How to Help Your Client Overcome Limiting Beliefs

If you're a therapy practitioner, you will have no doubt heard negative limiting beliefs like the examples in this video time and again. An artful reframe can help people to think differently, but for a reframe to 'take' it needs to be delivered in the right way, and at the right moment.
In this video I'll share some example situations where a reframe can be so effective, and I'll also give 3 cognitive therapy techniques to rapidly reframe unhelpful negative ideas.
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Video highlights:
00:00 Introduction
00:18 'I know exactly what's going to happen!'
00:55 Cognitive reframing is an art, as well as a science
01:42 Examples of cognitive distortions we need to reframe
04:36 The problem of negative certainty
05:42 3 ways to sow uncertainty in a client's limiting beliefs
05:52 Tip 1. Cast doubt with a subjective frame
06:55 Tip 2. Have them 'modify their position'
08:32 Tip 3.Where is the evidence'

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  • @demetriusturner8472
    @demetriusturner84724 ай бұрын

    At my counseling internship right now and your videos have been super helpful for me. Thank you for making these.

  • @subhasharma4425
    @subhasharma4425 Жыл бұрын

    I want to join your course, I am a psychology student from Nepal, working as an addiction counselor at the moment and seeing how CBT is not that useful for anger management as it requires clients to set aside from the situation got me here. Thank you you are the best teacher that i could ask for. Your eyes reflect so much empathy.

  • @venusdoom90
    @venusdoom902 жыл бұрын

    Another great video Mark! Could you possibly make a video on nightmares and repetitive dreams? I have no problem with falling asleep but that is what I have been struggling from for many years and I haven't come across of any videos covering these particular topics. Thank you in advance.

  • @lauraroberts2250
    @lauraroberts22502 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Mark, I always find your talks helpful.

  • @silvermoonuk
    @silvermoonuk2 жыл бұрын

    Hi. could you do a video series on acceptance and commitment therapy techniques please? I have long term health conditions including autism/fibromyalgia/fatigue issues... I'm struggling to accept my disabilities and how they profoundly affect me. I've read act therapy techniques are good. Thanks 😊

  • @andymontan4118
    @andymontan41182 жыл бұрын

    This was soo good!

  • @raewilson9815
    @raewilson9815 Жыл бұрын

    Gee - I like your concepts. I'm glad I found you!

  • @lawandahuffman8847
    @lawandahuffman88472 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your teachings. I am learning so much from you! Thank you for offering these videos free of charge! You are the best! You have truly helped me to grow as a therapist. I truly, truly appreciate you! Blessings!

  • @MagicLute
    @MagicLute9 ай бұрын

    This is not funny for a client who is suffering and you first have to get them out there, but as I listen to him it really makes me laugh at myself! How many times have I fallen into this pit myself! Mark, thank you!

  • @shift_my_subconscious
    @shift_my_subconscious Жыл бұрын

    brilliance.

  • @dv123abc
    @dv123abc2 жыл бұрын

    Useful. Invaluable. Amazing as always 🙏🏻

  • @correlian1155
    @correlian11552 жыл бұрын

    thank you. I like the reframing of believing something is true to feeling it is true.

  • @theresaredmon6168
    @theresaredmon61682 жыл бұрын

    Excellent! Thank you.

  • @paintingzoneart4026
    @paintingzoneart40262 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful and clear ideas, thank you

  • @salimr4718
    @salimr47182 жыл бұрын

    Your voice and tone is appropriate for a therapist.

  • @sammieb9009
    @sammieb9009 Жыл бұрын

    I admire and respect your therapeutic skills. I like to be half as good as you are,🤗. Any advise how I can improve my clinical therapeutic skills? Thanks for what you do to help advance our skills.

  • @hz7988
    @hz79882 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. You are really a master in your field 🙏

  • @andreatilio
    @andreatilio2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mark!

  • @coffeebot7016
    @coffeebot70162 жыл бұрын

    I love this channel and these videos, been a fan for years. Could you possibly do one on some of the psychology behind addiction? Thanks for the hard work!

  • @tatianahawaii13
    @tatianahawaii132 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your work Mark

  • @allthatis1458
    @allthatis14582 жыл бұрын

    Great advice and very practical .

  • @suryadeepsinh8757
    @suryadeepsinh87572 жыл бұрын

    Omg i can't be more thankful

  • @scourneene
    @scourneene2 жыл бұрын

    Wow brilliant!! Thank you!

  • @alexpodolski4068
    @alexpodolski40682 жыл бұрын

    very interesting , Marc! thanks

  • @yetiquabaug6498
    @yetiquabaug64982 жыл бұрын

    That was terrific! Super.

  • @NutriTalkInspiration
    @NutriTalkInspiration2 жыл бұрын

    Thank You for giving me another free therapy session because I have been struggling with, and now starting to overcome, self doubt and limiting beliefs since I was a child. I would gladly pay to receive your services If i wasn't completely broke because I could use it.

  • @thedave9749
    @thedave97492 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU

  • @cloverajazz6743
    @cloverajazz67432 жыл бұрын

    thank you

  • @raewilson9815
    @raewilson9815 Жыл бұрын

    I'm curious if you are familiar with The Work of Byron Katie. I see may principles she uses in what she calls "The Work" - is it true? Can you really know that it is true? Great info.

  • @TrappedInTheNorth
    @TrappedInTheNorth2 жыл бұрын

    The worst thing about my depression is the lack of Concentration and focus, my mind has no peace I cant even study or read for a long period what should I do regarding the lack of concentration ?

  • @etrebelle9812

    @etrebelle9812

    2 жыл бұрын

    procrastination is a stress release tool. try to set yourself on a task for no more than 5 minutes(with a timer). as things stand for you now, you would do more in those 5 minutes than in a week. see it yourself. and encourage yourself always.

  • @Nyx773

    @Nyx773

    Жыл бұрын

    @@etrebelle9812 I agree, timers are a great tool. Sometimes even 2 minutes is helpful. I plan on hanging a cuckoo clock so that every 15 minutes I am reminded to start or stop a task.

  • @etrebelle9812
    @etrebelle98122 жыл бұрын

    you are part of the good of the world (not the goody-goody)

  • @mmc0729
    @mmc07292 жыл бұрын

    hi mark. i sent you an email. looking forward to hearing from you