How to stop feeling sorry for yourself

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  • @Thewizardliz
    @Thewizardliz Жыл бұрын

    My mom asked me to add: If you are in an abusive relationship whether it’s emotional or physical make sure you find a way to leave. Ask for help, tell someone you trust, save money to get out… it does not get better if they abused you once they will do it again and worse the second time. It takes lots of courage to leave and start over but you have to be strong and have faith. It’s better to have some uncomfortable months or years than have the risk of someone taking your life. They do not change, they only get worse because they see that they can get away with it. If I could get anything back in my life, I would have left when I saw the early signs of abuse. You will get trough this, situations like these create warriors. When you are brave enough to choose yourself, everything in life starts to open up for you. Lots of love and blessings 🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️

  • @katebabenco5361

    @katebabenco5361

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Liz!!! Truly appreciate you and your work!

  • @leilacateee

    @leilacateee

    Жыл бұрын

    Thankyou Liz ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Purzify

    @Purzify

    Жыл бұрын

    Thankyou for this video, although I haven't watched all of it yet, from a week ago I couldn't stop thinking about this embarrassing moment, thinking about my friends and others laughing at me, but then I realise they don't actually care and would have forget about it.

  • @flowegirl4512

    @flowegirl4512

    Жыл бұрын

    I love you Liz💕

  • @va1shnavii

    @va1shnavii

    Жыл бұрын

    Well, I'm in the same situation like this. And idk its tough to get out. I'm at a point where I want to get out no matter what, cause it sucks, but part of me still loves him. And he claims that he won't do it again, but my heart refuses to take that validation. I somehow know that this time he is actually changing, but idk what is in me I just can't trust him anymore. So what should I do abt thatm

  • @gregorymasters5805
    @gregorymasters5805 Жыл бұрын

    I am a man and i find men’s self help videos sometimes very toxic. So i watch your videos and its amazing how good you are with this. Your advice always helps. Its like listening to elder very wise sister for me. Very therapeutic. Thank you for this.

  • @prnnp

    @prnnp

    Жыл бұрын

    👏🏼👏🏼yeah some spit bs and call it wisdom

  • @pbj4142

    @pbj4142

    Жыл бұрын

    Awww I’m glad you guys can find a safe space here, we welcome you 💗💗💗

  • @nadineelseudy5835

    @nadineelseudy5835

    Жыл бұрын

    I love this

  • @virgo_baby7777

    @virgo_baby7777

    Жыл бұрын

    this makes me happy, good for u 💕

  • @skaio.5279

    @skaio.5279

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pbj4142 "we welcome you" LMFAO as if it's not just Liz making the videos bahahaha

  • @jadasugar22
    @jadasugar22 Жыл бұрын

    “Life is not for the weak” wow, that really hit me.

  • @anamikapa5534

    @anamikapa5534

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @judigemini178

    @judigemini178

    Жыл бұрын

    also, "either you get tough or let life make you tough" ...she's so on point

  • @unknowkdyh

    @unknowkdyh

    3 ай бұрын

    OMGGG

  • @SoVidushi
    @SoVidushi Жыл бұрын

    I wanted to give liz a hug when she said she would trade her looks for a happy childhood. Liz you're a force to be reckoned with.

  • @joyc9323

    @joyc9323

    Жыл бұрын

    Imagine having a bad childhood and facing rejection as an adult because you're not pretty.

  • @Am-mm6iz

    @Am-mm6iz

    Жыл бұрын

    She deserves her beauty ❤

  • @Letthesoulshine717

    @Letthesoulshine717

    Жыл бұрын

    @@joyc9323 change your mindset and your face will change .. its about perception

  • @eve_ev

    @eve_ev

    Жыл бұрын

    @@joyc9323 it's abt appearance at first because that's literally the 1st thing we notice, when we see sm1 but after we get to know them that's when we choose if we really want to be around them

  • @cherully.-ti5xp

    @cherully.-ti5xp

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you watch the video…

  • @leaalee1411
    @leaalee1411 Жыл бұрын

    3:22 “if I don’t talk about myself like that. Who’s gonna talk about me like that?” Is now my new favorite quote.

  • @anamikapa5534

    @anamikapa5534

    Жыл бұрын

    Mine too

  • @brezio5251

    @brezio5251

    Жыл бұрын

    well if you're a narcissist then people def won't talk about you like that

  • @lu_iscool

    @lu_iscool

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@brezio5251there's a difference between being confident and being a narcissist.

  • @brezio5251

    @brezio5251

    10 ай бұрын

    @@lu_iscool and shes on the narcissist side of things

  • @lu_iscool

    @lu_iscool

    10 ай бұрын

    @@brezio5251 how??

  • @Bionicmarissa
    @Bionicmarissa Жыл бұрын

    As an arm amputee when you said "You have arm privilege" I DIED🤣🤣🤣

  • @SoVidushi

    @SoVidushi

    Жыл бұрын

    this comment made me laugh (tho i prolly shouldn't have) so thanks for that, hope you have a wonderful day xx

  • @anaalvarado7871

    @anaalvarado7871

    Жыл бұрын

    But maybe you have 2 legs so you're still privileged🥰 you're alive, privilege! You are healthy, privilege!

  • @La_ilah_ila_Allah

    @La_ilah_ila_Allah

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s not even that funny, settle down

  • @La_ilah_ila_Allah

    @La_ilah_ila_Allah

    Жыл бұрын

    You very ungrateful. If you didn’t have not arms or legs you wouldn’t be laughing. Being ungrateful is very unattractive

  • @La_ilah_ila_Allah

    @La_ilah_ila_Allah

    Жыл бұрын

    You commenting this shows you didn’t even listen to what she said and learn from it…

  • @sofiacardinali689
    @sofiacardinali689 Жыл бұрын

    “The bad will never outweigh the good because my mindset is right”. so beautiful, thank you

  • @medhyaverma-cy4rx

    @medhyaverma-cy4rx

    2 ай бұрын

    I really believe in this now and it keeps me going through difficult situations every now and then. Thank u so much.

  • @lovemaine0394
    @lovemaine0394 Жыл бұрын

    Out of all professional motivational speakers out there, you're the only one who really helps me a lot. Thank you, Queen!

  • @stutishrivastava2003

    @stutishrivastava2003

    Жыл бұрын

    Same!!!

  • @sarinamhi7354

    @sarinamhi7354

    Жыл бұрын

    How I wish your profile picture was you

  • @anamikapa5534

    @anamikapa5534

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @gloriakim2616
    @gloriakim2616 Жыл бұрын

    "I would trade my beauty to not have mental scars" This hit me to my core. I hear this and I feel this so deeply.

  • @kingfresh3100

    @kingfresh3100

    Жыл бұрын

    You would think it's such a crazy thing for her to say because she's pretty as hell but in reality, women literally go through so much in this world it's not even funny. Allot of the prettiest girls I knew in school were raped as a youth but they all trot around like everything is alright, when in reality they're suffering. Ps. Stay strong

  • @KillerQueen-gx4vb

    @KillerQueen-gx4vb

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kingfresh3100 women who are not pretty can be raped too yknow. It’s not a pretty girl issue.

  • @kingfresh3100

    @kingfresh3100

    Жыл бұрын

    @@KillerQueen-gx4vb I know that. I was not trying to leave anyone out. I was merely responding to her point is all. I also was eluding to the fact that the people that smile the most be having some of the worst experiences in life but hide it so well that you would never think that.

  • @starrynight5163

    @starrynight5163

    Жыл бұрын

    Same 🥺😭

  • @freaykbaron8580

    @freaykbaron8580

    Жыл бұрын

    she probably would never lol. If she didnt look the way she does, she wouldnt be having such a great life

  • @hrishetarajkumari977
    @hrishetarajkumari977 Жыл бұрын

    I can't stop crying. I am dealing with so much high school drama that I don't even wanna deal with but listening to her say,"It happened, it happened, honey it's fine" was such a comfort. Thank you Liz. You mean a lot to me. I love you with all my heart. You're such an elder sister to me. Thank you.

  • @hrishetarajkumari977

    @hrishetarajkumari977

    Жыл бұрын

    @@snehasharma2096 hey hi! High school for sure is hard. Sure :) are u on IG?

  • @xoxoanshi

    @xoxoanshi

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hrishetarajkumari977 omg you guys we can create our own community here and grow together.yay

  • @mathildawilliams5419

    @mathildawilliams5419

    Жыл бұрын

    That's a good idea 💡let's do that

  • @mathildawilliams5419

    @mathildawilliams5419

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hrishetarajkumari977yeah

  • @snehasharma2096

    @snehasharma2096

    Жыл бұрын

    @@xoxoanshi yes that will be soo amazing ...!

  • @inarahshariff6796
    @inarahshariff6796 Жыл бұрын

    Words can't describe how much respect i have for this woman

  • @Crumpledpages
    @Crumpledpages10 ай бұрын

    14:39 "It happened. It happened, honey it's fine. It happened. Okay." Thank you, Liz. That literally broke me. Every time I see one of her videos, there's a part of me that heals and feels emotions that were buried somewhere deep within.

  • @aniketchakravarty2583
    @aniketchakravarty2583 Жыл бұрын

    another male viewer from india, so im an 18 yr old boy struggling with crippling depression and constant physical and mental abuse from my parents. Honestly i was sick of most male self improvement youtubers telling me 'oh just hit the gym and meditate bro', cuz even by doing all of that, i never understood why i still used to break down in tears during night and had to cry myself to sleep until the mental pain was finally gone. Going through all of the loneliness, abuse , confusion and self hatred alone i thought there was no point in having even a single ounce of hope for life anymore. But then thanks to my cousin, she recommended me your channel and i noticed that im finally starting to feel better day by day as i keep watching your vids. i hope one day i'll finally leave my parents' place and see a totally new version of life. Edit: So Its been a while since i'm on my healing journey and im here to acknowledge the fact that yes it still hurts a lot and its not an easy process at all. A lot of times you are going to find yourself reliving the whole traumatic scene in certain social situations and even end up crying with a combined feeling of frustration and extreme sudden hatred towards the abuser. But always remember that since you were strong enough to survive the damage, you're well damn strong enough to survive the recovery too. AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!

  • @Restricka

    @Restricka

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you get free too, you are worthy of all the love and happiness

  • @hordevran

    @hordevran

    Жыл бұрын

    Follow Nofap which gives you motivation for anything you need and certainly stop watching these 'female self centered youtubers'. This is women's battle, they hate each other.

  • @khushboo4852

    @khushboo4852

    Жыл бұрын

    Best of luck brother I hope you get all the love that you deserve

  • @riannawalker5904

    @riannawalker5904

    Жыл бұрын

    You're amazing and I'm glad you're getting better🤍

  • @nainavaidya4337

    @nainavaidya4337

    Жыл бұрын

    All the best. I hope you feel better 🤍

  • @pennysmith00131
    @pennysmith00131 Жыл бұрын

    “Life is not for the weak” 🥵 that floored me. Such an empowering msg. I will never ever forget this.

  • @anskubansku5614

    @anskubansku5614

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah we didn't came to this earth to become weak...

  • @ladyslick121

    @ladyslick121

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol - is that basic sentence what you’re floored by? Worried for you…yikes

  • @pennysmith00131

    @pennysmith00131

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ladyslick121 I’m trying to understand what could be the underlying drive to make a comment like this. What is it inside of you that would need say this? I was floored by that sentence. Sometimes it’s the most basic & simple sentences that can be the most profound & just click for the reader. My life has been extremely hard on & off and sometimes I’ve become really weak physically & mentally. Getting stuck in a victim mindset & negative thought loops. I’m now 5 yes into a spiritual awakening & working on myself and I’m much stronger and able to let go of victim thinking patterns. I loved how empowering “life is not for the weak” was because it made me feel grateful for all my challenges because I’m strong enough to move through them & learn & improve. Your comment made me feel defensive and like I need to explain myself… so thanks it’s good for me to feel realise that I still have a need to explain myself to others… everything’s a sign post & a mirror right!? My comment obviously triggered you to feel something, I hope you can identify what it was & then bring awareness to it. 💫 xx

  • @pamelaf2519

    @pamelaf2519

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ladyslick121 it’s funny because people like you who easily trivialize things are some of the most dissatisfied and unhappy people because they can’t appreciate anything. So ironically, probably anyone who sees your comment is more worried about you. Things don’t need to be over complicated and convoluted to be meaningful. Some of the most simple things in life can be the most profound and beautiful If you have the capacity to recognize and appreciate it.

  • @Wr-3985
    @Wr-3985 Жыл бұрын

    Your mom seems like a very strong, beautiful woman, that raised an amazing daughter. I‘d really love to see a video of you both together, if you want to

  • @Michelle-pn9xt

    @Michelle-pn9xt

    10 ай бұрын

    The video is not about her mom.

  • @ananyapandey830
    @ananyapandey83011 сағат бұрын

    "You know why they always put women against each other? Because women united is way too powerful." Louder for the whole world to hear, Liz.

  • @mafer_mv
    @mafer_mv Жыл бұрын

    5:55 - Focus on evolving yourself to get the privilege you want 12:08 - Self pity is a waste of time 12:48 - Self pity leads to more negative emotions 13:14 - Self pity prevents you from dealing with your emotions 13:56 - Self pity interferes with relationships 14:12 - Self pity is a habit that you can change 14:22 - Accept the situation for what it is and focus on what you have now 14:57 - Volunteer to a worthy cause 15:24 - Start something new and make it apart of your lifestyle 16:05 - Look for the positive in every situation 16:27 - Look at yourself from and outside perspective 17:01 - Ask yourself what advice would I give a loved one about this situation 17:05 - Treat yourself like someone you love deeply 17:47 - Remind yourself of the times you were able to overcome tough situations 18:25 - Make a list of people circumstances and situations that you love and are good 18:44 - Write down things you are grateful for in a journal 19:20 - Repeat to yourself what you are grateful for 20:07 - Ask other people what they are grateful for 20:26 - Teach your children to be grateful ✨ 21:24 ✨

  • @nicolenunez4220

    @nicolenunez4220

    Жыл бұрын

    thank you!!!✨✨✨

  • @zinbkoubi4660

    @zinbkoubi4660

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this ❤❤🦋

  • @angelicosubs

    @angelicosubs

    Жыл бұрын

    Funny thing is 555 (angel) number is about changing and that's also kinda what the time stamp is about

  • @sophianiyifasha4793

    @sophianiyifasha4793

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏

  • @star4girl11

    @star4girl11

    Жыл бұрын

    ty

  • @kingfresh3100
    @kingfresh3100 Жыл бұрын

    The pretty privilege point is so damn good because we as men were taught recently that women are living life on easy mode because they're pretty. When in reality you have women who get abused and cheated on but they are drop dead gorgeous. Also ones who suffer from depression and anxiety. Those things are not easy to deal with and I'm glad that I came across your channel to see a new/better side of things. Keep it up!

  • @kingfresh3100

    @kingfresh3100

    Жыл бұрын

    @The_Audacity @The_Audacity I respect your grind and come up and thank you for sharing this. Also, I feel like people get lost in making excuses. Some men nowadays will be talking about women like they didn't earn their spot in the pecking order. And that if they did then it MUST be because of some specific reason that they made it to the top. It can never be "well maybe they just worked harder than me". Their fragile male ego is going to get shattered knowing they got out worked by a woman and so they make up these scenarios that make no sense often. Because yes women have it hard. Allot of times harder than most men because on top of trying to look the prettiest on the outside and be respected in the workplace, they also have to work on their mental health. Most men are taught to suppress these emotions. It is far easier to run away and say fuck it but I respect women so much because they deal with so much shit emotionally and HEAD on. No running from it or bullshitting. Just real work. You're right though. God is definitely worth any and everything.

  • @kingfresh3100

    @kingfresh3100

    Жыл бұрын

    @The_Audacity I totally agree. As one, we can all conquer the world and I truly believe that. God bless you and yours as well.🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @en2336

    @en2336

    Жыл бұрын

    So??? Ugly people deal with those things too and have even worse lives?? They can't just make thousands modeling a month and then hire a spiritual coach like Liz?? Smh beautiful people are so disconnected and cringe. And so are their followers

  • @UdoADHD

    @UdoADHD

    Жыл бұрын

    Also you’re not pretty just because you’re female

  • @rrewwww

    @rrewwww

    Жыл бұрын

    people like you give me hope in the opposite sex, thank you for being the way you are

  • @starlight10823
    @starlight10823 Жыл бұрын

    This is the girl thats putting therapists out of business. Literally therapist of the century, love you liz x

  • @annamayumpacan6179
    @annamayumpacan6179 Жыл бұрын

    “If i don’t talk about myself like that, who’s gonna talk about me like that” YESSSSS GURL!! DEFINITELY!!!!!

  • @nanukabeshkenadze
    @nanukabeshkenadze Жыл бұрын

    when my 4 years old brother had cancer I realized that literally nothing matters in this life but being healthy,I was going to oncology clinic very often and seeing these little kids without hair and without any hope killed me,most of us don’t realize that we are very privileged and some people would do anything to be in our skin,we should be grateful because of that P.s my brother beat cancer and now he is doing great❤️

  • @warholgirl

    @warholgirl

    Жыл бұрын

    you're so right

  • @nadineelseudy5835

    @nadineelseudy5835

    Жыл бұрын

    Yay for your brother I’m so glad 🥹😍 and beautiful point

  • @stormi7851

    @stormi7851

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm happy for you!

  • @saraabd5489

    @saraabd5489

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy for u

  • @rainandcoffee6426

    @rainandcoffee6426

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks to God for your brother ❤

  • @quengquymaiman8005
    @quengquymaiman8005 Жыл бұрын

    "You thought you couldnt make it and you still made it, and you should be proud of youself" thank you Liz, your words are really special and powerful that touch ppl heart

  • @quengquymaiman8005

    @quengquymaiman8005

    Жыл бұрын

    -update: im in my lowest point right now bc art school is so tough to me, i feel like i have no passion anymore and i wanna quit cause i think i wont make it suddenly someone liked this comment and it reminds me of how i should keep studying, because in the future i will make it anyway cause that’s how i’ve been through million times in the past, thank u again Liz and random person who liked my comment

  • @Sss-qw1qp
    @Sss-qw1qp Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes im glad that i can speak&understand english, this is so helpful.

  • @stopppppppppp33

    @stopppppppppp33

    Жыл бұрын

    me too but i am french lol

  • @soniadomaradzka3120
    @soniadomaradzka3120 Жыл бұрын

    “Yes, bad things happen, but the bad does not outweigh the good, and it will never outweigh the good because my mindset is right” ❣️✨

  • @sophianiyifasha4793
    @sophianiyifasha4793 Жыл бұрын

    How to stop feeling sorry for your self 1. Volunteer for a worthy cuzz 2. See the positive in any situation 3. Be there for yourself , comfort yourself (How would you treat a love one who is going through what your going through) 4. Have a gratitude journal 📓 and be grateful Thank you Liz ❤🙏

  • @nishi9178
    @nishi9178 Жыл бұрын

    I heard this message during an Islamic lecture and wanted to share "If you woke up today with all the things you were grateful to God for yesterday, what would you wake up with today?". I realised I would've woken up with literally nothing at the time I heard that. It really helped me to truly be grateful about even the smallest of things.

  • @zineb4330

    @zineb4330

    Жыл бұрын

    we so proud to be muslims alhamdoulah

  • @BellaBankes
    @BellaBankes Жыл бұрын

    “your character shows on your face.” I understand what you mean totally. There are a lot of beautiful people with not-so-beautiful hearts, or who are very damaged. And like you’re pointing out, they’re often hated by others who don’t have strong self esteem simply because they’re beautiful on the outside, not knowing anything about them. Great points in this video 🤍

  • @feyla4814
    @feyla4814 Жыл бұрын

    Honestly I’m at a point where I’m only watching this to stop feeling sorry for the people that missed out on me hope they’re coping well!

  • @hhgt237

    @hhgt237

    Жыл бұрын

    LMAO WHAT

  • @77768

    @77768

    Жыл бұрын

    mood

  • @oyinosikoya

    @oyinosikoya

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes queen

  • @elainelegaspina4765

    @elainelegaspina4765

    Жыл бұрын

    REAL

  • @Starliet

    @Starliet

    Жыл бұрын

    SLAYYYYY 💁🏻‍♀️💅🏻

  • @leilacateee
    @leilacateee Жыл бұрын

    Screamingggggggg because I keep replaying all of Liz’s vids now I’m sooo happyyyy

  • @Jadiorliminals

    @Jadiorliminals

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @bolysbekayana

    @bolysbekayana

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed!!

  • @galileagallardo4913
    @galileagallardo4913 Жыл бұрын

    I really like how she told us to stop complaining abt pretty privilege cause she made me realize there’s other things to be thankful for

  • @dianaisdelulu
    @dianaisdelulu8 ай бұрын

    this woman is the true queen. when I was watching the last video " why everyone is always obsessed with me" I saw soooo many comments saying: "yeah, it's easy for her to say, she's pretty". And I was just sitting and thinking why didn't they hear her words and decided to be feel sorry for themselves instead. And here I open this video and see the answer. Liz, you're amazing❤

  • @AnimosityIncarnate

    @AnimosityIncarnate

    6 ай бұрын

    Because they are correct... I largely did all of this stuff, actual change happened with me improving my looks. I've seen similar things happen with height, makeup, booty size or muscles. No matter how infectious that personality is, attraction gives you more opportunities to express it, which makes you more confident because of sheer number of experiences. It's basic social mirroring! Positive mirroring leads to confidence, negative leads to distress. The issue is always people taking one extreme or the other. You can listen to her words, improve and realize privilege, in a pretty way does help you so much in life.

  • @doniadane3725
    @doniadane3725 Жыл бұрын

    As an Iranian girl, who is currently living in iran, watching this gave me goosebumps thank you for being our voice. I am grateful that women like you exist to spread these important words. It has been hard living through isolation government is forcing on us and your videos always bring me peace ❤️❤️

  • @user-dy5ip4hm9m

    @user-dy5ip4hm9m

    Жыл бұрын

    Love

  • @NikkiClark

    @NikkiClark

    Жыл бұрын

    🤎🤎🤎

  • @arma.j2655

    @arma.j2655

    Жыл бұрын

    اره واقعا👏🏻

  • @zara-cm3kv

    @zara-cm3kv

    Жыл бұрын

    i think maybe she’s iranian as well? I’m not sure though x

  • @haerin8885

    @haerin8885

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zara-cm3kv shes from belgium

  • @axnagraea
    @axnagraea Жыл бұрын

    i can’t say this ENOUGH. pretty girls have it ROUGH in this world and are always attacked for their confidence, i LOVE how you said your last video wouldn’t trigger a confident person… so true. don’t even remember you talking about yourself all high and mighty, only remember relating to stalkers, ending friendships, etc. YOU GO QUEEN!

  • @larae7922

    @larae7922

    Жыл бұрын

    same goes for people who have low self-esteem. Not all of the people who hate themselves envy pretty people at all. Not everyone is like that. Although I do struggle with insecurity I never get annoyed of confident people in fact I feel happy for them. The only reason I feel this way is due to my past, I'm still working on it to this day so hopefully I'll learn how to love myself.

  • @happydaysmile

    @happydaysmile

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree with you

  • @dipset4016

    @dipset4016

    Жыл бұрын

    Ok let's not go too far...pretty girls don't have it ROUGH

  • @jupiter443

    @jupiter443

    Жыл бұрын

    @@larae7922 yes!! that is healthy!! you were fortunate enough to learn through experiences that you don’t have to be jealous and envious

  • @hindikhmaies9021

    @hindikhmaies9021

    Жыл бұрын

    Let’s not pretend that pretty privilege doesn’t exist

  • @dayanahafeezah8862
    @dayanahafeezah8862 Жыл бұрын

    This made me realize that self pity can be equal to being not grateful, because self pity is literally focusing on the bad things and the things I do not have. And Allah already mentioned in Quran (Surah Ibrahim, 14;7) "if you're grateful, I will increase you". Thank you for opening my mind, and I should stop self pity. I didn't realize how much damage it did to myself.

  • @raealex8225
    @raealex82257 күн бұрын

    After watching some of Liz’s videos, I wished I had a friend like her, after watching this video, I realized I want to be that friend for myself and those around me

  • @MrSandManGiveMeADream
    @MrSandManGiveMeADream Жыл бұрын

    as your male viewer, also living iran, i really appreciate and am thankful for the knowledge you given us liz. i know your channel is for female audience but it really helped me with my self steem and i sometimes wonder why is it not being taught to us more too. everyone deserves happiness, freedom, success and all the best and i wish it to you all. thank you for being our voice and support. Women, life, freedom.

  • @nobodyelse7911

    @nobodyelse7911

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy people like you exist, praying for Iran

  • @MrSandManGiveMeADream

    @MrSandManGiveMeADream

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nobodyelse7911 thank you! i appreciate that. tomorrow will be in our hands one day. and we are responsible for it. for a better future.

  • @nobodyelse7911

    @nobodyelse7911

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MrSandManGiveMeADream yess Iran will be for Iranians, what a beautiful place it is. Good luck to you and your family ❤️

  • @beky4685

    @beky4685

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep it up kingg

  • @yungmun4155

    @yungmun4155

    Жыл бұрын

    anyone can learn from these conversations, regardless of your gender. I hope things are well where you are and good luck on your journey!

  • @mehditate
    @mehditate Жыл бұрын

    Awareness is key in this process Liz. People get triggered, but don't know why, like reaaallly why. I know this is out of left field, but life hit me pretty hard. I used to live in Miami being around street violence, guns, death, and I even used to eat $3 a day, 25 cents noodles, expired toast and canned campbell tomato soup. I survived the Boston Marathon Bombing which was a few feet away and I saw all the blood the people screaming and I was alone at 18. I also used to live in a room with no kitchen, trash bag as a window and bugs crawling on me at night. I also took boxing to protect myself and learned how to defend against bigger threats. Now I live in a cabin in the north of Sweden where I go down to a lake to breathe and heal my past and I post on KZread to help others who need it the most. I just uploaded a video on my reset routine and looking to upload a mini documentary next week. I hope this helps someone reading 💜

  • @MrandMrsMastURpeace

    @MrandMrsMastURpeace

    Жыл бұрын

    Love the name. And thank you for sharing your story. Powerful.

  • @mehditate

    @mehditate

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MrandMrsMastURpeace thank youuu 🙏🏽

  • @dearlantsov

    @dearlantsov

    Жыл бұрын

    happy for you man, you survived all that...it's truly incredible. hope the everything goes beautifully for you always!

  • @mehditate

    @mehditate

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dearlantsov thank you 🙏🏽 I appreciate you

  • @kirtu9035
    @kirtu9035 Жыл бұрын

    i love her so much i bet if she and andrew tate were in an argument he would end up crying lmfao-

  • @_.Max.i.mus._

    @_.Max.i.mus._

    Жыл бұрын

    Bro i would pay to see that

  • @cathychats

    @cathychats

    Жыл бұрын

    I think they are on the same spectrum. Liz is not a crazy feminist

  • @PorshiaVonne
    @PorshiaVonne Жыл бұрын

    I loved that “everyone is obsessed with me” video 📝

  • @negindream6948
    @negindream6948 Жыл бұрын

    I’m from Iran… I’m grateful that you heard our voices Please Pray for us and pray for Islam🙏🏻

  • @99nura

    @99nura

    Жыл бұрын

    Sending so much love ❤

  • @asmo450

    @asmo450

    22 күн бұрын

    This is a year late but I wish you the best❤

  • @melaniegrace7707
    @melaniegrace7707 Жыл бұрын

    I love that you aren’t a people pleaser. As someone who people pleases as a trauma response it’s such an inspiration to me. You think you’re beautiful? Say it. You can observe how people react to you? Why on earth should you be called a narcissist for speaking the truth. I appreciate you so much for this and many other reasons.

  • @mak2488
    @mak2488 Жыл бұрын

    I found myself criticizing your videos. Days and weeks went by and they kept being suggested to me. Since I kept feeling miserable and stuck, I decided to keep watching. Then I realized the voice that was criticizing, was my mothers. As much as I thought I was my own person and not like my mom, lo and behold every single criticism that was deliberately preventing me from being open minded and progressing, sounded EXACTLY like her when she would criticize me and others. Which is even MORE reason to heed your advice and wisdom. This is a next level way of living life, that you’re sharing with us. I am so so grateful for it.

  • @antonia9310
    @antonia9310 Жыл бұрын

    this woman literally changed my life

  • @ManicMaidenASMR
    @ManicMaidenASMR Жыл бұрын

    Girl I saw your last video and rolled my eyes at all the negativity. All the insecure people were just projecting their jealousy onto you calling your confidence “narcissistic” LMAO. I enjoy your videos they motivate me to actually do something about my situation instead of crying about it and getting triggered when someone else is doing well. You’re an amazing role model don’t let these losers get to you 💕

  • @albertiljevic3972

    @albertiljevic3972

    Жыл бұрын

    exactlyy

  • @farahfarah6591

    @farahfarah6591

    Жыл бұрын

    Frrr

  • @ManicMaidenASMR

    @ManicMaidenASMR

    Жыл бұрын

    @@robertcaballero6684 girl then these videos aren’t for you! You just won’t get it ❤

  • @freaykbaron8580

    @freaykbaron8580

    Жыл бұрын

    @@robertcaballero6684 exactly

  • @freaykbaron8580

    @freaykbaron8580

    Жыл бұрын

    she wouldnt be where she is if she didnt look the way she does.

  • @lex7938
    @lex7938 Жыл бұрын

    Your moms story is so touching and so humbling. Your mom is literally a superwoman and so are you. Thank you for sharing this story today Liz and consistently giving us new perspectives to think about!

  • @Diana-kr9bj
    @Diana-kr9bj Жыл бұрын

    i am Ukrainian so i can relate to your refugee situation. Thank you Liz for your videos, they really help me and inspire that even though hope is not here for me i know that its still out there and i can achieve things you achieved

  • @dyuraselplay6926

    @dyuraselplay6926

    Жыл бұрын

    Она тоже мне помогает как с жизнью, так и с улучшением моего английского, ахаха. Крутая девушка

  • @MMM-gr6us

    @MMM-gr6us

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dyuraselplay6926 и мне

  • @LeahUndead
    @LeahUndead Жыл бұрын

    "Life is not for the weak". I've been thinking the same most of my life and for that I felt like I am not made for this world. That I am one of those defective products of the universe who slipped through the quality check. But now that I think about all the sh*t that I went through, I am still here. Others have quit for less. Wanted to quit so many times myself too, but I am still here so I am slowly but surely starting to belive that some higher power saw my strength, my true powers and my potential and therefore planted me here because they knew I am an unbeatable. And the hardships are making me even stronger. I can and I will make it. Thank you Liz for your videos, you are the first 'life coach' who has truly hit home with me and you make me see things from different perspectives. Blessings to you ❤ And never give up guys!

  • @smy693
    @smy693 Жыл бұрын

    As an Iranian here, I do appreciate your support of us, Iranian women are creating a new history. Thank you, Liz, I love your videos and really get obsessed with them. Please be our voice.

  • @Zouhra07

    @Zouhra07

    Жыл бұрын

    Sending virtual hugs to all the women at Iran from Spain 🫶🏽

  • @smy693

    @smy693

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Zouhra07 lots of love from Iran to you

  • @heyheyhey9741

    @heyheyhey9741

    Жыл бұрын

    hey is it better if you live there

  • @aylinarkan199

    @aylinarkan199

    Жыл бұрын

    as a woman, i stand with you and iranian women

  • @ibtissam_652

    @ibtissam_652

    Жыл бұрын

    Biig hug and love to iranian women from MOROCCO

  • @oyinosikoya
    @oyinosikoya Жыл бұрын

    The way my confidence has skyrocketed after being introduced to your videos omg.. literally have no time for mediocrity in my life. I am the best and I deserve the best

  • @OtiliaGabriella
    @OtiliaGabriella9 ай бұрын

    Women united are powerful… that’s so true, we can even see it in the Barbie movie

  • @honiarmy4853
    @honiarmy48536 ай бұрын

    oh my i am Iranian and i see this video after one year and it makes me cry because of the end part... you are such amazing person🤍

  • @su-desu
    @su-desu Жыл бұрын

    Literally every video she posts is life changing

  • @Leena02
    @Leena02 Жыл бұрын

    Hi Liz, hope you’re doing well.. Silent viewer here. I’d like to let you know that you’re my mentor, I always think that you are a blessing from God and I am incredibly thankful for the knowledge and advice that you give to us. Please know that you’ve been a huge help after God. And I always say this: no one will ever abuse you more than you abuse yourself. If you know your value, run away don’t stay. Thank you Liz..

  • @thefairytalewicth
    @thefairytalewicth11 ай бұрын

    This hited me so hard, I'm watching this rn with literally no money, and after a mental breakdown. This video gives me the strange to fight

  • @lilyremae2490
    @lilyremae249011 ай бұрын

    She's more than an advisor, she's the real woman who have been through the worst and she tries to help us not to face those things , she's a pure angel , i thank God for introducing me to her ❤️ ilysm Mama Liz❤

  • @jamescook7094
    @jamescook7094 Жыл бұрын

    The part where you explained "if I had a good child hood I would trade being pretty..." that hit hard!

  • @astrokid9636
    @astrokid9636 Жыл бұрын

    You're literally saving me from an abusive relationship. Im so traumatised, damaged. But im focusing on healing process. Thank you liz you gave me hope.

  • @Moonstonee212

    @Moonstonee212

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you left?

  • @jemmaros1888

    @jemmaros1888

    Жыл бұрын

    i hope you’re doing better now 💗

  • @ayybibi

    @ayybibi

    Жыл бұрын

    oh girl im really hope you’re doing okay 🫶🏽

  • @KN-hg2nv

    @KN-hg2nv

    Жыл бұрын

    please plan an exit strategy if you haven't. if you have believe me healing is hard but it's worth it ❤️❤️❤️ good luck

  • @saramcdonnell3631
    @saramcdonnell3631 Жыл бұрын

    Layed in bed depressed crying all day. I really needed this ❤️

  • @rociomartinez8666

    @rociomartinez8666

    Жыл бұрын

    me too

  • @sammiii52

    @sammiii52

    Жыл бұрын

    same..

  • @corrosivecub

    @corrosivecub

    Жыл бұрын

    you posted this comment three weeks ago, i hope you’re doing better now ❤

  • @harshitamodi5373

    @harshitamodi5373

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope ur doing much better now❤️

  • @heyitsmariasilvia
    @heyitsmariasilvia Жыл бұрын

    “Life is not for the weak”, I'm impressed

  • @mariiaraudina4717
    @mariiaraudina4717 Жыл бұрын

    Your family story touches me very much, as I am Ukrainian refugee now, I am living in another country; my bf, father, granny, friends are so far from me… but I cannot just suffer. I need to do my best to help myself, my younger sister and my mom. War - is the worst thing! Thank you for this video.

  • @Mina-hn3ms

    @Mina-hn3ms

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for what you and your people are living, hope you will able to come back home soon

  • @jenandilber4433

    @jenandilber4433

    Жыл бұрын

    So sorry for what ur living, But I prefer to live in another country than to live in my own country, because in Syria there are no necessities for life, there is no work, there is no electricity, there is not enough water, I hope that one day inshallah I'll travel to another country and complete my studies and dreams

  • @FavouriteGalaxia
    @FavouriteGalaxia Жыл бұрын

    I'm a 22 yr old girl from Spain, with a very fucked up home situation since I was born and stuff. I was feeling awful and with my power and listening to you, such a divine speach, my life has changed drastically in less than a week. I send you lots of love of you and your family, I'm so grateful i can hear and see another day for being able to listen to you. ❤️

  • @Koko70816

    @Koko70816

    Жыл бұрын

    She’s amazing!!❤

  • @paulacaroline9464

    @paulacaroline9464

    Жыл бұрын

    I believe that you'll figure everything out. Keep going and believe in yourself and your inner power.

  • @FavouriteGalaxia

    @FavouriteGalaxia

    Жыл бұрын

    @@paulacaroline9464 what a powerful message, saved me today! Thank you so much, i send you lots of love, gratitude and abundance ❤️

  • @kelseyylittlee

    @kelseyylittlee

    Жыл бұрын

    “you may be born into a burning home, but you don’t have to live in a burning home”

  • @albertiljevic3972

    @albertiljevic3972

    Жыл бұрын

    samee i am so grateful too

  • @miamacfarlane2854
    @miamacfarlane2854 Жыл бұрын

    Your Mom sounds like such a wonderful woman. She's like a hero.

  • @akosuakoranteng3327
    @akosuakoranteng3327 Жыл бұрын

    The idea to volunteer for a cause as an antidote to depression is actually so on point and backed by clinical studies! Multiple studies have shown that volunteering for a charitable cause can lower levels of depression - great advice

  • @janep1347
    @janep13478 ай бұрын

    I remember when her video was recommended to me for the first time, and I dismissed it and thought to myself “yea yea, another pretty girl giving average people advice”. I was so so triggered just by looking at her. Fast forward a year later, I stumbled across her video again. But this time, I actually wanted to hear what she has to say. I was drawn to her. I didn’t feel jealous, didn’t put her in a box, I was genuinely interested in hearing what she had to say. And I realized how much I agree with her. I was blown away, and thinking like wow she is saying exactly what I mean. You what changed in that one year? My awareness. My confidence grew because I was working on myself. I became proud of my achievements and successfully defeated depression I was struggling with for years. I was ready to hear her message without getting triggered. Her videos only helped me progress on my journey even further away. Mindset is everything.

  • @haniaazam5818
    @haniaazam5818 Жыл бұрын

    You’ve helped me more then ANYONE

  • @seraph1cx

    @seraph1cx

    Жыл бұрын

    YESS

  • @bayanalnsr1790
    @bayanalnsr1790 Жыл бұрын

    I got inspired from that title , we should start normalizing being this proud of ourselves,we (women) have been raised to be humble , don't get so praggy about your beauty, success, life It's time to stop that and be aware of what society have been feeding us from the start

  • @abbas22mohammed

    @abbas22mohammed

    Жыл бұрын

    What's your country

  • @Primrose345
    @Primrose345 Жыл бұрын

    I can’t even imagine being against you. You’re a light in the darkness. I literally wish that if I had someone like Liz to scold me back then! The people who hate Liz, in reality hate the reality their trying to hide for so long. It takes courage to accept that & it’s not everyone’s cup of tea! love Liz🌟

  • @sheenapajonar2713
    @sheenapajonar2713 Жыл бұрын

    This is so true. Insecurities will always project to some people. They will always be triggered when other people are confident about themselves. While listening to ur last video it was very relatable and feels like mirroring my own confidence and motivated me more. While the comments are full of insecure people thinking she was delusional. Like i hope you all heal. I hope people will see their own worth and beauty.

  • @gena7129
    @gena7129 Жыл бұрын

    You're really such a strong, brave and well-spoken woman. As a 19 year old girl struggling with severe weed abuse directly correlated to my ADHD and social anxiety, your videos have been an absolute godsend in what feels like the darkest times of my life. Thank u for creating this channel

  • @rubym6258

    @rubym6258

    Жыл бұрын

    why do you sound like me? I’m a 20 year old girl w/ a weed addiction + I have ADHD & social anxiety 😂😂😂😂😂😂LOL

  • @laurareaf7984

    @laurareaf7984

    Жыл бұрын

    @ruby Same here, but I decided to go sober of weed 5 days ago and I already feel better and more in control of my life. Before, every day was ruled and centred about the next time I was gonna smoke. It’s not easy but at the same time it is if you make the decision and take it seriously. I’ve had to consciously stop myself even if i really wanted to smoke. I’m doing all this for myself and for the better version of me that is so proud I’m doing this. I’m not doing this alone but with a friend who was in a similar situation. I swear it impacts our mental health so much, even more if we have a history of conditions. It’s not easy to admit you are addicted to it and that’s the first step, so congratulations!! 6 days ago I wouldn’t dare to admit it. If you’re looking for encouragement to quit, here it is. Ask for help if you need it and do it with someone else if you can!! I’m doing it and I’m no different than you, so you can do it too!! I wish you the best. You’re not alone ❤️❤️

  • @laurareaf7984

    @laurareaf7984

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rubym6258 my previous comment was also for u ❤️

  • @rubym6258

    @rubym6258

    Жыл бұрын

    @@laurareaf7984 wow thank you, I definitely needed to hear this! I can totally relate with every day being centered around the next time I smoke. Its stressful because i feel myself go into a panic every time i think about running out. It’s so easy to want to be numb & just stay in my comfort zone but Ive been knowing it’s not going to help me progress, i just haven’t been able to officially stop! you’re right it’s for the sake of bettering ourselves, this is my sign to stop for good!

  • @rubym6258

    @rubym6258

    Жыл бұрын

    @@laurareaf7984 I wish you the best on your journey to! I unfortunately can’t do this with someone else as that someone else use to be my ex lol but either way im doing it. Thanks for the encouragement

  • @arlet101
    @arlet101 Жыл бұрын

    Liz can you do a video on how to stop being such a lazy person that wastes their time on bs instead of meaningful work? I don't know why I do this to myself but I need some tough love because I am wasting my time, failing at school, and not nourishing my relationships because I would rather spend hours on my phone hearing music, watching funny videos, and just watching my life go by and it causes me so much stress and yet I do nothing to change it

  • @shorna646

    @shorna646

    Жыл бұрын

    yea same here!

  • @shwetasingh7039

    @shwetasingh7039

    Жыл бұрын

    Try to take a social media detox, try to be strong willed, make a goal to stay away from media phone for 30 days and just focus on study work exercise, you need to be hard on yourself

  • @wafwawel

    @wafwawel

    Жыл бұрын

    she already talked abt it get out of your comfort zone

  • @misshoneynevercame4832

    @misshoneynevercame4832

    Жыл бұрын

    Uninstall social media apps

  • @krisbz

    @krisbz

    Жыл бұрын

    That sounds like possible executive dysfunction. Or dopamine overload. A dopamine detox might help restore your dopamine levels to baseline so you're not constantly craving reward.

  • @orwahs6275
    @orwahs6275 Жыл бұрын

    I cried really hard when you mentioned about iran. I as a iranian i feel great full for being able to live somewhere i can be safe for i pray for iran every day and for my land to be free i love you so much liz . Youre really a big motivation for me youre the biggest grace and power for women or people that watch you thank you. Thank you for being always kind and helpful even to the people that don’t appreciate you

  • @Shaantibihh
    @Shaantibihh Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate how straight forward you are instead of beating around the bush like a lot of other self help KZreadrs. Thank you!

  • @Bananatiarna
    @Bananatiarna Жыл бұрын

    Also it’s ok to cuddle and validate yourself when you feel down because toxic positively is just as bad as self pity! Just try not to let yourself drown in self pity because it can really take over your life and make it 100% worse like Liz stated. You are worth it.

  • @crybbcassie93
    @crybbcassie93 Жыл бұрын

    Nobody is ugly. People just do not love yourself at the same level as people who make them look ugly inside. Thank you for your work, Liz. You make my life better.

  • @clara-in6ku

    @clara-in6ku

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rulingstone123 what is the definition of ugly? why do we call people “ugly”, “ugly” doesn’t exist, only societal standards do. No one is ever ugly. There’s nothing wrong with being ugly but no one is ever ugly.

  • @literally-nobody
    @literally-nobody Жыл бұрын

    I STARTED LISTENING TO HER AND I AM ABSOLUTELY OBSESSED

  • @user-qt6dr5gs1f
    @user-qt6dr5gs1f9 ай бұрын

    “Life is not for the weak” wow, that really hit me.. Words can't describe how much respect i have for this woman.

  • @maimanababiker2734
    @maimanababiker2734 Жыл бұрын

    I'm Muslim..... 🌸 I'm very Grateful for what you've said about our religion.... Your follower from Sudan 🇸🇩, grateful for the beautiful energy that you give , it's the first time for me commenting on your videos . Love 🌸

  • @tttttg5486
    @tttttg5486 Жыл бұрын

    Girl you don't know how much I wanted you to post today I really needed it thank you

  • @iliterallylovethis2212
    @iliterallylovethis2212 Жыл бұрын

    When she said I would trade everything for a happy childhood, I felt that so much. But like she's saying, I can't harp on the fact that my childhood suck and I have to move on.

  • @lindsaykat
    @lindsaykat Жыл бұрын

    “Women together are far too powerful”, really hit home

  • @mahimae6925
    @mahimae6925 Жыл бұрын

    Hey liz, I'm from Iran and I have been a fan of all your videos for a long time. it's so great to see how the person I look up to is supporting me and my people. I'm so thankful of you for spreading awareness about what's going on in my country 💞 and for helping us through our journey of getting our simple human rights. It's really painful and hard but as you say; life is not for the weak. #mahsaAmini

  • @amyfard

    @amyfard

    Жыл бұрын

    خداروشکر یک هموطن هست که ویدیو های لیز رو ببینه 🥲💗

  • @Elena-vs4gl

    @Elena-vs4gl

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amyfard منم هستم

  • @jazzmine9673

    @jazzmine9673

    Жыл бұрын

    @@amyfard و من نیز 🎉

  • @Lul253.

    @Lul253.

    Жыл бұрын

    Jzhina amini forever a kurdish girl !!!!

  • @pratibhasethia6605

    @pratibhasethia6605

    Жыл бұрын

    More more power to you.. support from India 🙏🏾

  • @tsundoku97
    @tsundoku97 Жыл бұрын

    I’m going to write “Life is not for the weak” on a paper and tape it next to my mirror. This is the time where I change everything.

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 Жыл бұрын

    A lot of people have self pity and what they dont realise is that its causing them to feel angry and bitter.

  • @yourthatbsf
    @yourthatbsf Жыл бұрын

    Liz rips my heart open & makes me see how worthy i am....i am so grateful she exist:)

  • @VanessaRodriguez-pk6th
    @VanessaRodriguez-pk6th Жыл бұрын

    I stood up for my friend when these girls were talking bad about him. I can say that you were a huge influence in me doing so. I am now proud of myself and thankful for you Liz

  • @nadineelseudy5835

    @nadineelseudy5835

    Жыл бұрын

    You rock 🙏🏾💕

  • @officialgift495
    @officialgift495 Жыл бұрын

    Self pity does more harm than good, in terms of self development, it is not worth it to be enslaved to your past experiences and mistakes. Focus on self growth and empowerment, you'll eventually get thru it. Blessed weekend y'all.

  • @afrozzsharqi
    @afrozzsharqi2 ай бұрын

    No way.. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I never know people know about Iran im from Iran i live in Iran right now god knows how happy i got by seeing thus thanks fir being our voice thanks for trying to get us wow i don't have any words to say ✨ thank liz ✨ you don't know the strength you gave me

  • @priyanshiagrawal4148
    @priyanshiagrawal4148 Жыл бұрын

    Yk I used to be one of those people who constantly had this belief that everyone that called me pretty was actually mocking me and making fun of me lying etc and I used to turn down every single compliment and say constantly that noo I'm so ugly why would a guy want me and stuff like oh he has a bad taste if he likes me blah blah blah .. your videos and the entire manifestation concept changed me completely as a person. Now I believe in myself and I can handle compliments better and I swear more and more great people have befriended me and it's a life changing thing .❤️

  • @myoung4720
    @myoung4720 Жыл бұрын

    Liz is an icon, she's a legend & she is the moment

  • @pascalramael5678

    @pascalramael5678

    Жыл бұрын

    ?

  • @myoung4720

    @myoung4720

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pascalramael5678 tiktok, duh

  • @pascalramael5678

    @pascalramael5678

    Жыл бұрын

    @@myoung4720 tiktok 😅 how meaningful 😂

  • @boopbap7798
    @boopbap7798 Жыл бұрын

    thank you so much for speaking of the Mahsa Amini situation, im a 14 year old half Iranian girl who lives safely in Arabia but it hurts me to know that I can not fight with my sisters back home. we love you and thank you for your wonderful work ❤️

  • @Lina-zm5sb
    @Lina-zm5sb Жыл бұрын

    I’m in love with everything about you , I’m 17 years old living in an extremely abusive household and everyday I think of ending it all but your story gave me so much hope and strength I have lived this long and I know I’m strong and smart and now I feel like maybe after all of this I can still make a beautiful life for myself and become the strong successful woman I want to be . I was extremely touched by your mother’s story she’s such and incredible woman ❤️❤️

  • @momowho5260
    @momowho5260 Жыл бұрын

    I watched this because I was feeling extremely awful, this made me feel better thank you.

  • @maddyharvey7414
    @maddyharvey7414 Жыл бұрын

    Your point about triggers is incredible. Such a good way to clap back at those who are projecting their insecurities onto you. Our triggers will tell us so much about ourselves, but many people aren’t willing to self reflect, so they see the problem as being outside of themselves.

  • @sybrichx
    @sybrichx Жыл бұрын

    Your last video didnt trigger me. It inspired me to be like that and I literally took notes from it and I apply it everyday. And tbh, it made me feel good that people love you so much and are so obsessed with you, bc you’re beautiful inside and out. You deserve it. Jealousy is a disease and its hard to get rid of it for some people. I hope they can learn from this.

  • @Godisfirst21
    @Godisfirst21 Жыл бұрын

    This 50 year old beauty supports you and I understand you. You are wise. Stop defending yourself. It will never end on the internet. So much jealousy on here.

  • @catasstrophie
    @catasstrophie28 күн бұрын

    Being the eldest sibling in the family with no one to open up/talk about these stuff with...Liz has been my mentor thank you Liz❤

  • @MissEcstatic
    @MissEcstatic Жыл бұрын

    You’re such a queen. I remember watching your last video and just thinking who wouldn’t wanna be obsessed with you. You have the confidence and energy that uplifts people. It’s only valid. Keep doing you! Maybe some people think it’s self absorbed to think that way but that’s a humble healthy ego to put ourselves first and people who actually have done inner work will understand this

  • @carmenkami1735
    @carmenkami1735 Жыл бұрын

    Damn, Liz, this was exactly what I needed to hear. I am at a low point right now and I was trapped in the self-pity trap for a few hours. Thank you so much for always telling the truth

  • @Alisha-bn2ex
    @Alisha-bn2ex18 күн бұрын

    Girl your advices are literally changing lives. Thank you so much for existing and sharing all this for us. You're precious !!!

  • @annieleonh7rt
    @annieleonh7rt11 ай бұрын

    something about the comment section of this video in particular has made me tear up so much. the diversity and the beauty is moving because we're seeing not just young women trying to learn from liz and find their freedom but men, teenagers, adults all over from so many parts of the world and im going to the replies of these comments and its so full of love and support. it potrays such a beautiful representation of this world and the people in it sending much love to you all, you can overcome whatever you are going through