I wish I had seen this years ago, before the alcoholics in my family did themselves in. But you have to want to change and they obviously didn’t want to.

Thank you I’m trying to help my parents with their addiction. As a teenager it’s really hard to build that trust and a relationship where they will believe you.

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

Ай бұрын

Your a strong person Simpfordaichi. Keep your head up, and make sure to take care of yourself too

That is interesting that we're supposed to be honest. I thought that I was not supposed to express my feelings because that would contribute to their guilt and make them feel worse. Thank you for this wonderful set of advice.

Thank you I’m a mom in pain

Thank you for this . I have a 28 year old son who has / is battling with addiction to alcohol . This is a tough road for all of us

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words. Check out this great resource that might really deepen these principles for you and your family. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/

@kimberly1593

2 жыл бұрын

It truly is. It's so hard to keep pleading with them. Then we make some progress only to be back again pleading how their life could be so much more enjoyable. It's a roller-coaster of emotions, and the worrying about them is constant and exhausting. I do think this video is very helpful. How is you're son doing?

Really helpful. Thank you

Words from the heart go to the heart.

thankyou for this content, it is helping me to learn how to promote recovery to my 23 year old son who lives with his mother and I.

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

5 күн бұрын

Thank you TheAy7531. We apricate your feedback, please let us know if we can help you.

Awesome information

i have a neighbour who was a friend but she is a alcoholic in denial friends help her i help her with food walking the dog she got health carers coming in for a while but she dont want to attend any group or AA she keeps drinking and look to others to give her food and help with not really helping herself i had to distance myself couple of times because she keeps doing the same thing telling lies and not accepting to go into rehab wanting to do it herself telling us she will be stopping in a week this has been going on for a long time even though we all have empathy that she lost her dad her husband and her brother who was also alcoholic and smoker and had mental problems like her she becoming a user who killing herself and mentally able to think reasonable and clear everymorning she only walks to shop for 4 bottles of wine and do nothing else what to say or do after i been very honest with her nothing goes in

Thank you for this great advice!!

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

3 жыл бұрын

You are most welcome! Have you checked out Unhooked yet?

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3 жыл бұрын

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Just beginning to explore the intervention process for a loved one. I found this video informative.

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you my friend!

awesome thanks

thank you!

Thank you

This is great advice, my loved one lives in Japan, only hear from him infrequently when he is drunk, so am no able to form much of a trust between us. I pray daily for him, he's young, and I have to trust God there is no where else I can go.

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

2 жыл бұрын

Gordon, thank you for connecting with me. I know you will find this simple and easy read beneficial. Also check out some of the other free videos on the coaching calls in this channel. unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/

Unfortunately for some alcohol dependents the bottle is more important than anything else..my loved one is destroying her relationship with me and family members one by one..the drink rules, alcohol isn't to blame, everyone else is. This person is a ship sinking and sucking everyone down with her. So sad.

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

3 жыл бұрын

This is so true. This disease is absolutely brutal. May I suggest this new resource I published? unhooked.brickhouserecovery.com/

@kristinajackson5862

2 жыл бұрын

Oh Lord! So sorry to hear that, I have the same situation with my sister. Did anything change in the last year?

My adult middle aged daughter's alcoholism has finally come to the forefront. once she got 2 DUIs and lost her job it couldn't be hidden anymore. She admits she has a problem, but so far has done nothing about it. My dilemma is how to reach out to her. I'm afraid of it being taken as intruding. She doesn't call or reach out to me at all. She has a court date at the end of this month. Should I go with her? I am soooo out of my depth here.

Thank you. I've dealt with alcoholics in my family before but face the challenge of my boyfriend. Looking forward to more content.

@peterrex8191

7 ай бұрын

Your boyfriend has choices…he can see a doctor and get on a drug called naltrexone. It helps to rid a person of the cravings and if they do drink the effects are not as strong and help with the psychological belief that alcohol is their “happy” drug…you and he don’t have to go this alone..reach out for help…all the best to you.

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

6 ай бұрын

Your right Perer, thank you both for your input. If we can help please reach out.

Accusations of denial: the go-to tactic for people in bed with AA and the rehab industry to get more money and revolving customers through the door.

Great advice. Thank you for your insight. You've given us simple tools to handle a loved one on a not so simple situation. I will be applying this to my family's situation :)

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Do you have a copy of my book unhooked?

How do you deal with a 76 yrs old who has been placed in a nursing home and who after going through withdrawal and recovery decides they want to move out of nursing home and into a flat and demands to once again have access to their bank account in order to 'have their independence back'. I have been through this process time and again with her and she is frail and I know she will do the same thing again. To deal with this again at her age without the assistance of a nursing home is impractical and it is also too late for her to make such decisions. I. E in six months or a year she would probably need assistance of a nursing home anyway. For her to move now is stupid in the extreme and no doubt I as her daughter would not be able to find place for her in another nursing home. Your advice would be appreciated.

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

4 жыл бұрын

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Where to book for consultation for family How the family supposed to behave when they drinking in front of their house & parents is a guest there?

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

5 ай бұрын

Hey kianpartovi5501, you can always google places near you for substance use and addiction. You can ask each place any questions you might have about consultation. (: hope that helps!

Well I experienced with my alcoholic sister that she always went back to denial once she started drinking again. After rehab when she was stabilized she agreed it was good to detox and get back on track then she starts drinking again and suddenly she would say she was in rehab because of her depression apparently alcohol never was the issue. People always say that admitting to yourself is the first step to recovery but my sister always seem to go back to step zero once she starts drinking again. Any suggestions?

What if they won’t even admit they have a problem

@brickhouserecoverytv6668

3 жыл бұрын

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@richardkingsberry7631

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much for your much needed insight.

@mvxo1510

11 ай бұрын

@@Allison-oh1tiupdate my mom recovered! It’s was a hard time but she got through it!

Just pray not going to work sorry

she falls alot and often looks beat up with great amount of weight loss and even with bars put in for her safety she still to drunk to even stand up in a day falls all the time.

SECRET: There is no cure for alcoholism. 5 Percent of drunks quit. Those who quit transfer their addiction Sad life

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