Losing My Brother - Dealing With Grief & Loss | Johanna Liana

Hey thank you so much for all of the love & support through the last years. With this video I want to share my experience and maybe it can help you.
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  • @izmew90
    @izmew90 Жыл бұрын

    My sister died tonight. I’m searching for comfort. Thanks for this video. She was 39.

  • @mvil
    @mvil2 жыл бұрын

    Lost my sibling last month. I haven't been the same since. It's hard to get back to my usual self when I am grieving and hurting inside. It's even tougher because in my line of work, being happy and funny is part of the job. I am hurting everyday. I am full of regrets. Full of what ifs. He was just 33 years old. It's extra tough to be alone these days. Sorry, I'm typing without coherence--I am typing straight from the heart.

  • @NaturalEarthTones

    @NaturalEarthTones

    11 ай бұрын

    I understand how you feel. I lost my sister 12.15.22 and life hasn't been the same. I can't relate or care about anyone and that sounds harsh but it's truly how I feel. And I have a husband and 2 grown boys 24 and 20. I just feel numb. 😢

  • @Mr102185

    @Mr102185

    4 ай бұрын

    I feel you my sister. My baby brother died 11/28/23 at 28 years old. I'm still not right mentally. I don't think I will ever be.... 😭 We was not supposed to bury him, he was supposed to bury me. I'm 38 years old. I don't know how to cope with this.

  • @p344y

    @p344y

    2 ай бұрын

    I lost my little brother 2 weeks also at 33 years old. It was suddenly and unexpectedly. He was my whole heart and soul. My best friend and my better half. I can’t even begin to understand how I am going to cope with this and go back to work tomorrow. Please pray for me and my parents and strength to you I hope you have learned to live with this terrible tragedy ❤

  • @lovettornotfilms5056
    @lovettornotfilms5056 Жыл бұрын

    I lost my brother yesterday. He was 29, we are only a year apart. This doesn’t feel real. I just want him here with me, my mom, my eldest brother. So much of me is him. ❤

  • @lexielexie8819

    @lexielexie8819

    Жыл бұрын

    Same lost my little sister 😢

  • @MartyJackson

    @MartyJackson

    9 ай бұрын

    I lose my brother aged 29 in May 2022. F’ing sucks right. I hope that you’re doing well in your journey of grief and that life is treating you well. X

  • @christinelyons4358
    @christinelyons43582 жыл бұрын

    I lost my brother in june 2021 he was 43 he was my best friend we did coffee every morning I miss that the most plus his calls he was a funny man and my mediator when there was a disagreement within the family I miss his so much the pain is unbearable but I need to learn to get thru it even if it takes 50 years

  • @stephzini7056

    @stephzini7056

    Жыл бұрын

    I lost my brother August 2021..he was also my best friend. I miss him terribly. I wish you healing and love. It's coming up on one year and I am very sad.

  • @mrs.k2433

    @mrs.k2433

    11 ай бұрын

    I lost my only sister, she was also 43. We used to text and call everyday. She was my bestfriend💔💔. I miss her.

  • @annaelena4859
    @annaelena48596 ай бұрын

    It’s been three months since I lost my big brother to cancer. He was only 26, and he was my favorite person on the planet. He was one of the strongest people Ive ever known, overcoming mental illness and addiction. It only took four months to completely destroy all our lives. He leaves behind three kids under 4 years old, and it’s not fucking fair. My nieces and nephew deserve the amazing person that created them and loved them more than anything. I want to be here to tell them everything that he was but it hurts so bad rn

  • @ragtagboyrebel
    @ragtagboyrebel Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your experience & story. I lost my youngest brother at the age of 26 just 2 weeks ago. I'm shattered & kind of lost. I'm just trying to find people & videos on the internet who have been through such times so that I can understand what to do & how to do things. I can't afford therapy so listening to people talk about their stories helps a lot in dealing with the current situation. I love the idea that our siblings are still with us & sensing everything with us as we go through life. This video of yours did help a lot Johanna. Let's keep on living for our siblings :)

  • @House.Of.Dysharma

    @House.Of.Dysharma

    Жыл бұрын

    I lost my 35 year old brother November 2021. Yet I am back here watching videos again. Doing the same. Sending you so much love in these hard days 🤗🤗🤗

  • @fabionaps

    @fabionaps

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my brother last month. It's the hardest moment of my life. I'll always think about him. I just hope this pain will go away and I can celebrate his life. We need to be strong for those around us especially the little ones.

  • @Lina-gc9vx
    @Lina-gc9vx Жыл бұрын

    I lost my brother a few weeks ago to cancer ...I'm still so shattered.

  • @natashenanigans
    @natashenanigans Жыл бұрын

    Just lost my elder brother, he was 28 and the best, kindest person in the whole world... He died from a rare sarcoma which killed him within 1,5 months. I relate so much to everything that you share here, thank you ❤

  • @vella406
    @vella406 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your experience I am actually a 30-year-old woman who lost my brother 10 years ago and it was actually a huge shock because he was only one you're older than me. It was very hurtful because he was murdered and it changed the course of my life… Your video is an inspiration for me to start recording for my KZread channel about sibling grief support again thank you merry Christmas and be sure to follow me back for more of my story XOXO ❤

  • @House.Of.Dysharma

    @House.Of.Dysharma

    Жыл бұрын

    Sending massive hugs. And well done about your KZread channel plans. I hope to add something similar 💚

  • @gozwal
    @gozwal2 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your loss, Johanna, even though your brother has passed awhile now... But you are right in what you said. When you lose someone in your life, especially a sibling... You suddenly realise how short life really is. And how important it is to live your life to the best you can, and ensuring those close to you, know that you love them. I have watched some of your videos now, and I have noticed you have such a gentle spirit. That is very special. I hope you never lose it. Stay safe, Johanna.

  • @j-nk4ez
    @j-nk4ez Жыл бұрын

    Lost my little brother this year In April 2023 he was 16. He took his own life or it was an accident. But I still miss him so much.😭

  • @lexielexie8819

    @lexielexie8819

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry to hear it lost my little sister last year. It just hurts it’s torture 😢

  • @charmedprince
    @charmedprince6 күн бұрын

    That's true about the you just function during the funerals and vigils 😢 just for it to be over so people can go home after so you can grieve finally 😔💔 miss my little brother so much 😫😫😫😫

  • @shanewilson2484
    @shanewilson24842 жыл бұрын

    Emotional video. Tough subject. We will all go through this sort of loss. Thank you for sharing. I lost my Dad to a sudden medical condition.

  • @MicheleZamarripa
    @MicheleZamarripa8 ай бұрын

    😢 I lost my brother 8 years ago and 3 weeks before he passed I lost my mom My dad has been gone for 34 years and I'm the only one left and this year I don't know why but it's really really hard for the holidays and I find my I know I'm in a deep depression but I thought I bet you there hasn't been one day in 8 years I haven't cried couple of my kids just don't get it and I bet you not one of them three have once asked me Mom how are you doing I miss my brother so much he was my whole world he was my younger brother but he should have been my older brother he was a great man I was just so proud of him he was in the service he would have given this shirt off his back to anybody I tried talking to a grease counselor and it just didn't work for me where I met cuz every time I left her off so she act like I was cured and two losses like that at the same time it just I'm going crazy I really believe I am but thank you for sharing your video

  • @town_girl

    @town_girl

    18 күн бұрын

    I lost my brother 3 months ago and I pray to God for me and you to take care of us and give us patience

  • @Georgeanne17
    @Georgeanne17 Жыл бұрын

    Your video really helped me ❤ im on so much pain and this helped . Thank you.

  • @RizZaTV
    @RizZaTV2 жыл бұрын

    Im struggling for 30 years and it won't stop! I never had the chance to really grew up with my brother he died as a little baby of 17 months and i will always miss him

  • @MicheleZamarripa

    @MicheleZamarripa

    8 ай бұрын

    I totally understand your pain and I'm sorry for your loss My brother and I we were 5 years apart and he was 46 when he passed and it wasn't an accident but he passed 3 weeks after my mom did and my world ain't been same and 8 years

  • @FilmerJack992
    @FilmerJack992 Жыл бұрын

    I know this is a year old video (also my condolences) I lost my older to drugs going on 2 two years. I did learn n take something from this (thank you for helping us and opening up) Life is unpredictable (Again my condolences) prayers n hugs sent from Canada 🇨🇦 🙏

  • @chrispearce6268
    @chrispearce62683 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, I lost my sister 3 years ago and it still hurts

  • @colingibson1998
    @colingibson1998 Жыл бұрын

    I just want to say I'm sorry for your loss I lost my brother 2 months ago just a week before christmas

  • @catzzcrochet
    @catzzcrochet11 ай бұрын

    Thank you for making this video about your loss. My Brother died today from pancreatic cancer. I am so numb right now. My brother just found out in April of this year. Losing a sibling hurts so much.

  • @Tatiannajustine

    @Tatiannajustine

    11 ай бұрын

    prayers lost my 20 year old brother to leukemia as well sending love

  • @catzzcrochet

    @catzzcrochet

    11 ай бұрын

    @Tatiannajustine Sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to you as well 🙏 Hugs and love being sent to you and your family 🥰

  • @MartyJackson

    @MartyJackson

    9 ай бұрын

    If you’ve not yet seen it, I’d highly recommend googling ‘the box, ball and button’. It’s a really helpful analogy for dealing with grief of any kind. I lost my brother aged 29 last year. I don’t think the pain goes away, quite honestly. And more so, it certainly hasn’t ‘sunk in’ for me yet just over a year on. I’m not sure if it ever fully will. But you’ll begin to pick the pieces of your life/headspace up again with whatever time you need. That analogy can really help.

  • @spidermek5416
    @spidermek541611 ай бұрын

    Sorry for the loss sunshine. I hope you okay.

  • @NataCats
    @NataCats2 жыл бұрын

    I love your video, stay with you I subscribed. 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @lovettornotfilms5056
    @lovettornotfilms5056 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing ❤❤

  • @leahpapworth2353
    @leahpapworth23532 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, I’m preparing to speak at my sisters memorial and trying to put my thoughts & feelings into words and found your video 🙏🏼

  • @Johanna_liana

    @Johanna_liana

    2 жыл бұрын

    sending love your way x

  • @debbiehinds7535
    @debbiehinds7535 Жыл бұрын

    I lost my brother to, to cancer rip, so shocked so so so sad 😞 heartbroken 💔 5/8/2022

  • @House.Of.Dysharma

    @House.Of.Dysharma

    Жыл бұрын

    Massive hugs 🤗

  • @philliphalcomb7573
    @philliphalcomb7573 Жыл бұрын

    Much love, i lost mine 11 months ago im the eldest 32 he was 20. Never heal we just learn to live with it be happy it happend ❤

  • @jasonk9968
    @jasonk99688 ай бұрын

    i lost my brother this year not even a month ago 10/21/23 he was only 35years old oh god i miss him there's so much i did not get to tell him before he left

  • @BiancaCalhoun
    @BiancaCalhoun8 ай бұрын

    My brother Don-el's 2 year anniversary is coming up 11/06! Thank you for sharing

  • @javierwasilkowski3917
    @javierwasilkowski3917 Жыл бұрын

    @johanna liana , holiss estoy aprendiendo ingles o en eso estoy jajaj escuchando tus videoss , ya q el.otro mes voy de visita a nz ,.Gracias muy bonitos videos

  • @user-ds6hg4dr4n
    @user-ds6hg4dr4n7 ай бұрын

    I lost my brother a month ago what makes it worse is that i was with him every minute of the day he was in his 30ths before we losed him im only nine and will wish that he would have been here to watch me grow i will not be sharing about what he died of for personal reasons

  • @IReadOakGrove
    @IReadOakGrove Жыл бұрын

    I just lost Nov.4 22 my only brother on the day of my my friends funeral

  • @jamesgullett9722
    @jamesgullett9722 Жыл бұрын

    I lost two people that even though they weren’t blood related they were as close to brothers as they could be. They died of heroine use and suicide. I am almost 50 and it still hurts. I lost a friend of cancer and another of heart disease. It hurts for all four but I realize I am older and you lose things now and life no longer gives you things but takes it away. I had two heart attacks and the first one I had died. I didn’t have angels or demons. I was disappointed because I saw nothing. Dying was like being a light switched off and then switched back on. There was nothing for me. Was I bad was there nothing there or was it. It far enough to see something. I was left lonely and more alone than ever. I am so sad and depressed. I feel no one will be there and the finality breaks my heart. I feel I am not good enough to see them and alone.

  • @thejackuniverse8047
    @thejackuniverse80474 ай бұрын

    A year and a half for me, all around different and can’t and won’t ever be the same…

  • @JakurtyKulgin
    @JakurtyKulgin Жыл бұрын

    How to deal with loss of my little autistic brother???especially for my mom who already had stroke,we can't believe that,tommorow is funeral,i can't believe that,im afraid to lose my mother because of this

  • @parastoo4192
    @parastoo4192 Жыл бұрын

    I lost my brother in 1 February 2023 by medical neglect …..he is 33 years old and I’m 29

  • @Temeskem
    @Temeskem8 ай бұрын

    3 year latwer I’m still fucked

  • @pp3k3jamail
    @pp3k3jamail12 күн бұрын

    💥💥I never had a problem with someone going out on their own terms. if they don't want to be here anymore then that's their decision. it's not like living in the United States is some utopia. Everybody is miserable in this country anyway. Especially when you're destined to just work and you can't retire until you're 70 and then you die. America is a miserable country to live in unless you're a rich of course, then it's not miserable for them as much.