How To Gain Confidence

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  • @DailyNowStoic
    @DailyNowStoic Жыл бұрын

    Someone once told me that confidence is like a muscle that grows stronger with each repetition of uncomfortable tasks.

  • @robertsterling951

    @robertsterling951

    11 ай бұрын

    No one told you that, it’s good advice but you just copy and pasted it

  • @myg1193

    @myg1193

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@robertsterling8450 so what if he copied it what matters is that it's a good advice

  • @brandonborlaza9205

    @brandonborlaza9205

    9 ай бұрын

    bars

  • @unun..

    @unun..

    8 ай бұрын

    S O M E B O D Y O N C E T O L D M E T H E W O R L D G O N N A R O M M Y 💀

  • @user-4mfi2o4

    @user-4mfi2o4

    8 ай бұрын

    @@robertsterling951either way that means someone told them that, whats your point

  • @johnabrams9628
    @johnabrams96282 жыл бұрын

    Cuz I no longer care says it all

  • @reborngreatnesss5712

    @reborngreatnesss5712

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah stop caring anymore what others think of you obviously they gonna judge you because that’s how life works.

  • @oscarcubilete1584

    @oscarcubilete1584

    Жыл бұрын

    What a word !!!!!!

  • @atharvpathare

    @atharvpathare

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah exactly 💯💯

  • @atharvpathare

    @atharvpathare

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@reborngreatnesss5712 true today's world is judgemental they are going to judge you anyways .

  • @adamstevens3263

    @adamstevens3263

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@reborngreatnesss5712 were literally designed to compartmentalize everything.(it saves on brain space) Judging others by their appearance or other apparent features comes natural because of that.

  • @drewlamphere1826
    @drewlamphere18269 ай бұрын

    "Confidence is not being afraid but overcoming the fear" that hit

  • @hollergirl8187
    @hollergirl8187 Жыл бұрын

    Wow...I needed this so much....this hit so deep for me

  • @annetteveagarrnada6416

    @annetteveagarrnada6416

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah...

  • @francoherrera601

    @francoherrera601

    Жыл бұрын

    So simple but yet so effective

  • @onlyfood7795
    @onlyfood7795 Жыл бұрын

    i will leave the comfort zone and will gain self confidence, i no longer want to go ahead with low self confidence

  • @Jpgaps

    @Jpgaps

    10 ай бұрын

    Hope you doing good bro manifesting is great

  • @eugeneblyther4912

    @eugeneblyther4912

    10 ай бұрын

    SAME

  • @Ayush-li6nn

    @Ayush-li6nn

    9 ай бұрын

    Same here man, tired being like this

  • @may_0reo816

    @may_0reo816

    8 ай бұрын

    CLAP CONGRATS MANNN

  • @lorraine70

    @lorraine70

    5 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @mynameisntcoco4609
    @mynameisntcoco46093 ай бұрын

    “It’s not in the comfort zone, its in the dis-comfort zone..” 💯

  • @nosi_dl
    @nosi_dl Жыл бұрын

    so confidence is basically just overcoming fear of any sort. Mr Goggins simplified this concept in the best way possible, in a way i haven't heard explained before

  • @licksss1_1l28

    @licksss1_1l28

    Жыл бұрын

    Not just overcoming but facing it embracing it first

  • @adamstevens3263

    @adamstevens3263

    Жыл бұрын

    You gotta also get good at that thing. Which of course comes with repetition

  • @nshtii

    @nshtii

    3 ай бұрын

    @@licksss1_1l28so let’s say u start recording urself in public, around people, doing judgement things and start having that embarrassment, desperate feelings inside u, do u ignore that shit and continue to do “silly” shit in a confident way bc u don’t give a fuck? If so how bc that feeling is very much uncomfortable.

  • @davidcardenas3315
    @davidcardenas3315 Жыл бұрын

    Hit me deep fr. I’ve been struggling with public speaking for as long as I can remember (I’m 29) doesn’t matter how big or small the group is or how well I know or don’t know them, but you put me in front to speak and I shut down, my eyes feel like they water, my heart rate beats like no tomorrow, constant gulping/swallowing reaction, and I’m just tired of it. Completely tired of feeling like this and ready to overcome it. One day this nightmare of mine will be completely put to rest 💯

  • @Sam-qe8mp

    @Sam-qe8mp

    Жыл бұрын

    You got this man!!!!

  • @adamstevens3263

    @adamstevens3263

    Жыл бұрын

    You still go up there and do it though, you may feel fear but you're still overcoming it. I have trouble even being around more than 3 people, don't feel bad. There's levels to that shit, like I said I get very uncomfortable when it comes to even speaking to a small group of friends lol. So at this point your like my idol Mr. KZread commenter

  • @ettab.7838

    @ettab.7838

    11 ай бұрын

    Do online hypnosis by Micheal Sealey on confidence

  • @KoketsoNtsoane

    @KoketsoNtsoane

    10 ай бұрын

    Same! 💯 and it's tiring

  • @KimOGbaby

    @KimOGbaby

    10 ай бұрын

    Exactly me too man

  • @kidcudi908
    @kidcudi9085 ай бұрын

    I have extreme social anxiety and I can’t even look people in the eye when talking that’s how bad it is, but lately I’ve been training my mind to not give a fuck, the trigger to my anxiety is judgement from others, im slowly overcoming it by making eye contact, that is the biggest game changer. It started with not giving a fuck

  • @zxnn5728

    @zxnn5728

    4 ай бұрын

    Proud of u bro

  • @HeroCollapqseWader

    @HeroCollapqseWader

    Ай бұрын

    You can do it bro im in the same sitiation too but we can do it

  • @Hi_how_r_u_

    @Hi_how_r_u_

    6 күн бұрын

    Same here, i think working out/physical exercise could help. Same with self-care and putting yourself out there gradually. You dont try to run when you cant even walk. Step by step

  • @SarahScofield94941
    @SarahScofield94941 Жыл бұрын

    The most practical self-confidence advice I have ever heard ❤️❤️

  • @bradleymiller437

    @bradleymiller437

    Жыл бұрын

    He doesn't actually say anything. How can that be of any help?

  • @BlackGoId
    @BlackGoId Жыл бұрын

    I’m honestly afraid of the pressure. But I’m not afraid of stepping my foot into the ring.

  • @eugeneblyther4912

    @eugeneblyther4912

    10 ай бұрын

    RESPECT

  • @homiekeen23
    @homiekeen23 Жыл бұрын

    Even people around you will get used to it and suddenly it's not an "issue" anymore. There was this guy at uni who stuttered a lot like all the time. At first during presentations obviously people would look at him and at each other like what's this. Overtime: He kept always participating in presentations and class discussions, and what you know, no one cares anymore, it became normal to him AND to everyone else, no one even "notices" anymore and just hears what he's saying like everyone else not how he's saying it. 💕

  • @7NumbersLeft

    @7NumbersLeft

    Жыл бұрын

    Ayyoo I'm proud of that guy!! May good things come to him in the future ☺️

  • @KingWut
    @KingWut9 ай бұрын

    I have an interview in an hour for a promotion that I’m terrified to take. I needed to hear this

  • @vijayakumarshanmugam874
    @vijayakumarshanmugam874 Жыл бұрын

    Confidence comes from certainty, know your self, your weaknesses, fully understand them, find the way to improve and be certain of the situations. Our brain fears uncertainty.

  • @zena6412

    @zena6412

    10 ай бұрын

    how to do that? so I recently failed 1st semester and now I have this fear that I might fail again. What's worse is that I am not doing anything. I'm afraid of going to campus , I'm just tired already. This is not my midset you know but school really teared me down.

  • @DSdoesairsoft
    @DSdoesairsoft5 ай бұрын

    “The comfort zone is where dreams go to die” is one of my favourite quotes cos it’s absolutely true, nothing holds potential back quite like learning to be comfortable with your problems/fears. SAS motto- ‘fortune favours the brave’

  • @hannahsmith-dg9jt

    @hannahsmith-dg9jt

    Ай бұрын

    Oh my gosh I need to save this message, I procrastinate and avoid all the stuff I can't deal with, it's very accurate

  • @kurtiskemp9758
    @kurtiskemp9758 Жыл бұрын

    Confidence is knowing both outcomes but knowing ur gunna be fine either way. If you can instill this into ur mind you will be confident. But you have to face fears and even dial a lot of times to realize your always going to be ok even after a failure.

  • @planetwalker798

    @planetwalker798

    8 ай бұрын

    “even dial a lot of times” …meaning keep trying?

  • @djgking
    @djgkingАй бұрын

    From now on I'm changing my Life.

  • @princessmalong9712
    @princessmalong9712 Жыл бұрын

    I needed this today ❤️

  • @ahmetadam-fe9vm
    @ahmetadam-fe9vm20 күн бұрын

    Everyone says just don't care for confidence, how tf can i not care 💀

  • @royalacity
    @royalacity5 ай бұрын

    It's hard not to care. Hardest part for me. I was raised to care what people think.

  • @zxnn5728

    @zxnn5728

    4 ай бұрын

    I feel u man

  • @Arif_Raziq

    @Arif_Raziq

    4 ай бұрын

    I feel you bro, i had a family who cares what other people think

  • @Mdubs10737

    @Mdubs10737

    Ай бұрын

    You got it man day by day and you will get to where you want

  • @user-ht7qo5fy6k
    @user-ht7qo5fy6k Жыл бұрын

    Even if he had stuttered, I wd have been interested in KNOWING what he HAS to say instead of ..... superficiality.

  • @ryutak777
    @ryutak7779 ай бұрын

    I have to face my fear all the time. Today I did something that gave me a lot of fear and anxiety. Thinking about it is hard and sometimes doing it is even harder but afterwards you feel a lot better.

  • @CandaceJDunkley
    @CandaceJDunkley Жыл бұрын

    This was so good! If you are reading this please know you are more than capable of facing your fears! You have what it takes to become the person God called you to be. You are great, you are powerful, you are a child of God and you got this! ~ Candace KZreadr and Poet Covering Self-love

  • @MarylnBowan-vg7te
    @MarylnBowan-vg7te6 ай бұрын

    FACTS OVA FEELINGS. Confidence Doesn't Change Who a Man is it Simply Reveals Who He is

  • @wickflexin
    @wickflexin9 ай бұрын

    He’s an absolute gem for the up and coming generations. Forever treasure his teachings🙏🏻

  • @Prkr13FN
    @Prkr13FNАй бұрын

    My confidence in myself has been really low lately. This video help a ton!

  • @oye2240
    @oye224024 күн бұрын

    I’m having a terrible life atm. I can’t do anything but I think this proves a point I lack confidence. I fear studying and probably socialising which are 2 really important things so yes I’ll repeat this in my head now

  • @Titan-br7ld
    @Titan-br7ld Жыл бұрын

    This hit me. I have severe stuttering problems currently.

  • @evansdotse3470

    @evansdotse3470

    Жыл бұрын

    Damn. So I’m not alone

  • @sanskarsawant3746

    @sanskarsawant3746

    Жыл бұрын

    man me too, highly affects my social life. Still got W friends tho

  • @overpoweredshots

    @overpoweredshots

    5 ай бұрын

    It's not even stuttering , for me my face turns red a bit

  • @Chillinor
    @Chillinor5 ай бұрын

    Thanks David Goggins, I'm going to apply this thought in my everyday life.

  • @spontaneousbootay
    @spontaneousbootay24 күн бұрын

    In summary, it's about learning to believe in yourself, truly.

  • @jacobl7451
    @jacobl7451 Жыл бұрын

    hes telling facts. You can’t just “be confident”, you go out there and unconfidentally do stuff til you get good. No kid is confident when they first ride a bike

  • @truesis9449
    @truesis94494 ай бұрын

    You can look in his eyes he’s no serious and believes everything he’s sayin he’s so motivational

  • @skyrisesenpaiii678
    @skyrisesenpaiii6786 ай бұрын

    So true, not caring too much and working on myself is what make me confident in myself.

  • @Softman264
    @Softman264 Жыл бұрын

    "Is not in that comfort zone.... It's in the discomfort zone"

  • @Corina69744
    @Corina697447 ай бұрын

    Bro I started crying I needed this

  • @S5carf
    @S5carf Жыл бұрын

    I started to practice speaking before presentation that I don’t like and I didn’t know why I gain confidence enough to get over challenges

  • @saigovind3006
    @saigovind300611 ай бұрын

    He was a former Marine, so listen to him. This will definitely work.

  • @hairrockinray
    @hairrockinray6 ай бұрын

    Its like being knocked down a 1000 times, this time, deep inside yourself, you say, this time I'm getting up, ain't nothing gonna stop me!!!

  • @Paladin-tw2ev
    @Paladin-tw2ev8 ай бұрын

    So confidence is not caring.

  • @redtree732
    @redtree7326 күн бұрын

    One of the best videos on the internet.

  • @lukegauci8015
    @lukegauci8015 Жыл бұрын

    "Is where the growing is" is what he was going to say

  • @PULAG
    @PULAG Жыл бұрын

    This man is a literal Godlike Idol in a world full of distractions. I hope people see him through the fog we've created in our society..

  • @SunnyJ89
    @SunnyJ8911 ай бұрын

    I needed this, face your fears. Thank you!

  • @kberanoyd
    @kberanoyd10 ай бұрын

    I needed some Goggins today.

  • @WisdomWithin999
    @WisdomWithin99910 ай бұрын

    This is why I started forcing myself to do things that scared me about 2 years ago. I still have a long way to go but I am getting better and as I improve, the ones around me do too. ❤

  • @gratitudewithgaurisha
    @gratitudewithgaurisha9 ай бұрын

    This really works. There actually comes a point when you no longer care what people think or do and that is when you know you have become confident✨️

  • @Shreyyyable
    @Shreyyyable6 ай бұрын

    True..going to an uncomfortable zone...will build confidence

  • @tugbrooksthomas
    @tugbrooksthomas Жыл бұрын

    Yessss! Confidence always follows competence ❤️. It’s not an overnight affair, it gets easier! Keep going

  • @user-ry6qc3qr3z
    @user-ry6qc3qr3z7 ай бұрын

    I've been wanting to gain confidence. I mostly worry with people judging me. This helped me feel better about myself

  • @Toxic.gaming27661
    @Toxic.gaming276616 ай бұрын

    This is truly inspiring. I always think about this video when i need a boost of confidence. And i mean "who cares" sums up everything in how to get it

  • @MohitSingh-pg4kz
    @MohitSingh-pg4kz3 ай бұрын

    Same I also try to get out of my comfort zone and now I can see improvements in my self

  • @OFFICALBREEMATIONSTATION
    @OFFICALBREEMATIONSTATION6 ай бұрын

    I've always had an issue with lack of confidence which has affected my everyday life and self esteem. I'm gonna try to follow the message of the video.

  • @grigordavtyan1848
    @grigordavtyan18489 ай бұрын

    I was alway seen by others as a guy who wasnt scared of iteragation with other people, because i never avoided them if they were touching me personally, but i was always anxious and scared of them, just the sheer will to be a seen as confident man allowed me to not run away from problems. Confidence is being scared, but doing it anyway.

  • @angelcervantes8040
    @angelcervantes80403 ай бұрын

    Praise God! Blessed be the name of the Lord forever, Amen! ❤

  • @TravelingIntrovertt
    @TravelingIntrovertt10 ай бұрын

    I was looking for things to boost my self confidence and this video will forever be on repeat for me.

  • @andrewandrew0791
    @andrewandrew07919 ай бұрын

    David goggins is an awesome dude I love his confidence

  • @virtue1495
    @virtue14952 ай бұрын

    Obsessed with this guy!!

  • @sarahabdushi1062
    @sarahabdushi106211 ай бұрын

    Starting to overcome the fear of stuttering. I am gaining the confidence that i need for it. So this video made me even more confident that i already was. 😊

  • @lionofpersis
    @lionofpersis8 ай бұрын

    100%. I’m workin on becoming a pilot. Im terrified of heights. My first few flights, I was afraid.. And I would consider myself a high-confidence man… but my confidence was shattered for a couple weeks because of it. Once I started nailing my landings, my confidence began to improve. That uncomfortable spot made me stronger, which is making me more confident.

  • @samanthab8807
    @samanthab8807 Жыл бұрын

    Great advice as always David

  • @allisoneckhardt1232
    @allisoneckhardt123211 ай бұрын

    I really needed this right now. Ty. I’m crying now.

  • @johnlloydoroc9511
    @johnlloydoroc95114 ай бұрын

    Thanks for your advise goggins I overcome this starting today I believe in my self🎉

  • @ItsEricCastillo
    @ItsEricCastillo10 ай бұрын

    Thank you! I so needed this!

  • @gastiejansen9783
    @gastiejansen9783 Жыл бұрын

    This motivated me

  • @1caringhuman
    @1caringhuman Жыл бұрын

    i love you, david goggins

  • @_nveemee
    @_nveemee9 ай бұрын

    To be honest, this works amazingly! Just doing something that makes you scared, makes you more comfortable with yourself. Jeez, i can barely start a conversation lol but this definitely helps so you dont feel awkward.😀👌

  • @jamesjones7161
    @jamesjones716111 ай бұрын

    Really spoke to me. I’m 14 and going through a lot rn I just got expelled from my cities and possibility my countries most elite academic school due to drug and alcohol usage. I believe this is a part of low self esteem and I’m beginning a self journey of to building up my own self image. Any advice on this would be massively appreciated, I really need some people on my side rn. Wish me luck

  • @dekso1239

    @dekso1239

    8 ай бұрын

    U got this bro💯

  • @lorraine70

    @lorraine70

    5 ай бұрын

    You can do it ❤

  • @boy_jaggz_464
    @boy_jaggz_464Күн бұрын

    I needed this

  • @rheasafana4547
    @rheasafana45476 ай бұрын

    its truee you need to face your fears in order to overcome them

  • @Breizh1999
    @Breizh19996 ай бұрын

    Finally a valuable tip on the question

  • @holayosoyyo8279
    @holayosoyyo8279 Жыл бұрын

    He's so right!

  • @snowwhite9373
    @snowwhite937310 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this, sir.

  • @tretchieoptana5053
    @tretchieoptana505310 ай бұрын

    Thank you for making this video coz i badly needed it today.

  • @rajabrajab1204
    @rajabrajab12043 ай бұрын

    That is true NEVER GIVE UP IN LIFE

  • @mrcallitlikeitisfan2788
    @mrcallitlikeitisfan27882 ай бұрын

    Do what you fear the most

  • @Ganggeroo
    @Ganggeroo Жыл бұрын

    Such a goggins way

  • @GhostOfSparta.
    @GhostOfSparta. Жыл бұрын

    Pain is just a feeling but this.. this is scary for me 😔

  • @DebarshiHore
    @DebarshiHore7 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @jafrinkhan8172
    @jafrinkhan81724 ай бұрын

    absolutely true

  • @adityachoudhary5446
    @adityachoudhary5446 Жыл бұрын

    See in his eyes that spark to do something big 🔥

  • @tamikalewis2766
    @tamikalewis2766 Жыл бұрын

    This is perfect

  • @myb-vg6qv
    @myb-vg6qv2 ай бұрын

    I love you man.

  • @user-ji1mq5ii1c
    @user-ji1mq5ii1cАй бұрын

    I don’t longer care or responsible for other peoples feelings towards me💯❤️

  • @coleross5669
    @coleross5669 Жыл бұрын

    This was a beautiful lesson

  • @maxfreefire66
    @maxfreefire665 ай бұрын

    Finally I got the source of confidence 🙂

  • @ossiespencer4982
    @ossiespencer49825 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @QUESTPOWERUP
    @QUESTPOWERUP Жыл бұрын

    💪👌 Many ways to improve self-confidence

  • @Nagi_666
    @Nagi_666 Жыл бұрын

    Goosebumps bro🙌🙌

  • @noahtheking6769
    @noahtheking6769 Жыл бұрын

    Damn thinking about telling my crush I liked her today this is helping 💀

  • @mrtrollnator123

    @mrtrollnator123

    Жыл бұрын

    Go for it champ!!!!! 👑👑👑👑

  • @noahtheking6769

    @noahtheking6769

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mrtrollnator123 I’m so terrified even though I’m like 99 percent sure she likes me back

  • @mrtrollnator123

    @mrtrollnator123

    Жыл бұрын

    @@noahtheking6769 I know bro I know the feeling but the best thing to do is to face your fears and go for it!!!! You can do it man I believe in you!!!!

  • @yanicemtl

    @yanicemtl

    9 күн бұрын

    How is it going

  • @noahtheking6769

    @noahtheking6769

    8 күн бұрын

    @@yanicemtl wow did t expect this it’s going good we still talk and I told her it’s still smooth 😎

  • @yessirrr5182
    @yessirrr5182 Жыл бұрын

    He already knows what to do but just wanted to hear goggins say something about it lol

  • @daniphantomconcept
    @daniphantomconcept3 ай бұрын

    Thanks❤

  • @kennarose1621
    @kennarose1621 Жыл бұрын

    daily reminder Your skin is not paper so dont cut it Your neck is not a coat so dont hang it Your body is not a book so dont judge it Your heart is not a door so dont lock it Your life is not a movie so dont end it Remember to always love yourself no matter what. You are amazing

  • @Islam.1239t
    @Islam.1239t11 ай бұрын

    Tell me background’s music name??

  • @yeeyeeasshaircut6723
    @yeeyeeasshaircut67238 ай бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @picklerick710
    @picklerick7102 ай бұрын

    I usually don’t care but this one girl she got me overthinking and I’m not going to lie I’m a little nervous😅

  • @LetsGetBetterYT
    @LetsGetBetterYT8 ай бұрын

    It’s not in the comfort zone…it’s in the discomfort zone. ❤️

  • @harrybale6863
    @harrybale6863 Жыл бұрын

    needed this

  • @ItsPhandom
    @ItsPhandom10 ай бұрын

    leg day motivation 🔥🔥

  • @mikemierspadios7036
    @mikemierspadios7036 Жыл бұрын

    Haha . One of my fear is POSTING PICS on social media.

  • @abulrex_h4771

    @abulrex_h4771

    Жыл бұрын

    i don’t find that as a fear i just find it cringe like everytime i would post a story or something like that i would just think to myself why did i just do this this feels childish yk?

  • @mrtrollnator123

    @mrtrollnator123

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts i have that fear as well im always afraid when i get a picture taken 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @stellahargley7534
    @stellahargley75347 ай бұрын

    This guy is the final boss