From Trauma to Hope X Sarah Jakes Roberts and Serita Jakes

A night of soul care with you and Jesus.

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  • @kameronytg8891
    @kameronytg88913 ай бұрын

    Gods timing is perfect. Did anyone else stumbled across this video in 2024 ? I loved it Thank you Father for the beautiful women of God that you have placed in our lives Amen. ❤❤❤

  • @mechellemoore9446

    @mechellemoore9446

    14 күн бұрын

    LISTEN! I just stumbled across this video TODAY!!! This is the most beautiful conversation I have ever heard.

  • @Milani2k

    @Milani2k

    11 күн бұрын

    Absolutely girll It is beyond amazing

  • @jayleenphipps2123
    @jayleenphipps2123 Жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful ❤. For a mother to recognize how she may have contributed trauma to her child, apologizing and encouraging Sarah not to repeat generational trauma.

  • @elisadiaz320

    @elisadiaz320

    Жыл бұрын

    I pray that God help me help me heal those wounds. That he blesses me with a maternal mother figure one day. If it’s his will.❤

  • @brownbeauty4evryadig

    @brownbeauty4evryadig

    Жыл бұрын

    My mother would never which is why we haven't spoken in 8 years. It's a generational curse that I will be breaking with my children. I always apologize to my children when I am wrong . I allow my teens and my 26 year old son to express themselves to me..I pour good things into my children. This conversation was my confirmation that what I am choosing to do is correct.

  • @adelejohnson8517

    @adelejohnson8517

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m grateful that I was present at that moment of the passing of the torch! It was priceless!

  • @flowforever9084

    @flowforever9084

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes Mine nvr acknowledged This is exactly what we wanted. Traumatized kids....angry adults Sometimes they just didn't know any better. But you hv to forgive. I've seen what it did to our family. I forgave my mom. It hurts though 😢 💔

  • @brijosttany

    @brijosttany

    Жыл бұрын

    Every adult daughter should have a space like this to talk to there mother

  • @latoyarenee7792
    @latoyarenee7792 Жыл бұрын

    "Sometimes we just need the acknowledgement" Such a beautiful and necessary conversation. Healing

  • @sandraruncie4351

    @sandraruncie4351

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen sis!

  • @aaronmolasky9611

    @aaronmolasky9611

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh my God you nailed it thank you well said happy holidays and happy new year

  • @jazthejourney
    @jazthejourney Жыл бұрын

    That her mom took accountability so quickly, apologized, and asked for forgiveness from her daughter so quickly, Oh miss Serita, so many little girls inside grown women needed to hear that. Such maturity. I wish I had a mother like her.

  • @Shelincali9
    @Shelincali9 Жыл бұрын

    A lot of motherless daughters needed this. Thank you ❤

  • @tammywilliams9335

    @tammywilliams9335

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes most definitely. I even was teary from both of there conversation

  • @user-oi9ux5gc1b

    @user-oi9ux5gc1b

    Жыл бұрын

    I just wonder why didn’t she ask her mother what she wanted to know while she was still alive instead of carrying this for so long? How can you have a normal relationship without asking… So much damage done.

  • @dorciabarnett2700

    @dorciabarnett2700

    Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful, open, honest conversation between mother and daughter. I’m believing God for in due season I’ll be able to have this conversation with my mother and daughters.❤

  • @dorethasharp7409

    @dorethasharp7409

    Жыл бұрын

    @@user-oi9ux5gc1b AMEN 🙏 🙌

  • @latoyajones6634

    @latoyajones6634

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish I could have had a conversation like this with my mom before her passing... I'm inspired to make this happen for my girls. Thank you for this!

  • @lifewithkasha
    @lifewithkasha Жыл бұрын

    This made me bow down to our king !!!!! Lord, I forgive my mom 🥹

  • @swest20091

    @swest20091

    Жыл бұрын

    Listennnn ok😢this was me too sis

  • @MayerConstance

    @MayerConstance

    Жыл бұрын

    Yaaaas Queen me too

  • @ellencapers8448

    @ellencapers8448

    Жыл бұрын

    THIS IS DEEEEEPPPP AND I LOVE IT! SO MANY OF US HAVE ISSUES UNSPOKEN! THERAPY WITH ONE ANOTHER IS HEALING! GOING TO ALL THE SERVICES PREACHING SHOUTING AND SPEAKING IN TONGUES DOES NOT MATTER IF WE R NOT REALLLLYYYYYYYY HEALED! WE MUST BE HEALED!

  • @DaughterOfDestinyLinda

    @DaughterOfDestinyLinda

    Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful one sis...you're in turn freeing yourself. I had to hug my daughter and tell her I love her and that she must forgive me for all the ways I've wronged her.

  • @ButterflyRhomance
    @ButterflyRhomance Жыл бұрын

    This conversation ALONE is a great gift for many! ❤

  • @CH-ib3jw

    @CH-ib3jw

    Жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @jermaineharris5971

    @jermaineharris5971

    Жыл бұрын

    📒📜🐟 31:00

  • @jermaineharris5971

    @jermaineharris5971

    Жыл бұрын

    32:02

  • @bridgetteyelder77
    @bridgetteyelder77 Жыл бұрын

    One day in my Mother's den before she passed away she looked at me and said Daughter I am so sorry. She apologized for things that happened in the past that were painful to me and it touched me in such an Amazing way. I really am enjoying this moment you all are sharing with us.

  • @classydenisha
    @classydenisha Жыл бұрын

    There's a little girl trapped inside of all of us. Love this!!!

  • @CR-mx6tj
    @CR-mx6tj Жыл бұрын

    Now look….I can’t be crying watching this! 😆 This makes me see Mrs. Serita in a different light. I love her honesty & how she poured her heart out. Mrs. Serita is being open about the things she realized she did not do so well and admitting she has unhealed wounds and questions too from her own childhood. This was powerful‼️ Acknowledgment is Healing ❤️‍🩹 Thank You Mrs. Serita for being a source to so many with this message. Sara continue to talk with your Mom. It’s healing both of you❣️❤

  • @dove628

    @dove628

    Жыл бұрын

    I admire Mrs Jakes journey..& in tune with Sarah's calling & the people she reaches... with Pastor Tore... what a test.a.Mony

  • @MissPJ01

    @MissPJ01

    Жыл бұрын

    What a blessing, Cora need this same kind of interaction with her Mom too, each child need Mom differently, I'd like to see Cora as well, God continued blessings 🙏

  • @thabsilengcobo4880

    @thabsilengcobo4880

    Жыл бұрын

    There's too much power in that

  • @tonyajscott

    @tonyajscott

    Жыл бұрын

    Perfectly stated and I too am grateful for this dialogue of healing. This conversation is also breaking yokes of bondage off of God’s daughters. Glory to God! 🤍🙌🏽🕊🙏🏽

  • @shondabonner2162

    @shondabonner2162

    Жыл бұрын

    This is nothing but the move of God! This is wonderful! I don’t think Sara really knows how valuable she really helps others. You are the best. ❤

  • @AMATEURDECORATINGLIKEAPRO
    @AMATEURDECORATINGLIKEAPRO Жыл бұрын

    I love how they really "See Each Other." Every Mother and Daughter needs this relationship. "I am truly a mixed veil of emotions." I relate.

  • @TheMaishaHarris
    @TheMaishaHarris Жыл бұрын

    Now THIS is what true healing, communication, and accountability looks like. ❤❤

  • @Queen1ndonly
    @Queen1ndonly Жыл бұрын

    I’m really crying 😢 I wish I can talk to my mom like this

  • @Yukia76

    @Yukia76

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too My mom passed when I was 8 years old 😢

  • @KAs14521

    @KAs14521

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too☹️

  • @kyrianjoseph1403

    @kyrianjoseph1403

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too,I live with my mom and it’s like living with a stranger.

  • @shaneyg25

    @shaneyg25

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @leelees1319

    @leelees1319

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too sis....me too.

  • @sydneemays4412
    @sydneemays4412 Жыл бұрын

    Sarah got the apology I always wanted. I felt that

  • @markelablack8575

    @markelablack8575

    Жыл бұрын

    This!!!!😢

  • @lrussell6668
    @lrussell6668 Жыл бұрын

    This is so real and powerful. It’s enlightening to see how Ms Serita is open and honest with her daughter

  • @veritastold830
    @veritastold830 Жыл бұрын

    "Can't see the Glory without the entire story." "God made the difference." Amen, and Amen, Sisters!!

  • @La_Leocadia
    @La_Leocadia Жыл бұрын

    This conversation was EVERYTHING!!!!!!! Wow! I didn’t think Sarah could be MORE relatable I was wrong. Sarah you are a gift to this generation and women of ALL ages. You are able to pull things out of people with no effort. Just your presence creates comfort even for your own mother. Watching her be so vulnerable and transparent and OPEN was healing even for me. I’m so grateful for her showing all of us what is possible if we just SAY our truth! Thank you BOTH for this gift. ✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @lisarosebud4017

    @lisarosebud4017

    Жыл бұрын

    Just like that !

  • @hannahjames6
    @hannahjames6 Жыл бұрын

    I would have fly all the way from France just to meet your mother she needs to have a documentary on Netflix. She is a legend . She is so humble and a perle rare ❤❤❤❤

  • @user-ys6gj5kz7b

    @user-ys6gj5kz7b

    9 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Totally agree: She is an invaluable and price phenomenal Queen doing exploits.....and we love her and thank God for her life, her love for God, her husband, the Potter's House ministry, her family and God's calling, purpose and destiny on her life. Amen. We celebrate you Mrs. Serita Jakes.

  • @sharycehunt2793
    @sharycehunt2793 Жыл бұрын

    I was screaming in my kitchen! From the first time I saw you preach Sarah, I knew you were your Daddy’s daughter (2-fold). I’m so proud of you Sis! I have joyfully moved through “Woman Thou Art Loosed” to “Woman Evolve” Let’s go…we’ve got work to do!

  • @wandablackmon1780
    @wandablackmon1780 Жыл бұрын

    Now that was a healing conversation. Many generational curses will be broken as a result of this video. Thank you so much for your honesty and transparency.💕

  • @catina2826

    @catina2826

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen!!!🥰🙌🏽

  • @nicholerenee7730

    @nicholerenee7730

    Жыл бұрын

    I believe that!! God bless

  • @shawandamatthews9148
    @shawandamatthews9148 Жыл бұрын

    I cried this whole episode. Thanks for always being transparent and vulnerable. I have always watch First Lady Jakes from the screen and the audience and I wanted to be classy, humble and funny just like her. Watch her be so human and real makes so many walls break for me. I feel seen and heard all at the same time. Thanks for your families continue sacrifice

  • @LazyLadyy
    @LazyLadyy Жыл бұрын

    This is the kind of relationship I pray I receive with my future children. I won’t be perfect but I will do my best. This conversation is so healing.

  • @gautayasmin6365
    @gautayasmin6365 Жыл бұрын

    I found healing in watching this. ❤ to see a mom not become defensive but opening herself up to listen to her daughter, acknowledging her mistakes and sincerely apologizing is so powerful. Some daughters might never receive this from their moms and it hurts . So thank you for allowing us to be a part of this life changing conversation. I receive this for myself too. God bless you 🙏

  • @DaughterOfDestinyLinda
    @DaughterOfDestinyLinda Жыл бұрын

    "You're not only healing your children but you're also healing the nation!" Mind-blowing! That was everything Mama Jakes

  • @thewerkerb2932
    @thewerkerb2932 Жыл бұрын

    I literally cried the entire episode. Apparently this was the healing all of us didn’t know we needed. Thanks First Lady for apologizing for the mothers who could not, cannot, or choose not to. My heart is full ❤

  • @13thdisciple
    @13thdisciple Жыл бұрын

    "I've not had many opportunities to feel joy." ... I can so relate. Yes, we have to give ourselves permission to give ourselves time to feel joy, to exhale, be still!

  • @aprilbrown6739

    @aprilbrown6739

    Жыл бұрын

    OMG! That part of this episode resonated so loud with me.

  • @worshiplibrary7157
    @worshiplibrary7157 Жыл бұрын

    To the 1% of people reading this: your amazing and loved God put u in this life for a reason and everything will be better soon...

  • @terrymarie3738
    @terrymarie3738 Жыл бұрын

    I’m not even halfway through and sobbing and wanting to call each of my children. How beautiful that you shared this moment. And when Serita said, “I’ll make stuff up” I laughed so hard but I couldn’t agree more. I will apologize to the end of time for whatever if it will heal my child in any way. Thank you ladies. You are both blessings to so many including me. 🙏❤️

  • @nokubongamartins
    @nokubongamartins Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the most beautiful conversations I’ve ever watched.

  • @Maria-006.

    @Maria-006.

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen 🙏🏻❤️🫶🏻

  • @tammywilliams9335

    @tammywilliams9335

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes it is 👏💞

  • @patricianixon6650

    @patricianixon6650

    Жыл бұрын

    Love this ❤️

  • @mwilliams2640

    @mwilliams2640

    Жыл бұрын

    AMEN AMEN!!!!

  • @TheMaishaHarris

    @TheMaishaHarris

    Жыл бұрын

    It really is. ❤

  • @Ckrissy013
    @Ckrissy013 Жыл бұрын

    It’s tooooo early for me to be crying like this! Mrs. Serita is just so so sweet!

  • @tifftiff3162
    @tifftiff3162 Жыл бұрын

    This was like a drink of water. So refreshing.

  • @UnequallyYolkedCouple
    @UnequallyYolkedCouple Жыл бұрын

    I love mother's gray hair, beautiful. Great subject matter! Thanks!

  • @patrina7608
    @patrina7608 Жыл бұрын

    This is why Bishop and his family are great. They are transparent, sincere, kind and 😢very generous with their lives and time. Thank you for making faith and God real and reachable. Thank you.

  • @yvettemiller3352

    @yvettemiller3352

    Жыл бұрын

    💯 agree ❤️ 😢

  • @poochiegarner5030

    @poochiegarner5030

    Жыл бұрын

    That was beautiful ❤️. I volunteer when you come to Atlanta, Ga and Charlotte, NC and I just love you for who God made you. Thank you for sharing real life and reminding us to forgive. No parent get it right, all the time. I just love y'all 💕

  • @belle3055

    @belle3055

    Жыл бұрын

    Good for them. In my family we barely talk.

  • @Classy4514

    @Classy4514

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah right

  • @joibrown4426
    @joibrown4426 Жыл бұрын

    Y’all have released me today from something I didn’t know I was dealing with, I cried the whole time and don’t know why, but I feel free. I feel unshakable

  • @richgirl3457

    @richgirl3457

    Жыл бұрын

    I literally just told god this was what I didn’t even know I needed. Cried like a baby. And I too feel so refreshed. I’ve had resentments toward my mom that I’ve let go and forgiven her for but I feel like this gave us room to be okay with those hurts even though we’ve already forgiven. May god continue to bless everyone🙏🏽💕

  • @debbieyoyo2997

    @debbieyoyo2997

    Жыл бұрын

    Its the mother-daughter talk

  • @Caesarechez1

    @Caesarechez1

    Жыл бұрын

    HALLELUJAH 🙌🏾 GLORY TO GOD ❤

  • @ellenthompson7491

    @ellenthompson7491

    Жыл бұрын

    This is beautiful may God continue the union with you Mrs. Jake’s and your daughter Sarah it’s beautiful beautiful ❤

  • @MsPurplerain23

    @MsPurplerain23

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m 😢crying too. My mom did the best she knew and I’m grateful for her and love her so much 💜 I’m crying because I wish I was a better mom to my children 😢 I love them and I know they love me Lord help us it stops here ❤

  • @uprayup
    @uprayup Жыл бұрын

    I love Christians who are Balanced. There are so many things we can enjoy in life. I was raised in church where everything was a sin. I am so glad that I started reading the Word of God for myself and discovered what LIFE is all about. We loose our families and many more things in life when we become so distant from everything. Thank you for sharing this video. I love you both.

  • @stephaniebaker8336
    @stephaniebaker83366 күн бұрын

    I love, love, love "The Jakes Family" All you all are anointed!!

  • @zibahcharles109
    @zibahcharles109 Жыл бұрын

    This is the most beautiful Mother-daughter conversation, that I am grateful to have the privilege to ‘listen in’ on. Very powerful & healing. 💜 My prayer for now & into 2023 is that God unapologetically love on me, receive my vulnerability & ‘mother’ my childhood wounds in a divine way. I have a daughter who deserves everything good.

  • @citygirlofbethlehem

    @citygirlofbethlehem

    Жыл бұрын

    @hamisuabdullahi1819 dis a whole scam sis Sarah a introvert she ain't scamming

  • @DarSheaNaja

    @DarSheaNaja

    Жыл бұрын

    That is a great prayer

  • @medoralittle8465
    @medoralittle8465 Жыл бұрын

    I love this conversation between Mama Jakes and Pastor Sarah.. praise God

  • @TheKaRenaLee
    @TheKaRenaLee Жыл бұрын

    This was my first time ever hearing Sarah’s mom talk. I loved this episode!! This was so beautifully powerful and moving. Her mom is such a beautiful example of being willing to listen and learn and grow. She said I was a drama major I’m weak same mama 😂❤

  • @callmenow303

    @callmenow303

    Жыл бұрын

    Send me a write up✍🏻💬☝️ for prayers, counseling and daily motivation to keep your spirituality fit in the faith 🙏❤️❣️🥰❣️❣️

  • @quinnetterjohnson2363
    @quinnetterjohnson236317 күн бұрын

    The most beautiful dialogue between Mother & Daughter. Such a marvelous Grace on both of them!❤😊❤

  • @dawney5467
    @dawney5467 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautifully and honest therapeutic conversation. Thank you both for modelling that🙏🏽💕

  • @suniwillbe
    @suniwillbe Жыл бұрын

    This mother and daughter conversation is breathtaking 😢😢❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @divinejustice8359
    @divinejustice8359 Жыл бұрын

    I am praying that the Jakes family find healing and peace from their problems and traumas.

  • @kingdomwomanvictoria
    @kingdomwomanvictoria Жыл бұрын

    Totally loving the spirit of Serita Jakes...she wears the spirit of humility like skin!

  • @lwmsculver3628
    @lwmsculver3628 Жыл бұрын

    Yes Sarah did!! She taught me, a much older woman to NOT be ashamed of my youth pregnancy. I carried that for a long time, but I tell MY STORY free now 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @kerronyoung88

    @kerronyoung88

    Жыл бұрын

    Bless you!

  • @andreashinault5616
    @andreashinault5616 Жыл бұрын

    This is a tear jerker OMG. I needed this today. 😥

  • @tamikoh.776
    @tamikoh.776 Жыл бұрын

    I watched this at 2:00 am this morning. You never know what people been through or going through. Thank God she is getting the help she needs 🙏 🙌 ❤

  • @sabrinaoritz7049

    @sabrinaoritz7049

    Жыл бұрын

  • @latoniayoung1057
    @latoniayoung1057 Жыл бұрын

    Love these ladies. First Lady is beautiful all around. Sarah is so blessed. Love her as well. My favorite family❤️❤️❤️

  • @pumkinpie8730
    @pumkinpie8730 Жыл бұрын

    God is good.....I'm so thankful for this conversation and to see her mom in a bigger and different light. This has helped me. So much I just called my son(only child) and had a heart to heart

  • @flowforever9084

    @flowforever9084

    Жыл бұрын

    Praise God This made me wish I had had a more indept convo with my mom. Her children are angry adults. She didn't acknowledge anything. That's all we wanted.

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful Relationship between Mother and daughter 🙏🏾❤️

  • @Jesus.SaVeS77

    @Jesus.SaVeS77

    Жыл бұрын

    GM, @Christine Porter, 🤦🏾I wishd my mom & I had talks like this before she got really sick & pass'd on to Glory, etc. (RIP) Momma, she's absent from her body, but present with the Lord! 🙏🏾 👍🏾❤️

  • @christineporter9914

    @christineporter9914

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Jesus.SaVeS77 Amen, My Mother is no longer with us either she just passed away 5 months ago. We Miss her dearly. But we know we'll see her again.

  • @Jesus.SaVeS77

    @Jesus.SaVeS77

    Жыл бұрын

    Gdm. @@christineporter9914 Oh 😱 sorry to hear. I didn't know u loss yur mom as well. My condolences to U & yur family. I'll be 🙏🏾for yur comfort,🕊️, strength. The joy of th Lord is yur/my Strength... amen. My mother took her flight Apr. 2020.🤦🏾God knows! It still fresh like it was yesterday. So even tho I/U & other's may still feel hurt, sadness 😢, grief, 💔, etc...We shall see our dear mom's again. If we Endure until the end the same Shall be SaVed...In Jesus "Mighty & Merciful" Name, Amen. My sista, may God continue keepn & blessn U/I/others as well. Let's be/stay strong in the Lord, etc...amen. 💝

  • @christineporter9914

    @christineporter9914

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Jesus.SaVeS77 Amen Sis you continue to be strong as well, God Bless you 🙏🏾❤️

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Жыл бұрын

    Omg! My heart just broke in half when she said ‘you forgive me’. Awe this is too real from me. 😢 I gotta come back to listen…. Awe, Sarah.

  • @jennytaylor3962
    @jennytaylor3962 Жыл бұрын

    To all the mothers. Don't be hard on yourself. There's no manual for parents and even if there was....one size does not fit all. You may not have got it all right, I appreciate you for not leaving or forsaking us even though it was tough. You did and continue to do your best. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

  • @blaknbeauty1

    @blaknbeauty1

    Жыл бұрын

    Awesome 💪✌️

  • @queenisrael8158

    @queenisrael8158

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you and your family.

  • @awatkins8429

    @awatkins8429

    6 ай бұрын

    Many don't do their BEST or anything close to it...deliberately. Some mothers attempt to actually destroy their kids (especially daughters). And those are the ones who need to be held accountable.

  • @It.is.I-tx6ri

    @It.is.I-tx6ri

    6 ай бұрын

    @jennytaylor3962, This is the comment that I, as an immature parent didn’t know I needed to read. If only my children would l/could say this and mean it 🙏🏾

  • @tynitajackson452
    @tynitajackson452 Жыл бұрын

    The transparency in this video feeds my soul. You both are given me permission to forgive myself and ask for forgiveness. Like First Lady Serita, I have unresolved issues with my own Mother. I also have 2 daughters 26 & 23. I have began my own journey of being accountable and saying I’m sorry. This video is a gift from the Holy Spirit. The transparency will help so many Mothers and Daughters. I am committed to sharing it with others. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @Rose.Marie.

    @Rose.Marie.

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so proud of you! - a mom of a one year old who is also on a journey of accountability as well as forgiving parents and healing my own family wounds

  • @lrrussellrussell8227
    @lrrussellrussell8227 Жыл бұрын

    Just a SUGGESTION 😢😢😂😂 can we get a SISTER or SIBLINGS conversation such as this one. This was healing to me, Mrs. Serita is so my mum even her past to current. My mum was a Pastor I grew up in church as well 💯💯😫😫🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰🥰

  • @kgilliam19
    @kgilliam19 Жыл бұрын

    67 where?? cuz Pastor Serita you look goodt! ❤️ I have always admired your gentleness and your gracefulness. You are a gem to the body of Christ. Thank you for always empowering women with words of love and truth

  • @MsJeanne1972
    @MsJeanne1972 Жыл бұрын

    I love this honesty it's a cleansing that mothers need with their daughters. All of us.

  • @lezhatc56
    @lezhatc56 Жыл бұрын

    THIS IS A BIT LENGTHY BUT ... .. Both of you ladies blessed me extremely bcos I was able to see I wasn't the only girl who grew up without her parents and siblings & I wasn't the only one who grew up in a violent home hiding in the bathtub from flying bullets amongst alcoholics cussing & fighting & shooting & cutn' one another & Etc. I also understand getting pregnant at 15 & having to take care of a child as a child myself. I had to grow up quick. I remember having to walk to work at 4 or 5am in the morning pregnant to get to work, no help but from God. I felt so alone, but God was always there for me through some very difficult , hard issues .... THE LORD DELIVERED ME FROM SO SO MUCH MORE AND I STILL HAVE MY RIGHT MIND ..... IN SPITE OF THE DRUGS, I'VE BEEN DELIVERED 25 YRS., IN SPITE OF ....... OOH CHILE .... THAT, THAT, THAT AND THOSE OTHER THINGS, I STILL MADE IT THROUGH IT ALL BCOS GOD LIFTED ME AND HE CARRIED ME AND HE BROUGHT ME THROUGH AND OUT OF IT ALL. I AM NOT IN A CLOSET SLOBBING, EATING COTTON AND PULLING MY HAIR OUR STRAND BY STRAND, BUT I MADE IT & FOR THAT I'M VERY GRATEFUL & THANKFUL TO GOD BCOS HE MADE ME WHOLE IN AREAS THAT I DIDN'T EVEN REALIZE I'D EVER BE MADE WHOLE IN.I KNOW HOW TO CLOSE THE DOOR TO TOXIC PEOPLE, PLACES & THINGS TODAY AND SAY NO YOU WILL NOT IMPEDE ON MY JOY, LOVE & HAPPINESS BCOS I AM A HUMAN BEING WORTHY OF LOVE, PEACE, JOY, HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AND WHATEVER I DEEM NECESSARY. THE LORD GIVES US PERMISSION TO LIVE, LOVE AND BE JOYFUL THEREFORE NO ONE ELSE HAS THE RIGHT TO TAKE THAT AWAY BCOS GOD HAS NOT GIVEN ANYONE THAT MUCH AUTHORITY IN ANOTHER PERSONS LIFE. THANK YOU BOTH FOR BEING SO TRANSPARENT.

  • @lezhatc56

    @lezhatc56

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks, but I am really so good. God Bless you and Grace & Peace.

  • @lazellclea107
    @lazellclea107 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you First Lady and Sister Sarah ❤️

  • @Junior-ym2nt
    @Junior-ym2nt Жыл бұрын

    Serita crying for the truth 😭😭🥺 imagine all the kids who are separated from their parents are having the same questions 😭😭

  • @RhondaSRamos
    @RhondaSRamos Жыл бұрын

    Kudos to ownership of how a parent's choices can be your child's consequences. This is so rare, unfortunately. Sarah has been liberated. Walk in your freedom. The captive has been set free! Hallelujah!

  • @JocelynHairGoddess
    @JocelynHairGoddess Жыл бұрын

    Just imagining that “I’m sorry” coming from my mother. 🙏🏽 this is just so good thank you ❤

  • @fergusonartistry653
    @fergusonartistry653 Жыл бұрын

    Guilt is what I felt when my dad died from Covid. The only time I got to visit him in the hospital was when he was taking his last breath. I struggled for a long time after that with my relationship with God. And I agree it’s hard to fight who you love. Although I wanted to walk away from God I couldn’t God kept drawing me with His love. In that battle I got to know God’s love for me on a whole new level. Not only was He holding me up when I was at my lowest. He was carrying me also! God is faithful!

  • @gigiFLOWER2023

    @gigiFLOWER2023

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. I can relate. I lost my baby sister on Christmas day last year. She was only 31. I'm still processing it all. Family wasn't that close prior, now a relationship doesn't even exist at all.

  • @TreJ999
    @TreJ999 Жыл бұрын

    Sis. Serita!! What a role model of grace and humility.

  • @lindaoliver8715
    @lindaoliver8715 Жыл бұрын

    Two beautiful women of God, you both nailed it! I am so blessed. I even ordered the book. My mother is 92 years of age with 8 children. I am the only one seeing after my ill mother, who never paid me any attention growing up. Siblings treat me horrible. But, everyone was too busy to care for her, but I dropped everything and ran to her rescue she was on hospice. And she at first gave me a hard time, now realize I'm all she has. I am hurting so badly. And feel so lost. Because I have a lot of questions, but I don't want to upset her. To hear you both! you just enlightened me so much. Thank you 🤍my birthday is July 23rd..... 🕯

  • @NatayaMcqueen

    @NatayaMcqueen

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey love where did you buy the book who wrote it

  • @thevesselwithsisterb6060
    @thevesselwithsisterb6060 Жыл бұрын

    I just wanna say thank you for this powerful and unexpected treat! It was a treat to watch you two together engaging with such transparency and vulnerability💞 but I'm not surprised Pastor Sarah because it's one of your gifts! You talked about giving permission to feel Joy but you have this gift where you give people permission to be honest and to be themselves. You allow people to express both the put together and the not so put together parts of themselves on display removing barriers and things like guilt and shame and self doubt. That's a gift💥 you're able to dissolve walls that people have built and hide behind with such ease! It's so beautiful to watch🤗 I can go on and on but I'm just gonna end by saying this...I've watched you grow. I've been a fan for quite sometime now and I look forward to watching you evolve! Stay in alignment and obedience as you've been💞 remember it's never about us it's about who God needs us to reach! You're doing an amazing job! May the Mighty Lord continue to Bless you and your family always! Your dad made the right choice! Hey girl💞 you got this

  • @bettiebrown2409
    @bettiebrown2409 Жыл бұрын

    All i have to say as a mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother At 77. Thank you ladies for the healing and gave me. You help me to Free My self, of so much things. God's blessing be with you both at all times 🙏 🙌 ❤ Thanks

  • @FaithWawira-gy4wr
    @FaithWawira-gy4wr4 ай бұрын

    You know that you are loved Ladies!!?? I hope you know this. Hats off. God bless you 🙏

  • @Milani2k
    @Milani2k4 ай бұрын

    Chile I can not express more how thankful I am for this story.😭😭 I have been crying for most part of the video because I relate to it soo much😭😭 If it wasn’t for my spiritual coach, my stepmom and one of my closest friend😪I definitely wouldn’t have survived. Dealing with so many traumas, including not having a father figure in the household until the age of 10 when God blessed me with one, and having abandonment issues when he couldn’t be with me anymore because of health issues and had to go back to Holland, having rejection problems and so many other childhood traumas, I am still here fighting and crying out to God like, How much more😭😭 But thank you soo much for this ladies because It shows that I’m really not alone❤❤

  • @roseshabane177
    @roseshabane177 Жыл бұрын

    Mmmm so touching and indeed bringing healing to all of us.

  • @jackiem.3812
    @jackiem.3812 Жыл бұрын

    THIS. IS EVERYTHING!!!! It is so cathartic to see that we all have history, questions, and unmet needs from childhood. I personally have gone through my own healing, with out counseling, but litterly by the counsel of the Holy spirit. I knew I was depressed, suppressed, but I couldn't remember why? So I would pray to God to reveal it to me. So through out ten years I would meet someone from my past, that hurt me, and when I saw them I didn't remember right away, but days latter it was like I remembered and those feelings would come up...I was able to be in that moment, hurt, be angry, and make a choice to forgive, it was a choice until it was a reality, but when I was free from many offenses, I was free, indeed. How? By burying myself into the word, and taking the time to know who I was in Christ vs who I thought I was because of the trauma. That was healing...and it has helped me to recognize, and put the blame where it belongs, and not take it as I was not worthy of love. But that I was fearfully and wonderfully made by God... and that hurt people hurt people... jealousy is real. But there is deliverance in forgiveness!!! It wasn't easy, but, it was so worth it. God litterly counseled me through His Holy Spirit and I am stronger, so much wiser, and Better than better! To God be all the Glory for the great things he has done. Ps. Mother Jake's, I have know a man who was from a large family who was given to his aunt and uncle, and not raised with his family-because that aunt could not have children. ( he never knew- another one of his siblings told the family, the reason when he was in his seventies.) He said he felt rejected and alone, and didn't understand why he couldn't live with his family. Perhaps your aunt could not have children, and maybe having you stay there someone thought you could bring peace into that home. Just a thought. So I'm seeing that we all make mistakes unknowingly that can be traumatic to others. So we all have a need to forgive and to be forgiven. And we know because God works all things out for our good, we can trust that our steps although traumatic- the good, the healing, the forgiveness is ordered by the lord, to workout for our good...look at the beautiful nurturing, and protective mother and grandmother you have become. God knew that you would mother a child that would speak healing and deliverance to the nations and She would need her experience and your good mothering and the not so good mothering to cause her to have a NEED for a savior, healer, and delivery. Yes, it was all for God's glory!! Sin and the fall was the cause, but Jesus was and is the healer, and the hope for us all. In him we can be reconciled from trauma to this wonderful hope that we now have in Christ Jesus our Lord. (This is the very essence of salvation-sin, hurt pain, reconciled by one, and emplimented by our faith, forgiveness, and our hope in Jesus Christ. )

  • @praises2

    @praises2

    Жыл бұрын

    So very well stated!!

  • @terralewis2680
    @terralewis2680 Жыл бұрын

    Say what you want about this family but they are doing the work! They are showing us how to initiate the healing and restoration that needs to take place between generations. I love the work they are doing. My soul is glad! 🙏🏽♥️

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Жыл бұрын

    Omg!!! My whole heart just came out of my chest when Serita said it was like Sarah taking her first steps when she saw her on that stage accepting the torch. *clutches heart*😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭 I can envision it.

  • @r.z.j.8261
    @r.z.j.8261 Жыл бұрын

    Sarah, you are very lucky to get along with both your parents!!! I ❤️ love how your Dad is everybody's dad!!

  • @safespacewithsina
    @safespacewithsina Жыл бұрын

    "Thank you Pastor Sarah"🥺❤️ oh man.

  • @lifestylewithchiffon
    @lifestylewithchiffon Жыл бұрын

    This is so beautiful. Thanks for being so transparent women of God.

  • @tracigroce3412
    @tracigroce3412 Жыл бұрын

    On my lunch at work, and balling my eyes out. Lord, I needed this. I'm currently seeking therapy, too. 🥺

  • @lavjamsoflocamp

    @lavjamsoflocamp

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too. I am an orphan😢

  • @Loved-ByGod
    @Loved-ByGod Жыл бұрын

    Wow, thank you for this 😢intimate moment.

  • @keynan394418
    @keynan394418 Жыл бұрын

    "You playing out what I wish christmas would have been"..revelation in my life!!

  • @creelelani7165
    @creelelani7165 Жыл бұрын

    not having my mom here is not easy and this helped tremendously. Thank you so much for the transparency! I cried the whole time 🥺🙏🏽

  • @jessicarowling

    @jessicarowling

    Жыл бұрын

    Similar ❤️

  • @notyourusualst

    @notyourusualst

    Жыл бұрын

    Right? I’m grateful for this amazing chance to listen to a mother’s heart.

  • @tamikocornelious3095
    @tamikocornelious3095 Жыл бұрын

    This was sooooo good!!!!! To sit at the feet of these two amazing women and soak up nothing but WISDOM!!!! They dropped so many 💎 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @rashidaboima38
    @rashidaboima38 Жыл бұрын

    The world so needed this in a time such as now! Thank you 🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @YolandaDHall
    @YolandaDHall Жыл бұрын

    Wow! I sincerely appreciate the honesty and candor that you ladies shared. Never have I ever witnessed a “First Family” be so real, and sharing with us that they are just like us, imperfect, dealing with issues and working it out. Thank you, thank you you I have fallen in love with you all at a whole new level.💜

  • @LifeIsAWholeVibe
    @LifeIsAWholeVibe Жыл бұрын

    This was so beautiful ❤ When Mrs Jake's said when she lost her mom she felt like she lost her anchor, I felt that in my soul 🥺

  • @Mommii517
    @Mommii5176 ай бұрын

    ...and the book!! Oh my goodness!! It was so freeing and eye opening! It's not our fault!!! A must read!

  • @beverlyputman9950
    @beverlyputman9950 Жыл бұрын

    Such A Beautiful Honest Conversation. Full of Truth but with a mutual respect and such compassion♥️

  • @casandratappin6349
    @casandratappin6349 Жыл бұрын

    "Every Girl Child has the opportunity to reproduce after their own kind." ~Serita Jake's THIS hit me like a ton of bricks!! What a Word to my heart. Even if I may not be able to physically produce after my own kind, I can spiritually! I really needed to hear that ❣️

  • @honey9651
    @honey9651 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor Sarah this is something I really needed to hear and see. A generational curse was just broken in front of the world 🌎. Its so much strength in a mother saying Im sorry. We are Mothers we aren’t perfect 😢. Thanks so much. This is very powerful 😊

  • @meiekahenderson2428
    @meiekahenderson2428 Жыл бұрын

    I really loved this VLOG, my mom doesn't talk to me like this; she talks to her niece , I'm a motherless child an only child if you will(but no matter what I always honor thy mother). I have been in therapy I always pray good things and I make sure that I treat , my daughter and two sons , grandson and granddaughter with love , joy and always love on them. But I thank God that I have been in remission for 6 1/2 years and I'm very grateful that God Blesses me to be here for me and my children Amen . Sarah Jakes , I'm 51 years old and I have been watching you every since I have been watching your dad preach and God has an awesome anointing on you AMEN. love you and mother Jakes . Blessings and Abundance

  • @SherrellsArt
    @SherrellsArt Жыл бұрын

    I’m glad that we as a collective of (black) women are now tackling hard convos & generational trauma, early. Talking about it truly helps. Thank y’all for your vulnerability and service to bring us all healing, by example.

  • @sharonslilgirl77
    @sharonslilgirl77 Жыл бұрын

    I wish i could have had this type of conversation with my mom before she died. This is so inspiring God bless you both

  • @naomimurraysewer4871
    @naomimurraysewer4871 Жыл бұрын

    I love how open this family is. I absolutely love their realness and appreciate it. ❤️

  • @MissTXTee

    @MissTXTee

    Жыл бұрын

    It sounds like they have not historically been as open as they were during this taping

  • @daisydaniel4593
    @daisydaniel4593 Жыл бұрын

    I watched it twice. Simply beautiful.

  • @pamelalewis2268
    @pamelalewis2268 Жыл бұрын

    This was beautiful I cried thought about my own personal life my relationship with my own parents and sisters and my children and being a new grandma.

  • @AllIAm1
    @AllIAm1 Жыл бұрын

    I love your relationship with your parents Sarah how beautiful thank you for sharing

  • @MyPart13910
    @MyPart13910 Жыл бұрын

    Oh My Goodness, I Love this! My Daughter and I talk like this as well! So much healing here. ❤

  • @tanishacoats834
    @tanishacoats834 Жыл бұрын

    It’s hard to fight who you love~What a Word! Thank you, Sister Serita Jakes ❤

  • @hannahjames6
    @hannahjames6 Жыл бұрын

    I can relate to your mum she suppressed all her childhood trauma emotions until late I lost my mother I was 9 years old and her death up to today remains mysterious

  • @Ehomespace
    @Ehomespace Жыл бұрын

    This is so near and dear to my heart because I’ve had to navigate my way with teenage pregnancy and I’ve made mistakes. I apologized for them. Also have the layer of a lost mom who never told her truth. I’m going to get the books that were dropped here and move intentional and bigger with my children ❤ Thank you ladies truly heartfelt and transparent and admirable

  • @citygirlofbethlehem

    @citygirlofbethlehem

    Жыл бұрын

    @hamisuabdullahi1819 dis a scam sis

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Жыл бұрын

    ‘Now, I can’t see the glory without the story’ 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🙌🏾 God is SO very good!!!!!!! Let’s do it all for the glory of God. Throughout all the Bible, my revelations started last year with the story of Pharoah and the Israelites- God does EVERYTHING for Himself and His glory. Put the fear of God right in my heart discovering that mystery I didn’t see till my 40s. I been reading that Bible since I could speak and just seeing this. Praise God!!! That is a God I don’t ever wanna be in front of…

  • @successfamechannel8738
    @successfamechannel8738 Жыл бұрын

    Sara you are doing a great job,impacting the life of people globally,may the Lord continue to increase your grace and strengthen you more and more

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