitube

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jasmine Leopard, even if it ended at least they shared something, better to have loved briefly than not to have loved at all. People marry in their 20s and divorce before they are even 30. Divorce happens.

  • @sbk6219
    @sbk62196 жыл бұрын

    Aww this is sweet

  • @slitch19
    @slitch196 жыл бұрын

    My husband and I read the article on your tweet together the other day. He is 20.5 years older than I (28 and 48) and honestly, I swear I’ve got one of the few good ones left! We get the dad/daughter comment a lot, but it never has or will bother us. Like you said, we would rather have 20 minutes of happiness together than 20 years of anything or anyone else. At least we are 1%ers in some way! 😂

  • @yohey6685
    @yohey66856 жыл бұрын

    I’m so happy for you guys. My boyfriend and I keep breaking up because his daughter can not handle our age difference. It makes me so sad. It’s nice to see I’m not the only person who dates age gap.

  • @abbyd6655
    @abbyd66556 жыл бұрын

    Not sure if you answered this or not, I could have missed it... sorry if I did! But how did you guys originally first meet?

  • @vannthornton6615

    @vannthornton6615

    6 жыл бұрын

    Abby Decker We actually knew of each other in a less than casual way years before we dated because we lived in the same small town. She contacted me for my experience in music and event planning as she was in charge of events at her college. The relationship grew out of that interaction.

  • @jaclynelise2966

    @jaclynelise2966

    6 жыл бұрын

    Vann Thornton less than casual... Like you were her teacher?

  • @jaclynelise2966

    @jaclynelise2966

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ashley Spencer the second sentence doesn't really mean anything. You can have a teacher and contact him or her a couple years later soooo... my comprehension is just fine. But thanks for your concern.

  • @jasmineleopard7593

    @jasmineleopard7593

    6 жыл бұрын

    Pizza is forever I think the lack of response says a lot. Wow. If I found out my child's teacher was dating a year no former student, I would raise hell

  • @NATALIAS3NDROSES
    @NATALIAS3NDROSES6 жыл бұрын

    Wtf did this end up in my recommended videos?

  • @adripadri
    @adripadri6 жыл бұрын

    Can both of you post a video of singing a duet together!? You both have amazing voices!!!

  • @marywine9007
    @marywine90076 жыл бұрын

    I love the comment about you being a grandma! My husband and I are 21 years apart and I also have 2 grandbabies that call me Gigi! And as long as yall happy that's all that matters all these negative comments shouldn't phase y'all no one else is living y'alls life I wish you both many more happy years😘

  • @courtneysmith1589
    @courtneysmith15894 жыл бұрын

    This is my old band teacher

  • @lizranahan2932
    @lizranahan29326 жыл бұрын

    My ex was 18 years my senior. We used to get the most obnoxious stares and comments. I'll never forget being at Walgreens one night and this woman flirting with my guy throughout the entire store. We ended up buying my daughter a ball and at checkout, this woman looked at him and said "I bet you're really good with your balls.." YES. SHE. SAID. THAT. Anyway, he answered that she'd have to ask me, his girlfriend. She turned Fire engine Red and left the line to "grab something she forgot!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Just as they mentioned, we never noticed the difference in age until it was pointed out. Even then, we just laughed about it. Keep being awesome you two!!!

  • @jesst9585
    @jesst95856 жыл бұрын

    😊❤️❤️ awwwh love is love and two people who fall in love like this should embrace it 😘 no matter what people say , if ur happy that all that matters 😊

  • @kirstentharp8671
    @kirstentharp86716 жыл бұрын

    Very cute. Glad I watched. Very good sports about the criticism from people. You two seem to have excellent chemistry and you seem very funny. ♥️✌️

  • @Melissa143
    @Melissa1436 жыл бұрын

    Hey Courtney I myself am in a similar situation. I am 28 and my boyfriend is 55 we've been together for 4 years. It's been a struggle for me because it was different in the beginning because that's exactly it, it was different and I was so afraid of what other people were thinking all the time. I still struggle with it once in awhile but for the most part I mean I agree with you that your normal people it's just that there's an age difference. Our communication is a little different obviously because of generational differences and he has a 14 year old son so I've had my times where I've felt awkward. But hey if you're happy in this is what you want more power to you.

  • @Lwhritenour23
    @Lwhritenour236 жыл бұрын

    My husband is 49 I'm 31 so this video makes me happy ♡

  • @fuckthisshit8895
    @fuckthisshit88956 жыл бұрын

    When I was 19 I dated someone 38 yrs older than me for awhile. We lived together. We deeply cared for each other and were there for each other through many big moments in our lives. He definitely didn’t have money. It was genuine love. There’s nothing gross about this. Souls connect. How is that gross?

  • @mackeejack6731

    @mackeejack6731

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mandy Weinhold that's fucked.

  • @fuckthisshit8895

    @fuckthisshit8895

    5 жыл бұрын

    Who else to destroy?! I can confidently say that I do not, nor have I ever had “daddy issues”....which btw, is a bullshit concept. 🤷‍♀️

  • @MmmKayHuuNay

    @MmmKayHuuNay

    5 жыл бұрын

    They just said they don't believe in soul mates

  • @fuckthisshit8895

    @fuckthisshit8895

    5 жыл бұрын

    Captain Ford soul mates and souls connecting are not the same concept

  • @tararenteria7458
    @tararenteria74586 жыл бұрын

    My husband and I are 23 years apart.. Wish you guys the best

  • @carissakaisen5264
    @carissakaisen52646 жыл бұрын

    I abouslty love yall. You guys have changed my mind ... I never really gave it much thought. But I have to be honest, i did have a run of the mill thought about older men with younger women. . But you guys are awesome. I love u guys! 😄 "You think I'm rich. I'm a school teacher." 😂😂 Where are u guys from? I hear the south in yall! I'm from Georgia, so i notice it.

  • @franciska-maria
    @franciska-maria6 жыл бұрын

    I'm 23 yrs old now and I've been in relationships with men mostly over their 50s, even when I was...younger. They never knew how old I actually was, because I've always been very mature and when asked, I often refused to tell or simply lied about my age, which I'm not very proud of, but I had to because I thought they would change their minds about me if they would know how old I am, how old I was, which unfortunately was the case some times when they found out, they felt "guilty" for falling in love with me or they felt themselves "dirty".. They never had relationships wit younger girls before, so I know for a fact they were not "that type" of men as most people would assume. For me it just never felt right to be with people my age, they seemed too shallow and closed minded (not that older people can't be shallow, narrow minded, they can, of course, everyone can be regardless of age, and the truth is there are so many people like that especially nowadays) but the thing is, I always felt much more comfortable with older men; deep conversations are the most important things for me and I don't care about the looks or the age - having an open minded, conscious, mature, intelligent man by my side with a great wit and sense of humour is what I like. Now excuse me but f*ck people who say "daddy issues" and stuff like that, I've heard that so many times but look, if two intelligent, conscious human being falls in love with each other, if they both are aware of what they want and well aware of themselves and they can talk without manipulating one another any ways or forcing the other one or anything nasty like that, I think love is love, and if there's a deep connection, it's there, and if there's a mental and spiritual bond, it's there and you can't do anything about it other than accept it, embrace it, live it fully. I wish you all the best!

  • @amandalovetig
    @amandalovetig6 жыл бұрын

    What’s your other social media? I can’t find anything.

  • @blackladysniper87
    @blackladysniper876 жыл бұрын

    Every person has different point of view. But stay strong as long as you don't hurt anyone. It's your choice not them. Take care and stay strong as couples.

  • @elvynnguyen3108
    @elvynnguyen31086 жыл бұрын

    Best couple I know ! Love those guys

  • @vannthornton6615
    @vannthornton66156 жыл бұрын

    The comments are great. They say much more about you than they do us!