Thank you for watching. I’ve filmed Part 2 of this Q&A so if you didn’t see your question answered, it could appear next time! 😘😘

@susanaramirez1335

3 жыл бұрын

Your fiancé looks like a Medieval times prince. Hope you have a beautiful life together and never go to bed upset at each other. Give an take is the secret to a joyful marriage. Compromise is the word. Care for each other till the end. 😊 You must kiss a few frogs to get your prince. 😉

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

@@susanaramirez1335 thank you Susana! This is excellent advice. 🙏

@amberp5207

3 жыл бұрын

The most exciting part, is that this is just the start of a new chapter in your lives together. Now that’s Amore! Congratulations!♥️💍

@pamellasmith2503

3 жыл бұрын

I have not been able to watch your past videos with others, I knew you and Guido were the perfect match 💙🙏🏻

@Beautytrends77

3 жыл бұрын

@@KylieFlavell I can only hope to one day find a wonderfully put together man such as Guido!! You both are beautiful souls and when two beautiful souls come together magic happens. I wish you all the best!

Guido’s final comment about you being a gift to his future children may be one of the sweetest and most insightful things I’ve ever heard.

@sil5005

3 жыл бұрын

Agree 101%

@brendak1145

3 жыл бұрын

Agree. Very beautiful. It was what I said to my, now deceased, husband after he proposed many years ago. He was an awesome father and husband. Much love & happiness to you both.

@moiragoldsmith7052

3 жыл бұрын

Wasn't it just!💝💝💝

@brijrussell83

3 жыл бұрын

It brought me to tears!

@victoriamrivera9722

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, that comment was the most beautiful of all!

We met when we were 21 and it was just instinctive. Six months later we were engaged; a year after that we married and now, 55 years, four children and seven grandchildren later we still adore each other. We are blessed.

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Magnificent! Congratulations to you both. I’m sure people reading this will find your story hopeful. ☺️

@FM-yk1yr

3 жыл бұрын

So blessed! 💗

@jayreneeee

3 жыл бұрын

Soooo sweet 🥺🥺🤍✨

@avaangel433

3 жыл бұрын

God must have wanted it for you. He had other plans for me.

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

😍🤗🌸

"She transforms a rainy day into something beautiful and cosy!" That is the most beautiful compliment that Guido made you, Kylie!

Beautiful story. My husband and I will be married 35 years in October. You said one thing we always attribute to our success. Never say anything you can’t take back. Never cross that line. Never joke about divorce. We hold each other’s heart in our hands. A precious trust.

I’m not surprised Guido fell in love with Kylie at the first meeting. I’m a 74-year old straight woman, and I fell for her the first time I saw her video making a lemon ricotta loaf lol! You guys are beautiful together and I wish you a lifetime of happiness!❤️

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Haha! Ah you’re so very kind, Jan! Thank you! It was probably more the closeup shots of mascarpone melting on lemon loaf than me! 😂

@tc7486

3 жыл бұрын

@@KylieFlavell No it was you! She speaks for me too and I’m 70! ❤️

@fanstream

3 жыл бұрын

😁👍

@crisnemitz1606

3 жыл бұрын

@@KylieFlavell Girl, what is it about you? I'm a 52 year old married mother of 2. You are truly the most beautiful girl I've seen, but it is more than your physical beauty. You really do shine brightly. Is it weird to have so many people with a girl crush on you? 😉 I hope we get to see some of the wedding. ❤

@1958pobs

3 жыл бұрын

Yep me too, I am 62 and a widow I feel the same, wholesome and beautiful, kind and insightful. 😘😘😘

I am happy for both of you. Guido is a true gentleman. He is the luckiest man in the world, and I really mean that. Kylie is a gem. Everything a man dreams for - beautiful, warm, loving, sensitive, and a master chef. The saying goes, "good things come to those who wait". I was 34 when I got married, and I had almost given up hope. We have been married for 40 years.

35:05 "If I want to give a present to my future children, it would be giving them a mother like you" I don‘t think I have heard anything more kind, respectful, loving and full of grace as this ..... the truth, so eloquently spoken. This is magical x

She said "I look at how they treat me over time." Very smart.

How beautiful. My husband (RIP) also said he loved me even before we kissed- which by the way I waited 4 MONTHS before he even touched my lips!!!! I really tested him. We were happily married for 32 years. And kissed for all those years and more!!! Hahahaha. I miss him so much.

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

How beautiful! Thank you for sharing this. ♥️♥️♥️

@goodshepherd3438

3 жыл бұрын

@consume honey I also I a beautiful husband he was Jewish and me French Canadian We fell in love I was 17years old and my husband 19years old We married just before I turn 18 and my husband just before he 20. 2008 he pass away from cancer We wore married 45years If he will be living I would be married 59years I never date it . I love my husband and still love him He lives in my heart I love watching Kylie videos Such comfort to me My dad mom was born in Tuscany in Barga Luca So i happen to LOVE ITALY to LOVE NEVER DIE SO I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND U MISSING HIM.I DO TO.THANK GOD I AM STRONG. I TRY NOT TO CRY TO MUCH. MY HUSBAND WOULDN'T WANT TO CRY TO MUCH. I HAVE KIDS AND GRANDKIDS AND 2 1/2YEARS AGO I BECAME A GREAT GRANDMA GOD IS SO GOOD ❤🇨🇦

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

So sweet! 😍 much love your way 🤗☀️✨

@originalmix2546

3 жыл бұрын

@@rw4898 indeed so. :/ and Women by their(our) attitude and behavior educate men, in a way tho, what kind of attitudes are ok and what are not ok. Men like to put up tests too many times, often - to see, with what kind of lousy-ness they can pass.

@helencavanagh8119

3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful 💙

Guido's final statement is something every woman longs to hear. May God bless you both profusely...

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

💘💘💘 Thank you Grace.

@tc7486

3 жыл бұрын

Agree. Made me cry.

@hoops8534

3 жыл бұрын

@@tc7486 Me too ♥️😭

@KaterinaFerrara

3 жыл бұрын

Tears! I’m with the criers on this one! ❤️

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

🙌🏻

I absolutely love to hear God included in the picture. I've been with my husband for twenty years, but we've only been married for seven, after our seventh child was born. When we finally committed ourselves before God, that's when we really fell in true love. We thought we loved each other before, but something magical took place at the altar. When we were prayed over, there was electricity, and we both felt it. We have a bond now that wasn't there before, it's like we're truly one. I also really love how old fashion you are, and unapologetically too! I have become the same way, and it's a beautiful thing.

I love how Guido acknowledges God when asked about wanting children. I agree with both your attitude and Guido's on dating, courtship, marriage, and family. So refreshing to hear a couple who value tradition and commitment. I am so happy for you both and pray for an abundantly blessed life together. I am looking forward to watching more of your lovely videos!

His last statement brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful thing to say to your future wife. You must save this video for your children to view. So happy for you both!!

@normapajares7995

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree SAVE THE VIDEO. Hugs and love

Chivalry is a lost gesture many men have given up, so sad but I’m glad that Guido shows it to you and isn’t afraid to do it.

@Mayesyy

3 жыл бұрын

A lot of entitled women have given less reason to be chivalrous.

Guido is so mature, so masculine, brave yet gentle and sensible. This is what a gentleman should look like. Very intelligent and charming man who knows how to recognize a high value woman when he sees one. He gives and receives respect. And Kylie, you are a classic beautiful feminine woman that’s why you attracted a wholesome masculine man. Never pay attention to the latest flavor of feminism that is very destructive for women, despite what they say. You do very well in cooking and caring for your home, your man and your family while still being such a creative person who is a star on what you do!! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFULLY ELEGANTLY on the right place. Just follow your heart and instinct. “My mother loves you and my father who is grumpy, he cheers up when he sees you.” , that’s emotional intelligence right there! 💛 May God keep blessing this wonderful relationship because it was made in Heaven.

@zinebjalal1628

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with every word you said!

@50mostromantic35

2 жыл бұрын

I respectfully disagree

@snaubdca7yebf

2 жыл бұрын

Feminism in its latest guises, antifa, modernism, the culture wars, all such enemies of women.

@cosettapessa6417

Жыл бұрын

@@snaubdca7yebf true

When he said “If God wants and give us this grace” regarding kids ❤️🙏🏼that was so beautiful! I hope God blesses you

Love it when you said the 90 year old man asked Guido what is your intentions with this signorina? Look i'd like to marry her but let's just work on the first date! Perfect answer "that's it"!

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

🙌🏻🤩

Two incredibly highly aware, emotionally intelligent people, kind people!! Long life and health to you and your family!!!

Love is a very difficult subject to speak about so openly. Thank you Kylie for being so honest about your past and present love with no regrets, and as for Guido, never have I heard a man discuss his love and the subject of love so openly and honest. Having lived in Italy for 7 years I totally understand .

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Martin. Yes, I think it’s very difficult these days for men to find examples of how to express masculinity and vulnerability so thank you for writing this.

My mother as always told me, Things happen when they're supposed to". You never find what you need when you're for it. Love finds you, when you least expect it.

“Give them the gift of a mother like you” Wow!!! And I thought you were the poet with your dreamy inspiring videos. You’ve got competition.

That has to be the most beautiful, poignant, and meaningful Q&A session I have ever seen/heard. Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable in your discussion and answers, to help others with their romantic relationship questions.

You are both such darlings! My husband is an Italian Frenchman....Italian mother, French father...he lived the first 12 years of his life in France, and yes he has many wonderful characteristics as Guido. After meeting him through mutual friends on his side, we finally decided to go on a date with a few of my friends. And imagine that one of my good friends had been friends with him since college! Never knew! And that spark!! Oh yes Kylie! When we kissed, like the French do, on the cheeks, to say goodbye.....we both felt a huge spark! We’ve been married for 42 years! And you are so right about mutual respect and curtesy. So important in a long lasting marriage. We’ve had a major down in our marriage, but I think it was through respect and kindness that we were able to stay together. Wishing you much love and happiness from Canada!

My boyfriend is Italian and also always walks on the side where the cars are, always always putting me first :) this was so lovely and sweet

@suesummers8813

3 жыл бұрын

My husband does that too...

@theelizabethan1

3 жыл бұрын

It astonishes me that so many males do not seem to understand the reasoning behind this custom/etiquette/practice.

Guido is precious! He is a very lucky man to have such a wonderful partner! Both of you are adorable!!!

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much Meg! 🙏🙏🙏

Florence is a place of divine magic that will always draw you back to it. It feels like a place where destiny unfolds

What all girls should be taught...find a life partner that treats her like a precious ruby and respects her :) You have a very special relationship ♥

@junehitchcock170

3 жыл бұрын

I think it should be be for both boy and girl - both should treat each other as precious jewels. Not one-sided. So both should be taught this about life partners.

@clairelivefreeordie2551

3 жыл бұрын

It sounds as though she's not only very beautiful but smart & travelled the world & had other meaningful relationships before meeting her Mr Right 🤗

@maryannknox7158

15 күн бұрын

Yes so important

The electric shock you both felt was God's touch or presence telling you he is bringing You2 together

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

🌞🌞🌞

@michellesj3962

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!🙏🏻

@thesaint2022

3 жыл бұрын

*Maria Casella* - Yes, you have discerned correctly, for while Kylie has yet to be filled with the Holy Spirit (and which I am praying will happen to both her and Guido), God was nonetheless answering the unspoken prayer of her heart, which was to encounter true love. When God answered Kylie's heart's desire, the Spirit of God confirmed this through the experience they shared when they first touched, for they were (in a manner of speaking) touching their destiny.

@sunshinedayz7032

3 жыл бұрын

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@originalmix2546

3 жыл бұрын

@@thesaint2022 amazing comment :) Now, since by your comment I see, that you are a christian, I want to ask you something ( I am myself, to be perfectly frank, on a fence with my legs on God's side, hence I don't understand many things from Bible, just yet) but I want to ask to you this --> is it truly so, according to the Paul's letters, at least, -- that some people are destined for marriage and that is indeed God's gift and other people can be alone all life, that is their God's given destiny? Is this true or have I mistaken? I am myself pretty comfy on my own, been single for a long time now and got used to it. But at times, I really long for having that god given partner, long for being loved truly and sharing my lifetime with special someone that is just most suited for me and well...only God knows who that is and how to connect us both. I have just stepped in my early 30-ies. no kids either. Should I pray to God to give me love or take my current single and alone position as His will and just let it be even if that is until end of my days? And, risking sounding foolish, but - can extended singleness (and loneliness) be God's personal punishment for me OR maybe a result of a curse? I live in such region, where witchcraft is blooming and mostly women tend to visit magicians and fortune tellers. Sometimes I think, someone has done something to me, since I struggle a lot to establish close relationships, whether those be romantic or even friendships with my peers. I thank you for reading this through.

I’ve been living with my girlfriend for almost a year and just the other day we were talking about the mystical strangeness of living in the same circles in the same city for so long and never crossing paths until the moment was just right for us. It makes you believe in fate, in serendipity 🌸 thank you as always for creating such a romantic, dreamers space online. It’s so rare to find a place so full of joy and romance and optimism about life. Thank you for making work that makes people believe in love and beauty! And most of all congratulations!!!

yes! my boyfriend is italian. and he said to me the very first time: "it's so different, when we touch, it's like electricity!"... and i was so BLOWN AWAY. I felt the same, but would have never put it into words like this. I guess he doesn't remember anymore that he said that, but i will forever. And it's just a sign, that he didn't say it from his head, but from his soul.

Thank you for sharing this lovely story. You are blessed. I married an Italian. He is four years older than me. We were married 15 months after meeting. We had a 4 month engagement. He loves me deeply. He has been the perfect man for me.. He opens the door for me and sits/walks on the outside to protect me. He has written many beautiful notes to me. We have been married for over 20 years and have 4 children.

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

How wonderful! Thank you Tina. It’s so lovely to hear about happy marriages and four children must at times have been quite challenging! 😊

@tmrpeace807

3 жыл бұрын

@@KylieFlavell yes, challenging at times. One of my favorite things is making sure we eat dinner every evening around the table. The conversations are so precious. Another favorite thing is starting family traditions.

@joanneboty4882

3 жыл бұрын

And me! 25 years of marriage this Wednesday for me and my Italian husband, 3 grown up children. Very happy marriage. Long may it continue.

@tmrpeace807

3 жыл бұрын

@@joanneboty4882 ❤ so happy to hear you too.

@lilaclilly198

3 жыл бұрын

Awwwww,!! So beautiful 🤗

oh Kylie and Guido - WOW! Thank you both for being so vulnerable. Wow. You both are going into this marriage eyes wide open. Very emotionally intelligent - both of you! May your beautiful marriage be especially blessed! Thank you for this exquisitely personal video. We love you both!

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Donna, for making me feel supported enough to share things of such an intimate nature. 💙🙏

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

Exquisite - you have found the perfect world to describe it Donna!!! 😍

Funny thing when I was around your age, I used to fall in love fast fairly quickly. But now at 52, I’m right where you are, slow burn fall in love. I don’t fall in love quickly like I used to. I guess pain and heartache taught me a lot. I think carefully about where my headspace is and what I really want and to assess on his intentions with me. Let me tell you, this strategy has helped me weed put the bad men that didn’t have good intentions and now I’m able to narrow down what kind of relationship I really want. I spot bad people much more quicker than when I was in my 20s and from my experience with Divorce. You are lucky now to be at the age and so wise beyond than most young impressionable women your age could do. Guido is a true gentleman and a rare gem that we don’t see very often nowadays. Nothing like the old fashion traditions. I’m here for it and wishing you life time of happiness 🙏🏻

My husband of almost 46 years and I met and married when I was 16, and he was 20. When it’s right, it’s right.

Your "meeting" story is lovely ...and yes, I agree...certain parts of your life do NOT need to be revealed to all of us....but thanks for sharing.

It's clear that both Kylie and Guido come from loving two-parent households. This is also what they will pass down to their children. They will set a fantastic example and continue the family tradition. The Great Adventure begins! God bless and well-done! 💘

@andromedamaxima1543

3 жыл бұрын

YES!! beautiful wise words! i can already imagine their beautiful kids!! how cheerful and happy!!! that brightness that Guido spotted on Kylie, will be multiplied hundred fold! Can we imagine?! That’s the kind of brightness that lights the world! 💛

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

🙌🏻😍

Love this. 🥰 ' he s always thinking about my welfare' . Sweet man.Guido so eloquently explains his experience/feelings Kylie. May your future together be gentle and wonderful🤗

Guido is the luckiest man on earth. Much love to both of you.

I love Guido’s personal reflection on the type of mother he would give his future children. So beautiful and very emotionally intelligent to consider such things when choosing the person you will share your life and build a family with. Congratulations to you both.

I am almost 30, and one year ago I broke up with the man I thought I was going to marry and have family with because I found out he cheated. I was super broken..still somehow putting my pieces together and as your friends kind of given up on love - especially with the context that we live in. Listening to your story (together with some deep inner work the past year haha) light up this small spark in my heart that maybe, maybe, one day, somewhere he will be exactly there for me and I will be exactly there him. I wish you both all the best!! Health, love, happiness and wonderful kids!! And thank you for lifting us higher during our week with your videos!!

@clairelivefreeordie2551

3 жыл бұрын

Beautifully summed up. Wishing you the same happiness ⚘

This is the most beautiful, tender, honest, authentic love story ever....it's so incredibly heartwarming. Kylie and Guido may your relationship just keeping growing and may your marriage be Blessed beyond what you could ever imagine.

As a mom of adult children, I appreciate you saying what you have about dating and being wise in your choices. I’m very happy for the both of you! Can’t wait to see your little ones running about the farm!

Guido is so charming and he has great hair😂😂

I felt that spark ✨ 14 years ago when I kissed the love of my life for the first time. We were dating secretly due to cultural restrictions. Now we have been married for 9 years and have 2 beautiful daughters. Love wins if you have faith and fought for it. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@slkonnaris8477

3 жыл бұрын

That’s wonderful!! I’m happy you had the courage and trust to follow your inner knowing -regardless of cultural restrictions🥰

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

YOU ARE BOTH INCREDIBLE EXAMPLES OF ELOQUANCE AND GRACE. THANK YOU FOR SHARING !!!

Oh my gosh, when he called you "sparkly and shiny" that just warmed my heart! Thank you for sharing this rather personal video, I just smiled all the way through. :)

As someone who is marrying for the first time, at 52, I can say to all those younger people out there to keep working on yourself and all that you wish to offer to others. There is superficial attraction and then there is that true compatibility that can take many years to manifest in front of you. My fiance is a widower and will be 61 when we marry. We discovered so many things in common but we would never have got together when we were younger because our life paths were on quite different tracks. I am so happy to be with my fiance and I can tell you that every day of happiness when you are older is a complete gift. You all have so much to look forward to; stay positive.

@quicksilver2446

3 жыл бұрын

Its true, NEVER give up on finding love, at any age !!!

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

That is so sweet 😍 Thank you for sharing this 🤗☀️✨

@TD-vb6il

2 жыл бұрын

So happy for you that you've found this gift of love and companionship. Many happy blessings! Xx

I remember so vividly going on my first date with my husband and when he reached for my hand at the end of the date feeling the “electric shock” it was something I had never felt before and there was no other way to describe it. Wishing you both much love and happiness

@intentionalliving7326

3 жыл бұрын

🤩

I cannot tell you how moved I am to hear Guido say the best gift he could give his future children would be you as their mother! Thank you both for sharing your hearts and your joy!

That’s pretty much one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever heard: « If I want to give a gift to my future children, it would be giving them a mother like you. » I wish you both a long, happy, loving life together. You both deserve it.

I would like to add one last thing, as a 45-year-old man, I must admit, my emotions got the better of me during the last couple of minutes of Guido's monologue. Thank you Guido and Kylie. My sincerest best wishes to both of you and your families.

Kylie, My respect for you has grown immensely! I respect you so much for taking a decision like this so serious. Keeping your dating life personal is so understandable, I can only imagine how hard it is to know what to share online and what you should keep private. You have such a clear head and you are such a role model for me and many others. I have so much admiration for you. I hope you are smiling :) Much love from California!! 💕💕

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

This is so sweet of you, Bella-mae! 🌷🌷🌷🌷

Being old-fashioned is fabulous. I am too!

Seeing and hearing Guido talk about you is amazing. Nice to see a fellow man speak openly. Hold her forever my friend. I’ve been married to my beautiful wife for 23 years. I’m holding her forever.

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

😊😊😊😊😊😊

Man the hungry hunter knows that when a man recognizes what he’s been watching for he needs to be the ardent pursuit. It is in fact elemental and visceral. So he was quite serious from the get-go. I understand this. It is a good thing and actually very romantic.

That last line...”The best gift I could give my children is giving them a mother like you”. 👌🏽. I can’t think of a better and more heart warming compliment 🥲🥰. Thank you for this glimpse into your beautiful love 💝

Isn’t it great that all these people have watched 36 minutes of your story, in just a few seconds. Amazing.

As a married woman for 42 years I know there will definitely be many sunny days and some rainy ones but mutual respect will be the glue that holds and cements the love. Clearly you are both already committed to cherish and respect each other. Wishing you a glorious life together❤️

I actually felt my heart swell with his last comment, that came from such a beautiful place. I wish everyone could experience this type of love. So happy for you two.

My first love was a good and very beautiful Catholic boy, and he did those things; walking on the outside of the pavement, giving me his coat if it was cold. These little things are immense and tell a story of who that person is. Thanks for sharing your beautiful story ❤️

I thought you two would marry simply because you both have the same vibration. Both of you have open hearts, optimism, and gentle natures. We can feel the similarity between you.

Bravo! Brava! The best love story of the decade. Compliments especially to Guido for being so open about his feelings. Calling you a gift to his future children is profound. God's blessings on your marriage.

The "best gift I can give my future children is a mother like you"...wishing you both a healthy, happy, prosperous life full of love and consideration for each other. ❤️

This sort of video typically makes me cry, because it honestly talks about things I need to actively understand and learn as an autistic woman - someone who stryggles with expressing my emotions, as well as interacting with people (long term experience with rejection and bullying/harrassement from others, difficulty to connect and maintain connections, masking constantly to try and fit in, bad events that left heavy scars with their own set of trauma on top... With the perk of being high functional, which means I've always been aware something was off without fully understanding why, which is very distressing and caused long term, sever social anxiety and depression). Despite my parents having lived together for decades, I also didn't exactly have the most nurturing childhood, because I went through years of emotional abuse and neglect, on top of growing up as an undiagnosed autistic person who basically had to master the subtle art of survival if I didn't want to drown. All of that started being adressed when I pushed for the autism diagnosis at 24, got it at 25 and was lucky enough to find a therapist specialised in autism not far from home (a rarity in France, even in the Parisian region). This very therapist is the first person who aknowledged my background of abuse and took it into account during our appointments (a nice change from constantly falling through the cracks and being failed by everybody around me while believing I was the one failing others), she helped me tremendously for the last 4 years. Because of that background, people are still difficult to handle for me, and for now, at 28, my goal is mostly to finally free myself from my family's clutches, set strict boundaries and start living my own life. In a way, I'm doing now what people tend to do when they're 14yo, which is quite weird. I also long for a proper relationship, something similar to what you and Guido have (hello, fellow old souls), but I'll have to overcome my fear and distrust, and the other may need to have as much patience with me as they'd have with an angry-but-really-scared stray cat. There's still this fear that I'll either attract someone unpleasant who sees through the cracks and leads me to a new cycle of abuse and dehumanistion, or that I'll be deemed "not enough" despite my best efforts. So seeing this video made me cry, because it explains things, it explains what I need to look for, and how to determine what I need vs what I want in a person. I'll be looking forward to the next part of that wonderful Q&A!

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, what an incredible journey you’re on. It seems like you have wonderful self-awareness and initiative and clarity. I wish you all the best in your pursuit of trust. I made a video a few years ago here on this channel called Softness and Light: How To Trust Again. Maybe it might resonate with you. Some people we can open to can seem like one step forward and unfortunately leave us three steps backward but there are so many gentle souls out there - I know because I read thousands of emails from them from around the world - and if you can pick yourself up each time and find the courage to give someone new a chance, I believe eventually you will find that person who will probably fall in love with the very fact that you have mastered how to deal with autism. And when you find that person who loves you for the battles you’re fought, it is like being able to just take your hands off the steering wheel you’ve been gripping onto so tightly all your life and let someone drive a little of the way and enjoy being a passenger in safe hands. I wish this for you with all my heart. 😊

@DennisNerinckx

3 жыл бұрын

For what it's worth, I want to say that I have had similar experiences like you. Also a late autism diagnosis and a whole journey of mental health problems. From what you wrote, I think you are truly on the right road to happiness. Steadily keep working at those ghosts from the past. It will learn you to stay more and more true to yourself. It still may take some time for a good relationship to arrive. That might feel unjust or hopeless. But keep the focus on yourself. Play open card with people about who you are, even if you fear they will reject you for it. Your work will pay off. Your life will get better. The fact that you are watching these videos is proof that you still have beauty in you. In time, it will flourish over the anger and distrust. I wish you lots of courage and all the best!

I had this love with my recently deceased husband. We were from opposite sides of the planet , however we were culturally intellectually and passionately in sync!! You guys look like a perfect match. All the very best' Slangevar '(Scottish Gaelic cheers)

You are both made from the same clay, cut from the same cloth. No surprise there was an Eletric reaction when the non physical became physical for the first time. LOVE IS REAL! And it’s a gift to witness your story unfold. Thanks for sharing! We are honored 🙏🏼💕

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

So kind!!! Thank you Raphaela! 🙏💙💙💙💙💙💙

Kylie~ I’ve gone to the Oscar Nominations Short films every year for many years now, mostly I go to the animated shorts (means using cartoon , Pixar or claymation ) but have seen the Live Action (just means using real people) many times. I can Honestly say, seriously you have what it takes to enter and then some. You’re the type of cinematic creator that the Oscar shorts are looking for~ please check it out and try it. I’m so happy for you Sweetie, you’ve had to courage to live your dreams and show others how to too. Much love from America❤️❤️

@magneticgoddess1116

3 жыл бұрын

Btw? I am more than happy to say that when the gates clear and Americans are let into Italy, I’m ready to stay in your darling renovated section of the home. I don’t even have to wonder will it feel magical, clean or be romantic (lol even if I’m alone still by then😊) I know it will. So all you gotta do is say the word, I’ll book my flight, book my time there, and be off! I don’t know how I will get to your location from the Firenze airport but I’m sure it can be figured out😁❤️

“ you were sparkling and shining…”. Sign.

Love this and you both! He’s so handsome and looks like Leo DiCaprio a little. You are such a gem

Congratulations to you both! It's heartwarming to hear the stories about how two people fell in love. It gives me hope, even at 52, that I may still find love. I'm moving to Florence in October. So maybe there could be someone out there for me in my new country. I guess I do have a bit of hope left. ❤🇮🇹

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

That’s wonderful to hear! Wishing you beauty and good fortune and romance in this exciting new chapter! ♥️

I understand about the electricity. My husband I and I met at a party and when we saw each other it was like a magnet , pulling us towards each other, the electricity between us was strong when we looked at each other. We have been happily married for 37 years, with 2 wonderful grown boys. Ti aguro un futuro di felicita!

I love you guys! Thank you for this video!

The electric shock it’s real. We felt it the day we met. It was love at first sight. We have been together for 30 yrs, married for 26, with 3 kids. Guido is a catch! He knows your value and shows it. Congratulations!

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!

Guido made me cry, such a sweet and profound sentiment that you would be the best present he could ever give his future children 🥰 He’s a keeper!!!

@gs032009

3 жыл бұрын

He wasn't truly honest, check his body language. Or about his mother, check 24'30'''''.

@TheBTG88

3 жыл бұрын

@@gs032009 - Trying to be a fly in the ointment is not an aspirational life goal.

Love your love story. You said so many things well about relationships that resonate well. One great saying about words: “Words are like toothpaste, you can’t put it back in the tube”!!! 😊

That was so lovely. Thank you. 😊

Kylie, you are such a beautiful soul and give so much joy to everyone who is fortunate enough to see your videos. I wish you and Guido a lifetime of happiness.

@plonieverkerk3580

3 жыл бұрын

Wauw! Agree

Your story is beautiful ❤️ My husband is from Italy yet spent a summer in the exact neighborhood where I lived in the U.S. when he was a young teenager. We didn’t meet for over 25 years after that, but it always reminds me what a small world it is! Here he was right in my neighborhood, maybe we even saw each other , who knows? Yet he lived in another country. And yet me meet 25 years later and get married ❤️

Love love the story! Thank you for sharing❤️

What God has joined together let no One separate.. clearly a match made in heaven..God bless you both

First off... Congratulations to you both!! Such a beautiful couple. Next, I know what you mean about a place drawing you back. I used to go to a particular part of Dublin, business meetings would bring me there. It was near the ocean. I used to feel such calm, but at the same time longing. I would go back to the centre of the city where I lived & the feeling would disappear. But when I would return to that same place maybe a week or so later, my heart would long so much & at the same time I'd feel such peace. In November of this year I will be 19 years together with the love of my life. That place I spoke about, that feeling of longing but at the same time peace. Turns out, my forever love lived a half mile up the road from where I use to stand & think to myself, what is that feeling? ❤️❤️✌️ Your channel is amazing!!! Again Congratulations to you both.

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Rob and congratulations - 19 years is a wonderful achievement together. It’s lovely to know you understand this idea of looping back to a destination. Sometimes I feel there’s a giant planet and so many new places to see but other times I’ve felt that if you’re lucky enough to experience a town or a country that gives that sense of serenity you describe, then life’s short and one should get back to wherever the soul resonates most deeply.

I totally had that with my husband I met him when I was 16 and he Was 27 however we did not start to have a relationship until 16 years later but I knew his was the one all my life

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Wow! How incredible Amy.

This was so beautiful💕

that was beautiful Kylie thanks for sharing!

Guido is so precious, he made me laugh at the response to “who said I love you first?” 😂 thanks for sharing!

I am so very happy for you Kylie and Guido because it is clear to me after listening to you both in this video, that God has given each of you the desires of your heart, way above and beyond all you could imagine. That is who our Father is, if we only believe. May every blessing be yours forever. Sending love and hugs from Lunigiana, Tuscany.

So excited for this video!!

I loved Kylie dialogue towards the end about men going for therapy...and them having to work on themselves to become better so they can treat their loved ones better.

My mother use to say you have to kiss a few frogs before your prince arrives❤️! Just love your story and the best wishes for a beautiful future!

48 years ago l meet my husband at a party...we started a conversation and within 20 minutes l knew he was going to change my life. I was 18 and he was 19. We married within the year and just had our 47th wedding anniversary. We have two awesome children, 1 grandchild and another on the way. I knew he would be the loving father and grandfather to our future family. I still ...even to this day....feel so lucky that he is my sweetheart.

Beautiful! Thank You, Kylie.

Lovely, Kylie! Thank you for sharing your love for each other with us. Ok Guido, your last sentence, “wanted to give a present to my children ... “. Oh my goodness, so beautiful that brought tears to my eyes. I’m so happy for your happiness and True Love! 🤗❤️

I could listen to Guido and You talk /share for hours...... a word that comes to mind when He is attempting to describe your essence is Effervescent❣ Guido is a Gracious Man who has met his SOULMATE..... sounds very cliche but these relationships do exist. Thank you for Sharing..... Part 2, Yes!

@KylieFlavell

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! 😘😘😘

Beautiful, thank you!

Just watched this. Made my day! Bravo❤️

I am so happy for you and Guido. What a beautiful relationship you two have, one that we all strive to have. I wish you many, many years of happiness, love, health, and joy. I think the most beautiful characteristics about you are how pure your heart is, and how talented you are.

Wow, I really like how this video didn't turn out to be a typically cheesy video about your lovestory (mean it in the best possible way). There was so much to take away from your collective perspective on Love, Commitment & Marriage. This also goes on to show how well you guys balance out passionate romance & practicality in fair proportion. I just love you guys 💚 Stay blessed.

@andreiafernandes4422

3 жыл бұрын

I agree!

This is so beautiful and inspiring!💗💕

Beautiful. Thank you for explaining true love in the making!