10 Steps to Stop Living Paycheck to Paycheck
7 in 10 Americans live paycheck to paycheck. But you don’t need to be one of them.
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Americans make plenty of money. We're so rich by most countries' standards, yet we're constantly comparing ourselves to people who have more, so it's never enough.
@Exxon300
Жыл бұрын
True
@MK-hh1vo
Жыл бұрын
Who are we comparing ourselves to? Who has more money than Americans. We may seem "rich" but our cost of living negates that illusion. It's expensive to live in America.
@joycecarr1661
Жыл бұрын
In some instances. Everybody in America does not make real money
@cassandracox8554
8 ай бұрын
This is true, one medical bill or car repair payment wipes out those couple of thousand bucks that took many months to save.
1. Believe it is possible. 2. Don't wait for money. 3. Make this the life change you want most 4. See the benefits of owning less. 5. Sit down and do the financial math. 6. Admit that you probably spent more on non essentials. 7. Put your savings into a different account. 8. Embrace a no spend period. 9. Don't be afraid to consider drastic changes. 10. Be gentle with yourself and give yourself time.
@brendasparks6234
Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@juliemarkham4332
Жыл бұрын
#2 had the most impact for me.
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
I agree with all 10👍
I don’t eat out. Buy my food at the produce section of the grocery store. Huge savings by doing this one thing.
@unpredictable913
Жыл бұрын
I do too. I can make a dinner both healthy and delicious by buying my food at the produce section of the grocery store.
@vaness909
Жыл бұрын
I get all mine at the butcher. Skip the grocery store altogether.
When I got paid I would pay my tithes. Then I put 10% in savings. Then I paid my bills. What was left in my account I could spend. However, the day before my next check was deposited I would move what was left to savings. So a lot of times I would talk myself out of buying some stupid thing so I would have more to put in savings. Hope this makes sense
@k4xxxminecrafter792
Жыл бұрын
Smart
@albyantony1853
Жыл бұрын
Woww
@beccismith4454
Жыл бұрын
Great idea 💡👍🏼
@eleanorvanrooyen9335
Жыл бұрын
Great idea that l will apply!
@ONLY1KUDWE
Жыл бұрын
Makes total sense and is a great strategy. Thanks for sharing it.
The NO SPEND period really works! I'm on my debt free before retirement journey right now and I started doing the spending freeze in January 2023. For almost 6 months now I've only been spending my income on food and bills. NOT buying anything else!!!I do a budget on food and really use up all stuff in the pantry and fridge before doing my grocery ON LINE!!! No more grocery shopping in the store! I have a strict shopping list of essentials only! I also stopped buying bottled water and started making my own bread and pastries. It's just so amazing to see more money coming in towards savings and paying off debts!!!
@kellywade8275
2 ай бұрын
I never got why folks buy bottled water, as it is not regulated and there are filters everywhere. I, only buy carbonated , occasionally at Trader Joe's for 99 cents per 33.8 ozs.🤷🏾♀
I use to be like this I was younger, now I'm way better with money. I'm just not impressed with a lot of material items anymore. Having a budget and having patience is something I had to practice over time.
The no-buy month turned into many for us! It was so eye opening and motivating.
I live in somalia Mogadishu for me if I get paycheck to paycheck it will be Iike I life in the heaven because we are facing hard times extreme poverty drought fighting no consistent electricity no safety no medical but I am looking upward and thinking where I can survive. that my kidneys are beating like my heart because of empty stomach and some times long time you don't get food but when you found that food you vomit But at least i have hope because I am not dead
@Chief_runs_with_scissors
Жыл бұрын
Sending love and strength to you my friend ❤️
@habilgaraad2441
Жыл бұрын
@@Chief_runs_with_scissors same to brother
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
Sorry to here that😮💨 praying for blessing to come your way
@BigSmashKing
Жыл бұрын
Please trust in Jesus!!
@KyRoTV91
10 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I did a no buy clothes for 2.5 years durig the pandemic 😃. That's because during the lockdown i realized i had way more clothes than i needed 😐😅. I also decluttered a lot and used your tips for doing so. Believe me i felt so light in life.
I'm a (single) 27 year old clinical psychologist. I make close to $100,000 per year and I drive a pre-owned 2012 Toyota Prius (Great condition), I live in a $1,500/ mo Condo in NC and don't wear names brand clothes. What you speak of is true sir. Also the strategies and practices you mentioned have definitely helped me save over the years.
@squeak07HK98
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. So helpful
@kellywade8275
2 ай бұрын
Anyone with six figures has no problems. Please cut the 💩.
@MarkelBeverley
2 ай бұрын
@@kellywade8275 Oh, please don't believe that. Please don't 🤦🏽♂
Cut up your credit cards, never, ever enter a Starbucks. Buy a cheap used Honda or Toyota and drive them till the wheels fall off.
I’ve been budgeting per paycheck for years and it’s become ingrained in me that I feel weird if I don’t budget. I know every dollar that comes in and goes out and I have zero surprises when something is due because I saved up for it. I get paid weekly and I divide my bills by 4 and set that amount aside and when the bill is due I have the full amount ready ..that’s been the biggest game changer because I keep a good portion of my paycheck to allocate money to other expenses, debt and savings
Minimalism totally changed the way I spend money. I really question the value of anything I am buying and whether I want this item in my house. There are many questions I ask myself and so impulse spending doesn't happen anymore. I love living a minimal life where I either love or need everything I own. Great information in this video. :)
@Bobblers07
Жыл бұрын
Agreed, it makes life so much less complicated.
@EasyPeasyVegan
Жыл бұрын
Saamee! I got into minimalism videos in 2020 while working overnights as security at work. Unplanned, but they stuck with me and I began implementing minimalism into my life in 2021. Have sold and donated quite a lot
What opened my eyes was a friend who makes 4 times what I do and doesn't have a mortgage but is still paycheck to paycheck. That was my lightbulb moment. I also only get paid once a month so learning to budget was necessary. I now have a savings though not much (work in progress) and she had an emergency and had to borrow from me.
@sct4040
9 ай бұрын
What a shame, I hope your friend learned from it.
Buying less requires lots of self discipline. It’s not that easy but wow will make you feel better. Thank you I needed this video.
what started as a want we began to think of as a need---yes, this right here, I realized it when my Amazon purchases were turning into 500 a month...and I always thought of that as where I got "necessities". I am on a spending freeze from there for the next 90 days, and I will see if I ever think it makes sense to go back
@kendrarhodes6425
Жыл бұрын
I usually wait a couple of days before ordering something that’s in my cart. It helps me spend less as I think about “do I really need/want that item”? I click “save for later” a lot.
I do a low buy. I look at all the areas where I spend most and put a limit on it. For example I love bubble teas but they are $8 a pop. And If I bought one every day I would spend half of my monthly income. So I limit myself to no more than 2 a week. With my clothes I limit myself to no more than 10 new items a year. I have a capsule wardrobe and this is enough for me to replace things as they wear out and occasionally get something just for fun. I've been living like this for a few years and now it comes naturally for me to be aware if I'm going over my limits. It has been a trial and error process but has made a huge difference to how I manage my funds.
@laurasagan2606
Жыл бұрын
Great ideas
@danarzechula3769
Жыл бұрын
A system you can actually use is better than one so strict you end up abandoning it. Sounds like you have set yourself up for success!😊
My budget update I do 10% tithes , 40% savings now I am debt free, live on 50% which includes rent.
@kellywade8275
2 ай бұрын
I love The Lord but tithes is undoable for me and the guilt and shame because I can't is something I am better off without.🤷🏾♀🙏🏾
Thanks for this content. I love your gentle but firm style. This is a topic that is so stressful and shameful. Frugality can be fun. Don't think I'm poor. Think I can do better and keep working toward your goals. Financial planning should be a more open topic. 😊
We have two and a half years of living expenses so far.
@nancyelizabeth8364
Жыл бұрын
Great job
@aipanart
Жыл бұрын
That's awesome. How did u manage to save that much.
@charlenebrissette3348
Жыл бұрын
@@aipanart By saving a dollar here and a few dollars there over the last four years.
@charlenebrissette3348
Жыл бұрын
@@nancyelizabeth8364 Thanks, hard work but well worth it.
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
Great job 👍
I am not living paycheck to paycheck but am feeling the squeeze from higher food, utilities & gasoline. I looked at my budget constantly & finally realized that I was paying too much for cable, internet & home phone & cell phones. It is a pain to have to renegotiate yearly but really saves money. After watching many of these financial KZreads I have really been spending a lot less discretionary income & saving more!!! I already cook mostly at home & follow most of the rules. There really always are places in the budget to cut & pay yourself first really works also. No buy spending experiments make you realize how much extra you really spend.
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
So true 👍
Living below your means" adjust your lifest, be frugal, budget, save and invest. This helped me out as a 6 figure earner. I've grown over a million in retirement savings with this method
@georgenoah4872
Жыл бұрын
The term HENRY. Is really so hilarious. Sadly there's actually people living paycheck to paycheck
@maxdmitry1912
Жыл бұрын
Great Job man. You said it all right there!
@maxdmitry1912
Жыл бұрын
the term Henry is so funny. I literally laughed whenever it was mentioned in the video Ps: my first time hearing it
@louis-freddieceaser8811
Жыл бұрын
Ceaser NC, 32. I Just started at my six figure job after being in and out of the poverty line. I really hope I don't end up like this. I'm scared really scared!!!
@phillawson5785
Жыл бұрын
Don't panic, start out easy, don't buy things you don't need, budget every money, always save a portion of your pay atleast 5%, Invest from your pay check; it grows and helps you accumulate wealth easily.
For a long time there was an awful lot of month at the end of the money. Some of it was due to circumstances, some of it was due to bad decisions, but when I finally made up my mind that I didn't want to live like this anymore and asked for help, it changed my life. I think, however, that it is important to acknowledge that sometimes one's circumstances are, in fact, actively working against them, and that it really is a systemic issue that needs to be addressed.
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
Right 👍
I got 10% deducted from my paycheck before I get my direct deposit. 10% goes into my 403b with an employer match. I lived on what’s left, saved for vacation and my wishlist of furniture, etc.
I lived paycheque to paycheque for decades and never thought it was possible to be out of debt and have savings. I know now it is possible and I learnt is not about increasing income, it about stop spending on consumerism. Finally after being stupid, I changed 4 years ago and now live off such little money and have so much saved. I got it and it’s possible. Renew your mind.
It’s so hard, I am now aware that I make excuses for shopping but everything I want seems so awesome, it’s very hard for me to let go.
By following your advices, I was able to pay the total balance of one credit card last week. I'm now working on my second one ,the last credit card. Thanks for your videos!
Years ago we went from living paycheck to paycheck as a 2-income family to living paycheck to paycheck as a 1-income family. It was a leap of faith to stay home with my young children, but totally worth it. Many people told us it was impossible to live on 1 income, but we proved them wrong. 😁 Eventually, our only debt was our mortgage. It was never easy, but still worth it!
@xpsxps1339
Жыл бұрын
Definitely!
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
👍
I earn £12,000 a year in the uk and I live well. I wish I did earn more because I know I could have a good pension. USA wages are crazy most British people are on £20,000 a year.
Awesome video! In New Zealand a lot of people live pay check to pay check, so I decided I'm going to be jumping on the path to my financial freedom now. Have two credit cards to pay off! Going to update this each month on how I am going! Already started savings into separate accounts that dont have cards and I cant transfer out of instantly, so no chance to spend it. Going to try a no buy month in January (expections on gym supplements and swims. as sport/gym is important and need to stay fueled and injury free)
It’s both. Our financial way of life absolutely needs to be blown up, but at the same time, people also need to be more responsible. I know for a fact that there’s a lot of people that simply don’t make enough money. I make roughly 100K a year and in California, rent prices alone eat up almost 3/4 of what I make. Throw in dependents, and other financial obligations and it’s easy to end up in the negative. It’s definitely not one size fits all. It’s both.
@marym346
Жыл бұрын
I dont know anything about you other than what you've said, but I'd say you've overextended yourself. My response is that you need to move. Move to another state where rent and taxes are lower OR move to a smaller home. Children don't need their own rooms unless they're the opposite sex; bunkbeds are a great option for them. You don't need a guest room (guests can stay in a hotel). Downsizing is the best way to start. Our system doesn't need to be "blown up" except for the government overtaxing the crap out of us. Our government (local, state, and federal) need to start being fiscally responsible. People should get more involved in their local government and see where the money is going. By law, you have to be given a copy of their budget if you request it. The only exception seems to be the one that matters most, our federal government’s budget - mostly because they haven't had one in almost 25 years.
@AshaMae
9 ай бұрын
@@marym346a 2 bedroom in southern California is $3200 a month. When you have children it's not easy to just uproot them and move to another cheaper state. I'm not saying it can't be done though.
Thank you for helping people.
I save one paycheck a month. When I was younger and lived with my parents I saved 3 paychecks a month. Everyone around me is always hurting for money. I just tell them so am I.
I learned the reverse budget where you set your priority for the year and pay yourself first, then put the rest on bills and what is left over at the end of the month put into your emergency fund.
I photograph things I think I want to buy. Oh my… I hardly ever go back & buy them!
So Joshua, what can we seniors only able to live on social security supposed to do? We have already pared down to basically only essentials, so we are in a different group than what you describe...and with rising costs, I definitely have cut back on everything I can think of. I know this is not a group you normally recognize in your minimalism habits, but would like to know if you have any thoughts on this...Thanks from Wanda in FL.
@TheyCallMeJTK
8 ай бұрын
Get a side hustle
GREAT TIPS here!
As I've gotten older I like to have a cushion of money that I keep just in case it has saved me stress so many times.
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
Same here 👍
Thank you
To cut costs, aim for zero food waste. Even though food prices are rising, careful meal planning and having a goal of eating all of the food that you buy can lead to significant savings. For me, the most expensive food that I purchase is the leftover stuff that I throw away. We have saved money by doing this. Thanks for another great video!
@JoshuaBecker
Жыл бұрын
Ahh, very interesting idea. I bet you're right! I've never even considered that fact - it's such a subtle expense. According to my quick research, 'the average American spends nearly $1500 per year on food they'll never eat, according to new research." You are totally right!
cinnamon rolls lol omg i dont know why but that made me crack up.
I really enjoy your videos and need to continually watch them to stay on track or 🐿, i loose focus.
Thank you! We move to San Diego a couple of year ago and it was great, but we feel like living here doesnt allow us to travel as we used to and save some money. We think we will move after our lease is over. Looking forward to that!
2 years ago all of my bills could be paid in 1 check. Unfortunately, im now paycheck to paycheck. It wont always be like this but it definitely makes me feel very uncomfortable for now. Theres no room to trim fat.
Great video 👍realtalk
Love the fade out shot! Where is that?
I will be honest I don’t spend a-lot on buying ‘stuff’ in the house except a few things here and there.. however I do spend a lot in travel… 👀
@tammya5403
Жыл бұрын
If you’re talking about traveling the world and not talking about local transportation, that’s way more fulfilling anyway in the long term. Experiences last forever, “stuff” does not.
@danarzechula3769
Жыл бұрын
Experiences over possessions sounds good😊
Thanks you.
Excellent ❤
Excellent video
A second account to save money is a Godsend!! Highly recommended!! 😊😊
Great list Joshua! #5 is key. For years I adopted the "ostrich philosophy" of buying my head in the sand when it came to truly looking at our finances (and I was the household CFO! Yikes!) When I started seeing that we were in the red I knew changes needed to be made. After the past decade we've done a much better job of living within our means and saving for retirement by paying off debt ala Dave Ramsey's method. Along the way I found you, adopted minimalism, and rarely spend outside of essentials. Staying on budget is a fun challenge for us, and we don't really lack for anything. Also, I have to say I chuckled at the clips of "shopping for black t-shirts". As I long time follower it was funny, lol!
What are your thoughts on the cbdc
I need this thank u
Too many blue collar workers believe that because they don't own a bunch of luxury items / fancy expenditures (e.g. brand name bags, fancy vacations, fancy cars, a house) means they aren't living a lifestyle of luxurious convenience -- paying $3.99 at Arco / 7-11 for a bag of chips you could have gotten for $0.50 in bulk at Walmart is a luxury. Choosing to not take 1 hour out of each month to draft a rough budget of how you plan to spend the next month's pay + how much to set aside as savings & emergency $, is a luxury (responsible people cannot mentally 'afford' not investing that 1 hour). Choosing to not discipline your kids and teach them how to TRULY budget & why mom and dad CANNOT take them to 7-11 is a luxury the easier route than shelling out $10-25/m per kid as their 'allowance' and allowing them to blow it on overpriced snacks or video games they don't need, especially when the kids' priorities are not straight (worried about the next game instead of the B they should turn into an A). The biggest hurdle I see is when parents dont' realize they are teaching their kids to live paycheck to paycheck when they're giving an allowance to their kid who then spends 100% of it, vs. teaching them to put 1/2 or all of it in the bank.... mom and dad are already paying the essentials right? And when mom and dad allow the kid to dip into the next month's allowance so they can get something they realllllyyy want but don't have enough $ for... that's called teaching your kids to ask for advanced pay for something they don't even need. Parents complain that schools don't teach money management... but the same parents don't realize they are the ones teaching their kids how to be financially irresponsible.
I am considering moving out from Florida. It is a hard decision, but Florida is getting to crowded and expensive
@nwatson2773
10 ай бұрын
SAME, rent is $1600 for a 1 bedroom or 1,000 to rent in someone's home!
@grit1679
9 ай бұрын
_Everywhere_ is crowded and expensive.
Great!
Buy only what you need not what you want
a saying that i always really loved was "we work to live, not live to work". :) and living pay cheque to pay cheque definitely sounds like living to work.
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
I agree 👍
You reminded me of thinking outside the box. We get used to whatever circumstances and give up our power to change them. Great reminder to keep to financial goals.
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
I agree 👍
A DAY NOT ENTERING A SHOP, IS A DAY WITHOUT SPENDING. Avoid on line shopping as well.
Inspirational as always. Thank you for sharing.
What a great video
This is so encouraging! I am on a low spend no spend year in hopes to get the mortgage down to very little By the end of 2023. Keep the encouragement coming less is more ;-)
Great advice thank you thank you
#4 really got me😊
Keeping a budget is a virtue in itself.
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
I agree 👍
Where did u get the photo in the background from?
You Americans are really lucky to have such high salaries 😢
How you are SOOOO right… thank you so much for your insights and not so radical tips
I'm retired now, but toward the end of my earning years, I heard a talk about saving. I took 10% of gross pay and put it into savings and 10% for tithes. In months when I could, I put 20% into savings. When there was a layoff, I was able to still pay my mortgage and utilities, taxes and food. It was tight, but I survived with the help of part-time jobs until retirement was possible.
My problem is no no spending or debt but eating out instead of grocery shopping. I am so exhausted I just eat out…😖
I'm on a fixed income, retired. You make some good points that anyone can follow. One just needs to decide the best way to save for themselves.
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
True 👍
I like that small goal to start, thanks, that'll help.
Joshua, Great video! We were like this several yrs ago. Then I started saving $1, then $2, then $5, & I continued saving whatever possible to put towards our credit card until we were out of debt. It took years to get out of debt & pay off our house, but it has been so worth it. It's nice to be able to give to help others.
good video though, kudos
But many people teach that its not good have bank accounts .whats your take on that?
I def don't spend 1500 on non Essentials lpl but maybe 800, yes
I truly appreciate this video and how you define reality bumps in the road to financial freedom. Thank a million 😊
I’m a bit anal, I love tracking my spending, and seeing what areas need attention
Take a shot every time he says “paycheck to paycheck”
@alicewalker1285
Жыл бұрын
lol no frfr :D
Cut back on spending-my disability cheque? With respect, (1) someone else now pays my rent (and food!) so, I can exist. (2) Someone else bought me a used car so I could get some applicable work. (2) Someone else bought me a computer-again, so I could get some doable work. There’s no “cutting back”; there’s acquiring angels🙏🏽 who, frankly, got tired of me regularly asking for help so, chose to deal with the situation resoundingly.
Save for retirement when young, because everything will cost so much more when you are older. Health usually starts messing with folks around age 50 if they are fortunate. Keep your teeth maintained due to cost there.
I love owning less , I live in australia
Joshua, I have a 35 year old son who has a full Tim's job. He lives with my husband and myself.. How much should he be contributing to the household bills ?
@CampsitePyro
Жыл бұрын
33% However, you may come to a different arrangement depending on your financial situation, and how much you want him to save. Personally, I think there is no problem with living under the same roof as adults. Yes, there will need to be an understanding between parents and adult children, but overall, there may be a benefit for everyone financially speaking. I hope my young children opt to come back after college so they can start their careers and max out retirement accounts, savings, and remain debt free. We’ll see what happens.
After paying 10% to tithing I have $110 left that does not include getting my laundry done nor extra gas in my car Nor taxables I am on disability if anyone wants to throw a suggestion I would appreciate it.
Well we have a no spend mo that’s right now in March so we can pay are taxes 😥😥😥😥😥
Thank you for this video! I needed to be reminded to pull back on my spending. I did a no spend in January and put extra $ toward a credit card but my emergency savings is not where I want it. Adding one paycheck is a great goal that I will work toward for the remainder of this month. March is actually a 5 paycheck month for those of us who get paid weekly!
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
Thanks 👍I did know that it's 5 check this month
Moving money out of the main account into a savings account only helps if both people keep track of what’s left in the account. If one just swipes away without knowing or caring then it’s not helpful 🙁
@ludwigvonmiseswasright4380
Жыл бұрын
If you are the "saver" in the family, consider increasing tax withholding, or 401k contributions (make sure you can take 401k loans for the next big purchase). That way, you will have a savings plan that is truly difficult for a spontaneous partner to spend.
Thank you for another helpful and timely message. I have a spending plan, and I often wonder what I did with the discretionary money. Unfortunately, I have never gotten into the habit of saving. I will try again, with more intention and regularity. Using a separate account is an excellent idea! If I don't see the extra in my main account, I would be less inclined to spend it.
In February 2022 I decided to have a year of no spending except for the basics = housing (which is very expensive where I live), groceries, cleaning supplies, internet, phone service, etc. to see where it could get me. My small experiment lasted until the previous November when I started shopping for Christmas - mostly for my family and friends. And even with some health and family issues that unfortunately occurred last year, I saved way more than ever before. The extra expenses were significant, but thanks to my savings they weren't a killing burden, and I'm pretty close to the goal I originally set for 2022; I have more in my account than ever before. Therefore I know, what Joshua said is feasible, so, please give it a try! And the best and most surprising thing - it was less painful than I expected.
I found an 11th, skip useless KZread ads.
It's not either or. We need to blow up the system AND use our resources more responsibly
stilli like LP's better than streaming...i have to be very careful
Let me explain to you that my paycheck is my: rent+bills+food I am no buy experiment. 😂
I’m a CNA I have seen rich people save all there life to pay out everything they have for there spouse home care took it all 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@clairbear1234
Жыл бұрын
Yes, the system is broken, yes many of us could do better but we can’t forgot that many people have more extreme circumstances than he lets on
@GratefulDeb270
Жыл бұрын
At least they had the money for home care. ❤
Could you a spending plan layout where we can download free
Brilliant !!!
Thank you Joshua, this is really great advice for a world that is stressed by increasing costs. Doing any one of these 10 steps will help to take back control from an industry that is built on making us think spending is good! I enjoy your videos, keep them coming!!!
@brain4thoughts
Жыл бұрын
👍
I like your content but the truth is some people have too many responsibilities and this just isn't possible
@JoshuaBecker
Жыл бұрын
Oh no! What percentage of the population would you say this is not possible for?