how to fall in love with your own LIFE | GRWM hair routine

Hi everyone 🦋 In today's video I give you my tips and advice on how to start falling in love with your own life by creating a life worth LIVING 💗
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  • @eliciagoguen
    @eliciagoguen Жыл бұрын

    Hi good morning 🥰 What would you like me to chat about next ?! 🦋💗

  • @AmbidextrousK

    @AmbidextrousK

    Жыл бұрын

    Join the fresh and fit podcast

  • @Liveandletlive0101

    @Liveandletlive0101

    Жыл бұрын

    Besides therapy, how to act right when in a new relationship, without projecting insecurities from past relationships, into the new one. I find little things triggering (unnecessarily)!😞

  • @GenesisSpeaks

    @GenesisSpeaks

    Жыл бұрын

    I believe that I am going through a spiritual awakening. Some days I am loving and embracing it, some days I feel overwhelmed by it and how awoke my mind is due to its thought processing. Anyway, I would love a video on that if you have or haven’t experienced that just to feel relatable. Also, my intuition keeps telling me to move away from the environment I’m in now. I’m ready for it mentally, but then I think about all the external factors and almost get “scared” because of the unknown. Do you have any tips for that? THANK YOU! 💗

  • @karinagencheva6459

    @karinagencheva6459

    Жыл бұрын

    1. Health and wellness (especially sleep and stress management) 2. Career advice (maybe how to build a side hustle, find mentors, narrow down a vision into a plan) 3. I loved your socialite video. It would be great to have a part two.

  • @leahthemuffinman

    @leahthemuffinman

    Жыл бұрын

    being ok being alone without feeling lonely/your thoughts on dating apps and being “truly” single aka not talking to anyone

  • @lolopcallulu3082
    @lolopcallulu3082 Жыл бұрын

    Real. Doing right by myself, taking accountability, journaling, working toward achieving my goals, having hobbies, doing meaningful things, having fun, and sticking to routines has changed my life. My mental health is sm better and I love myself dearly. I’m so amazing and lovable in my eyes now

  • @nyxsun
    @nyxsun Жыл бұрын

    Elicia! Girl. I wrote down an action plan, journal prompts, and got really clear on where I'm at, where I'm going, and my responsibility to make it happen. All while watching your video. I prayed for life changing content and your channel appeared. I hope you know how valuable sharing your journey and insights is to all of us.

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, I’m so happy to see this 😭 I’m proud of you babe, love you 🥰❤️

  • @nyxsun

    @nyxsun

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eliciagoguen love you 💜🌸

  • @nononononono1730
    @nononononono1730 Жыл бұрын

    It feels so much better to be in an imperfect situation and be okay with it than to be in a perfect situation and being so attached to it that you're scared of losing what you have I love your hair btw it's so beautiful

  • @marywithane9166
    @marywithane9166 Жыл бұрын

    This is why I watch your videos; you don't skim.the surface. But calling out the key to loving your life is experiencing the discomfort of "trying/doing" to reach what you want. Gosh that's so good but a hard truth to face. As always you hit the nail.

  • @marissaleanne4544
    @marissaleanne4544 Жыл бұрын

    Seasonal depression has hit me so much harder this year than it ever has and 8 minutes into this video I'm already feeling a major sense of hope for the future. Your energy is so bright are you from another planet?❤

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    You are so sweet 🥹 sending you lots of love today babe. ❤️

  • @ashleynagawa5807
    @ashleynagawa5807 Жыл бұрын

    Everything you have said really put so much into perspective for me. I don’t love my life currently and it’s time to take action

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    You got this 👏🏼

  • @inprogress9757
    @inprogress9757 Жыл бұрын

    Hey girl, just wanted to thank you for all the videos you put out! You're beautiful! xoxo

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww you’re so welcome! Thank you my love ❤️

  • @ufojeo
    @ufojeo Жыл бұрын

    Yaaaayyyy 🩵 definitely perfect timing Edit: please consider making a video on physical health / overcoming laziness / hitting the gym / gym routines / best time to work out / gym for beginners …etc, I think you get the point lol 👉🏼👈🏼🥹

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg GIRL. They are literally ALL COMING, you know we’re always aligned, I got you 😍

  • @ufojeo

    @ufojeo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eliciagoguen 🥰🥰🥰 yeeeessss I’m excited

  • @buzzmetoheaven1
    @buzzmetoheaven1 Жыл бұрын

    Ohh girlie I needed this! ❤ I appreciate you!

  • @jennalavena
    @jennalavena Жыл бұрын

    i’ve been binge watching your videos. thank you!!

  • @karsonvoss274
    @karsonvoss274 Жыл бұрын

    SO POWERFUL. I LOVE YOU AND THE LIGHT YOU GIVE TO THE WORLD.

  • @jenivajoseph5138
    @jenivajoseph5138 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for posting videos like this you’re awesome

  • @malaysia1475
    @malaysia1475 Жыл бұрын

    I needed this I realized a long time ago that I had a issue with loving life, sometimes it feels like I’m watching someone live my life idk if it makes sense lol

  • @ArtbyAyanna
    @ArtbyAyanna Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video! This is exactly what I needed to hear. Feeling more motivated ❤❤

  • @payalk2898
    @payalk28986 ай бұрын

    Work on all areas of life, so when one sucks, its OK Start looking at your life to see what areas needs work, don't avoid. Accept that life is not going to be perfect, also forgive yourself Make an occasional plan on how to achieve what you want. Stop doing things that you hate, like you stopped going out with friends who really bullied you. I dont abandon myself for others. But make and get excited about your plans for dinner etc Self love is not something you accomplish because there is no finish line. It's a lifelong commitment.

  • @isisagyapong2745
    @isisagyapong2745 Жыл бұрын

    This video came at the perfect time omggg. I’ve been feeling this way for the past few months and feeling like I’m not where I should be in life, fomo, feeling like my life is boring, comparing myself to others, etc. Honestly, I’m starting to improve and fight some negative thoughts but it’s hard. I’m not got let myself down tho. Loveee you and your videos Elicia they speak to me frr 💗💗

  • @F4R4DISE
    @F4R4DISE Жыл бұрын

    Omg thank you 💕 just found you and been watching 3 of your videos in a row! I reallyy apreciate with how much honesty your saying it (like no sugar coating), cs it needs to be said (I really need to hear it... Hihi) 🦋🦋 new sub!

  • @olivialivv5566
    @olivialivv5566 Жыл бұрын

    I love your consistency more than any Soo much love from south Africa ❤🇿🇦

  • @oliviacbeira
    @oliviacbeira Жыл бұрын

    I needed this video today!!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @soulfulrenia
    @soulfulrenia Жыл бұрын

    I needed this! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @Emisnyan
    @Emisnyan8 ай бұрын

    This was really helpful, and you're right if we keep avoiding it it'll just get worse. Be brave everyone and trust yourself ❤

  • @leahlongworth9780
    @leahlongworth9780 Жыл бұрын

    Love your hair! And great video thank youuuuu❤

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you lovely 🥰

  • @yaffalivian11
    @yaffalivian11 Жыл бұрын

    This video found me and it may have just changed my life ☆ I want to thank you for saying all the right things I needed to hear

  • @Nicole-wd8yg
    @Nicole-wd8yg Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video Elicia!😊 I actually started falling in love with my life early this year and enjoying every single day and I can say that I am happier

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Awww I’m so happy for you!!!!

  • @Nicole-wd8yg

    @Nicole-wd8yg

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eliciagoguen thank you so much 💕

  • @ranaa3920
    @ranaa3920 Жыл бұрын

    You’re becoming one of my favourite KZreadrs! I love ur videos 💗thank youuu🌹

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much🥹🥹🥹

  • @Clean-N-ShineInDfw
    @Clean-N-ShineInDfw Жыл бұрын

    These are the videos I love❤ we appreciate you

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Awww I appreciate you!!! Thank you for watching 🥰❤️

  • @ishanip1
    @ishanip1 Жыл бұрын

    This video couldn’t have come at a better time 😃 thank you for us what we need to hear rather than what we want to hear ❤ Also, your natural curls are gorgeous !!!

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much love 🥹❤️

  • @sandysedits5526
    @sandysedits5526 Жыл бұрын

    I love your videos and the curly hair, it really suits you!

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank youuuuu 😍😍

  • @marcelaandrade9785
    @marcelaandrade9785 Жыл бұрын

    this video came to me in such the right moment. Thank you for doing that, thank you for talking so sinceirly and being so real. Beijos do Brasil!

  • @essence____beauty_92
    @essence____beauty_92 Жыл бұрын

    Yeah you are definitely 💯💯💯💯💯💯 right about this steps ❤❤❤❤ !!!!!

  • @PaladineGirl
    @PaladineGirl Жыл бұрын

    GREAT VIDEO! AND OH MY GOD YOUR HAIR IN IS GORGEROUS❤

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    AWWW thank you so much 🥹❤️

  • @monicavictoria787
    @monicavictoria787 Жыл бұрын

    This is perfect timing bc I’m on vacation now, listening to this while I get ready 🥰

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Yaaay omg enjoy your vacation 🥹❤️

  • @akboparai
    @akboparai Жыл бұрын

    Yess so excited for the video ❤

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you enjoyed 🥰

  • @bananabana8075
    @bananabana8075 Жыл бұрын

    Hey so I found your channel today and I’ve been binge watching you allday, while running errands, shower, cooking etc. lol but it’s funny how God works, everything you’ve been talking about I’ve been feeling over the past couple of weeks with trying to understand where my unhappiness stems from and how I can gain control over ME. Your videos are just adding confirmation and advice on things I already know regarding my life. I was definitely meant to come across your channel. Anywho keep up the good work. There’s girlys out there like myself who resonate with everything you’re talking about and it honestly just … helps ❤

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, I am truly blessed 🥹 This means the world to me. Thank you so much ❤️

  • @FullyLovingYourself
    @FullyLovingYourself Жыл бұрын

    Great video to start the day with! 💙

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad you think so 😍

  • @tanyakidd101
    @tanyakidd101 Жыл бұрын

    ✨This is such an amazing video ✨😌👍🏿

  • @joyeeyang
    @joyeeyang Жыл бұрын

    Love everything about this video.

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @NadiaHuaco
    @NadiaHuaco Жыл бұрын

    ❤ needed thisss❤

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m glad 🥰❤️

  • @theauthorgirl-podcast
    @theauthorgirl-podcast10 ай бұрын

    I remember a time when I enjoyed the process or journey of reaching goals. I would enjoy that so much more than the destination and the destination was simply the bonus reward. I really want to find that back because I've realized I've become too engrossed in the end result

  • @Impoweredbyfire
    @Impoweredbyfire8 ай бұрын

    This was better than any spiritual video I’ve seen

  • @jeannecadon3531
    @jeannecadon3531 Жыл бұрын

    It's evening in France and I am listening to this before self care 💅 night 🌃 perfect timing

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg love this 😍

  • @AK01318
    @AK01318 Жыл бұрын

    Your hair is beautiful and looks so healthy! I want to give that mousse a try. I think you'd also love the wet brush for thick hair and the Felicia Leatherwood detangling brush as well!

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg I definitely need to try!! Thanks for the recommendation and thank you so much for the sweet comment 🥰

  • @treecattarot
    @treecattarot Жыл бұрын

    Always the tough love talk I need 😂

  • @tyanamorris4153
    @tyanamorris4153 Жыл бұрын

    Use cold water !! It helps keep the curls together and stops the frizz !!

  • @debbyeblue702
    @debbyeblue702 Жыл бұрын

    I've never clicked so fast on a video. For the millionth time, thank you

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Awww you’re welcome 🥰

  • @mikaylabrown4753
    @mikaylabrown4753 Жыл бұрын

    Your content is amazing

  • @mindym283
    @mindym283 Жыл бұрын

    I'm watching all your videos before I go back to University tomorrow ❤😂

  • @charityl7981
    @charityl7981 Жыл бұрын

    wow. I use the same products for my hair.

  • @ashtonhammond1302
    @ashtonhammond1302 Жыл бұрын

    Be consistent and focus on the process

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    !!!!!!

  • @draylonmatthews1342
    @draylonmatthews1342 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a man but u this is what I needed to hear this morning I will subscribe.

  • @fangirlinneverland6335
    @fangirlinneverland6335 Жыл бұрын

    "The thing you are running away from is the thing tha is going to actually change your life",wow

  • @delphinestacy
    @delphinestacy Жыл бұрын

    My eyes started watering reading the THUMBNAIL! I didn't event click. 🥺

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    AWWWWW BABE🥹😭❤️

  • @innercallchannel
    @innercallchannel Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful hair 😘👌🤌🤌❤ #natural #SelfCurlyHairLove

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @yohonnabrewer4343
    @yohonnabrewer4343 Жыл бұрын

    Currently struggling with this and not trying to compare

  • @alexandrastaub1658
    @alexandrastaub1658 Жыл бұрын

    Curly hair tip I just learned, deep conditioner before regular conditioner because regular leaves a type of cast that the deep conditioner won’t penetrate😇Hope this helps ❤️ love this content btw 🌻✨

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg thanks babe ❤️

  • @sharonqui74
    @sharonqui74 Жыл бұрын

    Watching this while I’m sick hahaha with flu 😷 . But I loved the video . Thanks 💗

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww babe feel better 🥺❤️

  • @sharonqui74

    @sharonqui74

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eliciagoguen thank you 🥺💗

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 Жыл бұрын

    Hi girlie ❣️

  • @caro.-
    @caro.- Жыл бұрын

    May I ask where you buy your tank tops from, just like the one in this video? The high neck ones with the big cut outs on the sides is everything I see, but they just don't look good on me 😩

  • @briannab.8127
    @briannab.8127 Жыл бұрын

    It’s your hair for me ❤❤

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Girlll thank you 🥹

  • @crookedpages9922
    @crookedpages9922 Жыл бұрын

    You have a choice. You either bask in the hate people give you or walk away. Learn to redirect the hate into love even though you might feel like your the victim.

  • @sudeshtharanga32
    @sudeshtharanga32 Жыл бұрын

    I'm really interested in your words.. ❤

  • @yeuruuerueeheue
    @yeuruuerueeheue Жыл бұрын

    if nobody got me, I know elicia got me

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Love you 🥹

  • @annabayer8595
    @annabayer8595 Жыл бұрын

    I love your top😍 where do you get your clothes from?

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ☺️ it’s from garage! I get a lot of my tops from there ❤️

  • @26195
    @26195 Жыл бұрын

    I like that you promote marriage thing

  • @katcherdesign
    @katcherdesign Жыл бұрын

    You look like Aubrey Plaza😍

  • @babycakes3o3
    @babycakes3o3 Жыл бұрын

    You live in downtown Chicago??

  • @noorinoori2485
    @noorinoori2485 Жыл бұрын

    Jesus loves you all. Turn back to the Lord, your first love. He is the good news. He is the peace you're looking for. He is the beginning and the end. He is your comforter, provider and protector. You don't need no one else. You don't need no man to fill your cup. Just be whole and still with Jesus. Cause let me tell you, the voids you're trying to fill with success, money, material things and everything else under the sun won't bring fulfilment. Only God can do that 😊 God bless you all! 🙏

  • @baddie_dar
    @baddie_dar Жыл бұрын

    The echo is really bad girl I love your videos but the sound quality needs to be fixed

  • @eliciagoguen

    @eliciagoguen

    Жыл бұрын

    I just moved into a new place and I don’t have furniture or pieces in this room. The sound quality will change over time.

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