How to start a conversation: 5 things to say after "hello"
Don't know what to say? Don't worry! In this video, you'll learn easy ways to start a good, useful conversation. You'll learn how to choose topics for conversation, and I'll teach you the questions you should ask to start enjoyable and meaningful conversations! You're going to have fun, improve your English, and make friends! What could be better?
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TRANSCRIPT
God, I love your lips, Angelina. Hi. James from engVid. I was just thinking to myself: Well, I know it's very difficult to practice English because you don't get a lot of practice with English speakers, but if there were a way I could teach you how to get past "Hello" to make the conversation grow and perhaps have the other person come back and talk to you, that would be of great value. So this lesson is about how to get past "Hello" and make a beautiful conversation flow. All right? I'm going to use Angelina to help me later on when I do an example, but for now I will tell you more. See? He's like: "Tell me more. Hmm. I'm interested." And so am I. All right, so let's go to the board, shall we?
I'm going to give you five conversation openers. You've said: "Hello", where do you go? Personally I hate this because I teach and I hear people say: "Hello. My name is James. I am from Japan, Tokyo." The conversation is essentially dead. Dunh-dunh-dunh-dunh. Don't know if that's the wedding theme or the theme from Star Wars. Doesn't matter. You understand. It's killed. Nobody cares. You've said everything that they need to know and then they're done. So why don't we do something that actually gets them to open up and want to tell you information? Okay?
So the first one we're going to do is this one. I like this one. It's so easy, it's so true. Look for something that someone is wearing or has that you actually like. You're not going to steal it, so don't think about that. But what I mean is you like. You like the t-shirt, you like the jeans, the ear rings or something, you're like: "Cool", because that will be sincere. "Sincere" means that you really mean it and the person can feel that from you, so they'll want to share with you because you're being honest with them. All right? So we look here, number one, walk up and say... So it's like: "Hello. Love your __________ (jacket, t-shirt). That is so cool." Yeah? "Where did you get them?" or "Where did you get it?" Notice I didn't say: "Where did you buy it?" because some of the coolest things someone's going to be wearing won't be from this country. It might be: "Hey. I was in India and I picked up these beads. Yeah, it was really cool. I was outside this ashram and..." And now you've got a conversation you didn't even know. Or it might be: "Oh, I was downtown in the hippie section, you know, and it was really cool, there was all this art." You've started a conversation. If you say: -"...buy them?" -"At the gap." Finished. So: "Hey. Where did you get them?" Let them say "buy". Don't bring that up. Okay? Follow that up with right away... As soon as you say: "Where did you buy them...?" It's true... It might not be true right now, but it could be true, you say: "Because I really have to get a cool present", or: "...an interesting gift for my nephew/my brother/my sister/my friend." Right? Or girlfriend, whatever, or your wife. By saying that you're saying, well, one thing, you have other friends. But number two, you're giving them: "Cool". You're saying whatever they're wearing is interesting, cool, different enough that it stopped you to talk to them. By example or by extension, that means added on you're saying: "You're kind of cool, too, because you're wearing it and I think it's cool, so it's got to be cool and only a cool person would buy it." Right? This is why it works, you've given them two compliments. Who doesn't want to be complimented? First you're saying I'm wearing something cool, then you're saying: "I need to get something cool, and clearly what you have is cool." I'm probably going to talk to you and go: "Well, you know, thanks for saying that. I liked it because..." And conversation started, and now you have an opportunity to maybe later on talk more, and that's how you get your practice.
Number two, how about this one? "Wow, you are _________ (tall)" or: "You have _________ (really bright eyes)", or something that has to do with the physical body. The first one was about things. Physical. Now we want to talk about physical. And you followed that up with: "What do you do?" Huh? Example, you see someone, you go: "Wow, you have amazing skin. What do you do to make it so clear?" Okay? Hmm. Or: "Wow, you're tall. What do you do? Do you play sports or anything like that?" Okay? You follow it up. This is the follow up, as I said: "What do you do?" But why does this work? Now, notice this is green and I have green up here.
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What's next? Watch my new lesson on 5 questions to get the conversation going! These questions lead to deeper conversations and help you get to know people better. kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z4J-lbWiZ9OZntI.html
@tirofijo11
2 жыл бұрын
I believe that having good intentions or having love in your mind and heart these start up lines for conversation are great , but this talent come naturally to those that are positive and confident. Great Content love it. I use this with out even realizing it. Complimenting people, asking how and where the are in route too. There's many more we can list but being sincere , nice , actually listening to others, naturally positive energy and vibration can create a wonderful time together.
@llamasugar5478
2 жыл бұрын
In the example conversation, “where” shouldn’t have an “a” in it. All the same, I am a new subscriber and very much enjoy your teaching!
@wouldanyoneelselikedtobehe676
2 жыл бұрын
Is that a worm or what? Please tell me more
@hollowtip4068
2 жыл бұрын
I need a lesson on using would have or would had...lol
@bonginkosimadi7899
2 жыл бұрын
James I really appreciate your lessons, more especially on how to read effectively. I would deeply appreciate if you can teach us a lesson on how to summarise effectively as well.
I complimented someone's jacket and then followed up with saying I need to get my nephew a gift, and that person told me they also watched this KZread video.
@volpage77
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mecoder9910
2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@leo7335
2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahaha
@mcveigthojeda9296
2 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂
@Khushi-xq7uc
2 жыл бұрын
busted
"if you don't do it to your mother or your sister, don't do it to another woman" THE BEST!
@Nature_Music_Positive
7 жыл бұрын
Gold words!!!
@SuperBodet
7 жыл бұрын
I'm doing nofap
@dominicgarcia8107
7 жыл бұрын
I read this the same time he said that I was freaked out😂
@longingheart77
6 жыл бұрын
Nicky Larson hahah
@Hdo30H
6 жыл бұрын
feminism intensifies..
11:09 This one is actually really good. I'm on my high school minding my own business then my classmate sit right next to me then say "Hello, do you think medusa has pubic hair?" and was like "yeah maybe, why u ask?" and he was like "Do you think it's also a snake?" then I got curious why did he think it that far. We had like a 2 hours conversation then we became friends lol. I'll never forget it.
@TheArcher143
2 жыл бұрын
lol
@bensonplayzyt
2 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@isxlatediced9640
2 жыл бұрын
That’s a looooong talk
@gdc6153
2 жыл бұрын
Yes you two are made for each other🥴
@kayveeproductions2957
2 жыл бұрын
Let him hit?
Sir, you’re no just teaching English, more importantly, you’re sharing your cheerful mindset in an excellent way. Thanks!
me: wow, how do you get your hair so shiny? person: I'm bald me: yeah!
@briefingsdn8101
4 жыл бұрын
hahahaha
@Vertutame
4 жыл бұрын
@@briefingsdn8101 I cut it everyday
@dhoragunanmuthalali3885
4 жыл бұрын
😄
@tiffanylee2011
4 жыл бұрын
hahaha
@mintheinoo4651
4 жыл бұрын
I polish my head
And here we are preparing for human interaction after being quarantined for so long
@Turtlesp5000
2 жыл бұрын
🎯
@sbuckle1171
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Like learning to walk again after having a cast on your foot for a very long time.
@allpraisewebb1142
2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@meow-ee5gl
2 жыл бұрын
Your pfp explains it
@milotic2173
2 жыл бұрын
True wade, true
When his channel have millions subs, he just go straight to the point, no gimmick, no flashy intro . Jusy pure content . Bravo 👏
@MeneTekelUpharsin
2 жыл бұрын
True. Straight to the point is rare these days
@preciousdouglas6656
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@jimboulaya
2 жыл бұрын
4.4 Million and counting, he is surely on top of his game.
I loved the explanation of starting a conversation. The funny thing for me is, I hate being the first one to introduce myself. I’d rather they be the first one to ask. So I just don’t hand it out until then; because I’m shy..😆
@_conquered
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@firewave9
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@Julianghhji
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@perf3ctdrum
2 жыл бұрын
Daaamn same here lmao
@cloroxbleach6402
2 жыл бұрын
If you don’t mind me asking are you male or female?
Introverts: *takes notes but might not even use it at all*
@Vizzu
2 жыл бұрын
Introverts: how to start hello
@frasernorth6568
2 жыл бұрын
I'm English, but I'm still here because I'm catastrophically bad at conversations
@user-eu9hm6bs9f
2 жыл бұрын
I know all the theories, i just never like anything on anyone (including myself), and i hate sharing my own feeling. Conversation dies in all languages.
@dingdong1519
2 жыл бұрын
hello
@Acemancello
2 жыл бұрын
Write that down, write that down! *Puts notes in filing cabinet never to be seen again*
You don t teach english , you teach Life man! Lucas 🇫🇷
@necromonta2761
3 жыл бұрын
but in english :)
@chirurgiacosmetica
3 жыл бұрын
Greatest comment ever
@Sarentoliezyl
2 жыл бұрын
It is! I idolized him now
@razza1580
2 жыл бұрын
Goat comment
@Kevinsandoval88955
2 жыл бұрын
@@chirurgiacosmetica mmmmm....... sure....
One of the most genuine I’ve found is simply asking “how was your day?” Stating your name then asking that is one of the most honest conversation starters
@evangeline4966
2 жыл бұрын
Some don't want to give too much details to people they don't know and just say "good". This only works if you're trying to make a conversation, not withstanding the response or the other person is quite extroverted.
@jdrice5134
2 жыл бұрын
@@evangeline4966 very true didn’t think about that. I just thought it was genuine
@preciousdouglas6656
2 жыл бұрын
Hello sir
@RandomMcRandomness
2 ай бұрын
@@evangeline4966 Nice way to say that's a BORING QUESTION. I totally agree. It's so boring!!! 😉🤣
I'm a man and I love that he took the time to speak to us directly. Respect and kindness towards women as well as anybody else is most important.
Even those who’ve grown up with English as their first language, should watch this. This is great stuff, man!
@bulobakika7418
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
@mauriceware2323
2 жыл бұрын
@@bulobakika7418 pppp ppl that can p
@mr.bhewjew3212
2 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly what I am doing
@niquiidlewood9326
Жыл бұрын
Lol, me! 🙋🏿♀️
@lavieestbelle6068
4 ай бұрын
Totally agree, he is an excellent teacher.
"Listening more than you speak is a skill" YUUUUUUP!
@sobervision1049
2 жыл бұрын
@Icewulf if you never listen people won't feel like talking to you. That may sound like peace but it hurts you more than you probably think
@jeremiahfyan
2 жыл бұрын
Working at retail gave me this ultimate ability lmao
@gdc6153
2 жыл бұрын
Try telling that to my Son🙄
@aladeochuko5596
2 жыл бұрын
I was commenting on when I come across you and all what you just said in your comments is great and amazing, I will like us to been a friend's, is that's okay with you..??
I would like this man to teach my kids how to talk and get in to good conversations with people.
@dropoff2986
2 жыл бұрын
Why don’t you just learn for yourself? This way you can teach your own kids..
@trueblueryu5713
2 жыл бұрын
If your kids have or will have reliable access to KZread in some capacity, make sure these are some of the videos you show them first.
@winterwarden
2 жыл бұрын
this video so mediocre like damn just let them go out and talk to people. kids are natural learners dont put a lid on it
@ken-ny3nh
2 жыл бұрын
Dude, your kids are an extension of you. They copy what they see. Think about that, everything they learn starts from you! So, you learn this first and show them by putting it into practice for them to see. That's all, man. Stay safe out there!
Been practicing my socializing lately with complete strangers. Anxiety is still there but I have indeed gotten better with words
@a1productionsva
2 жыл бұрын
Be proud of yourself for putting in the effort. Most people still in stage 1............... like me! 🤦🏾♂️💀
@juicyfruitjay
2 жыл бұрын
@@a1productionsva ugh same. So true kudos ^^^
@merlinseryim2159
2 жыл бұрын
@@a1productionsva same here i even have trouble keeping conv with strangers.;(
@Activeuser07
2 жыл бұрын
How do you start off usually ? Lol
@luckylee5026
2 жыл бұрын
Me too😖
This guy is like the Bob Ross of English 😂
@jezdelion7729
2 жыл бұрын
Looooool!
@mrobitwice77
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Smokeynagata69
2 жыл бұрын
This was actually a very cool comment
@rickydellaway543
2 жыл бұрын
Nice👍🏼
@dreammeer2068
2 жыл бұрын
Would like but unliked to leave at 420
If only all teachers taught like him, great content
@gdc6153
2 жыл бұрын
Right😂😂
@eureka2122
2 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@mello.1483
2 жыл бұрын
@Dracco Princes sometimes teachers are boring, confusing or sometimes mean. It’s not always the student.
4 million subs hasn't changed his methods, nothing can stop this absolute Chad
Thought this was Ron Artest showing me how to get these breezys
@cqptainbear
2 жыл бұрын
Its the head shape that really does it
@Boomin4u
2 жыл бұрын
Catch me taking shit and this comment from the crowd :p
@test-ky8tu
2 жыл бұрын
Not metta world peace😂😭😭
@antdeeziak2120
2 жыл бұрын
Kinda looks like a mix of usher and Metta world peace lol
@blackiechan18
2 жыл бұрын
No cap
James, this isn't just useful for someone learning English, but for someone like me, who is shy and gets nervous when approaching someone. This video is extremely helpful! Thank you.
hello. love your money. where did you get them?
@fupingzhao6072
7 жыл бұрын
haha
@whatamio-o9112
7 жыл бұрын
lol
@Flyerstone
7 жыл бұрын
Nice hint right there, lol...
@cescmunoz4689
7 жыл бұрын
it* (it's uncountable)
@amandareis5502
7 жыл бұрын
lmao
“I’m not a player I just crush a lot” -This guy
@nofriends3904
2 жыл бұрын
rj
@xpertkidd1150
2 жыл бұрын
Big Pun lol
@jeffalbillar7625
2 жыл бұрын
I just listened to that song yesterday.
@derekking9084
2 жыл бұрын
My motto lol
@joshhayes4323
2 жыл бұрын
Balllla shot cawwwwlaaaaa 20 inch blades on the impaaawwwlaaa
James you are not only a great English teacher but a wise brother for me at the same time who is telling special hints about the life. I watch you to relax and have a rest when I got home... Please don't stop making these videos... Many thanks...
He’s teaching a lesson. I’m like, “damn look at that worm illustration on on the left!” Lmao 😂
@rozziec.3197
2 жыл бұрын
Me too. What’s up with the worm
@gdc6153
2 жыл бұрын
Yall probably failed English😂
@DevSA874
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂
I don't know why I just watched this whole video as English is my first language... You're a very compelling teacher
I grew up American knowing englishs but always had a hard time starting or continuing conversations thanks James!
This video, along with a number of your others, has been extremely helpful in overcoming my social anxiety. Thanks for the knowledge!
you are the best teacher i've ever seen) thank you so much )
@jacob014
7 жыл бұрын
Oguzhan Gezer i tought i was only the one from turkey who watch this channel 😀😀
@kerimbeyfini1551
7 жыл бұрын
me either
@jacob014
7 жыл бұрын
Ulaş Albatu to be honest i already know English and it is enough for me but the I am just watching this channel just because if I learn something new
@jacob014
7 жыл бұрын
Ulaş Albatu türkiyeden bu kanalì takip edenler bir birimizden haberdar olalım mesela Ben truzimciyim ve bu yûzden ingilizceyle ilgileniyorum ya sizler?
@kerimbeyfini1551
7 жыл бұрын
ben bir öğrenci olarak, İngilizce'mi geliştirmek adına bu kanalı takip ediyorum. bence çok profesyonel bir hoca.
I am from Canada and English is the only language I speak. Some of James’ videos I’ve been watching lately are useful even for me! You can learn a lot from James.
James got knowledge and wisdom and understanding never get tired of listening to him
As a tall person, being complimented about being tall isnt exactly an effective conversation starter. Its not something we worked towards or had a choice in the matter, i feel people liked to be recognised for their efforts (height isnt one of them). Also, most of us probably got that alot growing up, so it becomes a boring topic even if you are genuinely sincere about it.
@williamwallcroft2559
2 жыл бұрын
Quite relatable your comment is.
@_Just_Another_Guy
2 жыл бұрын
If you're in Asia, it is seen as one of the preferred traits lol. They like tall people there cause 99% of the population are under 5'8".
@onetallgirl1369
2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! I'm also tall and I actually hate when people come up to me and say " your so tall!" I know this I have lived with myself for the last 31 years! lol!
@movements5139
2 жыл бұрын
@@onetallgirl1369 how tall are you ?
@onetallgirl1369
2 жыл бұрын
@@movements5139 5'11
friendly teacher, i love your accent, and actions during teaching.
@sharonmohalland4244
5 жыл бұрын
Love your style of teaching James.
@gdc6153
2 жыл бұрын
Homie is dope af
James I think you’re a beautiful human being. You teach me the English language beautifully. Every video is an enjoyable watching experience. Thank you!
This is fantastic. I am a native English speaker but my parents aren’t so even though I know English, I always feel pretty lost and inept with certain social situations and expectations and cues and carrying conversation. James you are an incredible teacher!!
James, you have such a soothing voice and it makes me want to watch all your videos.
For a person who was and still quarantining...you didn't teach me conversation openers, you actually taught me how to survive when it comes to me going out and need to talk with a human being. You're very loved Mr. Too much respect ❤️
Excellent, Brother.....
@frits8986
2 жыл бұрын
This is your excellent brother?
@AsaanHai
2 жыл бұрын
@@frits8986 Do you have any problem???
@donjrduckify
2 жыл бұрын
@@frits8986 The word "BROTHER" is used mostly by Black men or Black women to other Black Man in recognition that we may have different families, and I don't know you and you don't know me, but wecame from the same place therefore, we are family. Or it can be used in any race to show a feeling of love and respect for the other man such as a friend." My Brother" is more than blood relative, it is love!
@SAINTxSZN
2 жыл бұрын
@@donjrduckify A lot of southern white men say brother
@kenpachi950
2 жыл бұрын
@@SAINTxSZN southern men use brother a lot no matter color lol
I just love how he teaches and I’ve been binging his videos.
This guy is good, I can only imagine him at a club.
@bogdanstanivuk1775
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe more of a cafe thing than a club bcs music is often too loud to speak normally and you have to scream in other person's ear in order for them to hear them
@gdc6153
2 жыл бұрын
No shit. He probably going home with a brod every night😂
@paulofrances2908
2 жыл бұрын
Wing man
@Breezisdead
2 жыл бұрын
This guy's information is solid. But like another person said here above in the comments I don't these tactics are best using a club setting. Got loud music alcohol so many different other factors that don't lend to a real conversation
James, the more I listen, the more I learn. I am working on reading 15 minutes a day. Thank you!
This video not only helps us with starting conversation in English, but also with one in our mother tongue. Especially when i got to have a blind-date with someone ... this would not be the way you intended James i guess.. But this would also mean that your video always helps in many other ways not only with English. So THANK YOU SO MUCH for all your wonderful videos and i will catch up with every single video you published real soon!
Years ago I took Dale Carnegie course on "How to Win Friends and Influence People" which taught how to have conversations. Great course material.
"I love your lips Angelina" is now my ice breaker.
If you read this James, i want to say thanks for your videos. You have absolute skill, the right bit of humor and a good respectively view on communication.
NEVER say to me:“wow you’re so tall, do you play basketball?“ I haaaaate it so much
@julioalarmo839
3 жыл бұрын
I know i got you bro. But when someonde do that its because want to talk with you and they are interested on you. So take it as a positive sign.
@user-xq2fz5tz9t
2 жыл бұрын
What people said to me: "You're so tall, you must be so long down there" "As long as you're happy then that's good" "So long, my friend"
@scullik9542
2 жыл бұрын
@@user-xq2fz5tz9t Yeah but she’s a girl so that’s why she don’t when guys say that
@tee-moneysalis9251
2 жыл бұрын
Are you tall???
@DayTripTookItTo10
2 жыл бұрын
Who tf hates ebing tall
I don’t have problems starting conversations . Always curious about others but I’m aware enough not to be intrusive , aggressive, or out of place . I know my boundaries. I’m genuine and kind :) Just interested and curious about people
me: tries to avoid every conversation in life KZread recommended: How to start a conversation
@youdontcare1872
2 жыл бұрын
lmao so true
@morganstarchild5359
2 жыл бұрын
Haha right!
@tylergreene9316
2 жыл бұрын
This should have more likes.
These are great tips. I teach students with autism. Many of them are highly verbal but lacking in social skills. Directly teaching these kind of tactics helps them a lot.
@teresacoombs1917
2 жыл бұрын
That's wonderful, God bless you.
@gdc6153
2 жыл бұрын
Keep Up The Good Work
@aladeochuko5596
2 жыл бұрын
Hey Susan.. How are you feeling today I hope your day is as bright as your pretty smile today.
@agbaclinching1242
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
"I want to be the very best" First thing that came to my head "Like no one ever was"
@jhanelledionne8236
2 жыл бұрын
To catch them is my real test
@EpisodicEagle
2 жыл бұрын
To train them is my cause
@godsparcethelord5604
2 жыл бұрын
I will travel across the land
@prav2568
2 жыл бұрын
Searching far and wide
@TheGaara802
2 жыл бұрын
Each pokemon to understand
this man been on my recommended for a good minute guess i’ll give him a sub
James: *makes video for non-native speakers* Me: *takes notes despite being fluent my whole life* 😂
the sad thing is that im not even from a country that doesnt speak english..i just cant speak to people
@Vinaykumar-bf8hj
6 жыл бұрын
MissesKitty same with me
@CupOvTee
5 жыл бұрын
You can. Asocial people need to be immersed in hobby. You can't randomly pop up on someone and ask them where did they get clothing. You need to have a strong on-going hobby that made you and another asocial being close. After "Oh, hi, you're doing this hobby as well.", he or she might reply "Uhh, yeah, umm, I've been doing it for (almost) that many years.". Then you ask a question, he or she reply, and after third question if he or she stays to talk, you'll find a common topics, otherwise he or she will go running away in terror of communication. :D
@arquielmencia4083
5 жыл бұрын
My advice to improve this is heard a song that you like in English and get the lyrics and follow up and read the song and try to sing with artists, do this couple time daily and you will noticed when you try to talk to somebody is gonna be easier you word is gonna come out right away. Try to get a job in McDonnal or any fast foot merchandise
@franciscorivas4036
5 жыл бұрын
Maybe you are shy. Let's talk to me
@amansur1
5 жыл бұрын
You can use these tips with any language...
I’m a native English speaker but James has great videos for everyone.
Even as an English speaker this is nice advice. I know it may seem weird or odd. But I have an issue with knowing what to say and believe it’s a social anxiety I have where I just don’t say anything. So these really are great tips to get the ball rolling and have a connection made without being about main topic.
@rdd4563
Жыл бұрын
We're in the same boat, man. I'm looking for beginners guides to conversations cuz I suck socially, I actually thought up something like a theory for this stuff, I was raised by my mother but she just gave me a phone and let me raise myself. I think a key factor to people growing up is their upbringing, as a kid, were you chronically online?
Y can’t our teachers teach us this, this is my first time focusing to a teacher 😂😂and I learned something new and new skill😂😂🙄
are you wearing 3 shirts
@user-kb3if7uk2h
6 жыл бұрын
ian clark omg im laughing out loud
@iiiverson
6 жыл бұрын
hahahaha😂
@yeariel7279
5 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@ariesariesfearless4810
5 жыл бұрын
@@user-kb3if7uk2h hahhhha
@saidkhrach6521
5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Your teaching is wonderful and what you teach is useful for me in learning English. Thank you 🙏🏻
I think you're great at what you do and very important in today's i phone society. God bless you James!
My problem is after the initial questions I am genuinely bored of the interaction as it goes no further than my own interests. Breaking this ingrained habit of losing interest is not easy and it has continued to do harm to my interactions with people.
@breechoi5489
Жыл бұрын
me too
"Hi! Do you consume enough calsium and vitamins?" Smooth
@alt842
2 жыл бұрын
Joe Rogan would approve
@MeneTekelUpharsin
2 жыл бұрын
@@alt842 Why?
@mirza_saabb193
2 жыл бұрын
@@MeneTekelUpharsin he's pretty big into natural supplements
I really like your videos, I don't find them boring.
Hello sir, this just popped up in my recommendation. I do not regret clicking on the video. The way you speak is very captivating. I always don’t know what to say after “Hello”, thanks for helping. Have a nice day sir
I like your lessons because you give to us the chance to improve our english and you give great advices to our life. I used to be very shy, but when I began to study english and have more conversations with others it improved a lot, and this lesson helped me how to meet more people and make more friends!! Thank you!!
As a relatively tall man, don't ever ask someone if they played sports.
@mynamesjeffhardly
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you get that all of the time lol just like short people get short jokes
@jmm1817
2 жыл бұрын
So did you?
@alejandromayorga8614
2 жыл бұрын
I am also tall, 2 me is a very boring reoetitive and boring question
@Mhoohing36
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly. I’m 6’5 and 😶 is my face when I hear that
@rellbachanal2751
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly....like I get they were complementing my height to a certain extent but it doesn't being up much of a conversation especially if you don't play basketball😂
im impressed, he's an amazing teacher! looks like if i was in a real class! Congratsss!!!!
This is great not just for people learning English for the first time, but also for people who have trouble kickstarting conversations.
You're the best man teacher that I have seen. Actually, that I have watched teaching all of us. Thank you so much. :D Your lessons are awesome.
James from Japan: Why does he keep using me in his examples.
@bruno6027
2 жыл бұрын
James may, aka bim
@olukenyosamuel3658
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@shikohliza
2 жыл бұрын
Now that u caught him,let's see how the conversation will go down.
James, you are the best English teacher that I've never seen before! All your lectures are extremely helpful for me! Keep updating us and thanks for your efforts!
Me, an introvert Me: Hello, how're you? Them: I'm fi- Me *ends conversation*
@raphaelb5237
2 жыл бұрын
Thats not an introvert thats just you being weird man
@ReceivedYou
2 жыл бұрын
For me it’s like this: Me: how are you doing? Them: good me: *spends an hour trying to think of topics to bring up*
@slaughtershawt4354
2 жыл бұрын
@@ReceivedYou m
@MeneTekelUpharsin
2 жыл бұрын
@@ReceivedYou While trying not to be too cheesy or too cynical
I’m in sales and I’ve been using your videos to help me keep clients engaged and it’s been helping a lot so thank you!
Hi James! I love your teaching strategies, so useful. MUCH APPRECIATED!
This is so much more than conversation openers! Thanks for this great video!
how to finish "I want to be the very best" by singing pokemon together obviously! that would the best way
@teabone2313
2 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly
I'm 32 years old and this lesson is the best i ever had. i'm recommending it to all my friends. Thank you sir
I love your knowledge sir! I've been working on getting my verbiage back in tact. I definitely appreciate you for this.
Thank you, James. I enjoy your talents and skills for teaching.
I love your accent, intonation and the way your voice connects with your viewers
Me : “Hello! nice shoes you are wearing, where did you get it? A guy : “Thanks, i stole it..” Me : “okkkay ….”
@jhineko7014
2 жыл бұрын
-where did you stole it from? i might get one too
@user-dm3sq5sx1w
2 жыл бұрын
@@jhineko7014 From your shoe rack..
@PanameraTurboSEHybrid
2 жыл бұрын
@@jhineko7014 *steal
@neichathomas3539
2 жыл бұрын
😂
I really love all of your videos so much! I keep on watching every single of it like I'm watching a movie marathon 'cause you're so funny! and I love how you've been able to explain or use simple words for us to understand everything you're saying. Thank you so much, I learned a lot! ^____^
This is so easy and clever to implement, that im genuinely shock on how effective it can be on a conversation
Thanks James! Great video even for native speakers to practice coming out of their shell.
Thank you~~ have been watching your channel for couple of weeks ago and it's really make sense and it really help me through
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2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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In Brasil work like this atvthe english schools: hello! how are you? I'm fine thanks. And you? I'm fine too. And finish hahahaha!!!!😂😂😂😂. Thanks James for presentation others ways! I going learned english online and alone.
@kubrasth2760
7 жыл бұрын
Dont worry, the rest of the world learn english exactly the same way 😉 It seems so weird when you get into daily life😔 nobody talks like that
@erissanorma5891
7 жыл бұрын
same in here japan,and the the english conversation class is just,,,bulls,, well,, boring
@drogo3498
7 жыл бұрын
Renata Amemiya In saudi arabia , the english teacher doesn't speak it well XD
@ralphmumbeck5758
7 жыл бұрын
I hope you don't mind me improving your comment. 1) "Thanks James for presentation others ways! " A better way is: Thanks James for presenting other ways! Reason: Things like hobbies or activities (swimming, teaching, watching movies, etc.) are known as gerund, and the ending is often -ing. 2) "I going learned english online and alone." Better is the future tense, which is "I am going to learn English online and alone." I hope that helps Cheers....
@lero6kuka
7 жыл бұрын
there is no alone even you are staying outside the earth. :Vhahah
I’m learning alot !! Thank you Sir James , GOD bless you .
This content is amazing. I'm just now finding this gentleman and I'm hooked
Sharing this?? I must do. Thanks James for keeping your lectures interesting and simple to memorize🤝🤝🤝🤝
I like this guy. I watched his "very"clip and the way he presents himself is awesome. Even tho i can speak english i still watch his clips. Its highly educational. Thanks buddy:-)
Excellent lesson, I use these techniques in sales everyday. Thank you for sharing!
i dropped out of school and it never really hooked onto me but this guy makes it more better for some reason please don’t call me stupid but i like this guy
@lightsword1345
2 жыл бұрын
Why did u tho it is gonna affect u in the long term
@stezzy4645
2 жыл бұрын
@@lightsword1345 school was really hard for me i had so many family problems with money i just couldn’t handle it anymore
@lightsword1345
2 жыл бұрын
@@stezzy4645 how old are u?
@stezzy4645
2 жыл бұрын
@@lightsword1345 19
That whole “I like what you’re wearing thing” really works. I said hello to someone and they said hello! I love your boots, where’d you get them? (They were just red rain boots) and I answered and the conversation took off from there.
@philipebiloma2704
2 жыл бұрын
Hello👋👋
@hmeadb
2 жыл бұрын
It was my mom’s in the 80s
@alecberrg
2 жыл бұрын
I was walking on the sidewalk once when someone stopped in traffic to ask me where i got my boots. I suspect she didn't really want to start a conversation though; i think she just really liked my boots 🤔😄
@thevagabondsageinthewoods
2 жыл бұрын
@@alecberrg You can tell the difference by the boots.
I really love your lessons. It's useful and interesting. Thanks!
Stranger: tell me how you would finish this phrase: “I wanna be the very best” Me: that no one ever was!
This is very good. Practical, important, and conveys the importance in listening!
@learnENGLISHwithdebi
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, listening is very important. 😊
You are so mindful with your calm voice. I like your energy and personality. Thanks to you, I will finally be able to improve my English skills.
@devankumar8781
2 жыл бұрын
Practice makes perfect. 😊
My man teaching English and manners. I like it!
I absolutely love this lesson! It’s incredibly useful! Thank you very much for creating and sharing it!😃
You make learning English way more fun, Keep up the good work👍