I released my ex to God multiple times before I was able to fully release him, and when I finally did, God brought someone into my life that has been better to me than my ex ever was. The release hurt, but it was a beautiful mourning because God was finally able to fully heal my heart the between time and has blessed me with someone who's better to me than I thought I deserved in the past. His love feels like the love I get from God, he sees me like God sees me and I am beyond grateful. Glory to God 💛

@YolandeBeyala

2 жыл бұрын

I connect to your testimony siiis!! Remain blessed... GOD always has the best for HIS children

@rarejourneys

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been going back n forth for 10 years and I just released him fully on Monday. Thanks for sharing and I feel strengthened without even listening to know to stand firm

@elektrasmagicalstorytime

2 жыл бұрын

Look at God!

@Kash_Budgetz

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this testimony this just gave me more Hope

@cheabea4286

2 жыл бұрын

Mm no ii Mmimiiiiimmi

“Don’t release him with the expectation of his return.” A word! 👏🏾

@ms.gracefullybroken8724

2 жыл бұрын

COME ON SIS

@florchel

Жыл бұрын

A WORDDDDDD

“You have to release him back to God so that u are no longer concerned with his progress , and ask God for your heart back”…. “Don’t release him with the expectation of his return, that’s not a full release that’s a partial release”…. “people marry someone for their potential not their reality and then get frustrated when he doesn’t change into that potential, you have to marry someone for their reality” wooooow 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@tintswalomathonsi

2 жыл бұрын

This, exactly this was a word and an answer for my own situation. To release him, get my heart back with no expectation that we’ll be together.

@ivisburris705

2 жыл бұрын

Amen Amen Amen

@andrelynmalveaux7002

2 жыл бұрын

YOU CAPTURED ALL OF MY THOUGHTS FRIM THIS (RIGHT HERE 🔥🔥🔥) 🎤 YES LORD🙌🏾

@harif3656

2 жыл бұрын

Listen this word needs time to marinate.. woooooo

@shelleboogie3414

2 жыл бұрын

Ol

Getting married before you find yourself is a very real thing. Very well put

@brearegans8683

2 жыл бұрын

Jesus is your way to heaven, Believe in him and you will be saved from hell.

@adafelix5127

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah. It could cause issues in the future when people start changing drastically or wanting very different things...

“For as long as he has the comfort of you without change, he will never change”

@ms.gracefullybroken8724

2 жыл бұрын

I second that motion..that’s a whole word

“God can you give me my heart back, cause I know he’s not ready to handle it!” Wow!!! 🔥🔥🔥

This is so true. When we look for a spouse we are looking for a missing piece of us to complete us. Us men are looking for our rib, but first we must know who we are so that we can identify our right rib...No man wants someone else's rib in his body. We want, desire and pray for the rib, the wife that God specifically made for us

@sam0435

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

@Kari_Michele

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, you’re right 💯

@shawneelawrence8667

Жыл бұрын

A true word

Self discovery takes a lifetime. Every decade brings about a “new you”. You have to be willing to grow and grow in your relationships. Connect with God and listen to and trust God.

“If it’s going to change it’s not gonna change while it’s the same” i have rewatched this twice.

I just love the way they keep flirting with each other😍

Baby this was so gooooodttt! Self discovery is the best discovery.

This spoke DIRECTLY to me and it was for me. God, I thank you!!! God I thank you!!! God, I TRUST YOU!!! This was definitely for me. My heart has released him…and now that it has, I don’t EVER care if he comes back, because what God has for me will be GREATER that what I thought was for me. Amen!!!

@cynthiaprice-stricklin5422

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@sophiabrown11

2 жыл бұрын

AMEN 🙏

@gloriagone1601

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏽

@shontasmith9362

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@traceyflowers5291

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe Also Watch Lie To Me No More Vids Peace

"I MARRIED YOUR REALITY CHILLLEEE" SJR ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙌🙌🙌🙌🤣🤣🤣

@mercymwangi2895

2 ай бұрын

this is the comment i came looking for🤣🤣

As long as he has the comfort of you without change....he will never change, create an environment of change....wow!!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥

I love everything about this!! You can’t desire change and same at the same time. If he’s indeed the one you will never lose him. If you release Him don’t release him with the expectation of him returning!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 My dad told me the same thing Cora mentioned. I was engaged but hesitant. He said no marriage is perfect and we all have flaws but don’t go into a marriage thinking things will change. He said whatever that flaw is can you deal with it even if It doesn’t change. That gave me so much peace and clarity!! It stopped me from marrying wrong.🙌🏾 The decision wasn’t easy but I knew it was the right decision. I thank God for you two! You are the example of Kingdom Marriages…Power Couples! The Transparency..authenticity you guys give are like none other.

I married "potential"...God have mercy on me! Believe a person the first time they show you! It will definitely save you a lot of gray hairs & tears of sorrow & frustration.....Child, child, child!!!

@LaketaSmith

2 жыл бұрын

...and money!

These 10 mins of wisdom, was amazing. May God continue to bless your marriage Pastors.

@ivisburris705

2 жыл бұрын

2 mins into the video the wisdom released was astronomical.

The casual droppage of gems wrapped in love!!! Wew. God of Zion give your daughter her heart back! I'm single as a whole crisp dollar bill and still felt the conviction! *insert Fantasia screaming while being escorted off the stage_**______* lbs 🙌🏽😭🙌🏽

The wisdom within this power couple my gawdd. That is my prayer pastor Sarah I swear “God I release him back to you and I ask for my heart back so that I am no longer concerned with his progress” IJN amen 🙏🏾🙌🏾

@miraclesinthemaking1270

2 жыл бұрын

I come in agreement with you for myself too. 🙏🏽

@kyasiajohnson633

2 жыл бұрын

@@miraclesinthemaking1270 amen sis 🙌🏾

@keshianserenity

2 жыл бұрын

Amen! I prayed this prayer too.

@healed2011

2 жыл бұрын

Amen.🙏🙌🏾

@kyasiajohnson633

2 жыл бұрын

@@keshianserenity amen sis 🙏🏾

I love this ! People do marry on potential, not the reality!! I will marry for REALITY! Thank you LORD 🙏

WOWWWW!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 What if the delay is because I'm still discovering me, who I really am and not mt broken me or undiscovered me! I love it!

Powerful exactly your marriage shouldn’t be built on brokenness

'Marriage should be a true reflection of our relationship with God" I took that with me.

@TriciaRP

Жыл бұрын

Yes ask him about HIS FIRST WIFE and his three children.......he is in adultery.

This was a whole MESSAGE right here!!! Ooooou Pastors…. This was mmmmm mmmm good. Thank you all

A word " you can not desire same and change at the same time " thank you

Wow my heart has been in a situation that it did not need to be in for my entire 20s and now I recognize I’ve been saying the wrong prayer. This is exactly what I needed. Thank you.

Seeing a persons potential is so much easier than seeing their reality because we want to see the good in a person so badly and we (Women) know that they're capable of being a decent human being but it may not be for us at that moment in their life. I've learned in my years of dating, situationships and overall dealing with men that you CANNOT make anyone ready for something they're just not ready for and we as women must heighten our standards and self-worth to know when to let go of anything or person that is not beneficial to us in REALITY!!! I pray that God helps us all to be connected with a men who are after His heart. My desire is to be married & I see myself married, in a healthy marriage with a person who genuinely loves God and genuinely loves ME too!!!

I just left the bookstore ms decided to find something on ytube to listen in ride home and my GOD this was for me Hallelujah so much clarity and confirmation and Godly truth I ate it all up

Our marriage should be a reflection of our relationship with God

That lady with the mic is hilarious and as much as part of the ministry as the couple! So much wisdom all around.

@Joelle__K

2 жыл бұрын

She is 😂😂. That's Pastor Sarah's older sister, Pastor Cora Jakes

@kourtniedixon9245

2 жыл бұрын

I was wondering if I was the only one that thought her statements were comment worthwhile🤣. Lord thank you for her sense of humour.

@TriciaRP

Жыл бұрын

@@Joelle__K MARK 10:11-12 v12 I guess we should listen to THEM Instead of God and HIS WORD👏👏👏

“ I married your reality child “ 😂😂😂😂. I know that’s right 🙋🏾‍♀️…

Omg this is exactly what I’m going through!!! God read my heart, spoke it in that woman and you just confirmed what God has been telling me during this separation I’m in! Thank you Jesus for this message and this couple!

@kerronewen3162

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, if it’s gonna change, it can’t remain the same. Keep working on you and keep on walking. Create an Environment for change 🎁

@kerronewen3162

Жыл бұрын

If it’s God, it will show up the right way 🎁

This is so true and powerful. I chose to marry my husband based on the prophetic picture of who God said I would be. And thank God.

Reality is key,potential might never evolve.Don't settle!

listennnn... can we get the full clip for this please and thanks Pastor Sarah.... the way this ended can not be the end ... more nuggets gotta pop out

@Atmosphereofworship

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@kikibarnett234

Жыл бұрын

Did you find the full clip?

Marriage should be a reflection of our relationship with God🙌 That Got to me...

Thank You Jesus I was just looking for videos on marriage last night and couldn’t find anything (I’m sure they’re out there) 😫 God is always on time 🙌🏽

It’s the code switching for me! Sarah goes from Pastor to homegirl and back to Pastor in a matter of seconds. I do enjoy the authenticity of your persona which definitely takes the religious pressures off of the messages. This definitely makes the word a lot more relatable and it gives a greater opportunity for me to receive it in my mind. A lot of times when I listen to the word I’m not actualizing whether my heart needs the word or my mind. With your style Sarah, I definitely get a little bit of both.

@TriciaRP

Жыл бұрын

Find scripture that give the Biblical qualifications for a female Pastor or preacher____________! NONE

Listen!! This is on time! I just met a man who said God showed him I was his wife, we talked and had great conversations for 2 months, then out of nowhere he ghosted me! There was so many God confirmations through the whole 2 months, I know it was God, I can’t stop thinking about him, I pray for him even though we have not spoken in 3 weeks, I feel in my spirit that he is my husband, this is perfect, I am going to take my heart back and like pastor toure said if it’s yours , you can’t miss it.. it will be yours

@shawneelawrence8667

Жыл бұрын

Amen

This is amazing. I think this guidance can be applied to all relationships, friendships.

Sister Sarah on "asking God for your heart back," blew me over...Wow!!!...oh! How our God is a wonder for u to say that...God released me 6 yrs ago it was immediately til I was shocked how I handled it..God said, "Its Enough!" and my relationship with the Lord I knew I must say goodbye to the end of a relationship that made me feel overlooked constantly & deprived. God delivered my feelings/heart and I been walking solo with God in my waiting for who He has appointed for Me. I want God's WILL Now. IJN Amen and Amen

@feliciavanwyk2147

Жыл бұрын

Did you find the one yet?

The only important thing is to surrender yourself to God and His plans. Finding yourself is a lifelong journey. When you are in the area from good to better, it is not easy to see the future. Only trusting God in control is the only thing you can do even if it is difficult. The right one will come at the right time for me and you who are looking for someone to share life with.

@APTTMHYforever

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!! “Finding yourself” first is not a great idea… resolving past hurts, resentments, bitterness is important and essential but you’re absolutely right, your comment is spot on

@geirjartveit9785

2 жыл бұрын

@@APTTMHYforever amen

I love seeing so many dark skin women together ❤️

I'm watching all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦. Always inspiring. Stay blessed.

@mbalenhleshabangu4350

2 жыл бұрын

🇿🇦

That look Sarah gave pastor at the end chiiiiiiiiiiiiild! Listen!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍

Wow. The Lord played this video for me all on His own!! I NEEDED THIS. That first question is my life and I’ve been asking all yesterday Lord what am I supposed to do cus I don’t want to wait around for him. Thank you so much♥️♥️♥️

Discovering who you are is the key before stepping in a relationship and while you are in the relationship don't just consider the potentiality of your counterpart but just look into the reality because the person can be skillful, person of prayer,... but if their character is bad, I mean their reality is bad, don't think you will change them or they will change because this is just reserved to God. The very important key is to think twice. What about if I marry them and in the next months and years they are still the same, Am I going to be happy?, Am I going to support? ..... *I just spiritually saw the word of knowledge and the word of wisdom in this couple which are the Holy Spirit*

Word! I did that and lived to regret it. The marriage was over after 8 years but thank God i got my beautiful daughter and son. I mentally divorced after 8 yrs, took off my wedding ring, never put it back on. Yet i stuck it out for another 9 yrs because finanacially i coulf not cope alone with 2 small kids. I finally left on Dec 22, 2013. Since then i've been free and happy loving ME and my beautiful Kids. Thank you God! Its been long, but i never looked back. God sent Angels to minister to me, he provided for me n my children, he continues to love and care for us and pour out supernatural blessings in our lives. He did it for me. He will do it for you too. Continue to pray on ur knees, God is listening. Be blessed.

This right here!!!! Know your worth sis. You married his potential and not reality. 🔥🔥🔥

"Create an environment for God to SHAPE him" PT....Amen Pastor, received!!

Pastor Toure was spot on with that lady. By the way such deep lessons for me

OH God yesssss! So grateful for your transparency PT and Sarah! It’s the him seeing more in me than I saw in myself for me! 🙌🏼 I feel led to share…. We were old lovers, went through the hardest of times but ended up friends, he told me 3 years ago after going into a-coma that God showed him I was his wife. I ran…. but finally after these last two years binge watching church, constant rainbows in the sky and him telling me I’m the light starting them made me realize he is the one. How can he see me as God does, he motivates me and loves me when I can’t love myself 😩😭 and this long-suffering… Chile, I am constantly doubting myself and my adequacy! But what he sees in me makes me dig deep inside myself to want to be the best I can possibly be

@GorgeousHeather

2 жыл бұрын

@Kaylin Carey I am in agreement with you!!!!! You will have a love like it one day, soon! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼

This was right on time.

"You can't desire change and same, at the same time"🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

Wisdom Speaks! Don’t Marry For Potential! Marry For Reality!!! My Words! Because You May Have The Potential To Never Change! And My Time Is Valuable And You’re Not Wasting MyTime!

This is a prayer I needed to pray without knowing I needed it. Thank you God for providing me the words to bring to you for healing ❤🙏

Yesss Lord I need my heart back! My God. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️

I'm sitting here crying, experiencing yet another heart break but at the same time acknowledging to myself and more importantly to God that I have been piercing myself with many sorrows. A person who love themselves won't harm themselves or stand in harm's way ..so my journey is one of loving myself and seeing love through the eyes of God. My internal question was how do I start? The answer was clear... Start with God. Start with the One who loves me completely and unfailing...so Lord please give me back my heart and throw my desires away. Lord renew my strength to let go, and to only see Your love remain even in the aftermath. Amen

@nondumisomadlala1692

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

"God give me my heart back"

You can't desire change and same at the same time. That's a word!!!

I prayed this prayer and it is powerful. I have been released and I praised God❤

God knows my heart! Pastor Sarah and Touré thank you for this beautiful beautiful message! I am at a point in my life where I have partially released my ex and believe this message is for me! This is so powerful and I’ve seen this 4 MONTHS LATER since posted and I believe God has truly led me to this message. I was just speaking about this topic to my best friend and this is no coincidence. Thank you Lord!!!

Lord, I need my heart back 🙌

Pastor Sarah, chile, that was wisdom there. Glad Pastor T can see what gifts you carry and for saying he had to know who he was to see who and what he was looking for.

God can you please give me my heart back because I know he’s not ready to receive it. Wow this was hard to hear, but this was a word for me. This will be my prayer tonight. Thank you both so much for making your ministry available nationwide 🙌🏾🙏🏽

So true about marrying a person's potential instead of their reality.

So much wisdom in here...

Wow you are truly speaking to me here, I should let him go without an expectation of him returning cause he might not even be mind. I give my heart back to God cause He knows what I need & I believe in His time I'll get my future husband 🙏

Whoop whoop I needed that🙌🏾🙌🏾

Omg omg I can't even comment really, all of it is powerful. And some of it I wish I had known earlier in my life. "Pray to get my heart back, pray to release him back to God. " All I'm saying is powerful. Thank you

I believe this message is on time. Amen!

@garyskymiller8340

10 ай бұрын

Holla

I would love to be apart of this movement with women evolve!! 🙌🏾 I feel that where God has me in this season evolving me to a new realm in him. I feel God is shifting me and I’m so grateful because within this shifts, I’m seeing myself through the eyes of God. Working on me while he’s working in me, and I’m finding out so much about my Savior and what my purpose is on this earth!! I thankful unto God for both you Bishop and your lovely wife Pastor Sarah. What you both are bringing to the people of God that the whole world see’s is the manifestation of a powerful marriage. And what marriage represents build on the foundation of Christ!🙌🏾 While being faithful and obedient to the gospel and bringing others to Christ that too may be apart takers in this ministry as our God be glorified through their lives!! Amen hallelujah to God be the glory and honor!!🙌🏾

@tinalarmond1531

2 жыл бұрын

Wait till God process and call you in your true purpose.. sarah Jake's Robert's second and her second husband can't let you be in heaven. 👀☝️🤷‍♀️

Amen!! I had to stop with the partial release!! Perfect 👍🏽 timing for me to hear this. Praise God. 🙏🏽♥️

"My prayer for you, is that you Connect with someone who sees you, as God sees you" - #SJR. YEEEEEES Amen🙏🏾.

That last sentence from Sarah looking at PT with those eyes😍😍😍😍😁😁😁Love the whole clip👌🏾

Funny how I downloaded this video and never watched it. But something pushed me to finally watch it. And it hit me.., this is my NOW word! Two weeks ago I wouldn't have understand this msg coz I was not ready to go fetch my heart.

For some people, it takes a lifetime to find themselves and we all inevitably change as we grow. Marriage is commitment to a person as they are now and as they will be. No wonder Paul said that it will give you many problems 😅.

I remember praying when I was 12 years old. Part of my prayer was God I don't want to love no one more than I love you I had an experience it was a bad experience at 3 years old and it in the thought came back when I was 12 years old. And that episode took me to that prayer

Deep truth! Wow! Brokenness; find yourself before you marry Prayer to Release your heart Change vs Same Marry Reality vs Potential

I love this! I wish it was longer ❤️

So good! I love how God works through them 💗

10 minutes if absolute wisdom 💯

This message was meant for me, it came out just at the right time.. 🙏 Thank you

This video is so good and helpful. I never looked as it to release the man who you think is the one. This is powerful to hear this. Thank you!😊

You guys are so wise!

Blessed to hear this. Release him and if he is the one, he would return. Marry the reality .

THIS RIGHT HERE!!!!!! Deserves a REPLAY 🔥 I’m listening to it again POWERFUL 🙌🏾🙌🏾

Beautiful!!! God Bless this conference and my God continue to bless and advance it!!!♥️♥️♥️

I could see their love has grown deeper for one another , so godly so beautiful

Thank you so much for your and your husband's wisdom on this subject. Pastor Cora's comment was extremely important to me.

So many words of wisdom dropped and I’m here for it! 🙌🏿🙌🏿

Omg!!!! Y’all are such a VIBE!!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️

The Woman of God ministered! I needed my heart back!

I love how Ps Sarah calls him "chile"

I need a full episode of this 🙌🙌🙌🙌 you’re really blessing.

I absolutely admire and respect the both of you! This is amazing wishing your ministry greater success and thank you for Imparting Wisdom with in us. Bless you Pastor Toure and Pastor Sarah 🔥🔥

Pheeeeewwww!!! 😅😅 I swear, this video can carry me on for a year!! The gems in this short video is mind-blowing 🤩

So much wisdom, to God be the glory

Wooow 🥺 I can relate to this! Thank you so much Pastor Sarah

They are sooooo right! Seek ye first the Kingdom… Your spouse is Gods child first.