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  • @tcshy1903
    @tcshy1903Ай бұрын

    I got a second job and paid off $25,000 of debt and a car loan of $16,000. It took me 3 years. It sucked but it's the only way out.

  • @christopherhernandez3909

    @christopherhernandez3909

    Ай бұрын

    Woot woot! Proud of you! 👏 🎉

  • @BK-tp6jf

    @BK-tp6jf

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you I needed that motivation

  • @joanbynum4751

    @joanbynum4751

    Ай бұрын

    Thats awesome. I really wish I could get a second job. I’m not a spring chicken and work from home but I am trying to find something that will give some extra funds -So happy for YOU!!!!

  • @ericar.6370

    @ericar.6370

    Ай бұрын

    @@joanbynum4751try teaching English online or tutoring.

  • @user-lp5tn9so6s

    @user-lp5tn9so6s

    Ай бұрын

    Well done congrats

  • @roadrunner9622
    @roadrunner9622Ай бұрын

    Every month our budget was thrown off by some surprise $400 bill. First it was a car repair, then kids' camp, then tuition, then furnace breakdown, then traffic ticket... Finally we accepted that there is ALWAYS going to be some $400 nuisance, and we included that in our monthly budget.

  • @DarthFurie

    @DarthFurie

    Ай бұрын

    This is so smart! I need to have something like this in my budget, too

  • @ykook7000

    @ykook7000

    Ай бұрын

    How is a traffic ticket a surprise or tuition or kids camp ...dont get a traffic ticket in first place and you know you have kids stuff to pay for none of that is a surprise but nice try

  • @poephila

    @poephila

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @grantv2313

    @grantv2313

    Ай бұрын

    This is exactly it and most aren’t making the money to cover this extra

  • @parker1981xxx

    @parker1981xxx

    Ай бұрын

    And the Nobel price goes to…

  • @saintsandsin3885
    @saintsandsin3885Ай бұрын

    Dave danced around the advice this lady needed to hear. It's called sacrifice. If you want to win at finances you need to sacrifice in the short term to win in the long term.

  • @rolandalbert680

    @rolandalbert680

    Ай бұрын

    Well said and it's simple but people can't get over their emotions, and I'm guilty of it as well. Controlling your emotions, and wants vs needs is a big part of controlling finances, and we are not taught that.

  • @saintsandsin3885

    @saintsandsin3885

    Ай бұрын

    @@rolandalbert680 Don't feel bad, I went to the school of dumb decisions also.

  • @donaldlyons17

    @donaldlyons17

    Ай бұрын

    Sacrifice does not work when the numbers don't add up!!! No they might have an income issue not a give up a little for long term problem. WTF long term could be anything in terms of outcome because there are more factors in the long term!!!!

  • @saintsandsin3885

    @saintsandsin3885

    Ай бұрын

    @@donaldlyons17 You've got it all figured out my good man, go forth and conquer!

  • @SouthAfricaMintcompany
    @SouthAfricaMintcompanyАй бұрын

    Hit 340k today. Thank you for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started with 14k in

  • @ImportAgentBenardo

    @ImportAgentBenardo

    Ай бұрын

    Wow that's awesome

  • @ImportAgentBenardo

    @ImportAgentBenardo

    Ай бұрын

    But this most be made by Sophia

  • @josirismeldazu

    @josirismeldazu

    Ай бұрын

    Wow Mrs Sophia everywhere

  • @FirstnationalBank-om4qc

    @FirstnationalBank-om4qc

    Ай бұрын

    To obtain financial freedom, one must either be a business owner, an investor or both, generating passive income particullarly on a weekly or monthly basis. That's the key to living financially stable....

  • @CapitecBank-nh8ve

    @CapitecBank-nh8ve

    Ай бұрын

    😍😍😍Wow that's awesome news

  • @MiahVega
    @MiahVegaАй бұрын

    Paycheck to paycheck? We out here living on oatmeal to oatmeal 💀

  • @xidiabolical4493

    @xidiabolical4493

    Ай бұрын

    😂😂💯💯

  • @joanbynum4751

    @joanbynum4751

    Ай бұрын

    This will definitely change for me-I wont be living paycheck to paycheck- but I have a problem with setting a realistic budget and sticking to it… and I always miss something.

  • @electricred91

    @electricred91

    Ай бұрын

    Lmfao 😅😅😅

  • @littlebob1261

    @littlebob1261

    Ай бұрын

    You need a real job then, holy moly

  • @prettybrownbrown4843

    @prettybrownbrown4843

    Ай бұрын

    No fr 😂😂

  • @reedera4
    @reedera4Ай бұрын

    When I was new at budgeting, I pretended the money wasn't mine (which it really isn't) & belonged to someone else. It made me a lot more intentional with what I had and how I used it!

  • @SherryEllesson
    @SherryEllessonАй бұрын

    I was a slow learner. It took me more like a full year to hone my budget to where now, I have backups for the backups. I don't have everything I want, but I find I have everything I NEED.

  • @Yup2024
    @Yup2024Ай бұрын

    Got custody of our kids after the divorce because their mom was receiving child support and not caring for them. Condiment sandwiches for the kids but buying boyfriends’ Air Jordan’s. That was 14 years ago. By the grace and mercy of God, they are productive adults now!

  • @MsJoyce31202

    @MsJoyce31202

    Ай бұрын

    👍

  • @juancamilovelasquez6212

    @juancamilovelasquez6212

    Ай бұрын

    Typical women.......wao!

  • @lincolnscott5620
    @lincolnscott5620Ай бұрын

    'do my makeup, eat a big mac, and change lanes' Great analogy about becoming comfortable making a budget and putting it to plan :)

  • @fire12731

    @fire12731

    Ай бұрын

    Dave’s lives are hilarious love him i

  • @fire12731

    @fire12731

    Ай бұрын

    😂

  • @user-lf5bm5tm1q
    @user-lf5bm5tm1qАй бұрын

    This woman got a divorce and within 18 months she was already remarried??? Uh, ok??? This new man has completely ignored that red flag!!!

  • @hasani9110

    @hasani9110

    Ай бұрын

    Right? Like I’m slow walking to my first marriage and she’s rushing into her second?

  • @JustinG9698

    @JustinG9698

    Ай бұрын

    For all we know she’s been with the new guy for 3 years 😂

  • @ykook7000

    @ykook7000

    Ай бұрын

    Plenty of men remarry within months of their wives dying so 18 months after a divorce is literally nothing

  • @Big-Government-Is-The-Problem

    @Big-Government-Is-The-Problem

    Ай бұрын

    @@ykook7000 2 wrongs dont make a right lol... it genuinely blows my mind how often i see adults use that argument.

  • @marty8432

    @marty8432

    Ай бұрын

    She was def having an affair or keeping this guy around to blow up her marriage

  • @aaronalquiza9680
    @aaronalquiza9680Ай бұрын

    Eating out once a week? Damn, we eat out once a quarter. lol

  • @lionheart93

    @lionheart93

    Ай бұрын

    Wow

  • @Tristin471

    @Tristin471

    Ай бұрын

    If I ate out once a quarter, I’d lose 100 pounds lol

  • @Nicolllld

    @Nicolllld

    Ай бұрын

    I’m eating out like 3 times a week , such a bad habit 😅 but I’m not in debt so 😊

  • @lionheart93

    @lionheart93

    Ай бұрын

    @@Nicolllld how much do u spend per meal?

  • @MikeyPaper

    @MikeyPaper

    Ай бұрын

    once a quarter? you live such a boring life....

  • @bekahcourier1205
    @bekahcourier1205Ай бұрын

    "...We're in the crockpot business..." 😂 I do love a crockpot meal!

  • @MrAnarchris
    @MrAnarchrisАй бұрын

    They go out to eat 1:20 once a week! I live paycheck to paycheck, I go out to eat once a year.

  • @muniondalenewyurk6777

    @muniondalenewyurk6777

    Ай бұрын

    👏🏾👏🏾🎯

  • @emmanuelzanders1746

    @emmanuelzanders1746

    Ай бұрын

    You deserve better . Give yourself a little life to live

  • @TheDowntownHermit-xj6rq

    @TheDowntownHermit-xj6rq

    Ай бұрын

    I don't go out to eat at all. I got tired of the disappointment.

  • @marknewton6984

    @marknewton6984

    Ай бұрын

    Yes. Restaurants are creepy.​@@TheDowntownHermit-xj6rq

  • @Sizukun1
    @Sizukun1Ай бұрын

    I mind boggling how many people can get to adulthood and cannot budget, and have little to no regard to the future for things that are likely to happen like a flat tire.

  • @aolvaar8792

    @aolvaar8792

    Ай бұрын

    In 1980, my first job out of university, $100K by the mid 90's, $250K. You don't have to budget, if you make more money than you can spend. I'm retired now, my pension is more than I can spend.

  • @Aki_Lesbrinco

    @Aki_Lesbrinco

    Ай бұрын

    My wife and I don't really sit down and budget. All we do is use logic and self control. We spend way less than what we make and move money to savings, investment and retirement before we spend on wants. It's not rocket science.

  • @aolvaar8792

    @aolvaar8792

    Ай бұрын

    @@Aki_Lesbrinco An emergency visit to an out-of-network hospital>> $35K Bill after insurance. I went on a payment plan $700/wk

  • @mhodge0890

    @mhodge0890

    Ай бұрын

    A 100k today compared to the 80’s is soo different. Well good for you, you get to life the life 80% can’t

  • @AlexKaehler-qc8kd

    @AlexKaehler-qc8kd

    Ай бұрын

    Mind boggling? Really? The government doesn't do it and it bails out failing companies either directly or lets them go over to places like China and get into joint ventures with their government-owned firms, of which there are hundreds of thousands

  • @Navak_
    @Navak_Ай бұрын

    dave does an excellent job of calling out people's BS. i am impressed

  • @sw6155
    @sw6155Ай бұрын

    I like this Dave better than angry Dave! Never trigger angry Dave! 😅😅😅

  • @user-pb4ru6qg4e

    @user-pb4ru6qg4e

    Ай бұрын

    Hahaha angry Dave needs to be unleashed once in a while 😂😂

  • @deedeewinfrey3181
    @deedeewinfrey3181Ай бұрын

    People can't possibly budget when groceries, gas, and everything else are going up in price daily. My groceries cost more than my mortgage. I've started grocery shopping only twice a month instead of weekly. My cupboard is almost empty, and we dont waste anything. I've sacrificed my meals so others can eat. This economy sucks for the working class.

  • @KENTUCKYUSA1

    @KENTUCKYUSA1

    Ай бұрын

    I hear you! It sucks for anyone who is not in the top 10%. The middle class is being wiped out as the wealthy get richer.

  • @swannyriver75

    @swannyriver75

    Ай бұрын

    It ain't easy 😕

  • @donaldlyons17

    @donaldlyons17

    Ай бұрын

    KZreadrs tend to try to catch flies with honey not tell the truth and then try to catch them with vinigar..... I might tell the truth but lets be real too little money equals no or few options!!!

  • @lot2196
    @lot2196Ай бұрын

    Custody battle just "popped up"? Her words.

  • @FrankS111

    @FrankS111

    Ай бұрын

    She thought she was going to be able to leave with the cash, prizes, and children and didn’t anticipate her ex having a say in things because society tells modern women that it’s misogyny if they don’t get everything they want.

  • @kbanghart

    @kbanghart

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@FrankS111what society is telling women that? Society is not telling my wife or daughter that.

  • @Chet_24

    @Chet_24

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@kbanghart You're not paying attention if you believe that

  • @FrankS111

    @FrankS111

    Ай бұрын

    @@kbanghart you’re either oblivious or stupid. Which is it?

  • @Excalibur2

    @Excalibur2

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@kbanghartthey sure are. In schools, they are told that they're smarter and just as capable as men, that they can be mothers and have a CEO job, a full career with no sacrifices.

  • @Lindagreg442
    @Lindagreg442Ай бұрын

    I've been making a lot of losses trying to make a profitable trade. I thought trading on a demo account is just like trading the real market. Can anyone help me out or at least advice me on what to do?.

  • @Stanly962

    @Stanly962

    Ай бұрын

    I will advice you stop trading on your own if you keep losing, if you can, then get a professional to trade for you, I think that way your assets are more secured.

  • @Davidconnor-lk1km

    @Davidconnor-lk1km

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you Lord Jesus for the gift of life and blessings to me and my family $14, 120.47 weekly profit Our lord Jesus have lifted up my Life!!! A. V

  • @eopodotolana

    @eopodotolana

    Ай бұрын

    I'm favoured financially, Thank you Jesus $32,000 weekly profit regardless of how bad it gets on the economy.

  • @gimptdxwdmilo

    @gimptdxwdmilo

    Ай бұрын

    How ..? Am a newbie in crypto investment, please can you guide me through on how you made profit?

  • @GangaGowri-mq9gc

    @GangaGowri-mq9gc

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks to Mrs Deborah Davis.

  • @adamdouglas9888
    @adamdouglas9888Ай бұрын

    I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.

  • @Melbn-di6mi

    @Melbn-di6mi

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for the advice! I'm new to financial planning and wasn't sure where to start. Any tips on finding a reliable financial adviser or resource to guide beginners?

  • @inicMich-rc5wo

    @inicMich-rc5wo

    Ай бұрын

    As a beginner, it's essential for you to have a mentor that is verified by finra and SEC to keep you accountable. I'm guided by a widely known financial consultant Stacey Macken

  • @findingpath8362

    @findingpath8362

    Ай бұрын

    Wow, I'm supprised Stacey Macken is being mention here. I started off with 5K.... Now with massive portfolio highly recommended...

  • @AIIG-zd5dx

    @AIIG-zd5dx

    Ай бұрын

    This Woman has really change the life of many people from different countries and am a testimony of her trading platform

  • @charles2395

    @charles2395

    Ай бұрын

    I met Stacey Macken at a conference in 2018 and we have been working together ever since.

  • @marlonsierra4411
    @marlonsierra4411Ай бұрын

    Divorced and remarried all within 18 months but somehow the ex is the jerk according to Dave

  • @zybard01

    @zybard01

    Ай бұрын

    I have met people like this with less than 6 months. Met a woman off date site and her husband died 2 weeks earlier --- redflag with skull and cross bones on it

  • @JudePi-jx7yo

    @JudePi-jx7yo

    Ай бұрын

    Gender bias but also it's natural to be sympathetic to the person who is on the phone

  • @blackworldtraveler3711

    @blackworldtraveler3711

    Ай бұрын

    I think she is the bad one. I bet if Dave Ramsey does a more in depth show with people like this he will need to apologize to most of the men and see how financially stupid people truly are instead of all the guessing.

  • @JudePi-jx7yo

    @JudePi-jx7yo

    Ай бұрын

    @@zybard01 That's not always redflag. People move on at different speeds. Rebound can be real

  • @JudePi-jx7yo

    @JudePi-jx7yo

    Ай бұрын

    @@blackworldtraveler3711 Are you saying it's always women's fault?

  • @luquest1848
    @luquest1848Ай бұрын

    Love these reminders. Thanks guys

  • @rustykatt3870
    @rustykatt3870Ай бұрын

    Great understanding on the part of Dave and John, and great advice! Good luck to us all 😊.

  • @michaelschnepel5000
    @michaelschnepel5000Ай бұрын

    Man this is so true I have experienced this myself like anything it takes time ,I love your wisdom

  • @Jbb7272
    @Jbb7272Ай бұрын

    Write down everything that has a due date… tally it up… divide by 4… add $75… what ever that amount is move it to a checking account weekly (or whatever your frequency of pay is) and have auto pay linked there. What is left is what you can spend on whatever you want… including fuel and groceries…

  • @kevinb8881
    @kevinb8881Ай бұрын

    Put on your makeup, eat a Big Mac, and change lanes, I like that one, LOL!!!😂

  • @howler5000
    @howler5000Ай бұрын

    This is definitely true and we went through this exact same thing!

  • @teebone2157
    @teebone2157Ай бұрын

    Change the budget and add a new category for incidentals

  • @chrisk4053

    @chrisk4053

    Ай бұрын

    Great idea. I keep 40 dollars aside each paycheck. Stamps, unexpected parking fee , etc can wreck your careful budget.

  • @JudePi-jx7yo

    @JudePi-jx7yo

    Ай бұрын

    @@chrisk4053 Stamps? Is this 1992? Parking is a choice

  • @FrankS111
    @FrankS111Ай бұрын

    I never knew a man fighting for wanting to have time with his kids makes him a “jerk”. 🤷‍♂️

  • @zybard01

    @zybard01

    Ай бұрын

    Woman always call and say how the x husband is so bad and the custody battle has gone on for 2yrs and $20k+... what bad parent fights for years and tens of thousands?

  • @FrankS111

    @FrankS111

    Ай бұрын

    @@zybard01 not sure if this channel has becoming simping central because Dave is handing over power or they see that most of their viewership is bitter middle aged women.

  • @j.t.1086

    @j.t.1086

    Ай бұрын

    Dave seems to take the side of anyone he's talking to in order to deliver his advice to a receptive listener, at least that's my impression?

  • @FrankS111

    @FrankS111

    Ай бұрын

    @@j.t.1086 no he lays into the husband if on the call and will handle the wife with kid gloves while Delony asks “if she’s safe” even if she’s racked up tens of thousands in debt

  • @kenniebee6083

    @kenniebee6083

    Ай бұрын

    Most men are not equipped to be full time parents! If he wanted to be in his kids lives full time then he should have done a better job at preserving his marriage! Basics!

  • @Enel-nz3yz
    @Enel-nz3yzАй бұрын

    Love Dave's able to look for the epicenter of an issue.

  • @Pharaoh_The_Great
    @Pharaoh_The_GreatАй бұрын

    Dave was cooking 🍳 😂

  • @coltonfritz5451
    @coltonfritz5451Ай бұрын

    I always hear a lot of people saying they got to work two jobs to get by but when I look at how they live their life, they always have a brand new car every couple of years and they’re always going on trips, but they can never afford to make ends meet. It’s like people that don’t have money, try to live like they have money when in reality, they don’t. My dad used to always tell me “your bills come first before anything else”. I don’t think anyone was ever told that line. I think it’s only a very few people that were told that line.

  • @PrecioustheMovie1
    @PrecioustheMovie1Ай бұрын

    Dave you are a wrecking ball for personal growth

  • @raymond_sycamore
    @raymond_sycamoreАй бұрын

    Once a week is more than I go out to eat, and I'm out of debt. Random custody battle issues don't just "pop up," honey.

  • @aolvaar8792

    @aolvaar8792

    Ай бұрын

    They do "pop up", The State has "seized" the children and put them into foster care pending adoption. You get a letter asking if you object and a hearing date.

  • @raymond_sycamore

    @raymond_sycamore

    Ай бұрын

    @@aolvaar8792 wonder who left who? Who got “bored” and wanted out? The woman

  • @aolvaar8792

    @aolvaar8792

    Ай бұрын

    @@raymond_sycamore Your OP comment: Random custody battle issues don't just "pop up," honey. Just disagreeing with you, using firsthand, positive Knowledge. A letter in the Mail. They do "pop-up"

  • @raymond_sycamore

    @raymond_sycamore

    Ай бұрын

    @@aolvaar8792 who caused it? the female

  • @superblump87

    @superblump87

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@raymond_sycamoresee a therapist.

  • @yossefworetaw2243
    @yossefworetaw2243Ай бұрын

    By living the less is more lifestyle it reduce my stress and worries dramatically + I'm able to put way more money on hobbies that makes me happy like go kart/ mini dirt building and racing

  • @randleadventures1912
    @randleadventures1912Ай бұрын

    How does someone have an unforeseen custody battle 😂

  • @RadialPen6262

    @RadialPen6262

    Ай бұрын

    Husband can obtain a lawyer and take her back to family court if he is not happy with the court's ruling first time around.

  • @MsJoyce31202
    @MsJoyce31202Ай бұрын

    You may slip up and miss a payment if you don't have auto draft, but you have to be on top of non auto drafted bills.

  • @tristan2332
    @tristan2332Ай бұрын

    Any "adult" should at minimum have $5000 set aside for an emergency.

  • @aolvaar8792

    @aolvaar8792

    Ай бұрын

    Dave says, "Not while in Debt."

  • @zybard01

    @zybard01

    Ай бұрын

    We know Dave teaches 1k while in debt but I would probably do more like 2-3k while in debt and $12-15k min when not in debt. I am in step 7 and have a 1yr dedicated emergency fund with access to more

  • @J-wu8sc

    @J-wu8sc

    Ай бұрын

    I like to use the rule, have 6 months of income in savings.

  • @aolvaar8792

    @aolvaar8792

    Ай бұрын

    @@J-wu8sc If you had a $10K/mo Pension for as long as the sun shines and grass grows, (Fully Survivorable) You might lighten up.

  • @J-wu8sc

    @J-wu8sc

    Ай бұрын

    @@aolvaar8792 that’d be nice! I’m not retired yet, still have about 30 or so years to go. I hope my 401k and Roth will produce 10k a month when I do though.

  • @chase338
    @chase338Ай бұрын

    How do you divorce someone you had kids with and not expect a custody battle...

  • @14catsand1human
    @14catsand1humanАй бұрын

    Re-married in a year?!

  • @blackworldtraveler3711

    @blackworldtraveler3711

    Ай бұрын

    That went right over Dave’s head.

  • @MrTmenzo

    @MrTmenzo

    Ай бұрын

    Jumped on another sausage rather quickly eh?

  • @Neoquaker1

    @Neoquaker1

    Ай бұрын

    She had the next husband picked out 3 years ago...

  • @RogueTrucker12
    @RogueTrucker12Ай бұрын

    It’s getting so bad out here I’m contemplating reusing corn on the cob………💩💩🤣🤣🤣

  • @diogenespeguero3673
    @diogenespeguero3673Ай бұрын

    Dave be giving heat to them callers. Ruthless but correct at the same time!😂

  • @joechang8696
    @joechang8696Ай бұрын

    don't rule out a mistake in the Excel formula, like excluding a cell from the sum

  • @haley2542
    @haley2542Ай бұрын

    She better add a line item in the budget for the next divorce!

  • @johnlanier3616

    @johnlanier3616

    Ай бұрын

    Lmao

  • @mikekent991

    @mikekent991

    Ай бұрын

    Wow. How rude! Why do u assume they’ll divorce?! They’re just trying to do a budget. SMH.

  • @Brian-dh9lp

    @Brian-dh9lp

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@mikekent991 married a year and a half later after divorce? Good luck. Failed the vows on the first go around.

  • @haley2542

    @haley2542

    Ай бұрын

    @@mikekent991 Based on her own words, it’s pretty clear that the caller lacks responsibility, accountability, maturity, discipline, and all around good judgement. So me assuming her second marriage will fail is statistically a pretty solid assumption.

  • @Renkinjutsushi

    @Renkinjutsushi

    Ай бұрын

    ​​@@Brian-dh9lpyeah. I dislike that Dave called the ex a jerk. Based on the information she gave, she probably cheated on her ex then divorced him to go live with her boyfriend.

  • @azimuthbusinesscenter
    @azimuthbusinesscenterАй бұрын

    a divorced woman not sticking to a plan... who could have thought?

  • @ChrisBoulas
    @ChrisBoulasАй бұрын

    Divorced and re-married within 1.5 years. Guy should have ran, and fast.

  • @reedera4

    @reedera4

    Ай бұрын

    Stop assuming...

  • @MrTmenzo

    @MrTmenzo

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@reedera4is that you caller? 😂

  • @reedera4

    @reedera4

    Ай бұрын

    @@MrTmenzo it's not, and now you know you're an ass for your incessant ASSuming 😂😂😂

  • @shirleysimcoe9356
    @shirleysimcoe9356Ай бұрын

    Why would it be a surprise. Look at the previous monthly statement and see what all came out. NO surprise!! My word. 😮

  • @wonderingthoughts926
    @wonderingthoughts926Ай бұрын

    “We only go out to eat once a week” 😂😂

  • @Renkinjutsushi
    @RenkinjutsushiАй бұрын

    You shouldn't call the ex a jerk. Based on the information available, divorced and remairred in year and had to fight for custody. Balance of probabilities is that she initiated the divorce to move in her her new boyfriend, now husband.

  • @darlenepaul2918

    @darlenepaul2918

    Ай бұрын

    80% of divorces are initiated by women not men.The poor women were bored or needed to "find themselves". They don't care that their children are desperately missing their daddies!!

  • @GhostruckerX

    @GhostruckerX

    25 күн бұрын

    Because Dave Ramsey is a feminist already white knightning

  • @kimberlysoto6864
    @kimberlysoto6864Ай бұрын

    Still having difficulty getting past the divorced and remarried in that short amount of time. 🤔 and all while handling children.

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8Ай бұрын

    Emergencies ae for surprises such as your car blowing up, medical emergency, etc.. Your bills are not an emergency because they should be paid ahead as much as possible. But it's had to get ahead when you are addicted to drugs, alcohol, shopping, and vacations.

  • @ulf5738
    @ulf5738Ай бұрын

    Eating out isn’t an option for broke people. I’m not broke and I eat out once a month at most. Get your head straightened out!

  • @snoer8

    @snoer8

    Ай бұрын

    🎉

  • @JudePi-jx7yo

    @JudePi-jx7yo

    Ай бұрын

    I'm sure they order food and buy lunch several times a week too. Eating out is their date night but $80 for takeout twice a week and $15 for lunch 3 days a week adds up.

  • @natejames2645
    @natejames2645Ай бұрын

    Dave-we dont sell microwaves were in the crockpot business it takes a minute you gotta cook it.

  • @kleindropper
    @kleindropperАй бұрын

    Divorced and married within a year and a half? Affairs much? I give this one less than five years.

  • @reedera4

    @reedera4

    Ай бұрын

    Oh my gosh, stop ASSuming!!

  • @MrTmenzo

    @MrTmenzo

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@reedera4stop ASSuming other people assuming 😂

  • @JustinCase780
    @JustinCase780Ай бұрын

    Boston beans! No more lobster.

  • @MariahRamsey-ts3uz

    @MariahRamsey-ts3uz

    Ай бұрын

    Almost 25 and have yet to try a lobster😂

  • @JustinCase780

    @JustinCase780

    Ай бұрын

    @@MariahRamsey-ts3uz In Boston it's a dating test. *If she orders the lobster every first few dates dump her. *If he doesn't take me for lobster during the first few dates dump him. Seriously, it's amazing in New England. 😋😅

  • @adamseidel9780
    @adamseidel9780Ай бұрын

    This is a fair call, but the more responsible person would go back on their expenses 6-12 months to make sure they catch all their periodic expenses. When semi-annual car insurance hits, when an annual expense hits, etc. Obviously an app can help with that.

  • @johnlanier3616
    @johnlanier3616Ай бұрын

    A year and a half ago I got a divorce and now I'm remarried? Women are allergic to living alone without a man.

  • @JudePi-jx7yo

    @JudePi-jx7yo

    Ай бұрын

    That's not that fast and statistically it's men who do that more.

  • @johnlanier3616

    @johnlanier3616

    Ай бұрын

    @@JudePi-jx7yo You are delusional

  • @PInk77W1

    @PInk77W1

    Ай бұрын

    Me a man. Got divorced 1990. Still single 2024

  • @rachelmaddowswife8713

    @rachelmaddowswife8713

    Ай бұрын

    The other commenter is right, statistically men are much more likely to remarry after divorce or death of a spouse, and when they do, it's typically much faster than their female counterparts. There are a lot of reasons for that, including the fact that these older single men are more desirable on the dating market than older single women, and that men typically rely on a romantic partner more for emotional and domestic support than women do. Women can be happier single if they have deep friendships with other women. Married men are happier, richer, and live longer than single men. Married women are on average unhappier, die sooner, but are richer than single women. There's more upside for men, so they're making a rational choice to couple up again.

  • @JudePi-jx7yo

    @JudePi-jx7yo

    Ай бұрын

    @@rachelmaddowswife8713 interesting. I know young Widows and it's mixed. Those with children re-married fast. Single often never did. Huge life insurance also delays re-marriage.

  • @AlecDaStar
    @AlecDaStarАй бұрын

    Dave “ now you drive a car without thinking” I’m a truck driver n this is correct how everybody drives n gives no f***about other people

  • @Overlord277

    @Overlord277

    Ай бұрын

    I did dispatching for a few years. Thanks for what ya'll do.

  • @joseortega9519

    @joseortega9519

    Ай бұрын

    All that writing and can't include an a "n" d 😒. Don't wear them out now.

  • @davecopp9356
    @davecopp9356Ай бұрын

    Why did she want custory of their children? Also she said, my children instead of saying our children. It sounds like she uses the children as pons to hurt their father. A lot of women do that. It is out of selfishness and vengance. Evil.

  • @Rickyy_f

    @Rickyy_f

    Ай бұрын

    When angry, women are as close to satan as you can get.

  • @Bamapride1985

    @Bamapride1985

    Ай бұрын

    Custody equals monthly child support coming in

  • @aolvaar8792

    @aolvaar8792

    Ай бұрын

    @@Bamapride1985 NO, I don't get ANY money, the mother spends it on METH!

  • @rachelmaddowswife8713

    @rachelmaddowswife8713

    Ай бұрын

    "We" and "our" refers to the current couple. I think she was trying to be clear, if she said "our children", people might assume she's talking about children that she and her current husband had. She's making it clear that the budget she and her current husband are trying to stick to was upended by a surprise on her end that had nothing to do with the current husband. People who are remarried with kids from a previous relationship will frequently say "my husband's kids are joining us for Thanksgiving this year, and then my kids will be at our home for Christmas". Everyone understands what is meant by that, it doesn't mean the children were created asexually and don't have two biological parents like the rest of us. This woman may or may not be evil, we don't know from the info given here, people are reading way too much into this.

  • @terricox3559

    @terricox3559

    Ай бұрын

    A lot of men also use their kids as 'pons' in the 'custory' battle. And a lot of others also walk away totally. But sure let's hate on women

  • @joyceboisvert9167
    @joyceboisvert9167Ай бұрын

    A fool give full vent to his anger but a wise man keep to himself!!!! Finance is a touchy subject to many people it better to deal with it than make matters worst then again silent is golden

  • @robertkrumm2470
    @robertkrumm2470Ай бұрын

    I've been budgeting for 4 years and I still have a month here and there where I mess it up. Mistakes happen

  • @robertthompson5908
    @robertthompson5908Ай бұрын

    Get married (18 months after getting divorced) and THEN figure out your finances and get your life in order? How about figure out your finances and get your life in order first, and then get married?

  • @johannesswillery7855

    @johannesswillery7855

    Ай бұрын

    And left without the kids....

  • @VintageStereoCollector
    @VintageStereoCollectorАй бұрын

    I’m sticking to the plan but I’m over drafts Hahahahha that’s so hilarious 😅

  • @matshepherd118
    @matshepherd118Ай бұрын

    “Got divorced then remarried.” Already a clown call just a few seconds in.

  • @ugabuga1361
    @ugabuga1361Ай бұрын

    Amy’s frozen pizzas are organic and taste decent. 10 bucks for an easy meal that’s 1,000 calories with better ingredients than all fast food

  • @bradleyvanzile1111
    @bradleyvanzile1111Ай бұрын

    The plan might be too tight to get overdraft!

  • @lanysiaharrison2406
    @lanysiaharrison2406Ай бұрын

    As soon as she said she didn’t have Financial Peace University i said he bout to give it to her for free! Haha for sure. This was a great episode, needed this listen in.

  • @alexpotter5155
    @alexpotter5155Ай бұрын

    I am currently 21, debt free, and have a significant chunk of money saved up. I am a Masters student and should be able to graduate debt free. Should I invest some of this money for the long run in a Roth IRA? Or should I keep it in savings for future expenses as I move out? I have a stable car, living situation, and job.

  • @manderm

    @manderm

    Ай бұрын

    Follow the plan, I'm only 31 and have adjusted the plan for the UK, and it really does work. Stay out of debt, 3-6 months of expenses and invest the rest.

  • @Hdhfhhdh

    @Hdhfhhdh

    Ай бұрын

    Follow the baby steps , get 3-6 of emergency fund before Roth IRA

  • @blackworldtraveler3711

    @blackworldtraveler3711

    Ай бұрын

    I smell a scam/spam bot

  • @scottrowsey292
    @scottrowsey292Ай бұрын

    1:13 Like what Pizza 😂😂

  • @thewewguy8t88
    @thewewguy8t88Ай бұрын

    honestly i feel like i have been trying to budget for over a decade and i still feel like i have not made much progress.

  • @bb94118
    @bb94118Ай бұрын

    Don't buy things you don't need with money you don't have to impress people you don't know.

  • @user-vi5vd3ty9d
    @user-vi5vd3ty9dАй бұрын

    Eat a Big Mac and switch lanes. 🔥 rap lyric Mr Ramsey.

  • @chevlife3311
    @chevlife3311Ай бұрын

    Why in the world would she remarry so soon. From the fire to the frying pan.

  • @nightfangs2910

    @nightfangs2910

    Ай бұрын

    Survival Boston is insanely expensive to live there

  • @allyk3144
    @allyk3144Ай бұрын

    I really want to make use of the budget app but its not available for download in my country (South Africa). Is there any way it could become available in the near future? Or another app you can recommend? But would love to get goi g with the baby steps asap!

  • @megalodon1726

    @megalodon1726

    Ай бұрын

    Pocketsmith and 22seven are available for South Africa.

  • @bigshotadventur18

    @bigshotadventur18

    Ай бұрын

    22seven from old mutual is great.

  • @zakariahussein962

    @zakariahussein962

    Ай бұрын

    ynab

  • @tcshy1903

    @tcshy1903

    Ай бұрын

    A spreadsheet. I bought one on Etsy for $3

  • @shirleysimcoe9356
    @shirleysimcoe9356Ай бұрын

    Or, I have an idea. Make a line item for surprises or unexpected. Put in a little for a cushion. This way you may not eat as well, but you will eat.😮

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100Ай бұрын

    I didn’t like how he started this call out. Obviously the plan wasn’t to overdraft. I immediately thought they did their budget wrong and needed help with that. He kept being sarcastic for some strange reason. Glad he finally gave her the advice she actually needed

  • @darlenepaul2918

    @darlenepaul2918

    Ай бұрын

    He's a financial shock jock.Many people these days are walking around out hear in a financial fog.They need a big dose of reality.

  • @oddity1109
    @oddity1109Ай бұрын

    3:45 NEEDS TO BE HIGHLIGHTED, a lot of us have fallen into normalizing instant gratification... Getting back on the horse. It's gonna take a a couple of tries.

  • @tiffanywilliams3019
    @tiffanywilliams3019Ай бұрын

    I ate out today and didnt pay that was an unexpected nice popup 😅

  • @hollywoodsmile9483
    @hollywoodsmile9483Ай бұрын

    This is why everyone needs an emergnsy fund at least 3-6 month so the lawyer gets his share....Correct? Correct!😁🤗

  • @cutehumor
    @cutehumorАй бұрын

    the new husband is a simp. He married a divorced woman with kids. they are still broke. the simp life

  • @2023Red
    @2023RedАй бұрын

    An iterative process- making any budget. We pay all bills from bank BillPay withdrawals. That forms the skeleton for cash outflows. And we deposit funds on the first of each month to pay that budget. We use credit cards for discretionary like food and gas. And Amazon. We pay that credit card twice a month in full. And we keep saying we will spend less next month knowing we won’t. We need to do better with credit card.

  • @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303

    @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303

    Ай бұрын

    Use credit cards for everything and use cash back to pay back the balance and use your own funds to cover the difference, saving you money (not really) because the amount of money you spent had fees that offset the cash back.

  • @2023Red

    @2023Red

    Ай бұрын

    @@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 maybe right. We pay in full thus have no fees that we know of. We watch our statements and see cash awards being posted . So far we have $2500 cash awards and $0 interest. How about you?

  • @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303

    @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303

    Ай бұрын

    @@2023Red No, the businesses tack on the "fees" through increased prices to offset the cash back. For instance, you either pay more for something because the merchant knows they will have to absorb the cash back % or you will have to pay a transaction fee on top of a bill like water or electricity. It is usually those $2.95 along with the actual balance you owe. If you get 1% cash back, that means they are still making $1.95 if you only had to pay $100 electric or water bill.

  • @2023Red

    @2023Red

    Ай бұрын

    @@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 okay. I am not seeing it. My power bills match my credit cards. Yet I get my 2% back for rewards. We might cave differentl cards.

  • @2023Red

    @2023Red

    Ай бұрын

    @@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Sorry you might think that is my case. My fico is 849. No fees whatsoever on my cards. I bring them to zero balance twice a mi th.

  • @Panda-fg2ti
    @Panda-fg2tiАй бұрын

    I’m having to skim any interest received monthly on my pitiful savings.

  • @marty8432
    @marty8432Ай бұрын

    I love how Dave Ramsey assumes the ex was a jerk. This woman went from divorce to remarried in less than 18 months so guaranteed she was having an affair with this new husband of hers.

  • @amireallythatgrumpy6508

    @amireallythatgrumpy6508

    Ай бұрын

    If they're American it is certain that they ARE a jerk.

  • @abbyquarshie4138
    @abbyquarshie4138Ай бұрын

    Aint it fun?😊 living in the real world...😂

  • @kendrapratt2098

    @kendrapratt2098

    Ай бұрын

    Ain’t it fun you can’t count on no one 🤣 🎶

  • @theonerm2
    @theonerm2Ай бұрын

    I budget every month because I have to or I wouldn't have anything for anything and I would never know where my money went.

  • @psharpe5904
    @psharpe5904Ай бұрын

    Exactly how do you divorce and remarry within 18 months? The maths not mathing on the budget or the relationships. I smell a cheat.

  • @iseepandas1
    @iseepandas1Ай бұрын

    Poverty starts when you have kids in a (hcol) area you can’t afford..

  • @countrysauce13
    @countrysauce13Ай бұрын

    Oh my god go to 5:09 and listen to how he says REALLY REALLY REALLY

  • @j.t.1086
    @j.t.1086Ай бұрын

    Going out to eat once a week is *minimum* $150/mo...if you don't tip.

  • @MasteredWriters
    @MasteredWritersАй бұрын

    First no debt

  • @bryanroach5734
    @bryanroach5734Ай бұрын

    I used to be paycheck to paycheck, now my employer changed to direct deposit. So now I am deposit to deposit. 😂

  • @karimelmoutawakil7295
    @karimelmoutawakil7295Ай бұрын

    Going to eat out once a week is luxury

  • @paulm6481
    @paulm6481Ай бұрын

    I lived paycheck to paycheck when I was young. lol. Scary but I had no other options.

  • @la9863

    @la9863

    5 күн бұрын

    How long did it take? How did you get out of that? What type of cushion do you have now?

  • @jarongreen6286
    @jarongreen62862 күн бұрын

    What popped up pizza😂😂😂😂

  • @jasonrodgers9063
    @jasonrodgers9063Ай бұрын

    The old saying- "Men make plans (or budgets), and God laughs!" Just pinch every penny until Lincoln screams, and you won't NEED to write down a budget! It's a lifestyle choice!

  • @davidstatz9087
    @davidstatz9087Ай бұрын

    Why is the ex a jerk?

  • @antr5342

    @antr5342

    Ай бұрын

    The ex could be in a better financial situation. Also if the kids went with the ex she could save more $$$

  • @TheCandyShopGirl
    @TheCandyShopGirlАй бұрын

    Its the first 90 days that will either make you or break you. You can make a budget all you want but if you can't stick to it, CONSISTENTLY... it won't work. If you and your spouse can't work this out together. It won't work. Trust me. Ive been creating budgets fo4 my family for years, only to have them not be followed every time. Talk about insanity

  • @Solisjr2678
    @Solisjr2678Ай бұрын

    Plain and simple…. Just live within your means. I mean people wanna buy $80,000 cars making $35,000 a year. That’s the biggest downfall. People borrowing money to go on vacation 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️I mean it’s not hard. Just gotta know how to stay in your lane.

  • @Bulletno
    @BulletnoАй бұрын

    I'm eating rice and noodles my whole life 😂

  • @Ryan125y
    @Ryan125yАй бұрын

    Make more money than you spend. Either make more, or spend less

  • @donaldlyons17

    @donaldlyons17

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah that is the hard part though because some incomes only go so high and then expenses can also only go so low.....