Personally I respect people who aren’t afraid to be different. Holding values and ignoring peer pressure is a great way for me to respect someone.

@ahmedandalous2878

5 жыл бұрын

🙂

@michaelbest7872

5 жыл бұрын

Alvin, I agree with you. I've seen others, based upon peer pressure, treat others, and me, badly. I have no respect for those people, especially when they do not apologize for their actions.

@farfetched9296

4 жыл бұрын

Love a black sheep

@sabuhassabaah2913

4 жыл бұрын

😢I'm so sad can ask whats bad almost Muslim's it's brother and sister all God respect 🙏

@sabuhassabaah2913

4 жыл бұрын

Trying your heart looking van video's and to day I'm relax I do way I'm with you family he's broke my heart keeps good do gems and forget try to help me a bout proses to train I'm with you 💪👍😀😊

Speaking up for your self is the most important thing . It shows that you don't accept to be beaten or mistreated

@michaelbest7872

5 жыл бұрын

Yasmine, I more than often, let people walk all over me, so to speak. I let them say what they want, etc. But when they tell lies about me, and others believe those lies!!! I come out swinging, and can easily defend myself from their sad lives. You are right, Yasmine, speaking up for yourself IS the most important thing! It's hard to do, for some, but it MUST be done. And once you do, you will feel impowered, and others who really didn't know you, will look at you in a different light, and respect you for it! Also, their lies have a way of surfacing too !

@univuniveral9713

5 жыл бұрын

Speak up for yourself when the matter is worth it. Speaking up just to command respect is bull-shitting yourself

@akindeleogunwoye4715

4 жыл бұрын

Sure thing.

@mountainview7971

4 жыл бұрын

That's right. We can be nice while sticking up for ourselves when needed.👍

@monsiepickles1437

3 жыл бұрын

This is the thing to do but sometimes, when I am treated with no respect or indifference I get angry and I speak up for myself in an angry manner

I remember when i was in grade 12 it was 2013 my older brother was advising me and i still remember very freshly he told ‘’Be yourself , control your emotions and Learn to say No ‘’’ May God bless him 🙏

@learnerdecuriousqueen3320

5 жыл бұрын

May *God* bless you for passing on the advice.

@peterchou5161

5 жыл бұрын

That's a bro everyone should have. Great advise.

@MsTOMorgan

5 жыл бұрын

I agree with controlling your emotions, it’s hard for some people

@caribaez5711

5 жыл бұрын

Wise guy

@hamzikhakim3133

4 жыл бұрын

Say my elder brother

I always try to be nice to others but many a times people take the advantage of it.

@harumiayame8586

5 жыл бұрын

read up on assertiveness. people say to be nice but do not mention to the people they advise that there are such people like 'narcissists', 'sadists' and average manipulators (read up on such things too). these types thrive on abusing nice people and exploiting their nice nature.

@deefallangzilla1985

5 жыл бұрын

Just believe your kindness is oké. Remember your intension wash honestly . So be prowt. Iff others try To take advance of it ....its the other intension. Keep distance and tell honest your feeling against the ( parasite ). Take care. Robert Belgium

@seemasharma7336

5 жыл бұрын

Whoa! We’re on the same page😅

@ahmedandalous2878

5 жыл бұрын

@@seemasharma7336 😄🙂😉😎👍🏿

@seemasharma7336

5 жыл бұрын

Ahmed Andalous Eh?

Don't talk too much and people will respect you. You are welcome🙋🏻‍♂️

@HerbalND

4 жыл бұрын

Agree

@trueevolution6211

4 жыл бұрын

You keep your mouth close some may think you a fool, you open your mouth they will know you're a fool. My teacher use to say that all the time.

@pahzplace7853

4 жыл бұрын

Lololololololololololol is that so?! Are you speaking from personal experience or?! I didn't know that talking too much got you disrespected/disliked. 👀 Then again, who am I kidding. I'm well aware that when someone says things/is saying that which isn't considered "popular opinion", they will not only be disliked, but their words won't be respected. But what self respecting (not to be confused with arrogant or pompus) individual will retract that which they mean?! Anyone can play that game of not saying anything and catering to whomevers ego to feel and appear right. But that doesn't mean that they person necessarily respects you. They're just happy that you appear or are stupid and they appear to be knowledgeable. In situations as such both individuals aren't respecting each other at all. They're really just going through whatever motions for the time being. Which btw isn't respectful, more like tolerating each other.........which on occassion leads to disdain and 1 or both individuals talking negatively about the other.

@pahzplace7853

4 жыл бұрын

@@trueevolution6211 that's the thing......it doesn't matter what folk think! As half the time most can't even think, much less present/come up with solutions that are productive. So how and why should anothers thoughts be of importance. Often times, playing this quality of game to a mind that is pompus only caters to their ego. I bet if you open your mouth and what you've said profoundly affects them in a way that bruises their ego........they will hate you out of no where........which basically means that they never respected you. Not that you necessarily have to prove a point to everyone, but respect goes beyond getting every and anyone to like you/see you as likable, until they no longer like you👀👀👀. As needing to appear a certain way that deceives those that you yourself don't respect or necessarily care about just reveals the quality of your level of respect

@matthewswanson2707

4 жыл бұрын

I've been doing that my whole life.

Learning to say no to people is the easiest way to gain their respect.

@billwyatt5215

5 жыл бұрын

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@ahmedandalous2878

5 жыл бұрын

"UNLEASHING POTENTIAL - PSYCHOLOGY VIDEOS.👍🏿😲😃😯😶😮😀😗😉😎👍🏿."

@barefootcontessa10

5 жыл бұрын

UNLEASHING POTENTIAL - PSYCHOLOGY VIDEOS m

@erinryan5754

5 жыл бұрын

You can't earn anybody's respect. There are ppl who no matter what you do they will not respect you because of who they are and not because of who you are. Respect should be just given because its the right thing to do, its called manners. Its impossible to please everyone.

@richstokes8636

5 жыл бұрын

No it isn't!

The ONLY thing I'd like to add is, THINK BEFORE you speak or act, in order avoid NEEDING TO apologize often.

@rmcd823

5 жыл бұрын

igspal I wouldn’t respect someone that is not spontaneous and fears judgment from others.

@skylar8827

5 жыл бұрын

@@rmcd823 Thinking it over before saying so is not equal with fearing judgement.

@williamorr9203

5 жыл бұрын

Smile,and the world smiles with you 🤠

@elviezamora3159

5 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@island661

5 жыл бұрын

They covered that. Instead of reacting, respond. Which means be calm, think before you react.

Unfortunately, most of this doesn’t lead to others respect of you. The best thing you can do is to not please anyone.

@nashaadnuux7050

4 жыл бұрын

Actually that's the best thing

@bec9864

2 жыл бұрын

@@nashaadnuux7050 SOO TRUE

@naimamusah3824

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

Neediness doesn’t earn respect. In fact, it pushes people away.

Loyalty is a big one for me. I respect loyalty as a divine virtue.

@eyebleached

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately people in authority take advantage of loyalty, knowing when to break it off and move on without a doubt is key.

The most important point is 19. You need to respect yourself before you can gain respect.

@hypervault201

4 жыл бұрын

Yep. Can't expect someone to love you if you don't even love yourself😳

@onlythetruth1686

4 жыл бұрын

No if someone doesnt respect him/herself suppose he is eating too much..that doesnt mean i shouldnt respect him. Respect others can be done even if they dont calue themselves..but never hurt, take advantange or abuse the other person

@onlythetruth1686

4 жыл бұрын

HyperVault yes u can. ..so many people have loved others though they didnt love themselves.that is only valuing others more than yourself..they expect others to love them as they love others..( if everybody lived by it would be peaceful.. ) but sadly most people are egoistic.

@jojojovia2991

3 жыл бұрын

Said my mind

You can be respectful but this wolrd is full of crazy people that do not care about anybody,,so sad.

@Derellrassy87

5 жыл бұрын

You can say that again my friend u cant win too much crazy people in the world and selfish u seems like a very wise guy wow u said it perfect

@miguelrobb5719

5 жыл бұрын

big fat fish I feel the same way as well. Too many crazy people out there to try to earn respect

@nasinandi4521

5 жыл бұрын

Especially when most people get rich they stop respecting themselves

@alexiainso7278

5 жыл бұрын

@@nasinandi4521 exactly in my experience 🇰🇼🇵🇭✌️

@stools4437

5 жыл бұрын

people who want respect, delete everyone is their life who looks like they might not respect them and then end up trusting no one and they don't care about anyone. so the the people who want to be nice AND have respect from others get the egotistical people who think they are better than everyone else.

Respect starts with respecting yourself.

Speaking up for yourself or for someone else can be challenging and even intimidating, but IMO get you the most respect.

@ahmedandalous2878

5 жыл бұрын

@XHawkRid3r 🙂

@ahmedandalous2878

5 жыл бұрын

"Moses Emmet.👍🏿😲😗🙂😃😀😅😄😉😎👍🏿."

@erinryan5754

5 жыл бұрын

And sometimes it just ruins your life.

@island661

5 жыл бұрын

It's important to stand up for other people. Not many people do it these days.

@c3909

3 жыл бұрын

Very true..

Doing the right thing, when nobody is watching. And this out of an sense of honour.

@wshelby83

5 жыл бұрын

You're right!

@rodw.9050

5 жыл бұрын

hurbit123 that's integrity!

@mohammedbedewy9102

5 жыл бұрын

Integrity, very needed nowadays

@katmontgomery7699

4 жыл бұрын

I agree...thumbs up.

@silvergirl7810

4 жыл бұрын

My dad did this and he was very respected - but don’t expect people to know you do these things

Don't badmouth other, respect yourself and you'll be respected. Thank you very much sir

Speaking directly & confidently and don't apologize when you say you can't do something. It's our right to decide what we want and what we don't want. I learned to say No I'm not able to do that, or No, this will not fit into my schedule or simply say, i have other obligations so have a great day and i smile and walk away. Lots of respect comes when you say these few statements 😎

@vivhiggins5656

Жыл бұрын

What you lack in one,you gain in another,god gave us all,different gift's,

I wish I could have known all of this 30 years ago. Excellent advice

How to gain respect: 1 Honor what you say Don't waste others people time

@freedom123-j8j

4 жыл бұрын

And dont let ppl waste your time

Be youself not who others want you to be. Who cares how others see you it's how you see yourself what matters. Discover who you are or what you want to be. Honest value compassion kindness sweet. Active listening. Be understanding. Be positive Express yourself Always be on time. Don't waste time. I agree gossip is never good. Don't bad mouth or accuse hulimate bully or abuse. dont asumse. Stand up for what you believe in even if it mean standing alone. Have your own mind. People should stop being a push over or a doormat. People don't always have to agree on everything. Speak up again bullies or abuse. Stand up for other in positive way. Believe in your ideas embrace yourself. Care about positive people don't care of the negetive ones. Be good at what you do and start small and make your way up. Value is important. Help others when you have free time. People should control there emotions and learn from there mistakes. Be open minded and speak your mind. inspirational and encouraging. Say no to others not always say yes. Self respect and others. Stop negetive thoughts. Stay postive not be in the past stay in present. Avoid negative unhealthy relationships.

@mekdesbihonegne9121

5 жыл бұрын

great video

@leobabbyyy7601

5 жыл бұрын

This deserve more likes

@ChibiDeadPool

5 жыл бұрын

💯

@moonwolf8606

4 жыл бұрын

Brilliant! When read this, I showed my friend immediately. She said this was amazing! And I agreed with her, this really is amazing! This should be at 3,000 likes! If I could just show this to about 50 people I know, the results would be amazing, I know they would. Thank you for opening my mind and a few others! 💡

@antonio-onism9814

4 жыл бұрын

I tried this all and it still doesn't work. I don't understand what's wrong with me. I just want to die. I'm tired of this.

You teach ppl how to treat you 😊

It's not how much you love but how much you are loved by others.....Thanks, wizard of oz.

U can't make people respect you respect yourself and don't let others put you down it's more important what you think of yourself than what others think of you

@freedom123-j8j

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@kimanhchung8372

3 жыл бұрын

👍

@clintonfrazer9346

2 жыл бұрын

For sure

@jasminealexia

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@pandemits

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

“Most good relationships are built on mutual trust and respect.” Mona Sutphen

@MultiAarcher

3 жыл бұрын

I prefer honesty and trust to

Here are couple more. 1) Do Not talk over other when that person is talking. Don't think you're witty by interrupting your opponent's speech because you don't want to hear it. That's totally disrespectful. Let the person finish his/her statement then you it's your time to voice your opinion or not. 2) When someone asks for a moment of your time, give them the full moment, your undivided attention. Do Not walk away 30 seconds later or in the middle of the speech. Even though you don't like to talk to that person. That's rude and disrespectful.All critics welcome. I learn something new everyday.

@SRHisntSilent

5 жыл бұрын

These points right here are gold.

@taliabarsamoglu4811

5 жыл бұрын

Literally my no. 1 pet peeve

@skylar8827

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I would like to add just a little thing: When words does not reach the person then the good old rule of "actions speak louder than words" may be followed without being disrespectful.

@dennisbullard600

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed!! I will not accept that behavior from anyone.. There is absolutely no acceptable reason outside of someone dying or severely injured to constitute acting like that..

@tygewellman5352

4 жыл бұрын

on the other hand, I interrupt people all the time because I don't like to listen to stupid sinful people. I have no problem walking away from stupid corrupt people. They don't deserve my respect 💁‍♂️

The most important thing is respecting yourself.Believing in your potential and never let anybody makes you down.

Every point brought up here resonates with how I would define ‘RESPECT’... something I’ve always tried my best to mirror with. Thank you for the reminder 😊

i didn't believe in myself, maybe i didnt respect myself, i wasn't self-confident to be respected by others. i practice to be nice with others and help them with my abilities and i realised the way people treat my differntly so i think i am on the good way. this video is very helpful. thanks so much.

I promised myself & my mom that I will, control my mouth, & start being more respectful, and be more reliable. I started from yesterday.

We need this kind of communication. Sometimes, we end up finding ourselves caught in cycle of negativity, as result loos our morale values. This is good!

Applying most of these in my daily life, I'm working on being more assertive and I'll get there Insha'Allah Cheers

@malikubaidali367

5 жыл бұрын

Insha ALLAH 👍🏻

@saryaamina5582

4 жыл бұрын

InshaAllah 🤲🙏

@Ray2311us

3 жыл бұрын

Stupid ass religion

After watching this I realized that I'm on the right path ☺️

@yvetteschaerer

4 жыл бұрын

Mark Stunna 😂

i did #8 multiple times, but i got thanked by insults or friend betrayals... it worked very few times so stand up only for nice, trustworthy people or you won't get what you deserve

talk when it is necessary, dont be talkative

@faisalrajah3811

4 жыл бұрын

Fuck off

@evelyne2891

4 жыл бұрын

@@faisalrajah3811??! Ugh

Being respectful goes a long way for me. Great video!

THIS IS SO MUCH TRUE. I HAVE DONE THESE ALL AND I EARNED MY RESPECT. THANK GOD.

Thank you for these amazing & helpful videos. I’m spiritual & I am an empath as I suffer Ptsd due to trauma I was forced to endure as a child, until I was age 14. I left home early but it was a matter of life or death type situation so I had to make choices I was simply too young to be making but I know I did not have any other choice, if I wanted to live! Sounds extreme but it’s why I am the way I am. I’m always seeking to progress, as an understanding, loving, sensitive being. I love your advice and tips! Great work...👌🏽✨❤️

None of these have an affect on an inadequate person. But that doesn't mean you should not apply them to yourself.

Very informative I loved it. Thanks for sharing 👍👍👍👍

Number 4 is honestly something I've struggled with for about three years now, but this year, I will do better.

1. Listen more than speaking; 2. Do something good that will improve your prestige. 3. Behave politely;

1) Respect people in the same way that you want to be respected.

Being myself has really taught me something, embrace the people who want to be in your life and let go the people while being yourself

@barbarahenderson7611

4 жыл бұрын

I agree, you can't please everybody.

Love your neighbor as you love yourself !!! Blessings from France

I've always LED my life. In good or bad always worried about peoples reaction. Now I learned from people's reactions. And what they may say about me later on in years because of their reaction. I've learned to not worry about what other people are thinking and actually means nothing to me because I try to think clearly and look at the others before I look into myself and sometimes I have to look into myself before I look at others and react to their mean ing I take courses in the morning in sociology

We are never to old to learn more...thanks. Wished i knew this years ago.

This is the best video on respect I've watched so far...Very good content...I look forward to more videos..

Thank You So Much! You Are So Right Not Everything People Say About Some People Is The TRUTH At All !

Yes be yourself is the best .

Thank you. I have learned a lot listening to you

Kindness is the highest form of intelligence. I respect that 💯

More people need to watch this video. They should show these kinds of videos in schools and businesses.

@nicolebakoussis6852

3 жыл бұрын

Yes i agree

these video's are consistently amazing!

You're videos are really helpful and informative... Just like gaining new thoughts!!!🤗

@BrainyDose

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Its nice to know that I'm already doing, at least, some things right. However, I can also see what still needs a little work. After all, many of us here are watching this video, because we need to know what we can do to improve our social lives. As such, I'm still working on dealing with my emotional responses, because I'm a passionate person. Being this way can be fine if I'm singing, or writing poetry. However, it can be rather awkward when I'm dealing with others.

Wow one of the most beautiful videos I've seen in a very long time!

This was a great review. I had slipped on some of them and others really needed work.

What i think is you got a very nice voice and these tips are way too helpful. Thanks brainy dose 😊

Thanks so much for sharing with us this wonderful advice.

I've left a job in a restaurant recently because everybody from managers to kitchen liked to gossip, gossip... gossip, to a point where I've noticed I was starting to get involved because that was all they talked about, but I've decided one day to have enough and quit right there and on the spot; One of the best decision I've ever made in my life, no regrets, and good riddance. Be careful with whom you surround yourself with... be very careful when building your character.

Bless you!,very educational and thank you.

Very good set of guidelines for earning respect.

Be respectful and gain respect. We all the same, anyhow. Even when they take disadvantage of you, still respect. Respect wil make you go far in life

One of the most amazing videos I've ever watched. Thank you.

I always treat people the same wheather rich or poor

@pedrocarvalho4999

5 жыл бұрын

Dont do that. Poor people will see you as naive, and try to take advantage. Respect your equals and your superiors, but keep a safe distance from your inferiors. Trust me, you wont get anything positive from people below you.

@josephholdman1037

5 жыл бұрын

Same here!😃

@pedrocarvalho4999

5 жыл бұрын

@Maria Camilla Thiago, what?

@pedrocarvalho4999

5 жыл бұрын

@Maria Camilla Thiago 💋

@anicetndabirinde4545

5 жыл бұрын

@@pedrocarvalho4999 Poor people may earn you votes that rich can't, especially in Africa. Also depending of your approach and what kind of deal with them, know that many of them will not remain the same after months, they shall be potential customers..However as u said, your relationship with them requires more wisdom.

🤓🤓🤓Helpful video thanks! Especially about following through on ideas and controlling emotions.🙂🙂🙂🙂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

It's very explicit presentation. Thanks much and keep up the good work. God speed 🙏❤

Personally my best advice I would tell anyone is to be calm no matter how you’re feeling you don’t have to say much but something about being with the presence of someone that’s calm calms nature too “you are part of nature”

Thank you so much for reminding us and has assured that we've done the right behaviour...

Working with others to achieve common goals is a great way to. It opens the lines of communication, thus team work leads to all.

@univuniveral9713

5 жыл бұрын

Do others really wanna work with you? I am beginning to hate people. They only love you when you are a child.

@philsaspiezone

4 жыл бұрын

@@univuniveral9713 That's called grooming behaviour and is designed to gain trust then as soon as childhood finishes then its like 'fuck you pal' for the rest of your life.

Thank you so much. Your videos are really helpful.

Oh, my! I can't say only, thank you so much! 💜

This video is a masterpiece. Thanks a lot for such wise words.

Keep up the good work. Thank you.

Man... thanks for creating this video 🥺🥰

I needed to hear these!!

A real masterpiece. Kudos brainy dose

Buddhist - Don't respond to irritation - walk away from chaos

@DavidBrown-vn5fw

3 жыл бұрын

We Christian taught to be strong minded...we face the chaos and not turning away from it.....

@DavidBrown-vn5fw

3 жыл бұрын

Break the buddha confused n lost religion and just turn to JESUS CHRIST He is the Greatest of any religion....

@whatbeautifulworld9977

3 жыл бұрын

@@DavidBrown-vn5fw Please don't be divide any religions with respect to your idea...""it's peaceful & respect of way of living it's Buddhism""!

I love all your tips 🙏💖 thank you for sharing 💖💖💖

great contents thanks a lot for this video l am gonna use it properly to gain respect . Big respect to you 😎😎

Really needed this💙💙💙

Wealthof wisdom. Thanks.

thats enough way to gain respect more than you think. thank you guys

LOVE THIS!! TY, TY!!!

This is very intresting.I struggle with my social skills due to Autism - Asperger's Syndrome & ADHD as well! Thank you for helping me as this video went into a lot of things I was ignorant about and some I wasn't but needed elaboration on.

Very helpful thanks

This channel is so helpful!!

Anti-social is the best answer to everything. This way u don't have to worry who respect u or not. Save all the trouble. Enough said

Only 1 way: Be around people that realize that a certain degree of respect is due to every individual, either they like him/her or not. In other words, if you are among people who make you feel that you have to do something or be someone else in order to receive even the minimum respect then you either: a) stay there and completely ignore them and b) or just move on, with the least possible or zero explanations. Respect your self enough as to realize what you deserve and what not.

Thanks for that lovely video it changed my life 🤗

Thanks for the valuable info bro.

Treat people the way you want to get treated. Kindness, friendliness, honesty and respect. Also known as being an adult with class.

Definitely worth sharing! :-)

Valuable thoughts.added somthing to life.thanks

Amazing thank you for the video!

Thanks for the pep talk.

unfortunately , all these things are impossible in my situation ( the study at school in Iraq ) but I try to achieve some points .

@teresa9508

5 жыл бұрын

hey me too i am iraquian are you syriac ? god bless

@nonochanyeppoyo2490

5 жыл бұрын

عباس الابراهيمي muslims are the easiest, I thought

@halcioncocaine2096

5 жыл бұрын

Because Iraq is unfortunate ♿

@HANDOLOH

4 жыл бұрын

This can be achieved in any situation my friend.

@mountainview7971

4 жыл бұрын

That's the thing, people have varying circumstances.

Very helpful . Thanks !I 'm be braver now. My co-workers always take advantage of me and this video helped me lots how to manage or interact ill-willed people, crazy people, low IQ PEOPLE, negative people, malicious people.

I loved it boy you nailed and i will try to follow up may God...bless u

Great video. Keep up the great work