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@planningthecollenfuture2851

2 ай бұрын

Is there a UK code? x

@user-dw9jw2id3g

Ай бұрын

The timer name

@edennis8578

Ай бұрын

It isn't just people with ADHD who get put off doing things when the process gets too complex. Retailers have found that if you add just 20 seconds to shoppers' purchase process, then they won't do it. Extra reaching, or having to take a few extra steps to get something, or anything else that complicates the process will cause most people to skip buying it.

@alexisgs8800

Ай бұрын

Have you tried Atomoxetine instead of stimulants like Methylphenidate or Amphetamines? It can affect heart rate as well but is less dangerous I think and it works well for someone I know. It inhibits the recapture or noradrenaline like some antidepressants do but it's marketed for ADHD specifically.

@Rea7931

Ай бұрын

Where did you get your shirt? Sooooo cute!

Hi @clutterbug I am a therapist who works with people who have ADHD - I refer them to your videos frequently thanks for being awesome!

You are NOT ALONE!!! I nearly started crying because everything you said is the same for me. I'm 73 and was only diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago, but I didn't take it seriously because I didn't really know much about it. It wasn't until a relatively new friend said to me one day, "Your brain is different from mine", and proceeded to tell me how much I jump around in my conversation, etc., etc. I hadn't realized that other people noticed and so I have just recently started looking for things to help me. I can't tell you how much I value your stories and the fact that you share your experiences with your community and give us tips. That mall story was me! You are so lucky to have been diagnosed this early in your life and that you are developing tools to help you. Keep up the good work, Cass! And thank you!

@LaJuana558

3 ай бұрын

I’m also 73 and while not diagnosed, but does this resonate with me!!! I have to Hager my phone Remind me to take the trash to the road every Wednesday night!

@robinking3255

3 ай бұрын

Me too. There are many things I struggle to remember and many I don't. My phone alarm would go off every afternoon. I would keep hitting snooze until I actually took my pills. Now my phone isn't working and I keep forgetting them. Next week I'll see the doctor and tell her now I know why not.

@LaJuana558

3 ай бұрын

@@robinking3255 🤗🤗🤗

@lovinglife3954

3 ай бұрын

I visited a friend I hadn't seen in awhile and she seriously told me she thought I was getting dementia. I told her it was my ADHD and she was skeptical. I often wonder if I'll be able to tell the difference if dementia happens. I was diagnosed in my 40's and had already been able to set up systems to help me, To other people I seem "rigid" but now that there is more awareness about ADHD (good and bad), people do get that I do things a certain way because of my ADHD.

@JettsMom

3 ай бұрын

Hugs! No you are not alone.

I’m 72 yrs old. My whole life I’ve struggled with these same issues. Not until 2 yrs ago when my grand daughter who has my personality was diagnosed with severe ADHD did I realize there was a reason for my mess. I’m trying to change and your videos are giving me hope! I just am overwhelmed because I’m not young and strong anymore. But I’m trying to make changes. Does anyone else make the plan, see yourself cleaning etc and then never get up from the chair an actually put the plan in action? I swear I clean and organize daily… in my head

@WriterOfMany

Ай бұрын

As a 31 year old trying to get diagnosed, Y E S. Mentally I've done the task. Physically I haven't moved and don't want to 😂😅

@debbiedebbie9473

Ай бұрын

Yes Frozen and overwhelmed and exhausted.

@caroleja

Ай бұрын

I'm a 45yo diagnosed, as well as my daughter, and we know that m'y 80yo mother is exactly the same !!! 😊

@jeanniesmith3705

Ай бұрын

Meeee!!! I just need to move😂

@user-iq6sq5lh9g

Ай бұрын

You're not alone Kay! I'm 51 and I know exactly what you mean!! I'm confident I can improve my house with these videos so let's encourage each other and hopefully make some progress as a result!🩷🌷✨️ Sending you positive energy✨️💫🌺🦋

Cas, I need to thank you. I was so angry with my husband last week when I went to get a knife from the knife drawer and found the measuring cups in there with the knives. I remember what you said before to the effect --if the clothes get dropped in the corner, put a hamper in the corner . Realizing he used the measuring cups there in that area when he made his smoothies, I rethought some organization and switched a drawer of kitchen gadget tools with the drawer of measuring cups and spoons and such. It put it right next to the knife drawer. I then was able to tell my husband that I did that for him to make it easier for him to use. A win win situation.

@debbiedebbie9473

Ай бұрын

Thank you for accommodating and not being mean to your husband.❤

@rosagonzalez4847

Ай бұрын

Oh my goodness that was so special!!!! God bless you!!! 😇

@naturalnikki8675

Ай бұрын

Great wife❤️❤️❤️❤️

@mirjamilstad3902

Ай бұрын

Totally thought this was going another way by the start «mad at my husband, got a knife» 💀💀

@spacebar9733

Ай бұрын

@@mirjamilstad3902 LMAO 😭

It’s not just “laziness.” But adhd often overlaps or comes with co-occurring conditions like health issues or chronic pain. Sometimes it really is too much to walk across the room or bend down to pick things up. Appreciate these tips for those of us with chronic health issues

@eepsers1

3 ай бұрын

Lots of co-morbidities like depression, too, and that really depletes energy.

@vicksta8875

Ай бұрын

Purchase a" Hand Grabber" A nice long handle with a pincher on the end. Helps pic up anything on the floor, or things up high. 😊

@Sourpusscandy

28 күн бұрын

I was going to recommend this too. I pick them up at thrift stores for a few bucks. One in the trunk of my car to get stuff from way back in there and one in the kitchen to pick up squashed watter bottles and etc. “no excuses!”

In my early years of teaching (retired now), a Special Ed teacher told me that "having ADHD was like having a bad day all day, every single day". I never forgot that and it encouraged me to have an extra measure of compassion for my students. Of course, back in those days, I didn't realize that it pretty much described me too 🙄. Thanks, Cas! Very good tips!

Never say lazy. Say fuel-efficient.

@BriannaEntrepreneur

Ай бұрын

😂 yessss

@projectqueen610

24 күн бұрын

😂❤love it...I'm so fuel efficient

"Full squirrel" I so relate to this. How to ADHD is great.

@kristytillman-herbalkindne2734

Ай бұрын

same!

@deeslifestyleloves

18 күн бұрын

Omg yes

I spent my whole life feeling stupid and lazy because i forgot everything and was always late. I tried every home organization and cleaning routine i came across. Finally diagnosed almost 2 years ago. Wellbutrin helps some. But I have to figure out how to make things work for me. I make lists for everything. I have white boards all over. I set alarms for everything. I redid my clothes storage, no more dressers. Keys go on a hook inside the front door or they disappear into the abyss. Music energizes me. Love you Cass.

@nikkicoleman6709

3 ай бұрын

Same. Stupid and lazy was my mantra. 😔

@iyaayas

3 ай бұрын

What do you use instead of dressers? I have one but it's been mostly empty except the top drawer collecting small clutter, the top collecting "important" clutter, and a TV. I'm finally getting in the habit of using it again and just throwing my clean clothes in there and only the clothes that I'm constantly washing and drying (Mt Laundry is slowly getting washed and smaller. Clothes are either going into my "when I lose weight", Sentimental, hand-me-downs, and give away bins and bags.)

@craftedeyecandies

3 ай бұрын

Wellbutrin was a Godsend for me long before being diagnosed with adhd, taken for years for depression until it would plateau on and off. Unfortunately, I can only take the brand name because generic makes me absolutely crazy, but I can't afford it now, and contrary to popular belief not all generics work the same as the brand, and not all generics are created equal. The same goes for the adhd meds unfortunately. I realized that during the national shortage of stimulants last year when I thought I was going crazy because I felt crazy, lol, but nope it wasn't me it was the fact that for each of the 3 months prior the manufacturers were all different! It went from Teva to Abbott to Lannett and so on. My dr didn't even realize this was going on until I explained what I discovered. Even just now looking at my med bottles I see that my afternoon Adderall XR 30mg, which actually helps me is from good old trusty Teva, but my morning Adderall IR 30mg is from Lannett! I'm so done right now, because I've recently switched them around because the IR seems to do absolutely nothing, but the XR does! And this is truly unbiased and unplacebo-sized, haha, because I never thought of looking before this post and didn't consider this to be the issue. I just thought I was becoming tolerant and needed to increase the dosage. My goodness, smh, y'all please get brand name meds whenever possible, because this is ridiculous and we are not test subjects. No wonder why some insurance plans only cover brand name for adhd meds (with a normal tier 1 or 2 copay usually). Too bad most don't however, and fyi, you can find out what's covered or not in detail if you contact the insurance company's pharmacy provider(s), even before selecting the plan and they're all 24/7 with live customer service reps available. I've said a lot, but I hope it helps someone in some way. God bless!

@robinking3255

3 ай бұрын

Thank you and I'm glad I'm not the only one who writes (and talks) a lot. 😜@@craftedeyecandies

@robinking3255

3 ай бұрын

I think I put that in the wrong place. 😏

So you will like this... one year for Christmas, there were three little tiny boxes underneath the Christmas tree, and I got really excited thinking they had jewerly from my hubby in them. Nope no jewelry, each of the three boxes had a copy of my car keys my husband hadxmade for me. The keys have been strategically placed around the house so that I no longer have to call my husband to come home from work 45 minutes away to bring me keys for my car because I always lose them. 😂

@cheryl6612

3 ай бұрын

I put my car key fob on a carabiner and hook it to my purse or my jeans as I leave the house. If by chance they get taken off of one of those then they’re lost. I also keep a backpack that has mom stuff in it, mail/magazines to go thru, charge cords and an adapter for kids, and I store my purse in it when I get home if I don’t take the backpack with me.

@idid138

3 ай бұрын

Sanity is better than jewelry, but add some bling to those keys 😅

@fanasmehendi

2 ай бұрын

🤣

@peacefulone4461

Ай бұрын

Brilliant!! Your comment gave me some ideas to help make things easier for Hubby. ❤❤❤❤

@lots2learn373

Ай бұрын

Oh my ~ love does fit in a box... or three 😊

I'm literally in tears, never felt so seen. My whole life people just calling me messy, lazy, disgusting, careless... It's so difficult to deal with so many things running in my head. Thanks for this video, it makes me feel that actually there's nothing wrong with me 😭😭😭 what a relief 😭😭😭😭

When I taught 2nd grade many years ago I remember fondly 2 of my kiddos with severe ADHD. My little Paul would learn best sitting under his desk which took me a minute to realize he was actually learning there being able to regurgitate everything in a lesson. So, OK, that's where he spent a lot of time not bothering anyone, but learning. On the other hand my other little spent a lot of time wandering around the room or trying head stands in the reading center, mumbling and disturbing all of us. He missed a lot of 2nd grade "within his own mind", but finally got medication leveled off for him. His father asked if I would keep him again for another year which I did and he was a marvelous little student catching up on so many things. I just loved them both and wonder how their lives turned out. I can also tell your mind is going a million miles an hour, but the tools you have learned to deal with it is spectacular. Thank you for everything you do for the rest of us.

Something i started doing recently that's really helpful. I made magnets i could write on, some for Daily Do (like Doggie Breakfast, Check Mail, etc) and made two columns on my fridge. I wrote Not Done and Done on them, and I move the magnets when I do things. Then I never starve or overfeed the dog, etc, and don't waste time worrying if ive done it. I used White liquid chalk markers because my fridge is black, but you could use magnets for that, too, and make it cute. It's seriously lowering my stress levels.

@FunnyShellBear

3 ай бұрын

That is genius! 😃👏⭐️

@emmax0000

3 ай бұрын

Awesome, thanks!

@eepsers1

3 ай бұрын

What a great idea!!

@angela_flute52689

3 ай бұрын

I do that for my kids' lunches. We had X food on Monday and it's only Thursday, so it's too soon to have it again; let's pick from the options we haven't used yet. It's so great.

@lovinglife3954

3 ай бұрын

That's awesome! You basically create a kind of Kanban board for yourself. So many "productivity tools" help us ADHDers.

For many years I had a filing cabinet but I rarely filed my paperwork in it. I probably had a file cabinet because that's what I had to use at the office. One day I realized the filing cabinet just wasn't working for me so I labeled an amazon box with the year and started tossing papers in the box as they came in. In January of each year I sort through the papers which takes me about an hour. The best thinh is I actually feel GOOD about this method.

I feel sooo much better after watching this. You described my life exactly. I can’t take meds because of heart rhythm problems, and they would interact badly with my cardiac medication. All 3 of my kids have ADHD, and I took my then 6 year old son’s Ritalin by mistake 1 morning and gave him my tablet. I was absolutely crushing my day, I couldn’t work out why I was achieving so much: then the teacher rang and asked if my son had had his Ritalin. The penny dropped. I had not suddenly become “normal” and able to get things done efficiently, I was not suddenly Superwoman- I had taken Ritalin by mistake. That was 27 years ago and I will never forget what that morning felt like.

@annbarbarag9152

3 ай бұрын

There are non stimulant meds for ADHD. You can see a psychiatrist or psychiatric APRN. Ask them for other options that will work with your meds.

@char6081

2 ай бұрын

I don’t take meds out of fear (I’m 17) but I was diagnosed last year. My sister is diagnosed and my mom shows all the symptoms

Cas, I too have ADHD and found a method to reduce my overwhelm. When doing any task I focus on “one item at a time” which gives me small wins. Folding laundry, washing dishes, emptying the dishwasher, picking up the house, etc., makes it feel more manageable and gives me instant results and the push to keep going and finish.

“Putting stuff away is too far away”. I have always put hammer, screwdriver, etc in my garage on pegboard. Then I listened to Dana White “If you needed this, where would you look first?” Yes, the garage makes sense that way, but I am always upstairs when I need any of those tools, so the garage is just too far away! When hanging curtains in my bedroom I had an “ah hah” moment and realized it makes much more sense to keep those small household tools in a small basket in my dresser upstairs. Now I always know where they are, it’s close by, and I put them right back where they belong every time. 👍 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋

@sj6728

3 ай бұрын

Great idea!!!!

@lovinglife3954

3 ай бұрын

I have a duplicate flat head and Phillips head screwdriver in my kitchen miscellaneous drawer.

@JustQuixa

3 ай бұрын

Brilliant! On a similar note, I learned to keep cleaning caddies on every single floor (2nd, first, basement) and have gotten SO much better about keeping every room cleaner now. Only took over 30 years to figure that one out thanks to Cas haha

@kaycep6819

3 ай бұрын

I keep tools upstairs and downstairs for this reason. It’s finding what works for your brain. Now when I don’t put them back in the garage or my upstairs tool area…oh boy! 😂

@skybabe1959

3 ай бұрын

awesome!!! Are you a Butterfly? OOOOH I have a packed dresser that i'm going to clean out today! Petrified, but I know I have all of you and you help me so much!!!!!!

so not alone with the crazy adhd, Cass. listening to your similar life struggles is such therapy for my soul.

@lovealwaysmom

3 ай бұрын

@ADHD_Love is a terrific channel! They have shorts, long videos, a book, and a body doubling app called dubbii. Laundry is hard for me because I don't have washer and dryer units in my apartment. I need to outside our building. It's exhausting to go back and forth to the buildings shared laundry room. You hope that they aren't in use after you haul your stuff there. If so, then I put them in front of the washer I want to use. If a dryer has clean, dry clothes in them, I take them out and place them on top of the dryer. My building has 35 units with 3 washers and 3 dryers. I got the routine of putting away basically down. My plan has been to do my laundry on Monday when it opens. It's usually empty. People are at work. I currently have clean clothes in my basket, not from today, screaming at me to put them away.

@lisaahmari7199

3 ай бұрын

I second that emotion!!

@lisaahmari7199

3 ай бұрын

​@@lovealwaysmomThank you for this info!

@HeronCoyote1234

3 ай бұрын

@@lovealwaysmomI bring hangers with me when getting stuff out of the dryer. Hang the clothes up, if a rack is available. Otherwise, lay shirts on top of each other, put hanger in top shirt, flip down, put hanger in next shirt, flip, repeat for all shirts. Then just flip them upright, grab the hangers, and go. I also use a pillowcase to haul dirty laundry to the w/d, and throw that in with the dirty clothes. Clean undies and other small items go in the (now clean) pillowcase to haul back upstairs. Your clothes are already on hangers, so just put them in the closet. Dump the contents of the pillowcase on the bed; they’ll be much easier to fold undies, connect socks, and put in the drawer. Hope this helps.

@marykonrath496

3 ай бұрын

Agree completely

I have to make crazy amounts of lists just to function. Totally get it.

You are not alone! I was diagnosed at 43 after spending the first 25 years of adulthood struggling to adult. I am sad for the younger version of me, who just thought she was a loser who couldn't get her crap together. I'm thankful to know there is a REASON for the struggle, and it's not that I'm "lazy" or "careless" etc. Thank you for speaking up about this stuff and spreading awareness!

Did anyone else see the dancing brain! 😂

@joanwettlaufer3769

3 ай бұрын

Yes, but it distracted me and I had to rewind in a few spots 😂

@agnieszkaswierczynska6210

3 ай бұрын

​@@joanwettlaufer3769I also got distracted 😂

@daisyintl

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂I was just wondering about this ...

@jenniferchoi7027

3 ай бұрын

What’s the dancing brain ? A video ?

@linako5107

3 ай бұрын

Go to the 10:18 mark in this video and look in the bottom left corner. The author inserted a cute little dancing image.

I keep an alarm with piano music to actually STOP what I'm doing and get READY for bed... I'm a night owl who has to be at work at 7:30 am.

@ErraticPerfectionist

3 ай бұрын

Me too! I have an alarm for bedtime that starts at 9:30pm and keeps going every half hour until I get into bed and then I turn the rest of them off. It's also helped me get out of staying late at friends' places when I'm really tired and want to go home 😆

@sillypplproductions2

Ай бұрын

SAME I have been struggling to get to bed at "normal" hour and it's (mildly) helped

@laurahudson8210

14 күн бұрын

What a good idea!

Y'all please remember to have mercy on yourselves and give yourself the same grace you'd give to others dealing with these issues. Just start where you are....again....and again as many times as you need to! God bless you! It's not over, and it's not too late (even though we might be late, lol)! Also, exercise and diet can be just as effective if not more than meds along with all the tips and tools. I've learned a lot about holistic treatment/supplements for adhd watching Dr. Legrande's channel. I've heard so many great things about the benefits of a Mediterranean diet, and I think it's worth a try and I personally lovvvvve the foods! I'm so hungry now! Ok, I hope this helps!! Take care!!

My sisters are the best. Everytime I leave their apt, they double ask me, "Are u sure u have everthing???" and help me check if I have forgotten anything. 😅 I also have many legendary and everyday stories of forgetting things: 1) drove 2 hrs to the beach w friends, only to have not packed my swimsuit, 2) Got off a train where my friend picked me up, but left my luggage on the train, so had to drive to the end of the line to get it (this was Japan, so no one stole it), 3) will go to a store to buy smth only to have forgotten my wallet 🤦🏻‍♀️😮‍💨🙄

Never diagnosed, but pretty sure I have ADD. It never fails that when I go to the movies, and watch the previews, I forget what movie I am actually there to see!

@ArtistCreek

3 ай бұрын

I can't go to the movies. Sitting in one spot for 2 hours KILLS me. I lose what is gping on in the movie. If I go to the concession stand I usually dont even make it back! I've gone twice in the past year and remember why I hate it. My husband's solution is to go to a theater that serves food. I can eat and watch and I don't get as squirelly

@SheilaEnglish2

3 ай бұрын

That happens to me too and I don’t have ADD

My youngest is high functioning Autistic and ADHD…. I’m trying to organize my house to make things easier for him…but I find it’ll make things easier for me and my eldest son. I’ve come upon so much more clutter since we lost my husband/ their Dad almost 3yrs ago and I’m so determined to get my house back in order. Your tips and videos and personal stories are so extremely helpful Cas! I will say, I do have alarms set for sooo many things through my day & week. Thank you! (Love the little dancing brain on this video)

@skybabe1959

3 ай бұрын

DJ what a story you have, you help others with your life!!!! Sending Amazeball thoughts, you can slay this!!!!!

@DJLibster131

Ай бұрын

@@skybabe1959 Thank you! The support and positivity is much appreciated.💜

I have been married for 40 years. So most of your life. But you have helped me & my spouse considerably, they have ADHD and stress about things I don’t know why they do. Your organization has been key for us, and I’m so grateful for this newest video. You’re amazeballs! ❤

This is so helpful!! I don’t even have ADHD-I just have a toddler and a husband and adding those two things to my life has made me have sooooo much stuff and feel constantly overwhelmed. So if there are any exhausted and overwhelmed mamas out there-these tips work for us, too!!! Thank you so much Cass!!!

As a guy, so much of this jives with Adam Savage ("Tested" on KZread) and his theories for shop and makerspace organization. Your comment about "no lids!" is like his "1st order retrieval". I shouldn't have to do extra steps to get or put away the things I use most. Between your channel and his it's totally changed how I tackle projects around the house.

@SoundofSilence492

3 ай бұрын

Thnx I am going there.

@tknows470

Ай бұрын

@@SoundofSilence492me too!!!

I thought today was Wednesday. Wednesday is laundry day and I’m almost done. Hooray for me!! I’m ahead this week.

While I don’t have ADHD I have gone through trauma and grief and just generally being tired and stressed out I can totally relate to much of what you said. It sucks when you feel like you’ve “lost your mind”. And it’s so hard to be “on top of things” when all you want to do is relax. Thank you for the video, i don’t feel so alone.

You're not alone. I, too, just had to stop taking my ADHD medication due to weird heart stuff. Everything is hard. I didn't realize how much the medication was helping until I stopped taking it.

As a person with mobility disabilities, simple and having things where you need them is an absolute. Living in a cluttered house is very stressful. Making small changes as I can. ❤

Mannnn! I love you Chicadiva! God bless the squirrel-brain truth! When you said full squirrel, with the visual, I was so done and I had to laugh, because that is me (have mercy Lord). I get so depressed and discouraged when I wake up because 'I Am Squirrel' and never know what to do or where to begin, which leads me to either go back to bed or aimlessly go through my day just doing things as they happen or as I remember, hope that makes sense. The crazy thing is that I have a ton of important things that need to be done, but the disconnect is really unreal, haha! I too didn't know I have adhd til recently, when I was 39ish, and while I'm relieved to know what I'm dealing with, now the real fight is on between finding the right meds, the right tools, and actually learning how to use those tools while overwhelm is always lingering like the smell of mildew from that forgotten load of laundry in the washer! I digress.... God bless you for making this video and I am truly encouraged and motivated to get organized. I also would like to just say to anyone who is 'like us', and feels like it's all too much, it's too late, I'm too old for this crap, the world will come to an end or I'll be dead before decluttered, or any such thoughts, please challenge yourself to prayerfully put it in God's hands and start looking at this as an opportunity for a new beginning! Get excited that you have an opportunity to be the a version of yourself that you've been wanting to see for so long. I personally have felt like I'm so far down that I only have two choices, and that's to stay down and die or get moving and go the only direction I can which is up! And I actually want to enjoy the trip! The devil is a lie, I will not die under a pile of anything, but I will live a victorious life because I'm a child of the most high Lord God and that means I am more than a conqueror! So, in the name of Jesus I pray that we all get it together and have peace of mind, with homes that make sense for us! God bless y'all, much love! P. S.... Please don't be turned off if you don't believe spiritually the way I do. Get some accountability and still get busy doing all the things!

@abroussard1661

3 ай бұрын

I love this attitude!🎉

@kaycep6819

3 ай бұрын

I am with you and I love that you call her Chicadiva! So cute!!!

@marilynndesilva7620

3 ай бұрын

You may have ADHD, but you express yourself very well. ("... overwhelm is always lingering like the smell of mildew from that forgotten load of laundry in the washer!"😂) God bless and take you by the hand. P.S. I'm beginning to think that most of humanity is ADHD!

@craftedeyecandies

3 ай бұрын

@@marilynndesilva7620 I appreciate the compliment, and you gave me my first laugh, and smile of the day! God bless you as well!!

@JoyJoy-ki8uh

2 ай бұрын

My husband "affectionately" calls me his Squirrel Girl. 😂 He handles my ADD better than I do. He won't let me get down on myself. He will remind me of things often to help me, but not to the point I get dependent on him. He knows it's always worse in times of stress. I think acceptance that it's in my family and acknowledging that I have it, too, was half the battle. I've learned a lot of coping skills over the years, much like she covers in this video. One thing I'm going to implement is using a timer.

I have MS that has left me with chronic fatigue and cognitive issues. I am so thankful I have found your videos. Alot of the things you've dealt with with ADHD are so similar to the things I'm dealing with. I am in the process of moving due to a flood in my old home. I am so excited to try these new tricks in my new home. Thank you!!!

We use so much mental energy just trying to remember what we're supposed to do that day that we don't have any left to go on a scavenger hunt to find something every time we need it.

That's my friend Cass, my sister from a different mother, whom I've never met. Love her personality, her talents, and her motivational videos! You have helped me so much 😊😊. I need my "Cass fix" to stay the course. Carry on Missy, we love you.

@skybabe1959

3 ай бұрын

Yes! Sister from another Mister, I love it!!!! She's changed my life!!! now I just need a timer hahahahhahaahaa Oh I'm new here...

My best friend has ADHD, and has a very stressful job. And he’s raising a difficult child. I know he doesn’t have time to set any system up, so, after living with him for over ten years, and knowing him for 17, I know how he operates. I’ll study, and implement your suggestions, like laundry basket where you naturally throw your clothes (chair, near closet, any flat surface).

Hosting is My clean house hack! We love our friends and family, so we get to see them, the house is regularly cleaned, and something about cleaning party trash is satisfying

@Clutterbug

6 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

Hi Cass. I am a single mum of 3 adult sons with ADHD and l can understand your frustrations as I have had to have alot of patience over the years. The latest incident that you would be able to relate to happened on my 2nd son"s wedding day. my 1st son's 2 and a half year old son was to be the pageboy. I was excited to see that he had arrived just in time, not a minute to spare. We looked for my grandson"s suit in the car so we could quickly dress him for the ceremony. Needless to say, we couldn"t find it and my grandson could no longer be the pageboy. My daughter in law was quite frustrated because she remembered putting the suit on top of a pile of items in my son"s arms as he was loading up the car. He felt really bad about it but could not recall what had happened to the missing suit. When they got home that night they found the suit on their bed. He had detoured back to the bedroom because he had forgotten something and absentmindedly put the suit down on the bed. Ahhh, the joys !!!!!!

@j.annminer7163

2 ай бұрын

This was so helpful for me in understanding my children.

Laundry hamper next to the “laundry chair” (or laundry treadmill, or laundry door knob)…brilliant!

@10whatsmyname01

2 ай бұрын

Also hooks! In stead of cluttering a chair with not-completely-dirty clothes put a hook near where the current receptacle is.

How to ADHD is a freaking great channel. Love her info about ADHD. I personally am legally blind. Sight impacts memory a lot, so now my memory is shot. I set everything I need to remember up in google calendar. I set up an echo dot to tell me what is on the calendar. I also have automations on my phone to remind me to do certain things at certain times throughout the day. That way I remember to do all the stuff i need to do. Otherwise, I would get distracted and forget. I also have to have everything in their own little "home". Otherwise I will lose everything and get super frustrated about it.

@sj6728

3 ай бұрын

I relate to you!!!

@skybabe1959

3 ай бұрын

This is an amazing and uplifting comment!!!!

@brianaschmidt910

24 күн бұрын

Jessica was the first channel that helped me with my issues

@BlindZubat

24 күн бұрын

@@brianaschmidt910 same! Her tops are so freaking helpful.

STRESS! Absolutely a real thing. Writing a list and checking it off does help.

@nancymeister4803

3 ай бұрын

I have found that you have to 1)find the list and 2)read it! LOL!!!

You are not alone. I was diagnosed at 39. crazy! I don't love the way the meds make me feel, but it helps with remembering and not starting 10 things at once and never finishing any lol.

You are absolutely not, I repeat, not alone! I'm 60 and I never considered I may have ADHD, even after my boys (now men) were diagnosed with moderate and severe ADHD. Who knew there were varying degrees of ADHA.... Even then it did not click, because their symptoms were nothing like my "memory issues", like needing a note on my keychain reminding me to stop by the daycare before going home. Horrible feelings of guilt and shame for a long time. Times are better, changes made and less self-loathing but still many issues like those you spoke of today. The info you share in your videos is honestly "life changing". Thank you, thank you, thank you. God bless you. Best of luck finding an alternative to medication.

Girl you are DEFINITELY not alone! I get so down on myself and then goes all the negative self-talk! The enemy is totally coming at me hard but my God is bigger than him and ADHD!🙌🏻 Thank you so much for being so open and honest! You have so many great tips and hacks in this one! Thank you!!!

I was laughing out loud listening to you because no one but someone with ADHD understands. Thank you Sharon

You are not alone with the adhd! I have those “ return the shoes to the mall“ moments TOO often myself! Don’t feel bad. L O L😂

Just got diagnosed this year, and on medication a month ago. I. Can. Finally. Adult! I still need hacks and help, but with those I can finally do the things. If you even suspect you might be ADHD, get checked. It is absolutely life-changing to finally figure out you're not broken.

@Clutterbug

3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

I sooooo agree!!!! NO LIDS in my constant storage stuff!!! Only longer term stuff for dust purposes and even then they are easy lids!

@sonyad7723

3 ай бұрын

I'm starting to realize that my toiletries are CRICKET, but still NO LIDS!!!!! 😊😊😊😊

@Clutterbug

3 ай бұрын

Awesome!

My son have adhd and in his wardrobe I have big bins ( no lids) with labels. It's easy to see where the clothes belong. 😊

The brain dump is a life-changer. Put it on paper and you don't have to keep reminding yourself. It is an amazing tool.

I feel this in my bones. I’m almost 60 years old and ADD has plagued me literally my entire life. It takes me 10 times longer to do stuff than it does “regular” people. I do have a launch pad for my purse and keys, toiletries, coffee and tea supplies. That’s literally the only organization I have in my home. Of course, I overcome those fixes on occasion. I have to do organizers for prescription meds and vitamins/supplements or I take none of them.

Late diagnosed ADHDer here too! I figured it out myself as well.

I haven’t been diagnosed, but ADHD definitely makes sense for me. Your ideas are very helpful. Decluttering using Dana K Whites method has been amazing too. Just the simple thing of keeping things where I look for them first is amazing. And keeping things where I actually use them (like permission to not HAVE to keep things where they’re “supposed” to go) is life changing.

I 100% agree with booking self-appointments to get stuff done. I do this. If I don’t, it won’t get done - EVER

I'm an expert when it comes to procrastination, getting distracted and forgetfulness!!! I'm also ADHD and I have zones/reminders all over my home.❤Take care and cheers from Ottawa. ❤

“We’re lazy. We’re not lazy but”… soo accurate 😂🥰

@nancymeister4803

3 ай бұрын

If anything, we are the energizer bunny! It takes SOOOO much more time, energy, strength, bandwidth, self-control, and attempts to focus than those without ADHD. It's exhausting!

@Anyankah

3 ай бұрын

@@nancymeister4803yep, my kids and I are a fun spectrum of squirrel moments! We’re even moderately productive, but don’t ask us what we did because we don’t know because we did something in every single room!

Putting a laundry hamper (small basket) in our living room was a game changer! Husbands socks are no longer homeless and instead of picking up scattered socks every few days, he empties the basket into our big basket in the laundry.

I have found that if I have to set an item down to open the bin, drawer or container that I need to put it in, I am most likely NOT going to put it in there, I'm just going to set it down and walk away. It needs to be uncomplicated and easily opened with one hand. 😂❤

The brain pictures are so funny. 😊

Cas, you were describing me. ADHD brain at its best. I'm currently struggling with establishing the zones. OK, my kitchen is the best zoned place in my condo (not my fridge, though). Then comes the bathroom and my tiny entrance way. The top 3 of my disaster zones are at number three: my sleeping room, at number two: my "library" (formerly my home office), my alltime number one: my living room, where I eat and craft, or just relax. There are loads of things on my "dining table". It is landscape of clutter. Actually the stuff there is of the "I'm keeping it" kind. I have choices of where to put all of my art supplies, my paper crafting and card making, my embroidery and knitting. And I don't know for sure where to put what. And the procrastination goes on. Of course I've heard of putting your things at the point of performance (I think I heard it from "How to ADHD"). In the meantime I bought a small table, placed it in a corner of my living room. I wanted it to free the dining table. While I'm writing this, all of a sudden, it all falls into place in my brain. Now I KNOW where to put paper crafting and card making, my art supplies. Wow, what a revelation. Tears are running down my face with relief.

I was having déjà vu watching your video today. I’m 63 years old and have wondered if I do have ADHD just because of the things I’ve learned from watching you. Thank you Cas for that. There’s a few things I’d like to share with you. 1. Years ago I took out the insides of my metal filing cabinet and put it inside a small closet in my entryway and I store various cleaning supplies and tools inside it. I originally bought filing cabinet because my parents had one and I thought it was supposed to have one too. 2. You had made the comment about Alexa, and that all of ours are probably going off right now, well years ago in a different video you had suggested setting it to remind us to do something in the evening. You said, “set a reminder for 8 PM” that said, “tidy my kitchen,” and still to this day, mine still goes off and anyone anyone who visits me smiles when they hear it because they know the story of how the reminder came about. 3. I tend to see everything in colors and shapes to help me remember. When I was a dancer and had to write down choreography to learn, I would draw stick people and arrows instead of words, saying which direction to go or how many counts it was, etc. Didn’t think anything of it at the time. I used to be in the classroom as an early childhood educator and now, after 32 years, I have a desk job where I train and teach teachers in the early childhood field. Since I was no longer really hands-on, I had to come up with a system that helped my brain focus. The system ended up being a whole color coded system with sticky notes in various colors and it’s taped on my desk, under my keyboard. My colleagues look at it and shrug, and shake their heads; some have even questioned it. Although, they know that I created the system and it works for me 4. When you were talking about making a list for the brain dump, and choosing 3 to 5 things that you want to do and circle them, it was like an “aha” moment for me, because I do the same thing; it was like you were inside my brain and it made me so happy inside to know that someone else was like me. It actually got me a little emotional, because I’ve been watching it for years and I learn something new every time. Thank you so much for that. 5. A few years back when you said you did not have lids on your containers, I ended up getting rid of my whole bedroom set and had a five shelf bookshelf. I put cubbies on the bookshelf, and in each cubby I have my clothes like socks, hats, etc. When I do laundry, I just toss the items into the correct container. It is so freeing! Also, I watch, How to ADHD” too! Definitely a great channel! Thanks again for what you do! ❤

That was me at 37. Took meds for a few years and also have a bp issue. Now I'm on a low-dose dopamine reuptake and it helps a lot. Also, peri-menopause made things awful. I'm 50 and functioning. But 37- a day without adderall was a wasted day, lol.

Just got diagnosed with ADHD yesterday. Ive been watching your videos for a couple months now and I’m excited to see what hacks you got in this video:)

@msaijay1153

3 ай бұрын

Congratulations on being different, not lazy!

@findingaway5512

3 ай бұрын

Congratulations on the diagnosis. A lot of us are out in the world undiagnosed. ❤ That takes a lot. I love Cas. She is a great resource and someone who gets it.

Super helpful. We’re pretty sure I have ADHD (though results from the BARR or whatever it’s called could have gone either way), and these tips are so helpful. The color coding has never worked for me, but labeling things and allowing your piles to show you where to put things? 100%.

THANK YOU. Today I am applying your tip "label the crap out of everything". I keep tidying up and forgetting what is in which drawer, so I am labelling drawers and bins that I have already tidied. Maybe this will inspire me as to how to organise the piles of mess that remain.

Another hack I use is keeping a "reverse planner" I just write down everything I end up doing in the day periodically AFTER I've done them. Then I highlight them with different colors for each category, however you define them: Productive, Relational, Non-Negotiable (like pick up kids from school, breakfast for my kids, a doctor's appointment that day, etc), Self Care/Personal Goals, and lastly Interruptions Out of my Control/Time wasting (I use the same color for these two because I consider unexpected time wasting as something that is inevitable). I was shocked seeing the colors and how much of each I ended up spending time doing, even if it was random and sporadic. It has truly changed my perspective on the way I spend my day and has taken away a lot of shame.

Your shoe story is hallarious. I can relate. I so enjoy your sense of humor and ability to laugh at life.

Im 60 and had been on meds for ADHD for many years and had to go off about 5 years ago due to heart issues as well. I've found that vitamin B complex helps me. I take a triple dose every day. It's not as good as meds but it definitely helps!! I take them in the morning. Might be a good alternative for you too.

I echo so many of these comments - I am turning 55 and just learned that I have ADHD and listening to this video is SO ME - sooooo much perfect advice! Where have you ladies been my whole life ? 😅 I have renewed hope, FINALLY! Thank you ♥️

❤ you so much. I am one who is ADHD and have suffered for years with it along with depression and anxiety. You have been so helpful and are making a difference in my life. I’m a 69 year old grandma and didn’t understand what was wrong with me forever. ❤️❤️❤️

Great tips! Love that timer. They also make visual ones that have color that gets smaller as the time goes. I wanna get a visual one. Never saw the cool one one have though. I also loved that you include your family in on reminders so that you dont forget or accidentally ignore it. I am somebody who ignores notifications all the time and then because of my working memory if I don't reset another timer or notification. Like if I have cookies in the oven and they just need one or two more minutes I will have to set a timer for 1 or 2 more minutes like I can't just pretend like my brain will remember that. I also have no sense of time at all. An hour could go by and what it feels like a couple of minutes and a couple minutes could feel like an eternity. Darn executive function defficits.

Thank you so much! I Tried to do a Swedish Death Cleaning on my house but the Squirrels had a hey day. I'm going to have my husband watch this video too so he can help me reset our home in a way that benefits us both. Thank you again and again for your compassionate advice. 😊

@lakitaflintroy3013

2 ай бұрын

I started SDC over the summer. I am not perfect at it, but I was able to let a lot of items go.. and learning to let go without guilt. Don't give up.

Wow!! So glad I found you!!!! I was just scrolling and saw it say ADHD! She’s talking to me!! I never knew I had this most of my life!!! It’s been hard!!! We didn’t have these labels and name for things when I was growing up and raising kids!! I was just worn out and and always tired!! Couldn’t stay on task!!! 😢. I’m going to really work on this with all my heart!! I’m 70 and it’s so hard. Ty for appearing on my feed!!! ❤️

@dianacollins2960

19 күн бұрын

Aren’t there any woman resource centers around you that you could donate a lot of your items too? Drives me crazy seeing items thrown out that people could use so bad! Like your light bulbs you mentioned throwing out and the body sponges!! All your markers. It’s little things to you but would be so amazing to help people at places like that. I even take things to nursing homes. They are so appreciative. That encourages me to want to declutter when I drop things off and see how happy they are. Just my opinion.

You are talking about the coping skills I learned growing up because I'm too old to have been diagnosed with ADHD while I was young.

I’m so happy you have ADHD. Your humor makes me feel so much better identifying with the same feelings! You’ve also helped me tremendously dealing with it. Thank you! 😊

I feel you! 35 years, I was sooooo lost. And especially the lack of motivation and procrastination were haunting me. I actually watched this video to finally get motivated to clean up my messy kitchen. Thanks a lot! 😘

I use a blend of essential oils to help me focus. My husband laughed at me at first but even he had to admit that I can now sit down and do my accounting. Being able to focus is amazing to me.

@ninnymuggins5159

3 ай бұрын

Which essential oils help you?

@thatswhatisaid8908

3 ай бұрын

Please tell us?

@rover790

3 ай бұрын

Yes, please do tell

@cheryl6612

3 ай бұрын

Yes please share as I have been wanting to try essential oils and am lost as to where to start.

@amyhowson2824

3 ай бұрын

I use a blend of 15 drops each of Cedarwood, Lavender and Vetiver and mix those oils into 1 TBSP of Grapeseed or Coconut oil (this works as a carrier oil).@@ninnymuggins5159 @thatswhatisaid8908 @rover790 @cheryl6612

Also a narrow basket with hanging folder files so perfect as well by your coffee maker because I attend to gravitate placing my papers or seeing it everyday as I grab a coffee

I can totally relate to the use of timers! I set the one on my stove.... to remind me in 15 minutes to let the dog back in the house! He is well trained, stays in the yard, and is usually sitting, waiting for me to open the door.

I don't have ADHD but loved this video Cas. The brain and the squirrel 😂😂

How is it that ADHD wasn’t talked about much 40-50 hrs ago.. My son got diagnosed his last year of university and then told me it was typically genetic! 🤯I can lose my phone just trying to get out the door!! This makes so much sense! Could you do one for reorganizing your clothes closet? I’m on attempt #3 and still not done😖

@10whatsmyname01

2 ай бұрын

Science has come a long way since then. Plus people used to feel ashamed to be disabled (because adhd IS a disability) and would rather torture themselves trying to hide it rather than get help from a professional. Mental health culture is mainstream now.

Zoning is like applying "concept mapping" to your stuff. Two of my Principles of Stuff Management are "If I want something, my Stuff Management System will tell me where it is" and "If I have something, my Stuff Management System will tell me where to put it." Zoning makes this so much easier, because I only have to remember what concept the thing I have or want is attached to and then I know where in the house it goes. I had to apply this today to deciding how to label my 3 new bathroom bins. I got out all the stuff we keep on that shelf (stuff that's always jumbled and threatening to fall in the toilet!) and figured out they divided nicely into three categories: "Bandages" (gauze, medical tape, band-aids, antibiotic ointment), "Skin Care" (aloe vera gel, hydrocortisone cream, antifungal cream, moisturizer), and "Tools" (thermometer, scissors, tick twister). Some things could go in more than one category - medical gloves, razor heads) so I put them where they fit best by size. Hubby is so tickled that the antibiotic cream is in the bandages box, so he won't have to rout through a bunch of random tubes (that kept trying to jump into the toilet) to find it. 🙂

I swear we are kindred spirits! I have severe ADHD. I was diagnosed at 45! All your crazy stories remind me so much of myself. Also your exuberance and still you are an introvert! I feel like if we lived closer we could be friends. I’m telling you my husband says it’s rarely a dull moment with me. I act before I think then I get flustered and myself in ridiculous situations. People either think I’m crazy or hilarious. I’ve struggled with a lot of self esteem issues from ADHD. I have an abysmal short term memory. I too have gone to the mall to return stuff and forgot why I was there and started shopping! I’ve been stuck outside in my underwear, I’ve driven the wrong way in drive throughs, Ive enthusiastically ruined things thinking I’m being clever and frugal and I always forget to read the instructions. I took your course two years ago ( the professional organization) for my home and it’s been extremely helpful. I’ve been able to help my mom as well. I love your videos! They both helpful and entertaining which is great to keep me focused! Question, my hubs is not fond of Alexa. He thinks it’s a privacy issue. What else would do the trick? Where did you get that fancy dancy cube timer? Thanks!

Honestly, stories like yours are a big reason I've never gotten medication. I was diagnosed three years ago, but I was nursing and didn't want to risk it, then I was pregnant and nursing again. I'm finally at a place where I'm considering it, but I've worked so hard to get good habits that I don't really feel like I have to get meds. It might be helpful, but then what if I get pregnant again or can't get the meds for some reason? I've gone off caffeine for the same reason. I was drinking so much coffee to get me through the day, but if I didn't have it the crash was way worse than just not having it in the first place. I don't want to be dependent on something that might not always be there. I'm so sorry you're struggling, though, and I get it! We just moved, and the disruption to my routines and organization caused the same kind of things you're describing.

You are NOT alone! I have to do a non-stimulant. Straterra interrupted my sleep. Qelbree was AWESOME! But then I got a rash a week in so I had to quit. Btw- you can get your Psychiatrist to help fight insurance to cover it! I have tried Wellbutrin for ADHD, but now I’m switching to something similar that also gives a dopamine hit. A psychiatrist is key to figuring out these meds! I see mine online and she actually listens to me! Good luck with figuring out meds!

You are not alone, I've been told I'm high functioning ADD. Your video is great, love all your ideas & am going to use them. I do use reminders & timers I also use index cards to "brain" dump. I've been using times differently but I like the idea of giving time limits on activities because I can clean the kitchen for 3 hours if I'm not careful. Knowing that I'm a butterfly & so is the rest of my family has been a game changer. Not folding laundry has been a relief. thank you!!

I’m ADHD TOO!! I knew you were too. We can identify .. anyway, I too can’t take meds because of side effects. I am trying out meditation and believe it or not, energy drinks. I think it’s helps. I wish you luck. I love your videos and hacks. Thank you!!!!

Oh my gosh, Cass!!! Best video in a long time! You are so inspiring! Your returning the shoes story is just like my returning the jeans story!!!! I ordered some jeans online from a store that I could only return them to in a mall, so the the one pair that didn’t fit me have gone in and out of my car multiple times, in and out of the house multiple times, this was just after Thanksgiving. I’m gonna have to just give away the jeans. I cannot wait until my medicine gets approved to start. 49 years old and finally, realizing why I am the way I am.

I love this! When you said "book an appointment with yourself" I made an outlould Ooooh sound haha. Great tip . I'm doing this from today. Thank you Cas.

I found out had ADHD at 36. My husband knew since he was 6. He does all of these things because that's how he adapted to living (a designated spot for his daily carry is a must). Its funny how it helped me so much and then bam, I have adhd too lol. I will say having a dedicated spot for your daily carry items is essential. Our keys, wallets, glasses, and dog leases are all in one spot otherwise we lose them!

I have watched a lot of videos about organizing and ADHD, but this one is my favorite…by far. Great job!

Dear boyfriend struggle with this. He is reaching out for help. 🤗 Proud of him. I'm also in the same area with the Autism, stress and too much clutter. So your coaching is well appreciated.

I'm like that too. I never once thought I may have adhd until I was in my late 20s. It helps to know I'm not just crazy lol.

I am 40 and just now realizing after watching a few videos like this and my mom podcast having episodes with ADHD experts and authors that I am pretty sure I have it. I never thought I did, I just have felt so dumb and forgetful all these years. I would do the same thing you did with those shoes you were needing to return. I always forget to bring something especially for my daughter. My husband was diagnosed as a kid and always relying on me to remind him to do things and whatnot. Well now I know how to set up our home so it’s functional for both of us. Thank you!

Your mall experience is my life. I thought I was the only one in the world who did this. It's made me socially awkward bc I just feel so dumb all the time. Your suggestions make perfect sense to me. THANK YOU SO MUCH for sharing your humanity with us and for your unparalleled expertise.

I got diagnosed in fourth grade and I am now 37. Medication, routine and these videos have helped me immensely!

@Clutterbug

3 ай бұрын

I'm so glad!

I feel you on the whole forgetful thing! If I need to take something somewhere I have to either put it in my car right when I first think of it or put a post it note on the steering wheel so I won't drive away without going to get it.

@rover790

3 ай бұрын

That's exactly what I do.