When i first started making youtube videos i was incredibly shy, and my early videos were terrible, i hid behind a microphone all the while and i did not feel confident at all, but then i accepted who i was (i am transgender), once i did this, my confidence went through the roof, my shyness almost vanished over night, and i went from making very random videos to actually filming myself doing the thing i love the most, photography! My posture also changed, i went from an awkward looking stance to one of supreme confidence, head held high and speaking as clearly as i can (i have a cleft pallet which has given me a speech impediment). I only have like 300 subscribers but to me, that does not matter, i am not making videos for other people really, i do it for my own pleasure, and i will continue to do so even if my subscriber count goes down to just one sub! For me, making videos really helped my journey, but accepting who i am was really the one aspect that propelled my confidence to new found levels. I am not perfect, but i am me, and i am the only me there is, we are all unique and special no matter who or what we are.

@ShammasTk

7 жыл бұрын

Alexandra Starr photography e

@aailakhan7173

6 жыл бұрын

I've been researching reducing shyness quickly and discovered a great website at Sartar shy method (google it if you are interested)

I'm shy and I hate it. I don't know how to stop it.

@user-wv9mc6my7b

7 жыл бұрын

Makayla Ison my friend I don't think that you are shy person because you accept it & you are already started take steps towards bold & confidant you even post your picture that positive sign my suggestion is to make good & positive friends in your life🙂

@user-wv9mc6my7b

7 жыл бұрын

& friend you know what about me I'm so confusing many times...sometime I don't know what to do🤔

@Kay-sp1db

7 жыл бұрын

* Sarang* i am very shy when I go to soccer trials and I feel very shy and embarrassed sometimes I need to speak more and get my self out there

@youare2539

7 жыл бұрын

Makayla Ison same here..sometimes I keep hiding or my face look down..

@jahanzaibshahid07

7 жыл бұрын

im also

I am very shyness person unfortunatly I lost many chances in my life now review my past life all these efficts come from my past lief.

Love these videos I swear you don't realize you need something sometimes until you have gone through some big experiences in your career and job. I have been through some things in the past and hearing the advice you all mentioned for the workplace is very helpful. Oftentimes were so happy to be employed and working we forget to raise our voice or be assertive in situations too. These video should be played everywhere. These should be played in college classes undergraduate and graduate for all students these are essential no one prepares you for real life in the job once you get out there and experience it. It's nice to have these tools when things may be going off track at work or in the workplace with large groups.

I'm very shy and I don't like it when I'm in front of crowd I use to forget all and suddenly laugh 😁 comes

@jaymahakal5082

4 жыл бұрын

so can we become freinds

@ashwathm437

3 жыл бұрын

My problem is in fight I can't speak at all

@abideenmaryamfolashade8107

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing as me ooo

@shubham_M7777

2 жыл бұрын

Same here, I have insecurity of looks

@lingeshvasudevan9760

2 жыл бұрын

Myself I sweat

Shyness is an issue if believing others are better than you! I suffer from this at times and it's unnecessary as nobody is better than others! You are worthy! You are special! You are love! Believe in yourself! Do NOT compare yourself with others! Compare yourself with who you were yesterday! You are loved! Look to the people who are kind and compassionate! Love yourself because you are perfect as you are!

One little detail about comfort soze. Many will tell you to get out of your comfort soze, but that might be a bad idea. Better is to explore the borders of comfort zone and while feeling confident try to expand your comfort zone a bit. Take it step by step. Be happy for every small progression you make and don't expect miracles. Avoid fear, because the meaning of fear is to teach you what to avoid. This fear mechanism runs very deep in every living creature and cannot be changed. BUT you may be able to change what causes your fear, be slowly, and step by step convincing yourself that it is safe. Imagine a cat being afraid of some toy, but after exploring it for awhile the cat decides it's not dangours. The cat needs to take the time it needs to explore, it cannot happend any faster.

@scorpionseal8609

Жыл бұрын

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When I am watching you I cannot change my eyes because you makes people attentive with your way to speaking.

Nobody's perfect. We are just striving to be better so let's value ourselves as we are and improve what we can and wish to do in our personality because it'll make us happier.

I am also a very shy guy struggling with the same problem,sometimes i can't even imagine why this happened to me and there are times i even shed tears when i couldn't do certain things.i was just doing the opposite of what you mentioned in your videos like putting myself down,compared myself with others etc..i find some of my friends doing well with their shyness without much effort but to me that never happened i just thought to myself that this is what i was born with and to make a difference this seems hard. Thanks for your video

App ne meri man ki bat sheen li app sabse bdhiya chez bta rhe ho jo kamyabi ka phla kadam hai.....

I just love to start my day with these vids of Skillopedia... It brings some sort of positive energy and feel-good factor within me that sustain throughout the ups and downs of the day. Thnxx for being so helpful and supportive.

Dont be shy chin up and dont overthink just think in a positive way and always be brave and always be happy and be kind😊😉👌

Thank you, I'm very shy and really will to overcome with it.

@najibcasa2745

6 жыл бұрын

I've been researching top natural cure for shyness and found a fantastic website at Sartar Shy Method (google it if you're interested)

Thanks a lot ma'am I am also shy person but I committed to myself that I will definitely overcome from my shyness to shine over the world 🤠😎

no one talk about this problems?even I am also facing this problems but I don't know how to overcome from this.its totally related to me,and I like the way you present this video its helpful to understand deeply. thank u so much!!!

I find this video on recommended it's really like a booster thank you for your video ..I have to host my school assembly on coming week I am so nervous and started to thinking how to take leave on that day....but really your video motivated me a lot I'll gonna do that as my first task .....thank you so much for your video ....hope I'll host that programming successfully😑😑

Talking in a way that shines out the simplicity and spontaneousness in a unique lovely way. I really like this KZread channel!

So much on this channel has really helped me. Thinking. Thank you! You are so awesome!

Hello ma'am.. am so happy to have found a teacher like youu.. thanks a lot for ur precious tips

how effective was this vedio session to me i jst cant express it in words after watching it i already started feeling how special i am n my strengths are now m gonna remember your points whenever i feel uncomformatable n to deal with some hesitation kind of situations this is somehow added to my fav vedio love it

I’m very shy person but now I’m working on it and this video helpful to overcome my shyness

MAM plz read it seriously after listen u i really want to apply all the skills .....mam m so shy person and every body lectured me to come over my shyness also my family members mam ...whenever i met with any stranger or go to outside i feel uncomfrtbl soo after watching u i tried ...also u soo sweet

Thank you very much for this wonderful video. I am very shy person and my personality is worst that's why people hated me. now i know what to do now. You really helped me a lot thank you very much :)

Thank you so much for this helpful video, especially for a person who is easily getting nervous and shy when talking with strangers like me.

Loved the last line unleash your true self where lies a great personality!!! :)

i have seen a lots of videos like this . but This is the best , best of all !!!

@aneeshvora4287

6 жыл бұрын

Rajandeep Kaur 👍

Just what I needed to hear! thank you ma'am. I always find your videos helpful.

I really love the way you present yourself in helping others get motivated.Keep up the good work.God bless you dear Sister.

Accept yourself, nice idea

Heye Reema, How sweet you speak 👌💖 I love your speaking way ❤❤❤❤

this video of yours is actually amazing. I have tried following this and gained some positivity that i can overcome my shyness. So, thanks a lot for such kind of videos.

Every information your channel provides us is really helpful for me, it's because you explain it very well so that we can understand ourself what we are and where we are making mistakes and how to overcome them. Thank a lot ma'm.

for the first time I just felt shy when I am watching u more than u r video....!!!

Hi my name is Pooja and I am also shyfull nature girl but reema u give me solution of my problem so, thank you so much. Keep it up.

this video is for introverts too..😉

@mirasacallixte9212

4 жыл бұрын

ahhh u're telling the truth bro

@catherinejohn4674

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@Navneet07860

3 жыл бұрын

To a certain point but shyness and introversiin are completely different sides of a coin.

i am so grateful to this channel.bcoz it helps me to learn english and speak english well.. thanx to rima mam and niharika mam

Hello ma'am! Really loved the way u speak ..there's a thing that makes me listen to u and also gives a sense of assurance from u! Keep inspiring ppl!!

You are who you are!

Hi Rima, I appreciate you sharing skills for the real world, very practical. Thank you and keep up the great work...

Thank you so much ma'am ,have a great day and all the best ❤👌😊

i love that the way you are talking I promise you I slowly practise thaaaaank yooooou sooo much love you mate...

Hey Reema madam🙏... I am glad to watch your video for the very first time. I love the way you speak. I found some new usages in your content like snap out, ways and means, etc. I am looking forward to your upcoming videos. Loads of respect...👏👌💖

Feels Positive vibes around her !!

The way you described it ......Really Awesome

U r so far the best mentor in Skillopedia 💞

Thank you so much for such a wonderful video I think that now I can overcome my shyness from all of the points you mention in this video... 🤗

This is really great..you have grabbed all the things that a shy person cant tell what dey feel..👍

nice vedio n helpful too....I always feel shy from inside but my family tell me that I am a bold woman...at my work place i feel shy there is one thing in my mind that I did my studies from home n I did not go to any college and university n while talking to people I feel they are more intelligent and they have seen the world....this thing stops me to express myself

Khup Chan ahe ha video

i just love the way u speak. u r just out of the world

Thanks a bunch ma'am for your precious enlightenments 😇

It's hard admitting this but I just discovered how timid I can be most especially with people I rearly know

I’m shy but now I start loving myself Few months ago I always think to end my life Now I cherish my life I m having a major set back now but I’m fighting and shockingly it’s MAking me stronger ......

I'm inspired a lot with your videos and learned a lot and by watching your videos and certainly I changed lot in my self. and thank you so much.

Thanks for giving positive words

Sounds really good let's see if I can implement these things in my life thank you so much for the tips

Great videos, the advice on each one is good and simple to put into practice. The presentation. Is good and the presenter has a great persona. I highly recommend these videos.💎

Really important facts. big thank !

Amazing real speech/training, rima you r an expert in PD, good for beginners n even others, thanks.

Good gestures described ma'am. Thank you

Wonder flow and really attractive way of talking...and ur voice too....really blessed

Ma'am you are great I watched your video for the first time and I am really amazed thank u for making this video this has helped me to overcome my shyness thank u and love u

thanks mam for your wonderful guidance it's being too helpful to overcome my shy nature. u r such a 9ce person God bless you

yeah, u r absolutely correct

Sure, I will be used this tips in my life

It was really helpful.. thank you ma'm.. loved ur way of speaking 😍

Just paused after 2:30 min and went uncontrolled from commenting here ..Reema ,sorry to calling you by your name w/o ji,mam,etc.. but you are simply awesome and extremely pleasant personality..I love the way you speak confidently..you are speaking as if you are preaching a spiritual talk..you seem to be noon for a while because the listening you gives you bliss..you are great..now wordless..love you *infinity..

Really Love this one. keep up Good Job well Done...

After watching your video I feel much much confident in myself. Thanks a loads I am sure that it will be helpful for me in feature .

thanks for support skillopedia.. u just got new subscriber

I love your presentations. I have learned some very valuable information from you. Thank you so much 🤗

Thank you very much, you have a new follower. Your videos are really hepfull to improve my social abilities and my English in the same time.

back ground music is amazing... and i always love d way talk

Thanks for the guidance

Reema mam, you are a great I can't express that what I feel and I really sure about that your effort will finish the shyness disease.

Thank you very much for this video

You are doing million dollar work.

Thanks Rima..Awesome and I am really impressed the kind of content and tips from you..great learning for me..keep it up

It,s really true that we can overcome on shyness use of this point and it,s a very amazing video

Thank you Rima, you helped me so much!

Thanks heaps. You are wonderful and intelligent presenter!

Thankyou for this wonderful video ☺️

Mam you're awesome you are absolutely right about learning the English it's really have to follow our daily lives and we have to must follow that....

ur voice is sweet as sugar. really loved the way u speaked. nd it was a good speech..

Hi ma'am I really love the way you speak. Thank you ma'am for the tips. They will really help me in overcoming shyness.

just be confident. its that simple

wow, I don't know what I should say but thank you thank you very much , I just feel happy during watching this video rima I love you ♥♥♥♥

OMG...YOU ARE SO OPTIMISTIC.. THANK YOU MA'M!!! BEST VIDEO ON KZread EVER!!! NEW SUBSCRIBER...AND THUMBS U

U know Ma'am ...my biggest problem is ' I cant accept my self' and i am sure soon it will destroy me...

@trishadutta5546

7 жыл бұрын

Ayan khan u r already there. U know that one day u will die because of this. So why not save yourself? ☺☺ Treat yourself as a human being. Respect yourself. Most importantly respect others eventually u will get respect in return. Stay happy 😃😃

@omkarbuddhe1783

7 жыл бұрын

Ayan khan i too m in kind of similar condition

@feronia249

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly. This....

@idontknow6954

3 жыл бұрын

Now how is it going?? Felt glad to see this reply after 3 years 🧐

@khansaib1373

3 жыл бұрын

@@idontknow6954 honestly i am totally changed now ...when i think about my past 3 years before i laugh soo much ...and think that how silly and foolish i was at that time ,,

Thank you skillopedia

Rima This video is awesome.This Video is very helpful to improve my self and I accepted​ my self that one who's overcome my shyness and made my self to confident. Thank You.

Thanks for your encouragement... I just gave me a confident

Thanks...you so much life changing video.

Thank you so much ... GBU 🙏

I am working on my posture....when I am met with something unexpected...I get super nervous and have more hand movements, my voice sounds shaken.....but have improved a lot over 2-3 months...

@monisham1543

7 жыл бұрын

even I have the same issue... my voice is the major thing which shows everyone that am very nervous.how did u overcome?

@youare2539

7 жыл бұрын

Monisha M same here especially when the first meeting..my voice like shaken and sounds very weird but I keep talking myself infront of the mirror 😂

Reema! I think boldness and confidence comes from good character and good thinking about benefits of people.

thanks for your advices

Luv u sister... This points will make me a good confident person.... Thank u so much for ur video.... First time i m watching ur video.... I subscrbd it... And i will be watching from now...

thank u in shall ah I will try it.