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@gbstocks2982

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏 Im

@hiddenflower3901

2 жыл бұрын

I hate him 😪

@juwonabdulfatai8157

2 жыл бұрын

Thank youuuuuu ❤️

@bettydiggs2563

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you I will try to get it.

@bernardlee6923

2 жыл бұрын

Im going through this right known.

Forgive yourself for loving them . Forgive yourself for seeing the best in them . Forgive yourself for being patient with them . Forgive yourself for holding on to the relationship. Forgive yourself for everything

@nunya257

5 жыл бұрын

Omg just out of nowhere your comment made me start crying. I'm going to screenshot it. Thank you.

@felishapittman2778

5 жыл бұрын

@@nunya257 I said the same thing.

@aweleo.1220

5 жыл бұрын

Well put. Very articulate Esther. Thank you.

@crystalday84

5 жыл бұрын

I needed this.....

@Tadiee

4 жыл бұрын

🙇‍♀️

I just want tha pain to b gone 😭

@denbysk8

4 жыл бұрын

Im feeling it as well keep strong were in this together

@ninazenayac.9150

4 жыл бұрын

I’m feeling you!

@timarishill3053

4 жыл бұрын

Me too sis😭😭😭😭

@fye_9193

4 жыл бұрын

Feel like I’m dying,being hard to get up out of bed. Sleeping to much i just want to get well man 🙇🏾

@corina6772

4 жыл бұрын

How you guys doing?

Being single i found it a blessing. You gain clarity about who YOU are. Wisdom where you lacked. You can listen to God.

@Bakezonline

5 жыл бұрын

Your so right jermetra, since i left my last relationship last summer, ive got closer to god, been able to indentify my gift , start a blog/business. you get a lot of clarity and clear vision.. i will say there moments where u feel lonely but you get past those... god bless you and your future

@freedom123-j8j

5 жыл бұрын

@@Bakezonline How did u identify ur godgiven gift?

@Bakezonline

5 жыл бұрын

@@freedom123-j8j hey Claudia, its funny because steve harvey broke it down which made me identify my gift rather quickly. he said your gift is the thing you do the absolute best with the least amount of effort.. i love to write and words come to me so naturally.. i wrote to my best friend who was in jail for 4 years and it didn't really feel like chore. after prayer and steve harvey breaking it down i came to that conclusion so to further show off my skill i started a website and growing it.. its very slow atm but i'm here for the long game and i know i will do it full time one day.. so my advice to you Claudia is what you do the best without much effort.. we can even reverse engineer your gift, the bible says your gift will make room for you. my question for you is , is there anyone you do really well that progresses you, is constantly noticed by other people who need what you do. remember a gift isn't just what society celebrates ( singing , acting , rapper, athletes etc ) it could be drawing, painting, writing, public speaking, event management anything!! u have a gift, go find it love!!! i might make a youtube video on this.. lastly read the story in the bible, parable of talents... you have it in you !!! god bless!!!!

@freedom123-j8j

5 жыл бұрын

@@Bakezonline big thanks for the reply and your detailed advice. I appreciate it a lot. I wish u success with ur website!:)

@Bakezonline

5 жыл бұрын

@@freedom123-j8j no problem love!!! x

I swear after moving on i won’t allow my heart to be played again

@freedom123-j8j

3 жыл бұрын

Never ever again. Pray for wisdom and discernment when dealing with ppl.

@mohammdlisatasha1600

3 жыл бұрын

I've tried many witch to bring back my lost love cos she was charmed spiritual by another man but no witch could help me break the luckily for I got recommendation on babavoodoo488@gmail.com who helped me break the spell in no time contact him today if you need help on all kinds of incurable disease he is a real witch and genuine power

@hunsbuns...

3 жыл бұрын

Yep! Im pretty sure I've been with a narcissist this whole time. He discarded me 3 weeks ago. After 18 years together this all makes sense, he used his sly skills to keep me there until he found a new supply. All these years didnt realise it was narcissistic behaviour, just thought thats how he is and it was normal. When he broke it off, it was the most lies I've ever heard. Its me its not you, im not happy, need to be alone find myself, we kept trying but didn't work (he never tried only when he wanted) we're different, i was showing signs. My god i saw every single sign. Absolute mixed signs and I didnt know that's a form of manipulation. Every other break up was arguing and yelling this one was too calm. He knew when to use me and discard me. I always apologised he never once did even for the smallest thing. Made me question my sanity? He has his chat with me and was done. Fast forward a few days im obviously a mess got completely blindsided! My gut was telling me no, it's that hes got someone new. My suspicions were correct! This whole time behind my back he was talking to someone and used me slowly until he was ready to have the 'chat' with me. I went over to confirm my suspicion and that POS after 18 years that I gave him my whole world and what my family gave him he just shat on it! He opened the door and he knew right then oh crap, I just got caught out, but I only knew because I saw her car in his driveway and he quickly tried to hide us from seeing each other. I asked him to be a man and step outside and give me the honest truth and all he could say is you need to leave, she clearly didn't have a clue he even had a gf this whole time because when I started screaming out hes a cheater a liar and everything under the sun the first thing he did was yell youre a psycho! Im glad i did because she wouldn't have had a clue, so if it happens to her one day, then I warned her! But I keep thinking he will change and treat her like a queen the way i shouldve been treated.A psycho because I've been hurt and betrayed and asking you the truth?! So he was making me out to be crazy and threatening to call the cops!!! The cops because he got busted with the lies and this girl didn't know anything coz he has fed her with lies! I knew there was more to it when he deleted his social media and he would never do that when I would ask him to because he was infatuated over the instagram models and then say to me no we like natural girls this is all fake, but then still be obsessed with them and that im just insecure! I am so disgusted that allowed my whole time, body and soul to this guy! I gave him my world my heart! He stomped on it all for his new supply?! He used me to better himself for the next person?! That is evil! This is a guy that lost his family and we took him under our wings living with my family gave him a whole new life and he simply shat on us all! The lies and manipulation he has caused me. He's made me feel worthless so disgusting I can't even look at myself while he's already happy out there with someone that I didnt get to see, to see why she is better than me? But I have to think, STOP, its not you. He lied his was with her like he did with you. POS! I've never felt this low in my life. My mental state, he has ruined! Belittled me and I took it all because I just thought i can help him hes depressed or I loved him?! Who does that to another person and wakes up living and breathing like you did not do anything wrong?! All these unanswered questions how did it happen? When did it happen? What does she have I dont? Who is she? Where did you meet? How did I not see anything? My mind is nuts! Im in so much pain from 1 person?! How could 1 person ruin your life and go about their day with the next person? Ao sick! Sick to think he did this for God knows how long and I was used. He mentally detached himself ages ago and I didnt see it? He manipulated me so much that I was the insecure one its all in my head! To only be with me this whole time acting up and down and she was there all along?! So sick! To call the cops? That is insane! It was all about his ego and to make me look pathetic in front of her! Goes to show no matter how long someone can be in your life can still shit on it and continue with theirs! I will definitely get a 'i didnt want to hurt you response' or protect you! Hell no! You did it to protect yourself and your new supply so she doesn't know the real you! POS i didnt see anything in his phone!! He obviously was deleting msgs. Im furious ! If only I dug more I could have ended this months ago because there is no way this had just happened the day after we broke up. He planned it. Especially due to being stuck in a pandemic and being on lockdown for 5 months not being able to see anyone he planned it. I dont know how I didnt see it! I can't get past this. Im constantly thinking how blinded I was to not see it! There were red flags (now I see them), but during the time he just kept reassuring me its in my head! I feel like such an idiot! I guess, he'll love her more than me, treat her better and change for her! Im so mad as I kept asking the last few months what are we? Im over getting treated differently everyday and he would just bypass the conversation or come up with something shitty and be like oh you this or you that and then I'd either cry and leave or I would apologise! If I threatened to leave im done I've had enough of this treatment he'd smirk and I'd leave not speak to him and he would get in touch with me in a week and be like hey, I dont wanna argue if were gonna argue ill be over it and he'll ignore me! How many times he would ignore me for a week or so while I would beg for him to just speak to me. Beg and cry to speak. Oh it was sickening. I fought and fought and im at the bottom. We had broken up for 2 years at one stage it took me a year to get on with my life and I thought ok we've both grown we know what we want now, well looks like I did and this whole time he was just using me until he found someone better. I feel so sick and disgusting and am afraid how will I get past this? Im scared if I dont. Im trying my hardest and its killing me. Not even the decency or respect to be honest and tell me he was never in it for full term. I close my eyes every night and i can't sleep I panic all over again. How did I not know or see anything? How did I get so fooled? I see the signs now, even with our dog that he supposedly loved so much, he stopped asking for her all makes sense now because he couldn't tell her why she wasn't there when she'd be around! I feel like a fool. An idiot. Disgusting, worthless every single thing you can feel. Cheating is bad enough, but forming an actual relationship with someone while you didn't end the other one is pure evil! And I saw nothing! I asked so many times i cant handle this what are we I cant keep going on like this and just knew how to manipulate me and keep me in until he was ready to let me go! Who does that? Just leave. Break up I dont deserve this

@mentalwealth6454

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. That’s me. I’m going to be single for the rest of my life.

@RocBoiBaccInTown

3 жыл бұрын

But i still believe in love...i dont wanna live like i dont wanna be in love.

It's not the breakup that I struggle with, it's the rage and resentment at the damage he did on his way out.

Getting "under someone else" will not help you at all. It will just cause another soul tie and confusion. Get completely healed and focus on your growth.

@a.d.phillips4948

4 жыл бұрын

💯🎯

@MikeJackson690

4 жыл бұрын

Yep. It absolutely does not work and hurts the other person, and eventually yourself even more.

@jovan1220

4 жыл бұрын

I made that same mistake

@jsfempowers

4 жыл бұрын

So true getting under someone else will not help at all.

@veejea6957

3 жыл бұрын

Not at all...you just put the love and energy you had for the other person into the next, and we’re never healed. And at the end, you will hurt more😖.

I agree it probably wasn't Love but a Unhealthy Attachment to a person who was not suppose to be in our life permanently anyway.

@adenijimayowa801

4 жыл бұрын

This got me

@meekashabazz6135

4 жыл бұрын

george rachford me too 💔

@adenijimayowa801

4 жыл бұрын

@@meekashabazz6135 can we connect

@meekashabazz6135

4 жыл бұрын

george rachford I’m 💔 not Desperate!!!

@renay1025

3 жыл бұрын

girl yes!!!

This spoke to me honestly. I think my issue is being too available and always waiting for the person. I need to focus on myself more. I think my problem was that I wasn't letting myself accept the fact that I let my guard down and I let someone in my life who wasn't supposed to do all that damage to my heart.

3 жыл бұрын

Omg this comment hit my soul! My exact problem as well. And it sucks cuz everyone says not to be too available for a man but when you love him and cherish his company and good times what is availability?!?! Too bad we as women now have to hold back. But I understand now. We cannot wait on him. We must be comfortable with our own lives and our own space. Blessings to you 💞💞

@jamesmiles1911

3 жыл бұрын

Hi i think i night be able to help If you don't mind can we talk privately on Hangouts my email is isaacmoses457@gmail.com

@islandstreetmuscle6200

3 жыл бұрын

James Miles Soft ass

@emmam2602

3 жыл бұрын

Me to

@trvpluiss

3 жыл бұрын

well since you experienced this, may i personally tell you my situation and can u tell me what you think i should do. so basically i’ve been with this girl for 4 years, Since 8th grade of middle school She called the relationship off and decided to be freinds and take a break. I didnt honestly want to do that but i let it be. I’m giving her so much attention , effort, and energy to see her, talk to her, etc. But she keeps saying “ tmwr tmwr “ which ends turning into never. I’ve been telling her to call me to help us fix this but nope, nothing. If i don’t call her, she doesn’t. It’s been a week. i’ve been waiting and waiting for her texts, calls, etc. I never get her calls but she went from answering in under 5 mins to now 20-30. I’m confused on what to do, she called this relationship off but i have not seen ANYY effort from her and she’s so dry with me now. And also, i forgot to mention that she literally makes me wait for her, everything is on her time.

Being single and learning to love yourself is paramount before you can even m fathom learning to love someone else.

@toddlagerholm2304

3 жыл бұрын

Learned this the hard way and I feel bad for those I've dated thinking it would fix my pain

@augustinekola9402

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah absolutely

@djbvvbhj4647

3 жыл бұрын

@@toddlagerholm2304 Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

@djbvvbhj4647

3 жыл бұрын

Whatspp**him*

@djbvvbhj4647

3 жыл бұрын

+-2-3-4-7-0-4-8-7-8-1-1-0-4

😫Unhealthy attachment💔💔... I just saw my reflection in the mirror.

@Superman-xr1oh

4 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks How do you know if it's unhealthy or not?

@Hannah1993P.

3 жыл бұрын

You will be fine! Force yourself to reject this relationship! You are helping yourself this way! Otherwise, you will not focus on yourself, your goals, and your future! This person will control easily each thought in your head! Go and survive! I was in your situation! It is not easy. However, after you release yourself from those feelings, you will feel yourself a new person full of life, wisdom, and power! Merry Christmas! 😊

This made me cry.. I have to let go of what no longer serves me. Do more damage holding on then letting go.

@valerieshinia8526

3 жыл бұрын

Hugs

@jahvincikingdamani4718

3 жыл бұрын

YOU DESERVE BETTER

@sansuggs

3 жыл бұрын

It's so hard. It's hurts extremely bad.

@shakiyyahking6378

2 жыл бұрын

I was broken then, feels good to move forward. The past is the past for a reason. No thanks 😊 I’ll keep moving forward.

@jadapalmer4356

3 ай бұрын

​@sansuggs - I hope that you are doing well and that you're enjoying life now without them.

Feel like im gonna die sometimes. 5 years gone at the snap of a finger and minimized to a friend. You speak with wisdom and truth. Thank You

@sharnashields7118

3 жыл бұрын

Girl same I’m in so much pain . How you doing ?

@dolledupdiana7131

3 жыл бұрын

@@sharnashields7118Thanks for asking 🙂... your comment is timely. I can't believe its been 9 months. Lets just say Im not in the same place I was then. Coming back to this comment is a reminder that bad times don't last always. The time varies with each individual but your process of healing will come with working towards it and time. ❤🤗 Sending love and positivity your way.

@sharnashields7118

3 жыл бұрын

@@dolledupdiana7131 that’s great . And it’s good you’re in a different place as noone deserves this pain . My ex texted me today after day four of no contact . He said “are you okay “ I replied hours later “I’m good u?” He replied “ yeah I’m good “ and I didn’t reply after that as what is there for me to say to that and as I’m meant to be playing it cool ? I don’t know if he will message me again

@dolledupdiana7131

3 жыл бұрын

hes probably just trying to test out the temperature and see if your gonna be emotional and pouring out to him. Its good u didn't.

@Ejayseejay

3 жыл бұрын

@@dolledupdiana7131 girls...I’m in serious pain right now. I just ended a 5yr relationship and I don’t know what to fucking do...it hurts so much

I agree with this💙 I've been single for awhile now, but I'm just focusing on becoming a better person each day & building a closer relationship with god.💜🙏

@beautifulme6630

5 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I sure will🙏 Thanks Stephan😊😉

@paulaprice4605

5 жыл бұрын

Me too sis

@beautifulme6630

5 жыл бұрын

@@paulaprice4605 Yes Sis. I pray things get well for you.😍😘

@jamesmiles1911

3 жыл бұрын

Hi

@jamesmiles1911

3 жыл бұрын

Can we have a private conversation if you don't mind my email is isaacmoses457@gmail.com I'm on Hangouts hope to getting a reply from you

All my breakups were a blessing in a disguise❤❤❤❤

Unhealthy attachment is exactly what it was it wasn’t love at all thank you for the clarification!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

My Step by Step process of Moving on. 1. Pray 2. Bonding moments with my Friends. 3. Forgive & 4. Let Go.

@ugliestart8265

3 жыл бұрын

i dont have any friends...sigh.

@fathomD

3 жыл бұрын

@@ugliestart8265 same

@ugliestart8265

3 жыл бұрын

@@fathomD i understand

@fathomD

3 жыл бұрын

@Shai444lol lol same as not having frens. Welcome to our group mate😂😂

@bettydiggs2563

2 жыл бұрын

I did that on the first one and i did fine. But this one is different from my other relationship. I am in love this time and it seems to grow stronger each time I try and cut it off. The feelings I have now or of my heart and not physical as before. We talk and share things with each other about ourselves and family. It's just different this time.

It was very very hard to break up with him I love him i still love him very much but I noticed the relationship was consuming me. The moment I broke things off like literally two weeks had went by and I found myself praying more, fasting more I even decided that I would diligently work on my business. I didn't want to do this but it's the best thing that has happened to me. My relationship with myself and God went from 5 to 8. To me that's big.

@karenwiggins8512

4 жыл бұрын

Am happy for you.put that love all over yourself.nice move an inspiring. #Stay Strong 🤓

@karabokhumalo1419

3 жыл бұрын

Bryana, How are you holding up now?

@wassimrafey5181

3 жыл бұрын

But ull settle down eventually, i guess love is replaceable.

@kikkysamuel7180

3 жыл бұрын

God!! I needed to see this

@kikkysamuel7180

3 жыл бұрын

Please can I have your contact?

"Sometimes you werent in love, you were just in an unhealthy attachment"....Wow!!! this total discribes EVERYTHING

I've come to a place to finally remain single for a reasonable time to heal & give Christ my heart to truly heal to my core & grow. Gain clarity, focus on my two kids, focus on my career & allow myself to trust in God to place the right man in my life. My heart is tired of failed relationships, and I just want a real break to rebuild my peace in Christ.

@dgavin3000

Жыл бұрын

You still haven't told me how to heal

* Flow with your feelings. If you love them you love them. No contact. Stay focus. * Forgiveness - letting go of the disappointment * “Not really in love just an unhealthy attachment “ ..... I was blown away with that statement. Light bulb 💡 turned on. Wow! You’re a blessing Stephan. I needed to hear that today.

@kristenk708

23 күн бұрын

How do i know if it is an unhealthy attachment or love?

I was in a really unhealthy and toxic relationship for 7 years, and I thank god I found the strength to leave. I know I wasn't in love, just attached.

@DiscoveringMe1111

3 жыл бұрын

How did you do it? Im trying so hard to leave a toxic 7 year relationship.

@BreadnButtuh

2 жыл бұрын

I’m in a relationship that’s toxic between us but now we have a young child and it’s so so so difficult to leave.. I want the best for all of us regardless of what has been said or done.

@dream-0427-

2 жыл бұрын

@@DiscoveringMe1111 I saw that I was unhappy and my kids could see it and I know that's not what I wanted for them or myself, so I thought about it and just left him.

@dream-0427-

2 жыл бұрын

@@BreadnButtuh as long as he wants the same, it could work out for the better. I wish you the best and remember, always put your baby and you first ❤

@dream-0427-

2 жыл бұрын

@@DiscoveringMe1111 oh and one more important thing... I prayed everyday and asked God to give me strength cause I know it wasn't easy.

I'mma 270 pound monster of a man but gawd damn u took me to tears when u said it was not love, it was a unhealthy attachment.

Forgiving yourself is hard.

I needed this, I haven’t talked to or entertained a man in about a month and honestly, I feel more focused on myself and not waiting like something is missing. I still love my ex and I’m healing, I’m realizing we are in two different head spaces and I can’t keep holding on to someone who is emotionally unavailable and doesn’t seem to wanna be kept, nevertheless see the worth in a woman like me! To all my woman struggle, day by day we are making it 🙏🏽

@elle-uz8wp

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

@mynapturalrocks

2 жыл бұрын

Heavy on the emotionally unavailable. 😩

@Pink_celeb420

2 жыл бұрын

Same exact position I’m in

@missbee5461

2 жыл бұрын

Felt this! ♥️

@astenbryant7922

2 жыл бұрын

That’s so me right now I haven’t had sex in 8 months right now & I’m not trying to justify my heartbreak with sex I want to become friends with someone who wants to know me the real me don’t jump head first into a relationship just take things slow one day at a time

Everything happens for a reason when it’s time to let go and it’s not working anymore it’s just time to let go and work on yourself!! If it not meant to be for that person than it’s not... move on for better things to come!!!

@lwhite474

5 жыл бұрын

Stephan Speaks yep exactly!!!!

I needed to hear this now. God knows how miserable I am, inside and out😭 I hope God will not get tired of helping me and fixing myself for myself and Children 💙💙

@gemini0n40

Жыл бұрын

Me as well… i hope he regrets… god bless him…. This pain…. Devastation

@loryville6762

Жыл бұрын

@@gemini0n40 hirap umibig at mgmhal ng tunay😊

@_khalunda

Жыл бұрын

Same here 😭

@loryville6762

Жыл бұрын

@@_khalunda 😞😞😭💔

@nikkil7226

Жыл бұрын

Same here

Great video! My career and spiritual walk are where I happen to be right now. The break up happend Dec. 2018 after my birthday. I brought in the new year crying on my mothers shoulder. Although I brought in the new year crying, I have recieved blessing after blessing. My career has been soaring, new job, over a 25% increase in pay, GOD has been working on me and I have been reading and talking about GOD every since. When I talk HE is always a part of my conversation. Remember mans rejection is God's protection. Sometimes GOD has to remove people out of your life so that you can focus on HIM. GOD could not move me because I was not ready. I'm proud to say he graduated me from kindergarten. I'm proof that your year does not have to end how it started. Stay prayed up!

@busolaoguntayo8257

4 жыл бұрын

This indeed is a testimony to key in! Very soothing. Looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.

@fiae2897

3 жыл бұрын

This is so profound, thank you 🙏

@kikkysamuel7180

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my God! This is my story my birthday was on Saturday and I broke up the next day, I key into this testimony

@julieann1522

2 жыл бұрын

I love this!! Thanks for the encouragement!!

@sandyj3945

2 жыл бұрын

Amazing story to read! I just got of my relationship a week ago, due catching him cheating on me. We were together 4 years. I'm in pain buy I know God will heal my broken heart.

10 year relationship and all I hear from anyone is to simply "get over it" and "move on". It's definitely over but I don't wish this pain on anyone....

@celestinemason3820

3 жыл бұрын

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@celestinemason3820

3 жыл бұрын

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@celestinemason3820

3 жыл бұрын

Send him a message on Whatsapp 💕💕

@celestinemason3820

3 жыл бұрын

Send him a message on Whatsapp 💕💕

@celestinemason3820

3 жыл бұрын

Text him on Whatsapp 💥

Unhealthy attachment I have been there my whole life I need prayers. This s tooo hard for me

"Forgiveness is your freedom"...this was all really good and well said. You make it all so easy to understand! It's so interesting how we as people become so attached and addicted to our significant others....when the attachment should be with God, first and foremost.....Thanks for sharing.

@jsfempowers

4 жыл бұрын

Loved* forgiveness is freedom.

I broke up with my first ever girlfriend because we couldn't have a future together. Our visions for life are very different. I want to find someone to build a lasting relationship with and someone I can one day build a family with. She does not want to have kids nor get married. I had to let go even though I liked her so much. It's been a tough monthso far, even more so because I see her at university almost everyday accompanied with a guy friend of hers... Thank you for your videos, they are very reassuring. I was in need of something like this.

there is a reason and only God knows as to why you cannot be with that person.

Thank you for saying it's okay to be single. I'm 35 without kids and people feel working on yourself is an excuse. And it SO is not. Its needed it! I'm definitely buying this book for me and some family and friends lol.

@taneshiajohnson9623

5 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks absolutely. I love how you are allowing God to use you. Your books have helped me so much!

@NYCCHOCOLATE7777

5 жыл бұрын

Taneshia,Don't Let NOBODY Make YOU Think YOU Are Doing Anything "WRONG" YOU Are Doing lt The Absolute Right Way. Working on YOU & Making YOU The Very BEST YOU That YOU Can & Will Be

@taneshiajohnson9623

5 жыл бұрын

@@NYCCHOCOLATE7777 thank you so much 😘

@ltgemini1599

5 жыл бұрын

I'm 46. No kids. Just ended a situationship with someone I cared about - probably too much-with a good bye and a hang up. Still trying to find my way.

@ruth5316

4 жыл бұрын

Your not alone! I am here if you want to talk girly!

So true that's how soul ties develop not taking time alone to be with God and love self...hard to love through brokeness.

@Superman-xr1oh

4 жыл бұрын

Knock it off with the soul ties nonsense.

I have gain so much clarity since I stopped dating 😊

It was harder for me to stay I'm so glad i let go i thank God it's over.

To be successful in anything one must be willing to endure some pain, to be able to handle any situation in come out on top. Trusting that God will give you the power to withstand after you have suffered a while. God gives pain and power they both go together. BUT in order to fully receive the life you desire and truly be happy, whole and at peace it’s important to take a deeper look from within by looking at past hurt, and past situations. The pain one has caused address those people, express those emotions, forgive, take the necessary time you need to COMPLETELY heal from the past/pain and move on because LIFE WILL HAPPEN! Trust the PROCESS. Focus on You and Believe in Yourself. BUT Don't Give Up On ❤️

@violalong545

4 жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you. It is at times we feel we are alone in what we are facing; but the truth is someone is going through just as much as we (I) am. My prayers are going up for you; and it makes me realize that I am not alone. As you lean on God; He will give you peace & comfort doing this time. I have learned this one thing: When we love someone as God has commanded us to do so, God is pleased with us doing so; however if that person choose to not accept that love; then they are the ones who have not experienced what true love is & that is Gods love.. So, with this being said within time you will receive the grace of Gods love to restore; and rebuild your life as God has planned. Your healing starts within you, and God will show you His perfect, unconditional love; to move ahead and as you do graciously; you will reap the true love you have sown. It amazes me, how we are hurt, but still God imparts in us to bring comfort to the heart of someone else who is hurting. Be strong in the Lord; and you will see His goodness of how He turns it all out for your good. I'm praying for you, & you pray for me because I'm hurting right now; yet & still, I'm determine to lift others up as He heals my broken heart.

@jeffwillisjr53

3 жыл бұрын

Salute... This was the BRIGHTEST comment.

1) Understand you needed to be away from them 2) Stop trying to fight how you feel 3) Heal from Relationship - How Not to Get over someone: Getting under someone else 4) Could’ve been an Unhealthy attachment

Love to everyone going through this painful process 💗

@oliviajakes1454

3 жыл бұрын

I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

@oliviajakes1454

3 жыл бұрын

+2347030894892🙏🏾 🙏🏾

@oliviajakes1454

3 жыл бұрын

Send him a message on Whatsapp 💕

giving love to all the people heart broken on valentine's day.. You are loved, you are important❤

I needed to hear that especially since I just got out of an unhealthy relationship with all the lies and the damage that was done. I’m a total mess right now but only thing I can do is just pray and ask God to heal this pain and to help me grow from it. It was too toxic to try to make it work. Thanks man!

I just finished reading “ He’s Lying Sis” extraordinary! Immediately feeling empowered.

@emmam2602

3 жыл бұрын

How do i get the ebooks for free??

There's stages to healing after a break up. Let time do its perfect work and occupy your time and mind with things that will help you become a better version of yourself.

My ex cheated on me and now I have lost all trust in men. He didn’t even breakup with me just moved out and said hurtful things. He said everything he said he meant! And the main thing is that stood out to me is here I am eight months pregnant and you’re leaving. And you said you never wanted to be with me but yet we’re on our third child. I have no love left in me so if the right Man came along I will have my guard up and so much doubt.

@aishacoco8902

5 жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for u bless u

@romezbrown5878

5 жыл бұрын

❤️

@sophiadent2610

5 жыл бұрын

God will send the right one my sister don’t lose hope just pray to god ask him to send the right just start loving yourself as never before I’ve gone through the same situation so I know what you’re talking about and I’m loving myself

@aishacoco8902

5 жыл бұрын

@@sophiadent2610 Thx u I'm in a abuse marriage...

@sophiadent2610

5 жыл бұрын

Aisha coco i’m praying for you

You posted this the day before my ex-fiance broke off our relationship on 4/12. I appreciate your words and trying to let God heal this scar.

@karabokhumalo1419

3 жыл бұрын

Kevin, How are you holding up?

@fiae2897

3 жыл бұрын

Hope you are good now 🙏

Unhealthy attachment... masking of pain that felt like my mirror 💔

Thanks for the message; I am 50 and single. When I was in my 20’s-40’s, I learned that the hard way because I was not properly taught this. Right now, I’m content being single and loving myself. I’m struggling with dealing with a break up that resulted in my ex and I having a child. I was hard on myself for years for not keeping the relationship intact for the sake of our child. I now see that my ex and I were in a toxic relationship because my ex has issues which she hasn’t addressed and still does. I was emotionally broken after my ex broke up with me after our daughter was born. I have healed from the impact of the breakup, still dealing with the emotional consequences of the relationship. Taking it one day at a time and will ask God to help me.

@osemugt8033

3 жыл бұрын

Hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or restore someone you love

@osemugt8033

3 жыл бұрын

Message him on WhatsApp

@osemugt8033

3 жыл бұрын

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@Globalman43

3 жыл бұрын

@@osemugt8033 I don’t want my ex back. I am moving forward.

The timing for the video could not be more perfect since I just experienced a break up last night! Thank you for the words of wisdom!

@TattoosByDee

5 жыл бұрын

This makes the 2 of us. My break up was yesterday too. What I needed to hear. Thank you.

@hairstylistterrymais4582

5 жыл бұрын

I was divorced 2yrs ago it was the worst time of my life, I was depressed. I didn't think I could live without him. I started loving me, taking care of me 100% . Now I realize what happened was the best thing for me. Now I would never date him or anyone that behaves like him.

@TattoosByDee

5 жыл бұрын

@@hairstylistterrymais4582 Thanks for your positive input.

@iza595

5 жыл бұрын

Sharon Dixon Gods got you trust me!💖

@margomazzeo1680

4 жыл бұрын

Me too..

I pray that I and those in this situation to get over this pain and be able able to move on . We will come back here and comment when we have healed and find peace

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

I left I'm hurt I been praying 2days no sleep, I need to heal yall pray for me . I forgive him Stephan your truly a blessing from God thank you.

So true. You have to acknowledge and feel your pain in order to overcome it. Great point!

I blossomed so much on all aspects after being removed from a toxic relationship. Please ladies listen to Stephan... it’s ok to be alone... take the time to heal. Wow... could it be that my entire marriage was an unhealthy attachment verses being in love 🤔. That’s deep..

@jsfempowers

4 жыл бұрын

Loved* it's okay to be alone.

@wahlbergpatterson3604

3 жыл бұрын

The quest to finding another woman that would Love me and my only son become necessary as my son believed he needed someone to be called a mother again and as crime against humanity to live without a wife in one’s life time so, I choose to write you for a long lasting love, relationship which I believe will graduate into marriage and we will both be happy together for life as we propel into the future. If you consider it just as important as I do, then write me

I was sad until I saw this video Now I’m happy and it is true I centered my life around the relationship that I didn’t focus on my businesses and growing myself Thanks bredda It truly happens for a reason 🙏🏾

@tsakimpofu4130

2 жыл бұрын

Dats me right now, am just trying to let go and move on… 😭😭😭I need the strength

that attachment is something else. I gotta move on & forgive myself.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Healing is definitely key!

I realized that I just didn't want to be alone so I held on longer only to leave her any way it was the best thing I could've done!

I needed to hear this. I am trying to restore myself and almost made all of those mistakes, wise words- I appreciate it

@wilsonharrison865

4 жыл бұрын

Hello I feel your pain, I just went through a divorce with my wife and it wasn't easy She left me with the kids and things have not been the same

@veronicajuarez8121

3 жыл бұрын

@@wilsonharrison865 how are you doing ? A year later ?

Just discovered this channel.. what stood out is "flow with the feelings, that doesn't mean act on it" .. true that!!!

@jsfempowers

4 жыл бұрын

Loved* flow with the feelings, that doesnt mean act on it.

Freed myself from toxic relationship of 8 1/2 years. Looking forward to a healthy future!!!!

@aprilapril7519

3 жыл бұрын

Hello mrs nana can help you get what so ever you want. 1: money 2: cure cancer 3:help you get back your ex 4:tell you what to do to get to the top on your workplace 5: and lot more Just contact her on WhatsApp right ‪+1 (712) 382‑6362‬ ❤️

People are sometimes skeptical when you say that you're ok being single. Be mindful that they may give advice, out of love ,based upon their own experiences and/or insecurities. Listen with an open mind and out of respect but don't allow their insecurities about being alone influence your journey to happiness.

“ forgiveness is your freedom “ Wow !! Powerful words !

I told myself ima make me happy iv not been hurt in awhile but I carried pain for years and the person I thought I knew was her at all so heal is the key 🔐

It's not gud to be with someone who doesn't make u happy Simply breakup should take action,

@jsfempowers

4 жыл бұрын

So true.

@Womenswell022

3 жыл бұрын

No body can make you happy. You will not be always happy. You make yourself happy.

@incognegro2315

2 жыл бұрын

Nobody is responsible for your happiness

I Thank God daily for blessing me to detach from this toxic relationship 🙏🙌 I'm healing and I'm fine being single 💯 Thank you for this video.

@Jezeux1

3 жыл бұрын

Can we know each other better? Perhaps u might find a good reason to love again omaajk006@gmail.com that is my email

😢 a Loss such as a Narc relationship is more like a God’s Mercy for a broken child. That child was me. 😔

@wahlbergpatterson3604

3 жыл бұрын

Hello Martina

That’s what mine was it was unhealthy attachment. as soon as he said that i felt my heart at ease. And my weight off my chest. Maybe it wasn’t real love but just the level of comfort was so high i just got used to it. And i was using her for emotional support. 5 years all gone but I know the truth atleast.

Don't be afraid to lose people be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please ever one around you let them go and move on life is too short trust God as better for you but you must heal what's ment for you will never leave you God bless ever one reading this

@praisekane1493

3 жыл бұрын

I know of a man who can bring back your ex within 2days without know Daley 💝🌹🥀

@praisekane1493

3 жыл бұрын

He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work text him I promise you gonna testify 💝🌹

@praisekane1493

3 жыл бұрын

Whats""app him🥀🥀

@praisekane1493

3 жыл бұрын

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I’m only 18 and been with him since I was 16. He’s older then me by 5 years and he was all I knew. I seen him almost every single day for 3 years straight than out of nowhere we started to hate each other, attitude every conversation, nonchalant, going days without talking. Today is the day I said I’m done I’ve said it hundreds of times but self love is important. It’s hard already I’ve cried on and off trying to look past it but it’s so hard y’all. I feel empty. I just want to be years ahead of today and forget all about it.

Finding Love After Heartbreak has lots of great advice about healing. If you go through the process and apply the methods that Stephan Labossiere lays out in his book you will heal from hurt and open the door to receive the love that you deserve.

@lisajones-franklin3574

5 жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you are welcome.

@marymwinga1255

4 жыл бұрын

Need to make means to get all other books. I have the man God has for you

It's been years and I am still in love with him no matter how I try to date the love never goes away😢

@ninazenayac.9150

4 жыл бұрын

Veronica Atkins don’t know if you are familiar with the term: twinflame? Maybe he’s your TF?

@Jujubean9795

4 жыл бұрын

The love may never ‘go away’. You just have to deal with the fact that he’s not the right person for you, right now.

@jsfempowers

4 жыл бұрын

The love probably will never go away. You just to take from it and move forward.

@zoewhite2958

3 жыл бұрын

*Following * I’m here and it still hurts

@lalaleenax

3 жыл бұрын

Oh no that scares me 😣 just went through a breakup and the thing I fear most is to still feel like that in the future 😭😭

Best one I've heard yet. We broke up yesterday. While it definitely needed to happen, all the emotions are coming out in droves. I'm angry and frustrated, but I also feel like somebody died. I'm about to head out to work, and I dread having to put on that fake smile that everything in my life is fine. I KNOW it'll get better, I KNOW time heals all wounds, but it doesn't make me feel better right this minute. This was a good video, and I will listen to it again. Thank you. 😘

@olufemienock8107

2 жыл бұрын

Hello dear I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you for a second chance He helped me to get back with my ex and we are living happily together so far.

@olufemienock8107

2 жыл бұрын

Wh'atsapp him now

Thank you my brother, you said it today, I needed to see and hear this today. You have to forgive yourself for loving and giving to that person for a very long time not knowing who you are.

I so needed this!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

I really needed to hear this because my heart is just broken in pieces I was cheated on the whole time while we was together saw so many red flags 🚩 but didn’t leave because I thought it would change in are relationship. All the domestic violence I went thru & I’m only 20 😢

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

@dejanaewilliams902

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you

@therealswitht2607

Жыл бұрын

Heyyy luvvv glad to see u out

You had made a grown veteran burst to tears. This has not been easy for me specially piled up with PTSD that I don’t know if I can get through this

Oh wow! You just hit the nail on the head! That’s exactly what it was, an unhealthy attachment. The minute you said that, alarms went off in my head. Thank you for shinning light on this. It has completely changed my perception of my last relationship and I know where to focus now on healing myself. 🙏🏽

BINGO!!! Unhealthy attachments vs “Being in love” whoa that resonated with me....Digging deeper now🤔Purchasing your book today Stephan “Finding Love After Heartbreak” ! Namasté

This advice is priceless and timeless to apply for any type of relationship. When you make a decision to love yourself, step away and reflect, your healing process is activated.

I saw the writing on the wall and you said it. I had an unhealthy attachment and just moved from one hurt to another hurt. This time I am "feeling, dealing, and healing" myself. It hurts but this is the mask from all the other hurts. I see it now. I want to know the part I played and what am I really masking so I can have a healthy relationship. I am keeping my focus today and making my intentions clear to whomever and to myself. Thank you.

I really needed to hear this especially when you said that we need to shift the focus back on ourselves, because I am guilty of focusing all my attention on him. Also the part when you said to stop fighting our emotions, if you still care and love them accept how you feel instead of being angry about it, this video has given me a whole new perspective on how to deal with my feelings. It is going to be hard though since I still live with this person... Much Love to you

When I watched this video it was like feeling over my body of honesty things I needed to hear❤️ I find myself in this video because no one is truly understanding my hurt but you spoke words that needed to be heard so I thank you for making this video... I definitely understand why they healing don’t just happen in a day or so it definitely takes time but you have to start with yourself first.

Started talking to this girl two years ago, first couple of days found out she was pregnant, but I liked her for her so I accepted her being pregnant, we with through good times and bad times, miscommunication majority of the time but I wasn’t going to let that go through my head and leave her because I love her, fast forward we had a kid together , I made plans for us to do stuff , but she start being shady , going out with friends, started to want to distance herself from me , and everything, just yesterday found out she was messing with another guy , feeling is terrible and heavy can’t breathe

@benlinda3315

3 жыл бұрын

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@benlinda3315

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

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@michelled.2112

3 жыл бұрын

It’s best to let this person go. God has someone else for you

@frankjackson5980

3 жыл бұрын

𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮.

You are 💯 correct. Right on point again, I wish I heard this video 2 yrs ago,. Thank God I'm over him, and working on my issues. I thank God He is helping me in the healing process. I'm still not ready for a new relationship, but when I'll be ready, it will be amazing. 😊

I just got your books and with prayer it is helping me so much. I was with someone for 8 years I was naive and don’t not want to believe he could hurt me. I recently heard this saying « when someone shows you who they are, believe them. » It so true! I thank God for keeping me. Thank you Stephan God bless.

I have a feeling this book will be life changing for a lot of people! Another one to add to my library of books 🙌

I took up a relationship with a “friend” I’d known for over 10 years when I broke up with a guy I thought I’d marry. I thought it’d be safe to engage with the “friend” bc we’d always been just friends. Fast forward 4 years I’ve never been more intimate sexually and emotionally than I have with said “ friend” and the “ breakup or dissolution of the intimate and sexual parts of our friendship has left me broken and hurting more than I ever thought possible. Bc of our friendship the intimacy and trust was there deeper and more organic than anyone else and I cannot see myself ever being that connected to anyone ever again. Hurts like hel!

@shanaviashealey3036

3 жыл бұрын

I know this all too well, feels like someone very close just died and they're never coming back.

@zoewhite2958

3 жыл бұрын

Shanavia Shealey that describes it perfectly - it’s tragic. I told him and I meant it- I wished I’d never met him sounds harsh but that’s how deeply I mourned our “ dissolution “ bc even with all the things we’ve experienced and intimacies we shared - we remained “close friends” my heart can’t take that kind of trauma

@Abigail-do3jc

3 жыл бұрын

I can recommend you to Dr.Stephen who help me bring back my ex 💞💞

@Abigail-do3jc

3 жыл бұрын

Text him on what'sapp .....🔻

@Abigail-do3jc

3 жыл бұрын

+234-70-44-50-97-92

This is my first time checking out your videos Mr. Stephan. And I ended up watching four in a row! You are a wise brother who keeps it real and straight to the point. Thank you. You are appreciated. Bless

I learned my lesson to not go into another relationship after a heartbreak! I am taking my time now to never make that mistake again. I agree with you on "its okay" to be single is a great advice that everyone needs to hear. I am single, and I plan to focus on healing old wounds, growing, most importantly HAVE FUN!!! I plan on getting the copy of your new book.

Thank u for this, I definitely was in a very unhealthy relationship , when it ended I still wanted it to wrk out but thank god for his grace and patience w me daily, I pray u continue to let god use u, blessings 💕

@Jezeux1

3 жыл бұрын

Can we communicate better? omaajk006@gmail.com

Thank you for your message! I really needed to hear this!

THANK YOU so much. This video really helped calm me down a bit. Sending love to everyone experiencing heartbreak❤️

I absolutely love this video. This spoke to my soul. The accuracy! TRUTH! It's like coming across precious gems of knowledge. I'm learning so much and I thoroughly enjoy what I'm learning. 🙏😊 Excellent Stephan!👌🙌

Great advice. You are the best coach ever and your words of advice are always spot on. Your books are great and easy reads. Keep up the great work!!! From your books and advice I have finally found the man God had for me and we are both as happy as happy can be. Thank you and as therapist myself I take your advice and share it with my clients and recommend your books to clients in struggling relationships. Your work has inspired me to start my own channel on health wellbeing and lifestyle. Thank you 😁

Wow this is facts 💯 I needed this

First time I've found your channel after a year of seeking help on KZread, counselling and medication. I've heard most of what you've said so many times before yet it still won't stick. I still can't forgive myself for the loss I've incurred from the mistakes I've made. I still miss my best friend and companion. I still wish it hadn't ended despite the relationship being flawed and going nowhere, mostly because I had no self-respect or self-compassion. I really treated her like shit at times in the 5 years we had together and really it was the battle with myself that led to this end result of me feeling lonely and hopeless still while she is apparently thriving. God help me, I've no idea how I'll ever get over this. She was everything to me. Thank you for posting this video, no matter how many times I hear these things it's still validating to hear it from someone else. Hope you're taking care in these tough times.

I hope you know this video is helping people like me even three years after you posted it. Thank you.

Honestly everything you said was on point. God Bless

@aprilapril7519

3 жыл бұрын

Hello mrs nana can help you get what so ever you want. 1: money 2: cure cancer 3:help you get back your ex 4:tell you what to do to get to the top on your workplace 5: and lot more Just contact her on WhatsApp right ‪+1 (712) 382‑6362‬ ❤️

Stephan Speaks....sir sir sir.....thank you so much for sharing your God Given Wisdom. Be Blessed.

@ladyempire5921

5 жыл бұрын

Stephan Speaks You're most welcome. The content you constantly put out, is life altering. The purpose God gave you has blessed many life's including mine. Truly a pleasure to have come across your page. May the blessings of heaven continue to rain down upon you as you keep doing the will of the Lord. Thank you for taking out the time to respond to my post. You're so gracious.

Thank you Stephan. You’ve no idea how much your words mean to me man. I’m going through it and I needed to hear every bit of this. Thank you man.

I've watched this video like 20 times already, no joke. I come back to this video everytime I start feeling super low and it picks me back up just enough to keep going. Thank you dude

@MeetStephanSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤