How To Gain A Horse's Trust 💕

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Today I am talking about how to gain a horse's trust. We all want a great relationship with our horses, and building trust and respect is such an important part to achieve this. I did this video to educate and provide maybe a new perspective if you are currently struggling with trust or respect between you and your horse. I hope this helps and you end up inspired along your journey to learn how to gain a horse's trust :)
0:00 Introduction
0:36 Establishing A Connection
1:57 Building More Trust
3:32 Conclusion
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  • @JSHorsemanship
    @JSHorsemanship4 жыл бұрын

    Hope you enjoyed this video. Feel free to share what has helped you in building trust with your horse

  • @tonikroos7122
    @tonikroos71224 жыл бұрын

    i came to learn how to ride a horse , now i fall in love with this girl

  • @louiejhon4461

    @louiejhon4461

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah hahahaha me too hahaha

  • @DB-bk9tr

    @DB-bk9tr

    3 жыл бұрын

    Simps…

  • @KingsMom831

    @KingsMom831

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m just here for Tucker😁🥰 JK, she’s amazing too!

  • @stormcloud9932
    @stormcloud99323 жыл бұрын

    I got my horse a few months ago but he still doesn't trust me. This video helped me a lot and were finally getting a good connection

  • @songperformer_NET
    @songperformer_NETАй бұрын

    I have decades of working with Dogs, just starting with Horses, I see many parallels, beautiful animals, very calming being around them.

  • @Tricksy-unik
    @Tricksy-unik Жыл бұрын

    Your Horse has such a good connection with you. Its amazing and beautiful to watch!

  • @lilstrats944
    @lilstrats9443 жыл бұрын

    I’m about to meet some horses next weekend. I’m gonna look the horse in the eyes, talk to it, pet it, scratch it, and feed it. I’m not scared because you’re taught me a lot. I love and respect the horses. It’s not about riding. I want to build a companionship and mutual trust. Thank you for everything!

  • @katemitchell_volleyball7
    @katemitchell_volleyball74 жыл бұрын

    i tamed a wild horse because of you ❤️ i liked and subbed

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    4 жыл бұрын

    That’s so awesome !!😀 Thanks for the support💕🐴

  • @nickwhite1767

    @nickwhite1767

    3 жыл бұрын

    AWWW THAT MELTS MY HHEART!!!! EEEEEEEEEEe

  • @nickcarlton9720
    @nickcarlton97203 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! You understand your horses so well! Learned alot from you..your horses are stunning :)

  • @gemmadavies4997
    @gemmadavies49972 жыл бұрын

    I have a young horse who is barefoot and I was letting him walk where he felt more comfortable but I realised it wasn't good for building trust because he needed me to make the decisions and give direction. Since I have been directing him more on trails it has really helped. Sometimes he is happy to go where I ask and sometimes I need to get him to refocus on me before hand. If he gets worried I ask him to do something (anything - just needs clear direction) which is great for reducing his fear and gaining confidence in me as a leader. I like your videos, they are clear and straight to the point. I love the way you show two different horses with clearly different characters. I think there's a delicate balance between trust and respect which might be a good subjet for another video ...?

  • @oscarorozco7368
    @oscarorozco736829 күн бұрын

    Wow that’s a true bond😀

  • @KingsMom831
    @KingsMom8313 жыл бұрын

    I love that you have two different examples of two very different horses

  • @wrenbirdy13
    @wrenbirdy132 жыл бұрын

    Something I do with obstacles sometimes, is I walk on the ground with my horse. Sometimes she needs to see me or another horse do something first to be comfortable, and I'm okay with that! As long as she understands, and as long as we eventually get her over the obstacle comfortably? That's what's important. After one or two times of me walking on the ground, I can usually go over on her back just fine!

  • @daliahelmy410
    @daliahelmy4103 жыл бұрын

    The horse following your instructions out of trust is very wonderful 😍

  • @daliahelmy410

    @daliahelmy410

    3 жыл бұрын

    By talking about rider- horse relationship. As a beginner, and starting training at a school (so with different horses). Any suggestion how i build my confidence, thus the horse's trust, starting from mounting the horse. And i am also being thinking all of the time the horse (even the beginner horse) may do a sudden movement which would cause me to lose balance. Sorry this would direct me to another question 😁. As a totally beginner who is never rode a horse. And also frightened and not yet balanced. Any idea what procedures/steps should the trainer follow? Thanks a million

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Dalia😊 When it comes to building confidence nothing replaces time spent around horses and in the saddle. As you gain your balance and increase your knowledge your confidence will grow. Confidence comes from knowledge and knowledge comes from experience. Keep up the good work and continue to grow and learn💕🐴

  • @daliahelmy410

    @daliahelmy410

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JSHorsemanship thank you very much. That sums it up 🌺

  • @KFC298
    @KFC2984 жыл бұрын

    Hi Joan, Great Video! I found that when working with my horse, consistency is extremely important when developing trust or learning a new task. Each day I would start out with the same routine I did the day before. For example, when asking him to walk up to me in the pasture, I would try to do this at about the same time every day, use the exact same cues and rewards. BTW I met you at our EAGALA training session. I live on the west side and actually am leasing an arena and a few horses and will soon launch a small EAP and EAA program! I will also subscribe to your U Tube Channel and please keep these great videos coming! Karen Cahill

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Karen:) Congratulations on launching your new program! That is awesome! I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. Thank you for reaching out and subscribing 😄 If you’re ever out near Cleveland Ohio we should get together 😊🐴

  • @Mjaetee
    @Mjaetee4 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video!

  • @dallasmysteryside7009
    @dallasmysteryside70092 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much I just got a horse today and heard that it was a 22 year old horse and is scared of jumping this really helped thank you very much

  • @Krista_Hoal
    @Krista_Hoal7 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this such amazing video. This really helped me trust my horse, and my horse trust me. Thank you Joan! I have a timid Welsh pony and she is really sweet, but overall I didn't really feel like she trusted me. After watching this video, I don't think we could have a stronger bond. 💕

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing 😊 I’m so happy to hear that you found the video helpful 💕 🐴

  • @nakiamiller8322
    @nakiamiller83224 жыл бұрын

    I love the video! super helpful.

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing Nakia😊 I’m so glad it was a help

  • @padoskornelia3925
    @padoskornelia39252 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! :)

  • @gabbieventing8365
    @gabbieventing83653 жыл бұрын

    Such a pretty gray,!🤩

  • @tawnyalousma9690
    @tawnyalousma96903 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @haileebee8318
    @haileebee83184 жыл бұрын

    thank you

  • @divinealvarez3514
    @divinealvarez35143 жыл бұрын

    beautiful horse 💖💖💖💖

  • @avdhootnangare9368
    @avdhootnangare93683 жыл бұрын

    It was so good

  • @idiota1741
    @idiota17412 жыл бұрын

    Ty!!!

  • @nicholaskearney678
    @nicholaskearney6784 жыл бұрын

    Great voice.

  • @horsesare_life34
    @horsesare_life34 Жыл бұрын

    I love your videos and i needed this bc my friend gave me a foal gor my birthday and he has trust issues

  • @dr.romanott7249
    @dr.romanott72492 жыл бұрын

    Great content ! I like your voice.

  • @gabbycisco5211
    @gabbycisco52113 жыл бұрын

    I have to more days intill my last competition with my horse so I am just doing walking exercises and I will try this

  • @emelyfrst8510
    @emelyfrst85104 жыл бұрын

    Wow!!! i love the way you work with horses!

  • @mrsimo7144
    @mrsimo71443 жыл бұрын

    I work on a polo farm with loads of ponies. They scare me. Thanks for the video

  • @marieprovencio7073
    @marieprovencio70732 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this!!! Great job here!!! Love my baby yeah!! His name is shadow!!! A 2 year old!!! Love him so very much beyond words!!

  • @grimMeowo
    @grimMeowo3 жыл бұрын

    Hi I was just wondering how tall are you? I’m quite tall and I don’t have much confidence on how I look on a horse. You look quite tall so that makes me feel a bit better :)

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi😊 I am 5’11 and a half. So I feel your pain😂 While many of the horses I ride are 15-16 hands they look small when I ride them. There are some advantages to being tall as a rider. For one having long legs can definitely come in handy when you have a horse who is trying to buck you off or spooks. This has have saved me a few times. ☺️

  • @hobbyhorsegirlinsuitafrica2798
    @hobbyhorsegirlinsuitafrica27982 жыл бұрын

    I love how your horse looks he or she is so cute your lucky to have a horse I am 11 years old and I love horses I have a love for Arabian horses I love Arabian's they are so nice and I don't have a horse and I am a girl but I do ridding lessons

  • @ishankashyap5415
    @ishankashyap54153 жыл бұрын

    In our school not everyone gets to have their own horse, like many people ride a single horse one by one at different time.. Is it possible that one horse builds a special bond with a particular person??

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi😊 Thank you for sharing. Yes, I believe that a horse can develop a special bond with one person🐴

  • @lillefis32
    @lillefis323 жыл бұрын

    Hey! Im gonna begin with horse riding the horses have my trust to pet them their comfterble with me but like the riding i havent done it yet bc i havent beginned so i wanted to check how its gonna trust me and let me do the thing with her/him.AND LIKE IM IN LOVE WITH HORSES

  • @wajdiamayreh930
    @wajdiamayreh930 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for this nice video. I bought a horse a month ago and she seems to try to kick at times . How can I tackle this issue?

  • @MonaAlaya20
    @MonaAlaya203 жыл бұрын

    Another tip is, feed your horse with own hands. Even if you are a beginner and want to learn riding, get some Jaggery for you horse. Pat him feed him and build your friendship💕

  • @RamiTheHolligan

    @RamiTheHolligan

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree, but if you do that they will just look up to you coming to them and just feeding them and not anything else. If you want to do that put it in there grain and not by hand 😁

  • @avigarg7859
    @avigarg78593 жыл бұрын

    thank-you so much. Mam is there any video on horse food?

  • @geelencaroline
    @geelencaroline3 жыл бұрын

    I like to sie more of it

  • @Nicole-jv7xd
    @Nicole-jv7xd3 жыл бұрын

    My horse's name is Madie and I love her so much

  • @motivationaltalks29
    @motivationaltalks293 жыл бұрын

    I feel like this is the only girl who could tame my wild personality.

  • @MonaAlaya20

    @MonaAlaya20

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you really are a horse!

  • @burkeschan
    @burkeschan2 жыл бұрын

    Hi! Would love tips for building a relationship with a horse that's leased. I know it's different than a horse you might own, but I'd love to build a respectful and healthy relationship with him all the same!

  • @israanas1815
    @israanas18152 жыл бұрын

    Hi there! I’ve been trying out this horse and I think I will be getting it, do u have any tips for how to deal with a sensitive horse? I’m used to the lesson horses, and I have to use a lot more effort to do simple things but with my new horse h listens immediately.

  • @ginapeterzon3064
    @ginapeterzon30644 жыл бұрын

    this is underrated

  • @Vleminxy
    @Vleminxy3 жыл бұрын

    My horse pushes his head against me and i allmost fall over ( is it good or bad 😬😬 )

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi😊 Wile it is wonderful to have your horse show affection. It is important to have some clear boundaries. Doing this keeps you and your horse safe. For this reason I would not let your horse push his head against you unless you have invited him to do so.🐴

  • @Vleminxy

    @Vleminxy

    3 жыл бұрын

    JSHorsemanship the problem is, its not my horse… its the horse from the stables i go horse riding to ;-; i just kinda use him…… and idk how to make boundries

  • @williamsfamily6211

    @williamsfamily6211

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Vleminxy hey! I work with horses sometimes. If the horse is doing this, its not on purpose and the horse could have been trying to back up or look at what you were doing, since it cant see you from certain angles. I recommend talking about this with the owner, or whoever is in charge of the horse(s). Horses have 3 blind spots and its bound to happen that they accidentally bump your head. If you are in front of or behind the horse, keeping one of your hands on them and keeping an eye on them can help to make sure they dont accidentally step on your foot or bump into you. 100% discuss this with whoever is in charge!

  • @saifiyaqureshi881
    @saifiyaqureshi8813 жыл бұрын

    Can you please make a video on fast horse riding

  • @racheljohnson1856
    @racheljohnson18563 жыл бұрын

    Question my horse usually bumps my butt with her head when I’m brushing her or just walking sometimes she’s never done it hard for it to hurt but why does she do it? Is it a good sign?

  • @mikaylaguldin2969
    @mikaylaguldin29693 жыл бұрын

    How long did it take for you to train legend to lay down?

  • @lucyslifewithpets175
    @lucyslifewithpets1753 жыл бұрын

    My dads very very likely to get a dapple grey horse in a few weeks!!!!!!!!!

  • @willow-georgeovertton1222
    @willow-georgeovertton1222 Жыл бұрын

    I have a pony that has just come into my care and naturally i have found that with time and consistency she has formed a strong connection with me, the only time we have trouble is with loading, she still gets stressed by it, any advice

  • @veronikapacekova4988
    @veronikapacekova49883 жыл бұрын

    I have a new mare But she is young so she can’t be tacked up yet but from the first day i could see she trusted me because when i started running she was running with me But then i tried to chatch her on a leash and she got spooked and wouldnt let me go near her so i don’t know what to do to keep the trust and get her to listen to me

  • @melisue7487
    @melisue74872 жыл бұрын

    I’m new to horses but we got a rescue mare who was just used for breeding and underfed. They would stick her legs into a device so she couldn’t move which is why I think I’m having a difficult time being able to clean her hooves. I’ve tried many times but she just picks up her foot and slams it back down. Would you have any advice for me?

  • @susankurtz2904
    @susankurtz29042 жыл бұрын

    I got a horse an he was fine till 2 weeks later he hated me I did everything an I need something to gain his trust I don't know wat to do cause I love riding

  • @tiajewels2820
    @tiajewels2820 Жыл бұрын

    I wanna learn how to get my horse to lay down!

  • @SKuhn
    @SKuhn3 жыл бұрын

    Just got a new horse and was wondering how you suggest bonding with him. So far I have done a lot of reading out in the pasture with him. And grooming as he seems like like being brushed. What else can I do? What should I work on? How do I build our bond?

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi😊 It sounds like you are off to a good start in getting to know your new horse better. One thing that I have found to be valuable when bonding with a new horse is doing ground work. There are many different exercises you can do. Doing ground work helps you to start build better communication and understanding with your horse. This can be a fun way to get to know your new horse better and lay a good foundation for the future💕🐴 Here are a few videos that may help. m.kzread.info/dash/bejne/d2mCw6luoqevlNY.html m.kzread.info/dash/bejne/dadrz8WAqq-1c7A.html m.kzread.info/dash/bejne/a4OLs7Wuh7e6gMY.html

  • @taylormaltby2129
    @taylormaltby21292 жыл бұрын

    I know this video was a while ago but I have a question and if any one could answer it that would be SO helpful! I recently got a horse (17 year old paint mare) two days ago. We went to meet her about a week ago, and she was super sweet let us ride/walk her. And now that shes here she is testing my limits I guess. I am scared to ride her and she started freaking out when I go up to her:( Is it me? Am I approaching her wrong? I know nothing about horses. What should I do? The lady before me always gave her treats for everything walking up to her, putting her halter on and way more. I guess she was treat trained. And she wont let me put her halter on without giving her a treat😕 I really love her, but don't know what to do. If you have any ideas, please share.🙏

  • @David-zg1nm
    @David-zg1nm2 жыл бұрын

    My Toby works with carots

  • @bubbsnz4244
    @bubbsnz42443 жыл бұрын

    I've been wanting a horse I wanted to be a horse rider :( dad doesn't listen and mom is trying to make it work ^w^ I still want this dream!

  • @user-mf6fi5tb4z

    @user-mf6fi5tb4z

    3 жыл бұрын

    i wish u the best of luck

  • @imagineifyouwereaworm

    @imagineifyouwereaworm

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lease a horse first

  • @liveandlearn3069
    @liveandlearn30693 жыл бұрын

    First

  • @yerebiz9545
    @yerebiz95453 жыл бұрын

    Mt new horse used to trust me ive had him for a week, i have ridden him like 5 times, yesterday i lunged him for the first time and now he kicks when i go to ride him

  • @imagineifyouwereaworm

    @imagineifyouwereaworm

    3 жыл бұрын

    Might be pain

  • @florafoxy5707
    @florafoxy57073 жыл бұрын

    Uhm is it ok if i befriend a horse that’s not mine and it’s from a horseback riding camp that I ride often...?

  • @melaniailiuk779
    @melaniailiuk7794 жыл бұрын

    Are there some ways to gain your horses trust when going into the corner of the arena that spooks him the most?

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am planning on doing a video talking about this 😊 Stay tuned!!

  • @melaniailiuk779

    @melaniailiuk779

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JSHorsemanship thank you😊🐴

  • @rosesdivision4498

    @rosesdivision4498

    3 жыл бұрын

    Theres a technique that works for me

  • @rosesdivision4498

    @rosesdivision4498

    3 жыл бұрын

    If you want i can tell you

  • @le5king
    @le5king3 жыл бұрын

    Can i ask how tall you are? Im watching these vids because my gf has and them horses are huge!! Im 5.10 and they make me look like me a midget!!!!

  • @kirst_
    @kirst_4 жыл бұрын

    How do you get your horse to trust undersaddle and in canter? Thanks!

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Kirstin, This is a great question😀 There are a few things I think about when it comes to gaining my horses trust under saddle especially in the canter. The first one is working on making sure my horse is moving in good balance. A horse that is weak or out of balance will often have more tension under saddle and this can appear to be a lack of trust. To strengthen my horse I make sure that all my basic work is really solid. The walk and trot are adjustable and my horse is able to be soft and balanced in his lateral work. Once the walk and trot are soft and balanced you can add in more strengthening exercises at the canter to help increase your horses strength and flexibility. The body is the gateway to the mind. The second thing I think about when getting a horse confidant under saddle has to do with me as the rider. I ask myself, Am I being clear and consistent in the way I am cueing my horse? Am I riding with a balanced position that is making it easier for my horse to relax? How much am I looking for good changes and rewarding my horse? Because every horse and rider are unique. It is difficult to give you any exact exercise. I hope this information gives you some food for thought and is a help. If you would like more help with this you can submit a video for me to review on my website. I wish you and your horse the best as you continue to learn and grow together😊🐴

  • @kirst_

    @kirst_

    4 жыл бұрын

    JSHorsemanship I part lease a Clydesdale who was in 18 abusives homes! He is still learning to trust but he is really really getting there! Thank you for replying!

  • @joyhughes5937

    @joyhughes5937

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@kirst_ How awful, 18 ABUSIVE HOMES, I am glad you are working with him now:)

  • @mdee860

    @mdee860

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JSHorsemanship - Not only that ( but a great answer) - always notice the 'horse you have that day' - before you mount. Is anything different or unusual, is your horse looking to you for cues, are you both paying attention to each other? I agree 1,000% - if your horse is not calm & relaxed at a walk, don't move on to a trot. Same for trot, if you can't ride w/ relaxed reins at a trot, don't move on to a canter. Not paying attention to these small details & not being fully present can have bad results for horse and/or rider.

  • @nickwhite1767
    @nickwhite17673 жыл бұрын

    Hi yall im no expert and im just wondering will gaining my horses trust make my horse listen more

  • @bellamclean3145

    @bellamclean3145

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello! It depends some things that also help are knowing how to use your leg well, but yes this will help at lest a bit!

  • @nickwhite1767

    @nickwhite1767

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bellamclean3145 Tysm!!!

  • @itachianddrakenswife5418
    @itachianddrakenswife54184 жыл бұрын

    so there is this horse i hide his name is Gys and he is a Friesan and i trust him but i feel like he dose not like me

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Caroline😊 Friesians are beautiful horse 💕 It takes time to build a trusting bond🐴 Keep increasing your knowledge. Doing some ground work is a is a good place to start💕

  • @itachianddrakenswife5418

    @itachianddrakenswife5418

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@JSHorsemanship ok thank you!

  • @im_l1sa_hop432
    @im_l1sa_hop4324 ай бұрын

    They told me if i gain the horses trust i can get it for free cuz she is known as aggressive and can’t be rode but she accepted me and i always ride her so now they told me to gain her trust to get it for free I need help

  • @dannydaniel764
    @dannydaniel7643 жыл бұрын

    I love horse but i dont have mony to buy horse

  • @germanandpathan9154
    @germanandpathan91544 жыл бұрын

    It makes me so scared if the horse not listening to me in such a situation

  • @wabarrelracer6510

    @wabarrelracer6510

    4 жыл бұрын

    You have to teach them who is boss also because they know that they are big animals and know they can get away with it

  • @germanandpathan9154

    @germanandpathan9154

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@wabarrelracer6510 yes but unfortunately I have no personal horse... Its very emotional for me when im so crazy about horses and riding but have no opportunity

  • @wabarrelracer6510

    @wabarrelracer6510

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@germanandpathan9154 what state do you live in

  • @germanandpathan9154

    @germanandpathan9154

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@wabarrelracer6510 currently i live in Pakistan... Maybe i move out to Germany in few months once corona is gone.. Why u asking?

  • @wabarrelracer6510

    @wabarrelracer6510

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@germanandpathan9154 oh nvm I was gonna say I have a horse for sale but I live in the USA.......are you a beginner rider?

  • @ProMode-px1wk
    @ProMode-px1wk3 жыл бұрын

    "easy easy gurrl" "it's alright gurrl" - Arthur Morgan's horse trust method

  • @diamondl596
    @diamondl5963 жыл бұрын

    I would hate to listen to the conversation the 3 girls are having at the coffee table

  • @mikaylaguldin2969
    @mikaylaguldin29693 жыл бұрын

    How long did it take for you to train legend to lay down?

  • @JSHorsemanship

    @JSHorsemanship

    3 жыл бұрын

    It look me a week to teach Legend to lay down😊 He has always been a relaxed and confident horse. Every horse is different some take long or shorter depending on their personality.

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