I see his flaws yet obsess over him

@fasilaahh_

5 ай бұрын

How about now? R u over him?

@Akarsh-

3 ай бұрын

Me as well. Its like 'okay, that's not a big issue, I can adjust with her' thoughts which neglect any flaws. But would love to know your current status. Hope you're doing good.

@alexinivai08

2 ай бұрын

If you do then you know that there are more people like him that will like you :)

@Sunflower_that_loves_you

Ай бұрын

Same😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭help me lord

@talktalk2412

Ай бұрын

me too!

By realizing you can not rely on one specific individual for your happiness if you are not happy with yourself first

"They fart and poop as well", I didn't see that one coming! 😂 But it's so true! ❤️

@_am.prince

9 ай бұрын

Fr 😂

@Quack_attack_

9 ай бұрын

Unless they're like the North Korean leader in the interview and doesn't have a butthole cuz they have no use for 1 😂

@noelalexis3239

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@schonstudio

3 ай бұрын

that helps 😂😂😂

@lindamoi5445

Ай бұрын

Why should that be a flaw? 😄

This makes so much sense right now. Hopefully my next couple of days won’t be as horrible as today after hearing these as all of these three things rings true for me. The person I am obsessing over isn’t bad but I am becoming miserable more and more and it feels terrible.

@fathimaraeesah6232

4 ай бұрын

I feel u

@merylo4360

2 ай бұрын

Hi! Me too😢!!! How are you doing now?😊

I see them as completely flawed and it makes me more attracted to them

Sometimes it's not about obsess over something that u don't have..... But it's about naturally drawn to Someone, like them even after knwing their flaws.

At the moment i was obssesed with this girl and i cant help my self thinking about her .. i know to myself that i cannot love her or even respect her .. maybe some of you know what im talking about .. thats why i wonder why im so obsessed with her even in the first place she doesnt deserve my love and loyalty specially my respect ..hope this will help you too

@abhishektiwari-dd6uv

2 ай бұрын

Same here but still love her don't know why!!!!

@godstallchild7964

12 күн бұрын

@@abhishektiwari-dd6uvit’s hard to

Trauma touch and qualities of the person you are obsessing are interesting points, but even knowing those won't cure limerence ,it is really stubborn thing.

your talks always make sense

straightforward points ideas. Thank you

correct because that person has all the bad traits i am afraid to be but i find brave to be and have. so true that's he is my shadow

Great information. Thank you!

IF YOURE THINKING THAT YOURE NOT HELPING US YOURE ACTUALLYYY HELPINGG MEE ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ THANKKK YOUUU VERY MUCHHH ❤ I just listened the podcast and it was amazing🌷 thank youuuu

Very good talk. 😎

This video is an eye opener , i really appreciate ❤ the genuine valid points to be looked after if we ever get trap into that scenario. Really helpful and so much grateful to hear this. 😅 thank you 🙏

I’m not sure this video tells you how to stop obsessing over someone, but, by my experience, she is spot on about the reasons for the obsession. What if you can’t get close enough to see the person’s flaws? I wish I could help by giving some advice myself, but I haven’t figured it out yet.

@kris2455

22 күн бұрын

If you know your reason, you have the solution. Obsession is a symptom, an important information about yourself and a chance to change. What to change depends on the reason of the obsession. If you put the person above everybody else, you need to focus on their imperfections. This will help you, to see them as a human they really are and stop obsessing If it's shadow work, you need to find out what is missing in your life and what this person represents for you and find it on your own. If it's trauma from childhood, you need to work on self love and probably go to therapy. If it's a combination you need an approach that tackels it all, see them as a human not a God, understand what is it that you admire and give it to yourself, try to love yourself and feel that you are worthy of love, a beautiful love from someone else then this person who triggers you so much. I think it was very helpful....more than anything I have every heard in the last 30 years that I suffer from this kind of attachments over and over again

You saved my life right now

please make a podcast episode on this topic🙏🏼

Thanks for this video Francesca

It’s the sex for me - no one has even come close to it. How do you stop obsessing over someone because they’re so amazing in bed? That’s what’s hard - you’ll bypass all their flaws because their love making is unmatched!!!

@amardaniell

4 ай бұрын

Exactly this 😭

@melodyal3357

3 ай бұрын

And especially when there is chemistry and connection and it’s like spiritual. Both ways. Even thou they are bad for you, you might think or the relationship isn’t working, you’d still choose this person over someone nice and better but not that deep connection and no wild chemistry, right🙌

@alexandranun

Ай бұрын

delusion

Love this thankyou❤

thank you for this

Great video

Thank you i never knew it was like that 😢

Where can I see full video of this podcast?

Makes sense!

What can we do if we need a lot of attention from those people were are obsessed with, but can't get it 😢

Thanks. I hope it will help me.

Yup I found my fathers doppelgänger it touched my trauma I was trying to redue my childhood in hopes it would fix me but I wasn’t aware…

I finally found what's going on in my life

" It's mostly an IMAGINATION "😭 ( And I felt that..... ) 08/06/2024

I thought I was the only one

I'm a "beautiful, successful" woman but is currently obsessed with a rough, unorganized avoidant 😂 He was into me at first and then left. Just left haha i think it's my pride taking over, I cant handle being rejected this way, so I became obsessed in winning him back, for what? He's no good for me. 😅

@Seven11seven7

Ай бұрын

How are you now

@FrefireLostKitty402

27 күн бұрын

I want to get over it too

All this is true but how are these techniques

What if someone just obcesses over any woman they find attractive

@waitin-4-a-m8

9 ай бұрын

Perhaps they feel like their options are limited, maybe if they themselves feel their lives aren't fulfilling. Having meaning & purpose, and taking care of oneself-both internally & healthwise-makes you more likely to believe that your options are abundant and you don't necessarily to chase anyone in particular if you yourself are the prize. Being in a mindset of scarcity means you'd be more likely to cling onto people

At 3:03, you said you can get cuddles from anyone. False. Maybe for a beautiful woman like you, but it's not that easy for a normal looking person like myself.