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@vlaruth3442

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@teresanickson3754

Жыл бұрын

I would but I'm not in the dating life right now I have things to do right now getting myself together and I'm enjoying being single right now thank you

@Pinkcandy777

Жыл бұрын

Stephan we r now both progressing towards a relationship yayyy

@Empresskay333

Жыл бұрын

Ok why you never talk about how a man should be or keep a woman ???. Women out number men so give these few choices we have some advice cause this ain’t it I don’t need a man to tell me how to keep a man . These men end up regretting when they mess up with the one that got away

@katrinamiller2501

Жыл бұрын

Hi

My ex was naturally a passionate speaker, very loud in disagreements. The man I am with now is so gentle with me. Even the way he speaks my name, he knows how to settle me down. I've never experienced this before.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

@jennyk1509

Жыл бұрын

Wow

@coachsusy

Жыл бұрын

I experienced the same thing. My partner was shutting me down further in disagreements he didn't realize I lacked the ability to communicate like him which was one of the reasons our marriage failed. Fast forward I have worked on my communication skills and done a lot of healing I can better handle myself emotionally in disagreements.

@EmeraldLuvsYouALL

Жыл бұрын

Aww What's a blessing

@sbeezy904

Жыл бұрын

Both of you are blessed

My current relationship is the only one I've had at this stage in my life where we absolutely never argue and get loud, instead we practice healthy communication and we hear each other out and listen to one another without cutting each other off. That's real love in my opinion.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

@thefoodiva5725

Жыл бұрын

💯

@zeal4god402

Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@Pinkcandy777

Жыл бұрын

So lovely x

@cindyzamora2023

Жыл бұрын

🙏🏽❤️💫

9:36 - Show That You're Not Overly Sensitive. I used to be overly sensitive when I was in my 20's and going into my 30's. I was easily offended and took things personally. I was aware of how sensitive I was because people close to me would point it out. But it was not easily fixable. No matter how much I tried, I continued to be overly sensitive. BUT time helped me. As I grew older, I became more confident in myself and less insecure overall. Drawing healthy boundaries with people truly helped in seeing myself as myself and not through other people's perspective and lens only. Sometimes people are biased too. They see what they wanna see, even those who are close to you and say they love you. No one's perfect, right? As I practiced drawing healthy boundaries, I started appreciating myself and liking myself more. This gave me the confidence to seek LESS validation from people. Sometimes it takes time, so don't give up on finding your true self and who you are! Appreciate and find out who you are, flaws and all. You're worth it! You deserve to be loved and appreciated - especially by you. ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

"Do not speak to him in the moment of anger"...that hit home. I struggle with controlling my emotions when am angry. Its a toxic trait that I need to work on. Much love from Kenya🇰🇪

@RelationshipNucleus

Жыл бұрын

I like your sincerity, cos a lot of folks claim to be perfect.

@seeingstraightthrough

Жыл бұрын

Being angry is not "toxic" it's being human. If you are angry about something that he has done, you have the right to express your anger. For instance, if a guy is lying to you a lot it's normal to be angry about dishonesty. If you never express your anger when he is lying to you then he'll continue to do it. Speak and show anger and walk away. It will let him know you're not going to put up with being mistreated. I learned this from my own experience, more men will have respect for you because you don't allow them to walk all over you.

@Dw3nG6K

Жыл бұрын

I also learnt to not try resolve anything whilst being angry. But sometimes some guys dont want to let things cool down before talking about the issue again

@JTrys

4 ай бұрын

Girl same 😭

“Pray before you speak”….awesome! Thank you for such sound advice 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

I thought men don't have feelings but my new husband has taught me a lot about men and I treasure this because I have now learnt more about being so understanding and more considerate too and I stopped complaining instead we discuss our issues and we always get solutions. God has really guided us too. Thanks so much Stephen, may God bless you and grant you more wisdom Amen.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much!

@trifree

Жыл бұрын

Me too, I had to learn they have feelings. I think woman are indirectly taught to adopt this.

In all fairness, we all are struggling to open up. I am a woman and I struggle every day to open up and say how I am really feeling without feeling like I'll be condemn for it. I am not perfect, nor do I expect anyone else to be. I just want to experience real unfiltered relationships, no one trying to control things, just natural occurrences.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

@seeingstraightthrough

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I feel like the best way to open up to anyone is to be expressive with emotions. If I feel comfortable with expressing my emotions, others may also start to feel comfortable with expressing their emotions. Being transparent with our emotions is the true essence of who we are. Who we are, we are human.

@iiamsam86

Жыл бұрын

Same

I think it all depends on the man and how he feels about the woman if he values her he will open up and a least try to communicate with her and not just leave her .

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@faceofglam

Жыл бұрын

YEP 🎯

@CiluhStyle1

Жыл бұрын

Ye depends on the damage he carries

I agree that communication is the most important thing in a relationship. We also have to talk to each other with respect without hollering, talking calmly and not while in anger.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Communication is definitely key!

Energy doesn’t lie. Any intuitive person should be able to stand in front of another person and be able to read them. I’m not even sure if people are aware of the energy that they are exuding. People tell other than the truth, thinking that folks are not going to feel the difference. Wrong. This is good! Thanks for sharing. Too, too good. ❣

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

@goddessoflight74

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you are looking very buff over there. 😀

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

@@goddessoflight74 ❤ 🙂 Thank you!

This goes beyond relationships. This is just the common sense of a sensible, good person.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@kateeshaatterberry2009

Жыл бұрын

That’s what I was thinking! I’m watching this like, “Is he talking about some kids?” If women in the dating and relationship pool are behaving like how he is describing, I feel bad for these men! My children are more emotionally intelligent than the women he is describing smh. This is a behavioral coaching session!

@rachelmurphy9679

Жыл бұрын

True

He has to feel that he is at a point in the relationship that he can safely trust to let himself fall backwards into the arms of his female. 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@enaalexis92

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks When two souls fall in love, it feels like they have come home.

One of my affirmations, I say that to myself. “It’s not all about me” feel the feelings and grow.

I Agee both parties should be able to check each other! Enjoy plenty of laughter,it is good for the soul. Amen!🌹🌹🌹🌹

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

You have certainly read me my rights with this topic. I am the passive aggressive one. I've done all of this out of anger. Mostly because I grew up hearing and seeing it. At the moment I'm trying to unlearn a lot of the things I've learned. The abnormal things. The toxic things etc etc

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@breecoleman6722

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thanks

@thefoodiva5725

Жыл бұрын

Same with me Bree.

My past relationship he opened up all the time & I realized he just wanted therapy and a distraction from his ex. He shared so much deep stuff about himself but refused to commit. My hourly rate is $125/hour and my time is valuable. Don’t monopolize my time & emotions and encourage me to pour my love into others and not value my love & support. Peace ✌🏼 bruh.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

Bible: love is not easily offended. We get to practice.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

Stephan is so intelligent and well-spoken. I respect his message and platform- however, therapy will have to get him to open up for his next woman if he’s not ready to be vulnerable & comfortable with me because this is no longer my ministry. ♥️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

I agree with everything you said in this video. I wouldn't want people to throw things in my face so I'm not doing it to no one.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

🖐️ Hi Stephan, good to view you today. I agree with you that men are brought up not to express their emotions. I was in a rare relationship where my ex-husband was the talker and I couldn't express myself equally. I learned later that he had some severe insecurities. This led to me shutting down and eventually resenting him. He was also very controlling. I did a video on communication, seeking to bring awareness to help someone with a similar situation. Communication is something I struggle with verbally, and it's ongoing self- work. I always welcome and appreciate you sharing your knowledge with us! 🙏🏽❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

Both parties should work towards assuring each other,it is safe to open up,so both parties can grow and build their relationship. Amen🌹🌹🌹🌹

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

Thank you Stephan. All you mentioned in the video, I failed to do it and my man was trying to tell me all of them all these while. 😢 my stubbornness shut out all those messages from him and he’s now shut down on me and not sharing anything to me. I’m hoping it’s not too late for me to change now before I lose this good man. 🙏🏽

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

🙏

Just listened to this. Thank you for this! A good reminder to be open-minded an not taking things personally. I do speak positively to my friend. He has told me our friendship is platonic. I told him I care about him and respect where he is coming from. He’s healing from women that have hurt him. I allow him to vent and I am being a good friend. He knows I care about him and he cares about me. He says he respects me and doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. Transparency is a good thing….Right?

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

@kindredkey

Жыл бұрын

Transparency is a good thing... make sure you're also being transparent with yourself and what you want from the relationship... if they aren't willing/able to give you what you want in this moment then keep yourself open to other opportunities! Be well

Well Stephan just when I think Ive learned what i needed you drop another gem!!! The first 3 on this list are my new challenges and things to work on. I knew I had a hard time being light hearted and less sensitive but didn't fully see how it affects other people until recently. Thank you!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

🤕 Ouch!!! I felt this message, I have a lot to work on. Thank you Stephan.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

I’m so thankful I started watching and applying your teachings I apply so much of what you teach in my relationship and I’m reaping the benefits, we both are. Thank you Stephan for being so honest and simple with how you explain and unpack so many situations You’re the mirror so many of us need🙏🏼🥰

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

I love to talk to my partner and learn from him and he learn from me! Communication is a beautiful experience between two people. It open the pathway for anyone to receive wisdom! Amen!🌹🌹🌹🌹

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Communication is definitely key!

Great advice Stephan! I definitely think that communication is the key to a healthy relationship! If we can’t talk to each other and be open then what’s the point of being together? I actually find it very attractive if a man is willing to be open and honest with me! I’m definitely not one to judge anyone or throw things back up in someone’s face. I think that this is real childish and no one has time for playing games. I’m definitely looking forward to meeting the one GOD has for me and I pray that he is willing to open up to me emotionally!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback and pray that you receive the one who i truly best for you, the one God has for you ❤️ 🙏

@renee167

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thanks!

You’re right. Healthy communication is possible and couples have to the skill in resolving conflict. Imo, I have to be mindful and assure him that it’s safe for him to share his emotions with me and I won’t weaponize whatever he shared with me in confidence and vulnerable state. It takes conscious effort and practice to be fully aware without using the information they shared with us. This goes to all relationships. I asked my man to call me out if I mess up and then choose the healthy route. Thank you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

I love your videos, Stephen! Thank you for what you do!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

This was very informative-I've not dated much, so good to have this in advance. Appreciate you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

They HATE it when we bring past relationship issues to relationship with them, BUT THEY CAN DO IT & WE SUPPOSED TO UNDERSTAND & HELP THEM THRU IT!! 🙄🙄🙄

Hey Stephan, Thankyou so much for this video, perfect timing. I was talking with my partner, after 2 days of silence as I had a boot camp to attend to. So I lightly asked him to tell me when he misses me (even when am extremely busy as I enjoy talking to him even for a few minutes) ...then he laughs and says Saht. Saht (pronounced sat) is a slang in Zambia to mean No. He has used the slang in the past to mean a strong negative No in serious conversations which I ignored. This time I told him I don't appreciate that slang+it's use and that he should apologize. He said am too serious and I told him I will laugh when you say something funny. He ignored me for like 10 hrs, then I told him we should communicate, express ourselves instead of ignoring each other. Then next thing I got was an apology text. I told him thankyou for saying sorry and that was the end. What did I do wrong that I can do better next time?

Yes Sir, I'm very sensitive young woman. I cry easily. Be blessed dear!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may you be blessed as well!

Yes! To transparency!! I agree! I say to my friend why would I do something to a person if I did want them to do it to me. You are right on time! Yes! I say to my friend “we will make a good team”. He said you think so? I said yes!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

Thank you Stephan, I’m sure you are fulfilling Gods purpose he has for you…You definitely have a God given gift to be able to effectively communicate the way you do. I have seen other videos regarding my situation but yours stand out and hit home EVERY time! You’ve helped me so much!! I really wish you were available for coaching! If ever you have availability please let me know. God bless you

REALLY REALY good content!!! This message was a breath of fresh air. Having courage to do introspection on self is difficult but needed, to have a healthy relationship with SELF and others. Doing genuine introspection is like riding a roller-coaster in the dark! Scary, unpredictable but exhilarating!! 😆😅

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

@tosinmubarak8646

Жыл бұрын

Really

She made it easy to open up. I don't know how but I liked it. No one ever had that effect on me.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

Being direct is the way to go. I agree.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

In all his videos I love how he talk real and laugh and than be clear when needed too

I think it’s made it easier for men to open up when I am open with my “blips” or faults. I say “blips” because I would rather not horrify a guy and let it all hang out… but like teasers… “my turn, your turn, my turn, our turn.”

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

Thank-You! You always have great words of wisdom and this message resonated with me because I do internalize situations. I have to show him that I can handle this. Ah ha moment for me

I really appreciate the time you have spent educating me.. I watch to just learn about myself.. n how many mistakes i have made.. thinkingbi was doing right.. have i ever baffled myself.. i am soul searching within myself.. i have met an amazing man of 7 yrs who has allowed me to grow into someone more self controled n aware... i love him.. i appreciate u and ur team for ur advice and time doing so for me.. n anyone who gets good value outta this video.. 😊 thanks

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

Love this guy he speaks so transparently. Nothing compares ❤❤

Ive experienced different levels. My ex would cry & dump his emotions on me. Eventually it did end with me throwing it back on him because of how draining it was (& I feel absolutely terrible about it). Now, I’m watching this after meeting a very reserved and emotionally guarded man. There’s got to be a balance in between.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

@TomikaKelly

10 ай бұрын

Girl, you just like to complain. You didn't want to be a girlfriend therapist, so you got a man who doesn't make you his counselor and that is also a problem too. You're simply an unhappy person.

You are so amazing to listen to! Thank you for your Channel!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

Great message Sir! I love this! Powerful words!Thank u so much for sharing with us. Be blessed Sir. Much love always.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much!

@silentdreams2415

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Awww u are very welcome Sir! My pleasure!❤😊

Thank you for your advice Stephan❤️

This is powerful video gave me a lot of pointers of how to communicate better this shows me I have been communicating wrong in some of these area. Powerful ❤💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

Thank you for this! It was very insightful and TRUE. I plan on implementing some of this advice into my marriage 🙌🏾 Love from Dallas, Tx ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

Your content is good as always! Thank you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

So scary you were on point with all your logics! Lol I will try to use some of this helpful information because every time we start a “discussion” it becomes an argument if I feel he’s right. I take it personal….thanks for this video!

Thanks for the tips and realness. I’m very aware and take accountability for the traits mentioned of I’m guilty of. Will take the notes and work on it!

I did what you said Stefan open up and all he does is get mad and he got issues

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

I agree! If you can't talk to each other, you shouldn't be together...... I've tried for 20 years, time to file those papers.......

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

Thank you for the much-needed reminders about so many things This is good. God bless you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

GREAT TOPIC !

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

Now I know what not to do in order to make a man open up. I will definitely check my spirit and energy first. Thanks Stephan

God bless you Precious Stephan I pray that all is well with you and the family. I Am in total agreements with you. When God joins people together it's very easy to be open and relaxed to be able embrace each other's short comings. When you are true to authentic self it makes life easier for all. I thank God so much for you being He has designed you to be. A Real Man Of God. And I know God SHALL continue to order your steps in His perfect way. I have asked God to send me a man with these beautiful qualities that you have, wisdom, knowledge, humor, loves God and follows His lead. And it was truly a blessing meeting you and felt an instant spiritual connection with you. Continue to be a blessing to the masses in the Miraculous name of Jesus. Always Love Almeta ❤️🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

Great tips Steph❤😍

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

You remind me of King Solomon how God had given him wisdom to guide his people! You are truly inspired of God! God continually use and bless you greatly!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, I appreciate that 🙏

@fromaqueensperspective

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks your welcome 😁

Helpful...and I need to listen to it again (and again). 👍🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Glad I could help 🙏

This!!! Keep speaking King!! 💯💯🔥🔥🔥

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤ 🙌

Opening up is very important to the woman GOD created and design just for you. A woman of GOD should never throw any conversation back in her man face. Not exceptble!🌹🌹🌹🌹

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

@muma6559

Жыл бұрын

Not acceptable

@adawilliams8960

Жыл бұрын

@@muma6559 Muma Thank you! and GOD bless you!🌹🌹🌹🌹

Great point . 🎉

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

This is so true. I took everything sensitive. Anything said I took it on me like it was me doing it when he talked he was just expressing himself. I have learned to not take anything personal. I checked myself to make sure that I didn’t say anything or do anything to offend anyone. But I do use a lot of humor, especially about myself when I learned that I don’t seem to get mad, I don’t have anxiety. I don’t cry like I used to. thank you so much. This is something I need to learn and to know that I’m on the right track.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

This something I don't hear from other videos. I really really needed to hear this

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

Thank you, Stephan.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

Men express themselves when they are INTERESTED. He wants to hold back, he will be HELD BACK (LET GO FOR DISRESPECT), without me. Leave that ish for women with a SCARCITY mentality. TOOOO MANY men out here that are MATURE ENOUGH to express themselves. Let somebody else daughter raise him to be a man. Who has time to run a business and raise a full-grown man???? Get to the back of the line! SMH When the line dries up, I'll be alone before I become insecure enough to deal with these narcissistic behaviors. The Bible says "The blessings of the Lord maketh rich and adds no sorrow." He starts adding sorrow and I will withdraw my application in a skinny minute. I will have enough grace to communicate and if he doesn't change, it is a loud indication that he's not ready for me, and that behavior will continue to be sorrowful for me. I will not ignore this red flag of what I deem to be abusive behavior. PERIODT. Next topic....LOL

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@privateperson1461

Жыл бұрын

This is directed to Vita Dolce. Your comments were trash! Aint NOBODY got time to baby these narcissistic, immature grown boys! Period. Men need to step up and work for the prize, women. They are not the prize----this is biblical, GOD made woman for man NOT the other way around. I got out of a Narc manipulator relationship into a great relationship with a different race of man-------Black men, many, not all, need SERIOUS FUCKING THERAPY-----they got too many issues and traumas, most due to their own poor choices of not pursuing education but pursuing drugs and the streets then they get 50 years old and want to tear down good sistas that own they home, businesses, got retirement etc. And his azz come with envy and want to turn up and tear the woman down. Leave they azz alone!! Other men truly do know how to love black women and not stess us out. Let sleeping dogs lie in the vomit they created. I SAID WHAT I SAID.

@shatekahusser

Жыл бұрын

@@AaminaSomali_ And I said what I said. That is why you couldn't be WRONGER. I am happily pursued and refuse to settle probably like yourself. Confident in who I am and what satisfies me and my expectations. You actually seem to be the crazy one because you have no clue about MY expectations and WHY I have manifested what I REQUIRE from my mate. Your comment is blatantly disrespectful but God bless you and your judgmental self....probably MISERABLE because you can't manifest and it's evident for being so critical of others.

Thank you for this me and my daughter talked about this this morning she's 25 and I told her I have to be careful with my sense of humor cuz some guys are sensitive.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

This is a topic I always wanted to know thank you for talking about it

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

Greetings Stephan, you're spot on about our energy being just as important as the words we speak. That goes for both parties for sure. Having dealt with a covert toxic narc for many years; before recently being divinely reconnected to my true king; had me on the defense when talking to him even when he wasn't acting a plum fool. Thanks for bringing that to the light so we can be mindful & make the necessary changes in the now. Be well!✨😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

Most natural and real person on KZread ✅✅✅

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

Thank you so much Stephen. I appreciate your help

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

@renee2369

Жыл бұрын

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you for helping us sisters in Christ

THANK YOU!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

Good teaching 🙂

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

Amazing! ❤

That's so true negative energy is so ugly and uncomfortable

If I opened up and it was thrown back in my face in a constructive manner like showing a trend in my thinking or behavior I would be grateful

Thank you so much I really needed this right now the falling out I don't blame anybody but myself yes he toke my kindness for weakness but I kept giving when still seeing red flags thinking he would realize but I knew his was hurt from past anyways I feel he will come back and I feel we both have alot to say and I also feel we both have grown and I also feel we can overcome little moe hill thank you again and thank you also universe angels and spirit 💯💞🌹

This was helpful especially the end. I've had success in providing a safe space for people to open up. On the other side of that, people tell me I don't open up enough. I'll work on that going forward

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

Need to practice this.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

🙏

I agree with what you say.you just have to be an listener open minded!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

Sometimes, when a man opens up, the things he says are traumatic and it might take the woman some time to over come her own thoughts and process what he opens up with, just like women aren't suppose to "over share" because it can cause a man to feel differently about her. But we do need time sometimes to work it out in our minds, so don't give up on us if at first we are like whoa, give us some time, especially if you broke our trust, work to build it back, don't just expect it to be there because you opens up and said sorry. We aren't superhuman.

My life right now! Everything he said is true!!!!

Thank you 😊 🙏🏼

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

My pleasure ❤️

As long as he’s not committing the same offense then the past can stay in the past…period!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

Id respect a man so much more if he could open up n speak to me. I find it makes a man more attractive n love him more. He respected and trusted me n felt safe.

Absolutely my man is my best friend

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

I almost died when you said he said you are my priority. I heard the same things and I asked so many people. Like wtf does that mean? And it’s out of fear for me to know. Wish I would have known lol.

My situation with my lover is he can’t communicate with me. We’ve been dating for over a year now and I know he isn’t raised to be expressive. But it’s gotten to the point wheee he didn’t tell me the decision of joining the Army. He told me about the Army on our one year anniversary lol. We haven’t spoken from the bomb he dropped on me. I needed to distance myself for my mental health. His uncle died suddenly this week so he has shut down on me more. I’ve been open that he hurt me from making a big decision without me and he’s shut me out of his life lol. He hasn’t told me anything about the funeral service or which uncle of his died. My uncle died this year too yet I told him how he died, when the funeral was, and I opened up about missing my uncle for dying suddenly too. I’ve played my role but this man can’t open up to me.

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

@jazzyfizzal9004

Жыл бұрын

Similar story with my ex.

@TomikaKelly

10 ай бұрын

The Army thing is definitely a huge problem because that will affect the relationship and your life, but him not talking about his deceased uncle is HIS PREROGATIVE.

Teach Stephan!!! My goodness.

@ramonaphillipsteach3284

Жыл бұрын

Pray first…pause

This, reminded me, of the situation of Willsmith and Chris ROCK. . Some of the things that, you were speaking about. .

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

Prayer always helps in a relationship or a marriage always thank you Jesus

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

@debbiemcclure9142

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely Stepan👍♥️

HI Stephan, love your work, however the sound has gone downhill in the last couple months.. I'm not sure how things have changed but my volume on my phone is at its highest but there is a huge difference. Just some feedback, love your work!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching, I'm sorry about that and I appreciate your feedback 🙏

How about the situation is not funny when he has dropped the ball of defending me? Also I'm quiet when he's talking but then it becomes 5 different stories of his past and his job he seem to never stay on topic...its aggravating!!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

Thank you Stephan. I still don't understand why men still acting the way they are!! because I'm very calming lady and like you said I'm very sensitive when comes to relationship. I get ghosted because I didn't checking on him and he stopped messaging me for a week now

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@patriciahetherington1709

Жыл бұрын

Mine stop talking to me for asking questions been a month now . I hope things workout for you .😢🙏

Stephan your so nicely well groomed I love it 🥰

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

Agree with you

@MeetStephanSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏