“they really gave you all the tools you need in order to become the biggest artwork of yourself” I cant stop replaying this part. Thank you.

all the ppl who watch this , you will be a good parent

@yashyy1111

Жыл бұрын

You too ✨

@hiii.2061

10 ай бұрын

thank u @@yashyy1111

@valentina_cs

7 ай бұрын

it means so much to me ❤ thank u angel

This is such an important video. I feel like a lot of people don't realise just how much our inner child is still with us and follows us throughout our life. This just goes to show how influential our childhood can be in making us the person we are today. Thank you for this 💛👏🏽😊

Our protector, love you baby. I hope you heal from everything that has hurt you. You are a golden heart person and we love you so so much♥

@Persephonesmind

Жыл бұрын

I love you too and I hope you all heal from whatever your heart had to suffer under 🤍🤍🤍

@madalinavoinu1316

Жыл бұрын

@@Persephonesmind Ale may I know what’s your job? I would love to be financially independent too ❤

@darkspice6339

Жыл бұрын

@@madalinavoinu1316 omg yes! Being independent specially financially is SOOO underrated and underspoken.

Alessia>>>> therapy

@germanpolishguy

Жыл бұрын

Fr

@somyuh7402

Жыл бұрын

Therapy is still important!! Ik its an appreciation comment but they can work hand in hand together

@kashishsingh9494

Жыл бұрын

Right brooo

@loverecepii

Жыл бұрын

both tho>>

@mitskisfavgf

Жыл бұрын

reall

My mum has been married for 23 years to a person who did not love or value her and now they are finally separating. This video has helped her realise that her worth is inherent and she doesn't need to search for validation in people that do not deserve her. Thank you for this video, you're amazing x

I love how I get a nice therapist while I am just lying on my bed

listening to you is life changing and you are an extremely powerful woman who has a lot to teach others, keep going. you're inspiring.

@Persephonesmind

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much dear 🤍

I was crying for remembering my childhood and i just got the notification thank u queen❤❤

So true i felt so sad watching this video.. Growing up i used to hide my emotions and i used to be completely different and very mature this is what my parents used to say that i m very mature in this age i don't cry for things and other stuff that kids used to do.. But now people told me i never show my emotions and i m emotionless Stonehearted person that i used to think is right and because of these things rn i Always felt a rage of emotions sometimes i m too sad, too happy and I have created anxiety in myself i have high anxiety problem some times i suffer from anxiety attacks too i have health issues i jump one relationship to another or Maybe not relationship but i always try to find someone who can be with me i feel lonely and neglect not satisfied with my looks and self both and constantly running away from my feelings and idk what is all this but this video made me feel sad.. I hope i can do all that is mentioned in the video i really wanted to heal be happy and satisfied with myself maybe this is the sign from God.. I hope everyone can heal their self and be better lots of love to everyone and alessia🖤

Wonderful topic ! The part about shadow work and doing activities you enjoyed in childhood was so spot on ! I HAD TO HEAR IT ❤

@karim_wafa

Жыл бұрын

yes! i agree! so true

“If I could I would take all your pain on my shoulders” 💗💗💗 love this video and your message 🤍

fangirling about watching this before i even started the video

Yesterday I was thinking how can I stop people pleasing where I realised I'll need to heal my kid self first and this reached to me today! How powerful is this timeline

You really came at the right time I really needed this, thank you!❤

The hope and encouragement in your voice is a blessing to hear 🙏 thank you 💞💞💞

You have no idea how much I needed a video like this. Thank you so much.

Thank you so much for this brilliant video. It feels like I needed to hear this. It’s like you spoke to me. My world got turned upside down when my mother died. She was my best friend. And my other parent/family forced me to shut down my emotions and wanted me to become “monsters” like them. I been having a dark era for these past couple years even tho my mother raised me w so much love. I am no longer in that other home but ever since being on my own I realized I come to possess traits I never had until I lived w the toxicity for way too long. Now I’m in my journey to self heal again, it’s hard but as you know since you also been there.. it’s very inspiring to me and reassuring, thank you 🙏🏻❤️

@Persephonesmind

Жыл бұрын

I am so proud of you 🤍

Thank you so much for this!!!! My words can't thank you enough, but know that you're helping MANYYYY people. We need more people like you in this world!!!

thank you so much for this video. im really grateful for seeing this❤

your voice calms me down, thank you🤍

Thank you so much for those golden advices , i believe we can heal together and grow together n b proud of each other❤️

They made you a good vessel to inspire and encourage the world community,Your noble advices are much admired.

@zimemathembinkosi6483

3 ай бұрын

Thank you♥

I just started watching this video and i’m gonna be honest i’m already in love with your way of thinking and you generally❤❤thanks for sharing this

i am so thankful for you and your beautiful soul. your words are like free therapy for people who can't afford real therapy. i love youuuuu

This video give me power and a little bit of tears in my eyes... Thank you. ❤

omg the start, I relate to you so much. only this year, I started allowing myself to feel. otherwise I literally went numb, I couldn't feel any emotion, I felt so dead. that's when I was like enough is enough and focused on healing.

Thank you for your healing videos ❤ I've watched hundreds of videos on toxic abuse/ all things narcissism related . You cut to the heart of it all with profound spiritual insight so unique. I've stayed in a toxic relationship 20 years hoping if I did more, satisfied her every demand I'd get the love and respect back but no I got more criticism and discarding. You are so right about people pleasing coming from what we experienced from our care givers. I've been through therapy and still kept trying until I left for good as she got worse as if to sabotage my progress. I'm now volunteering as a mental health mentor and finding better things to spend my time and energy on, but without having gone through that experience I'd never have found my purpose. Thank you for validating our sufferings . I guess we get the Love we believe we deserve.

I am so grateful for you, your videos and wisdom helped me so much!💗💗💗

I found you yesterday and I LOVE your videos, you gave me so much confidence 💗

MOST IMPORTANT VIDEO ON THIS TOPIC EVER. EVERY WORD MADE SENSE.

blocking negative music, movies, news really does wonders for positive mindset

you’re amazing 🤍🤍🤍

This’s the video I exactly needed, Thank you!

I wasn't ready for this video I was having a mental breakdown while watching it I was having dinner and I started having anxiety so I left it cause all the abuse and trauma started flashing through my eyes and I couldn't hold tears I kept telling myself I'm safe and I hugged myself I'll do inner child work thankyou Alessia

Thank you this video literally went by so fast!!! You are amazing thank you

What an amazing Role Model you are, I am similar to you. I will rather be dead than become like the monster that raised me, I've now escaped and thriving!! It feels so amazing to finally embrace my inner child and knew nothing was wrong with it.

Thank you for the things you do! Thank you also for the book recommendations!

You are the ONLY person I'd turn notifications on for. I love you so much for making these videos and giving us a chance to process ourselves and others in our life. You are doing good work.

@hals.x5325

Жыл бұрын

Exactly and same here

THIS IS BEAUTIFUL

damn the breathing part, i needed that. I have this rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath that sometimes I feel dizzy. Thanks for that

We have such similar childhoods, I am still 15 but this video has helped me so much Thank you so much

@mae8139

11 ай бұрын

same but i’m 16

found this video after deciding to address the worst trauma that happened in my life on therapy. the issue is regarding to healing my inner child that has been hurt badly by the person that was supposed to be a safe place. i think it's a sign that i'm going to do the right thing. "your past doesn't define you. the abuse we had to go through doesn't define us", thank you for that

Firstly, thank you God for your permit, I just have met Alessia video on youtube. I do really thankful. You beautifully lighten my dark mind. I always thinking that I'm not enough, so I'm people pleasing to get validation. I realize now that is toxic. I always been worth without it. May God bless you, and keep the spirit of doing video. I love you Alessia

Probably one of the most important videos I’ve ever seen on this app

we love you so much alessia, thank you so much!!😭💓

Thank you for these videos your helping so many people

Fangirling so HARD! 🤍🤍

wake up baby, the queen has posted!💘

thank you so much, you literally lifted a weight off my chest. ily

I've only watched you for three minutes, but I want to say that when I watch people like you, I feel really warm and POWERFUL And I also understand that I also want to go through the path of healing and pass on my experience to other people, this is very important to me too. Learning about life, gathering information about this world and sharing it with others In short, I already adore you

Gonna watch this every morning as I get ready 👐

the necklace ur wearing explains everything... stay strong I love u

I had an era of being the monsters that abused & hurt me because they broke me down so much! Ive made so much progress healing & im now stopping pitying myself & using my past as motivation & lessons

wow,you are incredible! thank you 🙏🏼

We need more of these mom🥰🥰😭

Thank you soo much . I also feel that you are safe place to be , your nurturing energy. Lately kinda felt the need to heal my inner child I was running away from it, this helped me alot.

@shavonnerodrigues8440

Жыл бұрын

Her instagram handle?

bro I was right. I been telling this to everyone but no one ever listens! I learned this lesson when i was 13 years old. God really said that was going to be the first lesson i would learn. And due to personal and emotional reasoning i wanted to help people so they wouldn't go through what i did. However there were people who didn't believe me until they saw it with their own eyes. I still use this lesson today now that im 18 and im glad someone finally said it that pain can an forever be motivation.

I love your mindset

It was ur best video. I really needed it. Ily

This really made me tear up, i feel so validated and have never felt so comforted before listening to this, i had trouble loving myself because of my ownself and trauma, and really was always so negative and pessimistic when it had came to the person i am, i never realised how much ive never prioritised myself, this video and pieces of advice u had given really touched me You have a beautiful heart alessia ❤ 14:50 🌹 17:10 😭💕

I really needed this words 16:04, thank you!🙏🏼

Thank you for this video.❤

This YTchannel is GOLD, people! 🌹✨

I loved this one ❤ thank you

please continue doing this videos! you have beautiful things to tell the world that can help other people, you have helped me so much, thank you so much🤍

thank you for this video ❤ from Iraq ❤❤

This is such an important video!

thank you for your videos, i'm grateful, you're really inspiring me ✨️

Thankyou so much for wonderful video. Grateful ❤❤

Thank you alessia for this brilliant video. You made such good points and conveyed them to us extremely soothingly and kindly. Thank you so much. You truly make a difference

@Persephonesmind

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🥹🤍

My dear Alessia I love you so much I can't describe how much I respect you ,please stay healthy 💞

YES U POSTED ❤❤

Ilyyyy so so much💗🧿may god bless you✨

Thank you so much,i really needed this

This has helped me a lot, thank you so much

Thank you so much I needed to hear these words now i need to know why im like this cuz idk why and how I’ll be better

OMYGOSH THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR!

I love youuuu !!!! 🤗🤗 You too are the person everyone deserved in their childhood(one day I’ll become that person too) I too had toxicity all around me growing up(but i will choose to be the person i wanted to be surround by in my childhood) 😌 I choose to be a better person💞💅🏻

I'm going through a break up now, this relationship really triggered my childhood issues a lot, I felt bad because to me it's like I allowed it to happen again, but I'm trying to be a safe place for myself to heal now, I hate when heartbreaks slow me down in life, I really hate going through breakups but I'm trying to normalize all the feelings and process I'm going through right now, I love you and thank you so much for your time and words

I feel comfortable with this pain I feel safe in it I find comfort in loneliness and pain and it makes me don't want to heal, and make me wanna suffer more

Liking the video before even watching it because I know it's Alessia speaking and she always speaks facts

feels like a therapy session and I love it lol

This is a very convincing speech

Thank you for this video alessia

Thank you💕

Amazing 😻 thank you

I love your videos!❤

I needed this ily

Alessia!! I really don't know how to thank you for this video, I haven't even watched the full video yet but from the intro, I know this is for me. I've been feeling really low the past few days, mainly because of how poorly my parents have been treating me and my emotional needs. And some things my parents did are really stuck with me idk how to let them go. There was this one time I wailed in front of one of my teachers and she asked me what the matter was I told her it was because my mom was being rude so my teacher later on called my mom and told her about this (with my permission) and my mom talked to me and was being nice but later when I went back home my mom was being so rude to me saying 'what do you think you're doing crying to people for the issues here don't try and shed tears just so you can get my sympathy. I'll be rude to you I don't care if you go die about this'. I've never cried in front of my parents for so long and showing the least bit of emotion in front of them scares me I don't even express my happiness. As you said, I still wear the mask I've worn long ago. I hope and pray that nobody has to go through such pain and if anyone ever does they heal from it with much more strength. Thank you so much for this, I'm so grateful to have found you. I love you Alessia.❤

@fathimarafeeq8587

Жыл бұрын

@Mubarake07 I hope so too. And you're absolutely right about how Arab society is. I can't ever hate them for this I hate their actions but not them. I'll try going to therapy soon. Wishing so much health, love, luck and happiness for you too. And thank you so much for your reply, it means so so much to me also sorry I couldn't reply earlier.

@fathimarafeeq8587

Жыл бұрын

@Mubarake07 you too ❤may I know where you're from?

@fathimarafeeq8587

Жыл бұрын

@Mubarake07 Ahaa... I'm Indian living in Saudi Arabia

Thanks for your video. Have a good week ❤

oh i love you🥺💘

Ever since I was a kid, I thought I am worth something when I am beautiful in appearance and popular. At school and as a kid, I tried to fit in with the popular girls because if I didnt, I was worth nothing. I end up getting bullied hy them. If I wasnt loved by someone, I am worthless. That was my mindset. That made me into a jelouse narccisst until I broke out in depression. I dropped my narccissm but became a people pleaser because I wanted people to see me as this sweet person and if I didnt, I wouldnt be loved. School and depression robbed my childhood but then I realized, I need to become the person my younger self desperaty needed. I need to start validating myself and loving myself to the point where another love is not needed. Whenever I start crying, I would go up to the mirror and comfort myself like I was a seperate person comforting younger self. I started hugging myself when I needed it because nobody else is going to do it. So if your're reading this and whether you can relate or not, you are not a product with a price tag. Dont make yourself so cheap that anybody can afford you. Become espensive on your own, determine your own price so that only people that are worth your energy can have acess to you. Secondly, love yourself. Every time you pass a mirror, smille and compliment yourself. Maybe even kiss the mirror. And remeber, you are going to heal. You're not going to be like this forever, you are going to heal. Dont let yourself go like this.

I appreciate you sm❤️🥺

Early! And also I love your videos💖

I'm going through a breakup, and it ended on good terms but it still hurts me so much because the reason the relationship failed is because I haven't fully healed myself. I was feeling validated by loving another person because I couldn't love myself. Your videos are helping me immensely thank you. I hope to be on the other side soon and be able to recieve everything I deserve and more.

I have learned sm from you Thank you

I LOVE YOUUU

Thanks a lot for this Alessia❤

Love youuuuuuu❤❤❤❤