How To Speak Elegantly, Confidently and Eloquently | Jamila Musayeva

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How To Speak Elegantly, Confidently and Eloquently:
In this video, I share some of the most useful tips to speak with elegance, confidence and eloquence starting with expanding your vocabulary, to pacing your tone and pitch and using confident body language.
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  • @Rishita_Naik
    @Rishita_Naik Жыл бұрын

    My summary: Increase your vocabulary. Manage the volume of your speech Pace your speed . Don't end sentences which sounds as questions. Speak less than you think. Get rid of any curse words. Don't interrupt and let others interrupt you. Using confident body language. Speak infront of mirror and analyse your mistakes.

  • @arete1394

    @arete1394

    Жыл бұрын

    thanks

  • @sumankanwar_

    @sumankanwar_

    Жыл бұрын

    Thnks

  • @pradeepkumarsahu3259

    @pradeepkumarsahu3259

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @pradeepkumarsahu3259

    @pradeepkumarsahu3259

    Жыл бұрын

    Can Someone be my friend?

  • @rosebeauty700

    @rosebeauty700

    Жыл бұрын

    🔥🔥

  • @adasarioglu
    @adasarioglu Жыл бұрын

    shes a tutor in Barbie princess school and she does KZread in her freetime 🧚

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww 💕

  • @shelbystiner6545

    @shelbystiner6545

    Жыл бұрын

    That was one of my favorite Barbie movies as a little girl and I agree completely, I remember that they cover some of the basic things like posture which she covers in her deportment videos!

  • @Luisa-cs2pd

    @Luisa-cs2pd

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shelbystiner6545 I haven´t even heard of that movie, but will look it up! I wonder from what age a girl goes/could go to Barbie princess school?

  • @shelbystiner6545

    @shelbystiner6545

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Luisa-cs2pd I think she was invited at 16, I could be wrong though, it's been a long time!

  • @Luisa-cs2pd

    @Luisa-cs2pd

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shelbystiner6545 Thank you for your reply! Sounds like 16 is a good age. Do you know of any similar movies (also that are not cartoon) that could inspire more girls today? I think this is so important because films can help girls to see examples of girls with character and learn from them. In Europe (Scandinavia) where we live theres nothing inspiring like that. I work with children and try to teach them at school some things but I believe we need to do so much more...

  • @decemberclouds
    @decemberclouds Жыл бұрын

    About interrupting, I took a meditation class once where we had to listen to someone talk for five minutes WITHOUT doing anything . We could not nod, go 'mmm', interrupt, touch the other person, or anything else. You had to simply sit there and *listen.* It was VERY difficult, but I think about this sometimes when I'm listening to someone. This topic would be interesting to take as a course or series of classes. Thanks for this video as always!

  • @by9diz8

    @by9diz8

    Жыл бұрын

    That's interesting

  • @isadoratakagi3947

    @isadoratakagi3947

    Жыл бұрын

    I loved this!

  • @lalawmpuiivangchhia4552

    @lalawmpuiivangchhia4552

    Жыл бұрын

    Screenshotting this so I can practice it. Thanks a lot.

  • @poisonedchalice

    @poisonedchalice

    Жыл бұрын

    Interesting. I really need to practice!

  • @DianaM_

    @DianaM_

    Жыл бұрын

    This is genius. Thank you for the idea!

  • @aac6216ljc
    @aac6216ljc Жыл бұрын

    That lavender is divine on you. My second favorite color. I feel like a butterfly was speaking to me about elegant speech. 💜

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @nicolew8347
    @nicolew8347 Жыл бұрын

    I have always been told that eye contact is essential for polite and effective conversation as well. It shows that you are paying attention to the person and that you care what they are saying. I know in other cultures eye contact can be considered offensive but, to the best of my knowledge, I’ve never encountered this before.

  • @jukeldups

    @jukeldups

    Жыл бұрын

    I try to balance eye contact with letting my eyes wander a bit. Otherwise I feel like I'm a dog trying to intimidate an intruder :D

  • @Luisa-cs2pd

    @Luisa-cs2pd

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jukeldups Good point, I think you're right. I will practice that. Thanks for sharing

  • @harshita_Chaudhary8080

    @harshita_Chaudhary8080

    4 ай бұрын

    My eye contact intimidates others

  • @ED-xk8um
    @ED-xk8um Жыл бұрын

    The dying art of being an intelligent, well versed and elegant lady … I didn’t think we would see such a person again! You give me hope that others will be inspired too and a whole new generation of articulate, well mannered ladies (and hopefully gentlemen!) will emerge. A world without coarse language with which many of us cringe, and instead, clear and succinct use of our mother tongue will go a long way in opening up conversations and gaining respect. Keep up the good work! We need many more like you. Thank you. 😊

  • @yashichopra6826
    @yashichopra6826 Жыл бұрын

    It's too much to consume in few minutes maybe I need a week or two for grasping this whole video thank you though for making this video it was very helpful!!

  • @jesusloveisthegreatestpower
    @jesusloveisthegreatestpower Жыл бұрын

    don't end your sentences with "does that make sense?". It sounds like you can't talk with clarity and need to ask people if you make logical points.

  • @MelissaMisinco

    @MelissaMisinco

    Жыл бұрын

    Is also sounds like you’re talking down on people.. like they are stupid.

  • @jesusloveisthegreatestpower

    @jesusloveisthegreatestpower

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MelissaMisinco correct and agree.

  • @michaelgiler2173
    @michaelgiler2173 Жыл бұрын

    Usually I get bored a few minutes into a video, but you make me hang on to every word until the very end. The combination of your intelligence, tone of voice, personality, beauty is mesmerizing

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for your kind words ☺️

  • @m.s9146
    @m.s9146 Жыл бұрын

    Lovely. May I add that you never know who is listening. I was presenting a legal case to a government official in an open room setting. My now fiancé was listening from a distance and was impressed with tone, argument, persuasiveness, appearance and he approached me. Not only did he hire me to represent him in my area of legal expertise but sometime later he proposed. He is a complete gentleman, quite tall and extremely wealthy.

  • @martyvan4206
    @martyvan4206 Жыл бұрын

    I also notice that many speakers struggle with disfluencies, particularly 'fillers' such as "uh", "erm", "um", "well", "so", "like"... while they are thinking of what to say next. Thanks for your thoughtful videos and for reading my comment.

  • @momsmagic1111
    @momsmagic1111 Жыл бұрын

    Let's take a moment and appreciate the way speaks, so softly...🥰 and her dress is as beautiful as her voice 😊

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @jesusloveisthegreatestpower
    @jesusloveisthegreatestpower Жыл бұрын

    I lost a lot of friends over the years because of how I speak to people. This video is essential. Took me a long time to learn sweet speech.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    🙏🏻☺️

  • @andrea.szerdahelyi
    @andrea.szerdahelyi Жыл бұрын

    Dear Jamila! We recently had our wedding and your "How to be a good speaker" video helped me so much to prepare for my wedding vow. It went great. :) This video is another gem :) I will try to use these tips in daily conversations. Thank you dear!

  • @rubyjendek1961

    @rubyjendek1961

    Жыл бұрын

    congratulations!🤍

  • @andrea.szerdahelyi

    @andrea.szerdahelyi

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rubyjendek1961 Thank you so much!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations ! Thank you for saying this! Means a lot to me 💕

  • @andrea.szerdahelyi

    @andrea.szerdahelyi

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JamilaMusayeva Thank you very much! 🤍

  • @kupu99

    @kupu99

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations. All the best of love and happiness to you and your marriage💐

  • @sharlleneandressa8624
    @sharlleneandressa8624 Жыл бұрын

    English is not my first language, but as a teacher, increasing vocabulary is essencial. Also, great tips on getting people to pay atention when you're speaking. Tone and pitch of your voice and also gestures makes a great difference in the audience.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely ☺️

  • @gdretired4385
    @gdretired4385 Жыл бұрын

    In America, cursing is ubiquitous. Excellent advice to stop curing. This will force a person to increase his/her vocabulary.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope it stops being a commonly acceptable thing.

  • @gdretired4385

    @gdretired4385

    Жыл бұрын

    Things have been getting better since my days as a teenager (the 1970s). Kids and teens are reading more than those back in my day. In addition, they’re using less drugs.

  • @niori9991

    @niori9991

    5 ай бұрын

    @@gdretired4385 as a current teenager, it’s refreshing to here you say this :) !

  • @AshmitaYadav-ys1ds
    @AshmitaYadav-ys1ds2 ай бұрын

    i have been watching jamila over few weeks one thing i have to say jamila is defintion of beauty ,elegant and classy her outfit speaks elegance at its finest

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @l.-gz7ny
    @l.-gz7ny Жыл бұрын

    Como hablar elegante, con confianza y elocuente - Ampliar el vocabulario + Hacer lecturas diarias de diferentes temas. + Cuando encuentres una palabra nueva, saber el contexto en donde usarla Usarla al menos 3 veces en el día - Administrar tu volumen de voz +Usar un volumen bajo - Velocidad de cuando hablas + Ser consciente de la velocidad de tu voz. + No tragarte sílabas + Hacer pausas mientras hablas. - No terminar las oraciones con un tono de pregunta + No terminar las frases con ¿Sabes a lo que me refiero? - Habla menos cuando estés nervioso + Cuando estés nervioso cuenta hasta 10, si es importante di lo que ibas a decir - No decir groserías, malas palabras + Jerga + Decir las palabras completas + Muletillas - No interrumpas y no te dejes interrumpir + Se un buen oyente + Si alguien te interrumpe, sigue hablando, en el mismo tono - Tener un lenguaje no verbal confiado + Párate derecha + Manos visibles, palmas visibles, no señalar + Ambos pues en el piso - Hablar en frente del espejo + Puedes grabarte, poner atención en tu voz, gestos, movimientos

  • @syraibahtisrael732

    @syraibahtisrael732

    11 ай бұрын

    Gracias por hacer esto😉

  • @Chahlie
    @Chahlie Жыл бұрын

    I've made a concerted effort recently to speaker softer and slower. It's a constant process but I'm getting there and it is making a difference in how I am received. Also making an effort to not talk so much, as well as to ask more questions of others :)

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Good for you!

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so so so much Jamila for this video because its truly truly helpful to me in my life and I really love your videos so so much and I wish you reach 700K Subscribers very very soon!💞☺️💫

  • @n.d8001
    @n.d8001 Жыл бұрын

    I could listen to you for hours without interrupting you. Thank you for sharing your expert knowledge

  • @luvmesumpasta
    @luvmesumpasta Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! I struggle the most wiith this. I used to be really confident back when i was a child but due to some circumstances i lost all of my confidence. Now, i think im really awkward around others and i don't know how to carry a conversation. I just wish i could speak that eloquently like confident people do.

  • @anamaria-db7pq

    @anamaria-db7pq

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey it’s similar with me. When I was a kid/ teenager I was super confident and couldn’t care less what others thought of me. When I grew up I became less and less confident, even socially anxious , damn

  • @anamaria-db7pq

    @anamaria-db7pq

    Жыл бұрын

    But I made the experience that the more you expose yo ur self into social situations where you have to talk the less frightening it becomes and the more relaxed and confident you get yourself.

  • @andrea.szerdahelyi

    @andrea.szerdahelyi

    Жыл бұрын

    Dear ladies! If we talk about social interactions and not about giving a speech, this really helped me: "Be genuenly interested in others. Feel like humans are the most fascinating creatures, each and every one of them." People generally like to talk about themselves, so ask questions and then listen actively :) They will notice how nice of you it is that you are interested in them. At least this is what helped me to overcome my social awkwardness, I hope it will help you too.

  • @luvmesumpasta

    @luvmesumpasta

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anamaria-db7pq Thanks for the tip ❤️

  • @luvmesumpasta

    @luvmesumpasta

    Жыл бұрын

    @@andrea.szerdahelyi Thank you! I'll deffo incorporate this in the future 💗

  • @thevagabondsageinthewoods
    @thevagabondsageinthewoods Жыл бұрын

    Lovely, and inspirational, as always. Thank you for taking the time to make this video.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @ardentlyblooming
    @ardentlyblooming Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this Jamila!! I've been waiting for a video like this. Very helpful!😊

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @user-rx7uh9mg4f
    @user-rx7uh9mg4f Жыл бұрын

    I was just thinking about this a few hours ago and you dropped a video. Thank you!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome ☺️

  • @virtuemoir215
    @virtuemoir215 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Jamila!💙 I'm so glad that you did this video! So helpful and useful !!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @TeachableMomentsWithMaggie
    @TeachableMomentsWithMaggie Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Just joined the Patreon. I love how just slowing down calms down

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome aboard!

  • @zionstv6148
    @zionstv6148 Жыл бұрын

    What I learnt from this was, Speaking to your self in the mirror or recording your voice while you speak. This tips as really helped me in my attempt to be more eloquent in my daily conversations.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad it was helpful!

  • @nancygagnon821
    @nancygagnon821 Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate how you present exactly what you teach !

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @sophie-sm9qr
    @sophie-sm9qr Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE your speaking and posture videos 💗 Love it as always

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @rohinidevisradha5784
    @rohinidevisradha5784 Жыл бұрын

    TQ ma'am for your best tips

  • @misskitty2270
    @misskitty2270 Жыл бұрын

    I love how you give practical advice and what not to do as well!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome 🙏🏻

  • @sdb8478
    @sdb8478 Жыл бұрын

    Also volume and pitch are 2 different aspects of sound. Lowering volume makes you inaudible, lowering pitch makes you a calming presence.

  • @yoonari9840

    @yoonari9840

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, lower your pitch.

  • @knunez4862
    @knunez4862 Жыл бұрын

    You look stunning in that lavender color😍

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @user-pr1st5rh9r
    @user-pr1st5rh9r Жыл бұрын

    Expanding vocabulary, avoid high pitch tone , rate of speaking,hand gestures are the most important ones in my opinion.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    🙏🏻

  • @_snowflakes__
    @_snowflakes__ Жыл бұрын

    This is very helpful. Thank you so much Jamila❤️

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @swapnanilkar4786
    @swapnanilkar4786 Жыл бұрын

    As usual informative.

  • @husnapardis836
    @husnapardis836 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you soo much for this video!! It was so interesting and extremely helpful! Thank you.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @anna_makarchuk
    @anna_makarchuk Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Jamila! The tips are excellent.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Ahri_k_da
    @Ahri_k_da Жыл бұрын

    Yess finally! I always wanted to learn how to speak with elegance. Never clicked a video so fast in my life😂 I'm taking notes while watching. Thanks for the valueable advice!❤️

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @shannonr4360
    @shannonr4360 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I have been looking all over for proper speaking etiquette and just being more eloquent and confident while talking. There is not much content on it. This came at such a perfect time!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @leenalsader8476
    @leenalsader8476 Жыл бұрын

    Love this topic! 💜💜

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @hibaid1424
    @hibaid1424 Жыл бұрын

    thank u for these videos, you are an inspiration

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Subhana23
    @Subhana23 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent tips and points.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @giorgiagatti2621
    @giorgiagatti2621 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jamila, you are my favourite youtuber! I struggle a lot with my high pitch and tone and as I am shy and get really nervous I tend to talk definitely too much. I really should pause a lot more. I would love to watch a video about how you organize your day with a home to manage, two kids, your work etc

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @ecoknitty
    @ecoknitty Жыл бұрын

    This is so helpful! I want to apply these techniques in my daily basis. Thanks🙌🏼🤩

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that ☺️

  • @kalpanapatel6746
    @kalpanapatel6746 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, your videos are so helpful

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @aservantofallah
    @aservantofallah Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video, Mrs. I highly do appreaciate this🙏🏻

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @nadiakate
    @nadiakate Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤️ Your videos changed my life ✨

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You're so welcome!

  • @jishajain7341
    @jishajain7341 Жыл бұрын

    most coveted video mostly because the way you speak! truly appreciate the coverage and depth of the chosen points. thanks!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @IssacBenAvram
    @IssacBenAvram Жыл бұрын

    Great insights worth sharing. Tone, hand gestures, posture, eye contact, natural confidence from the heart. Transparency at it's best. Thanks for sharing!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @Lovejoypeace69
    @Lovejoypeace694 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your expertise!!! I love following you and I’m 58. Well done young lady!!!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @Nicole-zr1me
    @Nicole-zr1me11 ай бұрын

    This is so useful 💕

  • @nikitabisht8201
    @nikitabisht82014 ай бұрын

    Your videos are such a great help. I know I am late in get to know about these but following these tips is making me better day by day and I just feel so confident about myself now.

  • @abhi_______296
    @abhi_______2968 ай бұрын

    this video is really informative, i understand how much time and dedication it take to make such video, thank you for such an awesome video 👏❤

  • @wasanasandaruvani1393
    @wasanasandaruvani1393 Жыл бұрын

    Thankyou for share this with us

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome

  • @Lovely_Alice_32
    @Lovely_Alice_32Ай бұрын

    Your look is so elegant and appealing! Thank you for teaching us etiquette ❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Lovely_Alice_32

    @Lovely_Alice_32

    Ай бұрын

    @@JamilaMusayeva You're always welcome 😁

  • @kartikg.kartikg
    @kartikg.kartikg Жыл бұрын

    As usual, your voice is so soothing.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @afolabitoluwani3863
    @afolabitoluwani3863 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I always learn new things from your videos.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that!

  • @tuma0814
    @tuma081412 күн бұрын

    I enjoy it very much. I love the Low peach voice at the end of the sentence❤

  • @tuma0814

    @tuma0814

    12 күн бұрын

    *pitched

  • @DOLLSILOVE
    @DOLLSILOVEАй бұрын

    Thank you so much for making these videos 🪻🪻🪻🪻🪻🪻🪻🪻

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Glad you like them!

  • @DOLLSILOVE

    @DOLLSILOVE

    Ай бұрын

    @@JamilaMusayeva Thank you so much for replying my comment 💜 have a lovely day ahead 😊

  • @amandamadaci7797
    @amandamadaci7797 Жыл бұрын

    It was very delightful listening and watching you. You reminded me everything that I know and told some aspects that are foreign to me. Two or three years ago I thought that hand gestures are undesired, however in the meantime I understood that there is a way of incorporating one's hand gestures, remain appropriate and seriously understood. Thank you for your work!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome 🙏🏻

  • @judesilva-barrios3201
    @judesilva-barrios3201 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for enhancing my appreciation of eloquence. It's a pleasure learning from you. I find incorrect grammar common these days, unfortunately. Have a wonderful day 😊.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💕

  • @JaimieGonzalezAH
    @JaimieGonzalezAH6 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this information. It was very helpful.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    6 ай бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @Eelaha.mammad.
    @Eelaha.mammad.Ай бұрын

    I am proud that my country has women like you.❤I have learned a lot of things from you. I'm 19 and I still have a lot to learn.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much 🤍

  • @Ophanim1000
    @Ophanim1000 Жыл бұрын

    You have the face of an angel and the spellbinding voice of a siren, A powerful air of mystery that intrigues me so. I feel as though you might dissolve before my very eyes. How can one be so perfect.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your kind words ☺️

  • @Ophanim1000

    @Ophanim1000

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JamilaMusayeva It is a bad day to be british. If I could go to washington to see your gorgeous face and converse with you, I would in a heartbeat.

  • @maricelgund
    @maricelgund Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jamila 🤍

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @UsmanKhan-kh4gm
    @UsmanKhan-kh4gm Жыл бұрын

    My favourite tip is how to continue the conversation while others interpret you....thanks for making this adorable video❤❤🇵🇰

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @JennydaLakwashera
    @JennydaLakwashera Жыл бұрын

    Maraming Salamat po.!

  • @muhammedkhadijat8428
    @muhammedkhadijat84286 ай бұрын

    Hi Jamela, I'm a TV host and I have found your videos educating and impactful. I would love to watch more of your lessons. 😍

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @WhatEver-yj5rg
    @WhatEver-yj5rg Жыл бұрын

    Very practical and beneficial tips ❤️

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @muslimaadilova
    @muslimaadilova Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your valuable advises🥰🥰🥰.Your blog is such a necessary for girls and women 🌹🌹🌹

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    So nice of you

  • @ve5394
    @ve5394 Жыл бұрын

    Jamila, long time no see, love this topic. Very useful, do more pls 💝

  • @klaudinegarcia8932
    @klaudinegarcia8932 Жыл бұрын

    Hello Jamilya! ☺ I'm a new subscriber! These tips are great!! Thank you for sharing! 💖

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @shewayusif962
    @shewayusif962 Жыл бұрын

    That was so brief thank you

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome

  • @sophielawrence7927
    @sophielawrence7927 Жыл бұрын

    Jamila, Listening to your video has really soothed me. Thank you. That colour looks exquisite on you.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Lala-artart
    @Lala-artart Жыл бұрын

    Honey can I just say that you look absolutely stunning sweetheart ❤️ lilac is definitely your color😘❤️

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @preetirajdev2413
    @preetirajdev2413 Жыл бұрын

    Hello Jamila! your videos are very helpful and soothing to watch. your way of speaking is good. thankyou for all the tips. I want you make a video on how to keep our legs elegantly under the table while talking to someone like in our class or while having dinner or any situation which needs sitting. I realised sometimes our legs are exposed for someone else to see and there must be a way to keep them so they will look elegant. hope you make a video on this. much love to you💗

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much 🙏🏻

  • @Dreambigandfearless
    @Dreambigandfearless Жыл бұрын

    Your videos are really valuable ❤

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad you think so!

  • @minnikeyangel
    @minnikeyangel Жыл бұрын

    Upspeak describes when a declarative sentence ends in a higher pitch which makes what is stated sound like a question. It can be a very difficult habit to eliminate, however not impossible. Becoming aware of the habit is the first step to success. A tip I have is to record yourself speaking and noting when it tends to happen most often. Is it when you're nervous? Are you not sure of your response? Etc. I have also found that being mindful to keep my pitch low as I end sentences to have worked well for me.

  • @gen8878
    @gen8878 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for such a great content specially these kind of topics ♥,..

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @christinewehbe6962
    @christinewehbe6962 Жыл бұрын

    You are an elegant and great speaker

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @terraiznajem105
    @terraiznajem105 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @SourChhori
    @SourChhori Жыл бұрын

    The way you're teaching us look like Barbie teaching us. You're kindest ❤️ really really needed video

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    😊 thank you

  • @maeve1699
    @maeve1699 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You're welcome!

  • @neiltravelvlogs1255
    @neiltravelvlogs1255 Жыл бұрын

    Nice vlog 👍

  • @n.d8001
    @n.d8001 Жыл бұрын

    Dear Jamila. Thank you for this great presentation. You look absolutely stunning but I think your spectacular outfit distracts from the content of your speech. With gratitude and respect.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. That is your opinion ☺️

  • @GurpindersWorld
    @GurpindersWorld Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ma'am its really very good topic i really really like it..🤗🙏

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome

  • @VJolie3
    @VJolie3 Жыл бұрын

    That color looks amazing on you

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @eliskaboudova391
    @eliskaboudova391 Жыл бұрын

    This video is so helpful! Thank you very much. It would be lovely if you may make more videos on communication, conversational skills... 🌸💐🍀

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @monar1295
    @monar1295 Жыл бұрын

    I would like to see a video about travel outfits and etiquette. I love your style! Always an inspiration…

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks ☺️

  • @shaaaairuuu
    @shaaaairuuu Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful video Jamila! I would add to the first point on vocabulary that simply using big words doesn't make one an eloquent speaker! I find vocabulary to be helpful to find SPECIFIC words to use in the right place and not necessarily pretend to be a walking thesaurus. Unnecessarily using difficult words can come off as pretentious and make it difficult for others to understand you, which defeats the point of using words, we use them for people to understand us. Many people are guilty of making this mistake so I had to point it out! Also I used to speak very fast and my words would be hard to understand for some people. I learned on the internet that focusing on the consonants instead of vowels makes it easier for people to understand you. As soon as I started focusing on it consciously that slowed down my speed and now I have a fairly good pace! I still talk fast when I'm excited but otherwise people have no trouble understanding me. Also, if a person you know interrupts a lot and you are in an environment where it is safe to crack a little joke, of course it's not applicable everywhere, but you can say "sorry for talking while you were interrupting". It should work 😂😂

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree with the points about using pretentious words without understanding the context.

  • @uditaghatak4326
    @uditaghatak4326 Жыл бұрын

    I really feel i need to improve my pitch. I am a confident speaker but have a high pitch and high pace. And i will surely check out formal hand movement and signs. Thanks Miss Musaveya you really inspire me. I am an 18 year old viewer from India. (^)

  • @meritamrita
    @meritamrita Жыл бұрын

    Thank you amazing woman 💐

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    💕

  • @jaguar3267
    @jaguar3267 Жыл бұрын

    This is nice and all but you forget one thing: your elegance and eloquence will be wasted on an awful lot of people who are neither elegant nor eloquent themselves. I used to be more elegant and poised and articulate and then it kind of just went away because I had more important things to focus on. And being surrounded by trashy people/family members didn't help. But then again, that's the whole point of having class, isn't it? That you stay classy and dignified even while others are not! Heheh. Great video, thank you for uploading it! It's admirable of you to put effort into this somewhat-lost art.

  • @EHASSAN-eu5lx
    @EHASSAN-eu5lx9 ай бұрын

    Speaking elegantly, confidently, and eloquently is a valuable skill that can enhance your communication and make a positive impression on others. Here are some tips to help you achieve this: 1. **Expand Your Vocabulary:** A rich vocabulary allows you to express yourself with precision and depth. Make an effort to learn new words and their meanings. Reading books, articles, and listening to well-spoken individuals can help you acquire new words. 2. **Practice Clear Pronunciation:** Pronounce words clearly and enunciate properly. Avoid mumbling or speaking too quickly, as this can make it difficult for others to understand you. 3. **Speak at a Moderate Pace:** Speaking too fast can lead to confusion, while speaking too slowly can make you seem unsure. Find a comfortable and moderate pace that allows you to articulate your thoughts clearly. 4. **Use Pauses:** Pausing strategically can add emphasis to your points and give your audience time to absorb your words. It also prevents you from rushing through your speech. 5. **Control Your Tone and Pitch:** Vary your tone and pitch to convey different emotions and add depth to your speech. A monotone voice can be dull, while a dynamic voice is engaging. 6. **Eliminate Fillers:** Avoid using fillers like "um," "uh," "like," and "you know." These can distract from your message and make you appear less confident. 7. **Practice Active Listening:** Engage actively in conversations by listening attentively to others. This allows you to respond thoughtfully and contribute meaningfully to the discussion. 8. **Organize Your Thoughts:** Structure your thoughts before speaking, especially in more formal or complex situations. Having a clear outline helps you present your ideas coherently. 9. **Use Gestures Thoughtfully:** Gestures can enhance your communication, but they should be natural and appropriate. Avoid excessive or distracting gestures. 10. **Maintain Eye Contact:** Establishing and maintaining eye contact shows confidence and interest in the conversation. It fosters a connection between you and your audience. 11. **Be Mindful of Your Audience:** Adapt your language and style to your audience. Speaking to a group of professionals might require a more formal tone, while speaking to friends can be more relaxed. 12. **Practice Public Speaking:** Engaging in public speaking opportunities, even small ones, can help you build confidence and improve your speaking skills over time. 13. **Read Aloud:** Reading books, articles, or poetry aloud can help you practice your pronunciation, pacing, and intonation. 14. **Record Yourself:** Recording your speeches or conversations allows you to identify areas for improvement and track your progress. 15. **Learn from Others:** Pay attention to individuals who speak eloquently and confidently. Observe their speaking style, vocabulary, and delivery. 16. **Seek Feedback:** Ask for feedback from trusted friends, mentors, or colleagues. Constructive feedback can provide valuable insights for improvement. 17. **Stay Calm Under Pressure:** Practice deep breathing and calming techniques to manage nervousness when speaking in challenging situations. 18. **Be Genuine:** While improving your speaking skills, remember to be yourself. Authenticity is key to establishing trust and connection with your audience. Remember that speaking elegantly and confidently is a journey that takes time and practice. Don't be discouraged by occasional mistakes; instead, view them as opportunities for growth and improvement.

  • @jesusloveisthegreatestpower
    @jesusloveisthegreatestpower Жыл бұрын

    I love the lavender dress.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks ☺️

  • @metildajoseph5265
    @metildajoseph5265 Жыл бұрын

    Greetings Lady Jamila, Communicative Words compliment Definitive Thoughts in Dignified Manner in Civilised Conversation.. Thanks.. Take Care. With regards, RanjithJoseph (R.J)

  • @allynmarin
    @allynmarin Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Jamila, for sharing these videos! I was wondering if you could teach us about small talk; when I go to social gatherings, as an introverted entrepreneur, I genuinely would like to get outside and talk to people, but I fought myself very uncomfortable in small talk situations.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    You are welcome ☺️

  • @keshthelady1144
    @keshthelady1144 Жыл бұрын

    very informative and helpful. you are looking beautiful in this dress.

  • @JamilaMusayeva

    @JamilaMusayeva

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

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