“Not everyone will see the vision and tbh that’s not for them to see… it’s for you to see” screaming

(1)Accept yourself; learn to enjoy your own company even if you have somebody there. Change is constant in life! Accept your space and time. You're alone in this world, handle yourself and be comfortable in your space (2) Self-care; prioritize self-care, and maintain the level of beauty. This means you can do "Me Day". Appreciate your beauty. Have me day " Peace day" 3) STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF: not everyone will accept your true self, and not everyone will accept who you are. I.e trying to speak a certain, or trying to do some certain thing just to fit in, hmmm you don't need that. Be who you're speaking the way you want to speak as far you're not hurting people or disrespecting anyone. You can do without a man but you need a man. You'll always find people who will like you and accept you, stop trying to ma people like you (4) SET GOALS FOR YOURSELF: know the target Take a pen and write your goals Do you want to treat or appreciate yourself more? You're the one that can love yourself the way you can Set the goals you're doing this every month, write and tick them off 5) LEARN TO SAY NO: you never know how difficult it is until you're in a situation when you need to say no Learn the amount of time you say yes and the amount of time you say no Learn to create boundary. It can sound selfish but learn to say no Let today be the first day of putting yourself first. As long you're not hurting, or disrespecting anybody Love yourself more Love you sis!

@marilynboateng3809

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Sis😘

@ilianahernandez811

2 жыл бұрын

Wish I could copy & paste ! 😂

@GiannahAranda

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for typing all of this out for others!

@peacetolushe5825

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, everyone for going through this

@yassminesakhrat7772

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

“Everytime you have to tweak yourself to be who you aren’t it is hard to go back to who you truly are .” I see you queen🫶🏽you are so beautiful and uplifting thank you so much

It’s the vibes in this video….focus on yourself needs to be prioritized because you matter……placing value on yourself is so much important and I feel like people need to watch this, this is a sign guys. Thank you Lucy

@MyLucyBenson

2 жыл бұрын

That’s right my love, Thank you for the support ❤️

@monashorter1540

Жыл бұрын

❤

My problem is I’m always alone. I don’t have the option to do things in groups because I have far and few friends. I go out to eat, do activities, gym, walks etc all alone.

@heaven_bones

Жыл бұрын

Same but I'm not allowed to really go out I'm always in my room and it has caused me to unwillingly become an introvert and it's like everytime I make a good friend they move away or something

@aleyahmalone5012

Ай бұрын

Relatable

You're helping a lot of people indeed. That happens to me too, we're all in this together anc yes, having people in your life that don't accept you for who you are, will never worth it. I have ADHD and it has been difficult due it. So of course, don't feel alone, it's just a process. You can do this sis!

I just recently deleted my socials and just kept Whatsapp since I talk to my family or friends that I'm close with. I struggled with my mental health, not loving myself and not clearly focusing myself because I cared about others more and what they're doing in life.After watching your video, it got me realising the fact that I must put myself out there first and to not care what other people are doing and to not impress people on what I do, where I'm going in life and sharing my furture goals and plans. Now from today, I'm going to start planning my routines, experiment it and see how it goes on from there.I'll also start taking care of my both mental and physical health, including healing.Thank you so much for sharing this video, they are really motivational and inspiring.And you are right about one thing, taking things in progress.Hope I'll come out stronger and better.❤☺💯

I agree, however I think it's acceptable to put yourself in circle of people who are where you are inspired to be even if it doesn't resonate with who you are at the moment or makes you uncomfortable at first. Changes & learning better habits are a part of prioritizing one's self.

All I can say is that I love you sis I'm twenty years old and I really want to invest in myself .I been use by people for being everywhere and trying to make everyone happy thanks alot 🤗

Everything you said is exactly how I think.. its good to know Divas like you can appreciate and know a woman's value

The way you explain things just makes it so much easier to resonate. This video I 100% was meant to see!

This is really helpful, I've been lost and losing myself too because I worry too much and I don't even look good anymore. I'm now pale, looking skinny but am trying to get back on track

I love this video so much!! Putting yourself first is not selfish it’s a form of self love!! Loved how you personalized the message too girl❤️ so inspired

Great tips to prioritize yourself and should be practice throughout our life span. I agree, I think it's not about being selfish, but just knowing that we have to take care of ourselves before we can take care of others. 🤗

you are so comforting, I am just in absolute awe. i never thought I could feel this way, or that this way of feeling or thinking was even allowed… i an extra grateful for your personal take on this, thank you for giving me so much courage

I had been watching a whole lots of KZread videos and I would literally watch and pass but the day I came across "the power of silence " I juz gat to subscribed asap. I love your intelligence, your vibes and ofcourse your beautiful face 😍 😘

I can so relate to this..so many times have I inconvenienced myself for others just to help them because I can't say No. listening to you and a few selected people is really helping me. Thanks sis

This video just hit every point me and my mom were speaking about tonight! Thank you so much for this video. Confirmation 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

You are so well versed, and I love the atmosphere in all your videos. Thank you for being so genuine and for wanting to help some of us ladies out here ❤️❤️

Omg Lucy, I can completely identify with not putting myself first. I am so grateful, inspired, and hopeful from your awesome perspective. You sharing your insights are invaluable. Thanks again sis...😇

I absolutely love everything about you and every piece of advice given in this video . It was much needed on my end. Thank you sis 💕

Thank you so much for this video. It came just in time. And thank you for what you said on really knowing if you can be by yourself bc that’s the truth: you really don’t know just how you’ll withstand without your people until they’re gone. Thank you again. ♥️

Your makeup is givingggg😍 Thank you for this amazing video

I felt like crying in the end. This video really hit home. Thank you Lucy

This message is so on point. A hard lesson learned. I was here before many years ago. It took a minute to realize but once I did, the weight on my shoulders was lifted. *I come before you, even in the alphabet.•✨💕✨

Word for word exactly my way of thinking.. thanks for this

Lucy thanks for all you do😘 You always remind me to love myself more❤️

Thank you so much Lucy for making these videos they help me a lot.....

I Loved it All and I Agree Totally, Thank U For Reminding Me!!!

Thank you for this video!! 💕 Really need this!

@MyLucyBenson

2 жыл бұрын

You are welcome love ❤️

I've been following you for a couple of weeks now and I just love your videos there so therapeutic for my soul! Thank you so much ❣️

I am from Australia but away in Bali for a holiday and I watch your videos while getting ready in the morning 😊 you are part of my self care while I do my makeup 😊 I’m taking many tips and ideas from you to better my life step by step. Saying no is one big one for me! I appreciate what you do and you’ve helped me a lot! 🌸🌸🌸

😮 from beginning to end you were speaking directly to my soul. Great nuggets I need to stay on this journey to reclaim me. Thank you 😊

I like every single word u said ! Thank you sis

Wow, this was exactly what I needed to hear 🥺

I love this, great advice 🙏🏾💕

This is the best have ever listened to regarding this topic cause is like everyone is saying same thing but this one is different I LOVE IT

Love you girl❤ u are inspiration in hard times thanks❤️

This has really helped me, thanks lucy💕

Such a vibe!! Self value, self love, self worth, should be everyone's priority of self. I dont have to be liked, but respect is a must. And this comes by knowing my value. Remember when people show you who they are. Believe them. Dont wait till the 25th time when they've done all the dirt they felt like. Hire and fire accordingly!

I needed this made a decision to stay off social media the whole 2023 and 2024 I been slapping on myself and day dreaming I got so much to do . Thanks for much definitely be stock in here as my new distraction. ❤ thank you so much

Lucy your channel is very therapeutic to me, I love you.. Thanks for this one.

Hi, I'm 14 and you have really inspired me on doing this journey! I've always took care of others/care about others but myself. Thankyou alot I'm also a new subber

Beautiful video thank you so much💓

Your videos constantly remind me to love and prioritize myself 🤍

@MyLucyBenson

2 жыл бұрын

This makes me so happy ❤️

Omg , i love this woman🔥♥️

I watch your videos back to back like it’s a podcast 😭💗 I over love your channel

This is the first video of this sort that I actually feel the discernment. I’ve been listening to content all day trying to really feel a message. So thank you!

omg u really helped me so much!! thankyouu, i've been binge watching your youtube videos, and i really love ur channel, ur like a sister who's giving me advice, much love for you!!

When I say I needed all 27 minutes & 3 seconds of this. Baybeee 😩 thank you sis

I watched every video you post, and must say that you have inspired me to work on my self .since I am doing that I am at peace and glowing up .

@MyLucyBenson

2 жыл бұрын

I am so happy about this love ❤️ sending you all the love and support you need

Just saw your video You bring out some points which i knw it will be useful for me Thanks for sharing sis👏

I just can't love you less. You always make a lot of sense. God bless you so much for your life changing videos. Am beginning to see my self differently now. I would love to follow u on other platforms. You have become my role model 🥰

You have change my life thank you Have learn to stay true to yourself and accepting your own space. May God bless you

I needed to hear this

Watching your videos truly inspire me. And I can’t get over the fact that you look so beautifulllllll. Every hairstyle. I loved the low cut. 🤍

I love this video i really need to hear this

I have seen alot of people speak on this topic but yours hits differently.!

Your videos are the best. I'm so grateful for you.

Just found your channel and so far your videos are💯💯💯👌🏾👌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 amazing. You speak so much truth 💯🥰 Part 2 would be great.🥰🙌🏾

This is so helpful Lucy. Thank You!

I’ve been struggling to stay on track with the plan that I made for myself because of how much I subconsciously stress about that future. I had been procrastinating all day when I knew I had assignmentS to get done. This video made me get up and try to tidy my surroundings and I feel a lot better now❤️😭

You are phenomenal, thank you for your content. You inspire me

🙏🏼needed this💕

I like what you said regarding drawing a circle around yourself and only allowing certain things/people in

Wallahiii 😅 I love you Lucy, every point you made makes absolute sense I've been learning to prioritize myself and I'm glad I have some more tips now. Thanks girl😍🥺

@MyLucyBenson

2 жыл бұрын

You are welcome love ❤️

your smile is so so nice!!🥰

I love you, you just solved a major problem in my life. Thank you again

You are gorgeous Sis thanks for this video 💞💞💞 I am on a new journey self love is extremely important you gotta love self keep the videos coming 💖 💪🏾✌🏾💃🏾

OMG!!! This is absolutely educative👏👏 thank you Lucy for making this video,I found it at the right time and am so happy I came across this moment..

watching this from Jamaica and I enjoyed😇. Thank you Lucy!

I am subscribing right away!!! I loveeee this video. Thanks for the tips. They seem helpful.

Thanks for this video, sometimes you need to hear the same things again and again to don't go back to irrelevant things.

This video is gold

This was really empowering, thanks sis. Im putting me first!

I’ve learned alot from you so far. Thank you❤️

Thank you for this I just recently started prioritizing myself this year Cause I realized most people don't actually care I'm learning to say no n enjoying my own company plus appreciating n loving myself Thank you so much 🥰

@armiebarr725

Жыл бұрын

I will learn to think first the outcome and what will happen in the end.

Thank you for this info

Yes. I watched it twice ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Babe, you're the bomb 🔥.. Shrinking oneself is real shit.. You're just the one I have been waiting for. Much love babe😘

Lucyyy❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love your teeth 💕and thank you so much for sharing this is really helpful.

just found your channel and im subscribing! im tired of putting others feelings first! im putting myself first now

Thank you so much for this

Thank you Lucy , Your videos are always impactful. Am liking your 2022 vibes . I enjoyed every part of this video. Is the walahi for me 😂. Please make a video on Friendship

Very much needed video❤️

Wow ... This is very educative and motivating. thank you 🙏🔥❤️

this was amazing thank you!!

Absolutely love you sis ♥️

@MyLucyBenson

2 жыл бұрын

Love you too sis ❤️

Thank you ❤

Wow thank you so much for this video🥰🥰

@MyLucyBenson

2 жыл бұрын

You are always welcome ❤️

Thank you for this I am having hard time try to make everyone happy and more concern how they feel and don't want offend anyone

Thank you so much!

You inspire me❤️

Lucy I love your teaching on emotionally intelligent woman, I love the way you do, the way you carry yourself and your teachings, you are indeed a very beautiful woman. I love self care too. Continue to be beautiful😅

Not me sending your videos and recommending your page 😂❤️❤️❤️

Love this❤️❤️, weldone lucy

@MyLucyBenson

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

I just found this channel and immediately subscribed and saved all of her videos to my watch later. 🥹 I freaking love her vibe and energy. She’s radiating immense ✨Goddess Energy✨!!! I am practicing on putting my self first and loving myself wholeheartedly! I wish the rest of the Queens who watch this video the best of luck on their journey to ultimate self love! 🪷❤️

you really help me love myself

Really like your character!

part of my "Me Time" is watching and listening to Lucy 😊😊😊 Lucy thanks for all you do... part of your videos from last year already thought me to prioritise myself....Love from Ukraine

@MyLucyBenson

2 жыл бұрын

Awww thank you girl ❤️

@winifredthompson6740

Жыл бұрын

Me too sis!!!!!!. For me I start my day by watching one of her videos after prayers and meditation...