Sis. This scenario is so true. I was in a friendship with a man for about 6 months. I went on a fast concerning our friendship, the Lord revealed to me he was about to announce he was about to get married. I told him about it , told him to have a nice life and ended communication with him. He got mad the God didn't allow him to play me.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

Oh wow! That is so so sad and extremely disrespectful on his part. I was strongly led to talk about this for over 4 months. Today was the day! God is a protector!

@Mz.Optimistic777

Ай бұрын

This happened to me about 4 years ago. We do have to be careful just like you said. I know not all but a lot of men act like they are the prize and we should be happy they show interest. I will be waiting on a of God that's going to love me the way God loves the church. I'm just saying.

@EmmeStAnne

Ай бұрын

Praise the Lord that he showed you. That guy is a loser and there was no telling what suffering you would have gone through hadn't the Lord stepped in.

*YUP!* A guy told me he "NEVER liked me when he met me in the first place." He approached me, & initated contact *solely* to use me. He PLOTTED to purposely use me...just for _a passtime._

@missctolbertvoh

26 күн бұрын

Oh no! UNACCEPTABLE!!!

@paigewhite1251

25 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh hearing him say that hurt me *SO* badly. I think he was trying to hurt me bk because they truth I told him_hurt his ego. He is spiritually bound to a fraternity... *and* I found out that his "ex" sells "Spirtual healing" "candles." 😐 Aimt no telling WHAT possessed him to say that. But he surely did. Meanwhile I dreamt of her several times which is VERY unusual...& EVERY TIME she is trying to do some _thing_ to me. She once tried to drag me to a grave in my dream...but *GOD* has me covered in the blood !!! 😅😆 *HALLELU YAH! _NWFAMsp. I NEVER thought anyone was a witch in my life....until now. I told once him that she may have put a spell on him to make him, & he *immediately* started choking so badly that it scared him & myself. He wasn't laughing & choked...he just started choking like some thing was in his throat. I had more NITEMARES in that one year_than I had ever had in my _entire Life._ & I had never dreamed about anyone's "ex" until then.

Preach.. say it loud to the crowd I'm tired of seeing this with my single friends. Get your mind right. He's just a friend until he confirms otherwise

Cut the confusion cause the LORD ain't in it! This is why YOU MUST 1st (FIRST) Seek the Kingdom of GOD and let GOD add (a husband/wife) to you and whatever you desire according to HIS perfect will for your life. Be blessed!! Edit: Thank you Sis for this wonderful message 🙏🏼

I had set a boundary with me and told them I prefer to be called by my name leave the titles baby, boo thang ect out. I haven't found 1 yet that haven't gotten in they feelings calling me Weird and up tight. I'm like 🧐Wow 😂👏🏽

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

No you're not weird or uptight. You're smart!

I don’t get emotional attacks to a man unless he’s my husband

Wow you came through just in time I'm actually having this problem right now 😔

@midoriusagi432

Ай бұрын

It's summertime where I'm at, so you know it's open season. 🤣🤣

@Brickhouse_610

Ай бұрын

@@midoriusagi432 😂

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

Shut it down!

Sometimes he tells you he's going to be your man and then everything ends up shifting. This is so right guarding our hearts.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

Thats a fact! They try to keep you on the back burner because they already have the woman they really want on standby. They'll just try to play around with your time until the opportunity arises for them to permanently snag the woman they really want, or should I say desire.

Amen Sister 🙌🏾🙌🏾...a man will be a man. The EXPERIENCE is REAL! Don't read more into the situation than what it is!! Thank God for WISDOM. Accept the compliments, nothing wrong with that but if it's not of God, and it's not in God's WILL, keep it moving!!! Blessings Sister Keke and weasel family ❤️.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

Hey Kimberly!

👏🏽☺️This message Is on repeat. Thank you! 💐🎁👏🏽🙏🏽

I definitely used to get angry and offended when I was young lol. Thank God for growth.

Another lovely 🥰 ❤video. I learnt this the hard way. “Don’t give pearls to swine” a woman should be courted not the other way round. Know your worth as a lady.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

I hate that a lot of women don't know their worth and allow some men to waste their time. A man will try to keep a few women around to fill the space until the woman he really wants comes along. You have to let them know that you're a friend or an associate to them and to address you by your name...not baby, queen, pretty lady, etc.

@KYoutube-hg5oy

Ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh agreed but many women didn’t grow up with strong role models so learn things like the above by experience/errors. Also our modern society constantly chips away at women’s worth too. The media is the worst! It’s only when we get closer to God that we wake up and realise what we are.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

You spoke nothing but facts! This is why I make videos like this so the single ladies will know what not to do or accept.

@KYoutube-hg5oy

Ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh 🫶🏾Thank you for taking the time out to make these videos

Wheeeeew! Bless you for this! A recent experience like this has happened to me.

This is good teaching for the women.

Guard your hearts sisters. ❤

I liked this within four seconds because I already knew it was gonna be good! 💯💯💯

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤

Praise 🙌 JESUS CHRIST Sis. This is sooooooo enriched with wisdom, guidance, & much help for us as women. We've got to be transparent on this because the Enemy personally enjoys watching us embracing soul ties wether or not Fornication is involved. Also he loves when 🤔 we get weary and tired of waiting on the LORD's Perfect Timing, and begin taking things into our own hands because of loneliness, societal perceptions, or familial pressures. A lot of times we're not yet truly willing to actually die to ourselves, it's not an age issue, it's an obedience & submission issue. We as women do indeed fantasize going in our heads on a Disney trip. We imagine the guy, the dress, the venue, the music & dance, the honeymoon... and seriously the guy just said "Hello." We definitely need the Holy Spirit and the Precious Sinless Pure Blood of JESUS CHRIST especially if we're super analytical, chronic overthinkers with a intense shot of poetic prose & romanticism etc. 😂🤣😅😆😁😄😃 But we definitely seriously need to REPENT on this wholeheartedly seeking the LORD on how 🤔 to guard 💂‍♂️ our hearts 💕 otherwise it'll keep being bludgeoned and ultimately become hard as stone whereas we're playing a double agent in our own victimization. We're leaving the doors 🚪 ajar for the big bad wolf 🐺, the 🐍 snake, Leviathan 🐊, 🦈 shark, dragon 🐉, octopus 🐙 etc.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

I wish I could like this comment a million times!!! ❤❤❤❤

@Skyview4me

Ай бұрын

Phenomenal comment. Blessings

Excellent message:) I have watched this several times; because it is a GREAT message. That used to happen to me when I was younger. However no I am abstinent and focusing on God and building my business. This was a great reminder with a loving constructive tone, but straight NO chaser! Keep being about our Father's business!

@missctolbertvoh

25 күн бұрын

Thank you!

Good morning, … thank you for sharing this. I too have made that mistake. PLEASE sisters, take all that she said as absolute truth! It will save you A LOT of pain. God be with you all and make it a beautiful day !!! ❤

Great message , right on time ❤

@midoriusagi432

Ай бұрын

Agreed.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

I praise God for it reaching who it needs to reach!

Most men have someone either a wife or lady friend. They just rotate positions. I say this with no bitterness.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

That's a fact!

@lindalewis8001

Ай бұрын

Hey I agree with comment Said most men have a wife or girlfriend so please ladies guard your heart ❤️

@businessdevelopment4834

25 күн бұрын

Or both, 😂

@lindalewis8001

25 күн бұрын

Hey I agree with y'all I was married didn't know My husband had Lady friend on side until I came home 🏠 from work had answer machine no cell phone it light would let you know you had message omg I love single life no drama but My own we love your channel and spirit keep up good work thanks for sharing blessings

Your hair is looking so full & healthy. Thank u for this message ❤

@missctolbertvoh

10 күн бұрын

@@2cut32handle thank you so much. I appreciate you ❤

Hey pretty lady how are you doing I am well watching replay powerful message i know that's right facts great advice wisdom thanks for sharing blessings ❤️

Everything you’ve mentioned is so facts❤

Absolutely 💯% correct!! Ms Keke 😇✊🏿... I've spoken to alot of single brotha's about sending emotional & mental "mixed msg's", every person receives compliments differently😏... There's nothing wrong with asking questions, be upfront about every thang💪🏿... great video sis🥰

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

Hey Mr. Hoody!! Sending mixed signals is so wrong. This is why before it goes further and deeper you have to nip it at the seam.

This is some good stuff

Thank you for this message!!!!! 💕

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

You are so welcome

Right on time ❤

AMEN 🙏

That is delusional. I just don't get why some of our sisters are that vulnerable to allow men play the cat and mouse game. I don't have the patience or availability. Which is another thing if he has you in the friend zone stop being available for every text message or phone call.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

Right! Some women go deeper into a situation than they ought to. A man will show you he's not dedicated to you in his actions. Period!

@aspiringtoinspire_with_KW

Ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh yes, like the elders say a pair of lips say anything what are they showing you.

Yes ma'am!

Amen to this whole message!!

Great Message ❤

Amen.

This is so true ty again

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

I praise God for using me to deliver it

Thank you 💓

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

Thanks!

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

Oh wow thank you so much!! I appreciate you. Its good to hear from you. I hope you're well

@passionatereader77

Ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh Hello. Dealing with some things but pushing on. I hope you have been great! Always enjoy your content.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

@@passionatereader77 I'll send up a prayer for you! I'm doing pretty good.

@passionatereader77

Ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh Good to hear and thank you for the prayer.

Can you make a video about a guy trying consistently to make you fall for them to hurt you intentionally?

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

Sure

💯💯💯💯💯💯🙌🏽

Well alright

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

Don't start Randy hahahahaha 🤣 😂 😆

@RandyJ1219

Ай бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh I'm not starting anything 🙏🏾.

@missctolbertvoh

Ай бұрын

I know I was just playing around