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I used enclothed cognition when i was promoted at work. I had trouble adjusting to my role as a manager, so I started dressing like a manager (in my perspective). Made a world of difference.

@johnparnell8571

Жыл бұрын

Spot-on. If you dress the part, you feel the part and you will perform the part. This worked for me too.

@mickeyconnor830

Жыл бұрын

I used it to GET promoted at work. Acting the part works better when people are paying attention. 😉

Love the advice, as always. I recall the first time I actually considered my "personal style." Although as a teen I had always envisioned myself in suits and cardigans, having been inspired by characters such as Frasier Crane, Hannibal Lecter, and James Bond, I found such clothing to be both expensive and impractical considering the environment I was in. Furthermore, such style did not allow my inner geek to shine through. Therefore I adopted graphic tees and sweats, with two suits on standby for more professional occasions. Eventually, I had the confidence to go for that "psychiatrist look," and adopted button-down shirts and a blazer. However, I sometimes wore a Starfleet pin on my lapel or upon my vest. Keeping it both professional and whimsical. Yet I had already noticed an aspect of my personality I had not previously considered. Utility. Thus my pants were Dickies Work-Pants, my accessories functioned more as multi-tools, and I favored boots rather than dress shoes. My sportscoat also evolved into something more hardy, depending on the needs of the day. I needed something that could survive a splash of mud from time to time. Finally, my style evolved to what it is today. With function and utility in mind first and style second. Though I do not wear a simple hodgepodge of clothing. I keep to two main themes. Colors of the forest (darker shades, chiefly browns, greens, and reds), and the ideal that one outfit can dress down into three. So I have a complete minimalist look, add a button-down shirt and it gives way to a more "dressy" look, add a coat and it becomes travel attire. I have a simple EDC set-up, occasionally a Filson Carry Bag, Duster in bad weather, and a hat when needed. Not certain what one would call that style, but it certainly evolved over time. Although, on occasion, I do long for my "psychiatrist look." I always felt a part of something bigger somehow.

Back in college, I started falling in love with chelsea boots. I love how functional and good-looking they are, on top of the comfort they can provide so I bought a decent pair. I still own them and have had them spruced up once or twice, and whenever I have a big presentation coming up in graduate school I still wear them thinking "if they got me through 4 tough years, what's another few more?" Great video as always, Antonio. Made me appreciate little details like that in my life.

got 3 uniforms as photographer , when work with musicians i will wear military black pants with band t shirt leather jacket , when go to wedding /baptsm i will wear sute with tie and wast cote so i can remove the jacket and still look good , when i do comercial/fashion work dark jeans with black button down

This comes at a really good time Antonio. Since turning 30, I've embraced my baldness, gained some weight, and got divorced. I also moved back to my home state of IL, and have to completely revamp my wardrobe. In my 20's I was performing shows and in good shape, so I dressed for attention. Now, I'm working in the medical field and humbled greatly, and feel more at home in casual based wear in neutral colors. After I put some money aside, I'm gonna take this advice and build a new wardrobe.

@mickeyconnor830

Жыл бұрын

4 sets of 4- 4 jackets, 4 shirts, 4 pairs of pants, 4 pairs of footwear. If they're all interchangeable with one another, that's 256 non-repeating outfits for only a few hundred bucks!

@usprulse

Жыл бұрын

Im a balding and a little cubby Asian man 34y old Im working in a hospitally field as a head chef and manager. I want to dress well but it's difficult to find my style and or money for them. I love suits and so on, but man do they cost money

Thanks! You were my first style guide channel!

Took the quiz right after you mentioned it, the results are on point , as i expected. Props to the algorithm behind it!

I love your videos! At first I just found them informative but I've started to notice that you also go into some very wholesome advice about confidence. I think this channel is really going to help some people that feel lost for a good teacher in these times.

My style is to wear a suit, or at least a sport coat, with tie during working days. I own my own business and can dress how I like, (within reason). I lose the tie and unbutton a button during summer months, and have a very light jacket. On the weekends or after work it’s jeans and Henley shirt, and either a suede jacket, or no jacket.

Great advice!! I have been struggling with this for years.

Great video Antonio! Every man needs a starting point and for clothing…this is it!

More and more, my style icon is Cary Grant. Yes. I am not the same guy I was 10-20 years ago. I don't wear t-0shirts out any more unless it is a special occasion, but am starting to try to be more conservative but still stylish. You are right about dressing better. I know when i dress better, I walk more upright, my eyes are more ahead of me, I carry myself better.

@chrisblanc663

Жыл бұрын

Grant is one of my icons too.

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Love the video. Important things for just about anyone

Point taken sir; your teaching has transformed my dressing style drastically. Thanks.

Great learning a lot

Great Videos...thank you

I really enjoy the style of the intro with the talking first and gradually increasing the music. superb!

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Big shout out to my editor, Dane for this!

Your suggetion is very helpful for develop me to creat my own fashion. So i am really thankfully to you

This video was brilliant, thanks Antonio. :) Jon

That's awesome

This IS and you ARE so damn good in what you're doing!

❄️ 🥹 So wonderful of you to notice, Antonio!

Don't judge a book by it's cover, that's right, but I don't have the time to get to know if you are a good person, brilliant, funny, etc. So people will engage based on what they know. So take care of your appearance. I am nearly 38 and after the '20/21 lock downs I began dressing better. First with button down shirts, then dressier shirts, and wearing dress shoes and boots, and at least I get some compliments. I am not tall nor slim so at least I get to be the elegant guy in my unit at work!

I love that my favorite quote by Aristotle showed up in this video. well done sir.

Your style advice is invaluable as always, sir. I'd have to say my main style influences come from Star Trek. Now I don't mean I walk around in public wearing a costume I'm speaking of more subtle elements taken from the uniforms. If you watch any Star Trek from 90s to now, most of the action in in the shoulder and chest area. Some kind of subtle detailing, perforations, jewelry or a splash of color in an otherwise monochrome outfit meant to bring attention to the face. Now I do own a "uniform" but most of my outfits consist of a jacket with somekind of shoulder padding/detail or button up shirt of some kind with epaulets or even as you've recommended a "V" shaped opening at the chest like a Henley which is my favorite. I do however wear Trek badges on the reg just to keep it fun.

Thank you for this video, very helpful content and I use this information to reevaluate wardrobe

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Welcome!

Hey Antonio! I hope you and whoever’s reading this is having an amazing day Edit: I just took the quiz at I got a score of 636. Not bad but still got some work to do and you bet I’ll be on it!

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Awesome! You have a nice day as well.

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Keep it up!

Great video, as always. Thanks, Antonio. I personally just love the classic style of Steve McQueen

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Love his style too!

I found my dress style from wanting to be a bit different to most other guys, Always a nice pair of jeans bright patterned socks,shoes & either a polo shirt (knitted more often than not) or shirt,long sleeved if want to be a bit more formal mainly in darker colours but with the odd bright coloured one worn as an accent under a dark jacket in the warmer months

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

I completely understand. You don't want to dress similar to everyone but still dress sharp. I like the combination you mentioned here.

This is a really good explanation but I’d like to comment that bright and vibrant colors are underused in classic menswear, orange and olive green are two very versatile colors that can be used a lot. My orange chinos work perfectly with just about anything.

i took that style quiz he talked about. i scored 237/299 on style but fairly low in all the other categores.

@chrisblanc663

Жыл бұрын

Same here. Guess maybe we put a little too much attention to style.

First Commlent!

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Awesome!

❤🤍💙 all your videos mate👍

Been on this channel since i started to care that style does makes a difference . since 2018...

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your story! I appreciate you.

@ajithsidhu7183

Жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle hi how donwe make a clean cut style for tropical climates

My style influences are Johnny Depp, Izzy Stradlin, Dwight yoakam, and now Jason Mamoa with a few others thrown in. When it comes to style I think I gravitate towards people who have the confidence to do their own thing. I see what they're doing and I think yeah, that works.

@Martinez-sn5qf

Жыл бұрын

The rakish man archetype.very hard to pull off but also quite unique

@Joey21071

Жыл бұрын

@@Martinez-sn5qf I read that there are three archetypes. Rugged, refined, and rakish. I guess I would be rakish with a little bit of refined and even rugged thrown in there. But with rakish, it's more about doing my own thing and it's not about peacocking or whatever it's called. I don't wear something because I think it'll gain me attention. I wear what I like simply because I like how it looks.

@samisatlacc7736

Жыл бұрын

Nah. Sounds lame, you're not confident until you've done Mrs. Doubtfire.

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So we need to wear clothing that doesn't scream "authority" rather "personality😎". The main thing in this video

@LITTLEDANCERSADHU993

Жыл бұрын

cannot go wrong with black and whites fella,goes for shoes too

Hiii antonio, could you help me out choose a perfume? I currently have David off cool water and I love it! I’m new to fragrances (Im a teenager). I like the aquatic smell. It would really make me happy if you could help me out! Does Dior sauvage have an aquatic smell? Could you recommend me some good perfumes? New smell or Aquatic. I like fresh smell yet manly I don’t want a dense smell which might block my senses. Thank youuu!

I find the psychology of men's fashion interesting and you deliver this well. On a random note. I've noticed a Wolverine comic in your background several times. What's the reason?

@alwayspooh1588

Жыл бұрын

He probably just likes the best X-Men character!

@Baronboley

Жыл бұрын

@@alwayspooh1588 I mean that's a valid reason.

@alwayspooh1588

Жыл бұрын

@@Baronboley Yep, and Jackman is the embodiment of Wolverine on screen! Deadpool 3!!!!!

Funny story, I’m studying Japanese to become an interpreter for Capcom but I’ve never owned a suit before

Just went to you'r style score, but generally suits you can't sleep in. Jeans I do

The thing with judging a book by it's cover, I do the same thing with women. Most of the women I've been interested in have had a distinct clothing style.

I think I needed this video. I have a tough time figuring out my style.. I'm 30, 6ft, 120lbs so tall and very thin. I look young with some masculine features. Cold climate with 4 seasons. I work as an accountant in offices and also coach clients with financial goals. I'm also very into the outdoors and throughout the year I'm camping/hunting/helping on a farm. I also do quite a lot of work on home renovations for friends and family. So I'm always doing things that call for different styles.. Dressing professionally but also dressing for the outdoors speak to me. I don't have a style and just sort of struggle through the daily clothing choices and being tall and thin doesn't help me feel very confident, especially when I'm not layered up. Can styles be mixed to find a great textured outdoorsy business casual look that you'd want to take financial advise from? Have two different styles? I'm not sure how to do it.

@Sekiath

Жыл бұрын

I'd say keep your accounting/financial job as a separate style. I suppose it depends on how professional an appearance your job would expect. But if you're going to wear a more professional suit, typically professional/business is specifically meant to separate the person from outdoors work.

@karlr750

Жыл бұрын

I agree with @Sekiath. Unless you're doing the accounting for rugged outdoors types, then you need to dress like an accountant and financial counselor. If you are doing the accounting for rugged outdoors types, then you might try blending styles. You might consider tweed jackets, flannel dress slacks, etc. as ways to add texture to a business outfit.

52 years old ✅ newly divorsed ✅ lost some weight ✅ I think I scored like 95% on your style test soo I can only agree with what you say ✅

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See you changed up that wolverine comic and moved the old one to the right... or did you just move the chair to a new spot? CGC graded 7.5, nice

Honestly, it wouldn't matter what the guy was wearing. It would matter how he said it. If both the man in the torn clothing and the fireman came in and simply said there's a fire I doubt I'd believe either one or take either one seriously. But come in frantic and I'm looking for the door. regardless of how they are dressed.

I am 14 and going to buy my first suit soon, any tips or ideas

@Nev1812

Жыл бұрын

Make sure to have a suit that's comfortable to do light stretching. Suit jack focus

I just check my wardrobe and well.. 30% of my outfits are black while 80% of my neckties are purple and it's variation

3:48 i wonder if it's still appropriate to call him "the late steve jobs" given that he passed away over 10 years ago by now.

@guylewis7418

Жыл бұрын

He’s ten years late.

Any advice for getting good style for less money? i like suit supply or the society shop but they come with a hefty price tag.

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Check out my budget guide here: www.realmenrealstyle.com/building-mens-wardrobe/

@karlr750

Жыл бұрын

Thrift stores (especially near wealthy neighborhoods) and eBay can be good places to get deals on high quality items. In addition, a small, interchangeable wardrobe will cost far less than a large wardrobe … particularly if you end up getting most items tailored. Figure out what you need before you start shopping. If you buy twice as many jackets as you need, you're not being as cost effective as you could be … and it could slow down your ability to get some other items that you need. If you find some brands that fit you perfectly, you can avoid the expense of getting them tailored. For items that need tailoring, learn what the various alterations cost, and factor that into the overall cost when you're deciding whether to buy something.

I find that most advice given these days is met with some resistance, possibly even defensiveness. I guess it depends upon how wholeheartedly they ask for such advice, like if they're watching a channel such as these for knowledge or just entertainment perhaps. I mean, I watch these things even though I already HAVE my own style just because I am curious if I agree with most of them or maybe I get some other new idea, but I find that when offered advice in the more recent past, it was usually somebody with a style completely contrary to mine that I would actually recommend that they see more content like this and judge if THEY are the ones who are TOO casual, etc.

@Highland_Paddy

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, but Steve Jobs look was TERRIBLE and exactly the kind of thing that works maybe in high school when you have no clothing budget but then shouldn't be the kind of thing that grown men suggest to other grown men, just like I was saying above.

@Highland_Paddy

Жыл бұрын

Yes, the uniform idea kind-of helps with laundry day BUT also doesn't quite work with the whole Capsule idea if you're putting together more elegant individual outfits like the DeNiro character. Like I said in previous vid, if you have a job that requires suits, you will NEED at least five suits.

@Highland_Paddy

Жыл бұрын

A test? Will I be issued a lab coat?

@Highland_Paddy

Жыл бұрын

Well, I'm not especially fond of hypothetical situations and what-ifs because it can backfire slightly in the direction of anti-fashion as viable option to think that maybe all geniuses should be lazy slobs in dirty jeans but should be taken more seriously by men in overalls than politicians and such in slick suits, like "who's this carpetbagger charlatan and what's he trying to sell me that smells like snake oil?" It's part of the whole reason why jeans became the go-to for all the urbanites now after the whole 60s counterculture thing and all that, but unlike the working men, their jeans cost $200 and they still have some slick suit stashed away to make themselves appear smarter or more trustworthy than they are. Like when Zuckerberg got dressed up for Congress appearance because he's replaced Jobs while trying to keep his "style". It's a long argument with a lot of tangents...

@Highland_Paddy

Жыл бұрын

Oh, just after I type that, you talk about the phony politicians trying to LOOK like working men. Yes, this is their reverse-ploy for appeal, and I won't go off on politics or all their slick tricks here, but notice sharp contrast with Jimmy Carter vs. the rest of them, though, that he was still more genuinely altruistic than the ones who've come since who say one thing and then vote another, and Reagan liked outdoorsy stuff like horseback riding where I wouldn't expect him to wear wool slacks.

In all fairness, I need to retract my criticism of Anson Belts. Kenny has been incredibly helpful in the customer service department. Thank you Kenny.

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Glad to hear this! Thanks for the support.

i wear a white ironed shirt,black jeans and white smart shoes. i highly visible and confident look.The women go mad for it,as long as you have your attractive sub-concious body language down,and are generally very confident,otherwise,you could end up looking like a clown and be laughed at.

"You are a unique snowflake." - Antonio

I gotta go to a wedding today... I don't have the clothes for that :/

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

What's the dress code? What month are they going to get married? Start with these first. Also, reaching out to the bride and groom about dress code should help.

It didn't tell me my personal style,it just said whether I ranked low, average,or high in certain areas.

I found that change is uncomfortable to change. Pain = Growth

@bobzenx7225

Жыл бұрын

Learned it from you! 👊

WEIGHT LIFTING

You should do a video on Keanu Revees' style. He pulls off suits and boots, pretty well.

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

I did! Specifically, for John Wick. kzread.info/dash/bejne/lKuJ26adlqbZdsY.html

@Joey21071

Жыл бұрын

@@RealMenRealStyle You did and it was a good video, but that was about the character John Wick and not the personal style of Keanu Reeves. I think what the OP was referring to was that Keanu Reeves has been seen a few times wearing a nice suit and a brown pair of what looks like, hiking boots. It's like with Johnny Depp and how he'd be seen in a nice suit and army boots or some other kind of boots. they pull it off. It's that carefree, rebellious side that they pull off.

Shah Rukh Khan 😎

Jonny Depp?😂

Harry Styles lol, not trying to wear a dress.

I don't know what happened to men these days. Men have become lazy and care less about their personal branding or styling. For instance, most of them do not wear French Cuff shirts and Cuff links especially in formal occasions when the apparel with accessories can instantly elevate them as well as differentiate them from others.

has nothing to do with the video. videos great and helpful and all but i just hate thin lapels. really, im disgusted by em

No.Not Harry Styles.

@phoenix5054

Жыл бұрын

Don't want a dress? 😅

Never ever wear heeled shoes, that ruins your feet and your back!

@datdabdoe1417

Жыл бұрын

There's a whole community of folks that say the exact opposite, and spend ludicrous amounts getting taller and taller heels mounted on their work boots.

@dosbaddel7436

Жыл бұрын

@@datdabdoe1417 Every orthopedist can explain you how bad a heeled shoe works. Neutral shoes (neutral sole) and a wide toe box is a must for healthy feet and back.

Why as a woman am i watching these videos? *Friend* Cause you usually dress like them. *Me* Fair enough 😅

Please talk %10 slower. See, we all like it. Its never too late to change your STYLE 😂😂

I keep getting distracted with these graded Wolvie comics. That yellow file cover is one of my favs as a kid (still own it). 🤌🏻🤌🏻