One minute I think I am okay, the next I am not. I just want to get over this.

@denniscampbell7238

4 жыл бұрын

As with any personal crisis, the pain waxes and wanes.

@jayglampolanco5285

4 жыл бұрын

Anne, you will be ok.Hopefully you already ok.

@tash9o

4 жыл бұрын

Anne Link me too...

@Funnycontent159

4 жыл бұрын

@@tash9o hi there how are you doing?

@Rana-gm9ji

4 жыл бұрын

I'm going through the same thing, i know that feeling, and we're gonna be ok cuzz we have God and he know's what's best for us

Just remember this: There is an entire world outside of this person

@sydrose

5 жыл бұрын

Needed this

@chenxie977

4 жыл бұрын

That's very true. But not everyone has the energi to re do this all over again.. Least that's how I feel about it right now..

@abceedee4488

4 жыл бұрын

Best comment. Just when I needed it

@jessebaca2750

4 жыл бұрын

Erika M Thank you for the inspirational words😊

@benitayasotharan2822

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks

I found this video 3 years ago while I was going through my first heartbreak. Now I have the need to watch it once again. For anyone who is reading this I want you to know that it truly does get better. Time diminshes the pain. There will come a day where you wake up and they will no longer be the first thought on your mind. You won’t even realize it but when you reach that point you will feel liberated. Although I am experiencing heartbreak again I find relief in knowing that I have been able to overcome it before. So just know that if you’ve been here before or maybe this is your first time, you will only progress from this point on.

@Heather-uw1wj

5 жыл бұрын

darkbangtan thank you for this. It’s just so hard

@boyrenaissance8043

4 жыл бұрын

Hey Darkbangtan, I'm creating a course that leads you through break up grief step by step but im not sure if anyone would be interested, can you please let me know if you'd do a course similar to this but with heaps of videos on different stages of breakup grief?

@tatummaartje9902

4 жыл бұрын

thank you. i needed this :)

@pratiklomte

3 жыл бұрын

So bro how are you feeling now?

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️...........

The secret? Forget the good times. REMEMBER the BAD times!

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️...............

@13Maria.Cortez13

Жыл бұрын

Forget the bad times. Remember the good times.

@CrystalDatingCoach

Жыл бұрын

@@13Maria.Cortez13 Good times. Bad Times. It's OVER!! Move on...they did!

@13Maria.Cortez13

Жыл бұрын

@@CrystalDatingCoach 100%

@felliesweetie

Жыл бұрын

This helps

Very hard to do when your bf was the only person you talked to 24/7

@batoolbx

6 жыл бұрын

innit

@Tajizzle

6 жыл бұрын

Right

@snowkey7186

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah same i talked with my girlfriend like that and now im in a position to kill myself.

@MrRosegirl5

6 жыл бұрын

Can relate 100%

@danielefilipaite7060

6 жыл бұрын

Relatable, plus he was my best friend..

I changed his name to "love yourself more than this" and that has stopped me multiple times from reaching out. Thank you.

@glamv2291

4 жыл бұрын

Ashley Bell I love that, I’m going to do the same.

@Camila-dw6bg

4 жыл бұрын

Good advice

@tineshamckeller

3 жыл бұрын

Just did that

@HuskeeLove

3 жыл бұрын

Brilliant. It's been a year... But I hope you are doing well

@markchimmy

3 жыл бұрын

I love that idea!!!😁👍 Thanks for sharing!!!

I made the harsh decision to erase his number, change my phone number, blocked him from all social media and email. I'm done. If we aren't going to work it out, there's no point in keeping in touch. I'm so hurt and disappointed, but I'm also pissed that I wasted a year and believed in someone who doesn't believe in me.

@raramoss6453

5 жыл бұрын

De Anna George thats what im on

@cocobeautyfrombarbados3807

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate

@celestegarcia923

4 жыл бұрын

Eless De same here!

@juLee206

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@ZahSoZen

4 жыл бұрын

De George I waisted 3 and a half years with a total looser who was totally below my standard but that says a lot about how I feel about myself (but I’m rectifying this) I feel absolutely used and made a fool of. I was isolated from my friends and family and I am left all alone to pick up the pieces. I hate him. The breakup is still fresh.

Biggie smalls once said....”You don’t chase, you replace” I️ had my heart broken a couple days ago by the last person I’d expected to do it. In the end, regardless of how good things were going or seemed to be going in your relationship, no one is strong enough to fight fate. Stay strong y’all. If you love yourself then you’ll never be alone. Good luck

@simmy.saini_official

5 жыл бұрын

Michael Provenzano good luck

@nella10123

3 жыл бұрын

How are you now 2 years later?

4 years.. i thought we were going to get married but you know what. It gets better over time. it's been 2 weekish.. I know you may think that you won't find anyone or just how low you are feeling at the moment. You may think you will NEVER find someone better than him..and that he was everything but trust me it gets better. Look around at these comments..see everyone commenting and wanting their love back?? see how much they can love someone ?? and how badly they want their loved one back..YOU are one of them..and there is someone else exactly like YOU. who is just as passionate about love and caring. They gave so much love to that wrong person that they are here hurt..trying to get over it ...just like you and i. So see all these people..they are ALL the good people wanting to be loved. Meaning you will find SOMEONE who loves you like crazyy... you are not alone.. everyone is feeling exactly what you are feeling. There are billions of people out there.. why cry over one??? just look at all these people in these comments wanting to be loved.. and this is not it.. there are sooo many people out there..don't lock yourself down and know your worth.. IDK if it makes sense or if anyone will even read this but I'm jst trying to help you guys because telling someone else this that's going through samething makes me realize...hey..tell yourself this.. once you realize all these things. it will get better I promise!! :)

@xxlizziezxxful

7 жыл бұрын

Princess J omg we almost have the same icon

@Spiritualmuslim786

6 жыл бұрын

Princess J Thank you, it makes lots of sense. It's been almost a week and I'm just training myself to get his name and face out of my mind and I'm learning to enjoy being alone because I'm young.

@radaka

5 жыл бұрын

It DOES get better. You have a broken heart, you're broken, you think you'll NEVER find love again that's it it's over for me... But OMG I wish I had known then what I know and feel now. I had to learn to care more about myself. Learn to love myself. And then when I got to the point that I was so content if I never ever did find what I thought love really is. I was still content with other things in life and still found joy in things. That's when God gave me the man he meant for me. At first I was very slow and Leary and didn't have any expectations. But now 14 years later I am more thankful and grateful the more time goes on. Don't take it for granted or advantage of it. And the key is, neither does he! We thank God for each other daily. And we're a team, we're partners. Both of our happiness and lives matter. Now I look back to the shit I lived with, put up with for years. No love is better than a bad and unhappy love. Then work on you, do you possess the same qualities that you look for in someone else? If not you should.

@EveryDayThing1

5 жыл бұрын

I needed this thank you!!

@shrutisinglaful

5 жыл бұрын

Its this immediate loneliness that affects the most. Suddenly you have no one to share stuff you could only share with that one person. Noone you can be vulnerable with, who will support you exactly the way you need. Also, it's devastating that I miss him so much and he could so easily move on. This gap kills. @@radaka

its hard to get support when you have no friends, i'll just watch this video over and over and over

@napstablook3935

7 жыл бұрын

Amechi Smallwood thanks

@napstablook3935

7 жыл бұрын

not really, its like i'll never get over her... hurts so bad

@napstablook3935

7 жыл бұрын

but how are you? I hope youre well

@napstablook3935

7 жыл бұрын

Amechi Smallwood She just lost her feelings for me, sucks... I'm sorry you feel lonely, it's the worst. Do you have any social media we can talk in? skype, tumblr, facebook... idk? would be good to have someone to talk to

@napstablook3935

7 жыл бұрын

Amechi Smallwood Alright

Breakup is very painful and traumatic but I guess everyone of us will experience it. If you're in this kind of situation right now, don't rush yourself in healing, feel the pain because eventually that pain will fade in a matter of time.

@MikeJackson690

4 жыл бұрын

10 months in, still waiting for it the heavy heart to fade. She was everything to me : (

@ashar1780

3 жыл бұрын

@@MikeJackson690 how do you feel now?

@pratiklomte

3 жыл бұрын

@@MikeJackson690 yeah, are the things getting better?

@MikeJackson690

3 жыл бұрын

@@ashar1780 Well, since that comment I found out she had slept with at least one of my "best friends" who completely stabbed me in the back. It set me back further but I'm ok now. Wish there was someone in my life but I have things to achieve in the meanwhile. Almost ready for someone new. 2020 hasn't been easy for meeting new people, eh? Thank you for asking 🙂

@MikeJackson690

3 жыл бұрын

@@pratiklomte Replied to Riddhi just below. Thank you for asking. Got better, yes. Sometimes I get lonely, other times I enjoy the tranquillity! I hope you're well.

This comment section is honestly so helpful. Seeing everyone go through the same things, feel the same things... it makes me feel less alone. Kinda wanna start a support group or something to be honest. I'm just so lost and heartbroken.

@SoberIrishman

4 жыл бұрын

Did it get better, dealing with a bad breakup too man

@ZahSoZen

4 жыл бұрын

dag gerish it’s been 8 months, how are you doing now? I just got out of a three and a half year relationship and I am really not doing well at all. I feel lost and heartbroken.

@CottoncanzyAnnchristine

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@ashleedallas1431

4 жыл бұрын

Please do it would help so many! I’m stuck in this rut and won’t talk to anyone because I feel like I’m getting on peoples nerve.

@missmelissalee1858

4 жыл бұрын

dag gerish I feel the same way 😭

My advice is to give it time. Give in to your emotions and flow with them. Don't fight your feelings or they will persist. Its a grieving process.

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️............

i was dumped today after 6 years of trying to roll a turd in glitter. thanks so much for this video its really helping xx

@nurberxo

5 жыл бұрын

I'm glad the video is helping!! I laughed SO hard at "trying to roll a turd in glitter" OMG 😂😭 Thank you for the laugh!!!

@Larissal2011

5 жыл бұрын

Holy cow. I’m here trying to get over a 6 year relationship too. Hugs to you!

@patriciawarigia717

5 жыл бұрын

@@Larissal2011 how long has it been

@lynettedenttripplett2073

5 жыл бұрын

@@DK-ck6ye I luv your statement. I was hoping.....can I use it?

@AdrianFirdhawanSoekotjo

4 жыл бұрын

@@Larissal2011 me too! I broke up 3 weeks ago after 6 years and last week he already found a new boyfriend while we're still living together and during corona time. I know he's not wrong since he's not mine anymore but still the pain is unbearable. How did you manage to do it?

There’s no point in changing the ringtone if they don’t text you or call you anymore ☹️💔

@pichenyp

4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same on that topic....

@florreyes4456

4 жыл бұрын

Felt that 😪😪

@leighannmcgowan4859

4 жыл бұрын

I agree ...

@ericowned2934

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly god I miss her so much

@thecroony5450

4 жыл бұрын

So very true!

Wow this is insane and crazy I watch this video three years ago when my ex cheated on me and I was so hurt and it helped so much and at the time never did I think I was going to heal and look at me now everything happens for a reason If you reading this heartbroken this is coming from a person who was heart broken and cheated on I promise you things get better time heels find yourself love yourself everything happens for a reason their is better for you !!

@nurberxo

4 жыл бұрын

Love this 💙

@beyzayildiz5296

4 жыл бұрын

@ P V your comment gave me hope. I've been cheated on and he is happy with his new gf while I'm suffering and struggling to get over this.

@562Prisyjalisco

4 жыл бұрын

@@beyzayildiz5296 im so sorry to hear that I promise you things get better i was you watching this video depressed as well a few years ago thinking i was never going to get better but it does and you'll see that everything happens for a reason there is better out there for you that's his lost cause he lost you a good-hearted person who loved him and take this time to heal its okay to be sad but find yourself be happy alone you will get through this i promise you

@beyzayildiz5296

4 жыл бұрын

@@562Prisyjalisco thank you so much for your kinds words and your encouragements. I hope I will do well soon and forget about this horrible time i'm having now

@anissyaneena8145

3 жыл бұрын

How are u now?

It's especially hard during Christmas :(

@runneryg

5 жыл бұрын

Tell me about it!!! took me years never really got over it, but i'm over it now 25 years on.

@mjnaturallyhigh

5 жыл бұрын

I just broke up with my 3months relationship, it new but so much feelings involved, we met all our parents an stuff like that , I can’t stop crying

@Dan-ke6cz

5 жыл бұрын

I got dumped 3 months ago by my gf of 8 months and it sucks so much, but it'll get better I promise, after about a month you should start to think about them less (only a little less tho, but it gets less and less as time goes on!). Make sure to immerse yourself in a hobby you enjoy, and make it your sole focus. for me it was the gym and boxing, it helps a lot when you feel like you have a purpose and are moving towards a goal!

@amrwali6451

5 жыл бұрын

I'm watching this today! 12.24.18 :(

@aaronclegg5663

5 жыл бұрын

Yep, today feels impossible.

We sometimes dance with the ghosts of our relationships past, instead of living in the reality we are now in and making the positive, repairing steps of moving forward...

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️...............

I'm a guy but your advice definitely is appreciated. This video is from 2015 but here I am getting good use out of it 3 years later. Thank you very much.

@davidtell2539

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@mubebe8154

5 жыл бұрын

@@davidtell2539 Me three

@brookenicole6937

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@Moonshine668

5 жыл бұрын

Amen to this

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️...............

I was with my boyfriend for two years and I was never treated the respect and love that I was giving. I for the first time, finally blocked his number and social medias. I have the worst habit of going back to him when he does the bare minimum. This video truly dried up my tears. Thank you so much. You said things that I didn't even know I needed to hear. Such an angel xo

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️...............

I just broke up ..1 year relationship , all those promises ,love and affection dissapered. ..like how can one do that ? we promised a future... ahhhh

@itsgraceolivia1678

8 жыл бұрын

Same😞

@JerryTheAfroMan

8 жыл бұрын

+ItsGraceOlivia same.. 😥

@elliemaepolson1679

8 жыл бұрын

Same

@KM-yp2pb

8 жыл бұрын

Same ..

@mitzisuarez8922

8 жыл бұрын

Same 😭

My gf broke up with me at a party. We were only together for 2 almost 3 months, but I loved her. My advice, live life don't be looking for a bf/gf. You will find that person eventually. Just live life as it comes.

@simmy.saini_official

5 жыл бұрын

Origami 101 bless ! I made a vid on how to get ur ex back 🙏🏽

@isoccerpluse

4 жыл бұрын

@@simmy.saini_official but why? Why go back to the past. They're an ex for a reason.. move on not backwards

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️..............

In order to truly heal from a breakup, you need to make yourself busy and Let go all the pain and heart aches that you've been hiding inside you.

@dennohize

4 жыл бұрын

LoveMe,com ..but how?

@tesssqueri8071

3 жыл бұрын

There is also a video by Christine Lopes that is excellent - a well articulated 4 step process to truly heal past wounds. "Letting go and moving on" is what we all want and what I've learned through her video is that "letting go" is a bi-product of true healing, in other words, it happens automatically because once you are healed, there is no work required to let go. Sitting in the pain, not escaping it, is so important and often a real challenge for me. Love seeing all the comments and I hope we all, truly heal. I wonder how you all are doing today. I hope very well, God Bless all of you, all of us.

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️..............

6 years and it’s over. He was my best friend. My soulmate. I thought we were going to get married one day. My world is crumbling around me. I’m back in my home state, half of my stuff is still in the state that we got an apartment in. Going back there to get everything is going to kill me. I still have some sort of hope that we’ll get back together... but I know that I can hold on to that thought. I’m just so hurt.

@ZahraK483

5 жыл бұрын

how are you now? x

@patriciawarigia717

5 жыл бұрын

u ok dear?

@johannar.3206

5 жыл бұрын

Did it stop hurting already ? my bf broke up with me yesterday and I feel like dying

@erikaelimei

5 жыл бұрын

DaDa DaDa I am, thank you for the concern :)

@erikaelimei

5 жыл бұрын

Z B Doing well, thank you :)

Thank you so much, I had no one. No one to talk too, no one to listen too, no one to help me, but you are my savior. You saved me. I was going into such a deep depression, and i was going to purge but you saved me. Thank you. I will never be able to thank you enough.

@nurberxo

8 жыл бұрын

+Drisha Mishra This touched my heart. Wishing you the best. xoxo

@Frankocean3

8 жыл бұрын

I have no one either. He won't take me back and I was / am so in love... I can't shake this intense feeling of pain and hopelessness.

@elliewolfbauer9353

8 жыл бұрын

+91drebaby I feel the same way! I felt like the only one, all of my friends are getting into all these relationships and here I was left, he left all these "I love you's"..Told me he would never leave me. It sucked.

@geovanytorralva4661

8 жыл бұрын

+91drebaby I know that feeling we were together for 3 years and now its all gone

who else is drunk and crying watching this video

@rebeccasmith320

8 жыл бұрын

🙌🙏

@nurberxo

8 жыл бұрын

+evelynwashere14 LOL!!

@ivangrbavac242

8 жыл бұрын

+evelynwashere14 yeah, im not cryin but im still being a major bitch, and im bitching and moanin about my ex, but i get cha brah

@alexdeleon9394

8 жыл бұрын

😂👍👍

@emilyhancock932

8 жыл бұрын

✋

I know you posted this years ago, but I discovered this video at a really low time in my life. After a 5 year relationship and break up, this video help me through my hardest darkest moments. I hope you see this message and know your words have helped me more than you will ever know.

@nurberxo

5 жыл бұрын

So touched and humbled by your words. Thank you!! 🙏🏽

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️...........

We girls are very strong! We have the strength within us but something love can make us weak and we end up loving the wrong person. My advice since I've been there down that is to keep your head up, we cant stand down and be miserable while the other person is messing around. At the end when they get old they will realize how amazing you were and you will be in a better place.. stay strong!

@janarhodes4280

3 жыл бұрын

It is really difficult but I've given this person so many chances ...throughout this relationship I've had more pain than ever before but still was trying to see only the good things about him and ignoring the red flags. Sometimes the wave of sadness washes over me and I really hope i find the strength to move on from this person.

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️............

Breakups happen to literally everyone (just take a look at the comments...) But in the end everything will be fine and we will all find that special someone to love and be loved. What is destined for you cannot be taken away... :)

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, during this time, I kind of put all of my friends in the back burner, so I don't really have any friends left since he was my best friend, my relationship with my family is fucked up as well, so I kind of feel like I have no one to really talk to. We're on a break now, because I'm apparently too mediocre for him, (I was going through depression these past few months after a thing going on in my studies, so I don't go out much, I wasn't giving college my absolute best you could say this year at least, so he got kind of annoyed, and he said he wanted a break, because I'm too co dependant on him or whatever..) Right now, I'm changing my life for the better, I started going out again, I started working out as well, and once my college year starts I will do my best, all these changes are for me obviously. I feel like I don't know if I want to stay with someone who let me down and abandoned me at my lowest even though I fully supported and helped him when he was in this kind of situation, he also treated me like shit at least in my opinion, he distanced himself for months, preferred hanging out with his friends, made plans without me and informed me at the last minute, spent the entire night out leaving me alone at his house even though I went through 5 hours on the train to go see him.. I just don't think I can forget all of this and forgive all of this because yes I have some kind of resentment, but at the same time, I think of all the good memories and stuff and I really don't want to let go, because Idk have I seriously been wasting my time for 5 years? I actually thought this was forever, I litteraly gave everything to this person, my trust, and I even turned down internship opportunities for this relationship and I feel like such a joke because why did I plan my life around him but he doesn't even want to plan a single weekend with me? We already live in different cities why can't he spend 2 days out of 7 with me? I don't mind seeing his friends, I love those I met but now he doesn't even want to introduce me anymore.. Anyway, point is, I think this relationship is over, I love him so much and it's so fucking hard I litteraly feel like I can't breathe but I can't be in a relationship like this anymore, I can't just get over it, I don't feel like he respects me or is attracted to me or interested in what I say, we used to spend hours on the phone but now he hardly gives me the time of the day (before the break now we don't talk)? I feel like he loves me and cares about me as a person since we're each other's first boyfriend/girlfriend, and each other's first everything, but I don't feel like there's attraction, at least not on his part and after all the shit he pulled not on my part either.

@yasminledesma2609

8 жыл бұрын

This is me :(

@naromngin

7 жыл бұрын

girrrl, sound like you need someone to talk to

@justmalake

7 жыл бұрын

+Narom Ngin i know

@naromngin

7 жыл бұрын

+Mandy Bel well here i am. sorry for making you wait so long

@melliethemua7388

7 жыл бұрын

I'm completely the same. Me and my ex just broke up after 4 years. I have nobody to talk to because I did put all my friends on the back burner too & I made him my number 1. My best friend.... if you need anybody to talk to add me on IG. @melliethemua because I could use someone to talk to also

"The best revenge is a life well lived" MEANS we no longer LIVE for that person - which is the ultimate in healing and moving on, hence NO REVENGE BECAME NECESSARY.

This is 3 years old and is still GOLD... THANK YOU

@simmy.saini_official

5 жыл бұрын

matrixband12 agreed I needed this

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️.................

I watch this over and over and over and I'm so glad this video exists. :)

@nurberxo

8 жыл бұрын

+Life With Diana That makes what I do worth it. Thank YOU. 💙

a 5 year relationship is ending thank you I have all the tools to start to end the relationship permanently. God bless you.

@nurberxo

7 жыл бұрын

You're most welcome. xo

I watched her years ago for a breakup and it helped now I’m back for another heart break

Thank you for this video! It's comforting to see how many other women are here commenting and we are dealing with the same pain. My 4 yr boyfriend just broke up with me bc he realized he was "stringing me along because his heart isn't it, we don't have a connection and we were together only bc we were comfortable". I don't think it takes 4 yrs to realize if you have a connection to someone.. we had a great trusting, free, no drama relationship. and he showed absolutely no signs of unhappiness. Texted me everyday that he loved me and hung out with me and never was distant towards me. He just woke up one day and walked out of my life.. I'm trying to cope with this kind of rejection

Break ups Just sadness, disappointment, feeling lied to, lying to other cuz ur not okay. Everything that has been in our relationship has disappeared and u need to forget it :( Its okay, why should you be sad about something that wasn't meant to last forever

@mohammadakram8808

6 жыл бұрын

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@georgehester2412

6 жыл бұрын

Janelle Hamilton I am not talking by no one else will fall in love with you George Hester you are on your cellphone number 121676410

@SeanPoole

5 жыл бұрын

What if it was tho

@ddwow566

3 жыл бұрын

What hurts the most is when she said men just don’t care anymore like Fuck

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️..........,........

I have spent the last 5 months of this debilitating breakup looking for a video to help me, and this one hit the nail on the head. I'm downloading this audio on my phone. I love the neurological associations, because I study neuroscience and human development at my university. The breakup has torn me apart, my mind has been dragging me around like a big dog on a leash, but I'm trying to take control for once and this video has inspired me to do that. You've helped me more than I can explain. Thank you SO much

@nurberxo

7 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!!

@jenbear_

7 жыл бұрын

Alisa Flum how do you download it?

@AlisaFlum

7 жыл бұрын

any youtube audio converter, like vidtomp3.com or youtube-mp3.org! you can extract the audio and listen to it as an mp3

@MikeJackson690

5 жыл бұрын

I hope that 2 years on you're doing much better. I'm 4 months in and as broken as you described. I miss her so much.

@rheajoeyce3481

5 жыл бұрын

General Waste We all heal differently. But trust the process. Time will heal you and if you believe in God, ask him to give u strength daily.

I remember watching this back in 2015 when my ex had just broken up with me. Now it’s 2019 and I just got broken up with again, but this was a very serious relationship and was 2.5 years long. I am so glad this popped up in my feed because I remember how much you helped me! Thank you

@BlackAdam2784

2 жыл бұрын

How are things now ? Experiencing breakup, at the moment, myself :(

When you make the list, remember, it's not a "why they are a bad person list" it's a "why they weren't right for you list" this helped me get through without creating a negative outlook. stay strong and you can get through it! 😁👍

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️...............

You have no idea how much this has helped me. Today me and my partner of nearly 2 years parted ways. We ended on good terms but now it's started to turn into anger on my side. I'm angry and want answers. I done the wrong thing by breaking down on the phone to him. And after watching this I won't be doing that again. It's only been a matter of hours and this is so raw and hard. Thank you for posting this. I don't feel so alone anymore x

@diego40759

8 жыл бұрын

I'm going through a situation very similar to yourself right now, it happened less then 24 hours ago and I have already done the breaking down on the phone thing, presumably you are further along the stage of dealing with this then I am but still I'm here if you would like to talk to someone who is going through the same thing, if not then I'll leave you with that I'm certain you will find someone you will never need to part ways with, your a lovely looking girl and I'm sure you'll do fine

@justinagomez3339

8 жыл бұрын

Are you feeling any better? I'm going through the same thing right now and it feels like constant weight just weighing down my heart and it hurts.

@aysardrabick5021

8 жыл бұрын

+chloe north I'm going through a breakup as well, and I just want to tell you that you aren't alone! I'm right there with you! Here's a big hug! We'll both get through this! Just keep the faith!

@justinagomez3339

8 жыл бұрын

It hurts so much. One day we were fine, the next he just said he was bored and left. He's newly 18 so I think that may be apart of it.

Thank you SO SO SO much! I've been together with my boyfriend for amlost 1,5 years! He JUST broke up with me, and I don't know why! Right after it happened I watched this video! It made me feel so much better at once! I followed all of your steps! love love love this video, and I'm so gratefull that I found you here! Thank you, now I feel less like talking to him and fixing it! He has been on and off when it comes to us for the last 2-3 months and I've begged him numerous times not to leave me. I felt betrayed and less of a worthy person each time. And I've become a nervous wreck all since, everyone begged me to leave him but I loved him, I couldn't let go. He did. Thank you again! This is a lifesaver!

Hi you guys!! Even though this video is years old, it's still one of my most active videos and I get a lot of emails and messages about breakups. I took all my most-asked questions and created an in-depth workshop for getting over a breakup. I talk about how you should be dating to avoid dead-end relationships, how to stop thinking about your ex, a meditation/visualization in case you have to see your ex (or if you're feeling overwhelmed in a moment) and so much more! The class ended up being almost 4 hours. If you're still feeling stuck and you want to be like the breakup ninja I mention in this video, you can find the class here: www.TheBreakupNinja.com

@Anna-ht6sz

5 жыл бұрын

I really miss your videos. I hope you are fine.

@chrispatterson1019

5 жыл бұрын

The reason it's still popular is because you explained everything very well, and with emotion. You come across as very personable too. You're not to bad to look at either 😂

@eltorosanchez4158

5 жыл бұрын

I watched this 2x when I was going through it. Helped me a lot. Thank you!!

@chrispatterson1019

5 жыл бұрын

@@eltorosanchez4158 I hope mine gets better soon ! It's nice to see comments like yours that show it can be done.

@LoveLifeAndTheGame

5 жыл бұрын

Hi nurberxo, and thank you for this video. So much gold in this. I'm going through a painful breakup in which my ex left me for a guy she cheated on me with. He's well off and that's what attracted her to him (Even though she denies it). What makes it hard is the fact that we have a pair of twin boys together, and she obviously doesn't care how her decision affects them. She also has a 12 yr old son from her previous marriage who's been upset about the breakup. He doesn't like the new guy because he doesn't know how to relate to kids and tries to use his money to get him to like him. Moving on has been hard because I miss my boys, and have been avoiding them in order to avoid seeing her so I can speed up the healing process. Yesterday I took my sons and their older brother to the movies and one of my sons said: "I miss you daddy." It took every once of my body not to break into tears after he said that. I've never met a more selfish woman in my life and just want to let go and get her out of my system as fast as I can. At any rate, I thank you for having the heart to minister to people like myself and taking the time and energy to put good energy out there for all of us. I hope that life treats you kind always. Thx again for all your kind words.

I’m 43 years old and this is the most important thing I have EVER seen... the accuracy made me smile throughout 👌🏻

@egyptiana878

4 жыл бұрын

Since you’re an older woman you probably have been through so much more and I need your help. It’s almost been 2 weeks and I still haven’t gotten over him, not in the slightest. We were together for almost 3 years. I’m afraid that I never will find anyone like him. It’s my first breakup. What scares me is that I’ll never find someone I have so much in common with ever again. I’m scared that I will never find that connection ever again. How have you coped with your breakup(s). I already tried to get back with him. And it did not work. He wants to stay single. I feel hopeless.

@Annalyse74

4 жыл бұрын

Egyptiana awwww sweetheart ... first of all 2 weeks is absolutely nothing. A breakup is like a death you go through a process of grieving. You have to give yourself time. I asked myself all the same questions “who will smile at me the way he did, who will look at me the way he did, who will like all the goofy stuff I do” ... My last partner died after I posted this comment so I had no choice but to mentally move on but it’s been the most difficult 2 years of my life. What I learnt was to be happy being single (I still am) and to value myself enough not to settle for anything less than someone who meets my criteria. Once you realise that you deserve to be treated exceptionally well you stop trying to make the wrong relationship fit. One day you’ll think “why did I think this was perfect” and that won’t happen because you meet someone better it’ll happen because you stop needing too ❤️

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️...............

3 months ago my fiancée of 7.5 years left me. It's been the longest most devastating 3 months of my life, considering I'm 25 so have been with her my whole adult life. Due to be married in June my hearts just shattered and nothing takes away the pain, anxiety and loneliness. I have been stuck in the emotional quick sand just beating myself up, unable to stop thinking about her or messaging her. But today I watched your video Nurberxo and it's the first time I've felt temporary peace and relief. I welled up, and not to proud to admit it. But I love your philosophy it's refreshing to hear instead of, plenty more fish in the see or time heals!! It is hard, it is challenging but it's normal to feel this way. And at the stupid age of 25 before this video i did sadly give up on the idea of love. You have done me a great service, with your simple act of kindness for taking the time to post this video, is greatly appreciated.

@phoenixfire4640

6 жыл бұрын

MrBandit90 hello, how are you doing now that it’s a year later? i am currently going through a situation really similar to yours. 8 year relationship engaged, and he ended things with me because i kept hearing rumors of him cheating on me and he was tired of me questioning him. i am moving out of our apartment this week. it’s super devastating and suicide has crossed my mind because it’s so soul crushing.

@sjmendoza09

6 жыл бұрын

How are you doin now? I am currently going through the same situation. He end up everything because after moving to another country..he cant handle long distance relationship. All the plans we have just simply gone. 😭

@jojosspace8841

5 жыл бұрын

Phoenix Fire struggling with a devastating breakup right now too with someone I thought I’d marry :( my friends don’t really understand either.. how are you doing now?

@pookiiebaby

5 жыл бұрын

Jordan Sadler my relationship was 10 years with my now ex fiancée. She moved in her bff and they ended up having an affair right under my nose in MY house. Idk what to do, I lost my best friend and the love of my life. She attempted suicide when I confronted her. So now I’m grieving our future but am so afraid of losing her forever. I pray I write back next year and everyone is okay and happy

@jojosspace8841

5 жыл бұрын

Melissa Perez I will be thinking of you & hoping you find happiness too! I’m still dealing with my break up and my ex and me have been talking every now and then but I’m still very confused and hurt. I’m not sure what the right thing to do is but I hope it comes to me.

Brilliant, beautiful, and so loving of you to come on here and take the time to help others. May it come back to you ten fold.

@nurberxo

9 жыл бұрын

Yup, this comment made me a little teary-eyed. Touched. Thank you, Shelley ♥

@oscarwilliamson1264

3 жыл бұрын

Shelley9090,you look gorgeous 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🌺🌹 🌹🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

It’s now 2021. This message is spot on. It’s about dignity and self respect... self love. It’s about being able to walk away and mean it; and NOT looking back.

@clarahammar9307

3 жыл бұрын

hello dear do you need any help I. can help you out it worked 😘 me.. whtsap me let's chat better.😘😍🇺🇸

@clarahammar9307

3 жыл бұрын

+1(831) 612 2886..

it is hard to let go , especially the person means the whole world to you. I feel my world has fall apart. But, I believe I will get better, I will be fine. And Thank you so much for this video, I still believe in love.

@anissyaneena8145

3 жыл бұрын

How are u now after 2 years?

You are a blessing. I watched this yesterday and it turned everything around for me and I was feeling so optimistic. But then I woke up this morning with him on my mind and I felt sad again, so I decided to watch this video again. I will watch every morning until I really begin to feel better. This video is amazing, thank you!

I just broke up with my fiancé yesterday. We were together for 5 years and engaged for a year. I'm so heart broken even though I'm the one that ended things. I'm a freaking wreck right now and this video definitely helped me put things into perspective.

@laurenhowarth8708

8 жыл бұрын

+Ashley K hi how are you getting on?

@evansappiah9817

8 жыл бұрын

+Ashley K same thing happened to me recently =( just be strong n i know better days are coming

@Ashley_0108

8 жыл бұрын

+Evans Appiah It's been about a month now since we broke up and I can't believe I'm saying this but it was the best thing that ever happened to us. It gave us both time to work on ourselves. If we hadn't broken up I think things would have never changed and we would have both continued to be miserable together. Him and I now talk on a daily basis and are working slowly on getting back together.

@Ashley_0108

8 жыл бұрын

+lolo blue I was quite a mess and really depressed for a few weeks and then him and I slowly started talking and are now currently working on getting back together.

@evansappiah9817

8 жыл бұрын

I hope it works out of u

This is the 2nd break up that I used this video for help. She's awesome! Glad it's still available!

@alexdavid9335

2 жыл бұрын

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@tracyspencer1674

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

I watched this video two years ago when I was going through my first breakup and I'm here again in this dark place. This video always helps me 🙌🏽

@kirengangarh1493

2 жыл бұрын

Me too hope you are okay now…

My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday and it hurts so much. He was my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. We were having a hard time but I always thought it was worth it, that he was worth it but he didnt agree anymore

@SamarieSamos

6 жыл бұрын

i feel this so much

@mysticmango8499

6 жыл бұрын

I was given rings and promises. My ex accused me of making their mental health worse, when I was their coach and support. One day they loved me, the next day they didn’t even want to see me ever again. After being told for so long that they loved me it hurt so much.

@GAmeRzFiRSt77

5 жыл бұрын

How do you feel now?

@edgarsoto9184

5 жыл бұрын

How are you know?

@christymichaud

4 жыл бұрын

I'm going through what you are 3 and a half years he broke up with me by message and blocked me

My ex and I broke up a month ago because he felt our connection was gone and there was too much fighting. Now he's talking to his ex again that cheated on him, after spending our entire relationship telling me there was never anything to worry about with her. I needed this video for sure. Update: he cheated on me our entire relationship, and she has cheated on him many times since he left me for her. Karma, baby.

@thebluevoyage4317

6 жыл бұрын

he deserves a bitch like her and you deserve better!

@jorgeanner8577

6 жыл бұрын

How long did you two date?

@meganlu9210

5 жыл бұрын

He went back to his ex lol ! Let it be ... he can’t do any better then an ex . What a joke .

I will never ever believe in love again or put myself in this pain again… let them win if this will protect me from this enormous pain

I’m 5 minutes in and I already love the way you explain things and word things!!!

I'm in a long term relationship of four years, and very happily so. But I still watched this video from start to finish. NOT because I plan to go through a break up soon (Yes it might happen but I'm not planning for it!), but because I simply canNOT miss a Nur video. I know this isn't new information to you but Nur you are an incredibly intelligent, dignified and inspirational woman. I applaud you! You are an asset to the KZread community. x

@nurberxo

9 жыл бұрын

Absolutely blushing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!!

@LauraFinneganblog

9 жыл бұрын

She just my favourite too Laura.. She is amazing!!!

@billwright3797

9 жыл бұрын

nurberxo my best friend is going out with my x that I really like and she liked me to

@thivyanagamuthu6963

6 жыл бұрын

I agree! You are so incredible! You are like magic. I have very low self esteem and im working on getting better and everytime i watch your video i feel like i need to take action after your words of encouragement. I wish you were my friend

@skylerpresley8223

6 жыл бұрын

I just broke up from a 5 year long distance relationship last night. Are you still together? If you aren’t I could use some advice I feel like a zombie idk how to handle this. We ended amicably and are very much in love the distance and how busy we are was just piling up

watched every minute... the world is a better place with you in. sending LOVE your way. beautiful spirited woman. Thank you for being a caring enough person to send this out to us. I needed all of your words

@nurberxo

9 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Rose Wrapping up my day before getting to sleep, so this will be the last thing I read before I close my eyes. You put the biggest smile on my face. These are the kinds of comments that make me want to share a thousand more videos with you. Thank you so much. xoxo

@00angelbb

8 жыл бұрын

+nurberxo HEY! This is a bit late. but i wanted to follow up. Literally, 1 1/2 weeks later of deleting everything and doing EVERYTHING you suggested, he realized what he'd lost. I wasn't even trying. I genuinely was moving on the best way you taught me. And so weve been back together ever since and hes totally changed. I thought it would be temporary. I wasn't TRYING to get him back and even when he did come back I never expected it to last. We've now been together for 1year and 4 months. minus the 9 days apart. Honestly girl, im so happy, and what i realize now is i can totally live without him, I dont want to, but i totally could because doing what you told me, made me okay, in the time we were apart i really felt confident. Hard to explain, i just want everyone here to know that you are awesome, and genuine and so thankful for you. xo

I just want to say a massive thank you for making this video. I've recently come out of a 9 year relationship since we were 17 years old, a relationship I wasn't ready to come out of but she was. Taking the first few steps of changing their name, making a list, doing the social media side of things has helped me to take that tiny step forward. I still can't eat or sleep but after watching this video it's the first time I've felt I've made a forwards step. Thank you

Thank you for making this video. All of your advice really hits home and helps. The most important thing I took from this video is the end of believing in yourself. During the course and end of my relationship I was told that I did everything wrong, I was the failure, I was to blame and for 11 months so far I have lived with those words as the truth- and at times, stopped believing in myself. Some People will say or do anything to not share the blame, they will hurt you as in internal expression of themselves and their own demons. I still struggle with remembering all of the good times and things my ex did for me, how she did this or said that but easily forgot the bad things or how easy it was for her to end things. It’s like what Mathew McConaughey said, people are cable of amazing beautiful things and also capable of cruel and horrible things...and even both at the same time: that’s why there are people out there who can say “I love you, you are so amazing” and then cheat on you later that night. For the most part, trust in your heart and trust in your intuition. Always strive to be better each and every day, even if it’s .00001 percent better. Never give up, no matter how tough it is even if you think you can’t get through it. Always bet and believe on and in yourself. It’s still a fight but that means I just loved and cared that deeply...I just want to say thanks for the video and you gave me a little hope, a little strength to continue on this path of becoming a stronger better person and believing in myself. Take care. ~Rob

I actually saw you video a few years ago and I am going thru a break up now and feel like it helped me so much. Every time I am going into a spiral, I will listen to this video again.

You are an amazing and beautiful human being. Your words touched my heart and you reminded us all that after breakups we deserve to be happy.

I have to tell u this. Out of 10k vids I saw on KZread, this one is the most practical. The strength and self respect u emphasize is beyond amazing. Thank you.

“YDB” is brilliant

This was just so perfect. I've been going through a breakup, a bit different than some because my ex and I ended on great terms, but this last month I'll I've been thinking is everyone else looks so happy. Everyone else is in a good place. Everyone else has found their match and here I am being miserable. Watching the video and reading the comments made me feel not so alone. And everything you said made sense. Especially the emotions you go through by just getting a text. And the end made me cry when you said don't give up on love and you're going to be ok. I needed that. Thank you so much. You're amazing.

@AHRin2u

9 жыл бұрын

I empathize with you so much on this. Many of my friends are either in relationships or engaged or married, and here I am...still single. BUT! I've learned to embrace my singlehood, and found different things to do that make ME happy. And because of that, being single doesn't seem so bad anymore. I hope you are able to do the same. Take care of YOU. You are the most important person in your life. Be happy and I hope you are able to find joy in your life :)

@nurberxo

9 жыл бұрын

This so touched my heart. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!

How about this: the person you love and trust took a long hard look at your relationship and awesomeness that is you and said "no thanks, I'll try my luck somewhere else" You are worthy of everything you seek! Do not text text them! Not calling him eventually sends the bigger message. This speaks volumes and despite the heart break and loss, the reason you are not hearing from me is because I'm taking care of myself and moving in with my fabulous new life👑 There is nothing worse than blowing all your hard work and successful self preservation on a drunk or weak dialling impulse The longer you dwell on the fact that the person your trusted tore you to pieces delays you being happy Do not get caught up in dwelling over someone who is clearly happier with out you Anyone that views you and your relationship as disposable is not worthy of your time and tears You deserve so much better ❤️ These quotes help me so much. whip them out when you need to be reminded of how great you are

@kat21038

8 жыл бұрын

That's good

@cuteminx121

8 жыл бұрын

fantastic quote thanks for posting!

Three years ago I collected several videos of yours and converted them into mp3 to listen to your amazing voice and pieces of advice massively on a regular basis, and the end result was that I improved my English substantially thanks to you!! You are awesome!!! And this was one of those videos... Thank you so much, Nur!!

I know this video is old but I’m so glad I came across it. It’s also comforting to see ppl of all ages n coming from different lengths of relationships here. Hope everyone is able to heal n get through this tough time. Keep looking ahead you

I just left my jr high sweetheart after 13yrs. We have 3 kids. I needed this, thank you!

@bitsybitty2730

7 жыл бұрын

Sara B he's always has anger issues (he's been physically abusive, but everyday is emotional abuse from him. He's a very reactive person & loves to get others riled up), but the past year things have gotten out of control. Once he started taking things out on the kids (verbally) is when I knew I needed to get out. The past year he also became financially abusive. I'm in debt up to my neck right now every bill and loan in my name, car was repossessed (later that day I decided to kick him out). It's been a week (longest I've been without him) & as much stressing about money I have going on, my home feels at peace for once. There's so much that went on. I mean it was 12 & a half yrs of my life with him, I could write a book about it all.

@JeniferJay

5 жыл бұрын

bitsycaramel Hey I know you wrote this 2 years ago, but how do you feel about it now? I hope you’re okay and doing well in life:)

This video was.... perfect. If you ever write a book. Im buying 10 copies! :)

@nurberxo

9 жыл бұрын

Hahaha!! Thanks, Alex!!

@sanramoncali

5 жыл бұрын

nurberxo You are the greatest, thank you so much for this video, watched it more than once and it helped a lot!! P. S. I thought only my brother did that stuff for me!?! 😆. Mine does the following routine like clockwork: empathy, listen, make me laugh in the middle of crying (via sarcastic humor aimed at those who hurt me 😆), refocus, questions, and action plan!

@jenna6556

5 жыл бұрын

MonsiieurAlex nOPE dude make that 1000000000 copies 😂

To be honest this has been the only video about moving on on youtube that I've been able to understand. Thanks!

Bright, Well-spoken and beautiful. Please don't stop making videos !

This helped, but I have no one to talk to because my friends aren't really there for me.

@stef422

7 жыл бұрын

Isabella Layman same

@palomajo1719

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@lisa_mirz_1833

5 жыл бұрын

Same.....here

@wesammmm5432

5 жыл бұрын

It’s not easy. I know it’s very difficult and I’ve been there. However when your ex moves on and find another partner, the best thing for you to do is to not rush and find a replacement ASAP. Instead explore your options and remember that the same way you loved your ex, you’ll definitely be able to love someone else who actually deserves it this time.

@RochellBarbara4690

5 жыл бұрын

I totally feel you

Thank you so much for this. I got into a relationship young and it lasted for years. I continued our relationship under the impression that we'd be married meanwhile he was pulling away and becoming distant. He let his mom bring me his things and broke up with me over text. (He's 22 btw) I'm proud of myself for handling it the way I have but I have my weak moments and this video helped that❤️ Proud to say that even though his behavior was selfish it no longer concerns me and I am moving on!!

I’ve been looking for a perfect after breakup video. Thank you, your words and soul are just beautiful ❤️

I only cried 5 times during this video. Thank you so much. I can't explain how much you've helped me. You're magical ❤️

It's important to understand and accept that you are not responsible for other people's happiness, you are responsible for your own happiness. My personal opinion is exes are exes for a reason, and I am not about that taking exes back life, no matter who broke up with who, or for what reason(s). It took me over 6 months to get over my ex, but I am in a good place now, and I want to remind anyone reading this, who is still trying to get over a relationship, that you will get over it. Even if right now, you don't think you can. You have a mourning process to go through, and that's natural and important, but it will get better. Every relationship teaches you about yourself and your needs, so every relationship that doesn't have a happy ending, is still a learning opportunity, which eventually will help you find a better, healthier and happier relationship.

I'm not one to listen to videos over 10 minutes long but I listened to every single word. I've just experienced my first time being on the receiving end of the break up & it was with my first real relationship. I thought I had no hope left and I had no idea what to do and how to cope but after listening to this video I feel much more confident and hopeful. I can't thank you enough. I hope you have a wonderful life because you deserve all the best. You're changing lives. Thank you❤️

Omg I just took PSY last semester and learned about Pavlov theory. I love how you introduced your video in stating it’s just voice and no images like we can listen when driving. THEN you broke down this video so cleverly. Omg you’re amazing.

Thank you ❤ In the back of my mind I already knew so much of this but you reinforced it with such grace. Your confidence is amazing and inspiring and surrounding myself with such positive things as this is exactly what I needed.

This was so thorough and helpful. Thank you. I'm going through it now and it was so nice to watch a video with realistic advice, instead of "f him you deserve better" stuff.....

@nurberxo

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you and sending you my best!!

@MR-ds1mp

7 жыл бұрын

agreed !! realistic goals

@sidneysolis2575

7 жыл бұрын

My Restorative Wellness I'm going thought the same wish you all the best prayers for you stay strong 💕us girls can do this !god bless you

@oscarwilliamson1264

3 жыл бұрын

Lavender.dreaming88,so sad😪to hear that you are going through that

Thank you for creating this video. I've been taking notes and applying to the techniques everyday. You are totally awesome!

Finally different pieces of advice! Thank you so much! This will definitely help me! My boyfriend of four years broke up with me less than a month ago. I didn’t know how in the world to deal with this mess! Most advice I got was it will take time to get over this, don’t think about him, don’t talk to him( he would message me, but I ignored him and block him) officially hate Instagram! I didn’t know you could block people. Took me a week after we broke up to figure out how to block him! I wish someone showed me how to block people earlier! That was an emotionally rough two weeks. Then to this day I think I miss him because of blah blah blah. I’m definitely writing a list! Again this video is very helpful!🙂💕

Thank you so so much!!! I really needed this. I just lost my relationship of 12 yrs with my high school sweet heart. She left me with 8 yr daughter who happens to have Autism. I know my main priority right now is my daughter and I’m trying my hardest to play mom and Dad seeing as she doesn’t even look for her. My heart crumbles every time my little girl asks for her mommy. I have to turn away so she doesn’t see my tears flood my eyes. Mom has a very unfortunate drug addiction and I’ve tried helping and supporting for 5 yrs but as of two months ago she’s disappeared without a trace. I miss her so much and go my day masquerading as a happy going father and person but at nights I’m still breaking down. Your kind words and your delivery were very sincere and resonated with me. Your beautiful inside and out and I hope nothing but blessings and success come your way. Thankyou and please put some of that beautiful positive cosmic energy out into the universe for my daughter and I because we are both in a great deal of pain and can really use some positivity. Thankyou.

@lorrainesmith4279

6 жыл бұрын

Hello Julio, I hope you don't mind me replying to you.....I have asked the universe to send some love and healing to you and your daughter......you sound like a wonderful Dad and I believe that you and your daughter will help each other to get through this really painful time in your lives, good luck to you sir, Love from London, England, xxx

My husband wants to divorce. We have a 7 year old son. In situations like this you aren't able to simply walk away and never talk. He was the one great love of my life, and my heart is shattered. I want to believe my life will get better and I will survive. It's just so hard. He spend half of this Summer cheating on me, too. I never thought at this stage of my life I would have such a sense of betrayal, heartache, and desperation. I want to move forward, try and minimize the damage on our poor child, and take care of myself. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to face.

@nickygoldsmith6785

7 жыл бұрын

My bf just finished with me after seven years this week. I feel like my heart has literally been ripped out of my chest. Everyone says I will be fine but I just don't feel it right now xx

@vanessahinds1491

7 жыл бұрын

Nicky Goldsmith I don't feel like anything will ever be "fine" again. I hear you. I never imagined a human could endure such pain and not die. I'm just trying to get through hour by hour. I'm not even at "one day at a time". Hugs to you xoxoxoxo. AT least know this-you are NOT alone.

@nickygoldsmith6785

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you. It hurts so much right now but I know I will get stronger xx

@themoonbleu627

6 жыл бұрын

Vanessa Hinds you will be ok starting working out

@mazzzzz4798

6 жыл бұрын

I never want this to happen to me bro.. this is some new level of heartbreak. I don’t want to experience this.. I’m truly sorry

Kinda sucks that I practically have no friends to lean on for support since I lost touch with most if not all my friends I had before entering into the relationship I had. She was practically my one and only best friend. Now I honestly feel so lost, I've literally nobody to talk to or pour out my feelings to. It sucks but the sadness and everything is just eating me alive. I think honestly the worst thing is trying to sleep at night when all you can do is think about all the good times and how they'll never be those again and it just keeps you up the entire night. I've been through a breakup before and I thought hey I can handle this, sadly I was terribly mistaken, breakups get harder each time as you grow older. Just need someone to talk to :(

@raramoss6453

5 жыл бұрын

Im sorry.

@zellenrelacion3989

5 жыл бұрын

Umair Irfan this is two years ago. So I wonder what’s up with after those years..

@zaink7037

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that brother. Hope everything has gone way better for you since you posted 2 years back. Do you have any family members you can talk to? I was speaking to my aunt about my heartbreak I have over a girl who's likely married and has a child now 4 years after we went our separate ways after college.

@ummzicle

4 жыл бұрын

it’s been 3 years! things definitely have changed tremendously in the last 3 years that for sure. I am still single, but it’s not sad or anything. i grew a lot more than i ever have in this last 3 years and i’ve to say that it gets better with time for sure you just need to find something that keeps you occupied always. since then i’m in med school now, 3rd year medical student and life is pretty amazing despite all this corona shit going on rn hahah. i do feel lonely sometimes and wish i had someone but it’s okay it’s not too bad and i do think about my ex sometimes but all i hope is that she is happy wherever she is right now. life gets better and you become the person you are today from those past experiences.

@zaink7037

4 жыл бұрын

@@ummzicle really happy to hear bro 😊. Good on you also for getting yourself into medicine. At least you can look at yourself and be happy with where you are at the moment and insha Allah be more successful than that girl. I'm currently doing a masters in UCL and hope to try and get into this training program to become a scientist but with CoronaVirus they had to cancel the interview process anyway. I think that feeling of loneliness is normal. It's been a month since I heard about the girl I liked but I am slowly starting to feel really happy with myself more than I think I ever did when we started liking each other. If she did get married then I sometimes wonder if she focused on her teaching degree or is even working. I've started building my self respect and actually start to not care so much on other people like their relationships with others etc. Do wish the best for you and hope we both do really well in terms of our education and careers. This lockdown doesn't help and I can't go out to uni or my work placements

OMG I’m so grateful for your video message! It’s simply outstanding how much I was able to grasp and understand about my current situation, by listening and applying your tips and advices. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video! I have watched so many other videos that talk about this subject, and needless to say, I’ve spent countless hours on KZread trying to find the best solutions that could help me to productively deal with my pain after my boyfriend broke up with me for the 3rd time. Out of all of the other videos I’ve watched, this definitely was the most helpful video I saw. It’s just clear and to the point. Once again, thank you for your video! I definitely subscribed to your channel and I’m looking forward to learning so much more from you! 😊🙏🏼✨💖

You’re magical and an angel💖 thank you for bringing the hope to continue my own life to the fullest and leaving the people behind that doesn’t deserve me!🙏🏼

I can't explain to you how worth-watching this was to me. I have sent you one of those long-emails about the breakup. And this is the response I needed to hear. This is no longer about the breakups, this is about life. I fell into depression, not only because of that breakup, that was just a little part that helped my depression to grow. I need to find my life worth living, start to respect myself, there'll be a lot of work for me if I wanna get out of this shit. :) That's why I'll watch this vid over and over, it is really helpful in so many ways. I love you and you are a great person, Nur!

Love, love, love! So genius to change the name of the person in your phone. I noticed myself getting super excited every time I would see that person's name or hear their special tone, changing the name to something constructive and the tone is so awesome. Thank you for sharing!

This really hit home, you articulated your point emphatically, & I can't thank you enough, for taking time out of your day to share this message, thank you from the bottom of my heart 🤗

I sat and watched this whole video..You are incredibly on point with all you said. It definitely hit home, especially with the text tones and social media. I'm in that dark place right now, but I have faith it won't last forever. Thank you for your wise advice...

Nur, I don't usually comment but I had to give u a huge Thanks! I have watched this video a 100x and I feel like your a friend offering great advice, giving me strength and hope. Many Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us!

I watched this months ago, before I even ended things with my boyfriend. We were going through rough times, and it helped me realize that if I chose to end it, it will be okay. It gave me the strength to make the decision I needed to make but couldn't find the courage to. I finally ended it today. So here I am watching it again and it definitely reassured me I made the right choice. I feel so much better already! Thank you.

I really love how constructive yet light-hearted it was! It started off a foundation for me thank you so much

My ex is now Y.D.B in my phone. Thank u. Such great advice!

@flowerchildhippiechick5636

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@donnamcdonald5376

4 жыл бұрын

why did you keep them in your phone? just curious? Ive heard to block them out of your life completely helps the most

@leighannmcgowan4859

4 жыл бұрын

@@donnamcdonald5376 I agree it doesn't make any sense to keep them on your phone ...your not together anymore ...

@layla7497

3 жыл бұрын

SAME!! Just got cheated on after 2 years living together working hard and supporting our future but also.. that’s ONLY 2 years!! Gotta remind myself there WILL be better

@nella10123

3 жыл бұрын

How are you now three years later?

I absolutely loooooooved this video

@nurberxo

9 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@zazappp9602

3 жыл бұрын

+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️...............

Thank you so much....I was like texting my ex and doing this thing of not being mean, and falling into this vicious circle where I thought that I can move foward trying to accept we were no longer together while still communicating with him. And it's crap. You can't force a frienship if your emotions are involved in the way a breakup can do. And damn, your video really helped me to.. kind of remind myself that everything will be ok. I had this moment before and it really took me time, bunch of tears and I lost A LOT of dignity just because I belived in second, third, fourth chances. Sometimes, people are really afraid of being alone and that, another person won't care about you the way your ex did. More crap. Sooo true that WE ALL deserve better. And if we really believe it, we're all gonna get there. Its simple as...If a person really wants to be with you, believe me, he or she will. No matter what. Thank you again girl! Hugs from Venezuela.

Fruit for thought. Thank you. It's been a month since my ex broke my heart and watching this and other similar videos today only confirms that I am on the right path to healing. Thank you again!

Just got out of an emotional abusive relationship, I was with him for 3 years and I finally left. I'm heartbroken but relieved at the same time.