"Whenever you've got an important decision to make, make it on paper." Great advice. Thank you.

@gurmeetsingh1583

3 жыл бұрын

Hm right

"If your actions create a legacy that inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, then, you are an excellent leader." Dolly Parton

When faced with a decision, I try it on first. One day I make a decision to go one way and see how it feels. A few days later, I make a decision to go the other way and see how it feels. By the end of my experiment, I usually know which way to go. So when in doubt, try it one first.

@dali773

3 жыл бұрын

omg when i faced the same problem i did the exact same thing !!! ...I was confused about going to wich university and I did the same thing u mentionned ..I went to one first and saw how it feels ..am i happy am i not..is the vibe there is good or not ...then the next period I went to the other uni and did the same thing .....except that I'm still confused xD because the vibe is good in both

@rosekoroma8504

3 жыл бұрын

@@dali773 go to the higher ranked one I guess if there both good

@nishafoerstner1473

Жыл бұрын

Really? Sounds so simple. Why have I not thought or heard of it before?! Thank you!

Trust your heart, because your heart receives the energy waves of a particular project and knows if it beats into the same rhythm! Even if the music comes from a written music sheet.

When I was just starting out in business, I would get SO upset when appointments needed to cancel/reschedule, but over time, I came to trust that if that space was clearing on my calendar, it meant that something even better was going to fill that space. And now, that happens almost 100% of the time. So when someone says “I need to cancel/reschedule.” I say “GREAT!” which usually takes them by surprise. So if you’re first getting started on trusting your gut, pay attention to what happens AFTER you decide. Look for confirmation there and reinforce your choices after the fact. That will train you to make better intuitive decisions in the future. Lastly, LOVE the advice I once got from Jonathan Fields. He said to write down the worst-case scenario and then strategize about how you would recover from it. When we’ve got a game plan for getting out of the perils we think we’re facing, that pretty much kicks fear in the butt.

@Newfuturebuilder

8 жыл бұрын

+Lisa Robbin Young I think the advice on the worse case is golden. Many times, the worse case isn't really that bad at all!!!!

@LisaRobbinYoung

8 жыл бұрын

Right on! Even "homelessness" or other "dire" scenarios are a worst case that can be overcome, if you've got a plan.

@lisjoh

8 жыл бұрын

That's a great technique about Worst Case Scenario. That should halt fear in its footsteps and help us do what we want to do but which takes us outside the comfort zone.

I literally just wrote down a pros and cons list yesterday in order to help me make a big decision about my career. I'm so glad I watched this so that I can also consider the worst case scenarios, who my decision will affect and the results I want most. Just what I needed today! Thank you Marie!

Thank you for your videos and that process, Marie! I'll use it in the future to help me not get overwhelmed so easily. About a year ago I was at home for over one year after school, didn't have a job, felt really anxious and depleted and was struggling with insomnia and how I later found out with diet-impacted health-issues. Basically I couldn't even function in normalday life. I felt it was right to get help and so I booked only one session with the life coach and mentor I felt drawn to, although my intuition told me to do a package over three months. I first didn't choose it because I considered it to be too expensive. But one night when I couldn't sleep again my feelings of what actually would be the right thing for me were nagging on me so much that I got up and wrote my mentor an e-mail to re-book. I committed to the other program and invested almost all my saved money into it. It helped me to immensely improve all areas of my life and looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Lots of love and greetings from Germany, Jason

the gut doesnt always scream clearly 'uh uh dont do it' as you said. Thats when its really hard to know what to do. I made two bad choices, i based them on logic and practicality... my gut was a bit weak and i couldnt tell. Now i have another, similar life changing decision to make and its the same problem. K if my gut tells me, i always pay attention but this is not clear at all. 😣

@Babu-kr3cr

Жыл бұрын

I would give the gut more time to speak up.

Great video thank you! I'm a big believer in going with your gut and praying it will work out.Back yourself right?! Life is all about taking risks and stepping out of our comfort zones. If things don't work out, most of the time things can be rectified and often the "worst case scenario" isn't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things.

Hi Marie, I love your 5 questions. I think a lot of people need to be asking themselves these types of questions in relationships as well!

If you get a feeling that you don't want to do something but you probably are going to do it anyway, there is a reason you don't want to do it. I learned this.

I've learned over the years to listen to my inner voice. It doesn't steer you wrong.

I always have trouble with my intuition. Sometimes I know what I should do but most of the time I don't. Especially when I need to know what to do.

My intuition is my main guide both in business and in life

I think the terms 'gut feelings' or 'intuition' simply describe when you sense something is wrong or right but you cant quite articulate why. So when you get a gut feeling, just probe deeper and figure out why you feel this way. Then once you know what your dealing with you can make an informed descision.

Her saying "you blinked" scared me into blinking...😫

Thanks so much Marie!!! I really need this advices with deciding my internship at college, I think I found the answer with your help. Youre amazing and so inspiring. Love you! 😘

Omg I want to write a book. Was literally praying about this! 🙏🏼❤️

Excelllent advice, Marie! I am using your 5 Strategic Questions to make my next decisions! You are now my favorite Business Coach and Mentor.Thank you for the great inspiration and coaching... And I hope to see you soon at some event or live B-School!

Wonderful questions to ask yourself. Thanks.

You are so amazing. This is the place to be!

we are grateful for the wise advices you share with us. we all thank you ;)

Terrific Maria, your logic about intuition works for me.

Loved this! Thank you! :) I love all your vids!

This lady is awesome.

Such excellent advice. Thank you so much, Marie. This video was so cute, fun and straightforwardly helpful! 😊💯

Thank you so much for these videos. I love everything you share and use the info daily for myself and also to share with my students. :)

this video is actually so amazing! Your perspectives and strategies are so helpful!

Thank you - I needed to watch this!

Thank you for sharing, Maria. Really useful and empowering process :)

Wow! It's in Hungarian too!!! Congrats Marie!!

Incredibly helpful!

thank you for this advice. i had clarity with my current situation. :)

Great start of New Year!! Happy to see you back :-) Thanks for this helpful video.

Just what I needed!

Excellent post Marie!

Great video Marie i will listen to your advice.

Good question!

Another amazing and inspiring video. Thanks for all you do :)

This is phenomenal information what!!! Thank you!

Thank you

LOVE your STYLE

Thankx so much 😇 🙏 😍

Hustler's Kung Fu (Glendon cameron) , spoke about how good your videos are! I am sure glad he did, your videos are awesome!!

Thank you so much :)

Marie, thank you so much for the excellent content you are giving me. I am new to Marie tv. I see that you've answered a lot of the questions I have spent months even a year trying to find and didn't find till I started watching you this week. So thank you 😊 I have a certain feeling in my gut. I didn't like it to much. So my question is, what is a gut feeling? Does 'go with your gut feelings mean I do something based on that feeling in my gut that I have?Please please answer me. Love you. Thanks ❤

oh my. this couldn't come at a better time. I have a huge decision to make. what if you are a very analytical person and your gut instincts aren't that strong or you don't even feel your gut instinct at all. how do you make a decision then????

Thank you ❤❤❤

@TeamForleo

Ай бұрын

Always, Fernanda! We're so happy you're here. 😊

Romanian :) I'm from Romania and I will buy it :)

Marie Forleo ❤

heeey, i am a Romanian and i do like your book! :)))

I pause and see if any other impressions come to me to reinforce my instinct. When they do, I still doubt my decision. I think I want to put my logic first and then there is outside emotional pressure to be logical not whimsical.

Great video Marie. Intuition is so important to follow:-)

Marie, I'm trying to make a decision as to whether to move back to the U.S. or stay in China. Big hurtle? My Australian boyfriend cannot work in the U.S. You can imagine I was really happy to come across this video!

@elanagrabowski6257

6 жыл бұрын

Alexandra C. MacArthur What did you decide in the end? And how did you make this big decision?

2018? Great learning experience and well done...you just have too try. x nicko New Zealand. Intuition, has overcome my logical school processes. Well done you.xnicko 56. Still moving forward.

we missed u Marie x

❤️😍👏🙏😊💋💐🌞🌙🎯🌈🎆 I read your book, ( translated into Russian ) you're my dancing teacher too, I really like you, thank you for everything you're doing

What about for those people who think more in a negative way ? In this kind of scenario any option you write down could have lots of cons and you have to choose the least worst option which isn't so great and hardly allows the person to try something new. It's also not as simple as saying "think more positive !"

Right now I'm torn. I have a new job offer but I don't want to leave my current job. Bit the other job pays well and I really need the money and I really want to try it out. I'm just afraid of the unknown and the ceo looks scary. Should I trust my gut? Is it just fear or what? I'm confused!!!!

@Babu-kr3cr

Жыл бұрын

Trust your gut. All that glitters is not gold.

@timcook4552

Жыл бұрын

@@Babu-kr3cr fast-forward to 2022, I was right, the company sucked and the CEO had no values.

I wish to watch videos with subtitles

How do we effectively tell the difference between our gut yelling "NO" and resistance? Could someone please direct me to a good video on this? :)

@jj1221ify

6 жыл бұрын

And thank you for another fantastic video, Marie!

Hey gurl! Ima newbie.. anyways im wondering what if i were to start a business out of anger and convenience?.. for example if i were to go to a nail/hair salon the service isnt so good or if a D.J at a club sucked at music and i truly believe i would be an awesome DJ lol i realise i am picky and expect alot but i would put so much into making a new one that caters to EVERYONE.. just wondering lol love u btw hehe x

Oh! there is book in russian

this is off the topic but you should be the next stacy London:)

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Marie, how do you sit in that chair with the coat rack in the way?

I am not sure about marriage

Yes mami I like mari : )

I ended a perfectly happy relationship on the basis that I believed I wanted to sleep with different people I’m 25 years old and for the past few months I’ve been having a fear of wasting my younger years and looking back at myself in a few years time wishing I spent more time being single and having about freedom now that the relationship has been over for 2 1/2 weeks and all I feel is regret. I do not know If I’ve made the right decision.

@Babu-kr3cr

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like your instinct says you made a big mistake.

Who is Harold?

The original Grant Cardone!

this always happens o me with potential boyfriends arrrrrrrrrrggghh

@harryqw2pitter201

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the other stuff I was just wanting to my account and the other stuff you can come to me or not but if you are not going to make it tonight I will be at your place by the way you are a great person and I am not sure if I will be able to be a good friend to be a part of your team and I was just wondering if you got my other stuff I was going to ask if you think I am stupid I was just watching you play me to be able to get to the other stuff you can get a hold of the guy who is going to be in the same room as I was just give me a call when you're free and I can get you to stop and take your phone off my account and it is not going to be blue tooth to my new phone and I don't know if you are still in motor inn but you need to get ahold of me ASAP. Ok I'm not joking around with you I'm going to ask one time or I will call and report you. I am tired of people fucking with my phone's.

Isn't this still logic?

I did not blink, disliked.. Kappa

how are you going to stare into our eyes??? duh

This video quickly turned into marketing your book, giving advice on whether to self publish, and talking more about your life. Boring and absolutely off topic for why I clicked on the video

@mclovin9151

7 жыл бұрын

Once it became informative, it sounded scripted as heck.

@mclovin9151

7 жыл бұрын

Okay, so after watching the whole thing, the actual information relevant to the title lasted for about 1 minute and 10 seconds. Then I watched you type your name into Google and promote your website. You're viewers have got to consist majorly of just people who came to watch you, not what you have to say, as you said close to nothing to say that was not self promotive. Really made me kinda sick