How to have better political conversations | Robb Willer

Robb Willer studies the forces that unite and divide us. As a social psychologist, he researches how moral values -- typically a source of division -- can also be used to bring people together. Willer shares compelling insights on how we might bridge the ideological divide and offers some intuitive advice on ways to be more persuasive when talking politics.
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  • @silentstorm5757
    @silentstorm57577 жыл бұрын

    This comment section is already proof that we need to talk about this...

  • @maxybaer123

    @maxybaer123

    7 жыл бұрын

    and its a good thing we are

  • @greenlego42

    @greenlego42

    7 жыл бұрын

    silentstorm "Empathy and respect"

  • @pradhiptobagaswicaksono9367

    @pradhiptobagaswicaksono9367

    7 жыл бұрын

    People in the comment section didn't even learn the message of the video though, they're just keep fighting

  • @notavailable00000000
    @notavailable000000007 жыл бұрын

    Woah! At 11:00 he literally puts that research into action! He uses moral vocab to tap into BOTH liberal and conservative values. He uses all these loaded words, and it works: *hate *ugly *corrupt *fabric of our society *we owe our country *afford *we owe each other

  • @caseyweitzel9351

    @caseyweitzel9351

    3 жыл бұрын

    Totally caught that too. Sneaky guy, great examples of persuasive rhetoric we can use to connect to “opponents”

  • @alexandriageiler687
    @alexandriageiler6873 жыл бұрын

    Essentially, if we want to convince people or explain our political ideals, we have to re-design our language to suit the listener based on their moral values.

  • @morgangreen2526
    @morgangreen25267 жыл бұрын

    Enjoy disagreement. If you are not confident in your argument, learn your place and concede your ignorance, then move on. Inconsequential debate can be viewed as a mental sparring match.

  • @AsifIcarebear3

    @AsifIcarebear3

    7 жыл бұрын

    I don't get why libs stopped thinking like this. It seems like 5-10 years went by, and the left went from aggressively challenging the beliefs of the right, to smugly dismissing any differing opinion as racist, vulgar, irrelevant, or - best of all - stupid. I hate the right wing, but I see a greater tendency to engage in debate. They're mostly ignorant and wrong, but at least they have balls.

  • @maxybaer123

    @maxybaer123

    7 жыл бұрын

    yay someone who knows a little of the Socratic method

  • @DerekMoore82

    @DerekMoore82

    7 жыл бұрын

    AsifIcarebear3 Ben Affleck on Real Time with Bill Maher was the moment I quit calling myself a liberal. He was the embodiment that night of everything you just said. And I realised after the media and most liberals sided with him against Bill and Sam that the majority of liberals have shifted away from reality into a weird overly sensitive pc place. That doesn't mean I became a conservative either, I'm just a man without a party I can identify with now.

  • @panpiper
    @panpiper7 жыл бұрын

    4:21 There is a problem with this. I am strongly Libertarian. I actually find myself far more often aligned with conservatives than I do liberals with respect to policy. Yet those putatively 'conservative' values of patriotism, respect for authority, purity, etc., I find almost abhorrant. I am very much motivated by equality and fairness, care and protection. I differ from liberals because I find them combining those values with absolute ignorance of economics and ultimately thereby supporting policies that I KNOW do FAR more harm to the poor than would a free society. The vast majority of human beings support political positions for emotional reasons, as alluded to here. They are motivated by virtue signalling and tribal identity. Very few people spend time actually studying and thinking about issues. Those who do spend time reading almost invariably spend their time engaged in confirmation bias, reading material they agree with. When was the last time any of us actually read a book that we disagreed with? All those conservatives out there need to go read a book by Noam Chomsky. All the liberals need to read a book by Ann Coulter. I am not saying you need to read these people's writing so as to agree with them. I am saying that without doing so, you probably lack the perspective to have a rational opinion.

  • @DerekMoore82

    @DerekMoore82

    7 жыл бұрын

    Peter Cohen I think both conservatives and liberals should start by reading Sam Harris. Both liberals and conservatives like him on some issues (enough to keep reading) but they both hate him on other issues. And Sam is a rational guy who seems to be a middle ground in between the 2 extremes.

  • @panpiper

    @panpiper

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Derek Moore You may well be right about that.

  • @courtneycanchari5161

    @courtneycanchari5161

    7 жыл бұрын

    As a libertarian you certainly are caught in the middle a bit. I've read both and I find Ann Coulter pretty rough to be honest. I can't stand her views on illegal immigration. I think probably this video was an oversimplification, but I think it sounds useful for discussing things with people who I would otherwise write off thinking, "eh, they don't think about this enough, I can't persuade them." Because I'm probably using the wrong persuasive techniques for those people. For someone who is Libertarian, I would probably discuss things in terms of personal liberty or spending concerns. What you're missing when you see yourself aligned more with conservatives on policy is that you're still not aligned with republicans. A lot of republicans are not conservative in their policy. Remember there's a difference between someone saying they are conservative, and actually thinking conservatively

  • @goldmeteora5617

    @goldmeteora5617

    7 жыл бұрын

    Pretty sure I'll get to the libertarian parts of readings soon cos it's been kinda overlooked

  • @panpiper

    @panpiper

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Josh Uddin You have missed my point entirely. For the purposes of the point I was making, I would be hard pressed to suggest anyone better. Indeed, you cement my point. Likely you more than most need to read one of her books.

  • @DaimonSmith
    @DaimonSmith7 жыл бұрын

    Seems like most commenters kinda missed the point of the video.

  • @GenJotsu

    @GenJotsu

    7 жыл бұрын

    Daimon Smith ikr. I'm trying my best to educate them on how both sides are the problem, but also both sides are needed for the solution, but its tough...

  • @arthurdent6256

    @arthurdent6256

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, those fucking idiots, when will they learn. Those fascist fucking cucks.

  • @Seveth713

    @Seveth713

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ugh... really? You're the top comment and I haven't scrolled down further but the whole video I was thinking to myself "I bet someone is going to comment the other side lacks these things".

  • @-Rickster-

    @-Rickster-

    3 жыл бұрын

    It happened on Facebook too which is where I just saw this

  • @JohnnyBunning
    @JohnnyBunning7 жыл бұрын

    I thought this video was pretty condescending towards conservatives. Saying they are easily manipulated by the particular language used in articles, and liberals aren't. Saying liberals are concerned with equality while conservatives are concerned with patriotism (Murica!), respect authority (Moar Military!) and purity/sanctity (religious idiots and their pro-life). When in reality conservatives care about debt and government spending. They care about freedom of the individual and individual rights. Saying Liberals believe in equality and fairness is absurd because of course conservatives care about those things, they just think that obsessing over identity politics creates more of a divide and ironically creates less equality and fairness as a result. Wasn't a huge fan of this talk, came off as a guide for liberals on how to talk with conservatives, that was given by a liberal. That's like an article on how to please a man, written by a woman. If you want to bridge the gap, get two smart people on either side, who respect each other, hash it out

  • @WHP-ew3jj

    @WHP-ew3jj

    7 жыл бұрын

    JohnnyBunning pretty much this

  • @maxybaer123

    @maxybaer123

    7 жыл бұрын

    realy i thought it was the opposite

  • @tesseraph

    @tesseraph

    7 жыл бұрын

    When the speaker talked about the moral divide they studied, he did say those people "endorsed" those values, which I took to mean that those are the values they'll *say* they stand by and hold most important. That, of course, means they could hold those other values important as well, but just not their Number One Concern. This would've been a good point for the speaker to clear up. It would've been a good idea to give as thorough an example of wording affecting liberals equally, I agree. I don't think his "the same thing happens for liberals, too" said in passing was meant to showcase conservatives in particular: maybe he thought making two similar cases would have been overly repetitive. Despite some flaws, I thought the talk was good overall. To use your analogy, it had examples of how to please a man for women, but the point was more about how to make up with your partner: considering how the other side sees a topic and showing how their values line up with it.

  • @IrontwistFiM

    @IrontwistFiM

    7 жыл бұрын

    JohnnyBunning The guy said that liberals show a greater belief in equality and fairness than conservatives, not that conservatives don't believe in those things at all.

  • @SUA37

    @SUA37

    7 жыл бұрын

    JohnnyBunning well said

  • @AvailableUsernameTed
    @AvailableUsernameTed7 жыл бұрын

    Great mantra: Empathy & Respect - empathy & respect ...

  • @Ben-zg5xb
    @Ben-zg5xb7 жыл бұрын

    Beliefs are some of the strongest human passions and emotions, it's hard to unit people who are already so divided

  • @DaimyoSexy
    @DaimyoSexy7 жыл бұрын

    *The core of the problem is being on a team.* You root for your team, make excuses for them, confirmation bias from fellow teammates. The solution is to be an individual and look at everyone individual issue separate from other issues. Then when you feel like you made up your mind on an issue, re-visit it from time to time because 5 years ago is vastly different from today. 10 years from now will be extremely different.

  • @chadf9030

    @chadf9030

    7 жыл бұрын

    Agreed this both applies to liberals and conservatives.

  • @abonynge

    @abonynge

    7 жыл бұрын

    And libertarians, and every other party in every democratic nation. Team Edward and Team Jacob, Steelers and Ravens, Democrats and Republicans, all of these rivalries act the same. Confirmation bias for their own side, and a lack of empathy for the opposing side.

  • @williampowell3378

    @williampowell3378

    4 жыл бұрын

    Scott Exactly

  • @breakingboundaries3950

    @breakingboundaries3950

    2 жыл бұрын

    There is no such thing as confirmation bias when the only thing being confirmed are facts. You wouldn’t debate a flat earther now and revisit it later just to make sure the earth is still round.

  • @BornIn1500

    @BornIn1500

    Жыл бұрын

    If you become a free-thinking individual, you stand on the right. There is no free thought allowed on the left.

  • @LuxiBelle
    @LuxiBelle7 жыл бұрын

    Step 0: convince both of them to enter the same room without threatening violence.

  • @mhtinla
    @mhtinla7 жыл бұрын

    What we need is the 50 SHADES movie, because not everything is so black and white but lots of gray in between. And love.

  • @maxybaer123

    @maxybaer123

    7 жыл бұрын

    what about love

  • @reshii231

    @reshii231

    7 жыл бұрын

    mhtinla love?

  • @360.Tapestry

    @360.Tapestry

    7 жыл бұрын

    lmao nice one

  • @btrcool1
    @btrcool17 жыл бұрын

    Finally somebody to say something wise, which is also political. This is a good video. I agree 100% with the speaker.

  • @Katerine459
    @Katerine4597 жыл бұрын

    This was a wonderful video, and just what I/we need right now...

  • @cesarmedeiros.b
    @cesarmedeiros.b2 жыл бұрын

    Nossa que vídeo incrível, boas palavras cheias de verdades.

  • @paws2012
    @paws20127 жыл бұрын

    "Let's put this country back together." 👏🏼

  • @osareafallire

    @osareafallire

    3 жыл бұрын

    It miiiiiiight.... create Hope and Make America Great.

  • @moshfists

    @moshfists

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen sister!

  • @breakingboundaries3950

    @breakingboundaries3950

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wasn’t together in the first place. We’re getting there though, emancipatory movements always see themselves though

  • @joslinnick
    @joslinnick7 жыл бұрын

    "If you want to persuade someone on some policy, it's helpful to connect that policy to their underlying moral values."

  • @ChristopherPayneMUA
    @ChristopherPayneMUA7 жыл бұрын

    Is there a link to specific examples of making these arguments along the other side's moral values, such as those you offered for global climate change? I find this topic really fascinating and would like to know more.

  • @thesciencesamurai7648
    @thesciencesamurai76483 жыл бұрын

    Thank You Dr. Roblyer for inspiring me to watch this.

  • @universalvideosco.4711
    @universalvideosco.47115 жыл бұрын

    This is a great way for people who want to join political discussions and know what to say. Keep up the great content!

  • @nyasiawhite1325
    @nyasiawhite13254 жыл бұрын

    Thank You for this 🙏🏽

  • @umangjain293
    @umangjain2937 жыл бұрын

    We all need this

  • @gregwolf1
    @gregwolf17 жыл бұрын

    This was amazing.

  • @saddlebear
    @saddlebear7 жыл бұрын

    Excellent talk....

  • @breakingboundaries3950
    @breakingboundaries39502 жыл бұрын

    Nowadays, it seems everybody already knows everybody’s political position. When I debate those who have differing opinions to my own, I find it more helpful to point out flaws in their logic rather than asserting my position over theirs. Really liking the way he is framing language here though, I never thought about it in this way. Definitely will be tying in some patriotic and purist language when speaking to the most patriotic of our country from now on.

  • @DivingDonut
    @DivingDonut7 жыл бұрын

    So basically, in the pursuit to enhance communication, you developed a weapon, that plays on peoples morality. This isnt a solution. Not just will we, if this way of framing debates catches on, see it dulled down pretty quick, due to overuse, we will go into debates with the expectation to be manipulated. The solution for this divide we are in is not to create better weapons, but to become better people, that are willing to compromise, but also willing to recognize facts that we do not like, or agree on approaches that we might not like. This also means accepting defeat or failure. Its either that, or blood in the streets in my opinion.

  • @GenJotsu

    @GenJotsu

    7 жыл бұрын

    Galgenvogel How is communicating in a way that is understood by the other side a bad "weapon"? The purpose is to actually allow the other side to understand the importance of a topic by putting it in terms that they understand. How the heck is that a bad thing?

  • @TheWaross

    @TheWaross

    7 жыл бұрын

    The argument here is that in many debate, the only way to approach it is not only from the "right side" (your side) with only your moral attached to it. In general, you can argument for something taking different approach and you can reach the other where he might care more, in a way he didn't think about it before. The thing is the debate is less and less nuanced and people just use their moral code and their view of life, then try to not really argument and persuade others but more to assimilate. There are some very patriotic argument in protecting the environment that I would not necessarily use since I don't value them as much but can be effective to connect with other point of view. Same with an argument for drilling oil. If it is nuanced correctly and you argue it will bring jobs in a poorer part of the country, giving more chances for those people for the future, I'll be way more inclined to listen to you than if you said it is just good for the economy

  • @maxybaer123

    @maxybaer123

    7 жыл бұрын

    he didnt say that not realy he said we should sympathise with others

  • @YohanBone

    @YohanBone

    7 жыл бұрын

    I understand your concern, simply using this as a tactic to advance your ideas with people on an emotional level without any other argument would be misguided. But SO much political discussion is emotion appeal anyway. People respond to it much quicker than a nuanced argument with well researched evidence I'm afraid. Human beings aren't creatures of logic... However, this whole video is about having better conversations. Talking to people in real life, not on a debate stage. Understanding peoples values, so that they are initially more receptive to an new idea, is a great thing. It means they are less likely to disregard factual evidence, because of their emotions, later on. Or at least that's what I hope is the case...

  • @thomasrichardson5425

    @thomasrichardson5425

    7 жыл бұрын

    I think you've missed the point: it's not about winning, its about showing the other side that you poisiton is more in line with their values than they might think

  • @DerekMoore82
    @DerekMoore827 жыл бұрын

    If we lived in the Star Trek universe, the current state of America is like it's a ship half full of Klingons and half full of Romulans, and every 4 to 8 years we vote for a crappy Klingon captain or a crappy Romulan captain and the ship is a mess because of the differences. What we need is a captain Picard to make sense of things and get this ship back on course. Neil DeGrasse Tyson was onto something when he said that when you go to vote there should be an option for None of the Above, and then you toss out the crappy candidates and start the process all over until you get someone qualified that every one can respect, like captain Picard.

  • @williamteske5978

    @williamteske5978

    3 жыл бұрын

    repect

  • @eddypdeb

    @eddypdeb

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is the Ranked Choice Voting system. It allows you to rank your options sincerely, even if you have a "no chance" first option. Because you rank your choices, if your first pick doesn't win, the vote goes to the second option, and so on, so strategic voting is not such an issue, third parties can appear, everyone's preferences are maximally in line with the elected options. It's really keeping things clean in terms of voting and allows everyone's option to be heard.

  • @captainkirk9691

    @captainkirk9691

    2 жыл бұрын

    Or me?

  • @daddyleon
    @daddyleon7 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha, clever closing argument, ticked those boxes very well!

  • @courtneycanchari5161
    @courtneycanchari51617 жыл бұрын

    lol I see what you did there with that conclusion. Appeal to both sides. Definitely made me interested in giving this a try.

  • @jack2freedom
    @jack2freedom7 жыл бұрын

    So true!

  • @TheShowerofSlime
    @TheShowerofSlime3 жыл бұрын

    If you are watching this in 2021 like me, you know you have reached that burnout phase and just need resolve.

  • @arnabkarfa1525
    @arnabkarfa15257 жыл бұрын

    good talk, learned the most imp lessons in life

  • @domefort
    @domefort7 жыл бұрын

    Good insight; I hope the public follows suit.

  • @joeuong
    @joeuong7 жыл бұрын

    +TED Keeping up with timely issues

  • @MrDiarukia
    @MrDiarukia7 жыл бұрын

    And I'm sitting here, as a non-USA-inhabitant, in a country where there are many political parties, and votes for non-major parties are not considered wasted, asking myself, why it is that they do not even want to try and vote for other parties. Better "wasting" your vote in a democratic way, than supporting the wrong with not voting. Why choose between Evil 1 and Evil 2 if you can grap that gold piece right next to them. And on top of that is your electoral college, that makes the "best and greatest" democracy, the most flawed one, as votes are not worth the same.

  • @courtneycanchari5161

    @courtneycanchari5161

    7 жыл бұрын

    You answered your own question. We don't want to try to vote for other parties because our electoral college makes a vote for a third party candidate a waste. Also because it is very rarely a vote between evil 1 and evil 2. Last year was a vote between candidate 1 who is mediocre and candidate 2 who is a disaster. We picked candidate 2. Anyone who says the choices were equally bad is being disingenuous.

  • @MrDiarukia

    @MrDiarukia

    7 жыл бұрын

    It seems that US-citizens also recieve a severe social pressure, because then you are "undemocratic and it won't change anything". But even with an electoral college multiple parties should be possible. A third party can work if you give it enough power. You should get rid of the thinking "If I don't vote for the democrats, the republikans will take over." You should vote for want you want and not against what you don't want.

  • @missylarsson3517

    @missylarsson3517

    7 жыл бұрын

    To be fair the problem is the huge amounts of money that is required to run a campaign in the US. It's not like anyone can just take part in the spotlight. And tbh from what I've seen from the other candidates (libertarian party for example) I would not try to equal anyone of them to a piece of gold. Only reason they seem like viable options is because of the low standard of this years candidates. I think the only one that could've been equaled to the piece of gold might be Bernie, but he is part of a political party (the Dems) and endorsed their candidate so that wasn't an option either reaally.

  • @MrDiarukia

    @MrDiarukia

    7 жыл бұрын

    I didn't hear much from this election's canditates of the other parties, but my analogy was not pointed at them specifically, but more to emphasize, as I already said, that you should vote for what you want and not against what you don't want.

  • @Katerine459

    @Katerine459

    7 жыл бұрын

    Courtney Lauren: It's not specifically the electoral college that makes voting for third party candidates a waste. The EC is bad, but not for that reason. It's the fact that we can only vote for one candidate, that makes voting for a third party candidate a waste (See CGP Grey's video on the problems with First Past the Post voting, and his subsequent videos). Other countries have better systems, where you can rank your choices, or assign percentages to choices, or in some other way make it so that you can have a first choice, a second choice, a third choice, and so on. There's a push to have that here as well. fairvote.org. The Presidential election is the only one that requires an amendment; in all the local and state-level elections (including voting for your Congresspeople and Senators), the state determines the rules, so you can lobby your Assemblyperson.

  • @Futaxus
    @Futaxus7 жыл бұрын

    I like it how he tries to exert his moral framing strategy in the end after talking about it the whole time. =D

  • @sylviaodhner
    @sylviaodhner7 жыл бұрын

    I always say that trying to understand the other side's perspective is beneficial for a lot of reasons - even if your goal is not to be civil or respectful, but just to convince them of something, understanding their framework of beliefs gives you a huge advantage in your ability to communicate with them. I agree, I think this is pretty obvious, but I see a lot of people arguing against it anyway.

  • @SaadetOZTRK
    @SaadetOZTRK7 жыл бұрын

    I am very sad about where my country is going.. and when I try to talk about politics everyone starts to fight because no one actually wants to hear others opinions

  • @JunshuLiu

    @JunshuLiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah we have freedom of speech but we need to respect other people’s freedom of speech as well

  • @smitmahajani7663

    @smitmahajani7663

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's the case in most major countries I'm afraid. We live in a highly polarized world.

  • @markuschelios6891

    @markuschelios6891

    3 жыл бұрын

    Try listening before trying to assert your opinion.

  • @SaadetOZTRK

    @SaadetOZTRK

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@markuschelios6891 excuse me?

  • @lornachapmann2710
    @lornachapmann27107 жыл бұрын

    would like to see a talk like this considering the values of other countries and their politics; the us is interesting but so is the rest of the world

  • @thomasrichardson5425
    @thomasrichardson54257 жыл бұрын

    Essential viewing for all of us today

  • @Nauctfaucon11
    @Nauctfaucon117 жыл бұрын

    well I live in Washington and I'm conservative and I have political conversations with my friends who are mostly liberal. polite ones too. pretty much let each other talk and be respectful.

  • @OutlawStarkiller
    @OutlawStarkiller7 жыл бұрын

    Literally everyone in America should be required to watch this video

  • @Cr4y7-AegisInquisitor
    @Cr4y7-AegisInquisitor7 жыл бұрын

    pretty good

  • @vena3628
    @vena36285 жыл бұрын

    I like how in the end he used what he was trying to tell. There were key words specific for liberals and conservationist. This was a good talk.

  • @cl1ck2
    @cl1ck26 жыл бұрын

    They took down his Social Psychology lectures from KZread, what a shame! They were my favourite...

  • @lisaharris4691
    @lisaharris46917 жыл бұрын

    PREACH

  • @arthurdent6256
    @arthurdent62567 жыл бұрын

    REEE ARE THE CURE!

  • @dariocruz3259
    @dariocruz32597 жыл бұрын

    grea!

  • @SomebodywithaYouTubeaccount
    @SomebodywithaYouTubeaccountАй бұрын

    1:36 This part would go very differently had the talk been held after the Civil War movie

  • @nonyabusiness7
    @nonyabusiness73 жыл бұрын

    I wish more people could think in a more deep/considerate way! I'm so disappointed in the way people fight it's hysteria & idiocy at best!

  • @johnfakename1823
    @johnfakename18237 жыл бұрын

    there was a similar type of "plea for political peace" article generated by a GA Tech newsletter. they interviewed a professor who discussed the topic of political correctness, which seemed pretty unbiased, but the newsletter editor sprinkled in his own biased commentary like "conservatives blame the left of being PC simply whenever they disagree". there's your problem right there, it's that "do as I say, not as I do" mentality

  • @thezac2059
    @thezac20597 жыл бұрын

    90% of viewers probably missed Rob Willer's conclusion where he tied Conservative & Liberal P.O.V.s (patriotism, purity, equality ,etc.) previously mentioned to persuade either of the political parties in favor of changing the nation.

  • @alexanderryzhov7046
    @alexanderryzhov70467 жыл бұрын

    If we all start twisting the argument to persuade the other side, we still won't come to a consensus.

  • @leaddust5539
    @leaddust55397 жыл бұрын

    Step 1: Open the platform for discussion (which you claim to stand for) instead of disabling comments and bullying any content creators that disagree with you.

  • @tobiasschmitz3799
    @tobiasschmitz37997 жыл бұрын

    Facebook, Twitter, etc. can only be part of the problem because of the content people post. If positivity would be louder, they would instead can be part of the solution

  • @key0512
    @key05127 жыл бұрын

    They should make the downvote button on KZread work again, so you can actually vote down the bullshit.

  • @NathanGatten

    @NathanGatten

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ariana I know right?

  • @gimpy1091
    @gimpy10917 жыл бұрын

    Interesting talk. My main issue is that there were no examples from a conservative point of view reframed as to convince liberals, only the other way around. No stats about doing the environmental study the other way around. I'm really interested in how you could reframe issues like gay marriage, environmental protection or abortion in a way to convince liberal people. If one set of people rely heavily on statistics and studies and the other side relies on the way they feel about things, one side might be easier to convince by reframing than the other. Just my two cents, happy that people are at least trying to bring actual discussions to the table.

  • @osareafallire

    @osareafallire

    3 жыл бұрын

    Maybe if we start with the assumption that liberals are looking at different stats than conservatives and conservatives are reacting emotionally in different ways. Get a Republican talking about their family, faith, or technical trade, you see their soft side... and that's a good thing. Ever talk to a vegan about why they're a vegan? They'll drive you insane with a slew of studies about how much more healthy a plant-based diet is. Everyone is emotional and everyone believes they're analytical. Maybe we need to start the conversation around puppies. How often does that conversation end in bi-lateral hate?

  • @FerUno23
    @FerUno235 жыл бұрын

    yooo at 2:01 I fukin died

  • @phunanon
    @phunanon7 жыл бұрын

    The final speech at the end, I think, he was trying to employ everything he just taught for maximum persuasion...

  • @carleyweed9481
    @carleyweed94817 жыл бұрын

    this reminds me of extemp

  • @thepresident7893
    @thepresident78936 жыл бұрын

    This video is so relevant today. It's almost scary. Sad!

  • @osareafallire

    @osareafallire

    3 жыл бұрын

    2021: And still.

  • @TKite2409
    @TKite24097 жыл бұрын

    Who else noticed what he was doing in his end speech?

  • @DivingDonut

    @DivingDonut

    7 жыл бұрын

    Had to listen to it a second time to notice it, because my brain shuts off automatically when the data input ends and the rethoric starts. This is a problem I see in this approach. If this catches on, people will become dull to it.

  • @twn5858

    @twn5858

    7 жыл бұрын

    I didn't notice. What was he doing?

  • @TKite2409

    @TKite2409

    7 жыл бұрын

    He was appealing to both Liberals and Conservatives by appealing to both empathy (liberal value) and respect (conservative value).

  • @maxybaer123

    @maxybaer123

    7 жыл бұрын

    hes a psychologist hes trying to get people to talk what else is he supposed to do

  • @alexanderpayne4652

    @alexanderpayne4652

    5 жыл бұрын

    I thought that it was such a cool and smart way to end it

  • @nevokrien95
    @nevokrien957 жыл бұрын

    aosome you solved it

  • @rbq326
    @rbq3267 жыл бұрын

    great topic, but he didnt actually give the 'how' on how to have a better conversations with eachother

  • @remyllebeau77

    @remyllebeau77

    7 жыл бұрын

    What? You mean twisting their moral values to fit your positions and tricking them to side with you doesn't accomplish better conversations? :D /S

  • @michellenieroda9075

    @michellenieroda9075

    3 жыл бұрын

    He literally said it starts with us . . . You need to be empathic and have respect for one another so that proper discussions can happen

  • @vertigoz
    @vertigoz7 жыл бұрын

    We live in a time that makes it quite a moot point.

  • @lukaspinoti107
    @lukaspinoti1072 жыл бұрын

    To be honest, its hard writing an essay on a topic you disagree with and have it appeal to someone elses views.

  • @HighEX-ww7sx
    @HighEX-ww7sx7 жыл бұрын

    political talk aside, can we talk about that lady's forehead at 3:03? DAMN!

  • @thelorddrinian
    @thelorddrinian7 жыл бұрын

    Isn't this a repost?

  • @TheLivirus
    @TheLivirus7 жыл бұрын

    *We need to take a step back and discuss values. When values are sorted out, we can talk about solutions.* It is dishonest to start with a conclusion and try to connect unrelated values to it. By starting at conservative values, you will naturally arrive at a conservative conclusions and not liberal ones, and vice versa.

  • @LeonidasGGG
    @LeonidasGGG7 жыл бұрын

    The real problem is that 'Merica loves to label people... Stop that.

  • @texaswinter4297
    @texaswinter42977 жыл бұрын

    This is kinda late lol

  • @courtneycanchari5161

    @courtneycanchari5161

    7 жыл бұрын

    for real

  • @quentonwillis3846

    @quentonwillis3846

    7 жыл бұрын

    Texas Winter Better late than never. Still relevant.

  • @breakingboundaries3950

    @breakingboundaries3950

    2 жыл бұрын

    2022 and I find this incredibly insightful. It’s Never too late to be better.

  • @RantKid
    @RantKid7 жыл бұрын

    most vital "how to politics" video ever

  • @osareafallire

    @osareafallire

    3 жыл бұрын

    Only if it's implemented. 2021 - still in Act 2.

  • @captainkirk9691
    @captainkirk96912 жыл бұрын

    I always wanted to be in a buddy cop movie.

  • @slorter10
    @slorter102 жыл бұрын

    The world is split into two economic camps Industrial capitalism and financial capitalism! The divisions you talk about are deliberate to stop people looking at the real game!

  • @bradypfeiffer1056
    @bradypfeiffer10564 жыл бұрын

    This is a lot like the Rogerian argument style

  • @necronlordoflawtan
    @necronlordoflawtan7 жыл бұрын

    While a good idea for those not involved with media, I will say that it would not work on people desensitized by media (where there is always someone to send you back into your hole via cognitive dissonance)

  • @kalokaloqnov2354
    @kalokaloqnov23547 жыл бұрын

    Its simple resource based economic or nuclear war. But In our case it will be talking ot tv shows.

  • @bdr1414TV
    @bdr1414TV7 жыл бұрын

    let's flood trumps twitter with tweets about this video ... 😅😅😅

  • @abstractjem
    @abstractjem7 жыл бұрын

    I think we first need to stop putting each other in boxes! For example I never once called *myself* a Liberal,Conservative,Democrat,or a republican. However I've had *other people* assume I was a few of those based on one,or two little things I said. It's just plain selfish & ignorant to throw people in boxes that quick! Actual conversation's definitely needed,but if someone already has their selfish mind made up about you (no matter what you say) it's kind of a waste of time & energy.

  • @vertex1933
    @vertex19337 жыл бұрын

    How to have better political conversations: Don't.

  • @JunshuLiu

    @JunshuLiu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @BlueyMcPhluey
    @BlueyMcPhluey7 жыл бұрын

    kind of weird that he shames people for wanting to pick a partner who has a similar ideology to them... it's almost like we want to spend our lives with people who aren't fighting against our beliefs

  • @quentonwillis3846

    @quentonwillis3846

    7 жыл бұрын

    josh mcgee I don't think he was shaming anyone. Just making an observation on how politics actually effect our love life.

  • @bobieawuah5879
    @bobieawuah58797 жыл бұрын

    Why don't we base policy on empirical reality instead of ideology.

  • @hugheverett3789
    @hugheverett37897 жыл бұрын

    Pro tip: you cant

  • @silentstorm5757

    @silentstorm5757

    7 жыл бұрын

    You didn't even have the time to watch the video and you've already disagreed....

  • @maxybaer123

    @maxybaer123

    7 жыл бұрын

    yes and whats wrong with that

  • @hugheverett3789

    @hugheverett3789

    7 жыл бұрын

    silentstorm joke

  • @englishlulu7672
    @englishlulu76727 жыл бұрын

    there's no translation to Arabic

  • @nemesisurvivorleon
    @nemesisurvivorleon5 жыл бұрын

    I like how he talks about turning conservatives into liberals but not the other way. He showed his hand.

  • @heltok
    @heltok7 жыл бұрын

    Political debate today is like trying to play soccer vs someone playing American football. It doesn't matter how logical your arguments are, you will still be slapped in the face by personal attacks and name calling. The best way to win is to not play.

  • @EllieBobbit
    @EllieBobbit7 жыл бұрын

    My question is, what if their moral viewpoint is abhorrant to you? Making an argument on policy by appealing to their moral code would be encouraging that moral code, would it not?

  • @patrickpritchard1498
    @patrickpritchard14987 жыл бұрын

    I would love to move to a conservative area. I am so done dating liberal women. But I'm stuck in NYC because I have kids here.

  • @kawaii_princess_castle
    @kawaii_princess_castle4 жыл бұрын

    I think these moral values come from a deeper place. They come from personality traits and temperament that has biological roots. Biology shape our brains and their connections so it is not a value it is a particular intelligence, perception and conception of viewing the world.

  • @neonbunnies9596

    @neonbunnies9596

    2 жыл бұрын

    Value change, and therefore are not a part of biology

  • @AleTitan

    @AleTitan

    2 жыл бұрын

    Values come from the way you were raised, where you have lived, etc. Not really biology

  • @-oof9097
    @-oof90977 жыл бұрын

    WOW HELLO GUYS

  • @elijah2k823
    @elijah2k8237 жыл бұрын

    How about this: more Open-Mindedness, less insults

  • @severrnijKGU
    @severrnijKGU4 жыл бұрын

    I am a socialist, can confirm, we are the runner zombies, but we mostly eat yogurt. We found its best to talk to liberals in enclosed spaces like basements and subway cars. We can also communicate our ideas in these spaces through coughing.

  • @finalruner
    @finalruner7 жыл бұрын

    Empathy and Respect were the only two words I wanted to hear from this video...

  • @UltimaJC
    @UltimaJC7 жыл бұрын

    The only time I have any problem with someone on the right is when they actively try and stand in the way of LGBT rights, label anyone from a different ethnicity as a terrorist, and things of that nature which are objectively awful.

  • @glennvang1302
    @glennvang13027 жыл бұрын

    I think it's more like the movie independence day. we will only ever learn to work together as a human race when we are getting completely annihilated by aliens.

  • @michaelhart1072
    @michaelhart10727 жыл бұрын

    No. The divide isn't just patriotism, respect for authority and on the left equality and care. It's much deeper than that. Conservatives are high is conscientiousness but low in openness (which makes sense, we argue that you should work hard to achieve what you want and we don't think meddling with stuff like an economy is a good idea when you have insufficient knowledge) On the other hand a left winger is low in conscientiousness but high in openness which again makes sense because leftists believe you deserve free healthcare, education etc without having earnt it. In my opinion that's a much better distinction between left and right than the surface level differences he initially suggests

  • @yakult9404

    @yakult9404

    7 жыл бұрын

    Michael Hart universal healthcare* FTFY

  • @michaelhart1072

    @michaelhart1072

    7 жыл бұрын

    Israel Rosales what's ftfy?

  • @yakult9404

    @yakult9404

    7 жыл бұрын

    Michael Hart Fixed that for you

  • @michaelhart1072

    @michaelhart1072

    7 жыл бұрын

    Israel Rosales ah okay. Thanks

  • @tilorenner

    @tilorenner

    7 жыл бұрын

    Do you really think what you wrote illustrates the differences between liberals and conversatives well? Can't you find more positive things that might come from liberals tendency for more openness than free stuff without having earnt it?

  • @carlov.4408
    @carlov.44087 жыл бұрын

    this is one of the reasons i want to be a politician.

  • @Jacksadorer13
    @Jacksadorer137 жыл бұрын

    So this idea of empathy and respect is something I wholeheartedly agree with. But what motivates those who refuse to give people with extreme views the light of day? For example, if you are under the assumption that a Trump follower is racist, how can you give a Trump follower respect and encourage their ideologies of inequality? Is there a way to achieve a better society if you refuse to listen to a group with certain ideologies? How can you achieve a better society by not listening to or even oppressing a group of people you don't like (even if they want to oppress others)?

  • @KabeerJay
    @KabeerJay7 жыл бұрын

    #GaryJohnson2020

  • @Rhombohedral
    @Rhombohedral7 жыл бұрын

    its not about better discussions but about how to hack the others mind by using their own lingo but not by real arguments its how to do better mind control the other that is not a discussion its about mind control how to do that "better"