How to Declutter without Feeling Guilty | Cleaning Motivation

As Tyler cleans up another section in his bedroom, I’m going to talk about how to declutter without feeling guilty. I noticed that Tyler would be bad letting something good and I’ve always felt guilt when decluttering. So I wanted to have an open conversation on how we can declutter without covering these top 5 reasons we hold onto it!
1). Paid a lot of Money for it
2). Someone gave it to us.
3). We don’t want to be wasteful
4). It represents potential ideas
5). Letting go of Past Loved Ones items

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  • @sharonhenry2820
    @sharonhenry28204 ай бұрын

    I heard someone (I don't remember who) say that keeping an item doesn't prevent it from going in a landfill but just delays it. They recommended that all of us try to be more conscious of what we buy in the first place.☺️ And your son did a fantastic job on all of his decluttering decisions! 🤩

  • @pizzapartytime1826

    @pizzapartytime1826

    4 ай бұрын

    It’s going to end up there anyways. If you buy it or don’t…

  • @sharonhenry2820

    @sharonhenry2820

    4 ай бұрын

    Hahaha. 😂 You're right, I never thought of it that way. I try not to buy new as often as possible. We love repurposing stuff. Have a great weekend!

  • @o0Theresa0o

    @o0Theresa0o

    3 ай бұрын

    @@pizzapartytime1826 But if you don't buy it, they'll stop producing them.

  • @kassandrab665
    @kassandrab6654 ай бұрын

    My 5 year old apparently listens when I listen to your videos and clean and declutter. And I just heard her in her room saying “tossy tossy! Tossy tossy! Let’s make some space so we can have more room and feel better!” It was so cute!! Also she loves pepper

  • @danabrown2391
    @danabrown23914 ай бұрын

    Wow, Tyler was able to get rid of a lot of things that he no longer used or liked!

  • @Blondie14
    @Blondie144 ай бұрын

    Tyler is doing well with cleaning and decluttering his room Love that the books are going to be donated for other kids to enjoy

  • @summerbaby4600
    @summerbaby46004 ай бұрын

    Hi from Japan 🇯🇵 2:20 creator of the Dragon Ball, Akira Toriyama just passed away recently. Way to honor him, by keeping the book and the shelf clean!

  • @lisaschreiber2893
    @lisaschreiber28934 ай бұрын

    the amazing gift you are giving your children today is simply incredible ❤

  • @tosiaka
    @tosiaka3 ай бұрын

    just a tiny suggestion- once you're done with decluttering please move a furniture off the walls so that space can be checked as well :)

  • @carmiejones8289
    @carmiejones82894 ай бұрын

    The decluttering videos' world needs more goofy fun boys' videos to lighten up decluttering! 😂

  • @KlingonPrincess
    @KlingonPrincess4 ай бұрын

    Another great effort from Tyler! Looks great! He has a good eye for arranging items in a pleasing way. 🌻🍄

  • @jeannebowes2898

    @jeannebowes2898

    4 ай бұрын

    artful child like his Mom!

  • @maumau1958
    @maumau19584 ай бұрын

    You're a Blessing to us yourself ❤. I just wanted to let you know that helping your children learn how to declutter is another important and Wonderful Blessing for them ❤️

  • @Natalie.D
    @Natalie.D4 ай бұрын

    You could put the gaming stuff on top of the cabinet if he clears a bit of room up there when you both go through that stuff. That way you don’t need to add more furniture (and clutter) to the room. Less is more! Great work, Tyler! 🎉

  • @rmf4
    @rmf44 ай бұрын

    What great life skills that Tyler is learning from his mum. May I suggest that the electronic stuff be placed on a trolley so that it can be easily moved to use and to easily pull out to clean the area behind it. Ikea has a great range of trolleys.

  • @alanbirkner1958
    @alanbirkner19584 ай бұрын

    Good for him. I toss, recycle, or give away at least 20 items each day. A bag of blankets and towels are going to the animal shelter. A box of glassware and dishes are headed to Goodwill. Kids grow and change. Needs change. Hobbies and interests change. Don't buy so much. Tina, Al's wife

  • @ritavasnanigurbani6063
    @ritavasnanigurbani60634 ай бұрын

    Loving Tyler's series!! He's doing a great job🎉🎉

  • @rosedelory3548
    @rosedelory35484 ай бұрын

    Wow! What a great job he did! And even dusted. God bless him!

  • @tabbycat4606
    @tabbycat46064 ай бұрын

    The teachers will really appreciate the books❤

  • @tngirlz4622
    @tngirlz46224 ай бұрын

    Excellent work, Tyler! 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @lauradavison4044
    @lauradavison40444 ай бұрын

    Very well done Tyler not only did you sort your stuff but you have an eye for displaying your keep stuff beautifully!

  • @lindamusser7370
    @lindamusser73704 ай бұрын

    Wow! Go Tyler! I wish I'd learned this when I was a kid!

  • @porcelina956
    @porcelina9563 ай бұрын

    Good job Tyler. I recognize all these books after years of working in the library.

  • @reneemenary7641
    @reneemenary76413 ай бұрын

    Good job Tyler! Melanie - I am a mom, grandma, and former teacher. I'm really impressed with items Tyler has. He reads similar books to my grandson :). You are such a good Mom - I see that in how you talk with him, provide for him, help him, and spend time with him. I really enjoy your videos. Thank you. Have a terrific day. :)

  • @bethstratton3391
    @bethstratton33914 ай бұрын

    Great Job Tyler. Proud of you that you are still doing a wonderful job keeping your personal spaces clean, tidied and decluttered. Mrs Heart, loved the way you addressed the issues as to why decluttering is so hard for some people and in some situations. Nice that you provided possible changes in outlook and solutions to these challenges in your explanations.

  • @halinakajfoszova4354
    @halinakajfoszova43544 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad he is comfortable enough to be able to show his face on camera 😊 well done Tyler!

  • @heatherroberson8981
    @heatherroberson89814 ай бұрын

    I love Tyler’s curls!

  • @MSHoneybee210

    @MSHoneybee210

    4 ай бұрын

    Right!!

  • @catharinab8860
    @catharinab88604 ай бұрын

    Amazing job, Tyler!

  • @eyrunsigrunardottir6977
    @eyrunsigrunardottir69773 ай бұрын

    Well done! The room looks better and better 🤩

  • @carrie3206
    @carrie32064 ай бұрын

    Wow! Tyler, you have done an outstanding job! Way to go

  • @crystalsdance
    @crystalsdance3 ай бұрын

    Wow, Tyler! What a blessing you are to all who will be recieving such wonderful things you no longer need! I am clearing out, and it is so difficult! You reallly inspired me in this segment! Thank you and way to go!

  • @karlaziler3949
    @karlaziler39494 ай бұрын

    Well done Tyler!!!

  • @AtHomeWithAllie
    @AtHomeWithAllie3 ай бұрын

    Hey, my lovely friend! I loved all the great tips! How funny I am in the process of decluttering that same cubby furniture & transferring it from my room & into my sons room lol. I hope they dont clutter it up because they're becoming a hoarder like me lol. ❤❤❤Tfs! Hugs & Many Blessings ❤️🏡🌟❤️

  • @ah5721
    @ah57213 ай бұрын

    your words are a balm right now. Im struggling against the piles the build up when Im mentally struggling . thank you !

  • @jaminxc143
    @jaminxc1434 ай бұрын

    He's doing an amazing job!! ❤

  • @thebeachyfarmhouse6410
    @thebeachyfarmhouse64104 ай бұрын

    Wow another big decluttering session compleated. Great job!

  • @charishurt1768
    @charishurt17684 ай бұрын

    Extremely fantastic job Tyler 🎉❤

  • @joanlauridsen2288
    @joanlauridsen22884 ай бұрын

    Great job Tyler! ❤❤❤💪💪💪

  • @rebeckamattisson5083
    @rebeckamattisson50834 ай бұрын

    Awesome work Tyler! 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @janehickenbottom9200
    @janehickenbottom92004 ай бұрын

    Awesome job Tyler!!!

  • @michellerobillard4067
    @michellerobillard40674 ай бұрын

    Tyler is doing good looking better keep it up Tyler . I am one of your watchers that lost her mom in March 2000 and my grandma in June 2006 but my dad and my 2 half brothers are still alive and well that I know of and my daughter is 21 and I have my man so I do have some people still with me but enough about sad stuff I'm glad your feeling better and it's nice to see you doing videos again and I'll see you in your next one

  • @nolasavedmysoul
    @nolasavedmysoul4 ай бұрын

    Wow, he did so well!!! 😊

  • @minimalzebra
    @minimalzebra4 ай бұрын

    I am proud of tyler.He is doing such a great job! 🎉

  • @almariekuit56
    @almariekuit563 ай бұрын

    The basement for me. I can't wait to see you eventually have a usable space. I'd love to have a basement. 😊

  • @AtHomeWithAllie
    @AtHomeWithAllie3 ай бұрын

    I can relate to all you say & my hubby is forever mad when I give things away because they cost money lol🏡❤️🌟❤️❤️

  • @SalsaNube
    @SalsaNube4 ай бұрын

    Amazing job! You go Tyler! That was and incredible lot of work to do all at once, and he did it extremely great! You both rock, Mrs Heart!❤🦄💕

  • @tgayer1
    @tgayer14 ай бұрын

    Amazing job! 💪💕😃. Feels great in your new space, I’m sure!

  • @carolinaazevedo2088
    @carolinaazevedo20884 ай бұрын

    Tyler is so sweet! Helping you with your videos while you rest!

  • @marilinosaothiago
    @marilinosaothiago3 ай бұрын

    I struggle a lot with this, but this made me feel a little hopeful about it. Tyler did a great job! He got rid of a lot of stuff, and that's hard. Happy and proud for the both of you! Parting with things is still a real, heavy struggle for me. But I would like to be able to do it. I would like to learn how to do it, and I think it's important to learn it soon rather than later. The way you framed it here was really helpful, so thanks for the video! I'll definitely come back to it later.

  • @francinehogsett3065
    @francinehogsett30653 ай бұрын

    Great job Tyler….you did a wonderful job….so proud of you 😊❤️

  • @josephdaly2015
    @josephdaly20153 ай бұрын

    Well done Tyler, take a bow 🙇‍♂️ for another fantastic declutter and organise. You have a wonderful teacher, your mam. Have a great week. Glad you are doing well Miss Heart ❤️ Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♂️🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏💐🐈

  • @RitaVernoy
    @RitaVernoy4 ай бұрын

    Once again, Tyler amazed me!😊

  • @nadinewilliamson1037
    @nadinewilliamson10374 ай бұрын

    Great job Tyler❤

  • @ros8986
    @ros89864 ай бұрын

    Tyler did a great job!

  • @prettyinpink2102
    @prettyinpink21023 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. It inspired me to do some decluttering today . And I’m understanding things better

  • @lisabullock5864
    @lisabullock58644 ай бұрын

    Woah! Good going bud!

  • @katrinamuritala3207
    @katrinamuritala32074 ай бұрын

    Great tidying Tyler xx

  • @tanyaperez7499
    @tanyaperez74994 ай бұрын

    He's doing great I love these videos

  • @wandatrebolo9344
    @wandatrebolo93444 ай бұрын

    Wonderful work, Tyler! It looks amazing! 😮🎉❤

  • @shaumagauna6572
    @shaumagauna65724 ай бұрын

    Great job Tyler

  • @melanietrester
    @melanietrester3 ай бұрын

    Hello from Germany, hi Miss Heart, miouw pepper 😻 and hi Tyler. You are a declutter Guru..... And your sons too🎉🎉

  • @tessadunkle1831
    @tessadunkle18314 ай бұрын

    Good job Tyler! Looking great so far!

  • @vickigifford8683
    @vickigifford86834 ай бұрын

    Good job Tyler 😊

  • @ktavolassi
    @ktavolassi4 ай бұрын

    He did a great job! Would be nice if he put one whole shelve only with books and one with boxes and one with toys. Would be easy even for him visually to find stuff.

  • @robynnjasper3843
    @robynnjasper38433 ай бұрын

    Homeless shelters and domestic violence shelters are usually happy to receive children’s books too. Contact them in advance though as they sometimes have limited storage capacity. I’ve taken children’s books to food pantries as well. Please call in advance too.

  • @shirleyadkins4254
    @shirleyadkins42544 ай бұрын

    Great job tyler

  • @nancycosgrove4005
    @nancycosgrove40053 ай бұрын

    Tyler did awesome!!!!!

  • @conniesmith3922
    @conniesmith39224 ай бұрын

    Good job Tyler ,

  • @sunflower7766
    @sunflower77664 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the motivation Tyler 😊

  • @Saforra99
    @Saforra992 ай бұрын

    so inspiring, Tyler! Way to go! :)

  • @aliblue3605
    @aliblue36054 ай бұрын

    Awesome job Tyler!

  • @katchathuff3287
    @katchathuff32874 ай бұрын

    Tyler did an awesome job!

  • @JaniceIsLearning
    @JaniceIsLearning4 ай бұрын

    Way to go, Tyler!!! woohoo 🎉

  • @blessed3337
    @blessed33374 ай бұрын

    Good job young man you did it again 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @micheledeem4633
    @micheledeem46333 ай бұрын

    🎉awesome job

  • @ktavolassi
    @ktavolassi4 ай бұрын

    The creator of Dragon Ball died this week and it was nice to see his Dragon ball collection.

  • @judenebaer9997
    @judenebaer99973 ай бұрын

    Nice job 😊

  • @sassyslsgrl
    @sassyslsgrl4 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sandradisclafani6725
    @sandradisclafani67254 ай бұрын

    ❤👍

  • @dmbdmb3828
    @dmbdmb38284 ай бұрын

    ☕️

  • @lucyrademakers4188
    @lucyrademakers41884 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤😊

  • @micheledeem4633
    @micheledeem46333 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @lalahdz9553
    @lalahdz95533 ай бұрын

    Like your showing he doesnt have to do a mass marie kindo clean out. It can be certain spaces at a time.

  • @ros8986
    @ros89864 ай бұрын

    Crafts - get other people to do it for you :)

  • @charishurt1768
    @charishurt17684 ай бұрын

    Lots of toosy and donated stuff congratulations Tyler 🎉❤

  • @pandabear4014
    @pandabear40143 ай бұрын

    Anyone else having problems with the sound going in and out?

  • @cassiehilgerson7794
    @cassiehilgerson77944 ай бұрын

    Tyler seems like a Butterfly. Are those crowded, fabric bins helping him to enjoy his toys properly? Maybe he needs a different system!

  • @shirleygermain5707
    @shirleygermain57074 ай бұрын

    I can not believe what parents spend their money on. What a waste of a kid's mind. They learn better with way less. Put that money you would spend on junk toys in a savings account.