How to End Strife With Your Spouse x Sarah Jakes Roberts & First Lady Serita Jakes
If you grew up in an environment of strife, it can be easy to perpetuate strife in your own environment as an adult. Allowing the healed version of ourselves to flourish requires that we make the decision to outrun our history.
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"You can always out class a person but you can't out trash a person!!" What you say, come on niiii! Love it
@tiffanybrown9784
2 жыл бұрын
Put Let
@tajjames430
2 жыл бұрын
Right!!! I Love That! That’s my motto! Keep it classy… Not trashy!! 🔥🔥🔥. Silence is key.
Pastor Serita Jakes is SUCH a lady. I love how she is so calm and quiet. LOVE it.
@emeliakusi
2 жыл бұрын
Have you watched her roar in prayer or during her ministration, lol. I would say she's fierce and calm
@kimberlywhite7065
2 жыл бұрын
Yesss, I love it!!! ❤️🥰❤️
@kidchocolate9253
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, she's so Elegant.
@tracygaters4901
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@latoyathompson7940
Жыл бұрын
I do too. She so calm. Glory to God for gifting this whole and giving them the ability and blessings to share. I'm always looking for to other interviews as well as emporium sermons please don't let it end anytime soon
I just love how calm they both speak.
@veronicachita8348
2 жыл бұрын
@@mercithompson5285 definitely it Is
@florencemwilole2194
2 жыл бұрын
They are Provers 31:25... she speaks with wisdom and faithful instructions is in her tongue.... its the God In their hearts
@victoriavicky5728
2 жыл бұрын
Right!!!!😍😍😍 I love that about them!💜
@caroline-hz8ix
2 жыл бұрын
I also think it's the meek and quiet spirit that 1Pet 3 talks about, beautiful
@realtalkwithphil
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 im having fun from listening to them.
Scripture also says.. In quietness possess your soul. Meaning, in part, gather your emotions. Get you whole self together. I love Serita Jakes.
"...in silence and quietness, I found confidence." Practicing that!
A soft answer turns away wrath. Holding onto that forever.
@PSALMSOFSONGS
2 жыл бұрын
That is so so hard. But God word is always true. 🙏🏾
@emilyn7572
2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad she reminded me of that. I've been on both sides of this and it really does work. It's like pouring water on a fire, instantly stops the wrath in it's tracks.
@gloriagone1601
2 жыл бұрын
Yes Lord!🙏🏽
@user-xe2io2go1f
2 жыл бұрын
It's in the bible
@KM-oy5yh
2 жыл бұрын
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I can attest to that, a quiet spirit can overcome even great mistakes.
I just love Serita's spirit she's so graceful and naturally funny.
@KM-oy5yh
2 жыл бұрын
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What a pure blessing to be able to have mother daughter discussions like this, and both mother and daughter are walking in holiness. I pray that I can live long enough to see my children saved, and to be able to have these kind of discussions with them from a biblical perspective. It’s a blessing to be able to see the fruit of your labor. ❤️
@scaj76
2 жыл бұрын
Do it Father God in Jesus name. Took me a while but came to know Jesus at age 29. Now at 33 I'm having conversations with my mother. God bless you it's coming.
@idowu0704
2 жыл бұрын
As you have said it, so God will do it in Jesus glorious name amen
@gloriagone1601
2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@KM-oy5yh
2 жыл бұрын
AMEN AMEN, SISTER!!!!😇💕✔
@lovingkingjesus4822
2 жыл бұрын
You will live to see! In Jesus name amen.
Serita 's voice is so calming 😍 Her personality is enviable 👌😍
Her glam squad is always on point. She looks absolutely beautiful.
@trevavaughn5
2 жыл бұрын
Yes Keshia. I love her dress and make-up
@ghm77755
2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@sylviajenkins4784
2 жыл бұрын
Yep i wonder if we are the same size, im here for her hand me downs 😂😆
@chancarter3440
2 жыл бұрын
Yeeees!!!
@FromtheeyesofShaun
2 жыл бұрын
She's soooo fly and down to earth , i reallu admire that about her
The calmness in Sister Jake's demeanor is so rich and beautiful
😍😍😍I just love first Lady Jakes love her personality 💕
@ladydignity
2 жыл бұрын
Classy lady!
@pamzungu6953
2 жыл бұрын
Like-she’s amazing!
This is everything, father teach me to balance out battles, silence will be my answer, I love my spiritual family, bless them.
Literally, EVERYTIME Pastor Sarah speaks, I hear her speaking directly to me and since my deliverance in 2019, she was the first Pastor God directed me too and more and more, I see, understand and appreciate why!! What a blessing to have her in my life ♥️🙌🏼may God bless her with more wisdom, peace, joy and more years. One day I declare and I decree that I will meet her 🙏🏽 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ Amen! Glory to God.
@helenmaxwellekokeme3769
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know how to explain it this is just me speaking through you
@noluthandoradebe7288
2 жыл бұрын
@@mercithompson5285 The power of tongue 🙌🏼🙌🏼 The God we serve is so good.
@shureesmith5695
2 жыл бұрын
aq
@patricesilva8004
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
I love you so much Sarah you don’t understand how much you keep me going in grounded with faith and understanding
@nyaluv143
2 жыл бұрын
Me too sis ❤️
“I have to outrun my history” in order to become! Powerful sis!
@telzininalowo1052
Жыл бұрын
The Gospel!!
"A soft answer turns away wrath." So so true!
I always say that when you see me quiet understand that one of the other personalities aren't gonna keep quiet so I need to keep quiet so we can all be quiet and not be ignorant. Ps: I know quite a few friendships like that. It's natural to feel some sort of envy but it's not natural to build on it. Pray over it and not prey on it
@myeshawilliams3553
2 жыл бұрын
I say the same thing. I stay quiet to prevent the situation from escalating. It’s a healthy coping mechanism. It’s nice to know others feel/experience the same!
“She’s alive” part...✨😂✨ I loved this!!!
First time I've ever heard TJ's wife Serita talk! Now, now I understand why he loves and cherishes her the way he does, she's an incredible soft spoken woman! Wow, I wish my mom would've been like her😢❤️
@Tiffany_3x
2 жыл бұрын
Jody Ann may I ask why you say that? The reason I ask is because I had to "get over" how my mom was in order for me to move forward in my life. I had to accept the fact that she had things go on in her child hood and life that she didn't get help for and she acted what she knew. It doesn't excuse things but it helped me to forgive, not so much for her but for me and my children..... 🌹🕊️💞
@soniagainer492
2 жыл бұрын
Same..... life could have been so much more different
@idowu0704
2 жыл бұрын
God made your mom to be who she is, because where God is taking her to. If she act or speaks like Mama Serita jakes, she might not make the journey.
@soniagainer492
2 жыл бұрын
@@idowu0704 I pray you're correct
You can always out class a person but never out trash a person
What was surrounding me isn't going to form me!!!! Wooooooo that question alone!!!! Sheeshhhh.... Thank you for this. You are truly an amazing woman!!
When First Lady Serita Jakes said Hallelujah I felt the Anointing!!
Yaaaassss First Lady!!!! I can totally relate. In quietness and silence I find power!!!
I could literally listen to Serita all day long! But I felt that. Don't provoke me because she's still here.
I needed to hear this❤️❤️ I don’t have to have a rebuttal for everything. Amen
@Keesha7Luv
2 жыл бұрын
ME TOO‼️Amen 🙏🏾
@LadyFay716
2 жыл бұрын
This is hard to do...but God
@Coco-og7zw
Жыл бұрын
Same!!! My husband says this to me at least once a month so not a coincidence that this showed up in my newsfeed.🧐🫣🙏🏽
Mother and daughter have such a sweet and relatable spirit. ❤️
I could listen to them speak all day. Such power and wisdom. Beautiful conversation ❤🙏
THAT'S WHY IT'S SO IMPORTANT TO NOT BE UNEVENLY YOKED TOGETHER WE BOTH HAVE TO BE ON 1 ACCORD AND WE DON'T ALLOW THIS UNGODLY AND SINFUL WORLD TO INFLUENCE OUR RELATIONSHIP ESPECIALLY OUR HOLY MATRIMONY GREAT CONVERSATION!👏🏾❤🙏🏾🔥💯👋🏾
I absolutely love, how transparent they are in every setting. I came here bc I am practicing being a better woman for my husband and not argue all the time.
@yvettestoneking8943
Жыл бұрын
This is why I came here too❤
You can always outclass a person but never out-trash a person
So happy I heard this. I was the one to always go toe-to-toe. Thank you for this message!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏
@veen0610
2 жыл бұрын
@roseyrose Me too girl lol! But I'm in a relationship now with a man that makes me not wanna roll my neck and pop off at the mouth. And it's nothing he's said or done to make me be that way with him. It's just something about him that makes me want to respect him differently than any other man I've dealt with and makes me wanna be meek like a little lamb with him lol! And I love it lol
Great question/statement. Took me a while to learn and decide that... "What was surrounding me isn't going to form me." DEEP. Life Lesson!
I love Sarah Jake Robert her videos has help me so much with my depression and my lowself a steam because I was so ashame and carry so much weight on my shoulder because I date rape and after leaving a abuse marriage of 27yrs Thank you so much and with God Grace and Mercy who Rescue me I would love to meet her someday ♥
@jasmine-fw4yq
2 жыл бұрын
may GOD see you through!! God bless you ❤️❤️❤️
Love this conversation, and Sarah's transparency!
Wow I needed this I feel this is what the lord is trying to draw that snappy side out of me I pray he provide me so much positive change inside we’re I can have full control in those moments
@lindohlily
2 жыл бұрын
Me too brother
@gloriagone1601
2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
I love their dynamic. I love the transparency. I love the lesson taught 👏🏾👏🏾 I needed this for sure! 😊
@novletmills9244
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes, and yes again. This setting needs to be on regular TV as Christians forum. This is surely enriching! They both share empowering words! May God continues to shine through their lives. In Jesus's name. Amen.
She’s mama Jakes, with daughter just Priceless 🔥 God Bless♥️
I honestly love this. A teachable moment indeed
This is so good ❤❤❤ "I especially couldn't see myself talking back to someone who talks for a living" 😄 whe. She said the way her ears are set up, it heard it as if the other person didn’t like her". That's real 💯 Thanks for being so transparent Pastor Sarah ❤ Thanks for this!!!
I just love, love these ladies. Even when their clowning, God is bringing forth truth through them.
I’ll be quiet but never a pushover! Love the fact that they acknowledged being in a safe place to be quiet..not being provoked.
Sarah Jakes Roberts is sooo wise and deep very interested to listen to....lots of take aways to apply. Thank you Ladies
First Lady Jake's is awesome. I believe she has her daughter's cracking up
Blessings... Nothing I love more the unity amongst women💃
@KM-oy5yh
2 жыл бұрын
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I just love first lady , she's authentic
They kept it SO REAL! You don’t have to sell your soul to the devil to keep it real. Just tell the TRUTH and that’s as real as it can get. Thank you 🙏🏾.
Now I understand where Sarah got her sense of humor 😂❤
I have always loved Serita Jakes...and still do. A beautiful example to women.... her daughters life is a manifestation of her mother's wisdom.#thank you for sharing
I luvvvvvvvvvvvvv hearing wisdom from your mom. I remember her speaking back in 1999. Please let us hear more from her.
@andrewknudson2979
2 жыл бұрын
Hello dear can we be friends
Exposed to things I don’t ever want to become. Too sweet in spirit. Thank you ladies 🙏🏾
Back in the day, I was listenning to pastor TD Jakes a lot and his sermons truly delievered me from a lot of this. I’m now discovering and grew to love pastor Sarah even more! She’s so down to earth and saying out loud what we-women/mothers in our thirties-think. I dindn’t know the First Lady was that funny. I love their bound!❤️ God bless this family!
I need the rest of this, this was too good and relevant right now.
@rachidawhite8413
2 жыл бұрын
Yassss sis I need it!
This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear.
As a men I appreciate this conversation, after separating from my previous partner, I can see where we use to hit under the belt many times and gave a bad example to the kids we where raising, this level of understanding its deep, when Sarita said there's no need to respond to everything its told to you, silence and quiet you find confidence. you can outclass but not out trash. With today media it does not help at all neither.
@Nahnie-jb8wo
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know if you're still married and just separated but if just separated, I'm praying you and your wife find your way back together again. May God allow you to find love in marriage again. ❤
@ptyaudio
2 жыл бұрын
@@Nahnie-jb8wo appreciate it much, I was ready to marry her to be honest.
@gloriagone1601
2 жыл бұрын
I was so broken… I started doing this and didn’t even know!
God gives wisdom and intel. We women have to use and apply the knowledge and that's a job...
Thank you both for being so authentic and transparent ❤️🙏🏾 I needed this!
That verse kept me throughout the years!! Proverbs 15:1
I love this🙌🏽 Sarah I get so inspired from what God has put in you to bring to the world.
They are a blessing to my life. I need to work around the darkness that my husband does. The Lord knows what is about.
I love y’all honesty. I’m so blessed by this
So inspiring, I just love the message. Thank you beautiful Sarah and first lady Jakes. I love you.😊🤗😘💕💕💕👏
I've watched this video at least 8 times since I first saw it and I always learn something different. FL Serita is so graceful!❤
Out run your HISTORY…. Well said! It’s a beautiful feeling to be surrounded with progressive women. You can learn something from everyone that enters your life. God will bring you the people you need! Glad I came across this!!!
Thank God for these W.O.G🤝🫂🫶🏽
Thank you for this Pastor Sarah and First Lady Jakes ❤
Thanks Sarah for sharing your truth🇿🇦🇿🇦very few ppl can be sooo honest and transparent Especially abt the person they used to be❤❤🙌🙌
This truly blessed me. Thank you Lord!!!. I've always watched and admired First Lady Serita's grace and calmness. It is something I pray to carry into my own marriage. Many blessings to you both...
This is absolutely beautiful conversation. First Lady Serita Jakes told her testimony well. Thank you sisters in Christ for telling your testimony 🙏. This has been so profound!! Thank you Jesus.
This is exactly what I needed !! It’s so real !
Thank you Ladies for teaching me and being transparent.
2023 God willing i will attend Woman Evolve... Amen
@cebisilemabaso8445
2 жыл бұрын
Me too. I so wish.
@SantannaDean
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@thulisilenomsuthu6154
2 жыл бұрын
Me too sis.. . 🙇🏽♀️
So very THANKFUL FOR MRS TD JAKES AND HER WISDOMS IN HER TRANSPARENCY AND HONEST TRUTH
Two beautiful powerful women of God hallelujah thank you Jesus Hallelujah praise God praise God thank you Jesus! 💜💜
Yll spoke to my whole soul. I wished that I had watched this years ago. Whew! It would have saved me from so much grief.
Thank you so much. I needed this ❤️❤️❤️❤️ praise God!
Praise the Lord! powerful. Thank you for sharing.
Great words of wisdom from you and your mother !
Love it "you can always out class a person, but you can never out trash a person." 😍😍
Please do this segment more often!!!! I feel my help…. Chile!!!!! Gurl… Thanks Mommy Jakes 👸🏾
This is such great conversation thank you both for sharing.
Beautiful, real talk, I'm right there, its like in part spoke my thoughts and the other end of this message I was listening, learning how to be more than I am and how to do it with grace and not in my feelings . Truth spoken in love this day, thank you women of the most high God, bless you 🙏😌☺👏👍❤
Thank you soooo much ladies. God bless you. We need more of these talks please.
I don’t normally listen to Sarah but I AM HERE FOR ALL OF THIS!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Beautiful mother and daughter of wisdom ❤ keep on blessing lord..🙏
Come on Pastor Serita and Lady Sarah ! My goodness awesome!
My God, what a way to put things into the proper perspective.
Love it First Lady Serita,,,the power of SILENCE is the best weapon. Sarah is still in the flesh we will pray for her deliverance.
“Love” this conversation 🙏🏼 Also love how they brought up people provoking you. Do your part & be classy, however, there are some people and situations that can take you there even when you “constantly” try to walk away. And THANK YOU Mrs. Sarah for your HONESTY 8:54 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼WOW!
I love when she says you .your awsome Sara. ,you and your father I’ve been watching you guys for years and I got atleast a hundred people fallowing
Thank you Pastor Sarah!🙌
A soft answer turns away wrath Amen 🙏🏽
GOD IS SOO GOOD! HE MEETS US RIGHT WHERE WE ARE. ! THANKYOU JRSUS
So much nuggets in this..God bless you ladies
Thank you Mama Jakes!
I needed to hear this. Amen.
Beautiful conversation 🙏🏾
First Lady is always so elegant with everything she says
I love this short clip! Such a word!