A toddler's tantrum is a part of growing up. An adult's tantrum is a red flag. 🚩

@theoryofpersonality1420

12 сағат бұрын

My child even as a toddler never threw tantrums. Toddlers throw tantrums to gain control. They grow up to be the same way.

Don't reward bad behaviour.

You don't outsmart them. Because there is no point in the first place. Exercise your own self compassion to get the energy to move forward rather that concentrate on a negative relationship.

@danieller3215

Күн бұрын

Exactly. Energy flows where attention goes so if you watch narc videos for too long, you’ll marinate in the doom and gloom that is your life. If you are able, and I really emphasize that if you truly are able to get out, focus on moving forward and try to surround yourself with positive people, places and content. Good luck fellow survivors!

@autumn7031

Күн бұрын

That's the point of what Dr Ramani is saying... ultimately her message is about YOU and getting into who you really are as an individual person once removed from a narcissistic abuser. It IS about moving forward and disconnecting from that dynamic, getting yourself back. Your power back. Restoring your own thoughts, heart and goals. It's the focus on you and not burning your energy into that dark abyss of negativity. Hence..... Outsmarting them. The energy is what you put into yourself, by shifting the control back to yourself, thus, defueling them. That's how you win. That is what the message is. Taking YOU back IS outsmarting them.

I have zero compassion for a narcissist. The only way, in my honest opinion, to outsmart a narcissist is to ignore, ignore, ignore and have no contact with them whatsoever. We have a narcissistic brother-in-law, and I've cut him out of my life completely, no contact in six years. Unfortunately my sister is clearly trauma-bonded to him since he can do no wrong.

@texan903

2 күн бұрын

An ex cousin I had is a hopeless narcissist. She went as far as to steal money from several relatives plus myself. This is what brought us to the point of no return because she began gaslighting and doubling down when busted. Since removing her from my life, it has been much more peaceful. No more texts, phone calls, etc., etc. When she spoke to me at a family reunion, I acknowledged her without saying her name by looking at her for three seconds and saying, "Hey there."

@theresamark8220

22 сағат бұрын

​@@texan903😂

IF you ever outsmart a narcissist, NEVER let anyone know it was you. Only way to make it stick.

@jss2889

3 күн бұрын

Are you saying don't let the narcissist know you know they are a narcissist?

@crucifire9224

12 сағат бұрын

@@jss2889even friends. Move quietly.

Like the Paul Simon song, "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover," "Just slip out the back, Jack. Make a new plan, Stan. Just drop off the key, Lee. And get yourself free!"

@tammyfitzgerald5336

3 күн бұрын

🎉❤🎉❤the gambler lol devil went down to Georgia

@annbolton5626

2 күн бұрын

Music 🎶🎵 to my ears! I grew up listening to these songs 😁. More importantly I grew up and out of narcissist relationships! 🎉 🕯️ 🌞

@maryk4588

2 күн бұрын

Don’t have to discuss much - just get on the bus Gus & SET YOURSELF FREE!

@PlumGustave

8 сағат бұрын

😂👌🏼

They are complete aware and consious anout what they are doing.

Don;t make excuses for poor behavior.

They also try to hurt you.

I did the whole one year no dating/sex/etc and I can tell you it was the most healing and libirating thing ever... I've never felt more happy and me than I did after it and still do now a few years further... Best advice ever!! ❤

@PassionateFlower

2 күн бұрын

I'm starting my year of no dating/no sex for a year journey! Looking forward to peace and serenity and forming my support tribe!❤

Remember... Go DEEP with a Narcissist. Don't do these ... Defend. Engage. Explain or Personalize. 2:02

I’ve been in narcissistic long term relationships with 2 different men in my life and I sure would appreciate having a support system like a friend or a family. I hear a lot from videos on KZread is that it is a necessary thing to have. I have lived a hermit life not by choice for decades now. I take walks but there is nothing around me to much to see. I say hi to passersby when I see someone but that’s about it. I have no vehicle or don’t live near any bus stops but I sure do miss sitting down and having a cup of coffee with someone with a kind and loving perspective on life and others. Well I just wanted to tell a little bit about my life and say hello to others out here on earth like myself anyways. 👋🏼 😊

@NewDay8429

3 күн бұрын

Im like that as well. Hi there. ☕

@aniqabano1582

3 күн бұрын

Hi

@mindonthespirit1543

3 күн бұрын

Same here. 👋 If I were in your neigborhood I'd come over with some coffe😊 😊

@romain-3712

3 күн бұрын

Read, inspect KZread, develop mindfulness exercices. Don't give up about yourself. You're worthy of interest and value.

@NIKKISNOODLE

2 күн бұрын

@@Angela-ul9si omgosh Hi ! I can sooo relate. I’ve even called on Siri and asked some random question just to hear a friendly voice. I hope somehow life gets better for you. None of us deserve any of this.

The faster you realize personality disordered people are projecting in everything they say the faster you can stop making what they say about you or anyone else they are also targeting. You know they use projection but aren’t realizing its all the time to everyone they tell you to “love” or “hate”.

Being abused is not a way of showing empathy.

Took me a year to plan the great escape 🎉❤

@yukio_saito

2 күн бұрын

I hope the plan works. 🏃‍♀💨💨

You know that bad feeling you get when you're watching a scary movie during the suspenseful scenes where everything is quiet and the music is making you feel uneasy even though everything looks "normal" on screen but you just KNOW you're about to see/hear something AWFUL in a few more seconds? THAT is how you know beyond a shadow of a doubt you are dealing with acold blooded narcissist. They make you feel LIKE THAT.

@WhatSkarletSees

2 күн бұрын

Yep! This is a great description! Going on holiday with them is definitely like that. Or just being alone with them ...

@marianne57

17 сағат бұрын

Oh my this is the best definition I’ve seen and have been there.

It’s very, very difficult when this is a parent.

@tracycampbell3060

17 сағат бұрын

❤ yes. 6 years no contact and I'm finally getting my life back. My peace and joy.

The incoming message after leaving a toxic relationship is such an adrenaline rush. It's best to take cover and block. ❤😊

Im convinced the likelihood of a Narcissist changing is VERY LOW to IMPOSSIBLE. I keep hearing counseling and therapy. I've paid for it for decades. It provided LITTLE to NO VALUE. Respect yourself. Care for yourself. Construct boundaries. Forgive others and yourself. Love freely. Manage expectations by communicating. Be physically active and pursue your faith in the God of Heaven (Jesus Christ).

@savedbygrace8445

Күн бұрын

The end of your post is the icing on the cake. I’ll follow with! “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” My adult daughter is a narc. I’ve been going minimum contact since 2019 (due to her having 2 teenage sons) I can’t fully cut her off. She still blames me for everything that goes wrong in her life. Blocking her online/calls etc…..has become my only way, so as not to hear her abusive threats and accusations. I Thank God, that she manages to treat her sons in a decent manner. Much prayer, has, and will continue to go up to our dear Lord and saviour Christ Jesus for her soul, and of course for her boys.

@brianwoo8877

Күн бұрын

@savedbygrace8445 Amen. Yes! A life that is reconciled to Him is of vital importance. In this life and in the next life. He is my strength, wisdom and song everyday. ❤️ We need protection from these narcissists and deliverance. May the good Lord continue to deliver you. GBY precious one 💖

@user-sc3hl7of9i

Күн бұрын

They are not going to change. They strive in chaos and meaningless power competition.

@autumn7031

Күн бұрын

@@brianwoo8877 & @Savedbygrace: If you folks don't support or need the mental health support of a professional, then why are you here watching this? It's unfortunate that your situations are tough, but so are many people's. If you don't have interest in the knowledge and experience Dr Ramani and other professionals have to offer and you've figured it out by yourself ...well then great. But don't discount the incredible knowledge this woman has and has provided so many people in need at No Cost. She is a gift. She has healed herself and relates to so many of us. We should find value in that. Although I agree with your writings of God and His Grace, He also teaches not to judge. Once your "saved" you are not above the rest, we are All here in the same place Because we are all the same to God. You know, so many people go through life as if they know it all, they have it all figured out. But there is only One that has it all figured out. God. And He has put us here To figure it out, so No One goes through this life knowing it all. Hence, learning from others. There is something to be learned from you being here watching and reading this. That's up to you to figure out, just like the rest of us.

@mattmarrin8457

16 сағат бұрын

Been in therapy and meds for 2+ decades I've learned more and grown more and recovered more from these types of gourps, narc channels. Comment sections like right out of my life. Got more out of In 6 months rather than in 20+ years Counciling and meds only works if it's works for you. Many council and med situations have to fit you. Or could easily just make harder or worse even. Speak from experience. To each their own. Not anti council. But I've had therapists that were worse off than I...can't get help or healing from such lol. These groups are lit a life saver. Blessings all. Keep up the good self care. Councilong and meds can make many people worse or just get in the way.

After 31 years married to a narcissist I left 11 years ago. I have 2 adult children one a narcissist. My normal one, my best friend, died a few weeks ago. I am disconnected from the other. I have been disabled with ME/CFS for 27 years which has left me homebound and isolated. Only God can help me get through this. I feel it is too late for me now. My message to anyone in the proximity of a narcissist…run..don’t wait…don’t hope it will change.

@scuttletheship656

Күн бұрын

I am so very sorry for your loss. God bless you❤

@Mathystarr

21 сағат бұрын

Your message is absolutely correct. May you surround yourself in gentleness. Nature, passionate hobbies and may happiness become more and more prevalent in your life.

@paul2019monte

19 сағат бұрын

Being severely ill with ME/CFS also makes us so vulnerable to the tactics of a narcissist. Be careful regarding your adult narcissistic child. Possibly go no contact. He will show no mercy. Sometimes being isolated is not the worst thing.

@Kali-oc1qt

16 сағат бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss ❤🙏you can heal from ME/CFS it's caused from narcissistic abuse.

@paul2019monte

14 сағат бұрын

@@Kali-oc1qt Personally I feel it is more of a comorbidity. I do think narcissists sense the vulnerability and target the ill person. Of course the abuse worsens the illness. Just my opinion.

If someone tries to gaslight me Narcissist or not I just call them out by saying Don't try to gaslight me, Most of the time they shut their mouth when I let them know I know the game they are playing,

@margiechism

2 күн бұрын

Me too. ■ M

I outsmarted mine and called him out. You are smart doc but I never back down from a fight!

This is so true. I lived it. Get out. Life is so much better and safer and more free and nurturing the soul. Don’t stay as long as I did. 8 years. Life is wonderful since I decided to get out! I live 650 miles apart now and it’s the best feeling in the world!!! Get out!!!!!

I walked away from my closest friend who was gaslighting me and even with proof she doubled down.

Your topic today has spoken to me in ways my four years of research and videos has not not. The fast twist of our relationship, the dismissiveness, entitlement, gaslighting, talking negatively about EVERYONE especially those in my circle blah blah etc etc…I have been in this MESS for 40! Years but didnt realize it until five years ago. Before then, I thought it was me. If I could be prettier , be a better cook/housekeeper (he calls me his squaw), earn more money etc. but then I researched and saw that internal happiness is always out of his reach. He will never catch the brass ring and frankly I’m tired of being the cheerleader…so tired…Thank You! Lots to think about…🙏

2:34 Don’t go DEEP: 🚫 Don't Defend 🚫 Don't Engage 🚫 Don't Explain 🚫 Don't Personalize It's easy to remember and simple to practice. I have been practicing this technique for years. 😊

@virtuous-lee

23 сағат бұрын

it just listening ?

@acustomer7216

22 сағат бұрын

​​​@@virtuous-leeit's not reacting. They thrive on provoking a reaction which they turn around on you and call you over-reacting, too sensitive, stupid etc. react with generic non-reactionary responses like: that's interesting! How nice! What did he/she/they do/say?

@yukio_saito

10 сағат бұрын

@@virtuous-lee For more details, look for this video: "Narcissism and the deep technique"

having compassion for the narcissist? That is a huge misstatement Doug Why should we? Dr Ramani is so right with her advice. Plan your exit strategy with a narc carefully, they are unpredictable and sometimes dangerous. Ideally don't enter into a relationship with a narc in the first place. They are bad news, and will NEVER change.

@margiechism

2 күн бұрын

Rat droppings trail ■ their pattern of operation in darkness; they keep the same route until you close off their entry. M

" breathing space lets us individuate"..... brilliant

Thank you Dr Ramani. This is so good. Once your out, you need detox time. Then you need to exam the crime seen of your life to not repeat it. Slowing down to resurrect who you really are from the ashes!

Yes working on an inpatient mental ward is helping me now. Babbling narcissists and not engaging. They just keep talking while you stop putting fuel on the fire by NOT saying something back. The conversation is basically Nonsense so looking elsewhere and not speaking makes most sense. I have to say I am surprised how mentally sick some people are. It's tragic

You can't do this if you are in a relationship with one. If they are not getting supply they will demand it. Once you stop engaging with them they will discard you. Which isn't a bad thing.

@pinkpill5355

2 күн бұрын

I am at a point where I wish he would just discard me...

@user-sc3hl7of9i

Күн бұрын

I can't wait until the narcissist discards me😂 meaning to just go away 😂

@acustomer7216

22 сағат бұрын

You're right. 15 yrs into marriage I gave up. I was pleasant, continued with marital expectations (such that they were cause the hubby withheld sex as a power play). I stopped giving him hurt, tears, begging to spend couple time w/ him, initiating conversation. Answer pleasantly when spoken to. Stupid me thought I'd coast until the children were grown. Next thing I knew he was having an affair & I was DONE & thrilled to be. He seemed to think it would inspire a girl fight over him. 😂😂😂

@paulcu130

20 сағат бұрын

@@pinkpill5355 My dear, if you are in a relationship with one, you need to start planning now. My biggest mistake from being in a relationship with one of these people for 25 years is, you think you know them. You think you know what they will do in ever situation. However, you only know the regulated version of them. The version that gets their necessary supply levels. The other version is very, very unstable. Once you see that version or as they say, once you see behind the mask, you will never forget it. They are capable of anything and I do mean anything. You are living with a person that isn't complete. Realize that you are not just in a very bad situation, you are in a very bad situation that is also, very very dangerous. I know this for sure. We think they are very strong, well put together people with great life skills that just are extremely difficult to get along with at times. No. That is the regulated version. That is the mask. They are very, very fragile little children that is very very dangerous when unregulated. Understand this. Your life may depend on this.

She’s right but the more you believe that you can’t leave the narcissist the more you really should seriously consider leaving them. But be safe. They can be very dangerous. If you can’t physically leave as in getting a divorce you still can put distance between you and him or her. Find wholesome things to do with friends colleagues family members hobbies creative projects such as painting writing poetry restoring a classic car get into drag racing (the legal kind ) sailing your yacht around the world climbing Mount Everest….And add to this the use of gray rock. Just be extremely boring to them and spend very little time around them. Have honest good fun and be happy living your best life in spite of them.

@SherryONeill

18 сағат бұрын

Excellent Suggestions !! Translation - Go Live The Life That Is In our Hearts !!

I lost a job because I refused to engage. The narcissist ran around spreading lies acting the victim saying I was being mean when I wasn’t even around her.

@Sezfluffy

Күн бұрын

I've had this too but don't look back x you're free

I live next door to my sister the narcissist. I bought my childhood home after I became disabled based on her promises her husband would help me keep the property up. That lasted two summers. She then wanted to charge me. She NEVER has enough money. That's why she made that promise....if I bought the house, she would get her share of the $ faster. Then she started borrowing money from me to file bankruptcy, her third. After a few years of borrowing from me every few months I said no. The gates of hell opened up.

@marygoodson4920

2 күн бұрын

Sell the house, cut off contact and move somewhere else where you can have help. Even if you have to pay for it.

@colleenflanagan5225

20 сағат бұрын

@@marygoodson4920 yep, it’s a sellers market right now. But not for long! I’m holding onto my home next to my narcissistic sibling only because she and her hubby are so physically unhealthy. And I’m very patient. I gray rock them. Narcissists are essentially cowards. The most important thing is to take really good care of yourself. The best revenge is a great life! 😊

Just walk away

@NopeNotTodaySatan

3 күн бұрын

As FAST as you can!!!!

@NIKKISNOODLE

2 күн бұрын

If I could have only one dream come true, that would be it.

@andyanderson6522

2 күн бұрын

I can’t

@Retired-jr3qs

2 күн бұрын

@@andyanderson6522 of course you can. It's your life. Own it.

@Retired-jr3qs

2 күн бұрын

@@NIKKISNOODLE find the courage.

I pray that i can secure a low income apartment soon. Where i can walk to the grocery store nearby and leave the awful situation im in. I am a senior ( 58) with medical conditions. ( retired poor nurse) i cannot stay where i am. I pray that i can have my own little 1 bedroom place for my own and find some part time work im able to do. I have CLL with other conditions and my current living is abusive by family. Probably bf too. I just want my own again. I have been to my doctors and they are aware. They see my health going down. Then my children and grandchildren are able to visit, there wont be a problem. Thank God they live in a better state than where i am and our love is unconditional ❤️ but the others in the family, grandparents, uncle, aunt, dont have to see them. We can enjoy each other. Thats very important to me and being ME

@margiechism

2 күн бұрын

Mobile Van ■ some seniors design a van to live and travel; it may give the opportunity for one to enjoy life freely. M

@susanmercurio1060

2 күн бұрын

I wish you the best

One year after isn't enough for me. I'm going on 3 years since breaking free from the narcissist. I can stay single for the rest of my life after what I have been through.

not only lying versus gaslighting, but challenging versus gaslighting. EVERY NARCISSIST ACCUSES EVERYONE ELSE of gaslighting because their victim has confronted them (“destabilized their sense of things”), & they often go NC.

I think learning about stoicism can be helpful. Just old wisdom on how to respect yourself

@susanmercurio1060

2 күн бұрын

What you can control and what you can't

Dr. Ramani is amazing, I could listen to her for ever 👏👏👏👏!

Dr Ramani is so tuned in to this...she's wonderful...how well she articulates the whole syndrome of narcissistic abuse. ❤️

2:17 Thank You 🙏🏼 Dr Ramani ♥️

There are very few true leaders in an industry. Dr Ramani is a pioneer in this area of psychology. She has the compassion and the knowledge to educate, help heal and refocus people. I appreciate your incredible contribution to all of us because so many people cannot even afford proper mental health support, and you are amazing and so kind to help everyone by offering your knowledge and guidance. Thank you. Great video, so well done Doug.

Dr Ramani please talk about narcissists and not wanting to make wills when they have a large amount of assets. My husband won’t make a will and also is always saying that our only child will get nothing every time my son doesn’t do what he says. My son is grown and has his own life. My husband expects him to drop everything and leave work when my husband can’t do something on the computer

@marygoodson4920

2 күн бұрын

My mother used to expect me to leave work and drive all the way across the city to bring her a Tylenol.

Don't defend, don't engage, don't respond is the best response.

“If you want to stop a fire, take away the oxygen.” Perfect.

I see the lying or gaslighting, but others might be believing the stories that are being said behind my back. Whichever it is I still have a job to do given the hand I was dealt. I don't believe it though - I was there.

Narcs put more focus on a bad reaction than the ice cold sociopathic behavior that led to the reaction. I have a friend that does not care one bit what my family has done to me. It completely bores and bothers him to hear about it. Yet he will correct me for my preferences and ways of doing things. These are things that are not harming people but just a part of my beliefs. If my mom committing adultery to him is inconsequential then why do I get questioned and berated when I can’t make Christmas for example. His policy is who cares for everyone else but for me it’s this impossible standard and he is always pointing out something.

@susanmercurio1060

2 күн бұрын

You have a friend? You HAD a friend. You don't need enemies with a "friend" like this.

That’s so true.. “you don’t know yourself “/“you don’t even know what you want on your pizza”. I grew up with multiple narc family members that would try to tell me everything and I would not get to be myself.

Planning is everything in leaving. Keeping them and the flying monkeys out of the loop is vital. Prepare for the worst just so nothing is a surprise. My narc's exit went smoothly and he thought he was leaving me vs being shown the door. He started harrassing after but police gave me some good advice and it stopped.

You don’t have to outsmart them !when you see through the mask and really see them for what they are . There already living in there own delusional type of hell , once you see how sick they are you will never see them the same way again. It’s not a game you can or need to win because you have already won , your not like them

I can avoid the family and random narcissistic people who pop up in my personal life but narcs in a professional setting are actual cancer.

Wow, this is an eye opener. Recently dissolved a many year relationship over all of these symptoms. I didn't know it was narcissistic. I fell into all of the traps. Thank you for making me realize.

What a great interview.

Love Dr Ramani , she’s a wonderful lady and has helped me personally more than she’ll ever know. Thank you Dr Ramani.

I can turn off my emotions. Sometimes I even go into my own little void. The narc will chill a bit but .. start poking! Freaking emotional predators!! Dr Ramani absolutely rocks, mind saver.

It’s lying about lying

Have grate gratitude that you are not in it anymore. Listen to you body it's screaming the symptoms. They will definitely make you stronger in yourself after the healing.. Good luck and have faith that you can do it..

To those who don't see it? I sometimes say, if only to myself, "maybe they are onto something, and it's not working for me".

Great bio testimony. Dr R is the best. Glad to have found your channel, handsome and insightful...? Subbed ✨️

Thank you, Dr. Ramini.

Replacing the narcissist toxic relationship dynamics and patterns with a new healthy one is gold. I found that but the narc tries soo hard to stop that so i can stay in the same exact misery of his circle through truama bonding. Its fascinating. Replacement is the biggest option. Its like relearning what normal and healthy and safe is all over again. 😅

If You can , always ignore them , no matter what they say ! When You see them somewhere just leave and never look at them

Dr Ramani is wonderful. She helped me a lot. Thank you Dr R. 💕😊

Uh huh... Was told I was "too old to be vain" sometime ago.. I gave a little giggle and said "Maybe, but I don't spend ages with photo shop filters" .. Complete silence... Practice but try to detach and see it as a podcast not personal like the wonderful Dr Ramani has just explained so well.. Thank you Doug too.

Gaslighting in a nut shell: Narc: calls someone pretty right in front of you You: discuss it with them Narc: you misunderstood you always so insecure You: oh I’m sorry Narc: 😈 You: maybe I am insecure Narc: dismissing you and now you are confused and the situation was flipped to their sick twisted disgusting agenda. Conclusion: walk away. ✌️🚶‍➡️ It will hurt it will painful the realization of truly the person who have been dealing with. Might actually make you throw up n get sick to your stomach. I got 🤢: you learn you let it hurt all of it then you heal move one ❤

😂❤well said !!! 5:36 thank you we can have compassion with people and disengage from them

As soon as you aproach to then they premeditate the damage they will trough on you. I see them in a lot of people here.

I've built so much resentment towards my covert narcissist partner, that I've become the narcissist 😢😢😢

Gray rocking. I learned this from Dr. Ramani.

They Sabotage your life

Really good advice

How to outsmart them is to not play with them. Period.

It was! To an extent! (Every decision) + ive already been taking myself back! ❤❤❤💪💪📚💃💃😊

Yes compassion and disengage

There should be an extraction team like navy seals or something but for people who want to get out of these relationships.

I WISH I had taken a year off after the 20 years I was involved with the narcissist. I did wait a year and a half after our breakup, but he was still in the house, he was making it a toxic, protracted, super painful divorce. And people kept urging me to start dating. I ended up going into a relationship that I knew was wrong for me and again folliwed my pattern of staying in it too long.

Start dating someone asap after the trauma eventhough you will never end up in a relationship. Its what i think about it.

What's the deal with the smear campaign (with a covert narcissist).

@TheKrispyfort

3 күн бұрын

They think that reputation is everything.

How can they live with themselves and we can barely... Love from Montreal 🎠

We are all narcissists to a point. Heal yourself and you will not attract 'them'

@crucifire9224

12 сағат бұрын

Yes to a point we all are a bit selfish bit self observed

Yikes! What if your boss is a narcissist? He tends to gaslight everything I tell him about problems with other co-workers.

Having had a narc mother and sister who were physically, verbally, emotionally (and sexually as my sister would pimp me out to her male friends), then working with drug and alcohol addicted people, I am sooo done.

40 years married to a narcissist. I’m done. He’s getting worse.

Ive experienced this First hand from.Father and Siblings My older brother kept telling me I dumb and stuipt When i was five , he pushed me into a roaring fire . Everything I tried to acheve he abd other subkings set out to destory or stael everything i have , Even to the point of Framing me , so i was denied . They shut me out of the Fanily , refuse to talk to me after all the Harm they have caused me . My mother said to your brothers are jelious of you ? I have nothing, they are all very rich . One of sister said to me We wanted you in a body bag " That freeked me out , I could write a book on that sister criminal activities, let alone my father and siblings . Recently they influenced my girlfriend of many years to break up with me , posioning her family and friends againts ne , My girlfriend is using the same tactic on me they are using. Coventry Truth will come out ut in the end

@Kali-oc1qt

16 сағат бұрын

I'm sorry to hear this. Stay strong. They see something in you they wish to be. They have no soul and want yours. They are soulless..

"Don't engage" lol oh yeah they LOVE when you ignore them even for a moment

I’m dealing with this with a online bible study group. Didn’t like some of the things that were being said, so I left. The online criticism of my character on KZread started.I didn’t response. So now the leader of the group is texting me,we miss you, how are you, how’s your family.Holy Spirit feel is saying don’t engage. My experience with narcissists is they accuse you of the very things they are guilty of

Having compassion for the narcissistic individuals 😂😅..That is Y we have peoples like Dr. Ramini, do not EXPECT everyone else's to cater to these stupid Narc who can just throw their trash everywhere irresponsibly with selfish arrogant lifestyle..Everyone has to survive in this complicated world's, but yet, it is simple for the wise ones and seemed to be completed complex and confused by the Dumbfounded Narc Individuals..My points are that if one intended to treat others as DIRT, don't expect others to return with 5 stars treatments as of VIP-CEO or kings..Period..

Do you have any videos on a disabled person having to live with siblings? On my channel we are starting a series using horse and dog therapy to help the trauma. Thank you for your excellent advice ❤

It’s scary because what do you do when they are hammering and you say ok but become violent because they want an explanation it’s just exhausting.

It’s hard when you have children. Gotta play the long game

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My opinion, you’re just teaching your children how to be in a dysfunctional relationship.

My religious enabling sister gaslights me by saying… do you ever read your bible. 😂 I explained one time me don’t have the same faith and beliefs in God. Walked away! 👍🏻🥰👍🏻

A narc doesn't care whether you have empathy or compassion for them...that's the bottom line. You're just trapping yourself if you do that. They can fake it or use it but that's all. So don't even bother. That's one of the reasons why a narc is so infuriating to a caring normal human being.

My Lexus was stolen almost two years ago but I held onto the title. A few days ago my title got stolen the morning after I watched a movie on Netflix stating that I could be killed. The movie was called Anna and a character was called Alexi. I'm being held hostage in poverty they cleverly hired me then fired me so I can't afford a lawyer. I'm doing community service at sacred heart in Waco on valley mills for the next two days. My family is doing this to me. I trust no one. I'm not evil but I have a look a like who is a evil energy vampire and I can't get anyone to help me.

They try so hard to control the topi, the surroundings, and people or emotions

0:17 denying reality. is gaslighting. 😂😂smh. gaslighting is repetitive. i don’t hate my family. they shouldn’t hate me for walking away.

…. I hadnt realized that was what was happening. And thats when i thought: he IS smarter than me …. And i definitely cant stand the thought of another 10 years! 10 years! Im smart! I notice patterns. Im literally a “pattern/hands on learner” Yea ure talking ab what i was thinking “take a break” sadly i did tell him once to do therapy either way and he had said “theres no point if “ we werent going to be together.

don’t engage, don’t go deep, don’t personalize. it seems 2:59 to be a gray rock.

I find myself wondering what we will know about the biology, biochemistry and anatomy of people who do not have compassion or the ability to respect anyone else as our scanning and lab tests improve over time.

:33 oh my God my dad‘s fourth wife said those exact words to me.