How to Make Tough Decisions

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  • @DamonLeeKeizer
    @DamonLeeKeizer4 жыл бұрын

    Successful people make decisions quickly and change them slowly. Unsuccessful people make decisions slowly and change them quickly! - Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich.

  • @DamonLeeKeizer

    @DamonLeeKeizer

    4 жыл бұрын

    The Financial Bro it’s a good one to remember!

  • @AS-3D

    @AS-3D

    4 жыл бұрын

    That is the best book I’ve read to date! If you haven’t read it go do it!! It will help you so much!

  • @AS-3D

    @AS-3D

    4 жыл бұрын

    The Financial Bro awesome! Have fun 😊

  • @chamber1083

    @chamber1083

    4 жыл бұрын

    @The Financial Bro easy to say but really difficult to implement

  • @onthearth1

    @onthearth1

    4 жыл бұрын

    basically succesful people are more decisive and follow through with their decisions.. this makes sense and is not big news! Unsuccesful people go with the flow and don't follow up with the few decisions they take.. basically!

  • @noah-gordon
    @noah-gordon4 жыл бұрын

    Taking emotions out of decisions is one key to success.

  • @Brian-uw8lk
    @Brian-uw8lk4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for the value, Pat! As expected your channel lives up to its name!! 🙌 Lessons: 1. Game Theory - The prisoner's dilemma. Think of the consequences of the decision and how you respond to them. 2. Worst Case Scenario Analysis - Can you live with the worst outcome of the decision. 3. Value and Principles - Analyse if the decision aligns with your life values and principles. 4. Get Great (Objective, experienced, reasonable & unbiased) Counsel. 5. Consider your Alternative(s). 6. Decision Fatigue - Avoid making big decisions when fatigued! Sleep on it if you can. 7. Stick with your decision - Once you've made your decision, stick to it!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @Ngdaryl

    @Ngdaryl

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you this!

  • @ChrisLena

    @ChrisLena

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks dude!, I was writing my own notes then saw yours & thought, oh yea, that's way better then what I had jotted down 😄

  • @abhishekpeechara87

    @abhishekpeechara87

    2 жыл бұрын

    lol ssszsz

  • @RohithS-ig4hl

    @RohithS-ig4hl

    Жыл бұрын

    thanks man, you saved my time!

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n4 жыл бұрын

    *If you hesitate* - they will doubt your authority When you come to a conclusion, go all in!

  • @tsn_7xi
    @tsn_7xi3 жыл бұрын

    1. Game theory Ask: if i take action what are the consequences and how do i respond and reaction Prisoner dilemma 2. Worst case scenario 3. The decision doest match your values and principles 4. Go get great consul Person should be neutral, reasonable and not emotional on topic 5. What are your alternatives 6. Decision fatigue Never make massive decision when you are fatigue 7. Stick with your decision Big decision have slow process but fast movement

  • @therealchief1446

    @therealchief1446

    Жыл бұрын

    Nobody said it so I'm gonna do it. Thank you for your service

  • @ryuedits4891

    @ryuedits4891

    5 ай бұрын

    thanks

  • @unicornspinach4071
    @unicornspinach4071 Жыл бұрын

    You should have a channel for all the fatherless kids!!! Boys and men need your advice and mindset... ❤️💪

  • @bruh-jo9lw
    @bruh-jo9lw4 жыл бұрын

    Patrick can you please do an Interview with Elon Musk

  • @AS-3D

    @AS-3D

    4 жыл бұрын

    T&L Games omg please!!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    It would make for a great interview. His camp needs to be swamped with messages on Twitter.

  • @NDiceSlice

    @NDiceSlice

    4 жыл бұрын

    That would be stupid as fuck. How do they even relate?

  • @seand8534

    @seand8534

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@NDiceSlice You're the most braindead moron I've come across in a while.

  • @user-uv4gj6fh9t

    @user-uv4gj6fh9t

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@VALUETAINMENT it's a great idea. Maybe mention that in one of the videos so your fans will ask for the interview. I, for one, will be very glad to help

  • @calvinraab8798
    @calvinraab87984 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes as weird as it sounds you just gotta flip a coin and commit to something. You don't want to get caught in analysis paralysis.

  • @travelantics9317

    @travelantics9317

    2 жыл бұрын

    I did it... and I moved on .

  • @timcook4552
    @timcook45524 жыл бұрын

    No one has explained this to me as clear as you did. Thank you so much! Been facing tough decisions lately.

  • @TNTN1977
    @TNTN19774 жыл бұрын

    Cut away from the past...I'll remember that one!

  • @surimaribo24
    @surimaribo244 жыл бұрын

    simply brilliant to the point thank you. instead of people using energy drink . watch this every day you need to be pumped up .

  • @mattfavaloro350
    @mattfavaloro3504 жыл бұрын

    Mr. Patrick Bet David sir I I just wanted to say thank you for the free lessons that were not free for you to learn and I am thankful I do not have to learn the hard way like you did thank you sir

  • @felipeguimaraes1359
    @felipeguimaraes13594 жыл бұрын

    thank you Patrick for making such great content videos, your advises are it's truly helpful not only for business but also for life!

  • @nelsonivangonzalez9997
    @nelsonivangonzalez99974 жыл бұрын

    Patrick, I am going to Vegas. I was not going to come but a friend of mine told me, “You can’t miss out this.” Then I told her, “I am going to see this inspiring man.” Now I am going to Vegas to get more motivation from you.

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    See you in Vegas.

  • @abelmore7
    @abelmore7 Жыл бұрын

    Great advice! I’ll take it. I think this was said in here, but I heard once said from a military guy as it pertained to leadership saying, “your not a bad leader because you made a bad decision; your a bad leader because you made no decision.” That stuck with me.

  • @opinionsofthemind1876
    @opinionsofthemind18764 жыл бұрын

    Your channel add so much insight and value to entrepreneurs lives; thank you for everything you have done and i am proud to be a valuetainment follower! Let's all grow together!

  • @eyeservantez
    @eyeservantez4 жыл бұрын

    Awesome Patrick that's exactly what I needed to hear. Great content as always you bring value to the table. Knowledge is power.

  • @dimitri0587
    @dimitri05874 жыл бұрын

    I just love valuetainment

  • @shiylon

    @shiylon

    3 жыл бұрын

    Crazy weight loss brother good stuff g💪🏿💪🏿

  • @moonlightreveries1459
    @moonlightreveries1459 Жыл бұрын

    I overthink EVERYTHING. This changed my life thanks man. I truly appreciate every word it’s like gold.

  • @festuskithi227
    @festuskithi227Ай бұрын

    1. Game theory - beautiful mind(movie) - making decisions where the biggest odds are in our favour (prisoner's Dilema!) 2. Worst case scenario - accept and move on 3. If the decision does not meet my values and principles. - Move on! 5. Get great cousel - neutral and reasonable -not biased in some way 6. Don't walk back on your decision. - once you make the decision, abide by it - if fatiguéd sleep on it.

  • @somedude3349
    @somedude33494 жыл бұрын

    Please make a video on how to manage college and business together because a lot of college students watch your videos

  • @LuisGonzalez-yf9rn
    @LuisGonzalez-yf9rn2 ай бұрын

    Fascinating info! Invaluable details on decision making. Much appreciated!

  • @mtg6753
    @mtg67532 жыл бұрын

    Man, what a great topic. Not many go into this topic that often. So much value from Valuetainment. Thank You.

  • @terrymcmiller3513
    @terrymcmiller35134 жыл бұрын

    Pat, thank you! This Video came at the right time!. It makes the decision process so much easier for me!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    Love it

  • @kingrey3677
    @kingrey36773 жыл бұрын

    Your content is awesome Patrick , i can definitely feel the care you have for yourself people and life , and it’s inspiring , your content brings massive value 🙏 Blessings

  • @ayopacheco1
    @ayopacheco14 жыл бұрын

    Thanks. This is really helpful.

  • @jowurani
    @jowurani4 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant video God sent perfect timing for myself and I’m sure loads of people watching

  • @fatimohjinadu8769
    @fatimohjinadu87694 жыл бұрын

    Great content. I am in middle big decision making. The video helped to break it down. Thank you so much as always. Stay blessed and have a killer day.

  • @FrancisAbogonye
    @FrancisAbogonye4 жыл бұрын

    Haven't finished watching this and I have realized a lot. Thanks Patrick for this

  • @luism.rodriguez3263
    @luism.rodriguez3263 Жыл бұрын

    “Hire too fast and fire way too slow”; been there - done that. It is so true! Excellent and succint presentation on the important skill of decision making. Thanks!

  • @sealinemedia.
    @sealinemedia.11 ай бұрын

    ​0:14 - The meaning of decision in Latin is to cut away from the past. 0:31 - Making tough decisions is often difficult because we are cutting away from certain aspects of our lives. ​1:00 - Using game theory can help us make tough decisions with the biggest odds in our favor. ​2:01 - The prisoner's dilemma is an example of game theory where we have to weigh the risks and rewards of our decisions. ​3:29 - Consider the worst-case scenario and ask yourself if you can live with it before making a tough decision. ​4:01 - If a decision doesn't align with your values and principles, it's best to move on. ​5:58 - If an opportunity comes your way but it doesn't match your values and principles, move on. ​6:34 - Get great counsel from someone who is neutral and reasonable in their decision-making process. ​7:58 - Always consider your alternative options before making a tough decision. ​8:48 - Avoid making major decisions when you are fatigued, as it may cloud your judgment. ​9:54 - Once you make a decision, stick to it and avoid second-guessing yourself.

  • @molinajuanr
    @molinajuanr4 жыл бұрын

    OMG ! my name is Juan that is John in Spanish even I was not planning to rob a bank or nothing similar , I in the moment of making big decisions and not knowing how to handle it yet stop me from doing what I wanted to do! But thanks to you with the value video I can start making important decisions and moving forward to the next decisions and keep moving forward.... thanks Patrick!! Nice to meet you in person a couple of weeks ago in Puerto Rico in the PHP event!

  • @tradingstar9176
    @tradingstar91763 жыл бұрын

    Alright I watched most videos of yours. This one is I believe the one that's going to help me the most. Thank you very much David, the team behind the video as well of course. 🙏

  • @jeanalexandre1105
    @jeanalexandre11054 жыл бұрын

    In the book 48 Laws of Power. Enter all decision with boldness.

  • @taylorwalston1
    @taylorwalston14 жыл бұрын

    Coach Pat I appreciate the guidance

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    You got it

  • @aghiadf
    @aghiadf4 жыл бұрын

    Pat This is very Great Video Thanks

  • @hari2utube2
    @hari2utube24 жыл бұрын

    You are really good Patrick. These are right advice. Hope folks view these videos early in their life

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks. Hope so too.

  • @saulonrepeat1055
    @saulonrepeat10552 жыл бұрын

    To cut away from the past... So true i think this part is my handbrake in life and decision making. Point taken. Thanks Patrick. If I want to be better person Today i must let go the person who i was yesterday.

  • @chaitanyagali6345
    @chaitanyagali634511 ай бұрын

    I have been struggling to make a decision since a week between two job offers.. but after watching this, the decision is clear on my mind by the end of the video. Wow. Thanks much big brother! I have been following you since my younger days ❤

  • @kikianasahmad2328
    @kikianasahmad23284 жыл бұрын

    You explain things so simply to me.

  • @watcha0011
    @watcha00114 жыл бұрын

    Wow, perfect timing 🙏🙏🙏

  • @harrytries1475
    @harrytries14752 жыл бұрын

    5:00 "you can go to war and get killed.Can you live with it" *Confusion hits*

  • @patsystonejones9555
    @patsystonejones95552 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I'll definitely read this book. For months I've been searching for good videos about decision making and I only came across lame self help videos that won't get to the core of the situation. This video truly gets to the point. Pure philosophy applied in life. Thank you.

  • @hananunity9974
    @hananunity9974 Жыл бұрын

    For the first 30MINUTES...I spent time eyeing the WRIST WATCH ⌚😂😂😂....a kul one David....the point got in.

  • @diggleboy
    @diggleboy3 жыл бұрын

    Design and systems thinking is one of the modern way to deliberate situations where a desired outcome or outcomes is required. I definitely suggest reading about it because it is aligned with much of what Pat was talking about in this episode; another goldmine of valuable information for entrepreneurs. Thank you Pat and keep up your great content! Came here from your "Rules of Mental Toughness" video.

  • @thegameseriesop1300

    @thegameseriesop1300

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @clarencediabe7340
    @clarencediabe73403 жыл бұрын

    Pat... thank abundantly for your content. You are a blessing to me and my team

  • @ddskimmer
    @ddskimmer4 жыл бұрын

    You are the BEST MY MAN!! LOVE IT!

  • @mohammedikanoune8846
    @mohammedikanoune88464 жыл бұрын

    Patrick you are the best

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    Much love

  • @jlee2179
    @jlee21792 жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best advice given by Patrick. Thank you sir.

  • @kimtukieusi4982
    @kimtukieusi49824 жыл бұрын

    Thank You A 1000% ...had some of this pointers but had not clearly defined them...Thanks a lot

  • @projectskii7557
    @projectskii7557 Жыл бұрын

    I’m 19 pursuing entrepreneurship watching you shows me the way to success

  • @vegeta8169

    @vegeta8169

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you still on the path?

  • @minijamf
    @minijamf3 жыл бұрын

    Loved this! Thank you Pat!

  • @andreivioreldantis7881
    @andreivioreldantis78812 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all the valuable info Pat!

  • @RajBeats
    @RajBeats4 жыл бұрын

    Right when i was thinking "this is the best channel on KZread for entrepreneurs".....you say "The #1 channel for entrepreneurs"....lol well deserved title Pat. Thanks again bro

  • @20thcenturyboy85
    @20thcenturyboy854 жыл бұрын

    AWESOME Advice!

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    👊🏼

  • @adnaneafifi1450
    @adnaneafifi14508 ай бұрын

    I just loved the summary ! Thank you Sir =)

  • @MRIslambek
    @MRIslambek4 жыл бұрын

    Great content, thanks PBD

  • @pabitrikalita3940
    @pabitrikalita39403 жыл бұрын

    you are my greatest teacher, thank you for helping me.

  • @surajbhatt3059
    @surajbhatt30594 жыл бұрын

    Please restart making pdfs of videos These pdfs are my proudest collection

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stay tuned

  • @anadeealupu1458
    @anadeealupu1458 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!

  • @shaunvenn6486
    @shaunvenn64862 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Patrick thank you

  • @jazzmusiclover6473
    @jazzmusiclover64734 жыл бұрын

    Number 3, i needed someone to tell me that, i needed to hear that. Thank you so much.

  • @shimagaijin1
    @shimagaijin1 Жыл бұрын

    Much needed! Thank you 🙏

  • @donjohnson7505
    @donjohnson75052 жыл бұрын

    First time listener, long time subscriber. You assisted me on a matter that has been lingering in my mind for hours. I will sleep on it and make my decision after breakfast.

  • @PassiveIncomeTom
    @PassiveIncomeTom4 жыл бұрын

    Great topic today! 👍

  • @mqondisimagcaba5517
    @mqondisimagcaba55175 ай бұрын

    WOW! I love this guy! So much insights

  • @zk3212
    @zk32122 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @flacochapo4101
    @flacochapo4101 Жыл бұрын

    Thinking of switching schools and moving out my moms house to my dads , I don’t really know what to do but time Can only tell

  • @starfire9552
    @starfire95522 ай бұрын

    Thank you, sir

  • @azhaanebrahim4887
    @azhaanebrahim48872 жыл бұрын

    Thank you valuetainment for your amazing content best channel on KZread for entrepreneurship mental toughness a hero is no braver than a ordinary man but he brave five minutes longer amazing quote thank you keep up the amazing work.😁👍🏽🙌🏼💯

  • @rawanyacoub9147
    @rawanyacoub914711 ай бұрын

    you are great Patrick. i did not watch this video before but it almost what i did when i and my husband had to make a huge business decision that hopefully is the right one to make. but we literally walked through these steps without knowing. keep it up your content is great

  • @TheConqueror009
    @TheConqueror0094 жыл бұрын

    Great video!

  • @glenn4887
    @glenn48873 жыл бұрын

    Great information. Thank You Patrick!

  • @chowrightnow
    @chowrightnow Жыл бұрын

    Really helpful vid, thanks Patrick!

  • @danyaalcloete6590
    @danyaalcloete65904 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pat!

  • @osamarais606
    @osamarais6064 жыл бұрын

    This was pretty useful

  • @ogsilverback971
    @ogsilverback9713 жыл бұрын

    Nice video Valuetainment.

  • @JamesDThomas1981
    @JamesDThomas19813 жыл бұрын

    Perfect message Patrick!!!!

  • @cjwright79
    @cjwright794 жыл бұрын

    terrific video Patrick, the fierce bulldog energy is something we could all benefit from adding to our life, our range of personas

  • @addingtonmosesnsobila1302
    @addingtonmosesnsobila1302 Жыл бұрын

    This is premium content, much respect Pat.

  • @kolumkoeget9055
    @kolumkoeget90553 жыл бұрын

    Patrick love your encouraging platform for success. Your super cool.

  • @alexfayaz2411
    @alexfayaz2411 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤ thanks for helping people with this kind of video

  • @Howtocreatewinningfocalsbeads
    @Howtocreatewinningfocalsbeads3 жыл бұрын

    I love this video man thank u

  • @girishgaikwad7559
    @girishgaikwad75594 жыл бұрын

    Thanks again Sir

  • @davedadaniels8388
    @davedadaniels83883 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful! Thanks!

  • @leonoradompor8706
    @leonoradompor87064 жыл бұрын

    I am 50 years old but i look very young youthful and peaceful and happy and calm!

  • @keatongroom
    @keatongroom Жыл бұрын

    This is so valuable. Thanks for the advice

  • @anamello_manaus
    @anamello_manaus4 жыл бұрын

    Thank You Patrick :)

  • 4 жыл бұрын

    Great thorough video!!!

  • @knowiz8071
    @knowiz80714 жыл бұрын

    That Background Painting is cool.

  • @divyamurugesan5557
    @divyamurugesan55574 жыл бұрын

    You never fail to Inspire us. :) The BG pic is Awesome Mr. Pat :) :)

  • @Aharon-zl5mt
    @Aharon-zl5mt Жыл бұрын

    You helping me to make a tough decision right now,thank you!

  • @DPCLL
    @DPCLL6 ай бұрын

    Excellent work

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_4 жыл бұрын

    *"the strongest wills have to make the hardest decisions"* - Thanos

  • @chunkychubchakra2254

    @chunkychubchakra2254

    4 жыл бұрын

    Shoot I'll take all the wisdom and pointers I can even from fictional celestial villains ;)

  • @Je.rone_

    @Je.rone_

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@chunkychubchakra2254 I wouldn't if i were you, you might get demonitized. 🎭

  • @AlphizzleMusic

    @AlphizzleMusic

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hopefully they don't just make a snap decision 😜 (Sorry, I couldn't resist 😂)

  • @hotephomie8024

    @hotephomie8024

    3 жыл бұрын

    drew

  • @chrisika8874

    @chrisika8874

    3 жыл бұрын

    AlphizzleMusic I see what you’ve done there

  • @dezdaking
    @dezdaking4 жыл бұрын

    Great video! Thank you for the information.

  • @VALUETAINMENT

    @VALUETAINMENT

    4 жыл бұрын

    You got it

  • @heathermimiwahlquist5587
    @heathermimiwahlquist558711 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @FrancisAbogonye
    @FrancisAbogonye4 жыл бұрын

    Am always trying to make big decisions every time especially on my online businesses that I share on KZread.

  • @gentalgiant187
    @gentalgiant1873 жыл бұрын

    thank you for the videos

  • @mrduckman225
    @mrduckman2252 жыл бұрын

    Thanks David this really helped

  • @asatovabdulaziz7258
    @asatovabdulaziz725811 ай бұрын

    Thanks 👍👍👍